Anything Goes

June 3, 2011 by Brown Shuga

This is ANYTHING GOES and we keep the rules the same as we do every other time.

What news stories caught your attention in the news this week?

ao flower askisi hle…sumthing will come u
Nthoentle…aaaaaaaao my dear good luck ye ka ngwana le di studies:)
Good morning hle…
nna the article ya daily sun mabane “a man is in love with u mama and daughter and they all live happly ever after endlini” WTF lol
*tjo sbu mpisane le di hwks ayeye

lazyswag on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:32 am

I’d just like to say we need to give Soft&Free an award for “JC reader of the week” lmao that girl’s comments had me laughing for days

Also death by DJ Cleo on twitter saying that he’s hot and all the gays in Cape-Town wants him nc nc nc

ThatoM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:37 am

Morning my hunnies and happy friday . @kevcare *waves* hihihi enjoy ur weekend. @Jahara ur sooooooo pregnant lol. @flower askies babe God will give u something better everything will be oryt. Guys I’m doing braids,started yesterday and still not done sigh talk about a gandaganda head I HAVE NEVER adawise looking forward to a crazy weekend *whistles*

MizzT on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:38 am

What was happening ku TopShayela this weekend? Loyiso Bala? Really? Aowa! What was so top about him, couldnt watch shame

What really made me LOL is that a colleague got lekker-getrapped over the weekend by friends and colleagues at someone’ fairwell party. Dude is very lastig, and I guess alcohol+ testesterone+ amatombazana took play. Ba re he lost 3 front teeth, nkosi yam, I would die! Meno gone? Yhooo! o thola neng di-false? kwaaaa…Its not a joke when they say “drink responsibly”….

Flower on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:54 am

Tnx guys…

Kusihlwa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:55 am

I agree with Lazyswag,Aunty Softy does deserve an award for her insightful advice. Thanks to her I am a certified cheerleader as Nkey would put it, I was an hour late to work this morning but I just dont give a damn.*Gringing from ear to ear*. What caught my eye in the news this week was the story of three kids whow were found dead in a freezer in Dundee,that broke my heart.

Nkey.. on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:08 am

Hi all *waves* We are privilaged in my company.We have a yeared function like every company and we have mid year too.So today is dze dzay.Everyone is here from other branches in Africa.Daaaaaaaam!!!! A moment of silence for the brothers from Jamaica.They are yummmiest beings ever and classy too.

Off I go guys have a gr8t weekend. *wink*

amyoli on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:09 am

Mama Sisulu passing away, may her soul rest in peace

lwandie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:11 am

Aww @ flower hang in there,life can be hectic and it will probably get worse before it finally gets better,….try to break it all down to levels that you can deal with so that its not too overwhelming for you and if there is other family that can help out while you sort out your situation then try talking to them.

J.C baby shower for Ms Nonthle!!,wow you’ve done well to cope with school and pregnancy.

@ jaharah it can’t be an eating disorder because you are not inducing that vomiting yourself. Best just get yourself to your GP before us Google doctors kill you with a wrong diagnosis lol.

I’m undoing braids this morning not fun at all.My project this year is growing my natural hair lol going all organic and environmentally friendly …..

Botshelo on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:12 am

I am really hating First for Women right now, can someone tell me which other insurance is cool and will not rip me off?

Botshelo on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:13 am

So i wanna hear from u guys before i drag myself to a Dr.
Am i having an eating disoder? Like bulimia or anorexia or any other?…..no you are prego

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:14 am

Ok so I went to an interview last week. And there I was answering diligently and all-with a few laughs inbetween. Hahahahaaa’s. Me and the guy finish and he asks me to wait for him at the reception area. I wait and when he comes he walks me to the parking lot, once there he tells me that he intends to recommend me for the post, will put good word out for me when discussing with his seniors and then asks me for my numbers.

Ha! :surprised: Now I really didn’t know what to do, was confused so I give him my numbers. *don’t judge* He sends a msg later on that day saying that he’s been thinking about me since we “spoke”; thinks I’m intelligent and beautiful and would like to get to know me on a personal level.
I’ve been avoiding his calls and really don’t know what to do. My first instinct is to just tell him off because I really am not even in the slightest bit interested in him. My other side tells me to play along long enough till I get that call that says the job is mine, because my current situation ayijabulisi nix.

Everyone wants a better pay at a big corporate that looks good on your CV but I really dnt feel that its fair I am being put in a position where I have to compromise my values. I went in there with only my credentials to speak for me and end up feeling like a jezabel. Hay these men are so unfair.

Mapakisha on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:14 am

Kim K’s engagement caught my attention this week. I hope they live happily ever after.
Jub Jub & KK going @ each other too.. just childish.
Mrs A Sisulu’s passing on..
Plus the new Mandla Lamba (forgot his name), the guy who threw a 26th on a yatch & spent close to a milli. Lets hope his skeletons don’t have lefu la ho wa, just now they fall outta the closet.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:15 am

@Nthoentle you are my shero, studying and getting ready for baby at the same time that is amazing. *hands you a wonder women award* @Jahara, it could be ulcers,it happend to me before I was diagnosed by a DR that is if its not pregnancy. @Flower, wow I am sorry gal but the Lord does not give us more than we can handle, try this site wwww.jobrapido.co.za or http://www.bizcommunity.com and register your CV on http://www.quest.co.za they specialise in finance jobs and they call you as soon as you register your qualifications to set up interviews for you.

sefula on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:18 am

@ baby_doll. What is the age difference?

@Nthoentle all the best gal, u really inspire me ka nnete.

@flower sorry neh. Something will come up soon, just believe. Where are you based?

Jahara on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:20 am

@ThatoM mxim…lol,o tlhogo e kgolo…tltltltltltl

I also agree with u guys saying @Softy deserves an award for commenter of the week. Tjo,i was so gobsmacked i couldnt even bring my fingers to do the typing,hence i refrained from commenting.

Ladies & gentlemen,it’s my pleasure to present the BLOGGER OF THE WEEK award…

This award honours the person who has the ability to keep bloggers coming for more,the person who embraces the concept of sharing knowledge
…& that person is none other than our very own fierce,fearless,funky,fabulous &sexy @Softnfree.

facebook on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:21 am

Lol MizzT seem u all along wanted this guy to moered lol

I never had a bad week at work like this one we are ending today. I thot I’ll get fired fo my costly mistakes and miscalculation.

Another thing is my gf nearly got raped in Polokwane on wednsday. But ke its da gud thing to have a woman who can fight fo herself even thou it was pretty dangerous. Damn I wish I can lay my hands on that psychopath. Can’t wait fo her to come to da come back to Cpt as her contract ends this month.

Wish u all have a good friday mense

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:23 am

@Ntho, you are a soldier yamampela!
@Flower, be strong, love. Hope that all will work out.
Halala @Kusihlwa. Tap that!

Botshelo on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:24 am

What caught my attention is how SnF is knowlesgeable in izinto zo cansi, and I want to believe that it is not on paper or our screens only but has expirience to back it all up

samlicious on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:30 am

Good morning you all.

Guys lets have a moment of silence for the Great mama Albertina Sisulu. May your soul rest in peace mama, you will be greatly missed by South Africa and the world beyond.

Mabhebeza on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:32 am

@Flower, sorry girl but am sure God will provide you with a job very soon.

RIP Mam’Albertina Sisulu.

I was so pissed off on Wednesday. A friend of mine was supposed to go to the “I want to sing gospel” auditions which were to be on 04 May (as adevertised) here in PE…but unbeknown, the auditions where held the previous day (03 May). Why the misinformation?? I was mad because my friend has loads of talent and she would have blown Lindelani away with that voice of hers – NXA!!

Ohhh I’m loving Muvhango lately! I’m so impressed with the improvement. That KK/Meme storyline, the love-triangle (or is it square or circle?) ya Azwindini-Susan-Pfuluwani-Sundani – TJO! Hay’ Generations could learn a thing or two from Muvhango shame.

Happy Friday y’all!!!

Mabhebeza on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:39 am

@Lehakoe, if I were you I would flirt around with this dude, make it seem as if I want him. As soon as I get the desired job, and that contract is signed, I’ll drop him like a hot potato and tell him to buzz off.

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:46 am

#humbled face#

Thank you guys..

popeye on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:46 am

What caught my attention was the story of three kids who frozze to death.

Vesa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:47 am

Tjo Lehakoe, that’s a dilemma indeed! But what if brothers doesn’t even have influence over the decision…..on the other hand, he could have influence of the decision to hire. It’s really not fair on you….

Zida on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:47 am

BS, I jumped up and down upon learning my baby, Mtungwa, is in the country. And then when he was Marawa’s guest on his show all I could do was stare at the screen while studying every part of his face. And that young English (as in England) accent of his made my uterus excited to the core. Oh my, I’m getting moist below just thinking about it.

Also, on Bob’s show, I saw Prince Boateng do one of the best MJ impressions I’ve ever seen. Boy has gone serious moves on him. I was utterly impressed.

Other story, a sad one needless to say, I heard whispers that Shift’s Bongani is on his death bed. Poor guy. Rap it up kids. #justsaying

Zida on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:47 am

*wrap* I mean.

Mabhebeza on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:48 am

I was so pissed off on Wednesday. A friend of mine was supposed to go to the “I want to sing gospel” auditions which were to be on 01 June(as adevertised) here in PE…but unbeknown, the auditions where held the previous day (31 May). Why the misinformation?? I was mad because my friend has loads of talent and she would have blown Lindelani away with that voice of hers – NXA!!
>>>> wrong dates on my previous post (#blondemoment)

popeye on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:51 am

‘WOW’ Softy loving your gravator, It looks so magical

Vesa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:53 am

@mabhebeza, what if brothers will be a direct reporting line and will make her working life miserable after being dropped off like a hot potato?

Nobody is going to believe her story when she starts crying foul…people will even go as far as saying you got the job cause you sika’d likheke.

Mabhebeza on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:55 am

Oh shame man, poor Bongani. I could see he was not well at all…hope he gets better soon.

Siyamthanda on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:55 am

@Mapakisha its Jabulani Ngcobo or something like that (The young millionaire) and people who know him bathi he teaches people how to trade on the stock exchange and his courses go up to R5k per course and you also have to buy some software from him which also costs around that region R5k so no wonder hes rolling in it, mara bare leyena tax man emo salla morago! Kante when will these people ever learn if you flaunt your money like that you draw attention to yourself worse if o sa patale ledi tax tsa gago bloody idiots just like the Mpisane’s SARS WAG VIR JOU PAPA.

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:55 am

Eish Lehakoe

I wish women could talk more and more about this dilemma more so the ones who have been through this experience, that way it would give us tricks/tips and hits of how to deal with corporate predators who take advantage of opportunity seekers vulnerability.

samlicious on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:56 am

Iyho @Mabhebeza talk about Muvhango girl, its hot like itapile kwimbiza kapens. Jonbga I think Duma kaNdlovu hired new rwriters. Shame finally as I was giving up on welfare TV, uMuvhango took another turn. I bow to you Mr Ndlovu well done butiza.

@ Flower babes uThixo usivile isikhalo sakho, he is going to provide for you and your siblings. Have faith in him and his wonderful works and he will give everything you think you lost, and even more. Talking from experience, last year I was being retrenched and few weeks pregnant. My world was crumbling right infront of my eyes. But God provided and I got a job just before I could finish off my notice period on my other company. Moral of the story is, beka ithemba lakho kuye. This is not your struggle but his and he is going to provide.

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:00 am

eish ,,,midumelang….mina im leaving for Kzn after work,,a freinds boifreind is dead*intersexions* and he didnt tell u sisi,,,she found ARVS ..2 weeks later boom dead..manje i have to that supportive friend and drive her to kwazulu natala…
and my friend needs answers
BUT SHE IS negative so thats a relief….
@flower kuzulunga ,He doesnt give you a yoke that u cannot bear..qina son!!!
happy friday

Lady gaga on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:00 am

@Flower so sorry u going through this. Stay strong. something will definitely come up!!!!

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:02 am

Ta @ popoye, I’m sure that’s how Nthoentle looks by now.
#warm hug to Nthoentle#

@Siya the trick of darkie getting super rich instantly will forever raise brows accompanied with envy

How I wish these newly wealthy folk (irrespective of how they acquired they moola) would follow suit in the living and enjoying your money through the likes of motsepes and the Ramaphosa’s

But hey to each of its own!

Mabhebeza on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:04 am

@Vesa, hay’ ku-tough!
@Lehakoe, follow your instincts (gut-feeling) girl. If you feel that flirting and/or sleeping with the guy would compromise your values, then don’t do it. If the guy is sincere enough and interested in you for reall, you will get the job due to your merits (and not because how great you are in bed). But, if yu wanna give “it” to him, then do so girl – many people have slept themselves to the top anyway – it’s a practice that has been in existence long before you were born.

Good luck…

samlicious on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:05 am

@ Manny iyho! scary staff babes. Am glad your friend is negative.

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:09 am

@zida..yoh u Bongz was shrinking hey …kunzima la emhlabeni..
gister izolo maobane I saw his co host Aaron-ntoni-ntoni at some spoto here in the CBD where I drink after work ..uyaphuza whlist u bra wakhe ashona….

samlicious on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:12 am

@ Flower, girl never something that is going demoralise you. Sleeping your way to the top is never an option, but an easy way out. In life nothing was meant to be easy. What kind of an example will you be to your siblings. Sana you are going to get a job and your life be back on track. In the name of the high and Mighty it will happen.

baby_doll on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:12 am

@sefula the age difference is 20 years.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:13 am

@ Flower…read Romans 8 verse 28

@ Zida I saw that episode nami I was perving. and shame Prince has killer moves.

What caught my eye this week was Dr Irvin Khoza giving the R17m to the Pirates players to share. big up yourself Dr Khoza

Toni on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:16 am

@lwandie, what organic and environmentally friendly hair products do u use? I’m also into DIY haircare, n always looking out for new stuff to try out.

gossipgirl on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:18 am

Hi Yall and hope u will be having a fab wknd and keeping warm. well this week ended sadly Mam Albertina’s sad passing May soul Rest in peace.

1.huuu and Nonhle’s interview on Mzansi Magic ruri that girl must grow up shem.
2. Mbongeni Ngema’s 4th marriage Modimo ga a lape ke basadi le di divorce tjo!!
3.The Mpisane’s in KZN ya neh…
Well looking forward to ZARfest hope it will rock

hv a blessed wknd mense

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:19 am

Mabhebheza i thought of that but its just so contrary to my personality, I just find him repulsive nje.
@Vesa, imagine nje seeing him everyday and him making life unbearable for me. If I entertain him, how much longer will I have to keep it up just so I’m always on his good books.
@Softy, I get even more pissed thinking about the personal questions he asked which were disguised as questions on my ‘interpersonal skills’. The lights should have gone on when he asked if I was in a relationship. To which I answered ‘No’. kanti inja has ulterior motives.

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:20 am

@lady gaga ubuyaphi sis omuhle?

Vesa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:23 am

What also caught my attention is 16 year old Nyasha Matonhodze, whose parents are from Zimbabwe, who has been chosen as the new face Louis Vuitton !!!

Vesa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:26 am

The lights should have gone on when he asked if I was in a relationship. To which I answered ‘No’. kanti inja has ulterior motives.
@ Lehakoe, Haaibo…..he asked you this in an interview? So he was the only person interviewing you?

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:27 am

And Lehakoe I personally think that guy is a predator who uses his position or presence in the company to lure women into sleeping with him.

I think he has an inferior complex and has done this before countless times leading him to be swift,phony and smooth which might come across as sincere to those who are desperate enough not to see through his slimy skin

If indeed he thought u were this intelligent and deserving of the job and all the foetsie foetsie nonsense he fed u , WHY couldn’t he wait until u get the job then reminisce with u about he knew u were gonna get the job and how much he believed in u.

Predators like him makes me so sick its actually saddening.

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:29 am

@Lehakoe nika u ntanga i khekhe and get the Job and them tell him the deal is off or you will get him fired for sexual harrasment….
if i was a chick i would have the best Job in town i tell you ..that thing is talent use it to your advantage

Mapakisha on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:31 am

Ya Vesa, i saw that too this morning & gal is beautiful.. i’m so impressed:)

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:33 am

the news that Mam Albertina is late. may her soul rest in peace

@Nthoentle- ya noh, o brave gal. almost ready to pop nd stil studying. nna i wud be sleeping all day everyday!!

@Flower- God will open a door gal, dont u worry

Fezzy on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:34 am

@Manny…I am so happy for ur friend…atleast akamsulelanga.

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:34 am

@lwandie and toni. I can tell you that going natural was the best decision ever. I shaved it all off Feb last year and now have 15cm ‘fro(yes, I measure it). What I notice was that most of these hair products aimed at black hair are really kak. I use Tresemme Naturals to wash my hair. I use the Say yes to Cucumbers leave-in conditioner and natural oils(coconut, olive, avocado) to moisturise.

@Toni ,i’ve eliminated products with mineral oil, parabens, silicone. And dnt use shampoo with sulphates.

popeye on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:42 am

Tjo manny, you sure not the first guy I heard saying that, not all girls have their cakes on their foreheads. Wena Lehakoe stay away from that fool cause before you even pull your panties up the whole office would know

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:48 am

Lol Manny. Best job in town…. Hahahaha
Vesa, it was just me and him, weird because it’s usually a panel…*shrugs*. Softy you are right. Looking at him you so wouldn’t think he’s that type. He’s soft spoken and seems really sincere. I’ve thought about why he even had to mention his intention to recommend me for the job. It’s almost as if o re I’m giving you this, so you owe me.

Lady gaga on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:49 am

hey manny, eish ive been sick a lot these past few weeks only to discover im preggies. ive been silent blogging though,using my phone and uyazi its a lot of work blogging when using a fone. bt im here babes. thanks for asking. its great what u doing for ur friend. u are a true friend indeed. God bless!!

Toni on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:52 am

also stopped using all those chemicals, I use HairOne for now, along with Mizani conditioner, ORS moisturizer n Olive, coconut n castor oil.

Toni on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:53 am

@Lehakoe, yup!!! That greasy shit’s a killer, it’s such a pity I only found out this year. I also stopped using all those chemicals. I use HairOne cleanser, along with Mizani conditioner, ORS moisturizer n Olive, coconut n castor oil. I’ve actually been meaning to buy the YTC leave in..

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:55 am

what also caught my eye was news that the crucial Bafana (can we still call them that??)game might not be broadcast on SABC…surprise surprise

Really SAFA should just give all the football rights to Supersport.

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:55 am

@flower, said a prayer for you.
@softnfree, what exactly is this award off your for?i must be missing something.
@Lehakoe,you’ve already said it is against your values,so don’t do it.once you cross that line it is difficult to get back.you have a job presently,so it is not like your world will cave in if you don’t get this job.
The guy has no genuine interest in you.if he did he would have detached his influence on the job from his liking you.
you might hate yourself if you sleep with him and not get the job.
you could say no to him and still get the job.
if he is like me and you were good at the interview it would be hard for him not to recommend you.

Respect to mama Sisulu.
You were and even in death still are a heroine.

@Nkey, you seem to have a thing for Carribeans.Well done.

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:56 am

@manny, atleast ur friend is negative. tjo shame, i cant imagine the shock! ya ne!! Life!
@Lehakoe: i say dont do it. sies, he is a creep! guys like him make me hate men. sies!!!

Vesa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:00 am

@Lady gaga….congratulations on your pregnancy!!!

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:00 am

death by cake on forehead. lol mara popeye its a gift we cant resist..why not use

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:01 am

deathby my comment disappearing.

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:03 am

What caught my attention:
That Anty Oprah is coming to South Africa soon, She will be visiting the University of Freestate because she is impressed by the transformation in that University. O_o….
Now…the Reits four case aside…The University of Free State?…Transformed?… Realy?….News to my ears,past my ears straight to Oprah’s ears in Chicaco.
Or is it realy transformed unbeknown to some of us?

Second thing thats been working my brain up is the confussion i have regarding these three JC characters whose comments i mostly enjoy. I confuse them so i dont have a profile for each, they are like 3 in one profile: Mamamia, Mmaditaba le Mapakisha. I dunno how im gonna solve this one…

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:13 am

Eish! how could i forget Mbongeni Ngema’s wedding?That man is a case and those marrying him are worse.
@Lady Gaga, congrats.May your 9 months course be uneventful.
Aa lot of folks here seem to be busy at nite.BS might as well create a new section called baby showers.

Lady gaga on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:16 am

@Vesa thank u sthandwa sam
@mbulela…….LOL, thanx hey.

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:17 am

thank you for your input guys. It’s clear what I need to do here. If I don’t get this one, it’s fine, I’ll still have a decent self to look at.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:19 am

Ohja, what also caught my eye was that there was no article on JCD about Pirates treble.

CarrieBradshaw on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:20 am

Natural hair brought me out of silentville,hi all.
@Lehakoe: where are you based? Where do you get your yes to cucumbers products(sorry if you’ve already answered? Also use Tresseme naturals,love it!

TA.;)

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:23 am

eish Kapana, hlala pantsi man. yerrrr. our sports anchor is being kept busy by our lady- Mmaditaba. kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa!or maybe he is running away from her. *DIES*
jokes aside, can we let this one slide. just this once??! thanks
oh ya, its nice of Irvin Khoza giving the boys 75% of the money. BIG UPS

Jahara on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:23 am

Congrats to all the mommies to be. @BS all these loyal mommies should have a monthly coloumn where they talk about the joys (& pains) of mommiehood,give each other advice & everything worth talkin about.

*dear mommies,dont think im being your spokesperson for mahala. catch22: some of you are gonna be surrogate moms to my future kids. not kiddin*

@Lehakoe tell that neurotic lunatic that interviewed u that u didnt make it this far by displayin your kuku on your forehead… kwaaaaaaaaaa… So he must JBXXS….

MiniAyeye on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:23 am

The Mpisanes itja tja tja…#when you steal be smart and make sure u are never caught … ayeye

Kiki on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:25 am

Hi bloggers….*waving to all of you with love*

Have a good weekend.

Flower on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:27 am

Tnx guys very much for your words..I’m based in midrand…first born of a single mada..I hav 5 siblings dat I luk after n now ol dis seems like unclimbable mountain for me…

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:33 am

congrats lagaga..eish .IM ABOUT TO BECOME A MALUME?mara im a malume that doesnt luma aba chana neh lol
siya kubongela babes nami i need to get some1 preggies ..my is old she cant die withouth seeing her only son baby ..eish

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:33 am

dont worry Flower, when God does you good, u gon feel like u are dreaming. keep your eyes on Him, and trust Him!

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:36 am

hi Carrie. I’m in jhb, i bought my YesToCarrots at Clicks Eastgate. Just look at any Clicks branch where they have a majority of ‘white hair’ products. I usually mix it with some pure aloe gel because it is rather thin.

kimmo on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:39 am

@jahara i agree with you! am pregnant too, have flu and i dont know what to take for it and it frustrates me! if we had that coloumn, maybe i wouldnt be!!

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:40 am

“duplicate comment detected. It seems like you have already said that.” lol BS, getting sofisticated aren’t we?

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:40 am

Congratsi to the mommies to be ….Ke ya kgala go ba mommy lenna, but it will be yeeeeaaaars.

@Flower…just hang in there sisi, When speak of “unclimbable mountains”, tht hit me hard at a farmiliar, for different reasons, but hang in there sisi and do all that needs to be done.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:45 am

@ LAdyM if we let is slide when then are we going to acknowledge and celebrate it??

It’s not like Pirates or any other team for that matter will win a treble next season.

This is not only a celebration for Pirates and their fans but for the PSL and all soccer loving people out there seeing that this is a first since the inception of the PSL

I was just noting how JC has been very hush hush about the whole thing.

Oratilwe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:52 am

Did yall see the new beyonce vid(run the world)? Where she dances with those 2 kasi looking guys….they dance mzanzi dances…! Did she shoot that part in SA?

KevCare on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:00 pm

*waves* HI @ThatoM Thanx n hope u hav a great weeknd too!!

@Kakapana….SuperSport wud do a good job but its too risky coz some people cant spare even the xtra R99 for DSTVLite!
They could eventually jus sell only the lousiest games to the SABC. They showed us wit the Cricket WorldCup Semi-Finals!

On that note….vele BS…why isnt there an article about Pirates’ treble!!? #JealousDownKhosi tltltltltl

KevCare on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:08 pm

*waves* HI @ThatoM Thanx n hope u hav a great weeknd too!!

@Kakapana….SuperSport wud do a good job but its too risky coz some people cant spare even the xtra R99 for DSTVLite!

They could eventually jus sell only the lousiest games to the SABC. They showed us wit the Cricket WorldCup Semi-Finals!

On that note….vele BS…why isnt there an article about Pirates’ treble!!? #JealousDownMaan tltltltltl

Cutypie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:12 pm

@Lehakoe, don’t give up your nookie for a job you don’t even have guarantee to get, and do not be rude either. I’m sure you were shortlisted because they saw a potential in you just by looking at your cv. Yes the guy may have an influence in the decision making, especially since he was the only 1 involved. However, if he really likes you, he will still recommend you.

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:27 pm

@Kakapana- i get you. and yes, as much as im no Pirates fan, i think u have a point. so lets all call on @SportLite to do the writeup!
SportLite- *screaming* PLEASE DO THE WRITEUP ON PIRATES’ TREBLE. Lets hope he heard me

Lady gaga on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:28 pm

@jahara……hahahah never shame. thanx anyway!!
@manny…ncaaaaaw shame, u’ll have a kid of ur own too some day. yenza kakhulu nje wena.
@GA….wena, wa latela shem. imma pass it on to u ka lenaka.lol

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:38 pm

I guess there will be more preggies here by the time the winter is over.

Koko on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:47 pm

Mme Albertina Sisulu, may her soul & all the souls departed through the mercy of God rest in peace

gagasi on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 12:59 pm

THE MPISANE’S AND FRAUD CHARGES

Cutypie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:00 pm

May Mama Albertina Sisulu’s soul rest in peace! You played your role on this earth.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:02 pm

@Lehakoe, dont do it.Once while attending a music festival I needed to interview this American singer and he didnt pitch for the press conference because of some Safari trip but my editors wanted that story for my column. Then this guy who was organising the conference offered to get me backstage and I was elated. He asked for my number and I get it to him. He found out which hotel I was staying in for the event as his company was teh one taht booked teh venue for us journalists and buzzed himself up.He knocked at the hotel and when I opende the door he lrt himself. In panic mode I stood by the door ready to exit while he made himself comfortable on my bed. When I told him that I am not comfortable with this he appologised and I led him out of the room. while we were going down teh lift he put his hand around my body from behind and I knocked him with my elbow and acted like it was a mistake. Safe to say that I never got back stage or the story but I still haev my dignity. *sorry for the blog within a blog*

CarrieBradshaw on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:07 pm

@Lehakoe:thanks luv!:)Almost called off the search…will check it out!My hair is on the fine side(which is why I gave up the creamy-crack)it being so thin should be perfect!! Thanks a million. Xoxo

NetworkLounge on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:11 pm

Tjoo mina what caught my eye was seeing three very young school girls probably around 12/13 smoking, was filling up gas at a BP and there they are trying to light a cigarette. U partnisha wami showed me these babies and almost attacked them saying its his responsibility ukubathethisa and I stopped him. I feel guilty now because he told me the reason the world is the way it is is because we turn our backs at such things eish not sure should i have let him phuthuma those girls?

Lala Ngoxolo Mam Sisulu.

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:24 pm

@ ladyagaga Wuuuh…secretely i wish you could, but mama would just go in a comma, the past two year i jumped onto a rather rebelious expedition/activity (isnt realy thaaaaaat bad just that mommy doesnt understand) and so ka nananyana she’d think ke feteletse…. ill appease her and have nananyana when she is sorted out and im married….but ga ke dume ga ke dume wena…e dio ba sono ka nna watseba….

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:27 pm

I know what you mean NetworkLounge.

I also often get tempted to say something to the youngsters of today when I see them getting up to no good, but-then ngendlela aba rude and abaphoxana ngayo it’s sometimes best not to say anything.

fabulicious on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:29 pm

@Lehakoe, thanx for bringing this up, yho u’l never understand how men abuse power in the workplace.
Girl u’re ryt, strippin down to ur panties for this loser is NOT worth it. For the sake of ur dignity nje.
If i were u instead of ignoring his calls i’d pick up n let him know exactly what i think of him- in a not so rude way. Everyone who says u shud get the job on merit not by opening ur thighs is ryt shem. Clearly this guy has bedded many n maybe sum didn even get to c the entrance of the company. It’s wrong n We women shud STOP this pandemic of men thinking we’re thaat worthless!

Botshelo on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:36 pm

huuu and Nonhle’s interview on Mzansi Magic ruri that girl must grow up shem.
Saw that one and I was worried, I think behind that pretty face is a very sad girl with a midget(as in tiny) confidence. She looked mad. And Thabo’s facial expressions as she was talking were just priceless! ja ne!

Savanah Dry on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:40 pm

Tltltltltltlt ….Men and their Carpet Interview tendencies

lwandie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:48 pm

Yes Yes Yes to sofnfree’s award…,you killed that intersexions blog and complimented Mablerh’s valuable advice very well.

@ Toni,..I’m still a novice with natural hair and have gone through a lot of trial and errors with products,I think our black hair is as unique as our skin and somehow it takes a lot to eventually find what works for you,here’s what Ive settled for so far and it seems to work especially in terms of making my hair texture more managable.

When I have protective hair styles like braids and weaves,I use sulphur medicated spray(doesn’t smell that great though),I just find it grows my hair and stops that irritating white noting that I used to get where the braid joins the hair.

If I’m not braiding or weaving then I use Moroccan oil hair products..including their shampoo and conditioner.They feel lighter on my hair and the oil is actually absorbed into the scalp rather than some I have tried in the past that just left my head looking like its full of dewdrops.

I also stick to shampooing and conditioning once a week and deep conditioning once a fortnight.

Pappy on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:50 pm

What cought my attention this week was the Cutting Edge (Egg Donour for R6000) the comments made me go Tjo!Tjo!Tjo!.

lwandie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 1:53 pm

@Lehakoe chances are if someone tells you they have influnence over a decision, they don’t

..He probably used that line through out the day on many other intelligent well spoken ladies like yourself…and as tempting as it may be especially when the job market is so competative, I say don’t even contemplate it because stories like that hardly have happy endings.

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:03 pm

@ Lwandie we all have hidden talents, I just wonder what urs is…. #poundering face#

Mina its a go slow day vandag,,,still recovering from Zarfest pre-party

Have a great weekend friends

At Kusi we need more women like you ..I really admire your tanacity!

Wild Island on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:12 pm

SportLite- *screaming* PLEASE DO THE WRITEUP ON PIRATES’ TREBLE. Lets hope he heard me
…not everyone is a pirates fan tu

DUMELANG

aaaao gaga wild oba aunty:)

brb kesalotsuba

Toni on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:13 pm

@lwandie, thanks, where do u get ur moroccan oil products?

Jahara on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:16 pm

This one is for all those who always critisasize (ala criticize) bloggers & their sepenglish & zulunglish (any language+english):

Fill in the blank with either YES or NO
_____ i dont have a BRAIN.

Who said english is easy? I mean, sometimes it goes back to england & leave us with our home languages…so you critics should JBS!!!

Kusihlwa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:19 pm

@Softy,the entertainment world is seedy and dodgy and things always end with rape which is a scary on it own. Somehow, when you dont give in you feel like you are not going to climb the ladder but Id rather be a hardworker at the bottom then be known for bieng a whore at the top,no pun intended.

softnfree on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:19 pm

Hahahahahaha Jahara
Tsek maan

I’m busy recuperating and u messing my dehydrated cells with this nonsense

MiniAyeye on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:22 pm

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Jahara, hai oWORSE shem… LoL

Jahara on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:24 pm

Wena @WI ekare ka bona the day u get super sick & u start coughing & cigar smoke come out of all ur openings…ears,mouth,nose,…,…,

Im kiddin…tltltltltl

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:38 pm

M0rning fellow bloggers…

Mabhebeza>> Tjo i thought i was the only one who noticed that! I Muvhango is on fire these days .#IYABABA!!!!!!!

Flower>> Joy does come in the m0rning after all the trouble. God will never take you where His grace will not protect you. START SEARCHING,SEARCHING AND SEARCHING MAMA! Oh and please give me your email adr ,so i can also try my best to notify you if anything comes up.

LadyM LMAO UZOSWABA SHEM lol!

GA>> *smiles and waves at you* _sorry that we confuse you ma’am mwaaaaaaah!

What caught my eye is the 3 kids who froze to death. My Word thank God im where im at! Guys please lets try by all means to donate blankets or clothes we dnt wear anymre to those ineed! This winter aint going to be pap n vleis.if we are cold from inside. Imagine those abangaphandle,

Lol what also caught my eye is Kakapana, whose nt only a soccer genuis but he reads the bible too(Romans 8:28) *puts him on my A-list* .

Wheres Sportlite vele>> dude robbed us of Our Treble post! #PETITI0NonCommand

Lehakoe>> 6 words for you my love ON’T SELL YOUR VALUES FOR N0NSENSE!!

Lehakoe again>> that duplicate comment has always been there!

Nkey hope u going to have lotsa fun. Miss you already!

Aow Kakapana tjo SABC Sports SUCKS! That match is so fridgen important! They should just gve wonke amarights to Supersport mxm!

Kiki hey,have an awesome weekend. And everyone else too. Mwah love yal

nossie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:39 pm

Ahhhhhhh let pray 4 da Sisulu family 4 their loss n Happy Friday curious people

Lehakoe on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:48 pm

“Id rather be a
hardworker at the bottom
then be known for bieng a
whore at the top” ditto Kusi

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 2:49 pm

Lehakoe >> DON’T
(i meant)

Can WI not phapha on a friday tuu with a “not everyone is a pirates fan” >> N0T EVERY0NE HAS TO BE A PIRATE FAN FOR SPORTLITE TO DO A WRITE UP mxm!!!!!!

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:04 pm

@Kusi, take a bow lady.
you’ve earned it.
Your wisdom and tact is worthy of an applause <<<>>>
you have a male fan in me (hides).

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:12 pm

@ Mmaditaba you took the words right out of my mouth.

mamamia on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:13 pm

Hi yall.

What caught my attention was that clearly ‘intesexion’ was a waste of prime time viewing!!
#Gofigure.

mamamia on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:23 pm

Hi @GA *waves* I’m glad you enjoy my comments, cos i enjoy your yours too!!

Wild Island on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:26 pm

hai mmaditaba skaleka wanja dibono ka friday ekana ….pls….otlankgamisa ka kwai..baitse ba enjoya di comments tsahao otlatsa kanna aowa…wabona nna lewwena relwana ka di friday why vele?

moving right along…dj sbu’s party tonite:)
the LV lady looks stunning bathong…
@jahara…kego siyele?

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:26 pm

Oh and Mmaditaba Kakapana is a girl

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:31 pm

kakapana u are a gal? tjo!! im convinced u are a guy.
i c u are passionate about soccer, what other sport do u watch? okare nna le wena re tla ba di bestie so.

mamamia on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:40 pm

Another thing that caught ma attention and sort of bothers me is that i’m celebrating a milestone in my life by spoiling myself and i notice that the only people cheering for me with this achievement is my bf and family.

Friends for some strange reason are quiet. A little part says maybe my friends do not want the best for me (i’m avoiding the word jealous), or they comparing themselves to me, but it’s not about them it’s about celebrating my achievements.
It is rather dissapointing because mina i support them and cheer them on and even encourage them because i want the best for them without thinking about myself.

But i tell myself it’s cool, God made it possible for me to achieve this milestone and i owe him the gratitude.

Cheers to the people who always want what is best for you and are happy when you achieve it!!

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:42 pm

@WI ke batla kwae ewo eo gamme vele! Skaba lemona cause they didnt mention your name hau! *hugs GA at the same time*

Kakapana *puts on nubilizer* I need to breathe ! No i need to breathe!!!! You have got to be kidding me ,im really hurt and disapointed hey tjo mina i was already day dreaming ka wena eish *starts weeping historically* IT’S N0T FAIR BATH0NG U’RE SUPPOSE TO BE A GUY SO THAT I CAN C0NTINUE CRUSHING ON YOU! Tjo now im left with just Sportlite to day dream about! #FridaySpoiler

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:44 pm

@ LadyM it’s okay, you’re not the only one who thought I am a guy kwa JC.
Passionate is an understatement but I cant really find words to describe my love for i diski.
I also watch i rugby ne cricket…sorry I missed that last part

JEJEYAM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:49 pm

@Ladygaga Congrats sthandwa sam ,ull be a great mommy !!!

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:49 pm

@mamamia, seems i agree with you on both fronts.
it was a waste cos old habits seem to live on.
secondly GA is a gem.i also do enjoy her comments (here and elsewhere).
She is one of my two ‘crushes’ on JC.
See you soon GA!!
the thunders are still a small issue <<<<>>>>

Laaaz on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:51 pm

My question for you today is “Do you look at the toilet paper after wiping ur ass?” if so Y? Its Anything goes after all.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:52 pm

@ LadyM Actually I think I understand what you said (wrote) *Impressed at how my Sesotho is improving*

kwa kwa kwa kwa @ Mmaditaba LMFAO!!!! I didnt mean to spoil your Friday, but if it helps you can continue to “crush” on me seeing that you’ve never seen me and we probarly will never meet…lol

mamamia on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:52 pm

Time for 2x mojitos and 3x margaritas!

Have youselve’s a lovely and responsible weekend!
Don’t drink and drive
Don’t drink and walk
Don’t drink and blog
Don’t drink and shag

Remember alcohol is a social lubricant that makes men brave and women loose.

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:54 pm

manny on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:54 pm

Guys enjoy the weekend neh..eish

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:55 pm

LOL @ Laaz’s random question….To answer your question, I dont.

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:56 pm

Thanks to JC, i have a sports buddy. must get u on twitter too Kakapana.
If u r in GP, we might catch a few games saam. unless o le celeb already and dont hang out with the ordinary folk *thinking*

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 3:57 pm

after my last comment, ((hides in softnfree bosom))

sefula on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:00 pm

@lwandie what do u use for braids?

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:00 pm

hayi bo;

‘A trial date is expected to be set on Thursday for 12 people arrested in connection with setting a pastor alight after accusing him of using a magic penis to sleep with women. The nine men and three women, aged between 28 and 50 will appear in the Boschfontein periodical court in Mpumalanga on charges murder and arson. The villagers, among them a community induna (headman), were arrested on February 24 after Albert Malwane, a pastor of the Izwi Zion Christian Church, was burnt to death a day before. Mpumalanga police spokesperson Leonard Hlathi said that Malwane had been dragged from his one-roomed house in the Etitandini informal settlement near Jeppes Reef south of Malalane and taken to a hill, where he was set alight.

‘Malwane’s house was also burnt and his wife and daughter went into hiding. Community members had accused him of talking to animals and using an invisible penis to sleep with women in the informal settlement. They also accused his wife of turning into a snail and terrorising the community’

sexymm on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:01 pm

Have a great weekend everyone and please do have lots of sex,it’s the right thing to do

… Ladygaga congrats dear.

Toni on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:11 pm

@kakapana, how do u know u’ve wiped all the shit off?

MissAN on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:15 pm

Congrats @ LadyGaga!!

It never rains but it pours @ Flower, I am in a difficult time myself and don’t know why it seems things are so difficult to come together. Haai all I can say May God’s grace be with you!

@ Lwandie… Hmm… Keep those smses and if you don’t get the job use them as ‘proof’ that the guy was making advances at you which you declined,mybe just mybe thats why you didnt get the job but do not flirt,sleep,touch,etc him. If the job is yours anyway partly because of destiny or because you the best candidate and not because of his ‘influence’,sleep with him your reputation will be ruined and every future promotion/achievement at work questioned!

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:23 pm

@Laaaz lol, no i don’t!

@Kakapana im turned off. Eish *sad for days*

@mamamia lmao yebo gogo.have a great weekend nawe sisi. Dont drink and do anything.

MissAN on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:28 pm

Lol @ mamamia! Intersexion was for entertainment not to be taken seriously,hello,its just TV!

@ manny jwale what about the window period?

How is Judith Sephuma? When @ Kiki,whom I believe to be 30,kept referring to J.S as Aus’ Judith,I LOL wondering if its the many kids J.S that make her seem older than she is!

@SoftnFree… Whoohoo! Manje your ming balls are they silicone or steel? Been meaning to get me a pair,how do you keep them clean?

RIP Gogo Albertina Sisulu,one of the last of the good ones!

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:38 pm

@MissAN, I feel you on the rain part. i have been feeling like this is my worst year for the past 3 years.I seem to have taken the wrong step at every turn.I just encourage myself in the truth that it could have been a whole lot worse and see evidences to the fact that God is still on my side.
When i feel too miserable i just listen to this song and it speaks to me directly.
@flower, as one in a similar trench(maybe not as bad)i say, your best days are ahead but they will surely come.HOLD ON
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnWbYqSJ3_w

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:43 pm

@ LadyM unfortunately I’m not on twitter nor am I on facebook or any of these social networks BUT I am on e-mail…lol

And no, I aint no celebrity either, I’m just a random chick who happens to love soccer.

@ Toni kwa kwa kwa I know cause I can feel that my ass has been wiped clean.

@ Mmaditaba lol eish sorry-ke ntokazi. maybe I should stop correcting people when they refer to me as a guy *thinks about it*

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:45 pm

@MissAN,
Lol @ mamamia! Intersexion was for entertainment not to be taken seriously,hello,its just TV!

you are a silly case,yabo.
stop those jokes of yours.

On the balls, i guess you sterelize them.

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 4:51 pm

This place has gone quiet.
I am off too.
have a safe weekend everyone.
Safe in bed and safe on the road.

MissAN on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:00 pm

@ Kakapana,remember when you told us,your mum buys you clothes and people were baffled at why does this guy let his mum buy clothes?! Guess you a JC unsolved mystery along with Mabler,who every new girl has a crush on him until they find out he is a Queen.

@mbulela. Tjo! If I were to start how I missed opportunities because of weird incidences,haai! I am being rejected for basic positions of being clerk? I don’t even get to the interview,just a stupid reject email! Fok! I started jogging to up my endorphins and stay positive! That Yolanda Adam,Be Ready,sums my life well. Mybe,I shouldn’t be a corporate slave,hence doors being shut. I really,really want to be my own boss and the job thing,just to have an income. Good thing I took Intersexion to heart… No pampers in my budget.

impartial on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:12 pm

Wts BEEN catching my eye is the fact that my mom & gran r flippin addicted to BBA.Its annoying the living shit out of me!We cannot watch anything except for this crap of a show!

I’m visiting them 4 the week here int he FS so I’m bored to death cs of this show.They even told me to go back to Joburg cs keyaba tena.
Its annoying my grandmother even wakes up in the morning to watch them exercise.Hw crazy is that?!
Wheeeew.I had to vent.

Happy weekend eerrbody.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:21 pm

Before I go I just want to say life doesnt always make sense and when we are faced with trials and tribulations we often question God or doubt him.

I recently had a few challanges in my life. A month ago, while I was on leave I found out that I had a lump in my breast.

You can only imagine how I was frecking out because the first thing that came into my mind was breast cancer and that doctors are going to chop my breast off.

After several tests, a few sleepless nights and hours of crying I was told that it was just a lump but it still had to be removed.

I had my operation and I thought all was well.

Two weeks later when I returned to work someone broke into my flat and made off with a few things.

As I was getting over the burglary, my wallet was stolen from my baag and I had just withdrawn R4 000 for my rent.

My boss made fun of me saying I should perform some ritual or something, but I thought the worst was over as all things happen in threes..right? wrong.

As I was driving around in town trying to replace all my stolen cards (which were in my wallet) I was involved in a car accident.

Some man on his bicycle decided to ride through a red robot right into my car.

I was shattered. I wanted to die. I asked God why he was punishing me and why all these things were happenign to me.

What could I have pissibly done to make him this angry with me, I windered.

I thought hey, I’m a reletively good girl, I dont drink, I dont smoke, I go to church and the list went on…..so why are all these things happening to me.

But as I was listining all the “bad” things that had happened to me I stopped and thought about all the wonderful countless things he had done for me and my family.

How he had blessed me and here I was counting the four “bad things” and doubting him.

Before I bore whoever is reading this long blog, I just want to quote a verse Romans 8 verse 28: “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

emphasises on the word EVERYTHING meaning the good and the bad but God causes them to work together for the good of those who love him.

So whatever iish that you might be going through God knows where he’s taking you and one day when HE’s plan for your life is revealed all the hard times that you went through will actually make sense.

He was actually preparing you for something great.

My humble apologies for the loooong story but something in me just said that I had to share this.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:26 pm

eish sorry for the spelling errors. I hope to whoever decides to read this it actually makes sense.

kakapana on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:28 pm

Have a splended weekend and GOD is there#not preaching.

Laaaz on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:54 pm

LOL guys dnt lie you know u do!

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 5:56 pm

Eish no i’ve made up my mind i still have a crush on you @Kaka!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMENNNN On what you’ve just shared. I’ve read and im in tears by such truth! Thank you siiisteeeeeerr, (p.s. Its okay to preach ,as long as its the truth!) I’m encouraged and hope all the other lovely bloggers are too! >>>email address tuu Kakapana! #ThankYouVeryPlease!

@WI mwaaah mwaaah lekker weekend.

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:03 pm

@kakapana,you made sense.
Have a good one.
A big hug for @kakapana,@MissAN and @flower.
The best is still ahead.

one more hug for my ‘crush’ GA, for a very different reason ((hides))

sefula on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:03 pm

@kakapana u have been thru a lot… I really don’t know what to say. I really feel ur pain. Where did u remove ur lumps? How much did it cost cos I have a huge one but its not cancerous. will pray for and hey be strong and don’t lose faith and hope. *huggie*

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:12 pm

Aw,im thankful for the council u guys gave Flower and each othe guys. Also needed it. The devil will not have the last laugh.

*hugs the ‘ma’s’ ryt back*…mwaah!

@mbulela….hee,watseba wena, i think ur wrong,sure ur not gona call sum poor thunderless gal GA mara. As we wait to see…patiently.

lwandie on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:18 pm

Awww @ Lady Gaga how did I miss your happy news.Congrats girl,enjoy the journey to motherhood

@ sofnfree kwaaa hope you discover that hidden talent for me I might make a much needed dollar or two.

@ MissAN I think the helpful advice you gave on your earlier post was actually meant for Lehakoe….so true though those SMSes will back her up in case this guy turns the tables against her.

@Toni sorry I’m not in South Africa and I normally just get the moroccan oil from my local hair shop,If you cant locate it locally,I’m sure a universal site like Amazon might help.

@ Sefula I use Sulphur 8 medicated braid spray.

A lot of West Africans swear by shear butter(the virgin one without any addatives) and their hair is amazing.I have tried relentlessly to find the authentic stuff and given up..if anyone has used it before,I’d love to hear their experience.

@ Kakapana wow,those are some experiences.Glad you came through them with your hope still in tact.

Happy weekend folks …Friday needs to happen more often !

sefula on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:20 pm

@lwandie thanks

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:25 pm

*Squeeze mbu ryt back for the weekend*….u must go to church this sunday so i can ply ‘the spot mbulela and posh’ game, the 8 service.

GA on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:46 pm

*waving franctically at Lwandie!!!*…yazi people have cyber crushes, mna i have bagged meself *English accent* a very wise,witty, smart cyber big sister…
BTW Lwandie..ive also been pining for natural hair. The plan is to cut my hair short and then go natural and braids there after, between june and january next year, hope i follow through. Been pining for years now.
And i’ve favorated this “natural hair advice” channels on youtube which i haven’t watched yet…must get serious about this.

GiJane on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 6:56 pm

Can’t believe there are actually young men who look up to kenny Kunene,educated nogal.sies mani

What’s up with our tabloids being selective on the people they do exposes on?

Nthoentle on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:04 pm

Bathong @Mamamia calling us bo #Intersexions! Tjo! Hai nana o rude shem, cos u don’t even know us. I am a 27 year old who has been married 5yrs and I am ready to be a mum. So wena calling the preggies here bo #Intersexions is really rude shem (married or not), people have the right to choose whether they wanna be mothers or not.
Intersexions never said people shouldn’t have children, it was preaching safe sex n knowing one’s status. O sele shem,mxim!

GiJane on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:05 pm

@Kakapana,that’s the spirit,never give up n even in ur darkest hour give thanks to the Almighty.Remember,smooyh seas do not make skillful sailors.

Madoncan on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:06 pm

That mom Sisulu is late. What also caught my attention is that today’s article is’anything goes’,I think it’s the gud article for the weekend cos it can keep us bloggin for the whole weekend(not saying other friday articles are not good) .@Mbulela,is Mbongeni Ngema marrying Mroza from Ukhozi?

GiJane on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:11 pm

Can’t believe there are young men,educated,good backgrounds,who actually look up to kenny kunene.sies man

Why is SA tabloids selective on celebs they do exposes on?mxm

Madoncan on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:12 pm

Mabler(sp)’s article with Soft n free’s spice rocked my world.

Nthoentle on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:16 pm

Thanx guys, but I think rena as wena we r actually stronger than we think hey.

@Flower n @MissAN-hang in there guys. Puts your cv’s on career junction.

Congrats to the new preggies here on JC. I’m glad I’m at the end now, hai pregnancy is the bits and I miss my flat tummy bathong,lol.
One of u said u have flu and are preggy, u can only take panado’s and sleep nana. I am lucky I never got sick during my pregnancy(just morning sickness), no swollen feet or vomiting. I’m also not as fat as I thought I’d be, I’m a size 34 with a tummy

Nthoentle on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:18 pm

Meant to say rena as women, we r actually strong…

Nthoentle on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 7:19 pm

@Kakapana-God is great!

sefula on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:02 pm

@Nthoentle wat size were u b 4 o ima? #just curios

LadyM on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:29 pm

Kakapana sicela leyo email!

Nthoentle on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 8:59 pm

@Sefula size 30/32. I thought I’d be a size36 or 38 I was so scared.

Mmaditaba on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:22 pm

Lol @Ntoentle

mbulela on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 9:44 pm

@Nthoentle, i don’t think she meant it in a rude way.it was just some silly funny talk.that was what i thot and that was why i joined in.
apologies if you interpreted it some other way.

@madoncan, yebo yes.

@GA, i am out of the country this weekend,so won’t be there.
pls don’t cut the hair,now i know your are not thunderless,if you cut the hair my crush might transform into something else.

stay safe, all.

tshisa on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 10:13 pm

Guys when ur boyfriend asks u how many guys uve slept with..what does that mean?? eish plz answer maBloggers i wana know

Jahara on Fri, 3rd Jun 2011 11:42 pm

@Tshisa that’s a trick question. Either way u answer him he might interpret it in a bad way…depends on his views on sexuality.

Lets say u tell him uv slept with only 3 guys. He might get turned off thinkin u r inexperienced between the sheets,u wont give him the va-va-voom…

Then lets say u tell him uv slept with about 17 guys. He might still get turned off thinkin that u walk around displaying your nookie on your forehead…

Am i right @Softnfree?

mbulela on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 12:43 am

@tshisha never answer that question.it is never relevant.

tshisa on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 12:56 am

lol @jahara thanx, bt when he asked me,only told him only 3..whereas its a lie..bt now im just thinking of the answer u just gave me,nd im thinking way too far..@mbulela bt the dude kept on insisting that i tell him…bt next time il keep quiet

Bootylicious on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 9:31 am

What caught my attention this week is finding out that my baby is a boy, I am having a boy, I having a boy *doing the happy dance* can’t wait to meet my angel

Nthoentle on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 9:34 am

@Bootylicious-congrats! I’m also having a boy! *happy dance all over again*

Nthoentle on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 10:45 am

Hating that i must study today, had to work last night and will be working again tomorrow. Being a career woman is overated shem. Mxim!

lwandie on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 12:12 pm

*waving right back @Ga* aww its so easy to be a cyber sis to a lovely person like you.I totally get why mbulela is all cyber-jelly knees over you,because your contributions are always way up there with all the other JC top classics.

Yeah on hair I also did a major trip on youtube and all these Afro nto nton sites to try and gather some tips,there is such a wealth of info out there it ends up getting confusing,the trick I guess is to get what works for you and stick to it.

My next project *deep breath* is to teach my self how to apply makeup properly ..yup I’m useless, have never really been a make-up person but on the odd occasion I do wish I had been a more girly- girly in my teens lol.

@Nthoenhle hang in there girl you are doing great, once baby comes and your accademics are in place you will be glad you pushed on.I have a friend who is a final year medic, with a young toddler.She has a long daily commute between day care,her attatchment and uni lectures, its no mean feat what mothers like her and mothers to be like you achieve,your son will be proud of you without a doubt.

lwandie on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 12:16 pm

…I’m a late INCEPTION convert,have been resisting this movie for months,I finally sat down to it last night and I was blown away!

MissAN on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 12:44 pm

@ Kakapana. Hey,I thought as much things were not well with you hence your disappearance,maybe from my experience. Yeah,I am glad you finally got to the light!

@Nthoenhle! He!he!he! Nami Iam piggyriding @mbulela’s apology! Yeah,nami like @ Kakapana I am a reasonably decent person but things are just pearshaped. I know without a doubt they will get best,mara for now I am in a rough phase and its just part of it. Even my fiesty nature is mellow.

Alexis on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 3:09 pm

Has anyone had a cold like this before? where your ears, eyes and back hurt?

Bootylicious on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 3:22 pm

@Nthoentle thanks girl, I am soooo excited

sxylin on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 3:26 pm

@Nthoentle; the world needs hard working youth like you… Ur the future and shem may God be with you thru this beautiful experience! @Flower; things will look up be strong and don’t sit and wait for a miracle… Auw guys I have learnt a thing or two here and my hubby persisting on us having kids, I just turned 28 and I’m doing my PHD in Public Health and everytime I see babies I wanna cry with longing cos I always had this mentality ukuthi I’m too busy and it wnt be fair but now I think I’m going to go for it cos ngsaba tht one of these days I will hear a knock on my beautiful oak door in my well planned life …; some biatch knocking on my door and carrying umntana by my husby hhayi; I really have nightmares about it! And my friends keep warning me ukuba if I dnt give him our beloved child he will go elsewhr! Tjo*wipes forehead

GA on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 3:57 pm

@MissAn, my sweets…*sombre*…im glad uve got ur faith gear on. We know,from many a testimonies,in our lifes and in others’, that all will be well and looking back on this hard times,we will appreciate how as kakapana said,it was to prepare us for the blessings to come. Im glad u guys are keeping the faith and not loosing heart.’,)

Alexis on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 4:07 pm

rolls eyes, pukes in bucket and serves it to you to eat

GA on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 4:18 pm

@Lwandie …*flatterd lil sis shmile*…with my six dimensions and all

Re: the hair staff,noting. Gues when im ready i am gona have to go thru the frastrating tests and trials, *weary*. PS *whispering*,ive just startd trying out lipgloss,comfortable with 1 colour so far,all thanx to the foschini ladies,dunno whats next tho…mascara maybe, eyebrow pencil? …as the desire leads.

Also took a while to watch inception and book of eli, was blown away by both,and left me wanting to dig for deeper insights into them concepts,for relevance etc..on my to do list defs. You must watch THOR ….pretty PLEASE..Not nearly as thrilling inception, more to tickle ur sci fi bones, or for fun,

Mooi-ding on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 5:29 pm

“e dio ba sono ka nna” lol
@GA o tswa Turf samma?

softnfree on Sat, 4th Jun 2011 7:24 pm

Miss AN its silicone and basic regulations of hygiene complies with cleaning

GOL @Nthoentle I think u were a bit naar nje naturaly when u read the interxection post or maybe u had brixton -hixs (sp)

Jahara the boyfriend shouldn’t have asked in the first place (stupid question)

Qtown on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 8:59 am

Guys kanti wat were u guys saying is up with Nkensani Nkosi’s hubby ??? I hv always thought they r are gr8 couple

sefula on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 10:25 am

@sxylin SMH @ u, very soon u’ll be left with ur Phd and ur oak door. Ur hubby will find a baby somewhere. Take notes from Nthoentle.. I feel sorry for you more that ur husband. Ur friends are so right shem.

kakapana on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 10:44 am

Thank you guys for the words of encouragement.

@ Sefula it was removed at The Bay hopsital, (Richards Bay) I cant recall the exact amount, but I know it was expensive#medical aid paid.

my e-mail: nondumiso.mbuyazi@inl.co.za

Jahara on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 3:44 pm

#Anything Goes.

The other day i was havin an engagin conversation with my friends. It was about a brazilian woman who was allowed to watch porn & masturbate at work coz she suffers from an imbalance which triggers severe hypersexuality. (average of 47 times a day)

So now we were askin among ourselves : ”IF MASTURBATION WAS LEGALISED IN THE WORKPLACE,WOULD U DO IT?”

Now i wanna hear from u bloggers,what are ur views on this?

manny on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 3:50 pm

yhooo jahara skomoling at work nje is wrong
so if she did it 45 times a day i dont think she got any work done ..
well wether its ;legal or not people wank at work e toilet

MissAN on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 4:00 pm

@ Alexis,what does the Dr say? This flu is just weird nje. Get better.

@ GA and Mbulela,funny I went to HP in Parktown and on campus. Thanks guys for words of encouragement!

mbulela on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 4:15 pm

@jahara, i read the story and saw the pic of the lady in question.she looks physically sick.
to answer your question, even if it is legalized, i will not do it.
I have never done it and have no intention of starting now.

Nthoentle on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 8:24 pm

Kwaaaaa @Softnfree o sele yong,I probably was naar, have been all week nje.lol

@Sxylin-babe your clock is ticking hey. There will be the right time for kids cos now with me. I completed my degree long ago, and only decided to do my honours now. Yes I’m seeing flames, studying,working and the pregnancy but there will never be a right time. Give poor hubbs a baby bathong. Ebile u are far now, PHD! Wow! I stop at Honours, no fanx

Nthoentle on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 8:29 pm

Eish my 2nd sentence ke Engrish donno what I wanted to say,lol.

Jahara on Sun, 5th Jun 2011 10:30 pm

@Mbulela & @Manny…my sentiments exactly. Consider productivity alone. So many co’s would lose a lot of money coz of lack of productivity.

Then consider human nature. Some might just take it to the next level & before u know it the workplace would turn into the wankplace.

Granted,i also wouldnt do it.

GA on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 12:26 am

@Mooi ding…aowa ses’aka, mara ke kgausi, Leowakgomo.

@MissAn..oorwyt;)

@sxylin…big UP to you ka your phd suster. You’re my kinda woman. @Nthoentle, you and your superpower abilities, i wouldn’t manage what your doing…i look sick only when im pressed for deadlines. I wanna get my phd b4 a baby nam. im a terrible multi tasker, learned the hard way the past 2 years.

KewlGal on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 1:23 am

Congrats to all the baby mamas to be..
Guys pls share the secret I also wanna get preggies, how do yall do it? Lol

@Kusihlwa I’m an UNKNOWN entertainer becos I refuse to give up my nookie. I know exactly wht u talkin abt in the entertainment industry, I’ve been in a similar situation. Its quite sad and worse if ur a woman. But I’m very content I know God gave me a talent and I will never spit on His face by sellin myself short to these soulless vultures.

Lady gaga on Mon, 6th Jun 2011 1:00 pm

JEJEYAM, sexymm, MissAN and Lwandie..Thank u so much guys

Wild Island on Tue, 7th Jun 2011 2:29 pm

bathong ……..anything goes mo happy friday post le today tota…aowa BS hle…thusa tu

slender sa hlago on Wed, 8th Jun 2011 1:05 pm

Well done Theri Pheto on landing a re-accuring role on The Bold and The Beautiful:-)***Shine***…
You are doing S.A Proud…

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