Unusual Encounter 3 – A Night With Josh

Part 3: Continued from Part 2 (HERE) Day 6:

I was so elated the night before that I could not sleep well. My heart was racing and my brain was on overdrive. My sympathetic nervous system was taking control of me and I simply could not slow it down, needless to say that I only got a few hours of sleep. When the new day began, I went ahead and carried on with my routine, but my focus was on the upcoming events. When it got close to our meeting time , I headed straight for the gym. I went into the locker rooms got changed and into the weight room, I went. I normally would do a 10k run, then lift. Oh but, that all changed today. I simply reversed the routine.

I walked in, I looked around and did not see Josh. “Mhmm, where could he be?” I wondered, “Maybe he’s running late.” Well, I decided that I’d start with some abs-routine. After my third set of abs-work, just as I was getting up from the incline bench, a familiar figure was standing right by my side, patiently waiting.

“I didn’t think you were gonna make those last three,” Josh quipped. “Well, they say the last set is always the hardest,” I light-heartedly shot back. “Well, are you ready to do some pressing?” He asked. “I am as ready as can be,” I lied. So, we went to work on this dreadful thing called bench-pressing. Just as we were working I just kept thinking, “This bench-pressing thing had better be worth all this effort. I better start seeing some desirable results soon, one way or another.” I couldn’t take the suspense anymore, I wanted things to happen and I wanted them to happen now.


By the time we finished our last set, I was again hurting. My arms were really killing me this time and so I suggested that we skip the rest of the routine and go for a run. He chuckled and called me weak and said, “If you promise to up your weights tomorrow, I’ll definitely go for a run with you and maybe even grab some grub with you later on.” I thought my ears were playing tricks on me and so I asked him to repeat what he’d just said. I asked him, in jest, what grounds gave him the right to presume that I was going to need a bite with him? I was, however, impressed by his skilful and sneaky way of asking me out. He replied, “I just assumed after that hard work, you’ll need a drink to cool you down and something to eat and so I thought I’d join you, seeing that it’s Saturday and I don’t have any plans for later.” Needless to say, I eventually gave in, as though it’s not what I had in mind at all.

After the great run, where I showed him that I’m not as athletically inept as he may have thought, we exchanged numbers and agreed on a time we’d meet that night. So after he departed, I again was floating. “Could this be really happening or is it a dream? Did he just ask me out or is it just a friendly invitation from a guy whom I’m still not even sure if he’s into me or not?” I was bemused by all this and I didn’t know what to think. I was just happy that I was going to spend that Saturday night with him.

When I got home, I took a long shower, making sure I was getting all that exfoliating steam. When that was done, I tore my closet apart; displaying every possible ensemble I thought would look perfect for the night. I finally agreed on something I hadn’t worn in a long time. I tried it on and wasn’t enticed by it at all. I immediately got out of that one and tried something else on. After the eighth attempt, I finally found the one that gave me a giant sigh. I was ready and I looked and felt great.

Moments later, my phone rang and it was Josh. That evil voice came to my head, “He’s cancelling. He can’t make it because something came up.” I let it ring for a while so it didn’t seem like I was too available. “Hello!” I answered. “Hey man, it’s Josh from the gym. I just wanted to let you know I’m on my way and should be there in less than fifteen minutes,” he said. “What’s your apartment number again?” I told him. I was so relieved he didn’t cancel because I would have been very upset.

Indeed, in less than fifteen minutes, he was on my door step. Boy did he look dashing. I mean he looked regal and not to mention very handsome. His whole outfit on his gorgeous physique was enough to send my hormones on a rampage.

The evening with Josh turned out to be really beautiful. We quickly got through the “getting-to-know-each-other” process rather quickly. After a few drinks, we were now openly conversing about almost everything. He had such a great sense of humour and seemed intelligent, that’s always a great attribute. He made me laugh the entire time, made me feel really good. We had an awesome time together. He kept saying that it had been a while since he had such a good time not to mention such great laughter. He said he was enjoying himself. It felt more and more like a date and I treated it as such.


We decided to leave the place and go somewhere else. I suggested my place, because it was not too far from where we were and I knew that we’d be alone as my housemate was gone for the weekend. He didn’t even contest the idea and the next thing I know, we were headed for my place.

We arrived at my place and I ushered him in. I immediately excused myself for a little bit while I ran into my bedroom to put away all the clothes that were spread out on my bed and I quickly straightened out whatever mess may have been there. When I was satisfied with the way it looked, I joined Josh in the living room.

“This is quite a nice space you have here,” Josh said. “Oh thank you, would you like a tour of the place?” I asked. I then showed him around the apartment, showed him every room but mine. When we got to my door, I turned around, looked at him and said, “This is my room, but you don’t get to see it now. You have to earn your entrance into my world.” He smiled, looked at me and said, “Well, what does one have to do to earn that?” To which I replied, “The night is young. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see.” He simply smiled and said that this was going to be an interesting evening. He was right indeed; it was going to be a really interesting evening.

Upon returning to the living room, I offered Josh a drink. I listed all the options, which ran from non-alcoholic to alcoholic beverages. He opted for Tanqueray and Tonic, which is my drink of choice. So we sipped on those while we continued to talk about pretty much everything. The conversation ranged from current events to politics, and later switched to more on the personal side. A huge part of me was dying to ask Josh, at that present moment, what this was all about. I was confused. I didn’t know what to think. I was definitely getting the vibe from him and the signals he was sending were very strong. But, on the same breath, I didn’t want to misread him or jeopardize the moment we were having by making him uncomfortable with my silly questions.


Back on the couch with Josh, we finished our second round of drinks and were sharing some really good laughs. He was very sweet and each time he spoke, his voice poured out of him as if it were some heavenly delight. I again disappeared in fantasies as he was talking. I just couldn’t help imagining my life with him and all these wonderful times we’d have together. It wasn’t until I heard him say, “Don’t you think that’s crazy?” that I awoke from my fantasy. Of course now I had to figure out what the hell he was talking about. I moved in closer to him on the couch, taking absolute advantage of that opportunity, and said, “I’m sorry. I had trouble hearing you over the TV, what did you say?” He repeated what he had said earlier and I agreed that whatever he was talking about was crazy.

Conversation went up a level higher. We were now delving deep into our personal lives. We talked about previous relationships, people we’ve dated and so forth. What I noticed in Josh’s share of the information was that it almost seemed as though he was deliberately leaving out nominative personal pronouns, making it hard for me to decipher whether he was talking about guys or girls. “He thinks he’s smart,” I thought. “He is definitely playing a game and I can definitely do this. I can definitely play this game.”

Clearly Josh was into me, at least I told myself. So, I just needed to find out if this was the case or not. I decided that I’d play games too and see how far I can go. As we were talking, I subtly put my hand on his head and just massaged his scalp while carrying on with our conversation. He never moved or rejected the massage. Instead, he said, “Oh, that feels awesome. You definitely have the magic touch in your hands.” I immediately knew this was getting to him and that it was the right move to make. Moments later, Josh rested his hand on my leg as this was going on. I turned to look at him; he smiled and shot me a wink. Next thing I know, his hand was not only resting, it was stroking my leg. I was stunned yet enjoying the moment. Warm blood immediately rushed through my body at a rapid speed. My heart started pumping even faster as I was gazing into his eyes. He looked at me and said, “I’ve had a really good time tonight. I’ve never met anyone who’s made me laugh as much as you have tonight. Thanks, I needed that.” He went on showering me with compliments and more about the evening we’ve had.

I was smitten at that point. I didn’t know how to respond to those words and so I did what my instincts instructed me to do: I moved my hand down from the top of his head to the very base of the skull. I leaned forward toward him, slightly pulled his willing head in toward me and gently rested my lips on his.

(Story continues, stay tuned for what happens next.)

By EnVeeKay ©

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Comments

167 Comments on "Unusual Encounter 3 – A Night With Josh"

  1. ThatoM on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:51 am 

    HAaaaaai man mxm

  2. Princess_M on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:58 am 

    You can say that again Thato! I think this should be illegal. Leaving us hanging like this.

    Boss lady this is a formal complaint. Lol

  3. cherrypops on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:05 am 

    Now I’m really afraid, tjooo!!!something’s about to break!

  4. BeautyB on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:05 am 

    He heee! Ijakg. *heart palpitations*

  5. cherrypops on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:08 am 

    Promise me that you won’t break anything! Don’t like shattered things.

  6. SinoriMc on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:32 am 

    I’m enjoying ths!!…nice 1 NV!!

  7. lebza4sh0 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:34 am 

    Tsek

  8. lebza4sh0 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:36 am 

    Ok the tsek sounds rude but why u doing this to us vele?

  9. Tumi10111 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 5:39 am 

    this Josh guy turns out 2 be ur long lost brother neh? lol

  10. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 5:58 am 

    EnVeeKay at this stage I would advise u not to jump to conclusions about this man’s sexuality. U might have misinterpreted his signals. This has happened to me may times. ““Oh, that feels awesome. You definitely have the magic touch in your hands.” I immediately knew this was getting to him and that it was the right move to make. Moments later, Josh rested his hand stroking my leg. I was stunned yet enjoying the moment. Warm blood rushed at a rapid speed. My heart started pumping… gazing into his eyes.”

    Oooooh bathong this reminds me of my encounter with my mo-Pedi man. He picked me up & traveled in a courtesy bakkie as his car had gone to a service that tuesday. We got to a secluded spot in the bushes at some deserted recreational area in Pretoria West. It was spontaneous & unplanned Even though the man was nervous about a same-sex experience he loved it calling out all the names of his ancestors as we were doing the dance. *Goes back to sleep*

  11. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 7:07 am 

    @Joneigh shame u got it bad for this pedi guy hey. But the guy has 3 cars, so if the bakkie was a silver corsa there is nothing courtesy about it

  12. softnfree on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 7:26 am 

    Bathong JoneighGlobal……
    Na re wena..??..,,!!..??

    Tjo!

  13. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 7:36 am 

    WORD!! Joneigh is GAY!!

    Tjo..well anyway nw this was a GREAT read! Regardless of the gayness

  14. dejane on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 7:45 am 

    Damn you EnVeeKay, for keeping us in so much suspense. I enjoyed reading this. Think its the best part so far.

  15. Zeal on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 8:21 am 

    Hai shame, there’s no misinterpretation mo, this guy is into you, finish n klaar!! you better lay one on him real soon!! LOL

  16. Biskiti on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 8:31 am 

    DeJane, i second you, this read had me locked to every word, i didn’t even panya-panya (bat an eyelid). Wow, if only life happened that way neh. Please don’t tell me we have to wait till next monday hle.

    TJO, Joneigh!

  17. Biskiti on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 8:35 am 

    What straight guy would allow another man to hold and massage his head and even quip kuthi “you’ve got magic hands” while busy massaging your thigh? Josh bats for the DJ’s team…lol

  18. YonzSG on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 8:50 am 

    Wow!! I respect u NV

  19. Lela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 8:56 am 

    lol

  20. Twination on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:02 am 

    Somebody pls help me out here..in NV a guy or gal? I’m so confused

  21. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:21 am 

    @Mad33m3 yes it was a silver corsa lite. Please tell me more about this guy? U say he’s married. Is it Tshepo Maphoto LOL. If he’s married for sure I’m going to kill myself. I’m going to feel dirty because I told myself that I would never do married men in my life. Tell me about his cars. I’m so psycho now it isn’t funny. I’m going to chop his f*cken balls. How did u meet him? Do u have BBM? Do u know his wife. *volcanic ash is fuming out of my ears*

  22. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:29 am 

    “What I noticed in Josh’s share of information was that if almost seemed as though he was deliberately leaving out nominative personal pronouns,making it hard for to decipher whether he was talking about guys or girls.” >>>Twination NV is gay

  23. kimmo on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:39 am 

    @joneighglobal – aowa hleng!!!

  24. Miranda on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:44 am 

    let me guess what happens next, the guy’s phone rings and its a wife that is calling on some’josh,its past dinner time,where are you?’….tltltl,or worse…its a boyfriend #

  25. snapshot on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:47 am 

    lol @ This bench-pressing thing had better be worth all this effort.

    so Josh came to pick you up, wow, what a gentle ndoda.

    @JoneighGLOBAL and @mad33m3 you guys shared a BF, wow what a small world

  26. Fezzy on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:50 am 

    Kwaaaaa at bating for the DJ’s team!
    I try really hard not to be homophobic but I really cant stand the thought of 2 men making out. Im sorry, pls dont judge me.

  27. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:53 am 

    lol@So after he departed, I again was floating. ..hai hai hai the thought nje abt a guy floating(i know do need to explain the figuritive status)…this is too gay stru and insiteful *reads again…* i never thought guys felt like this stru..*hlafunichapisi*

  28. lorrelai on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:54 am 

    a night??? wuuuwee, lemme go read.

  29. Nonkuku on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:54 am 

    Haaibo
    @JoneighGLOBAL. Kwaaaaaaaaaa!!! Tjo!!

  30. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:00 am 

    Grabs popcorn and waits for mad33m3`s answer, this is interesting, JoneighGLOBAL is about to kill Mr MO-PEDI wa Corsa lite e silver! kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    Nive read NVK, i am getting hooked, cant wait for tomorrow!

  31. lorrelai on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:08 am 

    uwile uJosh!! hook, line and sinker!!!

    now I wait for Part IV

  32. zeepo_B on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:12 am 

    tjo!!! good one EnV…now did you really have to do that, leaving us hanging like that? cant wait to read what happens next

  33. Zam zam on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:13 am 

    Yay! Part 3! *preps tea and rusks and scrolls back up to read*

  34. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:14 am 

    No we didnt share him @snapshot. I almost had a thing with him though. @Joneigh My uncle lives 4 houses away from his so thats how i uncovered most things about him. Yes it is Tshepo. I have met the wife a couple of times (such a nice lady), oh and yeah i have BBM

  35. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:23 am 

    No @Fezzy we aren’t judging you, just pitying you because you’re stuck in a homo-prejudice funk. I suggest you move with the times and out of the medieval ages. Men have been embracing, kissing and making out since the early centuries. It is just that and it is what it is. Perhaps you need to see them kissing more so that you can learn to accept and deal with it. #NoHate

    If Josh turns out to have a wife, I’ll just have an aneurism right there and sue JC for causing it. I’m loving how this story is unfolding.

  36. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:25 am 

    @Mad33m3 please BBM me his address. I won’t mention where I got his address – 22CD64B6. I just want to have a word with him. I know he likes playing golf at Midlands Estates Golf course. Modimo ntshware because ga ke tsebe gore ke tlile go month dirang fa ke mo leba ka matlho a me.

  37. ThatoM on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:25 am 

    Kwaaaaaaaaa OMG *grabs milo*

  38. softnfree on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:29 am 

    Bathong JG and Mad!

    A na ka lora!

    Jeso

  39. Cutypie on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:33 am 

    Aww shame Joneigh, you really love the dude hey.. Back 2 the climax, Nice 1 NVK..Really interesting read..Can’t we get atleast 2 per day..eish, the suspense is 2 damn frustrating!!

  40. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:35 am 

    Mad33 are you a guy aswell? #JUSTSOCURIOUS

  41. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:35 am 

    I need isiwasho straight. A strong dose of isiwasho. Nigga is going to know me very well. NXA. I’m Joneigh & no sleazy married idiot who thinx he’s got it under control is going to do me like that. It’s the fact that HE’S MARRIED that kills me. If he wasn’t I was going to let it slide & not disturb the peace. I DON’T TOLERATE LIES AT ALL good sex or no good sex.

  42. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:37 am 

    Mad33 are you a guy aswell? #JUSTSOCURIOUS

    so Tshepo is an after 9?

    Fezzy i don’t blame you for being homophobic shem. Theres just too many man turnd gays kulezintsuku. No man left for us

  43. kimmo on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:38 am 

    so this pedi guy wa JG and Mad plays golf and has 3 cars?
    ke le BEE moes, interesting!

  44. softnfree on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:46 am 

    Ya neh!!!!

  45. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:48 am 

    @Kimmo he’s just 31

    @Mmaditaba there lots of straight men out there. Most of my friends are hetero. But u need to look at taxi ranx. All taxi drivers are hetero LOL. Plus I hear they’re gggggreat in the sack. But seriously there are lots of hetero men out there. If I was a chiq I would have been married a thousand times already. The problem is that most hetero men go for chiqs who give it up easily. If u are a decent chiq who doesn’t let the panty drop u going to feel like there aren’t enough men to go around.

  46. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:59 am 

    “But you need to look at Taxi ranks. All taxi drivers are hetero LOL.”>>> LOL

  47. miss_a on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:04 am 

    I dunno bout u guys, but I’m finding the story unfolding between @Joneigh and @mad33m33 so much more entertaining! Guys, where did it start, which thread did u find out u almost dated the same guy in? Please tell me so I can go read from the beginning lol.

  48. cherrybabie on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:05 am 

    LOL @ “there lots of straight men out there. Most of my friends are hetero. But u need to look at taxi ranx. All taxi drivers are hetero LOL” you just killed me dude…

    @Fezzy & Mmaditaba, i feel you ladies….i feel you!

  49. cherrybabie on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:07 am 

    at Jonieigh & Mad33…..cud you let us know what happens next….i mean after u-Joneigh calls the guy?

  50. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:09 am 

    @Joneigh Hey ke bbming u his address that’s extreme. He lives in Midlands

  51. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:10 am 

    While we wait for EnVee to come back with part 4, can we have Joneigh and Mad reveal the juicy details of the After9? Mara guys you should’ve named the person. It’s just not fair to his family.

  52. MissAN on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:14 am 

    Haai @ JC… Salami brothers,oh almost!!!

    @JoneighGlobal… Mopedi must have had Limpopo funk in all of that,manje who was a bottom or top? Well,I know of this since you know whose articles… Anyways,I hope the wife or someone who knows the relative does not find out ukuthi her man is an after9…

  53. mbulela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:15 am 

    hayi bo! can someone tell me this is a joke or another fiction in the making?
    I mean the guy has even been named here.
    this is so unsafe.
    imagine his wife silent blogging???

  54. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:18 am 

    I only confirmed the name though. Mara Joneigh calm down going after him won’t solve a thing. Just be glad it ended b4 it even began. It spared u a lot of heartache.

  55. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:19 am 

    Hayi @Mad33m3 and @JoneighGlobal you guys are wrongo. This guy is married, what if someone here knows the wife and she does not know……….

    That is so uncool!!!!!!!!
    Okare this is revenge.

  56. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:25 am 

    Sweet and Witty,its not fair that he double crosses his wife with his after9 tendancies!!that one is really really not fair! Poor wife must be thinking her husband is ALL man! I pray i don’t ever become a victim of this unfortunate scenario!

    Mad33 & Joneigh izani nazo. Yals tricycle is so interesting! Hehehe

  57. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:32 am 

    TJO @ Joneigh sits next to ThatoM with Milo!!

  58. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:32 am 

    I agree with you Mmaditaba nje….we’re saying the same thing. It’s not fair to the family at all. But to say a guy is not “ALL man” because he happens to enjoy sleeping with other men is also not nice. “Manhood” has nothing to do with “sexual orientation”, in this regard. They all have schlongs oksalayo, how and to whom they use that schlong is really their business, as long as it doesn’t indirectly hurt families.

  59. MiniAyeye on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:36 am 

    tjo name dropping le gone Joneigh!!! Thanx EnVeeKay nice

  60. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:39 am 

    ‘ALL MAN’ as in STRAIGHT! So Sweet and Witty my comment had nothing to do with his abilities ne. So relax #thanksdear

    “The truth shall set you free” *hides behind ThatoM’s milo*

  61. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:40 am 

    JOOOOOOOOOOOOOH…THATO KEKOPA MILO EO TUUUU KANA HONALE PRE-PART4 RIGHT HER KAMONTLUNG….
    eeeeeeer@Jon ngwana pls dont ever ever utter such words tsagore u’l kill youself for motho who lied to u..u die he’l still continue ka di after 9 tsahae otlabona wena…play it low man skajampisa gore u know the truth and wait for him to tell u then omotshele kadi salate..thats how we do it
    true@mamamiMisA (hi lovies)..too late for what if’s the name is out there to be googled by everybody now…kabakahopola alexis okae vele oo.*spits on her invisibleface*

  62. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:41 am 

    nc nc nc nc SMH

  63. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:42 am 

    nc nc nc nc SMH Drama,

  64. Fezzy on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:42 am 

    @Sweet nton nton…..like I said, im trying really hard not to be homophobic and accept abantu bakithi the way they are.
    But I cant control the fear that I have, no matter how hard I try, I have neva seen guys making out en Im scared of that image.
    So pity away, anginandaba.
    I am not homophobic, in fact I find it really easy to talk to my gay friends instead of my female friends who always judge me.

  65. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:43 am 

    The reason why I posted his name with no reservations is because I know that is not his real name. It’s a pseudonym he uses when he’s meeting guys. Most guys who lead double lives fake errthing from names to where they work & where they’re from.

  66. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:44 am 

    @Sweet&Wiity @Mbulela @Mamamia The reason why I posted his name with no reservations is because I know that is not his real name. It’s a pseudonym he uses when he’s meeting guys. Most guys who lead double lives fake errthing from names to where they work & where they’re from.

  67. MissAN on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:46 am 

    @ Fezzy… no need to explain yourself,you are tolerant of gays but just find men having s*x gross… its your point of view and should be respected,it s your Bday after all…You have Carte blanche…

    @WI… Tjoh!! Drama ya mohae…Hello,I miss her tpp @Alexis…bit of a dark horse.

  68. Zam zam on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:48 am 

    HAWEEEE MURRRR!!!

    *grabs left over rusks and goes to chill with the milo crew*

  69. MissAN on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:49 am 

    @ joneighGlobal… though he uses an alias but if that was my husband or a close person I know,in your detail i.eMopedi,where he satys,plays golf,car…1+1 would be 2.

  70. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 11:52 am 

    tjo MA…ke ahlame my friend…happy born day fezzilicious:)

    mmmmmmmm.nc nc nc ..itjaaa

  71. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:01 pm 

    Guys chat later battery low. Ciao.

  72. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:03 pm 

    No, i say name and shame, sikhathele ukudlalwa abantu, if he is doing it then he deserves to be humiliated, i just feel sorry for the wife but maybe this will do her good as well, tjo cabanga nje!! #Sips Milo

    iza nazo Joneigh and Mad33

  73. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:04 pm 

    Maybe I kind of overreacted. There’re many Pedi men who fit his. Profile. See y’all.

  74. mbulela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:07 pm 

    what a life!!
    fake name,fake work,fake address.
    eish, that is a hectic life.must take lots of energy to live.
    what more is fake over there?

  75. zaneliah on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:15 pm 

    Tjo!! talk about Gays of our Lives…lol mara…EnV u can realy make me cringe…lol, mara y u doin ths to us…tjo haai..!!

  76. Mapakisha on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:16 pm 

    I feel sorry for lepedi hle..

  77. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:17 pm 

    @mbulela fake bbm pin.

  78. Fezzy on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:26 pm 

    *gives MissAN a warm hug* thanx for understanding.
    Thanx @WI…havent received so many birthday wishes in my whole life. Yazi I feel like Im a celebrity.

  79. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:28 pm 

    The sad part though is that there’s nothing fake about him. The name, the work and where he lives, all true. Maybe that was dumb on his part but hey ……

  80. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:31 pm 

    Hallow Hi All.Jus came in now and I can see JC yavutha today.The thing is I’ve got sh#t loads of work Cant read everything now.Im from my Doughter’s Creach Shes turning 5 today,Had so much fun hope I took full day off.Cela nimwisheli Happy Besday Tu!!

  81. Luyah on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:32 pm 

    Damn!! Dis iz gud, again i cnt wait 4 the following part, im hoping u guys will hv sex *chuckles*

  82. softnfree on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:32 pm 

    @ Mapakisha Mopedi not lepedi please

    (And that goes to the rest of you)

  83. Lela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:41 pm 

    Nkos’enofefe olungapheliyo!!!!!!!!!!

  84. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:47 pm 

    (that goes for the rest of you) >>> Eh

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO NKEYS DAUGHTER! MAY GOD BLESS HER ANGELIC SELF,HOPING SHE HAS A SPLENDID TIME E CRECHE! ¤Mwahkiez to her¤

  85. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:48 pm 

    *sighs*

    Homosexuality is all the rage in the black communities, i miss those days when private business was just private.

  86. amyoli on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:52 pm 

    @mamamia..there were days like those, where? lol

  87. Gugstar on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 12:58 pm 

    Itsho uphinde Lela yuuuuuuuuuuuuu Thixo onofefe yintoni na. #Jawdropped#

  88. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:03 pm 

    hepi befdey nunuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu…akhule bantu Nkey:)

  89. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:06 pm 

    hai soft nawe..lepedi mapedi mopedi basotho msotho mzulu….re utwlile
    @mamamia kana everything is all in the open now

  90. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:11 pm 

    Lmao @ WI

    mad33 i ask again!! Are you a man?

  91. manny on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:13 pm 

    tjo ku wrong ku rough la e khaya
    dumelang ka ofela..
    w,i wa ipata ha oratile neh?ohlaha fela ha o buiwa ka mantanyola ?lol
    happy to nkey….ukhule ukhokhobe..
    nv..great story an we get to the sex already ?
    as for JG and the mopedi guy ..let him go hes not worth it ,,ba ho jele skoloto/credit ..qina lengwele and move on with the lil pride u have left ….

  92. manny on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:19 pm 

    @mamamia..thats the problem people wanna air their laundry for everyone to see..
    i once read ke somewhere here on jc..no offence my gay peple but i read that they like exposing one another ,it gives them a kick,,
    an actualy it doesnt matter who you do in your bedroom ..

  93. Beautybaby on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:25 pm 

    Confused now, Joneigh says Tshepo’s name is a pseudonym, Mad says its not a fake name, which one is it bathong. Bcos I like things I google him, Joneigh’s post pops up there lol, BS pls remove the guy’s name fake or not hleng.

  94. sexymm on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:29 pm 

    Happy birthday Fezzy.Happy birthday mtana kaNkey,nikhule..

    @Mbulela ,fake silver corsa lite….lol

  95. FentseStar on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:33 pm 

    hai man!!! mxm, phela im sitting on da edge of my seat…

  96. Angenoir on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:39 pm 

    Bathong, my man’s name is Josh…cant help but picture his face everytime I read this, BLEH

  97. KewlGal on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:42 pm 

    *SIGH*

    in mzantsi if u say there are too many foreigners you are labelled as Xenophobic.. (which i dont understand cos its the truth)

    in mzantsi if u say u dont understand gayism you are labelled as homophobic

    as much as ppl want to be understood why cant they understand the other ppl who dont understand them.. hehehehehehe

    @Fezzy i understand you, i have many gay friends but whenever i say i dont understand this thing of being gay, i get attacked as a homophobe which i’m not.. can someone explain to me what is a homophobe? im not scared of my friends mos.. hay mina i give up on these phobias now…

  98. snapshot on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:50 pm 

    tjo!!!!!!!!!1 kubi, mina i just want to know what happen next, cos i can see JG going to straight to MegawattPark, SARS section, and wait for the guy to come out, tjo tjo tjo!!!!!!!!!!!! mahlazo

    Happy birthday to the littel angel @Nkey bengikuhleba today plus u stingy with your email address

  99. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:50 pm 

    Tanki Homenahane Hleng!!! Lol…Khwezi sharing a BD with @ Fezzy Wow…A very happy Birthday to you @ Fezzy Have a stunning day futher.*huggs & kisses*

  100. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 1:56 pm 

    @ Snapybaby Lol wonder bewuhlebuthini.This is the email that Imma receive immediatley when you sending me something NOW. njafta@compuscan.co.za

  101. Simah001 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:01 pm 

    The suspense! Stop pulling a “Days Of Our Lives” on us!! Wanna read it all. LOL. The way I’m in love with your story though!!

  102. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:10 pm 

    @ nkey, we all gonna send you e-mails LOL

  103. @JoneighGLOBAL on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:11 pm 

    @Mad33m3 thanx for the confirmation.

    @Mbulela we don’t out each other intentionally. Sometimes u just look anywhere & everywhere for the truth & thing just slip out due to the shock & dismay.

    Adultery is adultery & to think that u helped someone cheat over a number of times can make one feel worthless & scummy. If u are married just be upfront / should I say man enough to tell the other person. Some of us aren’t like bo-Alexis to sleep with married folks & feel good about it as we just don’t have that arrogance to help someone temper with their marriage.

    IF U ONLY KNEW HOW I WAS SO SICK TO MY STOMACH u wouldn’t be complaining about my convo with @Mad33m3.

    But good news I’M OVER THAT NOW – LIFE IS GOOD.

  104. mbulela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:23 pm 

    @beautybaby,one of them ain’t telling us the truth.
    sos i guess we should just treat this as fiction and move on.
    I agree with you that fake name or not,it should be deleted.

  105. snapshot on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:25 pm 

    @Nkey my friend was talking to some cute little something from khona la ku JC, wow he’s cute shem, ngathi nje he better put his real Gravatar so Nkey and company can get a replacement of you know who.

    email sent few minutes ago

  106. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:29 pm 

    @JG i feel you shem,sometimes we must get to know people before unrolling undies or panties though.

  107. JustPS on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:31 pm 

    Happy birthday to you @Fezzy and Haaaaaappy to @Nkey-za’s little angel…….Stay Blessed.

    Too many comments can’t keep up, happy blogging peeps :-)

  108. Kusihlwa on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:37 pm 

    Hayi bo, damn work now I am missing out on the important stuff…nxah. @Joneighglobal and Mad33 your stoty is scary. @KewlGal and Fezzy, I also dont unerstand the gay thing and I think I would vomit if I saw another man kiss another or worse having sex. I am not homophobic because I get that thats thier sexual prefference but I just cant stomach it. Happy Besday to Nkeys angel and you Fezzy…mwaaah.

  109. ThatoM on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:41 pm 

    LMAO mara Nkosi Thela umoya kulendlu tu

  110. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:50 pm 

    tjo ithi nami ngisende..nkeeeeeeey lol
    yaz i also googled as well legama laba lsited ku conversation yala ku jc…susa bs pls tog..lol
    *thats the spirit JG…
    *manny keteng hai kere kebadile stori se ka 12am ijo
    *maditaba stru…mara otlatseba jwang mara

  111. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:54 pm 

    @snapshot, a replacement is needed urgently, ukhuluma ngobani vele? mlethe la! LOL

  112. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:55 pm 

    Hahahahahahahaha @ snaps Lucky you,Happy 4 ya chomi.Tried to send you Bezday photos now and report came back ithi undilivered.Nx!!! Please tell exactly from wich article you were chatting nalomzala.LOl….I so hope It’s not @ Dack1ord8 *eish hope I got the spelling right* Coz Hes the man of the moment ku department yama looks on JC.

    @ jusPS Thanks a mill…

  113. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:57 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Siya Zbekelowakho Please,you most welcome to gooi in my inbox nawe babe…

  114. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:59 pm 

    Eish Im busy not reading everything,Lol…gooi le wena @ Wild.

  115. mad33m3 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 2:59 pm 

    Yes @Mmaditaba. I am a man

  116. siya on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:04 pm 

    happy birhday to ur gal @ Nkey give her a hug from me.

  117. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:07 pm 

    Straight people and their prejudices can be very revolting. I can’t stomach a man and a woman doing the nasty. It is just unfathomable. So GROSS!!!! I’m not heterophobic, I’ve a lot of straight friends I’m comfortable with, but the thought of them being intimate just makes wanna purge my breakfast, lunch and dinner. *says a little prayer*

  118. MiniAyeye on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:13 pm 

    hee banna, LoL @SweetnWitty …

  119. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:15 pm 

    @sweetnwitty, oh gosh how did you think you came to exist like hello!!!

  120. MissAN on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:16 pm 

    @Beautybaby…nami angasazi? Anyways poor lePedi uhmm…Mopedi…

    Lol @ Alexis always popping up to ease peoples’ conscience… Haai,never lay your cards lakwi JC…

    @Mmaditaba… what you talking about? @JG did he NOT already roll down his g-string for Mr?

    @Snapshot..kanti whats happening,do you know @JG and the Pedi guy?

  121. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:17 pm 

    Someone (namely mama and papa) had to do the unfathomable, gross and make you me wanna purge my breakfast so you could be grossed into existense.

  122. Malawi11 on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:21 pm 

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Nkey’s daughter daughter lots of hus and kissez to her…xxx

  123. Lela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:22 pm 

    I think for the world to be a better place we should all be gay because it seems if you are not gay you are homophobic for not being gay nje.
    People should understand that not accepting man to man sex as normal does not make one homophobic. I love my gay people for who they are not for their sexual preference and just because I love them does not mean I should change my view on homosexuality because it is my view and it is about homosexuality not the people doing it.
    Just like there are thing I do that my friends do not accept as normal but that does not mean they love me any less nor does it mean they should change how they feel about those things.

  124. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:24 pm 

    No, I was conceived of the Holy Ghost. Hahaha. Mamamia you’re clearly missing the whole point. Procreation is not always congruent to intimacy or love-making.

  125. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:24 pm 

    Oh Sweet & Witty you’re not straight .oh okay that explains your defence towards homos. LOL @ your little prayer for us straight beings lol.thandaza bhuti, siyawudinga loyomthandazo!

    @Snapshot that cutey you discovered might be gay hey ,so him putting his gravator up here would be a waste of our drooling over his cute self.

    @Mad33 okay thanks. Makes much better sense

  126. Sweet soul on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:27 pm 

    LOL@SweetnWitty, I dont think ‘straight people’ are trying to be nasty or patronising, I think its just that into mawungakhulanga ngayo or ungafundiswanga(lack of knowledge) it takes abit of time ukuyijwayela, I must admit I also had the same problem as Fezzy and the rest, but after they introduced the story line saka Jason & Senzo ku Generations I’m more accepting towards gay people showing their affection like us straight people.

  127. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:29 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Mmaditaba Awuve Uwagadile ama Gay.

  128. Sweet n Witty on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:32 pm 

    Bless your heart Sweet Soul. With a bit of a little more education, I’m sure they, too, will learn to accept life for what it is.

    Hawu Mmaditaba, my prayers don’t fall on deaf ears. Ngizonithandazela for sure.

  129. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:33 pm 

    Thanks once again @ Malawi11

  130. mamamia on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:43 pm 

    @Sweet n Witty, yeah it might not be congruent wat wat, but it still sounds to me you cutting off your nose to spite your face.

    Without straight people the world would be less gay ;)

    Lets agree to disagree

  131. Fezzy on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:45 pm 

    @Nkey…ufike ungihagele uKhwezi uyezwa? Love that name by the way.
    Ngiyabonga @JustPS en everyone who wished me well today.

  132. Kiki on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:47 pm 

    Lol @ Lela.

  133. Cutypie on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:47 pm 

    Happy born day to the apple of your eye, Nkey. May she be blessed with lots of love, wealth and happiness!

  134. Kusihlwa on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:47 pm 

    @Sweet soul and Sweet n Witty I dont think its lack of education on my part because I watch alot of gay story lines on tv and get to socialise with gay people in my field of entertainment but some how it just feels unnatural to me. I accept that it happens in the society that we live in but there is also the part where a gay person leaves that life and has kids and gets married showing that thats the natural order of life and then they become after 9′s meaning there is still a pull to that lifestyle but for me personally it just does not sit well with me.

  135. Kiki on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:48 pm 

    Happy birthday to your angel @Nkey. Wishing her many more years of love,laughter and good health.

  136. Polly on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:49 pm 

    Happy birthday to Nkey’s munchkin.

    *waiting patiently for part 4*

  137. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:51 pm 

    Lol Nkey angeke sizasi phela yazi.

    Sweet & Witty ngiyabonga bhuti ,God is indeed not deaf :)

    Lela #Agreed

    For the record i have gay friends and they are such darls. Although i guess ill always wonder why they are attracted to their same sex.

  138. Lela on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 3:52 pm 

    LOL @Kiki and I was thinking of you when I wrote the last part of my comment,krkrkrk.

  139. MissAN on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:01 pm 

    Gosh I need to pop a baby aswell…#cantrelate# Alexis attitude…Lol Happy birthday to @Nkey’s little and curious wonder…

    I wish these Bday actually came with cakes!!!

  140. Nkey.. on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:14 pm 

    Thank you so so Much 4 all the Bday wishes.Much much appreciated.We really are a familly on JC.

    @ Fezzy will do that doll.

    @ MissAN Lol…do pop one siyahambiskhathi,So you can also join Great Expectation League yala ku JC Eyabonwa wu @ Alexis,Thina nabo @ Lela…
    Lol…anyway Thanks.

  141. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:14 pm 

    i did nkey..lol
    wuuuuuuuu @Hawu Mmaditaba, my prayers don’t fall on deaf ears. Ngizonithandazela for sure…LOMTHANDAZO SURE UYOPHELELE RUFINI…
    mara why vele fanele si expleine la endlini ukuthi sinama gay friend bona do they even comment ukuthi banama girlfriends as in thina esnamakuku haiman…warata haorate they are all here to stay :) ..

  142. kimmo on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:17 pm 

    @missaN she calls them brats not even babies LOL, alexis where are you mara?

    happy birthday to @ nkey’s lil one!

  143. Wild Island on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:39 pm 

    @Sweet n Witty, yeah it might not be congruent wat wat,..kwa its pependicular maaaaan…
    8haele oo wa di great expectations onyaka limpopo funk..hai stru siyamthanda lomuntu makangekho ithi abe la…sivuthumlilo lmao…
    *got yo email nkey..happy chatting:)
    *MA wasala uyabona ayaphela ama potential ngoba sekuama gay …otlaepona….wasalaweeeeeeeena *keneth’s voice ko white wedding” …off topiki nyana…did u notice ko white wedding that dudebareng ke Themba mara kele khalanga? leskatla ka xenophobic wat wat here…just curious…

  144. G.lethu on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:49 pm 

    Happy Birthday Nkey’s angel and Fezzy.

    patiently waiting for part ntoni ntoni

  145. Mmaditaba on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 4:57 pm 

    Lmao kodwa WI “nomthandazo ophelela erufini” KWAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH ngeke yoh jus b4 my knock off time lmao!

  146. Zam zam on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 5:01 pm 

    Happy birthday to Khwezi and Fezzy!!!

  147. snapshot on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 5:10 pm 

    @MissAN, im not sure about JG but uMpedi yena hai kungathi i used to eat with him e canteen,

    @Siya hes coming still trying to put in his Gravatar but he’s already here, he commented once twice in the morning.

    @Mmaditaba i hope not mntanasekhaya eish its tough out there

    @Nkey bring phela those pics hau, nam sekumele ngifake i bbm pin or email address lapha lol

  148. Mr_Dezzel on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 6:25 pm 

    Keen to get to the bottom of this

  149. Nthoentle on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 9:14 pm 

    Tjo! Tshepo Maphoto, I’m gonna ask my fellow Pedi people, yooo nna I hope I don’t know his wife. Feel so so sorry for her

    Guys what is this Great Expectations? A show for single mothers or what?

  150. snapshot on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:02 pm 

    Lol @ Mr_Dezzel keen to get to the bottom of wat…. Pls just put ur Gravatar so @ #team perving# can start Lol

  151. Aldair on Tue, 14th Jun 2011 10:18 pm 

    Nkare le nyaka go fetosha JC to Toilet.wen.ru. I don’t think it is wise to expose those secrets here. O jelwe sekoloto, don’t pay revenge ka go thuba lapa la another ndoda. Mara buti Mopedi le yena why a ralokela two teams at the same time?? Haai mara we men???happy Bday to all who celebrate their bday today.

  152. AnonBlaqStar on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 12:03 am 

    *From silent blogging*

    I consider myself upward mobile black man. Happily married to a wonderful lady for 15 years now with 4 kids & in my late 30s & I happen to be gay. Two wrongs never make it right @JG but at the same time this Midlands guy was dumb to lie to a lover about his real set up. If he wants to fulfill his desires then I’d suggest he do it with married men who share the same responsibilities (families, wives, kids etc) because that way the expectations on the relationship or fling are clearly set out.

    I use the term happily very loosely to describe my marriage in a sense that u never get judged by society & life becomes so much easier & simpler to deal with in all aspects from personal to work wise. I nearly got burnt by a jilted lover I lied to 5 years back because like the Midlands guy I didn’t tell my lover the whole story of being married. Ever since then I only go for other married men & because we understand each other & our circumstances. I’m a men’s man rough on the edge kind of guy & it’s so easy to fool people all u need to do is to pretend to be a homophobe & people fall for it hook, line & sinker.

    I love my wife dearly even though it’s not the way she loves me in a sense that my love for her isn’t romantic at all but I still love her. That’s why I give her the world on a platinum platter filled with gems of all sorts.

    Being attracted to men romantically isn’t something new it’s as old as the world & men & women who experience such inclinations have always led seemingly hetero-normative or conventional lives. This drama regarding the Midlands guy should serve as a lesson to all closet men who prefer to die in the closet like me. DATE YOUR OWN KIND FINISH & KLAAR.

    ***Whoever was celebrating their birthday I wish u more prosperity & goodwill.

    *Back to silent blogging*

  153. Znat on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 12:06 am 

    NVK, I’m hooked, good read. And they were drinking Tanqueray and tonic, my poison. Love it, looking forward to part 4.

    In other news. Tjo! Kodwa bakithi, namagama futhi? Ngyasaba la ekhaya. JG, awumyekele bandla! Koksiza kuthi ukhohlwe ngaye, kubhlungu ngyazi kodwa ke mnikele uJesu! Uzothini kuye? ‘Yeah, I know about your after 9 ways!’ Yabo? Pointless.

  154. Znat on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 12:12 am 

    Anon, you make it seem like its a normal thing for married men to be gay, like there’s a club somewhere. Tjo! I’m scared manje, blame ignorance or whatever. But can I ask you something, how easy is it to find, in your words, ‘your kind’? Do you enjoy sex with wifey? Or do you do it to please her and just pray it ends soon? Are you bi?

  155. Nthoentle on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 12:31 am 

    OMG!! @AnonBlaqStar-15years le bana ba 4?! *faints* I will never wake up. Mara don’t u think its selfish of u? Poor wife and poor you for living a double life? 15years?!!!!! Modimo!! *goes into labour*

  156. Wild Island on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 8:32 am 

    bathong anon….mara at least ur honest..mara ke ke ke le point oyishilo yokuthi”I love my wife dearly even though it’s not the way she loves me in a sense that my love for her isn’t romantic at all but I still love her. “..how so?
    dumelang

  157. Mmaditaba on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 9:18 am 

    Anon get out of that silent place and answer imibuzo ! I need to know ,why are you with your wife when you’re into men? Dont you for one bit feel sorry for your poor wife? Why in the hack have 4 kids with a woman you know damn well you aint into om that inlove tip?? PLEASE ANSWER!

  158. Mmaditaba on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 9:25 am 

    AnonBS How do you think your kids will feel when they do find out by default that you’ve been shagging men? Do even imagne for once how that will ruin them? Do you even consider your family’s feelings in this process? And as for you blaming Tshepo,its useless you’re both in the same bucket producing the same milk!

    Yah the world is full of veagance! If ur not inlove with someome why are u even with them? Is it to hurt innocent people while you make urself feel better by saying “im playing it safe” Bull! Itz plain selfishness! I truly salute all the openly gay and lesbian people,yal are heros in ur own kind!

  159. Mababez on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 9:35 am 

    I have a friend who’s also an after9. You should hear him talk about gays, you’d think he hates them with passion. He got engaged 3 months back to a lovely girl shame. I’ll never tell his fiancee coz my loyalty lies with him. A part of me feels sorry for her, another thinks she’s just pretending how can she not see the signs that her man is into men.

  160. kimmo on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 9:40 am 

    @ anon ….am scared , shaking for that matter, whats the world coming to????

  161. Nerlee on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 10:54 am 

    Tjo modimo kanti soJola nobani, the after9 rate is realli increasing **its scary**

    Sigh–> silent prayer

  162. LadyM on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 11:12 am 

    LMAO at Nthoentle going into labour! kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!! eish please dont kill me so early.

    tjo at married guys being gay. *hand over mouth* hai shame, ku rough for us single people mos. will we ever get shelad?

  163. mbulela on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 11:22 am 

    can we get NATO to bomb silentblog ville?
    We need Anon here.
    You just can’t leave people high and dry like this.
    They need to come.

  164. Nthoentle on Wed, 15th Jun 2011 5:00 pm 

    @LadyM I was n still am beyond shocked

  165. MsTeee on Thu, 16th Jun 2011 10:56 am 

    OMG!!! @Anon… That’s some scary ish *prays silently for a straight Hubby* Tjo hay ku tough stru….

  166. MissAN on Thu, 16th Jun 2011 12:19 pm 

    @ Znat! Tjo! Puts a spin on night out with the guys!

    @mbulela just spoke to Obeezy,he says he got this,the NATO. Lol.

    @Kimmo she makes my days with her caviar washed down with champagne attitude.

  167. Mr_Dezzel on Fri, 17th Jun 2011 3:56 pm 

    Wow it gets interesting as it goes its intriguing but I’m sure its to good to be true.how come only josh is mentioned through out the story.I’m still guessing this two characters are not straight

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