Anything Goes?

Zeal on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:23 am 



LOL @ you and your friends going to heaven for going to Ellis park!!

simple on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:00 am 



My sister sending me an sms athi she’s got an abscess..couldn’t she have waited until the morning,now I’ll neva go back 2 sleep

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:01 am 



2nd!!! Lemme sleep.

princesskoena on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:04 am 



I don’t get this story but it kept me on twitter the whole day Franky and Euphonik are Good Friends lol.but still I don’t get that Girl something is fishy maybe she was a side chick things turned sour and she exposed him.there are two sides to the story shez a pretty Girl who in the End became Irrelevant.Thanx to her the whole #Blacktwitter has Euphonik’s numbers. Someone please tell mphoMaboi to unblock me

princesskoena on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:21 am 



Then the chick claimed that her acc got hacked and she couldn’t find all the DMs I believe her phela Fresh is a Big guy he knows people who knows people e.t.c that is why in the End she Became irrelevant cz she couldn’t Back up what she was saying then she Screenmunched Euphonik’s numbers Question is how did Euphonik get her numbers this Girl knows ths Djs from way back a ska Raloka ka rena hle gape taba ye kept #Blacktwitter busy tjisaz!!The other thing is that we only see what Fresh is Saying we don’t see her texts what do you think she might have said to fresh “how wet” kwaaaaa

Fresh should Screenmunch her texts but we all know that he won’t!!

Gape a kena Boroko someone please Tell Mphomaboi to Unblock me a seke modire selo I swear

RexonaABC on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:51 am 



Go get some massage BS. Eish let me wait for the rest of the family.

cherries on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:20 am 



Hahaha BS nine niyongena eZulwini nigijima shem! The #screenmuncher story yona is complicated shem! @Princess the lady in question dm’d @sneshm(I think) her number last night, so if her dm was hacked into then they could have easily gotten her number! And, Euphonik tweeted her ukba Sly gave him her number, and he (Sly) would be in contact with her regarding the issue…
This 1 we gotta let unfold though..

golden diva on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:33 am 



I think we still have a loooong way to go as society, this girl exposes Fresh (even if her dog is sick, why DM her?!)And she’s being called names for it!!ok lemme say it again: She exposes a married man and she’s called a bitch, everyone pretty much overlooks the fact that fresh IS married (and a freakn fossil) to think we were celebrating women’s day the other day. and oeuphonic think its excusable to trash the girl and call her a bitch?! smh!

Nola on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:02 am 



Expose? How did she expose him if she only showed us one side of the story? & the whole hacking story like really? This story has to many holes. I’m a woman & I’m sorry if me not believing her story is seen as “women not sticking together”…this girl is childish nje she could have handled this better

Mini lilo on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:22 am 



Fresh and Euphonik sies!! And the screen muncher were is your pride girl

popeye spinach on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:01 am 



Eish! I wish it was friday already:-(
But I Soooo wish our IT department is still hacked ngizo access the internet kahle can’t wait to get to work

Sarafina on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:04 am 



Well done to Bafana, it seems 2011 is the year of ugly kits. The BF coach must just calm down, blaming SAFA for their loss.

UK riots, all SA coming back. What do you know violance is everywhere.

Dewani papa wag vir jou!

popeye spinach on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:06 am 



Hau Brown Sugar I thought you were already in heaven,thinking Bafana were going to win 5-0

lorrelai on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:32 am 



Guys please don’t forget to make your pledge for Somalia hey, sms SABC to 38722. A little will really go a long way this time.

Miranda on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:46 am 



I clearly need to get my ass to twitter…it looks like it’s loaded with the juiciest gossip. And bathong,Joburg dwellers,how disappoiting?ruri ruri,ka nnete nnete Ellis park go noya batho ba 7?shuuu,aowa jaang ke dihlong #not that I was going to go if I was in jozi,but haii no!

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:49 am 



Lol @ that Twillustration! She was not amused when she saw it. That should teach her not to DM married men in the dead of night. I hope they turn her into more of a laughing stock.

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:56 am 



Good morning guys!

thabo4real on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:57 am 



morning friends. Congrats to Bafana Bafana, you did us proud. I miss Nonhle Thema’s tweets this morning #SomethingMustBeWrongWithMe i just unfollowed DjCleo on twitter. The guy is so nagging, he is repeatedly sending followers a link for buying his facebook song and album(i got 12msges of the same link) the dude’s becoming too desperate and acting like his album’s the best thing since NT’s DnL contract. Well maybe its his marketing strategy but i ain’t buying it.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 7:58 am 



@golden diva ofcoz shes a bitch dont try validating crap.

Family i need some serious advice on a serious s ubject! Pls ke a le kopa thle..

SilentBloggar on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:00 am 



Hayi this DM screen muncher story is just hilarious to me. People are all reacting taking sides when you will never know the full story between Fresh and this girl. When, how and why did they start DM’ing each other. If it was nothing sinister they could have just tweeted each other. Fresh was caught with his pants down, Euphonic tried the ‘let’s trash her into silence stategy’ that didn’t work, when she didn’t back down he tried to phone her to placate her. This is a big mess, but who really care though, it’s just funny.

Alexis on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:23 am 



Morning everybody!

Nokxie on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:27 am 



Ive been told that when I send you a DM & delete it on my side, it also disappears from your inbox……so i think thats the only plausable reason

But ya why not also screenmunch her convo

I have a dozen munches from DJs in my folder and I also muched my responses just in case

The gal needed to be a bit better prepared for this exposeeee…..should have consulted me for action plan

Now have to wait for waters to calm/settle before anyone thinks of doing something like that

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:28 am 



i know there r topics being discussed but this is still anything goes ryt BS???

K here goes:
My housemate n I have known eachotha for 10yrs now n r very close frnds,wel atleast I thot so!
I’ve been suspecting something strange abt her for months now n cudn really say or gather facts on what it cud be.
In one of our cupboards she keeps multivits- Spirulina n immune boosters now i ddnt pay much attention to this coz shes always been one for supplements.
Fast forward to 2months back i was away n when i came back to the house there was this container of pills written Atripla i opened them n it was sum oblong white pills with 123 on them, i quickly went on google to confirm my suspicions basically n what i found there makes me wish i hadnt seen this container coz nw i dnt knw what to do, i found thats its ARVS. My heart almost popped out literally! She came back late that day. In the morning i was tempted to open so i did n the container wasn there bt the usual things. I opened all the containers there n found the same pills in the Spirulina one, at this point my system was in too much shock to handle this coz the same container has been in our cupboard for nearlly a yr now n ive always thot its supplements of sum sort n never suspected a thing.
Now here’s my concern: Shes such a beautiful 24yr old n met this nice guy beginning of the yr n there was a point when she thot she was pregnant n buying preg kits, i ask myself did she tel the guy? coz if not then i dont know how i’d face her knowing she put sum1s life at risk like that.
The dilema: it’s been 2months since ive known for sure n i’m going thru different emotions with her, I’m angry! Angry to think she cud fall n bleed n i’d help her unknowingly yet she duzn tell me this thing…I’m angry again coz for a whole yr now shes known n she doesn trust me enough to tell me this after all the ups n downs we’v been thru together, i’m also angry at myself for thinking, ”she shudv told me by now”, coz i dont really know if what its like to b in her shoes maybe if roles were reversed i wudn either.
Everytime i look at her nw i’m thinking abt this n ive since noticed that shes got this unspoken pain inside of her n i wish she cud talk to me.

Now Family i wanna know: what do i do? Do i approach her n tell her i know (i’ve bn so tempted!)? Do i wait n maybe she will at sum point? Am i wrong to expect her to tel me? We’r close like sisters n there was a time wen we cud talk abt anything..Why not this??
GUYS PLS HELP!

PS (thanx for this blog BS n i’m sorry for such a looooong post my ppl)

snapshot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:30 am 



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Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:34 am 



Hello peeps. Just wanted to share with you that I got the job that I went to an interview for earlier this month and I am over thr moon. The only problem is that they want me to start next week and I handed in my resignation in the 4th of August but my employer is not hearing any of it and wants me to serve a months notice but I cant because this I am on contract(without benefits( at the old job and they have told me that they are not making a counter offer do if I lose this new job at the end of my contract I will be jobless so I cant go for that. I am just sad that this is my last week at my old job and will miss every one but on the exciting side,its a new city and a new environment

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:37 am 



@Fabulicious I its best not to confront her, she will tell you in her own time.

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:37 am 



Nokxie i dont understand, what action plan. you do realise exposure in south africa of this kind doesnt get you book deals, a reality show etc. that only happens in hollywood. now if the djs you are munching were “normal” people like sipho from next door, would you still have this overwhelming desire to expose his shenanigans?

snapshot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:38 am 



@Fabulicious uyaphapha nana, why go through all this trouble of searching and googling the tables, i mean my friend used to take her ARV’s in front of me considering i did not know they were ARV’s and i never questioned or googled, until i stumpled on her test results tjo i died, felt like asking or telling our other friend but i knew that she has verbal diarhoea so i couldn’t tell her, kept it to myself and now im fine with it, i pretend i don’t know anything and life goes on.

HIV is very sensitive especially to young people, so just forget it she will tell you when she is ready,im sure by now she has this feeling that u already know

snapshot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:40 am 



@Kusihlwa congratulations, are you coming to JHB hope u not going to Thohoyandou and say u happy its new city lol

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:41 am 



@Fabulicious, i would say wait for her to tell you when she’s ready. She’s probably worried about how you’ll take the news, trust me people’s reactions can depress you when you tell em big news, talking from experience & it wasn’t anything as big as this. She’s not in that space yet so just be a good friend & wait.

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:41 am 



hey congrats Kusi just follow you heart. Is the new job permanent?

SassyOne on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:41 am 



This ‘screenmuncher debacle’ is actually quiet saddening! The mere fact that other girls are laughing @simplywhatwhat and calling her whore and and! Kanjani though? Fresh beeeeeeeen cheating,everyone knows this! Hell last year he was banging my 22yr old friend! And yes my friend was wrong for banging a married man-trust I agree! So can that two bit whore Euphonik and that snot Franky stop being childish! I tell yall Fresh is the Tiger Woods of S.A,girls are just scared to come out! That big oaf,sies!

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:42 am 



Hai man! o kae anty Softy bathong

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 8:43 am 



lol@Snapshot,Jozi, never. I am a small town girl. I am moving from Durban to Petermaritzburg, as well as from entertainment to hard news. luckly I dont have children to uproot,just me and hubby.

Lela on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:00 am 



I have never laughed ike I did last night on Twitter. This munching ish is the business. Whatever the case is okusalyo Fresh DMd the girl and Eupho attacked the girl and went as far as creating an award for her,these Djs have time nhe. The next thing he calls the girl for what if she is just a dilusional girl,hayike my favourite part was the girl munching his number too,kwaaaaaa. The hilarity that was the comments on the issue from people complaining about their DMs being dry to those saying we will now go back to Telkom public phones.

Grapes on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:00 am 



@Lusta what happened whith the lady that was coming on to you? did you manage to let her go? if so how did she take it?

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:03 am 



@Kusi congrats ngani ka ma hope you enjoy Umgungundlovu. @Fabulicious..curiosity killed the cat, anyway i would suggest that you ask her and let her know that you know, she might not be telling you because she is afraid of your reaction, make sure that you are emotionally ready as well. The fact that when you look at her you are thinking of her status must be dealt with.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:06 am 



@Snap i only googled to confirm what i was already suspecting, if that was wrong of me then i’m sorry bt atleast now i know.
I have an enquisitive nature so thats why, like i said i wish i hadnt coz now that i know i’m NOT at peace. She doesn haven any real close friends n her mom passed away early last yr so i’m thinking of all these things that shes going thru n not talking to me, i’m yearning to give her a shoulder but now i cant do that coz akathethi.

She probably suspects that by now i know (not sure abt this) n i ask myself if thats the case then how does she think im taking the whole thing, her knowing that i’d do anything for her.
I’M Angry *crying* that she doesn’t trust me that much, that maybe i havent been a good friend to her afterall…eish i dunno..

Well Done KUSI!! Funny how its mostly the interviews we doubt that lead to getting hired n when all went well (according to u) ungakhe ufumane ne call le ye rejection

kimmo on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:07 am 



@kusi welldone!!
morning all

Grapes on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:07 am 



@Kusihlwa congrats…
I am hoping to move to Pmb as well before the end of the year

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:08 am 



@ Kusi, is it that interview ya di maths tests & percentage defeceits & such. Nice one then, you nailed it mos, congrats babe:)

Lela on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:09 am 



Congra Kusi so you will be working for NW? Hubby has to also move naye?

bongi on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:09 am 



@ Fabulicious DO NOT i repeat DO NOT ask her. These are the reason why hiv+ people dont share ngoba now you will have along list of WHY’s and she wont have the answers. The guy who is sleeping with was supposed to go test with her before balale without the CD or he knows about her status already and is fine. To me it seems like your friend is living a positive life and u happy, dont spoilt that. In most case gals her age dont even wanna take ARV’s until they are bedridden.Dont stress alot about this its gonna affect your friendship with her.

@ Kusihlwa congrats on your new job. You deserve it gal.Unganqabi ke apha ekhaya.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:12 am 



popeye..Mapakisha..BlindFold thank you for responding….

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:16 am 



morning guys..(((((((hugs))))

@fab:Don’t be afraid to ask how your roommate is feeling or talk about what it’s like to have HIV when you’re alone together. Pretending like nothing’s happened won’t make everything better, and avoiding the topic may lead your friend to think you’re ashamed too. It might help to ask, “Do you feel like talking about it?” Don’t focus too much on your friend’s health, though — when people feel good, they might not want to be reminded about health issues.If a friend tells you he or she has HIV, it’s a sign of trust..or u can actually take opportunities to speak in a positive, supportive way about people in the media or movies living with HIV so your friend knows you won’t judge him or her. its your choice mara at the end of the day ITS A PERSONAL MATTER MY DEAR..REMEMBER THAT..

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:16 am 



@fabulicious, leave her alone. She’s probably to told her true friends. She knows that you’ll be judgemental. Don’t you dare confront her. She’s not stupid enough to let you touch her blood. You’re coming off as condescending which is the probable reason she’s keeping you in the dark.

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:18 am 



CONGRAH KHUS:)
how wet are u nonke? ..lol dont kill me i just felt like saying that ?

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:18 am 



Hey family.Anyone know of scalp fungal infections.Fell sick yesterday.My face just started swelling after having had a Brazilian weave put in *bout 3 days ago.Was also having a yellowish discharge oozing from my hair.So to make it short went to Drs late at nite and they said my situation was serious,they shaved me bald and gave me a heap of medication.Was in shock could not ask any questions but now want any info.Will I heal,will my hair ever grow back and so on.Eish and Monday have to be back in Ghana.

baby_doll on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:18 am 



Falling in love is so wonderful (“,) Shem i had almost given up

Vesa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:21 am 



@fabu….this is a tough one. I understand your frustration. But her decision not to tell you this aspect about her life shouldn’t change your friendship at all. I understand that as a friend, we always feel we should know everything about one another, but it’s not always the case. Sometimes as individuals, there are certain things we don’t share with anyone and it’s not about trust or anything like that.

So keep what you know to yourself, and don’t confront her or even make her aware that you know.

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lorrelai on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:30 am 



@Fabu, u wanted to be sure my dear, so nothing wrong with that googling, u were shocked. My sister is HIV positive too and she hasn’t told me yet. I understand, it’s not about me but her being ready. I don’t think your friend doesn’t trust u, maybe she’s just not ready.

Vesa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:31 am 



Kusi….congratulations!

fabu…don’t feel bad for going as far as googling! I’ve also done it. My cousin was not breastfeeding her newborn baby and giving him Nan Pelargon….I hadn’t seen that formula anywhere before, so I went and googled it. I got all the answers I needed. I’ve never asked her about it as I feel it’s none of my business.

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:35 am 



@Pakzin, yes its the maths one, I asked the HR guy about my score on that one and he laughed for a long time and told me I did poorly but he will not tell me the score he said I have to see it for myself.
@Lela,yep, hubby has to move with me and look for a new job but it was his choice.
@Fabu,Kimmo,Bongi,BlindFold and WI thanks bo lovies,its a new chapter and I will still be pary of the JC community always. @Grapes if you do move down there holla @your girl.

dejane on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:36 am 



Morning all.
Congrats Kusi
My morning’s been off to a horrible atart. Lost my bb this morning in a taxi. Whoever took it has now switched it off.. Fcuk im so jinxed. I’ve lost so many phones. Im so angry at myself.

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:38 am 



Where are my comments going to.

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:40 am 



@dejane sorry luv.

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:42 am 



@Kusi congrats girl.Happy that hubby is coming with you.

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:43 am 



@baby_doll,happy new romance,its a sweet taste isnt it? @dejane, I know how you feel. I lost mine last year in a taxi and it had airtime and that was it.

PurpleRain on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:43 am 



Eish guys i had to come out of silentville today because i need your help. I have been seeing this guy for a month now, yesterday he asked me what is he to me and at the risk of coming out as forward i didnt answer. He gave me these options: 1. Friends with benefits 2. Boyfriend. I still didnt answer him so i said he must answer me first. His response was, i am a beautiful girl whom he likes spending time with and he wouldnt mind if i told him i was using him for sex. He went on to say, if i found a guy that i liked i should go for him and i can terminate the relationship anytime i want to. Now that my dignity is down the drain what do i do?

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:47 am 



@family please can anyone give me any infomation they have on scalp fungal infections,anything.

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:47 am 



@purplerain, this guy wants you to say friends with benifits so that he can go fool around outside if he wants to. cos if you catch him cheating he will say, ya you said you are not a serious couple. he probably has a gf

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:48 am 



@DrDee, ha, I cant leave him here,izingane zase DUT azidlali kanjalo zihlasela one time

Vesa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:49 am 



@Purple rain…why was it difficult to tell him what he is to you? And how did y’all hookup? You didn’t clear the terms of engagement first?

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:50 am 



@PURPLE…PLS ELABORATE SISI HT DIGNITY PART..:Now that my dignity is down the drain what do i do?

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:54 am 



@purplerain,usile lowo, he just wants to chow you and have a relationship on the side,na nah nah. I would advise you to continue giving him a slice of your cake if you are looking for a no strings attached relationship but if you are looking for something real close the bakery and move on.

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:54 am 



@PurpleRain, you need to terminate that relationship. The guy is trying to tell you that he’s not in to you. He can see that you’re way in over your head but he’s too chicken to tell you that he doesn’t feel the same way as you feel for him. Leave him now if you’re in this for the long haul. You’ll get hurt.

PurpleRain on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:55 am 



@jellytot worse part is, he told me he is not a relationship person cause the idea of telling someone you love them is crap

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:56 am 



DrDee here a link abt the info and different types ne

http://www.bupa.co.uk/individuals/health-information/directory/f/fungal-skin-infections

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 9:57 am 



@dexter that wasn necessary, so i’l ignore it.

Thank you guys, i appreciate all ur views on this as different as they r.
Jus the thot that once shes on these pills now its going to be forever kills me. I feel her pain, she looks like shes coping but iv since realised that she avoids talking abt the disease, b4 i knew i’d say sumthing concerning yona n shed jus walk away or change the subject.
When sumthing on tv is said abt it she has no opinion whatsoever.
I came across sumthing on the net that said when ppl r ashamed of this or they dont want anyone to know they keep their meds in other containers, meaning they go thru the trouble of decanning them like she does,eish this is hard.
I imagine myself asking her n then the opposite..pretending i don’t know n i think i’l jus have to wait for her to be ready.
N now lasnyt when i went into her room for sumthin else on the bed was a business card written ‘siyayinqoba’ n sum lady’s number on it.

I’m so angry with this disease!!! Shes so young n beautiful inside n out n bright, one oof the most selfless ppl i know! Life is so Unfair!

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:04 am 



Yeah it’s always best to ignore the truth

TheSushiQueen on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:05 am 



@PurpleRain- if he was into you and wanted to be your man, you would know. Simple as that. If a man really wants you to be his woman, he will make sure u know it. #my2cents

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:05 am 



@jellytot worse part is, he told me he is not a relationship person cause the idea of telling someone you love them is crap

he’s not worth yo time and punani…ogoja skoloto mmawe so ere le di chomi finish without benefits osele jwang..
*be strong fab:)

Grapes on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:09 am 



@Purplerain tell him where you come from izinja zijaha onogwaja…not the other way around
@Kusihlwa will do
@Baby_doll I know what you mean about almost giving up (not that I have found someone) still looking:-)

@BS please start a JC dating service naku sizogugela emakhaya

PurpleRain on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:10 am 



@vesa we did, it was the lets see how this will go typa thing. @WI now that i know that i was nothing but the girl he likes seeing naked. @dexter you are on point there

Tee.tee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:12 am 



lol im so happy with peeps letin knw ka di vacancies.sum of us nid them.dankie san!

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:13 am 



@WI thanx dear.

@JoneighGALAXY™| GP ZA | AFRICA | 22CD64B6 on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:14 am 



Bafana Bafana made me proud, what a brilliant match. It’s a pity that it was only a friendly.

@Kusihlwa Congratulations my sweet pea. *Pops champagne for u* I think it’s wise u drag your man w/ b/c Kuyanyiwa out there.

@Fabulicious Your friend probably hasn’t garnered the strength to disclose to the public yet. It’s not about how long we’ve known one another, it’s about how comfortable is she w/ her status. You might find that she’s been struggling to come to terms w/ her status thus she’s still secretive about it. She is entitled to her space.

@Snapshot is in love. Ungabibitheki manje, izingane zase Jozi azidlali kanjalo my love, zihlasela one time. That’s all I’m saying now.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:14 am 



@fabu,
you are between the devil and the deep blue sea.
Everyone says you should not ask but the problem is that you will have to live with the pretence for a very long time.
How well can you pretend?That is the price you pay for being inquisitive.Not a bad thing anyway.
More importantly,you have to stop feeling sorry and angry with her for not telling you.It is her perogative.you can’t usurp that right and you can never tell her reason until you hear from her.
Who knows she may have decided never to tell anyone.
Not even her pregancy scenario is enough reason for you to be judgemental.

Mr Law on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:18 am 



Congrats to Bafana, when is joyous 15 part 2 comes out??? or there is any part2?? When Rebecca Malope goona record another Live dvd!!! What is happening with Metro Fm Music awards I haven had anything about this year awards!!

snapshot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:21 am 



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Lol kwaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!u just killed me, o gosh “Ungabibitheki manje, izingane zase Jozi azidlali kanjalo my love, zihlasela one time”

Noted

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:22 am 



Fabu…maybe u are negative abt AIDS that’s why yo mate find it difficult to open up to u.

U shud rather not say anything to tell. Don’t tell that u know she has HIV. The mere fact that she’s well-informed and accepted her status. She doesn’t need anyone to feel pity for her or being judgemental.

Give her time

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:22 am 



Congradulation to my Darling Kusi.Wish you all the best babe *backtosilentville*

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:23 am 



Purplerain…leave that childish madafaka. He doesn’t know what he wants.

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:28 am 



@fabulicious is just using her ‘concern’ for her friend to justify her inquisitiveness. From reading what she said I could pick up that she tends to be someone who’s bossy, always up on other people’s business, very judgemental and she’s always finding silly excuses for her actions. Why did you open your friends pill container in the first place when it clearly reads Spirulina on the outside? Her friend isn’t a kid. She’s taking ARVs which means she’s not in denial and it means she’s got it under control.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:30 am 



@purple rain,
what do you want?
that is the most important question.
forget what he says and what he wants.what do you want.
bear in mind that he does not want a relationship.
so what do you want?

snapshot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:32 am 



haibo guys @Fabu is not negative about AIDS the very same feeling that she has i also had it, mind you mina my family chose to hide from me that my aunt and daughter are positive, i never pushed ngazithulela nje, just each time i take my friend along to visit my aunt, the friend will comment that my aunt looks positive, besengibuza ukuthi uwudoctor yini.

my friend also, i saw ama results, ngi right will never ask, wena Fab, leave her alone one day she will let the cat out of the bag and then you can tell her u knew all along, please don’t treat her like a child, umyeke if she wants to go out in the cold without a jersey

ThatoM on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:32 am 



Morning bo skat! @Kusi congratulations babe we love seeing ppl progress in this house. @BS next time I’m going with u shem yaz I so wanted to be there to see my hubby Tshepo Masilela sigh @purplerain etswa daar he’s playing u that guy.

simple on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:36 am 



Congratulations Kusi…@fab,she doesn’t have 2 tell you dear,maybe she’s coping in the way she knows how!

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:36 am 



I think we should have a “DELETE POST” option. Things we post sometimes don’t make sense coz we’re typing very fast.

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:37 am 



amen pule..kennete eo..what is it that she is benefiting kule current soon to be ex bf yakhe vele? cos wammona hase le short term material ke monthly shag business..lol

mina my cousin wathi kithi hai i have this heart failure condition oho..kanti u pos ne,took her ehospital and it was confirmed and now she took her pills after anonanyana she decided to giv her pills to her neighbour(y angazi mxnm) and she got so sick yezwa and i khapad her again to get i treatment entja and now she knows i wont go with her again aowa…lol and treat her as normal

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:40 am 



@Grapes, dating agencies are so old fashioned.I’ll prefer an escort agency.very transactional.
Just my choice.

PurpleRain on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:47 am 



Thank you all guys. Now im puting on that little number of mine and bringing the sarcastic smile just to give him his medicine

Biskiti on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:48 am 



Congrats Kusi, hope they’ll treat you well at the new place.

Fabu, shuu, that’s a sad tale, mara you don’t have to confront them. You already know, so just be the good friend you are to her. I’m sure one day soon, she;ll feel comfortable enough to tell you, but i’m sure she can see the pity in your eyes. People know these things.

I don’t blame your inquisitive nature…lol.. i remember i also googled my ex-gf’s prevention pills. I mean, she used to be very strict on the time she takes them, like her life depended on it…lol. so that kinda freaked me out, thinking she could be popping diARVs in ma face just so that i won’t suspect jack (just like your roomie did). Needless to say, I still used 100% protection, don’t play like that.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:52 am 



@facebook im not negative abt hiv at all n she knows that. When a close aunt of mine died 2yrs back fullblown she saw my struggles, we were both agreeing that had she said sumthing sooner we wudv been there for her,helped her, loved her bt i guess when sumthing happens to u personally its a different case.

@ All who’ve responded on this im so very grateful, now i know that i wont ask her! To those who said i shud-NOTED but now that i think abt it i wont b able to, i’d jus cry more than her n i dont want that esp if im the one who starts it.
JG thank u for that, ITS A PERSONAL ISSUE, now that i know i’ll support her silently like iv been doing since finding out, i’l love her even more n avoid giving her any stress. ( U always make so much sense wena)
I love it when shes happy n then theres that odd moment when she gets emotional @nothing like when Luclay lost the $s she cried so much saying Life is not fair, i knew what she was on about…

Thank You JC peeps!!

Grapes on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:55 am 



drags Nkey out of silentville…hhayi Ntombi, we miss u when you are silentblogging

Grapes on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:58 am 



one thing I learnt this Women’s Month is “as women we should stop settling for less in our relationships and no dating married men or another woman’s man knowingly”…

Sgoloza on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:58 am 



Good morning JCer’s! Nothing feels as good as donating towards such a worthy cause. I might not have much but donated anyway to the Somalians. Hope it actually gets to them, phela niyazi la SA banjani! I couldn’t help but cry at the pictures I saw, with babies starving and toddlers looking so depressed. I can be very emotional. It’s times like these I wish I was wealthy, I’d donate such large amounts.

Another thing I want to add regarding these AIDs stories, I was dating this “lovely” person, who apparantley is “sick” (heard this from an ex of this person). We did have a moment of passion and did not use protection “properly” lets say it broke, and we continued. I saw this person recently but looks very much okay to me. is it a case of a jealous ex or could this person really be HIV positive? what are the early symptoms, I’m afraid to test

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 10:59 am 



Hi guys…
I’ve been silent blogging for a while now, I just felt like getting different opinions about this ish I’m going through.
I’ve been with this guy for 2years straight, never cheated on him. On Sunday I caught him in bed with some chick… I got so pissed that I beat him (he has a blue eye and is badly bruised), he didn’t fight back. I didn’t find it neccessary to attack the girl so I just looked at her. I trashed his bedroom (I know it may seem ghetto), but how could he? I mean I gave this guy my life on a silver platter even stopped using protection. I feel used and disrespected. He still has the audacity to tell me he loves me and that he wants to marry me.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:01 am 



to those whov been to where i am thanx for understanding….we r all affected by this in sum way or the other.
The cure mus come already nayo eish

GeorgyPorgie on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:02 am 



@Fabulicity: mna this is what i did 2 my cousin. She gave birth and wasnt breastfeeding, so i knew sumthin was UP coz he brestfed older kid til he turned 3yrs. she started losing weight n having sores on her feet n ugly rash on her face, every 1 in d family pretended not to see and we are a BIG family.we all discussed her and every 1 was concerened but nothing. out of concern i called my mom who is a nurse and she travelled to see her and she spoke 2 her.The next time i saw her she almost murdered me!she was soooo angry, that i’d betrayed her somehow, but we spoke and she told me that it is not easy even for her to accept her status, how much more to admit to us that she is indeed HIV+.So rather wait for your friend to come to you.

Hi everybody, been silent bloggin fo two years now!!!

lamarOdom on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:02 am 



Hello guys,I am new and sorry to bother you but pleaseeeeeee help me

I like to check my partners phone,and sometimes I do find out messages to girls,I get hurt but never ask him. I get raelly mad when his phone is off and I can’t see things. When we have a fight he always has someone to sms and say maybe “I miss you” as soon as we are ok,he stops and be a good man to me. We been together for more than 5 yrs and whenever we fight and wanna leave him,he begs and cries and even manupulate me and I get soOoooooo confused when I think of the smsz I see. I am I wrong for snooping if I know he’s up to no good?

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:07 am 



@ms.J what opinion do you want? An opinion about you beating him up, trashing his place or what?

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:08 am 



The 11-year-old boy, who lives in Romford, east London, admitted stealing a waste bin worth £50 through a smashed window at the town’s Debenhams during looting by 20 to 30 young people at about 10.30pm on Monday.

District Judge James Henderson sent him home on bail while a pre-sentence report was put together. He said the boy was too young for either a tagging device or time behind bars.

A 23-year-old scaffolder broke down in tears after admitting taking part in the looting in Hackney. Christopher Heart, a father of two from Chingford, was found wearing a pair of new Lacoste trainers and a bodywarmer with the security tag still on at about 11pm on Monday.

He pleaded guilty to entering JD Sports in Mare Street with intent to steal and was bailed under curfew for sentencing at Wood Green crown court.

Alexis on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:11 am 



Hello, am i still blocked? if so please unblock me

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:13 am 



@lamarOdom; LEAVE HIM! He shows you no respect by having these chicks on the side. You deserve so much better sisi. The fact that you feel the need to snoop proves that uyazi there’s something to be concerned about. If you trusted him and knew he was on the straight and narrow, you wouldn’t be snooping. 5 years means nothing if there’s no respect or trust. All that’ll happen is you’ll stay and things will just escalate. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t mess around like this… That is my humble opinion.

Vesa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:16 am 



Today Anything Goes is Agony Aunt! Lol

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:17 am 



@DexterSUPERIOR, no not about that. I know it was wrong and unlady like. I’m just so confused because he expects me to forgive him and act normal. I mean who does this nonsense and still have demands??? I just needed a objective view as to how I even begin to deal with this.

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:19 am 



@lamarODOM, you’re wrong for being with someone who doesn’t love you. Dump him!

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:20 am 



@Georgy thanx for that, I wont. U myt have jus saved her life tho by telling ur mom she doesn hv to thank u,hopefully shes taking treatment now.

@Sgoloza there r no visible symptoms for hiv my brother. The only way to know if u have it or not is to test. I dont advise u to go test UNLESS u’re ready emotionally for whatever the outcome will be, u HAVE to be ready so work on that fear first by educating urself abt it ne.

@misJ yho thats heavy hey!! Sum1 here once said they mus stop saying we waiting for death to either see if we’l go to heaven or hell, we’re already in hell!
What a cruel n selfish act on ur partners side, but God will deal with him accordingly, give him to God!

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:25 am 



@fabulicious my faith is the only thing that’s keeping me sane right now… I just don’t know anymore.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:25 am 



@Miss J,i can’t place my hand on it but something tells me he loves you and slipped.Whatever you do please find out if he was protected.Since you found them in bed maybe you should know whether he was wearing rubber or not?
whatever you do,pls get tested.

@lamar, a former housemate once told me a maxim that i live by;if you snoop hard enough you will find something you wish you never knew.

@Sgoloza,please don’t wait for no symptoms,test like your life depends on it cos it probably does.Fear kills more than HIV.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:28 am 



@Veza lol makes me think of that Aaaargh Aza……I’m in Agony…
Theres lots of help to be found here tho so thats why ppl jus pour their hearts out when in dier (sp) need!

kimmo on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:30 am 



why is everybody having problems today kante?? “calls sis dolly”

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:30 am 



@ms.J, you girls are such suckers for love. It blinds you silly. If he was the one who found you in bed with another you’d have been history right now. You have two options hun… Forget what he did and stay together until you catch him in bed again (because he’ll interpret you taking him back as approval of his cheating ways) or just simply leave him.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:30 am 



dont leave him becuase you founded out he is cheatingby you snooping, leaving him because you dont love him anymore, he doesn’t respect you anymore, he abuses you,,, dont inavde my privacy and then figth with me about it!

Fabu…give her space hun, and dont feel sorry for her, she will tell you when she is ready!

Purple rain…it’s either the guy is not into you, or he is into you so bad he hates too admite, what does your intution say about him?

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:31 am 



Shu!mathata@lamarOdom and ms.J.The sad part about guys who cheat and then cries when you want to leave is that they believe they own you. In most cases they are the one who kill their girlfriend when they finaly decide to leave them,nxa

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:31 am 



@Pule this is just too much hey… I didn’t see any condoms so nje angazi. I’ll definitely get tested. Not sure about it being a slip up though.

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:37 am 



Too day JC is hott!! Pity can’t stay long…

@ Lorreli and Lungsta… I donated despite my qualms izolo..As proof the sms says ‘Thanx 4 caring….Ref Somalia’ I do hope they use the 80/20 rule…You know where the 80% of my R10 should be donated…tltltl

@Fabulous…I think @Lorrelai and Georgie Porgies’ advices are the best as they have been through a similar situation. Its sad indeed,maybe she is not ready.

Lol @ Dexter…Unolaka namhlanje…

Well done @ Kusi!!!

@MissJ!! Tjo…Are you not Mshoza nje…Blue eye? What? I am glad you beat him up black and blue and left the chikita alone!!

Guys please I am going to get into trouble as my bf knows my username on JC!! Anyways!! Shoo… So I always tell him about the things on JC blah blah…and he is a private man,just reads.. *bebe I am sorry,this news is too hot and a horse is kicking my chest,its not always I have such breaking news to say on JC*

So I am busy telling her about this #screenmuncher chick and Fresh and that something is going on down on Twitter though I don’t know what just getting briefed by JC bloggers…So he tells me apparently #Screenmuncher asked him out sometime last year!!! He was walking alone and she with her friend,#Screenmuncher’s friend tells my bf that she likes him and my bf says nah,he wasn’t interested. I believe what he tells,Fresh just has the moolah and the power,he is goodlooking my bebe and Fresh has nothing on him when it comes to the looks,so I am starting to wonder mybe usukela uFresh,if she can shela him then why not Fresh,who is a Dj?

@ DrDee..You a Dr why don’t you know which meds to take OOops you not that Dr,whats the problem? Is it flacky,sensitive to heat or the sun? Chances are its eczma..

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:39 am 



@DexterSUPERIOR thank you for being so honest. I guess its no up to me how I really deal with this. @popye its sad how these men claim to love us but kill us at the same time.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:41 am 



@misJ dexter’s ryt…theres no two ways abt it sisi, it’s either or! Men will never stop cheating coz women always forgive!
Go test if u’re ready…wait for window period to go again, coz u dont know how long hes been diggin in other places n with or without a raincoat then n move on swiftly with urlife. If its slipped b4 hel ‘slip’ again n maybe theres a reason Y u had to catch him red handed (u said u carry faith with u?), mayb God has bn tryna show u all this long while that this person isnt ryt n uv bn ignoring til u had to c it live!
I dont blame u on ur ‘ghetto’ ways n its a good thing u left the chick out of it- b it she knew abt u or not.
Move on with urlife ul find one who deserves u

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:44 am 



Phew!!! Anything Goes-turned-Dear Dolly-turned-Dr Phil

Koeks on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:44 am 



Mmmhhhh…. 2day is DEAR DOLLY Day la ekhaya.Back 2 silentville..

lynx on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:46 am 



@Fabu
I understand your frustration of not being a part of the “secret”, You love her and you wish she should trust you enough to tell you everything and play a part in her struggle.. My sister never told me that she was HIV, I found out accidentaly..When we(3 gals) visiting home during the holidays we always go through our respective luggage for that particular item we would claim as ours from the other.. and I stumble on to her ARV’s that way.

Our father had recently passed and she was very emotional, I did’nt know whether to tell her I knew her status or not.. and suddenly everything made sense, she was extra careful..secluding her stuff, and maintained to have her own utensils*which I always thot was rubbish* I had been well informed about the disease and knew how mentally abusive/draining it is. Knowing my sister the way I did she thot we wud feel sad for her hence she never told us, but I DID NOT..I felt sorry for the disease for it was now found out and I was not about to let my sister live in fear and in shame, for what..? I just said to her ” I stumbled upon your pills… and I want you to know I am hear for you, like always..” I wanted her to know i did’nt fear the disease and she knew from our previous conversations and that I helped in homes… I knew those few words would open the channels of communcation…and from ther on we treated the disease like it was nothing..we encouraged her to STOP acting like she’s about to infect even the chair she sits on…

FROM your knowledge of her you will know whether to let her know or not..Gudluck

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:46 am 



Lol @ Pule and Lungsta’s advice to Miss_J separates the cheaters from the goodies…

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:46 am 



and that my dears is why i am abstaining! dont have sex if you cant handle the consequeses. ai clearly intersexions must be reapeted every month. your health, spirit and intelligence are your most valuable assets. please guys, ithlokomeleng!

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:54 am 



This has been going round on IM for a couple of days. Thought i’d post it here for everyone’s enjoyment

*******************************************************************************************************************

It is raining, and the little town looks totally deserted. It is tough times, everybody is in debt, and everybody lives on credit.
Suddenly, a rich tourist comes to town.

He enters the only hotel, lays a 100 Euro note on the reception counter, and goes to inspect the rooms upstairs in order to choose one.

The hotel proprietor takes the 100 Euro note and runs to pay his debt to the butcher.

The butcher takes the 100 Euro note, and runs to pay his debt to the pig grower.

The pig grower takes the 100 Euro note, and runs to pay his debt to the supplier of his feed and fuel.

The supplier of feed and fuel takes the 100 Euro note and runs to pay his debt to the town’s prostitute that in these hard times, gave her
“services” on credit.

The hooker runs to the hotel, and pays off her debt with the 100 Euro note to the hotel proprietor to pay for the rooms that she rented when she brought
her clients there.

The hotel proprietor then lays the 100 Euro note back on the counter so that the rich tourist will not suspect anything.
At that moment, the tourist comes down after inspecting the rooms, and takes his 100 Euro note, after saying that he did not like any of the rooms.
He leaves town.

No one earned anything.
However, the whole town is now without debt, and looks to the future with a lot of optimism.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how the United States is doing business today.

Enjoy your day and pay your debt maybe the money way owed me will get to me at last.

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:57 am 



@ MissAn does ya email beggin with your name then 8504@yahoo? If so check ya inbox sent you somfing nyana hope izosiza.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:57 am 



Dexter and Pule tell them like it is mates…i like your comments hahahah
MissAN…I am sure you feel good now ne? i do and i have made everyone i know donate too! yep the money will but food and medical supplies guys..!

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:58 am 



@lynx how dd she react when u approached her? Were u not scared? Dd u talk to anyone b4 approaching her or only u knew about it?
my roomy n i have always discected everything together, shes even stronger n more outsoken than i am. We the same age but im more like a lil sister to her coz shes strong bt i’m sensing the strain on her now that i know..

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:02 pm 



@ Lungsta… Was not against donating just you know what and my bebe says he is donating his piggy bank to them,its more than R10…so we must count that money…Will tell you how much it was.I hope med supply means…

@ Nkey… Thanks will check manje

@dejane..Eish,can you believe I am without a BB,never owned one..For some reason I lose expensive phones,hence not bothering anymore!!! But I think its time to buy or be a finders keepers loser weepers…Sorry about your phone.

@ Pule…I remeber a similar example in an Economics 1 class,how money is created,so crazy…

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:02 pm 



Okay after forgiving your BF/GF for cheating especially when you have caught him right handed HOW DO YOU SLEEP WITH HIM the next day vele,HOW DO YOU LOOK HIM/HER IN THE EYES and tell them that you love them???Just wondering

ms.J on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:05 pm 



Thanx to everyone… Who put gave their opinions… Means a lot!!!

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:07 pm 



sure dext….nnete fela
lungsta kunjani lapho?

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:07 pm 



Dear Mr …..

Thank you for responding to our advert.
Unfortunately your experience does not correspond with the specific requirement for the post.
Your CV will be considered for any suitable posts that may be available in future.

Rgds

… Accountants & Tax Consultants

I’m tired of these e-mails. Nx

Maybe they want us to manufacture the experience

Vesa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:10 pm 



Yesterday someone(female) on twitter asked how many times one is supposed to be cheatedall on till they decide to call it quits! It was interesting to observe that most men responded and for some reason most said 3 times! I wondered why 3 times

Lol @ Pule and Lungsta’s advice to Miss_J separates the cheaters from the goodies…
@MissAN….Interesting ne!

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:10 pm 



*side eyes* missAN.

I just have a nagging feeling that it might be a one off and he might never do it again.
If she truly loves him and he does likewise,why throw away a future for a one off mess?
i am not belittling cheating but i do not accept that argument that if he cheats once,he will cheat for ever.
i also do not acceptthe argument that the fact that he has not cheated is proof that he will never cheat.

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:14 pm 



@ Nkey there is nothing… missnoma8504@yahoo.com

Heh guys,you know God works in strange ways,I resigned from my student assistant job at UJ in April and there is a lady that cleans mara she really wanted more and everyone in the office knew she is doing the job just to pay her bills but still did her job kahle and with a smile. So me being the ever-so-helpful,I would send her CV’s around,call agencies when I got these chain sms,etc and I even assisted her with learners papers,and she passed her licence. So heloing someone who wants more out of life despite how small and unimportant that thing might be is such a rewarding experience…

So usually the student assistant jobs are given to students,so my good boss,did not have anyone in m ind to hire when I left,and the lady really knew our job and would assist us when we were fumbling,so he calls HR and HR says its fine,as long as he is happy ngaye,the job is hers. She workd 4 hours a day and her salary has increases by R1200!! I won’t lie,the were times I regretted resigning but I am sooooo happy that such good came out of it!! Ngiyabonga bazalwane.

Biskiti on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:17 pm 



Tough question wena Popeye, but really how do women do that?

Hei, our mothers le bona they’ve seen their fair shares of metlholo and they still stuck around. Maybe i’ve never loved like you’ve loved but i could never.

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:17 pm 



@ facebook join the club… cabanga… and they do not even tell you why,at least tell me why!!!

@Vesa… if you talking about Pule’s money analogy,it is crazy…Money is just numbers nje…

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:17 pm 



@pule….i am not belittling cheating but i do not accept that argument that if he cheats once,he will cheat for ever.
WHY DO U CHEAT IN THE FIRST PLACE VELE? U HAVE A GOOD THING GOING ENDLINI MOSAN and dont tell me abt being tired of eating cabbage everyday wara wara fish paste story tu…why?

and on this “If she truly loves him and he does likewise,why throw away a future for a one off mess?
like hello again why do u cheat on somebody u claim to love? thats sick and being selfish finish and klaar…future kamotho osa tshepahaleng? aowa

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:19 pm 



@ Vesa… oh I get it… and @Biskiti seems to be joing in.. Abafazi siphethe kanzima.

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:19 pm 



@ MissAn ”Done”

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:20 pm 



@ MissAn ”Done” on the correct email that you jus gave this time.

Julz on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:22 pm 



@Fabu: whatever your roommates reasons for not telling you are hers and hers alone. You have no right whatsoever to confront her about her HIV status, it is her status and she is entitled to decide whether or not to disclose it and to whom. By you confronting her you are taking away that very right and and intruding in your so-called close friends personal space. If you did do so it would be unwarranted and downright wrong regardless of the reasoning behind it.

Whether your reasons are to “help” her cope or ease your own inquisitive mind is irrelevant. People have their own coping mechanisims and just because you feel she should talk to you doesnt mean she has to. You already intruded on her personal boundaries by playing detective when clearly shes not ready to talk about it and she has gone the extra mile to hide it from you but now to interrogate her would just be cruel.

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:25 pm 



Thank You all.
All this love warms my heart….mhwaaaaa

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:25 pm 



@popeye,
you don’t have to sleep with them the next day.
trust hs been broken,it takes time to rebuild.
i simply do not subscribe to the idea that it will never be rebuilt.that is utopian and unreal.
if he works hard at rebuilding it,then give him a chance.
if he keeps a permanent side dish,that is a different matter entirely.or comes home at 3 am everyday from clubs and pubs while having a bevy of beauties on FB.
everyone keep giving examples of guys who cheated once and repeated it over and over again.i am sure there are examples of guys/girls who cheated once,repented and never went that route again.
This guy could be one of those,you never know.

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:26 pm 



guys I don’t get why people are giving @fabulous a hard time by being too inquisitive,I am certain there is more that made her suspecious than finding Spirulina was not Spirulina… In all honesty all of us would have googled the oblong pills…

@ Nkey lemme check.

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:28 pm 



Amen@Miss AN, God always makes a plan.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:29 pm 



Hi Widly ….

I cheat because it gives me adrenaline rush, my heart pumps faster and it is fun to do so..*sideyes the bashes frm bo-Lela, Miss AN and others after this comment*

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:30 pm 



Guys all is good. Adios…

Before I go… @ Pule ypu seem to be be the supplier of feed and fuel in that comment you sent,not that its prostitutes you shag per se,so if the love of your life cheated,would you continue with the relationship?

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:30 pm 



stru MA hows u love…and what if ke u Fab decided to take one pill nje to try out lama spirulina what would have happened vele incase beka funa naye ukubusta i immune system yakhe seeing amapilisi asendlini mostan..what then if abile le di comlications..(justifying the snooping part)

fufu on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:31 pm 



yo Miss J the same thing happened 2 me a month ago,he told me ukuthi he jst slipped,i forgave him and we got tested.nw i cant have sex with him without seeing that girl on top of him..

Brown Shuga on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:32 pm 



But guys sometimes you say “leave him” like leaving a guy you’ve been with for years is the simplest thing ever…

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:33 pm 



Tjo!! At @ Lungsta…Adrenaline rush… takes a leaf out f @Mablerhs black-on-black hate… White men jump out of planes for adrenaline what do black men do…

posh on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:33 pm 



@Fabu you are faced with a tough decision but like @lynx said you are much closer to the situation, take everything that has been said here and decide on the approach best suited for your situation.

To JC Dr eve’s please respond……BS once asked a question on Twitter on why girlfriends as in friends like advising ‘you’to dump your man if you tell them he messed up while they put up with a lot of isht from their boyfriends, forgiving them over and over again…

How many of you dumped your man on the spot after finding out that he was flirting with other women or on a date or had a fling?

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:34 pm 



hheee…*bekizandla efifeni yam* uthini “I cheat because it gives me adrenaline rush, my heart pumps faster and it is fun to do so..so owakwakho akenzi yo heart to jump like that anymore,adrenalin i low endlini or ur suplimenting sumthing that is missing kwakho?hence the fun part? thats a lie…whats the real reason mfo…then after utholani “cheaters award goes to”..drum rolling kinda feeling?
*ur a star MA..u did good ya:)

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:35 pm 



If you have cheated on your wo/man behind closed doors & didnt get caught then by all means…Take ur bf/gf back once you CATCH him or her cheating!!
BUT
If you have remained BOTH made the ‘commitment’ to stay faithful throughout and you catch em humping on the side…You would be a FOOL to even tolerate that!! Yes forgive them, but TAKING BACK someone who has cheated on you is just stupid!!

You will find another “soulmate” if not then accept hore o le fetwa *finish&klaar*

#MyOpinion

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:37 pm 



what do black men do…jumps out of umthanyelo aloyebsuku…kikiki

jump in bed with u jezebel lol kwaaaaa MA stru..

Rethabile on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:37 pm 



All i want know is what is SCREEN-MUNCH?!

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:40 pm 



Yah vele that “adrenaline rush” is there because cheating IS NOT NORMAL so your body, heartbeat & hormones will react….yet society makes it seem “normal”

People cheat for many reasons. For many of them, its an escape from reality (ie a sign of weakness)

Again #MyOpinon

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:43 pm 



@MissAN,
Yes i will.
because of what BS just said.
starting all over is not worth it a price to pay for a fling.
i will take time to heal but i will not walk away.
infact the reason why i might consider walking away is if she did it unprotected.
However i wish she doesn’t do it and in no way have i said that i cheat.

posh on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:45 pm 



kevcare “If you have remained BOTH made the ‘commitment’ to stay faithful throughout and you catch em humping on the side…You would be a FOOL to even tolerate that!! Yes forgive them, but TAKING BACK someone who has cheated on you is just stupid!!”

@KevCare I agree with you but in reality if women adopted this principle (or men), do you know how many men would be womenless and how many families would be broken, phela cheating is embedded in our culture, it’s chronic…
#it’s sad

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:47 pm 



eish @facebook askiesi it also always baffles me ukuthi bathi ithathwephi le experience if they dont give u a chance nxaa

@fabu eish i know how it feels to be kept in the dark yet u actually not in the dark cos u know but at least ur friend seems like shes got it under control mina i had two people close to my heart deteriorate from this disease and would never admit it until the last days and it was too late it hurts trust me …so try all different angles but without being pushy to show her that u’ll be there for her no matter what she’ll probably open up eventually

@MsJ ..yhoo askies lovie no one deserves that ..but if i may ask peeps who say leave mawuthola umuntu acheata …uyohamba kuze kube nini ?? are there guys who dont cheat?? i just believe there are those who just havent been caught yet ..my opinion dont shoot me

Julz on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:48 pm 



After my last disaster of a relationship where I kept being played for a fool, I can sympathise with a chick going through the same thing. With that said yes it might seem, I dont know whats the word, uppity or condecsending of a friend to tell you to dump your partner for cheating but that doesnt mean that its not good advice that is coming from a good place.

Cheating is just another word for disrespect. Where a dude steps out on you especially over and over again, it shows that he just does not respect you and thinks you to be a dummy that will stay faithful whilst he goes out and plays around. He knows how he would feel if you did that ish yet he thinks hes what, some demi god that can inflict that pain onto you and its all good?

Everybody deserves better than to have someone they love adore and cherish spit their love back at them and then expect things to be ok just coz they said sorry…eff your damn sorry…

Wooosaaaa, clearly I’m not over it lol!

prettylicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:50 pm 



Hello familly I’m new here . I’v been silently blogging, u guys are awesome bt I mst admit thou I can’t even do my work bcz of JC

Ndalenhle on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:52 pm 



@Msj, i know exactly what you going through iv been there myself, i caught my bf of 4years in bed with another woman, it had to be the worst day of my life, he apologised said it was a mistake and i asked him for reasons why he did it and he said he assumed i have stopped caring for him cos have not been giving him any attention and just always disrespecting him and not treating him like a real man (this is true, i have been). I forgave him even though i doubt i’ll ever trust him again, we have a beautiful 8month old boy and it just wasnt easy to decide to let him go like that cos i still really do love him.
It will take time to get over if you decide to stay with him and you must be prepared to go through a huddle of emotions cos from time to time you will remember what he did and will start being emotional all over again, it came running back to me now by reading your story. All the best…

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:53 pm 



Lmao @ MissAn’s “White men jump out of planes for adrenaline what do black men do…”

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:54 pm 



@fufu,
a month is too short for some people.
trust takes time.
love manking is an art that expresses trust.
sex is just an act.
give it time.make sure he is not just being remorseful but taking active steps to keep himself away from danger.
quit trying to find reasons why it happened.often times he doesn’t even know why but he sure knows the steps that landed him there.those are the steps he has to avoid.
If you have a good thing,work at preserving it.it is not worth giving up for a fling.
he made a mistake,betrayed your trust and was selfish but serperation is never the right response for selfishness.
you will probably se that girl on top of him for a while but if you suceed in repairing the trust,you will make love and realise that that jezebel never had what you had and if he truly repends,he knows that the fling was never worth it and will make every effort never to go that way.
Wish you all the best.

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 12:54 pm 



@BS Vele it’s not easy at all. But it’s definitely easier than living with a person you don’t trust one bit and are always wondering “When he’s not with me, who is he with?”

lynx on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:00 pm 



@fabu
I told her first without speaking to anyone else, I think deep down she wanted us to find out, but not from her.. I was not scared, we were just sitting and chatting and I told her..she opened up and we talked about it, whyl we were all together she instructed me to tell my other sister what I had found out from her luggage, and she was relieved that we now know..she had her moments of withdrawing but i think each of us have those moments.. and we all outspoken and we do need a little timeout at times so it did’nt botha us…

You mentioned you had an experience with a relative who died from the disease..? your reaction and the words you uttered when she/he passed are resonating with with your roomie/friend, if they were coming from an understanding perspective…she knows you wud support her and just have not found the courage to tel you…

(its a bit hectic today, stay strong:-)

kellyboogile on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:00 pm 



hello ya’ll,been in silentville for a while now *phew feels gud to be out*… ok so i have a problem,beginning of this year my friend and i started job huntinG,she told me bwt a post and told me to send my c.v there which i did,then we were both called to come for an interview same day,so we both didnt get an e mail or call from that company for three weeks so we just assumed we both didnt get it,the fourth week they called and told me to start rite away. i told her and she said she was cool at least 1 of us got it,i told her i feel bad and what not.but her cool didnt last for long i guess,whenever i call her to meet she always has the same excuse “i dont have money i dont work u know” i’ve tried to reach out to her but she keeps pushing me away i dont know wat to do anymore,we used to text/call each other everyday now we talk once in a month when i call or text her,WAS I WRONG TO TAKE THE JOB?

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:00 pm 



I also support the “leave your cheating partner” mentality. miss_a said it, how you gonna handle knowing/thinking/wonderingif he’s with her, everytime he’s not around? Everytime he’s on f.b/twitter/just on phone you wondering if he’s chatting to her. Nna i can’t shem, once I start suspecting that my guy is cheating, it’s normally correct & I can’t put myself through that torture. Once you’ve cheated then it’s adios amigo – even after 2 years of bliss.

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:01 pm 



@Ms.J & @Posh, look, obviously all situations are different. But, as a guy, its jus sad to see good women being ‘stuck’ le bo TaSfebe!
Im not judging and i too have been thru that cheating “phase” so nobody is perfect!
Cheating on your partner is damn easy!!! Any man and woman has an ex or potential they can hump on the side. Its a choice one makes. Most men CHOOSE to cheat….its hardly “by mistake” #PhuqWatUHeard

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:01 pm 



@Ma2Stash, i believe there are guys who don’t cheat.
Not that they are superior but maybe they are weak in other areas,have not had the opportunities,too scared of getting caught (not because they are not selfish),not found willing jezebels,not interested in the strings that come with affairs and too conservative to try escorts etc.
There are men who do not cheat but i do not think they are superior species to those who do.Cheating is not all that defines a man.
What i can never understand is a man tha tcheats without protection.Such deserve to be castrated.finsih and klaar.

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:03 pm 



@BS, you don’t leave someone because you want to. You leave them because you have to. Girls need to align themselves with that kinda mindset.

Of course it ain’t easy leaving your love but what’s the point of staying if all they do is hurt you? You can’t be thinking with your heart when all he does is think with his ###.
The thing with girls is that they always wanna weigh in the pros and cons of leaving the guy. That’s how they find themselves back in the relationship. Just leave your heart out of it for once

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:04 pm 



@kellyboogile, your friend is sooo childish. Is it your fault hore she couldn’t betsa sekgowa properly like you did?? Hayi maan, o sele chomi ya hao. Let her be, o tla ba grand when she eventually gets a job.

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:05 pm 



back to #ScreenMuncher..eh kant umahamba shela judgin by MissAns story ..mina i still say ubuzwe wubani ..y angayangay kuSunday world if she has half a story ..hay this simple gal mara nd sekasure ukuth uyi tweleb ke manje

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:07 pm 



then all of the ”leavers’– sorry to tell you this your legs will rest the day of your funears then! I’ts either you stop dating man now, or learn to forgive and stop thiniking everything your man do wrong is about you….pleas add this book kula Book ntoni notni yenu…Man are frm Mars and Woman are from Venus!!

jolene on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:08 pm 



@Pule- why does it sound like u r the “that” boyfriend she’s talking about?
Well, I jus broke up with my “boyfriend” and I’m missing him big time, he really made me laugh but things just changed and I gave up. He would call other gals “my love” on FB. If he comments on my status, he would delete the notification on his wall. Small things like that were putting a strain on our relationship, so I decided to jus “unfriend” him and he got mad. I really miss him now more than ever, but this too shall pass *turning to heart-of-stone mode*

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:11 pm 



I HATE THIS STATEMENT “he made a mistake,betrayed your trust and was selfish but serperation is never the right response for selfishness.
MISTAKE? MISTAKE?????????

definition ya mistake :an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge,…yazini *ngasha kancane* my father would kill u if u happen to do something that u evitably know ama consequences/results zaleyonto leyo then u rock up ka lame mistake excuse…its like these girls ababa preg..umuntu athi its a mistake what the hell…was it a mistake wen u took yo undies off,being kissed,carrased,being entered was that a bloody mistake,not remembering to use protection/contersaptives(sp) or run to the nearest pharmacy to get ama morning after pills was a stupid mistake? u knew exately what would happen if ungathathanga ama precausions mostan…then u cry foul “yi mistake” tsek man..iyafana lento u know cheating is never good and ur hurting abantu nge pleasure ye 2sec then expect to be forgiven…UM SORRY BABA..ANGEKE..MONYAKO O BUTSWI AKEDLALEJWALO….KEHOSA FINISH AND KLAAR..

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:13 pm 



@Pule ok i hear you i just probably know the wrong guys..even the one guy (my friends man) who i thought will never or doesnt cheat judging from what he says when we having such convos (i dont even look at another girl when walkin wit my gal at the mall ..nigguh plz) anyhoo same guy hit on me and nje hay that just took the cake namadoda abuya emaplazzini awasalunganga strait lol…sabi iGoli !!

@kellybogile..dont feel guilty nana she wud have done the same if they called her ..so myeke atafe uzaba ryt masekathole umsebenzi !!

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:14 pm 



@MissAn am a Dr by Doctrate title.Got a fungal infection due to Brazilian hair.Am now shaved bald.

kellyboogile on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:16 pm 



@Mapakisha thanx for supporting the other part of me that was thinking the same thing…
I am all for “leave your cheating partner” yes its not easy to just let go after +- 6 years but its not worth it to waste another 5 years with someone who doesn’t respect you,leave his/her cheating ass,give yourself time to heal and move on.o sa ba skroplapa sa motho.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:16 pm 



c’mon mow Wildy…woman must stop being soo sensitive and always think we do things to hurt them, it is unexpalinable yhazi, but my cheating has got nothing to do with my partner married or not… in tht maarigae certificate no sidishes are invloved so why do bring a third person in our problems, we shoild fight about money, me not spending time with you, me not being responsible not fight about my stolen moments(sign of respect), stolen fantasies!

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:16 pm 



@kelly, of course you weren’t wrong to take the job. Don’t even bother confronting her because she’ll deny being jealous. Set her free. She’s a silly girl. You’re investing far too much time on a fake friendship. She doesn’t love you. She doesn’t have your back. Real Friends are always there to love on you but she ain’t doing that. Cut all ties with her and enjoy your salary. A friend like that is capable of worse. God gave you that job. Nobody, not even your best friend should come against you and your gift.

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:18 pm 



brazilian hair gives you fungal infection! tjo!

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:20 pm 



ok if you are gonna take you boyfriend back after cheating, asomblief take care of yourself, use a condom please.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:22 pm 



Ladies calm down…..

Your partner’s cheating has got nothing to do with you, if i still give you my time, do all that is due to you why would you leave me beacuse of my stolen moments phofu i steal them out of respect for you!!!

i repeat: leave him becuase he abuses you somehow, he doesnt want to spend time wiht you anymore, he doesn’e respect you anymore etc!!

Kiki on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:23 pm 



Hey guys…. *waving to all yall*

Sending my Lusta hugs & kisses.

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:27 pm 



@Lustagp….If ur woman cheats on you but still spends time with you & does “all that is due to you”….Will YOU as a man take her back after she’s slept with another man, stay with her and carry on?? Honestly??

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:28 pm 



hayi Lusta ..mna i dont dispute men cheat njalo futhi and im one of those who think its not about me vele ..ukusa kwakho nje but for u to say its out of respect for me hae cha ngiyala if u gonna do do it but dont give excuses for it

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:30 pm 



BATHONG DRDEE..bazilian? kannete..omaka wena jwang jwale..baekentse kang eo

kellyboogile on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:30 pm 



@DexterS my heart skipped a bit when i read your comment,harsh but true,i’ve tried to reach out, lately its like im forcing her to talk to me and im just tired of the tension so im just gonna focus on my studies and work.thank u

Cutypie on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:33 pm 



DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 11:07 am

@ms.J what opinion do you want? An opinion about you beating him up, trashing his place or what?

@ Dexter, your response reminds me of this story here, about why men don’t usually write advice columns.#

“Dear Nick, I hope u can help me here. D ada day, I set off 4 work leaving my husband in d house watching TV as usual. I hadn’t driven more dan a mile down d road when d engine conked out & d car shuddered 2 a halt. I walked back home 2 get my husband’s help. When I got home I couldn’t believe my eyes. He was in our bedroom with the neighbours’ daughter. I’m 42, my husband is 44, and the neighbours’ daughter is 22. We have been married for twenty years. When I confronted him, he broke down and admitted that they had been having an affair for the past six months. I told him to stop or I’d leave him. He was let go from his job six months ago and he says he has been feeling increasingly depressed and worthless. I love him very much, but ever since I gave him the ultimatum he has become increasingly distant. He won’t go to counselling and I’m afraid I can’t get through to him any more. Can you please help? Sincerely, Sheila

Dear Sheila: A car stalling after being driven a short distance can be caused by a variety of faults with the engine. Start by checking that there is no debris in the fuel line. If it’s clear, check the vacuum pipes and hoses on the intake manifold and also check all grounding wires.. If none of these approaches solves the problem, it could be that the fuel pump itself is faulty, causing low delivery pressure to the injectors. I hope this helps, Nick.

kimmo on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:34 pm 



@kelly hai your friend is sick, you did your interviews individually so its not your problem if she “stuttered” or didnt know her story

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:34 pm 



@miss-J. I have been there sweety. For me it was three years,no cheating and first love. I thought we would be together and I trusted him completly. kanti while I was neately tucked away in boarding school he was getting ontop of every skirt in varsity and we werent usib=ng protection either. When I found out I broke it off,moved to Durban to start tech,got tested,is HIV negetive,HALLELUJAH.A month after I met hubby and lived happily ever after.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:36 pm 



Kiki wam…i 3wks was going to be too long love, thnks for being here!!

My woman wont cheat on me Kev, so i have no answer for your question…lol

Ma2Sthash…it no excuse hun, if i didnt respect you, the is no reason for me to steal anything…and thanks for being Present and knwowing uba your man cheating is not about you…

Lady gaga on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:39 pm 



kiki uthanda abafana. just cause Lusta is here,u couldn’t stay away and finish your two-weeks JC leave!!! LOL

its not that easy leaving someone u love just cause they cheated only once.Kunzima bafwethu.

What’s this about Brazilian hair manje?? niqalile!!!

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:40 pm 



When it comes to relationships women tend to act as if their victims. They act as if they are pure.

Women cheat too. Maybe they don’t do it as often as men do but ke okusalayo they cheat.

I once said African men don’t cheat! Polygamy was installed in our genes by our forefathers. But ke some are proud and open polygamist e.g Zuma and most are not so open polygamist.

Ladies u shud just look for the signs of polygamy in men. They are there

Lela on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:40 pm 



But guys sometimes you say “leave him” like leaving a guy you’ve been with for years is the simplest thing ever…Say it again BS,ayi I keep leaving and going back,mnxm undidlisile lomzulu!

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:41 pm 



@lungsta: i steal them out of respect for you!!! he ungazonghlekisa wena…ur justifying ukuthi ur cheating in a respectable manner mostan at least angikuboni wenzani..so in this case ke where abantu bathole abantu babo badla abanyabantu 9/9 ..i respect le okhuluma ngayo iphi ke doll?

CONTRADICTION COMRADE:
i repeat: leave him becuase he abuses you somehow, he doesnt want to spend time wiht you anymore, he doesn’e respect you anymore etc!!
abanye they do the oposit and still cheat mfo…sithini ke?

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:43 pm 



@KevCare, I love and agree with everything you’re saying! Especially this —> “Most men CHOOSE to cheat….its hardly “by mistake” #PhuqWatUHeard”

The saddest part for me is how we always say “All men cheat.” BULL SH*T! We’ve conditioned ourselves to accepting it and making it a part of our lives. That is why the bastards cheat – cos they know you’re gonna take them back cos vele cheating is in their blood! NOT all men cheat and we really need to stop with that mentality cos all it’s doing is sowing seeds of infidelity.

Words to live by: WHEN IT COMES TO A MAN, YOU MUST EXPECT WHAT YOU ACCEPT FROM HIM!

So if you take your man back after he’s cheated on you, you best believe he’s gonna carry on doing it over and over again cos you’ve accepted it from him! And it is a vicious cycle, cos if you allow one bastard to treat you with such disrespect, you’re gonna start accepting it from the next one and the next one who cheats on you! #MyHumbleOpinion

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:43 pm 



zuma is a polygamist but he still cheated though? so vele wa gale, ga a kgore.

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:43 pm 



no Lusta if u respect me u wont steal anything period ..kodwa ke wena ngyakwazi u stand for ur cheating ways sham lol..and hey u being honest

kodwa ke coming back to u saying “My woman wont cheat me” ekhleka kancane …never ever underestimate umfaz obekezelayo ..they do not call us umfazi for nothing sifa sazi …that is why im so “present” about my man’s cheating way because i am present about my capabilities too #ngyashonje

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:47 pm 



Kwaaaahahaha @Cutypie

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:49 pm 



Wildy…it menas ke i am one of a kind cheater, ke aba uthetha ngabo mabaziveze bazithethelele..

Ma2Sthash….You wont understant it dear!
why would she cheat on me cos mna i dont, only you and i know about it moss! so akabekezeli, she trusts me and have evry reason to be..like Mo and Lerato kwi-Stockfell!!

miss a….spare me the swearing dear, and calm down vha, he is not here, talk to us not him vha!

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:54 pm 



Lol @ Mo and Lerata ok lusta ngyakuzwa but nje never ever underestimate umfazi thats all im saying …

shybear on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:55 pm 



to all who dont knw we have our agony uncle #askmabler were u can take ur problems 2. lets nt turn anything goes into an agony blog.

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:57 pm 



@Lusta I am very calm and I’m not being cheated on. I have been cheated on before, a few times, and it makes me so upset how we’re making it normal when it’s not. Obviously people do it for their own reasons but I think us as women, who knowingly take back our cheating men over and over again, are a huge part of the problem.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:57 pm 



i have high respect for umfazi, and will nevr ever underestmate her dear!!!

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:58 pm 



Ay Pule no lusta ur justifications dont sit well with me.
Pule say u caught ur long term grlfrnd, n lusta ur wife redhanded in bed with another man him busy humping her, how wud u react? I know its hard to say wen it hasn happened bt say it did, what wud u do?????

Men (some) seem to take this cheating thing so lightly wen they’r not the victims i dont know if they think we dont hurt na.

Mna i have an amazing guy in mylife n he seems to b one of the ‘good ones’…i’m not saying hel never cheat but i always pray that the idea of me finding out (COZ I WILL), hurting me n risking the relationship we have tortures him so much that he wont!

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:58 pm 



i think we all just have to accept that relationships will not always be smooth and for u to up and leave just lyk that for cheating nje ..will never be easy ..i know its a lame sayin but it has an element of truth “better the dog u know than a new one ongayazi ukuthi ibuya ukuyowwisa ewakuphi amadustbin”..uyoshiya kuze kube nini

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:58 pm 



HAHAHAHAHA!!! Okay i need to get back to work, but let me say this:
UNLESS he also cheats, no man *i repeat* NO MAN will take back a woman who has been skrewd by someone else during their relationship!!
Yes we will forgive, befriend & maybe even have sex again…but the “relationship” will be OVER!!

I DO NOT & will never understand why women function otherwise. Le lebala ka speed

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 1:59 pm 



Having said all that, men don’t cheat with imaginary women. Men cheat because there’s a market for it. There’s always a lady who is willing to be that side dish. Now imagine if all women respected themselves enough not to open their legs for unavailable men. We wouldn’t be having this conversation, right? And please don’t say some women are usually unaware that the guy is in a relationship when they meet. Girls always know.

jolene on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:00 pm 



Never say never @Lusta. When she’s taken it all she’s gonna go out there and pay u back. She will cheat as it there’s no tomorrow. Just u wait n see.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:00 pm 



@WI,if i delete the word ‘mistake’ will we still be friends?

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:06 pm 



In my opinion a man that cheats on me has lost all respect for himself & for me so I do not have other reasons to stay with him cause there ain’t no love where there’s no respect.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:07 pm 



jolene…you putting words in my mouth kodwa!!

FAB…i will join tthme for i-3some and then negotiate with teh guy of paying my wife nge turns i allowance

Kev..i guess we will nver know..lol.
dex…reming them!

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:07 pm 



@Dexter in the same breath, women get hit on by countless men every single day of their lives, yet they often don’t pursue these advances becos 1. They are in a relationship and respect their partner or 2. The person doesn’t meet their standards. So maybe if men set standards and respected their unions, rather than screwing any woman willing to give them some, then we also wouldn’t be having this conversation…

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:10 pm 



Mapakisha..dear then you have a long-long journey to pursue kwi-relationships, i suggest you quit while you can and usindiswe until God gives you an angel from heaven!!

Brown Shuga on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:10 pm 



#thatawkwardmoment when we find out Kevcare is cheating on his girl

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:14 pm 



@kevCare u’ve just summed everything up for me!!

miss_a on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:15 pm 



Amen @mapakisha!

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:19 pm 



yes pule pls come up with another name my dear…*pinkyswear*
*lungsta hai still it doesnt make it right stru ..bathulile uyaba bo lol and again yaz as theysaid laphezulu never ever think a woman is incapable of returning he favour 10times fold.
*shybear sit down…ke anything goes skatlobuwa nthotsahao mo
*ma2 manje ur sugesting ukuthi ngihlale nenja engiyaziyo ukuthi idla idusbin yala ngazi khona ke? hheeeeeee as kev said woman are so forgiving shem..i wonder why…mina i left him shem and i wa like”good riddens -sum1 else my deal with his selfishness” angeke phela u wont trust yo man/woman after that nomungathi uthandaza kanjani…banna/basadi mara..*claps50 times*

Kusihlwa on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:19 pm 



KevCare cheats?????

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:21 pm 



@Lustagp, if that’s what it takes then so be it. Why should I let a man treat me like crap, disrepect me like that & then I reward him by taking him back? I do believe i am worth a lot more than that, u choose to cheat on your wife because o batla adrenalin rush, that’s your choice. I choose not to be cheated on, if my guy can’t work with whatever i have to offer then adios!!

ThatoM on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:24 pm 



@Kevcare ang’sakufuni shem sigh….now I need a new JC crush

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:28 pm 



I think we’ve established that men will always cheat. The onus is on the women to stop it

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:31 pm 



hha Thato mara lol
amen paksin..angeke we are too precious for that tjo

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:32 pm 



so Mapikisha would you also leave when he is a porn addict? cyber whore?

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:33 pm 



how old are we Wildy? Mapakisha? if i may ask?

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:34 pm 



stop it?…how by not giving in ku ma advances thats if abashadile or abajolayo babhalwe/babe ne X sign esphongo my dear

KevCare on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:39 pm 



@BS AAAaaaaaHAHAHAHAHA Ho kgala ke ya kgala *hides* but I decided long ago (Jan 2010) that whoever im with, im not gonna cheat!
BUUUUT
Since @ThatoM is giving me the RED CARD Ima join Lustagp team!! LOL

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:40 pm 



why lunga bathi u must never ask that mostan..kadlala ke30+ hence…why?

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:41 pm 



Lustagp, I’m not addicted to porn but i do watch it so i wouldn’t leave cos somebody likes watching porn. I’m not sure what you mean by cyber whore so i don’t know if i’d leave a cyber whore – i don’t know what they do/what they are. I’m at an age where i know i’ll never settle for a cheating man, no matter how abusive his father was or how badly his mother brought him up. It’s about me, like I said, if mine isn’t enough for him then let’s meet in another lifetime.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:42 pm 



Wildy…use your intitutiion, nithi nie sixth sense anditsho xa ni-invader i-privacy zethu so use it in ths case, besides woman hit on us while we are wearing our wedding bands nje, so it i will nver stop!!1

Lol..KevCare….i will have to give you extra classes of how to chaet with dignity…lol

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:43 pm 



@kellyboogie,
you did no wrong taking that job.
if your story is all there is to it,then your conscience should be fine.
go and see your friend and talk to her.tell her that you are pained because a treasured friendship is being destroyed over a job.let her know that you would have been distraught too if she got that position and you did not.however,you will not throw away the friendship in anger.
if she still does not come around,just bounce.
you’ve got to have the gift of goodbyes.

thanks WI.

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:45 pm 



haike mina sengisele nge 1st sense mfo le 5 yaphela kdaaala..strike 1 ur out..next!! lol

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:47 pm 



I’ve been reading yalls comments since this morning. I have a dilemma. I’m a newly wed and I’m married to a man. I guess that’s my problem because if it was possible I would marry a woman immediately after hearing that “all men cheat”. Unfortunately I’m attracted to these men species. I was once cheated on, okay I found an sms that suggested that the boyfriend was not interested in me only. The sms was saying ‘thanks you too’ and I called the number and found out that it belonged to a girl and I dumped his ass. I really cant handle a cheat and I believe that if I really have proof that he cheated on me I’d kill sumthing with my bare hands. When I was dating I always had a side dish or just a guy I would sleep with and the reason was to numb the pain if by any chance I get cheated on. Now this worked very well with my boyfriends and they never suspected anything because I was so trusting and never snooped or nagged and I played this game very well. Now I have this huge urge of doing it even if it’s only once so that if he cheats the pain will be less but it aint easy because of the vows and all. *sigh*

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:48 pm 



@WI im not sayin U MUST kodwa what im saying is as sikhula sizokhathala ukudliwa becoz he’ll cheat then u leave.. next one cheats then u leave.. then next one etc …kyoze kube nini believe me im not condoning men cheating but what im saying is ME personally i dont have strength to keep on testing waters until ngthole uMr right akekho nje uMr right(trust me i dont even know if my dog of a man is cheatin or not but ngnamasuspicions kodwa no energy to make it a whhohaaa)..

bongi on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:50 pm 



Guys its different hey; mna i left my man bcoz he stopped respecting me- uye wathanda ichomi, drinking and whenever i needed to go out, he was always esimokolweni, so i left him. Moved into a flat with my kids 5 and 2 year olds. After 14 months we were back together and got married last month. No woman is gona let me leave my man except mna ndifuna ukuyeka. Men cheat all the time, but if he respects you and still do the things that makes your heart skip 1000 times then im ok. I wont leave him if he is cheating NEVER unless he makes it clear that i have reached my sellby date in his eyes .. then i will move on and be a new product to someone else….

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:51 pm 



@Lustagp, They don’t even need that sixth sense nonsense. They know full well when they are side dishes. Come on now

fufu on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:53 pm 



thanks Pule.

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:57 pm 



@TheAngel..amen to that. I am not trying to promote bofebe but i have realised that when there is that one person you can call or sleep with if you are cheated on numbs the pain and the forgiveness and the moving forward with the cheater gets to be discussed in a adult manner..

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 2:58 pm 



Wildy and Mapakisha,,,,i am sking your age cos really now, all that is her needs someone of matured age, like wine.Trust me, mapakisha i will nver ver try to change your choices, if they work for you so enjoy dear..

Bongi…..then you will be the happiest woman on earth, and you will save yourself some unnecesary heartaches and pains…!

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:01 pm 



@blindfold and the angel i co nton nton nani…but the Angel my dear dont do it unless u given a reason to and so far it doesnt seem like he has …so enjoy this pureness until episodes of #intersexions starts in ur life eish

DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:01 pm 



@The Angel, you can’t cure emotional pain with a physical remedy. Face the facts tu, you’re not cheating to numb the pain. You’re cheating because you enjoy it

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:03 pm 



Oh my word ke kopane le ALEXIS

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:04 pm 



Good, i’m glad u get it Lustag & I’m also not saying stop cheating on the woman you say you love. Carry on if it makes you happy, I will carry on trying to be the only woman in my man’s life, that he won’t have the edge to seek attention elsewhere – as soon as I have one.

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:07 pm 



RICA your partner at the nearest Sangoma and you’ll stay connected for LIFE

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:07 pm 



LOL @ popeye where ?? unjani ..uyadelela vele?? hehehe tell us more !!

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:08 pm 



Lol @ TaSfebe… I thought I heard it all. Good thing @ KevCare you have left your wayward ways and now free of watching TOO much porn and cheating *side-eyes residential cheater and the porn addict*

@ TheAngel…qhubeka ngokujola,and la eJC we don’t judge nor discriminate. join the cheater queue please,oh and here is a condom…

@kellyboogie… I really believe in fate. Whether your friend likes it or not,it has long being decided that she will let you know about the job and you will get the job.

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:10 pm 



Jonnaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!! #DEAD OF ME =========RICA your partner at the nearest Sangoma and you’ll stay connected for LIFE

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:10 pm 



a bit surprised that no one seems to differentiate my angle for Lusta’s angle.
Lusta is serial and has no plan of stopping.
I am roting for the guy who made a mis………sorry had a fling and betrayed his wife.He is sorry,does not want to do it again and still claims to love his wife.
I am saying that i do not advocate leaving that guy.
He is not the scum of the earth we are painting him to be.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:10 pm 



lol…Mapakishs…i dont sya i love,, i do…eish wena na??sigh
*aint no fury like a woman scorned*

Angel…have fun and enjoy..

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:12 pm 



lol…Pule for leaving my ass out hhahahhahahah

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:16 pm 



Dex…it’s the victim mentality that is killing each and every beautiful woman out there, they say blacks must let go of it maar woman dont11

The only peosn you can control in any relationship is you, dont over expect what is not promised to you, dont assume what your men didn’t agree on with you and then run foul ladies
!!

dejane on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:18 pm 



If a man cheats on you once he can do it again. If he isnt married to you LEAVE HIM..

Eish yaz every day i’d read all of your comments in taxi on my way home. It made the journey more bearable and much shorter.

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:19 pm 



kwaaaaa bhu phansi now THIS neh —–> RICA your partner at the nearest Sangoma and you’ll stay connected for LIFE

only on JC baba only JC..humbly SITS DOWN..my day is made !!

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:20 pm 



@Ma2Stash ke kopane le yena ka 11:11 on the comments athi she was blocked all along

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:21 pm 



so dejane if he he stops you the day you are leaving and gives you a ring , will you leave?

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:23 pm 



Kwakwekwikwokwu.@facebook.Such creativity is genious.You go gal.RICA for life.You have lifted my depression.

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:24 pm 



kwa kwa kwa @ Pule saying @Lungsta is serial and has no planning of stopping… And Pule I bet you R100 that that PA of his CEO and him have had the #Screenmuncher and Dj Fresh conversation…

@Lusta you know we looove u.

@Popeye yeah,where did you meet @Alexis? In Paris perhaps?

@DrDee I am being silly. I know. See a dermatologist.

Biskiti on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:27 pm 



Bongi, new product with 2 kids?…kwaa kwaaaaaa!

All I know is that guys cheat, not because of a shortage of what-what but because that’s what guys do, and it doesn’t mean we respect our women any less. As sad as it sounds, in a way cheating kinda validates our manhood. I am yet to meet a man that doesn’t/hasn’t cheated on tehir partners. And i’ve got friends ba di pastors, lawyers, engineers, none can stand before me and cast a stone cause nabo they know they stay in a glassed house.

I think women do cheat as well, maybe not at the level that guys do, but they still do it too. They probably do it for different reasons, but with guys it’s to have that adrenaline rush Lusta is talking about, to spice up impilo zethu…

sexymm on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:27 pm 



Yoh indaba yoku-cheater,indaba enzima.How are u people?

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:27 pm 



@ Popeye… Ha! Did she say why? Clearly the Information Press Bill is being piloted by the guavament on JC …

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:27 pm 



ooh mnnxm popeye nawe ke i thought in real life lol…hehehe ok sham uzabaryt usistaz

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:31 pm 



Hello @ sexymm… Please hold @ TheAngel’s hand in her journey,phela nawe ulapho…

@Biskiti…When someone cheats its the worst thing ever. As hard as it is,I am starting to accept BUT I will pull a MissJ on the guy and bleach his clothes.

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:31 pm 



Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Dr Dee ”Such creativity is genious.You go gal” *whispering* Facebook yindoda hle….

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:32 pm 



Yawning @ scorned woman…

@Pule, I agree that guy isn’t scarm of the earth & he’s sorry. I can’t help but wonder if he’d forgive as willingly if it was the woman who cheated. So I’ll say this ke, if he cheats on me, he should be ready, willing & able to have me make the same MISTAKE. I promise, i also won’t do it again.

Lela on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:32 pm 



I will never dump a man because he cheated,i will only dump him when he starts disrespecting me like ajole ukuthi ndibone,if i snoop on his phone and find a suggestive sms ufumana nje impama eshushu alahle lookati. Kunganini nditshintshatshintsha amadoda!

lynx on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:32 pm 



haahaha…#Death by# @Facebook “RICA your partner at the nearest Sangoma and you’ll stay connected for LIFE”

as nie reg..if akasakuthandi?

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:33 pm 



@angel,newly wed?
eish this matter is serious.
you need to deal with this matter urgently.
i don’t know what will work for you but you have to find what works for you.
if you don’t,you will be doing side dish in the next 5 months and i bet you it might not be a one off.
Maybe you need to deal with the consequences of getting caught in the web.not necessarily being caught by your man but being caught in a continous cycle.
you seem not to have diagnosed why you cheated in the past and want to cheat in the future.
how can you be dealing with a non existent pain?
stolen water is sweet but its consequences are often hectic.
come to a conclusion that it ain’t worth it and set up protective walls to save yourself.

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:35 pm 



DexterSUPERIOR on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:01 pm said You’re cheating because you enjoy it >>> yes I enjoy the sex but not the cheating. You see after doing the deed, I archive it to the back of my memory and it will really feel like it was just a dream and fade away. When I suspect or start seeing that the boyfriend is doing stuff I retrieve and YES the visuals will still be clear and the smell still fresh…

I still don’t have the courage to do it now. Maybe if i find something like an ear ring in his car or if he start coming home 1 minute later than usual and if his pulse is faster than normal when he comes home and want to have a shower amma call the side dish for a HOT hook up

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:35 pm 



Glad u understand Lunga…it takes time to reach le stage engikuso to relly understand i life and the real meaning of the word”love” joe..angeke phela sawa savuka saphela so manje its “me time” doll or keep walking like jonny/w black
*ma2 i hear u its a waste of time futhi mina i have a daughter i cant just rock up nomalumu jabu,gabriel,jozi nabobani bani..naaaa..i cant sorry keshap..singleness never killed anyone,i know what i am looking for and i am waitingfor that “it” to find me..although i think u mr right wam washona nabo hector peterson yaz..mxnm..RICA FOR LIFE HEEEE WUWI CLASSIC

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:37 pm 



Deathby @Facebook..RICA your partner at the nearest Sangoma and you’ll stay connected for LIFE

Monei on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:40 pm 



Tjo, i’ve returned to my silentblogging since yday but not by choice. if i wasn’t idle i wud be fired for spending my day reading JC comments.

now to return to reading the rest of the comments…

kimmo on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:42 pm 



i cant keep up with all this comments

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:42 pm 



Lmao @ Mr right shoning le bo Hector Peterson, hayi neva WI.

dejane on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:44 pm 



@ Lusta I’d be tempted mara i doubt i’d stay. I’d take it as a way of preventing me to leave, like a bribe. My thing is ne, if there men that dont cheat at all (a part of me believes those men do exist) then y stick around with one that has, and might do it again. In my past relationships i’ve walked away coz i was cheated on. In one relationship though i was the makwhapeni aka roll on without my knowledge. But the day i found out and saw him with his wifey i got rid of him. I wont lie at some point i thought to myself, i wouldnt mind being the other girl mara i realised that i’d only be hurting myself and wasting my time. Besides he wouldn’t have left her for me.

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:45 pm 



Thank GOD for my new blackberry I no longer have to miss out on anything. After weeks and weeks of peanut butter and tea just so to save in the name of JC IM LOVING IT…

sexymm on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:49 pm 



@Angel,love your husband,always use a condom with makhwapheni..

Happy cheating my dear….

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:50 pm 



@ Popeye… hmmm… dejane loses a BB then suddenly you have one…I smell a rat…Jokes. Well done on saving and buying a phone!!

sexymm on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:50 pm 



Wean MissAN uyaphapha,awukhohlwa.

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:52 pm 



@pule I’m not worried about the consequences.. After playing this game for years, I can confidently say I will never get caught cheating, never. Ke mosadi i do it and ke phumule molomo. I must say it makes me proud knowing that so far I have been faithful to hubby but what will happen if he does cheat and nna kamo ke ikeditse maria mmao jesu? nka bolaya motho..

PurpleRain on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:52 pm 



Skeletonized by Rica your patner at your nearest sangoma and you’ll stay connected for life. @pule and WI i want somebody who is going to love and appreciate me and this guy doesn’t meet those requirements so he must beat it. @missJ nana you can do better than him, just keep your head help up high and tell him to go find another victim. @bongi, honey thats deep but a girl has got to do what a girl has got to do

DrDee on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:52 pm 



@Nkey,kanti @facebook is a guy.I thought he was a she all along.@facy sorry bhuti.

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:53 pm 



Thanx sexymm, i’ve already archived your advice for future use

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:55 pm 



@ sexymm and like a duck to water,you gave @TheAngel Cheaters101 crash course advice even before you saw my previous comment to you. Uhmmm… How is the A3?

manny on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:58 pm 



Dumelang bana ba ntate, ive been watching frm the sidelines ntse ke lerata ka liefde,so its been a month since i ate my jobo and ive already attendd 4 interviews kaofela they shortlist me mxm,ndikhathele mna iya tura taxi. And ja ive stooped down ,im bck with almst al my exes, kalok a guy has to live, my lifestyles is kinda costly so i need to live .lela plz put me emthandazweni i knw iwrongo le endiyenzayo . Mara ni ryt?

popeye on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 3:58 pm 



Hahaha@MissAN my heart used to sore when I had to leave work JUST IN THE NAME OF JC nothing more

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:00 pm 



sexymmm..give them some silly lessons my dururu!!

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:00 pm 



Haai !! @ Manny you are back with all your exes? Looks like not only do you find African bathsalts in your ex’s bathroom but have beein RICA’d for life!!! Good to ‘see’ you.

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:01 pm 



hhaaaa mmajeso o phumulang lemolomo..motlohele aje tete tsathaka tsahae man..rekafela tatso jeeeer lol
*pakzin hai stru keneng kebatlahohle mo nix doh..kethola di ben10 wuuu akerekisi lesheleshele pls tog ..
*purple..kannete mara vaar sal om krey(sp ya afrikans tu kwaaa) nna keya makgoweng kobina delarey delareyyyyyy lemaburu angeke bomantsho ke fesitse lemonakganowaka…lebomme babona baloyang .wuuuuuuuu i need a smoke keneng kebuwa(thaipa) matlakala..as lungsta said it matures with time papa:)

sexymm on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:01 pm 



Lol,MissAN mara,yini ongayazi ngami.A3 ingiphethe grand,I’m driving to Ladysmith tomorrow night,uphi uFezzy azongiphathisa.

Lela on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:04 pm 



LOL hayi Manny has bee RICA stru! Ndizakubeka emthandazweni nyhani!

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:04 pm 



@Popeye… Yeah,hey.JC is TOO addictive,better than stupid office gossip. Manje u @ Alexis why has she been blocked? That one is a loose cannon who has many lives,not 9 but infinite. RayKyabs,Honeyphly wonder what alias she will be using.

Lustagp on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:05 pm 



guys bye, my sidedish is waiting…..tllttltllt

sexymm on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:05 pm 



Lungsta my dururu..*smilling*

Wild Island on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:08 pm 



hhe sesy man lol
(((waving)))) manny okae? keitse kewena okemmone ko fb yaka na?
mmmm why oja di lepetsahaoo my dear? ketlala yale keishene?
*MA hai stru lol
*lungs asipheni u sexy? lol

MissAN on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:10 pm 



@sexymmm lendaba yenu yoku phathisana noFezzy!! tltltl… the weird thing is I remember random stuff but ask me where I left the key angazi. I lost R10 izolo and R20 today,don’t know where I put it. I have a terrible short-term memory,even during a phone conversation I often forget what has been said and I will ask what I have already been told. Whats wrong with me…

@ Lela… Cha. He has been RICA’d for sure.

@WI the stuff bloggers say. So women don’t get caught cos they don’t figuratively phumula me lomo yabona and men get caught cause they don’t phumula molomo?

@Cheaters and ChiefCheater I think @TheAngel can be the Risk Maanger for your group,clearly she is a pro at this.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:12 pm 



@angel,you will find a reason to and you will do it.
Just don’t depend on showers for protection.

@mapakisha,the reason why you don’t have enough examples to know if men will forgive their women is that women cover their tracks much better than men ever could and secondly while they cheat,not as much as men.

@biskiti,i have seen men who don’t cheat.as worthy a virtue as it is,i don’t think it makes them super men.i explained why earlier.
It is like celibacy.it is not anything extraordianry.i was inactive until later than can be easily imagined but i don’t see how it makes me better than the next guy.when folks go on and on about virginity,i just wonder if they are not just seeking attention.

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:14 pm 



Ja Dr Dee ndiyindoda. Why would u think otherwise?

Mapakisha on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:15 pm 



WI, kgale kere o itshware ka 1 ya di ben10 tseo o tlohele ho bayza. O tla bolawa ke letswai.. Bye ya’ll, e chaile:)

JustPS on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:20 pm 



Hi all i’m new here,been silent blogging for almost a year now……..kwaaaaaa

Y’all kill me strue!!! mara wena @MissAn you don’t forget neh?? wish i had a memory like yours..LOL…..Tjo! Ku hectic vandag deathby RICA your partner to the nearest sangoma!!LOL heyi le ya bua!!

Wena @Fabu don’t confront your house mate she probably have a reason why she’s not telling you about her situation, i have a friend who fell pregnant,gave birth and she haven’t said a word,even though we accidentally found out that she was preg we didn’t confront her thinking hore motho otla bua,kanti niks,even today she hasn’t said a anything i’m sure the baby is now almost 2months old motho haso re jwetse hore o preg…..osa bile a nyahladitse fatshe still niks,so we decided to also keep mum not confront her since she didn’t tell us in the first place. itjaaaak kutough these days,you think you know the person kante haotsebe niks.

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:22 pm 



Posted before seeing Angel’s post.
vindicates my arguments that men are very good at covering their tracks.
whoever chooses to cheat,pls use CDs but remember that it ain’t worth it.
serious!
come and share the tales and we JC family will never judge.
@manny,just buy a new SIM you have been RICAed for life with your present number.

Sgoloza on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:22 pm 



for a second I thought this post was about cheating husbands/boyfriends/men. Ladies mantombazane, a man will cheat on you whether you’re good to him or not. So stop being acting like desperate f**** and remember, no man belongs to you and you alone. he might even have “secret” families stashed away, or you yourself could be secret ‘madam’. lol. what is it with females tryimg to be the number one girl anyway? the number “one” girl suffers the most cause they even have to clean up after the bastard. bear in mind he treats all his girls as number “one”.

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:23 pm 



tjo i cant carry on working now …just received iletter yeincrease tjeeeesas its pathetic my word i have never …not sure if my previous company was just generous or this one is just stingy tjo bathong nd i cant leave now already i have a bad history yokuba yiserial hopper nd ths is my first increase but yinto ezkanje ezngenza nghambe WTF eish day ruined

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:23 pm 



Tjo MissAn you are giving me too much credit lol. Like Pule said, we know how to cover our tracks. The problem with men is that they get caught because they have to show “love” to the girls and give them the attention and sometimes you’ll find them flaunting them, like WTF. With my booty call, I call from my “private line – a separate sim card stashed very far in my shoes”, we meet, we do the deed, I go buy boyfriend a nice gift, cook and have a candle lit dinner with champagne to celebrate my work of Art.

sxylin on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:27 pm 



Hhai @JustPS this is not ur first time commenting:- anyway welcome out of sillentville!

Mna just discovered I’m pregnant and hubby is too excited ; I am being spoilt and all I can say is I truly don’t know why I was scared; had I known what I was missing hell I would have made him babies a long time ago..loool ;

TheAngel on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:30 pm 



@sxylin is it the husband’s baby or makhwapheni’s or do you know? lol just pulling your leg wena. Congrats girl

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:32 pm 



Tjoo Angel u are a PROFESSIONAL. Stru

facebook on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:37 pm 



Congrats @sexyln

I also thought I’ve @JustPS a couple of times before

JustPS on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:38 pm 



LOL Sexylin i was just kiddin’ not 1st time commenting. Congrats on your pregnancy

sxylin on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:39 pm 



Kwaaaaa @ angel ingathi I can see you in my mind’s eye doing the Sharon Stone act tjo moos; hha hubby’s baby all the way.. Angithi beka complainer about me not wanting to procreate for him cos I’m busy studying yada yada and my friends were busy saying uzoza omunye usisi knocking @ your door aphethe ingane!

That was the wake up call that I needed shem ngavela ngathi chuck away icontraceptive and I’m luck it happened almost immediately so now I’m going to enjoy the ride loool before the baby comes!

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:42 pm 



*clap 13 times* for @ TheAngel uyiskhokho *ka voice ya pinkie from stokvel* tltltltltltltltl!!!!!

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:44 pm 



Tjo! @angel.
you sure do have skills.
@sxylin,congrats.we will be hear 9 months later to congratulate you on the arrival of the little one.
@Ma2Stash, very sorry for the stingy increase but it could have been worse.

Monei on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:49 pm 



can you believe i stayed a lil later at work to finish reading these comments?!?!! maJCer le a bua!

@Kusi, congrats!!! I’m bored at work, contemplating looking for a more interesting job mara ke emetse bonus ya mo coz i wana go on overseas holiday ya yona.tltltl #thingswedoforthezaka

@MsJ,i recently broke up with sum1 after 7 yrs on and off (probably a total of 10mths broken up over year 3-7). I really believed i’d forgiven him for his misbehaviour, but turns out deep down inside i hadnt.looking back i wish i’d broken up with him the first time he showed his cheating bastard ways. but love is a wonderful yet dumb thing. shudv used my brain more. either, i cudve spent those years of my youth better. now i have a few yrs to find the nxt one, marry and make babies b4 they expire. i may never know if that leopard did change its spots, grew tired of hearing rumours, 2nd guessing him, convincing myself he would never do it again and that he’s trustworthy now. but i believe he cudnt change them with me coz i helped him grow them my taking him back repeatedly.

TPZ on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:51 pm 



Lulos avatar on twitter..*melts*The man is fiiiiiiiiiiiiine

Monei on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:56 pm 



Congrats sxylin!!! Alililililili. Sechaba se a gola!

Askies Ma2, that ish can deflate one’s energy to work hard.

Ma2Stash on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 4:59 pm 



tjo i am crushed…ive been ziling ukuphuza lately and have succeded for the past 3 wks …tjo kodwa ive never needed a drink like i need it now yhooo …

Bootylicious on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:01 pm 



I agree with u Lela , everytime u dump ur partner when he cheats trudt me u will dump the whole world, men were cut from the same cloth, they always have and always will cheat, its in their nature. If u have never caught him cheating then don’t go snooping around just concentrate on ur relationship.

Nkey.. on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:05 pm 



@ TPZ I went to check,Nothing Wow

I thought I was over Mablerh’s Hauttiness But Haykhona!!!! Hes eatable…

http://a1.twimg.com/profile_images/1478932142/324574481.jpg

popeye spinach on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:08 pm 



@MissAn I think the boss lady blocked her coz she was toooo much noise,phela BS ha batle bana ba out of order

TPZ on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:09 pm 



@Nkey yeah its not wow bt I have a huge crush on the guy.guess every avatar will always be WoW lol.I’m biased phela *hides*

KewlGal on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:10 pm 



I also want a Baby!!!!!!!!!!

Congrats Sxylin!

Tjooo maBloggers pls help me out now, give me advises, tell me mutis to buy, anything i just need help.. hay ngeke i really really want to hav a baby, we’ve been trying with ma man for soo long nothin happens… i think i’m beggining to panic now.. I always cry when i hear there was a baby dumped or hear that someone had an abortion. tjoo it pains me soo much. I always ask why is God not hearing my prayers hle.. aowa! i’ve been here at JC for a while & im sure some of the JC babies are now talkin & i’ve been praying for mine and nada happens..

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:12 pm 



@Ma2Stash,you are not alone.counting the hours to friday evening.my lady is away for on a trip this weekend and i can’t wait for friday night.i am so thirsty

Pule on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:20 pm 



@KewlGal,it will happen.fear only worsens the case.
Just keep doing your part,humping ceaselessly and God will do his part.
don’t too anything drastic.pls keep away from the mutis.
been to the docs?what did they say?did they find anything wrong with either of you?
al the best and happy screwing.it will come in due time.your prayers will yield fruit.

popeye spinach on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:22 pm 



@JustPS for second there I also thot was losing my mind coz I’ve seen you before

popeye spinach on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 5:39 pm 



He bathong mehlolo,this boy on freeway standing between the lanes with a koto uvephisa on coming cars with that stick of his,SMH

RexonaABC on Thu, 11th Aug 2011 6:38 pm 



Getting out of a relationship is a difficult thing to both partners. I do not have a tolerance for cheaters, anyways I am not married so my thing is the rubber all the way. What I do not get is those who cheat without using protection, especially those who are married, and bring the diseases to their partners. I find it somehow heartless. Imagine you get married at 30 both of you clean, then when you are 50 you find that you are HIV+, and your partner says s/he is sorry, s/he just slipped.

mama2kera on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 9:41 am 



@fabulicious….first question she’s going to ask you is , why where you going through my things??
Cos the mere reason that she is disguising her arv’s bottles means that she does not want you to find out.

Rather have a convo about hiv/aids and your feelings towards it, rather than approaching and asking her about it.

mama2kera on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 9:42 am 



Fresh le bana….haaai, I sometimes don’t get why people still want to get married….I can only imagine what Thato(the wife) is going through, and who knows maybe she is aware of her husband’s tendencies but she’s holding on for the sake of batho batlo reng???

Reminds me of my cousin, she’s been married for 8years, and the family was under the impression that all was well with her and hubby, until she got arrested for hitting her husband’s girlfriend….and for the girl to drop the charges against the wife, the hubby bought her a Brand-new Merc!!!! ……and guess what……my cousin is till with the guy, so she knows gore if the hubby is not at home, he’s with Xoliswa somewhere !!! yho

mama2kera on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 9:48 am 



@TheAngel…………why did you get married?

tshisa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 9:52 am 



Hi Everyone! Sometimes its really difficult to get out of a relationship you’ve been with a guy for so long.

Anyway here is my INGXAKI” I am currently dating this guy & He is away this whole month, but coming back in Sept, and Im not getting any attention thus far &I hate it…So now last wikend I met this other cute guy at a party, *Hes delicious* and Hes got everything, i mean the house, car etc.&this guy told me He doesnt have a gf, and they broke about 2months ago..&He even told me He likes me..but I never responded, But I did tell him Im dating someone.But I do like him guys….So now other thing, Im seeing my EX, in other words SIYABANA, He would come visit me, and have a good time..u know&Now my EX has told me He has fallen inlove with me again, but I told him Ive got a bf, but Im not sure guys if ndiyamthanda or not…So now Im caught in the middle of 3people…Which one guys should i leave? Eish i need ur help plz….

Lela on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 9:58 am 



Leave all of them and go to church you need Jesus!

tshisa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:01 am 



@Lela LOL! I guess its the only way out….

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:03 am 



seems the crowd has migrated to the fashion blog.
my friday nite has been ruined.
it is going to be a very long weekend.
booty call ain’t easy.

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:03 am 



@mama2kera I don’t wanna be an old lonely magogo when I grow up. Why do you ask my dear?

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:10 am 



kwaaa @ Leave all of them and go to church you need Jesus! Eish Mamfundisi Lela

@tshisa your situation is complicated as it seems you “love” all these 3 men, if that’s possible. It gets tricky if you love more than 1 guy. Are you sure you like the cute guy or you’re the lover of things? his car, house.. SMH Maybe you should take Mamfundisi’s advice then, your situation is a bit tricky

mama2kera on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:10 am 



@TheAngel Mmm, interesting …so you are planning to grow old with your hubby but u still get urges to give yourself to another man. wow! well,I hope those urges don’t overcome you and you have a long and happy marriage.

tshisa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:14 am 



lol!
@Angel..its been a week since i met this guy…probably andikamthandi shame, ndisatsalwe zezinto anazo…I guess I should just distance myself from these guys!

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:14 am 



tsisha,speak to angel.
she will tell you how to tag all three along.

kimmo on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:17 am 



tshisa are you for real?

mama2kera on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:21 am 



Maara one should know their limit, I mean , if he cheats on you Once but with 4 different women or cheats 3 times with 3different women
Or cheats with one woman 5 times…….keng difference?
you should know what you can forgive or not forgive and whether he slipped once or not, consider that fact that , it sometimes takes that one slip for hiv to find its way into your home/ for him to make a baby with that “slip-up”.

Nna , haeba o kgona ho kena kahara mosadi e mong, apologise for it but still expect me to forgive you and bula dirope for wena again, o tauwe.

Its like You slept with another woman, and you are bringing her to my home and now I must sleep with her as well.*cant forgive that*

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:24 am 



tshisa,
just accept that you can never have it all.
settle for the one that meets your needs most.
whatever the needs are.

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:28 am 



Pule what do you take me for vele? I’ve never loved 2 people at the same time. I only have a booty call that assists me when I need an extra booty. It’s different than jolling with more than 1 person at a time. I don’t love my booty call. I have not spoken to him since i tied the knot. He does not call me, sms, email, BBM, etc. He waits for my call and he does as I say. I have been paying for an apartment for more than 3 years in the same building as my friend who has no clue about this and satane doesnt want me to go cancel my lease.

Eish I USED to be sefebenyana waitsi. I would tell my boyfriends that I’m vising my friend and they would offer to drop me off and come and fetch me later. I would really tell my friend that i’m visiting her and i’d go do my thing with Mr booty and then go to her apartment and do girls stuff and wait for the boyfriend there. But it has been a while since I’ve done this and i found tjizaaz and i’m a faithfull wife, for now lol

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:40 am 



lol..Angel,,,uyiskhokho tjo…you are a man in a woamns body…lol!

Hang10 on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:49 am 



There’s a closing down sale @ all our Hang10 stores.

Thanks for the great support over the years.

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:51 am 



Angel,you are a lustagp in a woman’s body.

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:53 am 



lol…Pule!

Wild Island on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 10:56 am 



wena na..@angel

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:00 am 



lol but I have not cheated on hubby though, not yet.

kimmo on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:10 am 



@ angel so you planning to cheat on hubby?

MissAN on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:18 am 



lol @ TheAngel being Lungsta in a woman’s body… mara @ Pule,uLusta only has a sidedish…I suspect yena and a certain Dj loving JC blogger meet further than JC…

@ Tshisa… Tjo!!! Join the JC Cheaters Club hle and leave us alone.

JustPS on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:21 am 



LMAO!!Tjo!@TheAngel…………death by “you are @Lustgp in a woman’s body”….hehehheh @Lela’s advice kwaaaaaaaaa wena @Tshisa go for the cute guy and see how it goes if he’s not what you expected dump him before boyfie comes back.

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:26 am 



lol @kimmo what kind of a question is that? It’s been 4 LONG months since I got hitched! He’s that type of always saying he’ll never cheat and says all the right words. O kae now? What is he doing? I have no answers to these questions because I’m not omnipresent. Only time will tell, I’m watching him. If he dare does, says or suggest that he’s looking at some people in a way he should be looking at me, zizo suka! And this will not be revenge, like I said, it some sort of coping mechanism for me

KevCare on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:26 am 



Hai i agree with Dexter, Angel vele wena you enjoy it! Saying you want to “numb the pain” is just an lame excuse!!
If your VOWS are the only thing keeping you from stroking another mans trouser snake then its only a matter of time until u do!

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:27 am 



kimmo she is not planning it is just in her bloodstream…lol
MissAN…You can investigate Madonsela…tltltl

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:27 am 



not yet…..tltltl

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:33 am 



4 bloody months!!!!!!
i need a drink.

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:36 am 



lol…4months but already you thinking like this, i suggest you have a internet affair, the one that wont get u into sack with no one Angel!

MissAN on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:40 am 



I think @ Angel’s problem is that,yinto ayijwayele ukucheater … I mean how you date is how you will be when you are married,its in the blood sisi… And because you are used to cheating you can not relax cos you want the poor guy to cheat so you can justify your actions… My gosh you waiting for the green light, finding an earing in his car?

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:44 am 



Lustagp Internet affair? Educate me. An old dog can learn new tricks. What kind of an affair is that? Do you get to do the deed? I don’t want anyone to love me, that’s hubby’s job

Pule you can say that again. 4 freakin months without a booty call. I’m very proud of myself lol

MissAn thou shall not judge. It’s a sin to judge

kimmo on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:52 am 



aaaaahhhhhh 4 months ebile??? mxim then lusta is right its in the bloodstream!!!

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:55 am 



@Tshisa,dont be attracted by shiney things, they might nit be gold but in fact brass. The bad thing aboutr us women is that we expect things to always be good in a relationship and for us to always be happy but unfortunately it does not work out like that. Guys can be asses but if you love some one you and they treat you good and he has his momentary lapses then stick with him,even if you dont understand it,later on you will and he will love you even more for doing that. I cant tell you which guy to choose just be sure that its the right chose because you could klose love chasing momentary hapiness.

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:55 am 



Angel..have someone maybe on fb you can have sex chats with, and then when hubby comes home you will always be ready for action and forhet about earrings frm his car!! *my wife has an internet boyfriend*

mamamia on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 11:56 am 



Tjo we read things!!

JC has turned into a confessions booth.

BlindFold on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:02 pm 



Iyo batho ba modimo, the world we live in..@Lustagp, so you dont get jealous that maybe i mean maybe she comes while talking to the cyber boyfriend?

Cutypie on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:03 pm 



We always tell our girls these words “you deserve better”..@Angel, I wish I could be telling them to your hubby right now. I don’t mean to judge but waiting for him to slip up just saw u can do what YOU’VE BEEN WILLING to do for a while is just plain nasty. 4 months into marriage nogal! Can the world end already!

MissAN on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:03 pm 



@ The Angel… I am not judging. I am simply saying you are used to having a side dish,you were doing it before you married and the urge will never leave. If it really bothers you maybe seek counselling or get rehabilitated.

@Lungasta… are you serious? How does it make you feel? Are you not nervous they have met and went to a hotel…

tshisa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:05 pm 



LOL!

@Pule y Angel?..is she the Expert here lols?
@Kimmo Yes I am, but that might change soon
@MissAN LOL
@JustPS ja neh, maybe try it njee kancane, &see how it goes…
@Kusi..Thanks for da advice..eish kunzima kodwa..

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:10 pm 



no i dont get jealous, me and my wife have been together for ages people…we have all sorts fo things to spice up our sex we even tell each other about our fantasies!!

no MissAn aka Madonsela even if they did, she will use protection!

kimmo on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:12 pm 



gives up on lusta really do!!! ke lahlela towel struuuuu!!!!

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:17 pm 



@MissAn thanks for the advice. I’ve been thinking about counselling but that means I should tell Hussy about my tendencies. Like my name, I really have the Angelic look and ‘behaviour” so this might shock him greatly.

*tongue out @cutipie*

No thanks @Lustagp, the internet boyfriend doesn’t sound like my cuppa tea

kimmo on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:19 pm 



@ the angel so you dont want the internet boyfroiend cause you cant do the “deed” wahlanya wena

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:21 pm 



oh Angel you want the real thing…lol!

i am not the jealous type guys so my wife knows which buttons to intrigue me…condoms Miss An will be used for sure!!
Kimmo ke nnete!

Cutypie on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:24 pm 



LMAO..*sticking tongue out* to you too!! Seriously though, you need help nana. You might be doing this because of the fear of being betrayed, so I think that’s what you should work on first. Instead of contemplating on new cheating ideas.

Pule on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 12:35 pm 



@angel,i get what you mean by the internet boyfriend thing.
some of us are nottoo good with imagination,we deal better with reality.

TheAngel on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:21 pm 



Eish @cutypie you remind me of my 3 big sisters. Thanks for the advice but how do you deal with the fear of being betrayed vele? By trusting your better half. The bible says trust no one.

Haai the internet boyfriend wont serve a purpose for me. Askere this thing is kinda like a competition for me. If I do it and suspect that he’s doing something I’ll pretend to be angry, ka mo pelong I’ll be saying o dira gannyane mos wena and you’re a lousy cheat.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:34 pm 



I am about t o pack up my work station. I have been here for 3years and leaving is heartbreaking but on to better and bigger things.

facebook on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:42 pm 



@Angel I think u have a sex addiction.
Or u like to cheat to the point that u can’t help yoslf. Awusaziva

Lustagp on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:48 pm 



Kusi..all the best dear!! IT IS PART OF PROWING NANA!!

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:56 pm 



Thanks Lusta

Mapakisha on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 1:59 pm 



Huuuu shem Kusi, Coangrats again babe. U deserve bigger & better, good luck ne.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 2:21 pm 



Thanks my sweet Pakzin, lets hope JC is not blocked where I am going.

Mapakisha on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 2:36 pm 



Yu Kusi, ba ngaku phambaneli pha. Blocker JC, for intoni? They wouldn’t dare…. Or would they, eish!!

eve on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 2:59 pm 



@Tshisa ask yourself, why did you leave your ex, bcos i dont think he is even an option. the guy you met last week is not an option either, who knows how many skelettons he has in his closet, empower yourself and stop looking at other peoples posessions (his car, house) how many guys do you meet and say “oh, i dont have a girlfriend” we broke up a couple of months ago? really girl? please stick to the devil that you know.

KewlGal on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 3:17 pm 



@Pule.. thanks i will keep on humping till God decides to bless me..

i’m also scared of the mutis but sometimes when u want something badly u even think of things u would never do.. *shrugs*

Divine Warrior on Fri, 12th Aug 2011 7:29 pm 



Gd day all. Ive been a silent blogger for a while. You are not compelled to agree with or like what im about to say but all im asking for is that you take some time to read what God would love for you to know. What caught my attention this week was the ‘sounds of hell’ sound clip that was played during a sermon that i watched on dvd. You are advised to go on youtube and search for it. Everyday we are being given a chance to repent and live a life that is pleasing to God. Meanwhile, there are people in hell experiencing excrutiating pain wishing they made use of the chances they had to have a relationship with the Lord. His second coming is near and He will come at anytime. God loves you. Thanks for your time and patience.

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