Anything Goes…

February 21, 2012 by  

I really just want FRIDAY to come.. so I’m hoping this will speed this week up .

 

ANYTHING GOES.

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Comments

317 Comments on "Anything Goes…"

  1. Noance on Tue, 21st Feb 2012 11:56 pm 

    Hello Everyone! So Lent begins tommorrow,what are you giving up?!?

  2. lolington kwaaa on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:23 am 

    Hi Noance!!!!!!!

    And there I was thinking this week is really speeding like the teenagers of today! I can’t believe it’s Wednesday already. There really is something wrong. I think the seconds now go faster that what they used to.

    And Happy Wednesday almal!

  3. kimmo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:54 am 

    Agggg can’t believe my maternity leave is over going back to work in a week! It sucks big time

  4. Mr Law on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:48 am 

    Today im writing Economics semseter test…….Lord have mercy!!! what a work…….nxa!! i wanted ticket to REBECCA MALOPE DVD/CD recording unfortunately its SOLD OUT!!! Agggggg….

  5. LadyMillion on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:02 am 

    @noance,had to decide kulezi *social networks / blogs / meat / alcohol.
    am deactivating my fb/twitter acc

  6. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:21 am 

    Last night a so called friend of mine, (ex friend now) called me to tell me she’s dating my baby daddy..:-(

    People shouldn’t call themselves friends if they won’t even think twice about betraying you and ruining a good friendship because of dick.

    I told her shem that she’s dating a “Lord of the douche bags”, someone that can’t take responsibility for his own daughter, he won’t and doesn’t even visit when she’s hospital. Bastard won’t even call or sms to ask ho re ngwana o jwang. Hai some people ne!!

  7. LadyMillion on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:28 am 

    @dejane, wow some friend u’ve got there. Ayi u can date a guy i had a fling with but not babby daddy especially if u know i dont like him much. She has crossed the line, uzozbona! Atleast u warned her.

  8. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:11 am 

    @Noance,yazi m nt even sure yet but I think the douchebag I once called a boyfriend,he don’t call ,text,email n watever 4 weeks on end.I’ve now decided 2 end things 4 good with him,just when I thnk I’m about 2 let him know,baaam he tld me he got robbed on friday bamshaya n took everythinh frm hm even clothes.part of me doesn’t care bt another one says why kick hm when he’s down..please gimme sum advice ppl!

  9. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:17 am 

    @Dejane haikona ths frnd or exfriend of yours is wrong nje,she just ruined the smallest chance that ws thr 4 yall to ever reconcile(evn if thr was).an ex nje,ja myb she coulhv dated but baby-daddy hell no!

    I just hate guys who aren’t responsible for their kids,especially if they fail to do so even emotionally n physically

  10. Nerlee on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:29 am 

    @Noance what are YOU giving up wena? Mna I will be meditating on these words ” Andingo wam ndingo wakho, ndithathe undibeke apho undi funa khona”

  11. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 5:45 am 

    Happy ash wednesday folk…imma try giving up blogging for 40. Days…wish me luck! I have so little self control shem as far as this is concerned. I aslo need to give up my blackberry! I’m obsessed. I’ve had nicer phones before, hell I have a nicer phone than iblackberry, but those cost money to run. The blackberry is so so cheap. That I have gotten obsessed with it. My thumb get sore, my eyes start hurting yet still I can’t stop BBM-ing or whatsapp-ing(especially uVuyo) when I see the little red flash my heart skips a beat. I NEED HELP! I-Blackberry bubugwirha, iyathakatha le phone. Imma try give up the use of it. When my BIS expires I’m not gonna renew it. I NEED LUCK WITH THAT.

  12. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:07 am 

    Lent ima quit my silent treatment to my friends. I think I need help. Suddenly I have 0.00 communication. I love talking and I sometimes miss talking but I just can’t bring myself to open my mouth, Chat, Fb, BBM or tweet. I’ll read their status n laugh but I won’t respond.

  13. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:11 am 

    @Lolo I share the same sentiments yazi,the other day I had forgotten mine @home,yoh it was the worst day I’ve had this year.it was like ngishonelwe umuntu huz so close 2me even my collueges were worried cs its d 1st time I’ve bn sad m always so cheerful,but never wen my bb isn’t around.ill pray 4u hey lol

  14. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:16 am 

    @Dejane I’m sorry cc but there’s a possibility that ur douche baby father will treat ur friend/ex friend like a queen and even marry her. This things do happen kusemhlabeni la. Growing up I used to hear stories that X and Z were besties then Z told lies to Y who was X bf and they broke and Z na Y hooked today they r happily married with kids. Your case is better there were no lies involved and besenihlukene xola nana

  15. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:22 am 

    @Mr Law I have tickets to Ribs how much r u willing to pay lol

    @Slindoe dump him nana, he got robbed ayaphi cos clearly he wasn’t coming to c u. Silence for weeks!! That person is not ur bf. My friend used to visit his gf every wednesday, from the moment he leaves her place to next tuesday there’s no communication whatsoever. When I asked him he would say she’s lying -the girl dumped him and he rejoiced like seriously

  16. bongi on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:48 am 

    @ Snapshot what you saying about Dejane’s ex is true..people do change. Life unjalo nje…he is much older and wise now maybe your exfriend will even convince him to mantain his child.

  17. Floyd on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:16 am 

    Mara bathong snapshot grow a heart hle. Why should she dump him when he’s down and out.

    @lolo you gonna quit blogging? Lmao I’m sorry but that’s impossible. Its not gonna happen and did you say its gonna be for 40 days? Asiqale siyeke for few hours if siqeda sisaphila then si target-e leyo 40 days

  18. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:26 am 

    Hellow everybody.

    I for one hope this anything goes speeds up this week. Im gatvol not to mention my sinus is acting up due to the aircon in this place. Abelungu kodwa ne aircon mnxim.

    @Dejane nana are you angry that your baby daddy is dating your ex friend or that he has found someone? Do you still love him? If so you need to fight for him. Ungamyekeli ahambe kanti usamthanda that will only hurt you more. Friends or ex friends are like BTW they wont think twice emododeni. I also dated my friends ex simple because I thought they were playing and my friend dated a lot of guys. It doesnt justify it but after 10 years my friend and I still dont see eye to eye siyathetha nje for the sake of talking. Its wrong I know.

    Wena Lolo iBB will get you fired from work. I used to be like you. Then this Junior Engineer came to me and gave some small talk about controlling how much time I spend on my BB,. Mnxiim, i was angry but I knew he was not lying. Now i sometimes put it on my bag just so I could not see the red light coz vele its always on silent.

    @NKey uphi nana, sowubuyile eMatatiele?

    @Facebook hallow boo, unjani kodwa. Miss you. I sent you e-mail, you never replied.

    Where is Paks, been silent blogging kodwa havent seen her comments. @Snap reply to our e-mails wena uyeke ukuba livila apha, tshiii..

    Excuse the essay.

  19. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:31 am 

    Oh! and I wanted to share that after the last treatment I had for anemia I’m now healed. So all of you who had the same problem please ask your Dr’s about Iron infusion. It has been such a miracle to me. My energy levels are up. Im just like a new person. Energetic. Ukulala nje yinto endingayicingi tu. SOIL EATING a thing of the past, I become nauseous even when i think about soil. I truly thank God. I never knew how sick I had become.

  20. lolington kwaaa on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:31 am 

    @Slindoe ay you have a heart and a half nana, I salute you. I would’ve dumped him the 2nd day he pulled the ‘no phone calls’ stunt. Ay some men are something else. Chances are he does not care…he does not even miss you! Please dump him and save yourself future troubles and disappointments!!

    @dejane, let them be! They deserve each other! Nx! And I hope it does not work, how could she??? Bitch!!!

    Eish I have no idea what to give up, was thinking my favourate thing…meat, but it’s bad enough that current weight does not even allow me to donate blood, so nje I need all the proteins. But giving up something I don’t like so much will be like cheating God!

  21. lolington kwaaa on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:34 am 

    @lolo yazi ndandinjalo kwamina until my boyfriend sat me down and told me that iphone keeps us apart even though we spend most almost all our free time together. Wathi no more. Wandinceda shame, I was really sinking. This thing can be soooo addictive.

  22. siya on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:34 am 

    Hello evlibhadi,

    its Lent and my boyfriend says he is giving up sex, like WTF?? am pregnant and i need to Sexcersice, so i told him fine, but am not giving it up, imma sexcresice with or without him Mxim

  23. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:55 am 

    Wololo nazoke….@Siya u Wat?? Mithi?? Here’s @Dejane complaining that baby father doesn’t maintain and now he’s shagging bestie & u still have the nerve to fall preggies lol ….congrrrr

    @Nomaha lol ubuvila obukimi shem, just had a dream that today is Saturday & I’m going to P’s party eish kuthanda izinto.

  24. Botshelo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:55 am 

    @Nomaha whats the point of fighting for someone(you love) who does not want you and your baby (which is his as well)
    @Dejane, live and let live, we do not know who our soulmates are. It could have been you, you’d want friend to be happy mos

    Divorce your friend if it will reduce stress levels of hearing her call a douchebag “my love” in front of you

  25. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:59 am 

    The life of a studying and working mum is tough guys! I’m soooo overwhelmed *sigh*!

  26. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:17 am 

    @Noance- I am giving up meat nana. I eat so much off it. And you?

    @Dejane-tjo! Ku tough, the oldies weren’t talking kak when they said be careful of your friends around your man. I’m telling you! Askies

    @Snapshot-are you distancing yourself for no reason or is there a reason?

  27. siya on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:20 am 

    heheheh snaps, ngi mithi hhay he is still responsible for now, aszi ke as time goes on.

  28. Bootylicious on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:31 am 

    @Dejane ur friend is nasty real nasty, how could she? BEESHHH, I don’t care if baby daddy and I broke up a 1000 years ago but I will never be ok with my friends dating him HELL NO!!! Just forget about her nxa. Hi @nthoentle, how is ur little man? Have u finally lost the baby fat? Hi Noance wow u’ve been quiet. @Lolo come on am sure u can’t even go 40 minutes without blogging….

  29. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:32 am 

    @Lolo giving up blogging is like me giving up high heels! Will NEVER happen

  30. Boss major on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:38 am 

    @nomaha I feel you on the aircons story. You wil be surprised that the white being who complain a lot about it being stuffy and so on, its them who contribute to it being stuffy with their over active sweat glands

  31. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:40 am 

    @Bootylicious-my boy is great hey. Ei mara he can eat, LOL!

    No nana, I’m still size 34 *crying* but ill be good. I’m seeing results in the tummy area its just the thighs that are stubborn. How are you? And your boy?

  32. morekiki on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:40 am 

    Good morning all…anything goes right? Well the famous JC village bicycle is back to retweeting the famousonewhosnameshallnotbementioned lapha. hmmm, i wonder why!!! tltltltl

  33. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:42 am 

    *waves* Lolington, o grand?

    @Ladymillion so have you decided yet?

    @Slindoe thats going to be tough one but I think alot of people let go of alot of things during lent and never return to them. Goodluck sisi, matters of the heart are not easy.

    @Nerlee and @Nthoentle I am giving up smoking (I am quitting so this will help), alcohol and any negative thoughts, words or action. I will not allow my self to produce any negativity. I am going to try my best to remain in an attitude of gratitude at all times and not to be upset. Mission POSSIBLE!

  34. BlindFold on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:43 am 

    I am going to give up Facebook and Nail Polish (my nails are always painted).

  35. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:45 am 

    @morekiki ke mang o? hahahahaha *claps toe nails thrice*

  36. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:45 am 

    Guys, my twitter account was hacked. I didnt send that stupid DM. Now I cant evel login cos the hacker changed my password.

  37. Bootylicious on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:49 am 

    @Nthoentle glad u and ur little boy are doing gud, me and my little man are fine, he is also eats a lot lol but he is the cutest thing ever. I am going back to work in three weeks *cries* they should give me 2 more months. A size 34 is real gud hey, don’t be too hard on urself

  38. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:52 am 

    Nothing fits! I am a plain jane nje cos I refuse to buy too many size 34 clothes

  39. Bootylicious on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:54 am 

    @Morereki ke mang o?

  40. morekiki on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:55 am 

    @Noance haha mara the way! RT RT RT RT RT all the way!

  41. siya on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:56 am 

    he hehehehhe i got a DM from you too Fezzy,some link oh well.

  42. morekiki on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:58 am 

    think!!!! Jozi Insider!!!

  43. BlindFold on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:01 am 

    Drum rolls @Morereki..Nonhle Thema? Village bycicle..

  44. Backstabber on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:03 am 

    @morekiki you just dragged me out of silentville, o dula o na le 411.. Bua tu.. this is why some of us come onto the site, for mgozi!!!

    ke mang? or give us more clues plz

  45. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:06 am 

    #waits for the Zulu to invite#
    I have changed my mind about giving up blogging, tried it , gave it my best shot, but really…

    So imma gonna give up ukuhlekana instead!

  46. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:08 am 

    Thanks guys, i divorced her yesterday. She and I are no longer friends. Thing is a friend of hers dated her man, now she does this to me. She even hung up after telling me the news. Hai im done with people that couldn’t give a shit about me. I am over babby daddy, its her that im upset with coz i thought she was my friend. But maybe she thought our friendship was worth jeopardising. Its a question of whether or not you’re willing put your needs/feelings before those of others or not. Im a grown women, this too shall pass.

    In other news, can i partake in lent even though i aint Catholic. I want to give up meat, even i love it too much. Want to test my willingness to resist temptation. Its going to be hard. But im fasting for my daughters health and for a new job that pays well.

  47. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:14 am 

    Dejane whats wrong with your daughter sweetness? Hope she gets well yazi.

  48. morekiki on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:16 am 

    So it all began with a very high profile facebook relationship that turned into reality, fast forward a year later, JC blogger divulged a story that nearly shut down JC. Then the tweet that was meant to be a DM, then fast forward Rapper boy enters scene, love all around, tweets galore about loving my man…cheating is a choice, a man ought to love yada yada…then she starts trawling the ex’s photos, now bact to RT’s…

    lets wait and see.

  49. morekiki on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:16 am 

    No….not NT!

  50. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:18 am 

    @Dejane yes you can! its about what you willing to sacrifice as an individual.I’m also not catholic but its bewteen me and God. He knows that I’m fasting and what i’m fasting for. We all have our individual and specialized relationships with God. I pray God will answer you prayers and give you the desires of your heart.

    As for your friend, you have no control over how the people in your life treat you but you have control over how you react. Kick that unloyal kangaroo to the curb.

  51. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:22 am 

    @Morekiki is it Sihle Bolani?

  52. Backstabber on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:26 am 

    hahaha Sihle?! dated Aka – (he is a rapper), Dj Stale almost had the blog shut down when he threatened to sue?

    im guessing here? i am i cold? luke warm, hot?

  53. Bootylicious on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:32 am 

    Ao morereki u are speaking in tongues I am confused, can someone who understands pls tell me what morereki is saying? About who?

  54. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:36 am 

    Its Sihle or Bonang

  55. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:38 am 

    Come on Morekiki! Dont do this to us.

  56. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:41 am 

    @Fezzy my daughter was diagnosed with mild cerebral palsy.Thanks lady, She hasnt starting walking and she’s almost two. The physio-therapist said she has a weak pelvis. She has’nt started talking as well, she just mumbles and makes sounds, although she seems eager to talk soon. Then she’s epileptic, was admitted last month, each time her temperature is high, we have to close monitor it, and try reducing it or else she has a seizure.

    Work sucks. Im doing silly promotions that i have no interest in, la be lungu dont even pay me much. I earn less than R5 000 (i still get taxed 25% coz im a freelance), ngapha i work Monday to Monday. I just pray for a job i’ll enjoy doing while earning a decent salary.

  57. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:43 am 

    @morekiki its Sihle right?

  58. Pule on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:44 am 

    How many mins/hrs before the comments section of this blog are closed?

  59. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:50 am 

    @Morekiki please hurry up before BS sees the comments. Im sure use busy by the time ebona sobe sesifumene umgosi.

  60. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:56 am 

    Ao bathong @Dejane! Oh nana you breaking my heart! God will see you through

  61. Pule on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:57 am 

    @dejane,my thoughts and prayers are with your daughter and with you on the job situation. I have been thinking of what to give this lent (i am giving up alcohol for 40 days but since i mostly drink a can or two while watching football on tv, it is no big deal).Your post finally gave me an idea of what to do this lent.
    Once again,may you and your daughter experience light in these dark areas.

  62. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:57 am 

    Oh dejane phephisa nana. Gosh! Babydaddy and ur friend abanamahloni yazi. And uBabydaddy yena is a coward, running away from his responsibilities like that? Uthwele kanzima mos, the least he can do is to be there for his daughter.

  63. Shandu on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:01 am 

    Ouch Dejane God will see you through this sisi. unguNkulunkulu ongahluleki! My prayers are with you…. Be strong nana vha

  64. Botshelo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:05 am 

    @Dejane, sorry for what you going through, if it will make you feel better, my cousin “small wonder” has spastic (sp) cerebral palsy. He turned 7 on monday, but he looks like a two -three yr old. He started to walk when he was about 4, but he is now. Though he cannot talk, the fact that he pulled through such a milestone (walking) shows that God is great and we can never give up on smallie for as long as he is not giving up.

    Fast nana God hears and answers (Numbers 23:19) God is not mana that he can lie. and he says whatever you ask in my name I will do, so that the father may be glorified in the Son.Fast and ask for that Job and claim nana’s health

  65. siya on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:06 am 

    Wow @Dejane, so sorry about your girl, but God is with you and everything izoba right, your baby dady is a coward shem, leaving you with such responsibility; as for your friend… i have no words ubukhebereshe nje. dont stop praying God is with you gal.

  66. BlindFold on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:09 am 

    tick tock tick tock 5 4 3 2 1 ………

  67. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:12 am 

    @Dejane In any situation, I always say, look at what the word of God says baout your situation. The word says the Lord is a provider,He shall provide you with a better paying job. The word says He is a healer, by His stripes we were healed. I decree and declare that your daughter shall walk and that she will be a testimony of God’s healing power. Dont tell God what you heard from the doctors, tell Him what you read in His word and He shall perform it. He is not man that He should lie.

    For the next 40 days and 40 nights you and your daughter shall be in my prayers!!!!

  68. Mathaz on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:15 am 

    @dejane…your baby was fearfully and wonderfully made.She is made in God’s image and our God is whole and healthy.Dont be anxious about anything,she will be alright.Keep the faith and keep on praying.God’s timing is not like ours.She will walk and talk in no time.

  69. Jahara on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:21 am 

    I hate @dejane’s baby daddy!! I hate her ex-friend even more!! How can people be so heartless mara?

    @dejane,God knows where He’s takin u…there’s always a rainbow after a hailstorm. Hold on black queen…& be strong for ur daughter. Pray for restoration…ask God to restore everything in ur life. For he says He has written our names in the palms of His hands,& He’ll never forget us.

    Eish…makes me wanna talk about my uncle… By the grace of God,my uncle has had a breakthrough…the whole family,actually. We have emraced the fact that he will never be abled again,& so has he. I know coz when i look back & remember that scene when i saw 3 men (dad,& 2 uncles) cry from deep within,like little boys…& i look at everything now…God glorifies Himself in the most dreadful situations.

    Life…yah…*teary*

  70. kimmo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:22 am 

    @dejane you’ll pass through this phase god is great!

    Saw lerato moloi on top billing last week she looks beutifully pregnant!
    Wena nthoentle le booty stop talking abt the baby weight coz you really making me upset!

  71. KewlGal on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:36 am 

    Askies Dejane, will keep u and ur baby in prayers..

    WENA MOREKIKI ungazongidina la evhaaa!!

    Wuuu guys i’m soo bored even JC bores me these days, kanti what happened to mgosi aphekhaya? or amaceleb nama wannabes awasena zkandalz? the only gossip ever talked abt is NT if she dont behave crazy there’s nothing to talk about, aowa!

  72. BlindFold on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:42 am 

    @Dejane in Him we trust.

  73. IamJustPS_Mrs Drake on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:44 am 

    @Dejane your situation is heartbreaking sisi,be strong God will see you through all these :(

  74. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:44 am 

    @Kimmo-why? LoL. Are you also struggling? It will ok *hugs*

  75. PurpleReign on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:46 am 

    I’m so sorry @Dejane…when i am going throught hardship i always refer to the passage:
    “Women have strengths that amaze men. They
    carry children, they carry hardships, they carry
    burdens but they hold happiness, love and joy.
    They smile when they want to scream. They
    sing when they want to cry. They cry when they
    are happy and laugh when they are nervous. God see you through this”

    It always make me feel a lil better…and reminds of what i am capable of achieving in life, regardless of the obstacles on the way. Kuzolunga Sisi, just keep praying…uThixo ngeze akubeke apho ufefe lwakhe lungenofika khona.

  76. kimmo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:50 am 

    Nthoentle one day I look thinner the next I don’t especially my butt iyoo its frustrating I tell you plus I cnt do gym everyday!so guy last week told me that my bum looks like a tail even though we gud frnds it made me upset coz only if he knows how hard it is to let it go

  77. nana on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:50 am 

    Wow Dejane! May God be with you dear. Hold on for he knows what you need and he will definitely provide!

    And you still have “friends” that will betray you like tjhat on top of what you going through?! Wow, they dont deserve you.

    The village bicycle is Sihle. That part is obvious guys hawu..and DJ how wet ofcoz.

  78. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 11:54 am 

    @Dejane sometimes people come to our lives for a season…other times for a reason. Your lil baby chose to come earth through your womb…It was not a mistake or coincidence. Love your lil baby…don’t wish she was any different ,I promise you will learn from her more than she will learn from you. God trusted you with her, I hope you prove worthy of the trust. Your lame ass ex is denying himself the joy of parenting. His issue not yours. Read the book ‘Expecting Adam’ by Martha Beck (sp) If you can’t get hold of it lemme know, I’ll make a plan.

  79. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:03 pm 

    Change is gonna come!

  80. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:04 pm 

    Thank you guys, i feel like crying. Im coping as best as i can, although there are days where i feel i have no strength to deal with all of life’s issues. But thanks for all your well wishes and words of of encouragement, it means a lot.. hearts to you all

  81. freckles on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:06 pm 

    @Fezzy, what’s ur twitter handle?

    i just put 2 and 2 together and I realize it’s u they’re talking about. Who hacked into ur account babe?

    bloggers here are slow sho

  82. Pule on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:08 pm 

    @dejane, if you can’t find it and Lolo fails, i will make a plan for you. ‘Expecting Adam’ is a must read for you.

  83. facebook on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:10 pm 

    Eish today’s weather in Cpt is for uvalela umuntu ofresh, ingane yaseRez.

    It reminds me of high school days (Std 9) when half of the class will be nowhere to be seen after lunch break.

  84. Pelisa on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:11 pm 

    haybo guys is it true that Bonang is carrying Da Les’s child tjoooo???? apparently she 6 weeks preggies

  85. Miranda on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:18 pm 

    In the last two months I have expeirienced how heartless men(male species) can be and I thought ladies were emotional beings with tons of TLC. Dejane’s friend just proved me wrong….haibo, O o lo sisi ofune clapa straight.

    @dejane. o tloba sharp neh. Book yourself into a spa,buy an expensive item that you have always wanted etc. Apparently all of that work.

  86. Pule on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:18 pm 

    @Dejane, on second thoughts, drop me a line at rjakes10@gmail.com
    I have no clue who stole (or took) my copy of that book. I will buy a copy of that book and mail it to you.
    Kindly send a mail indicating your postal address.
    I hope mid next month will not be too far for you?
    you feel like crying? I am actually crying and my colleagues sitting close by must be wondering what is making a grown man cry.

  87. Kusihlwa on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:28 pm 

    @dejane, He does not give us more than we ccan handle so trust in that. for Lent I want to give up fighting with hubby, it seems like itd been going on for centuries not a week.

  88. nana on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:30 pm 

    Ncooo Pule, May God makes you live longer on this earth of his!! Blessings to you!

  89. freckles on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:32 pm 

    is there really no mgosi here? Do I have to part-take in guessing games? Da Les and Bonang? Well they were in the same high school right? That’s going to be one anorexic baby, with a very loud mouth.

    @Dejane, I just want to cry, ur story is extremely sad. The Lord will see u through. this former friend of yours, u shouldn’t even refer to her as such. How old are u Dejane?

    Oh and yeah, My BF and I called it quits. So I’m in a very sombre mood :(

  90. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:32 pm 

    @Pule is the kinda man I want my daughters to meet and marry!
    @Lela I understand now why you were torn.

  91. Beautybaby on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:33 pm 

    @Dejane, my heart and prayers also goes to you, i was wondering this morning what i need to give up, and like Noance i will dedicate the next 40 days to you and manana, May the hand of Almighty touch you and your little one including your family. *tears*

  92. Beautybaby on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:35 pm 

    @Lolo he is the kinda man i wanna divorce mine to marry, too sweet shem. we need man like you Pule.

  93. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:37 pm 

    @Pule, marry me. Thanks, Bye

  94. Beautybaby on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:39 pm 

    Ladies, those of you who are not on Twitter, BS and MsTaboo are working on organsing a Love Conference for under 40 ladies to share/laugh/cry about our love stories. So if you are keen send an email to inlove@justcurious.co.za.

    Sorry BS thought i should share the good news and i know you will let us know the details.

  95. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:40 pm 

    Thanks Everyone, @Lolo and @Pule will look for the book.

    Yho just came from the toilet for a quick sob. Thank you again. My daughter and I will be fine, we’ll survive this. More importantly i’ll pray for strength and have more faith in my wonderful creator. I appreciate all your kind words. <3. May God bless each and everyone of you.

  96. Lela on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:43 pm 

    Dejane you’ll be fine nana as your daughter grows she will also be fine. My 6 year old daughter also has mild CP which affected the speech, she is only learning to talk now from the 3 year old sister. She used dipers until she was 4 and there were times when i felt it was all too much for me but God gave me grace to pull through. Her cognitive behaviour is also a bit behind her age mates but she is doing GradeR in a normal school and she acts like any other child and she understands everythng you say in all the languages we use it’s now only the speech that is a bit behind and I never thought it would come to this but now I know that God is great and he hears our humble cries. He will come trhough for you sisi.

  97. Lela on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:46 pm 

    Ladies pleeeeaaaaaase ningandikhuphi emoyeni Pule is sorted already please please please! Take his advice an kind words and leave him alone siyevana!

  98. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:48 pm 

    Yewena freckles! Ungazong’hlanyela. Yimi iJC village bicycle? My Gaad! Ung’zwani vele wena?

    @fezzyt…go check my timeline, u will see that Im not famous so there’s no way I could make it to the headlines ye JC news.

  99. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:51 pm 

    jc memberes can amaze you when they wanna be human -its heartfelt…yall know how to get one up and running when the going gets tough-yall can be so spiritual that i ask myself lezi nhlamba nizithatha phi when yall start being wild…
    yall are speceial ….

    @dejane ..lentswe lere -tlisa merwalo ya hao yohle honna hobane joko yaka ebo bebe…*i hope u understand sesotho*

  100. Beautybaby on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:52 pm 

    *sits quetly in her corner* after Lela’s stern warning.

  101. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:53 pm 

    Sit down wena @Lela :D

  102. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:56 pm 

    @Freckles im 24 this year

  103. sk1 on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 12:58 pm 

    @Dejane cast ol yo fears unto Him , 4 he has ol the ansas

    @Morekiki kanti???

  104. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:02 pm 

    all the bloggers are out today…….hey @sk1

  105. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:05 pm 

    Guys please check Bonang’s tummy and tell me that Im just seeing things.

    http://bonangmatheba.com/2012/02/16/bdazzled-episode-14-glam-camp/

  106. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:10 pm 

    @Fezzy Whether she is carrying a baby or an ipad, I’m sooooo not bothered. I’m lenting from Bonang.

  107. freckles on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:11 pm 

    @Dejane, I can’t even begin to imagine your pain. We’re about the same age and here I am going on about my petty BF issues. I remember last year you mentioned that your baby was diagnosed, and I thought Dejane was a guy with a wife and a good paying job. Assumed all would be kosher. You’re the total opposite. Young single mother, with a huge responsibility and an absent father to ur baby. Take this bastard to court. If I could get my hands on him and this stupid friend of urs, I would bury them alive. So bloody insensitive. They deserve each other, I curse their rship. I’m angry!

  108. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:11 pm 

    @Dejane I will give up beating my son just for your daughter. May God be with you both. God will not give you something you can not handle I’m the living testimony of that.

    @Pelisa LOL! I thought you were coming with something juicy hay maan start another rumour.

    @Facebook bendigqiba kutsho ngoku kwi tshomi yam ndithi le yana mhlanje i weather yeyabantwana besikolo straight. bendingezuya classin tu. lol!

    On that note let me go get my self some KFC, LMAO! where is Promises or am I mistaken, skinless chicken?

  109. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:18 pm 

    @Nomaha nami I have to stop beating my daughter yazi. Eish mara she drives me nuts sometimes.

    Kwaaaaa umkhumbuzwa yini kodwa uPromise ne skinless chicken?

  110. KewlGal on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:19 pm 

    askies Freckels shem, hopefully awuzolamba cos i winter is very near..

    Ama celeb aya towna grand grand, why bemitha kangaka?

  111. Sundani on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:24 pm 

    @Dejane may God see you through and His stripes your daughter is healed.

  112. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:25 pm 

    guys im bored-fallin asleep here in my cubicle who can i call? gimme landlines there -@lolo gimme your landline

  113. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:26 pm 

    Eish…Im meeting with the new minister for the first time outside work on Friday. I hate first dates yazi. I dunno what to wear.

  114. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:35 pm 

    @Fezzy the new minister? hahahhaahah share lapho!

  115. dejane on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:35 pm 

    @Lela wow, was unaware. I’ve met a few mother’s whose kids have CP and all have encouraged me to stay positive which is what i intend to do. You guys are all amazing!!!

  116. Ms Android on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:37 pm 

    Manny ndicela undifounele bro.@021 685 1444 uthi ucela mna I’m serious ke, ndizobe ndilindile.

  117. Lela on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:39 pm 

    LOL Noance ke serios ake nyake utlwa niks kaPule.

    Manny please call me.

  118. Polly on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:49 pm 

    Aaaaae maan Dejane, may the God give you strength tlhe. Your precious gift will be Ok *hugs*

  119. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:53 pm 

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa hamba hamba jc-connecting people
    holler at msandroid-you sweet lil thing-im in love with xhosas

  120. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:54 pm 

    @Noance where were u?

  121. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:55 pm 

    @manny did u call her? Uthe ufuna ukukhuluma nobani?

  122. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:56 pm 

    @lela your fono-fono is off

  123. Shandu on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:56 pm 

    Mhhh Fezzy and I love first dates…. Wear something simple but enhle lol

  124. Jahara on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:57 pm 

    yooh! Guys,is it true that infants can get an erection? Like a 1day old infant? Ha! Help us baby mamas….is it true?
    *shocked*

  125. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:57 pm 

    @Dejane may God richly bless u, I too shall stand in the gap with you, the devil is a lier. We are created of God’s image, we are wonderfullt & fearfully made, your daughter too. God is prep u for mega things, that employment ish is a gate to greater things. If you want to sue brother man for maintenance feel free to do the law allows u.

  126. DrDee on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:57 pm 

    @Dejane you will be ok dear.Our prayers here on JC are very powerful.Ask @MissAn.Don’t give up.It shall be ok.We will remember you in our prayers and fasting.Don’t lose heart dear.

  127. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:58 pm 

    Eish @Fezzy I am under construction :-/ Work has been hectic, I work for such a difficult man (counting the days when I hand in my resignation letter,busy applying). But I’m back. Missed everyone, seeing new faces here,lol.

    How have u been?

  128. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:58 pm 

    come guys lethani ama foun numbers…..

  129. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 1:59 pm 

    @Dejane sisi jus take this with u “Thula wazi ukuthi nginguThixo” all things bow down in his name.ur little baby will be okay and don’t questions Gods will for ur n ur babys life kuzoba rite,I’m also fasting for ur babys health n for u 2 get a bettr job sothat ull b able 2 provide for her without seekin fanancial aid frm leslima somfana.

  130. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:02 pm 

    @Manny call me hawu ndakugqibela last year.

  131. Ms Android on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:02 pm 

    Geee! I don’t know what to say…thanks @Manny for calling nguku uNatalie (the lady ophendule iphone) sendibiza ngo Miss “Android Market” Kwaaaaaaaa.

  132. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:03 pm 

    *waves* at @DrDee, are u still in that foreign country which i forgot its name?

  133. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:04 pm 

    @nomaha haai I want new people-futhi wena u are taken….

  134. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:04 pm 

    @MsAndroid stop stealing uManny wan torho.

    @Manny there are no phones where I work, I work for a company that makes recharge pins for cellphones. I type numbers all day…Very exciting (not)

    Eish I was doing so well NOT laughing @ people today…I was keeping my promise to my maker , then this heifer comes to my cubicle rocking this wig yama dreads…Now I’m compelled to laugh @ her!

  135. kimmo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:04 pm 

    Hahahahahah@ jahara o bari yong! Ofcourse they do how will we know wheatha it works or nt hehehehehe! Hallo drdee

  136. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:04 pm 

    Tnx yall 4 helping me decide,I’ve broken up with him n I don’t even feel sad I’m so releaved.
    Yall are too special yazi

  137. sk1 on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:05 pm 

    I ws about to 4ward ma CV 2Pule , bt seein Lela’s warning , imma retract
    @Beautybaby , wat do u say on the email if u interested kwi conference

  138. sk1 on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:07 pm 

    hey manny , how u doin?

  139. bongi on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:11 pm 

    @ Manny you still have both my numbers mos..**walking past**

  140. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:11 pm 

    @lolo i wig yama dreads/ doesnt it look rediculous ?
    abantu banezimanga stru…
    tjo deathby boredom and these monkeys will only give me work before-i wont touch it

  141. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:13 pm 

    yeah @bongi..but both your numbers are off babe?

  142. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:14 pm 

    Haibo @Manny uwrongo shem.

    @Ms Android I’ma call you right now siplane nge dat yethu *hides from last year*

  143. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:17 pm 

    This place has not been the same without you @Noance.

    Eish Shandu I dont like it yazi. Im so excited but scared at the same time. We’ve been an item for 2 weeks now and obviously u brother man will want us to kiss. Dont u just hate that? Cos awazi if he is a good kisser or just a horrible dishwasher. Tjo! Ang’sayikhulumi ke eyoku towna come the D-day. LOL I just asked him ukuthi what is uku towna and he said its having sex without a condom and here I was thinking it meant having sex nje.
    Hayi Lolo u guys (amaXhosa), ni special shem.

  144. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:23 pm 

    Aaaaaaaaah thank u @Fezzy

    LOL @ uku towna! Dont know what that is even anymore. Have been celibate for 3 years and going strong!

  145. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:28 pm 

    Haibo Fezzy seyithetha ngoku towna kwa ngoku kodwa its only been 2 weeks, TJO!

    Eish! I think part of the reason I’m holding on to my man zezinto ze first dates yhazi. I’m terrible kwi conversations mna. Wear a nice pair of jeans ne top something bright but not too much white or light pink so and heels. Fake one or two bangles simple earing then you are good to go. Men will forever remember first dates so make an impression but do not be too much.

  146. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:33 pm 

    LOL Nomaha, Im just saying. If he is a horrible dishwasher then he can forget about uku towna shem. If he is good then ng’zomupha atleast 2 months, see if uyakwazi ukunyamezela.

  147. bongi on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:33 pm 

    .he..he Fezzy yhoo lendoda ifuna impundu gou so?.. izakutya ikushiye sisi – thats a Xhosa man ..better give it to him when he wants it whether its first date first hour of meeting…if he wants it mnike …we xhosa siyawathanda amanyala..

    Goodluck…

  148. DrDee on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:34 pm 

    Hie,@Kimmo glad to hear that the baby is well.Don’t worry about the bum love.You should see how bumless the girls are here.Hie @Noance.Yes I am still here,but now they want to send me to Libya can you imagine.

  149. Mapakisha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:42 pm 

    @Nomaha, i’m here.. trynna do the same(silentblog)

  150. facebook on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:47 pm 

    Hi Nomaha where have you been jo?
    Welcome back.

    My email account shutted down last month and I’ve lost yo email address.

    U can email me on that same address though.

    Lol @Manny buti ma numbers. I bet yo fone’s address crushes every weekend zinumber mfono-mfo

    @Bongi when is the big day kaloku. Oko ndakugqibela pha

  151. Noance on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:47 pm 

    @DrDee Hai no, Libya? they rather bring you back home shame. tell them I’ve said so.

  152. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:50 pm 

    @Fezzy ndicela uyekele ung’rasela ngendoda yomxhosa tuu, I’m feeling jealous!

  153. Wild Island on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:56 pm 

    @slindoe..so he was robbed 4 weeks ago u mean or he contacted u this past friday? UNAANGA LOMFANA.. cos he knows where u stay mos and inamba yakho uyayazi angithi…..old tricks…LAHLA

    dumelang
    *scrolls up to read

  154. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 2:56 pm 

    Hhayi Bongi azange athi ufuna impundu hawu.
    Kanti wena unjani? First you tell that ungitya angishiye then u say I must give it to him nge first date? Hayibo!
    No he’s getting none shem, thats why we meeting at a restaurant.

    Hhayi Lolo uzoba strong yeva bhabha? U cant compete namadoda, indoda has the real thing, wena ng’zodlala nawe mang’khathele indoda.

  155. facebook on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:06 pm 

    The minister is not even done with his speech but the price of beer is already up by 50c in this pub.

    Lemme go to kasi where I can still buy ibeer nge R8-50

  156. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:13 pm 

    @Fezzy I hope your Xhosa Romeo is circumcised and that the ncgibi went overboard leaving him with a dick that is smaller than clit.

  157. Beautybaby on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:13 pm 

    @Sk1 i just said me and my sis will be there. so just say you are interested.

  158. bongi on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:13 pm 

    @ Facebook twenty one ka april…

    bendise gugs nge cawe and last saterday- bendiba ndizokubona..

  159. bongi on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:16 pm 

    kwa..kwa..kwa..kwa.. Fezzy ndiyadlala sana.. akazukushiya..kodwa i cant guarantee that he wont want them nge first date ..its normal.

  160. facebook on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:26 pm 

    @Bongi le weekend ibingekho rite. And on those weekends I rather stay at home and drink coffee with biscuits than ndizirhalisele.
    Otherwise kule weekend ungandibona

  161. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:26 pm 

    @Wild Island uthe they robbed him last fiday,he only calls lastnight(I ignored hm the calls)then texts me that crap.we been together for abt 3yrs nw uberyt all along cha manje ungenwe shm uswine.but ke nothin lasts forver

    Pule is just too sweet for words bathong!

  162. slindoe on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:33 pm 

    Vodacom is k*k kodwa yazi,the internet connectivity is always on off or pemanently nje,yaz my bis isizo expire nje ngiysebesa fr js a few hours makthanda amakhanda abo.I’m changin 2 mtn ngkhathele ngdiniwe

  163. sk1 on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:33 pm 

    @Beautybaby Yes m interested

  164. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:39 pm 

    @facebook..ngudu is the way to go…..

  165. manny on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:41 pm 

    @lolo haai uthetha izinto ezinkulu wena

  166. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:43 pm 

    Lolo intoni manje ingcibi?
    @bongi, thanx for warning me gal. No wonder he wants us to meet at that mall close to his place.

  167. Fezzy on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:48 pm 

    Kanti why Mr Price sell short dresses only? I want a dress that goes beyond my knees atleast.

  168. Nomaha on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 3:53 pm 

    @FEzzy try Legit for longer dresses.

  169. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:02 pm 

    @Fezzy wena na! Hamba ntombazane, lol yaz I don’t think me & brother had idate, I’m just thinking about it now, tjo! Talk about long distance

    @Nthoenthle I don’t have a reason whatsoever, but maybe I’ll have it from yesterday, I told them I’m going to Usher concert with brother- yesterday I get a msg asking about ticket price, my seat number etc she wants tg- I was like shem if she thinks I’ll offer transport & company she must think again

  170. Cutie on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:08 pm 

    @Fezzy – Goodluck Nana with your date. Each time I hear about someone going on a date I just think of the following joke that has been doing rounds on e-mail (people trying to
    impress). I hope your minister doesn’t do that. Here it is :

    Tami takes Noni out for supper to Spur

    Tami: Baby uzaku Order ntoni
    Noni : Ndizaku Order whatever you will be having dear , I know you have good choice and we have a lot in common
    Tami : Ok not a problem
    Tami: Sorry sisi please help us *ekhwaza I waitress* sicela I Menu
    Noni : Yabona ke Phura ndikuthandela ezizinto , nam imenu ndiyayithanda yazi so ndizakutya yona …..

  171. Wild Island on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:09 pm 

    @manny”i ask myself lezi nhlamba nizithatha phi when yall start being wild…” hai wild okena kae moo kwaaaaaaaa
    @snap pls ne wena no manny dont dissapoint i have already booked a place for all of u ne “BUSY CORNER HERE WE COME” tho se around joburg abafuna ukusibona ..manny,snap& wild pls come through-my birthday celebration ko busy corner thembisa:) i cant wait
    @Dejane(((((((((HUGS))))))) sisi God knows how hard we try ngama great expectations wethu sisi and yo uncle nana
    @Nthoentle hows o nana doing bathong:)
    @Facebook ungayisho ye bhiya nayii 20 inyuke nge 58c tjooooooo sobhema i RG mostan aaaah nxa lol…i budget ye 1 trillion singenaphi thina zidakwa hai

  172. Nthoentle on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:17 pm 

    Aaaahhh aunty @Wildy-nana ke senatla and trying to walk. He’s too cute hle. I can’t wait to have more children.

    Eish I must drive to Rau now *sigh*! Working and studying is nie pap and vleis. Yo, after honours e ke pens down. Ke kwele

  173. lolo on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:20 pm 

    @Manny incinci i-clit njee…what do you mean ukuba ndithe izinto ezinkulu, plus a dick tha is smaller than a clit is minute…Mine had a name shem (clit) I name izinto endizithandayo…I’ve always called my clit Lil Bean!

  174. Wild Island on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 4:31 pm 

    @Nthoentle…thats so sweet hle..ahole omohlokomele akere ausi:)
    @lolo hows u my dear…

  175. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 6:04 pm 

    @Wildy sizobe silapho nomakanjane lol
    @Nthoentle I know that very well- it costed me some valuable friendships
    @Wildy kwaaa deathby u complaining on the increase of the harzardous material lol

  176. Wild Island on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 6:57 pm 

    @snap tjoooo mzalwane angeke phela ngizlanya haaaaa dress comfy ne syojaiva strong hope ur not a vegitarian lol

  177. Ayoba on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:39 pm 

    Ag…Fezzy u can wear isigcebhezane,ha..ha..

  178. Ayoba on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 7:46 pm 

    Mhh..LilBean tjooo madoda ningandenzi ndise span!

  179. sxylin on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 8:45 pm 

    aweeee @dejane ; im sorry about your little girl please let me know if you need help its just sooo sad when you feel so helpless and you cant help your child ! I think you just inspired me please let me know if you are interested to chat; Nthoentle and Lolo know how to get hold of me! Big hugs and blessings! Like Lela said your lil girl will reach her milestones … im praying for you hun, and should you be interested pls dont hesitate to let me know

  180. Nerlee on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 9:17 pm 

    **GrOup huG**

  181. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:48 pm 

    Joins @Nerlee’s group huggies….@sexyl I feel the same as u about Dejane yaz, I’ve realised that as much as we don’t know each other, we make fun of each other, insult etc we one big family, we care about each other & we love each other.

  182. snapshot on Wed, 22nd Feb 2012 10:51 pm 

    Buka manje we united against this disease affecting our kideos, we also feel sorry for @freckles olahliweyo lol mxim that 27yr old boy ingcolile

    I’ve personally met unana ka @Lela I remember she said something about her having something but I didn’t notice anything wrong with her, she’s a bubbly gorgeous little misses

  183. Makgotso on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:53 am 

    Dejane: There is nothing impossible with God, you are in my prayers and your baby girl as well.

    Wild: I’m tagging myself along phela iBizzie what what is closed to my hood and I have never been there been singing a song of going there

  184. snapshot on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:31 am 

    @Makgotso woza we will have fun- Biz corner is ayoba kuya nathi bomzakes lol
    @wildy I’m no vege wat wat so ayize lenyama lol
    @Mbuluzani has it ever occurred to you that maybe @BS doesn’t want bloggers there. I mean why advertise,publish and talk about the proposed conference on Twitter only and not discuss it here on her site= its clear bloggers r not her target market

  185. Bigmama on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 6:46 am 

    @dejane be strong cc and keep on praying will include u in my prayers..

    Who’s dating Gail nkoane? I’m curious

  186. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 7:06 am 

    Aaahhh @Sxylin nana you are too kind! You are so giving,God is going to bless your children heavily!

  187. fabulicious on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:09 am 

    Hello everybadi!

    Jus read all the posts this morning!
    @dejane my heart goes out to ur situation, be strong love God does not make mistakes,He surely knows what u’re going thru and He’s there blive me.
    I love the spirit of encouragement and empathy that sum fellow bloggers had, if it wasn’t for the tendency of a select few who like breaking ppl down sum of us wud be sharing more.

    @nthoentle nana pls give me ur email ad, mine is too obvious and I myt have friends and collegues here…I remember u wrote urs here once. Pls!

  188. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:24 am 

    dumelang-can it not be friday already-this heat is not doing justice to us ….most if all i cant wait to be paid iyo…

  189. snapshot on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:29 am 

    @Manny the heat is worse my friend, yesterday I went to Pta, tjo my thighs were so scratchy shem, I tried putting a paper juts to cover them for direct sunlight hai kwafana nje, bewabuhlungu afefetsa tjo! I lost my jhb complexion mxim

  190. Kusihlwa on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:38 am 

    Holla Heita JC peeps!!!!!!
    Ex-Bafana Bafana player Thabang Lebese died last night,How sad…Apart from that ny wisdom teeth are killing me. I am considering having them removed but I heard that the pain is excrutiating. Can I get views from people who have gone through the extraction process.

  191. Fezzy on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:40 am 

    Can sum1 please find dejane and tell her that syxlin is willing to help her.

  192. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:41 am 

    snap u wake up too early wena yazi …u should be resting stru….thina si busy la kuma cubicle ….
    woooza saterday …i cant wait ..ziyawa ka wildy…

  193. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:51 am 

    Its my full name . My surname @ gmail. Com

  194. Noance on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:53 am 

    Morning Folks! Happy thursday.

    How sick is the national enquirer?!? They published photos of Whitney Houstonm in her coffin. That is so messed up.

  195. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:57 am 

    Kwaaaaa @Snapshot and her JHB complexion. PTA is blazing hot hey and people think PLK is hot, this place is WORSE!

  196. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:05 am 

    @nthoentle are you coming ko busy corner ka saterday ?
    ke batla ho o bona please

  197. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:22 am 

    @kusi am also thinking of removing my wisdom teeth, i didnt sleep last night coz of the pains..

  198. hot.chocolate on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:26 am 

    @Dejane, ur story really touched me. I’m gonna pray for u babe and I’m sure that there’s lots of silent bloggers out there who will pray for you as well. Keep strong sisi and eventually everything will be fine.

  199. Fluffie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:44 am 

    Morning All,

    Read all the comments – it’s amazing to have such kind people around you…@Dejane have faith, our God is faithful.

    @Kusi & @Sundani – it’s not so painful when you for surgery and they give u anaesthetic. I took out 4 in 1 go because of the daily headaches I get. U will have to eat light food for a week or so…Good luck…

    @Wildy eeerrrmm what time koBizzy?

  200. Kusihlwa on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:49 am 

    @Sundani, for me it started this morning, I woke up with a swollen face and now its just pain one way..

  201. Nalizo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 9:56 am 

    @Dejane stay strong sweetie,uThixo uyayibona intlungu yakho kwaye He’s got plans for you.

    @Kusihlwa….that’s sad news,I knew he was in hospital and apparently couldn’t feel his legs.Didn’t know it was that serious :(

  202. Fezzy on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:01 am 

    @Kusi my 5 year old daughter had her tooth extracted in Dec and she was fine. They gave her that injection, she didnt feel anything when they took it out and there were no pains afterwards.

  203. Miranda on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:01 am 

    Off topic. Eish bathong,I want to go to the Cape Town Jazz Festival hle….1st problem ,does any1 of you guys know of any travel agency that can give me a package (flight tickets,hotel fares and event tickets) at a reasonable price.

  204. facebook on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:04 am 

    Mornings

    Bahlali don’t put yo work telephone numbers on JC.

    Some of us in our workplaces work with systems that can search a name of the company by using a landline.

    I know the u’re for @Ms Andriod. And its in/around Rondebosch. #NoStalker, #JustCurious

  205. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:11 am 

    @flufie ive decided to stop eating meat until ive removed it.

    @kusi mine was not swollen and i sprayed a perfum on the painful teeth and the pain stopped after few minutes, u can also try it or chew garlic or onion with the painful teeth to ease the pains,, get well

  206. facebook on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:12 am 

    Eish ndiyayibhala inonsense

  207. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:12 am 

    Kwaaaaaa @Manny- Buzy Corner ke eng? E ko kae? Why o nyaka go mpona? I’m nothing like what my JC name means, believeeeee me!

  208. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:18 am 

    @facebook u have a lot oftime on your hands zoku googlisha i company zabantu..
    eish im looking forwad to payday-i cant drink booze and treatment ..life is so unfair

  209. sexymm on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:46 am 

    Molweni.

    @sexylin, yazi i’m sure ngike ngakubona eCappuccinos in Carlswald, you were with your baby and a coloured lady(i think), it was in Nov/December, last year.

    @Wildy, what time is the busy corner do?

  210. dejane on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:56 am 

    Hi everyone. Thank you all for your kind words once again. I really appreciate it. @sxylin my email addy is deejane88052gmail.com

  211. dejane on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:57 am 

    *deejane8805@gmail.com

  212. facebook on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:57 am 

    Manny like I said I was just being curious.

    Its phuza-thirstday namhlanje. Some are washing their wallets – hlamb’ ispaji lol

  213. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:12 am 

    @nthoentle ke shisa nyama ko midrand ….ke nyaka ho o bona fela samma …hape re lo lebogisa wildy ge e dia megwaga emintshi

  214. snapshot on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:15 am 

    @manny if I was making money out of not sleeping I’ll be rich by now, I sleep 3-4hrs daily.

    Since wildy invited everyone I’ll do the honours and respond to the braai’s questions.
    We meeting at Biz corner Midrand/Tembisa at 14:00 this saturday.

    I would like to see sexymm, nthoenthle, sundani, mapakisha, biskiti actually all the jo’burgers izani sijabule

    @manny beer price ikhuphukile kwaaa

  215. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:20 am 

    @snapshot dont laugh at other peoples misfortune ..mina i also drink wine so im covered dont mess with me….

  216. sxylin on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:25 am 

    lol @ sexymm i already agreed it was me…..! @deejane check your mail hunnie; its like 4:20am here; and im down with the flu; i had a long 17 hr flight so i slept most afternoon now my body is tired! havent seen my son in 2 weeks and now he is gon have flu :(

  217. Makgotso on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:30 am 

    Snapshot: I will be there what time on is it, got an afternoon appointment maybe I can drive to bizzy afterwards.

  218. Makgotso on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:35 am 

    bathi the storm in Midrand tjoooooooooooooo my friend arrived at home on Tuesday wathola everything isemanzini endlini, eish and last night the lightning was something else ngilahle ilaptop lekude ngenxa yayo.

    I don’t like winter but uma kunje ayisale isifika.

  219. bongi on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:37 am 

    hello family…ok the JOBURGERS are getting together koo whatwhat shisanyama..

    CAPETONIANS let do our own kwaMaphindis..@ facebook please take over and make all the neccesarry arrangements..

  220. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:39 am 

    @Wildy happy birthday love lam for this weekend… have a fab time…My hubby also celebrated his 40th birthday yesterday…So I’m having a little party for my man…I love parties shem…Especially house parties @ my house…I loke forward to:

    1. A house full of black people in varying states of drunkeness.
    2. Old aunts who always insist on starting the proceedings with a long prayer, followed by an even longer speech.
    3.The fake “relative” who seems to somehow know where everything is, the fake relative, is so convincing that even the host asks them be in charge of the breddom with the freezer.
    4. The hook- ps, the break – ups.
    5. the relative who bring a large two litre ice cream container, fills it up with meat, before they have even eaten, then insists ukuthi uphakela abasele endlini even though she brought every kid she has ever given birth to and the husband.
    6. the irritating people who ask for salt before even tasting the food.
    7. The rhythmless neighbour who spends the whole night dancing ( babdly even when the music stops)
    8. The threatningly beautiful two chicks, that are not know who make the married women insist that they, and the husbands leave early.

    CANNOT WAIT!

  221. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:41 am 

    I’m spelling like @Lusta… tjo!

  222. Lela on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:46 am 

    The thing is I should be going to Ribs’ DVD recording now if ke ya ko Wildy’s party ndizofika ecaweni sendiqhuba amatakane,ayi ngeke!

  223. Nomaha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 11:49 am 

    @Miranda I can rent out my shack to you at a very low price.

    @Wild I’m also coming up to Jozi for your party. Will not miss it shem uthenge imonnis ibe ninzi for Snap and me ;-) .

    @Bongi yhazi that is a really good idea. Ey! kodwa mna kula farma ndihlala kuyo ndofika nini kwa Maphindi heh kodwa akunani itrain ikhona ndizofika.

    @Sexylin God bless your giving heart. Uhlale unjalo.

  224. sexymm on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:00 pm 

    @Snapshot, I have a feeling that I know you, that we work for the same company.

    @Lela woza e busy-corner tu, ngathi kuzobamnandi.Mina I want to meet Lungsta, is he coming?

    @Lolo, kwaaa @ The threatningly beautiful two chicks, that are not know who make the married women insist that they, and the husbands leave early…tl tl tl

  225. Pule on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:08 pm 

    This Wildy party seems the place to be this weekend.

  226. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:25 pm 

    Oh, so its @Wildy’s party ko Buzy Corner. Now I get it,lol!

  227. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:31 pm 

    I can’t make it @Manny and @Snapshot. We are baptising my son this Saturday.

    You guys must take pics and email them to BS so we can see what went down.

  228. kimmo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:38 pm 

    Hehehehehe@nthoentle.sxylin o ko kae kante?

  229. Wild Island on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:40 pm 

    Dumelang…

    C u there:)

  230. Wild Island on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:42 pm 

    @Nthoentle to BS? they’l be on my fb page love…tsakamo retladi bona ka “forever coming JC party”..ake baye skelem tjo lol

  231. snapshot on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 12:44 pm 

    @Sexymm mina I thot I know ur hubby I had a feeling we worked in the same company but threw those thoughts away……maybe its u lol aren’t u back na? We’ll meet some other time

    @Lela woza epartini man I’m also going to Ribs but u driving, ithi ngishayelelwe wuwe lol promise not to check ur thighs kwaaa

    @lolo so after Wildy’s party do we cedela the party kwakho

  232. facebook on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:13 pm 

    @Bongi I think wena or uNomaha can do a better job in orginising our Cpt version of Wildy’s get-together. Or Nkey.

    At least you guys have other bloggers’ contact details. And I dont

  233. sefula on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:16 pm 

    Ladies this is directed 2 u, y do we like to look down on each other?
    We should get it that there’s some1 who’s prettier and sexy more than u. I went to this popular salon in midrand, and found this other gal and he friend doing their hair, this other 1 looked so down on me, she thought maybe I’m just an average gal. She was talking abt herself, clothes, car she likes etc. There came my ex colleague I haven’t seen her in close 2 a year, she started congratulating me abt my success etc we went outside 4 my colleague 2 check out my new baby, she followed but went 2 the ladies, 2 her surprise BOOM I’m driving her dream car plus colour. When we got back, she wanted 2 chit chat with me, shem I told her I wasn’t interested, I normally don’t do that but she pissed me when I arrived there by looking down on me.

    Ladies let’s stop doing this. Ya tena man. Sorry 4 engrish + typos

  234. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:19 pm 

    @sefula k kopa lift lol

  235. sefula on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:24 pm 

    Most weekends I’m free. But u dnt know which car I drive hahahaha

  236. Fluffie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:34 pm 

    Eish it’s a tough one @Sefula – us females; we are going about it the wrong way! Be it a great well paying job, business, family with a responsible hubby! We just don’t wana see the other woman prospering and having it all and everything going her way! I don’t know what it till take to change that mentality! but it’s just sad :(
    Every girl thinks she’s better than the next!

  237. kimmo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:35 pm 

    What car do u drive sefula?

  238. Dsaint on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:38 pm 

    Guys please help me, I ve been fighting with ma boss for quite sometime and so he pressed charges against me over a silly mistake and I got a month suspension and I dicided to tender ma resignation a day after I hearing. Which was two weeks back.

    Now already I ve heard interviews and I’m struggling to answere why I quited, the one I from I said I was retrenched and they wanna call ma boss.

    If I say were fighting Aint gona seem like some1 who runs away if he has problem? Wht must I say kuma interviews. Please help

    Hayi amabhunu asezi mayini ayihlupha I’m done with the Mpumalanga bundus.

  239. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:47 pm 

    @dsaint let me school you about quiting….

    when they ask why you resigned #sit up straight and say – I felt I had reached the ceiling in my previous company in terms of growth-

  240. sefula on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:49 pm 

    @Dsaint, just be honest when you being interviewed. You will get a job keep on praying.
    @Fluffie it breaks my heart. Why can’t we motivate one another? Be role models for our young sisters.
    Than competing over clothes, shoes ‘material stuff’ etc.
    @ kimmo

  241. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:49 pm 

    @saint- continue to say -I am looking for a new challenge ,something that will make me feel useful and worthwhile-I want to go home and know that I have worked hard and smart to benefit my company and the growth of those around me

  242. sefula on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:51 pm 

    @manny good answer

  243. anytime on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 1:54 pm 

    lol manny. u have been to one too many interviews but that is the best answer vele. You cant be telling the truth, that is just plain stupid (no offence to anyone).

  244. sxylin on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:01 pm 

    lol@malume Manny lets start a company! @Kimmo im in the USA

  245. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:01 pm 

    lol guys its tough to job hunt-and u will see scary things ….u need to be strong lol

  246. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:02 pm 

    @sexylyn come..ill do the HR-but with me ill hire everyone .ive got a gud heart I can never turn anyone way

  247. sxylin on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:05 pm 

    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh then that will be a bad combination; two big hearted people = POVERTY we might as well start an NPO looooool

  248. Dsaint on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:12 pm 

    Txs guys, if here of accountant positions please hala @ me.

  249. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:17 pm 

    @snapshot, i’d have loved to be there but shem irand li low blind, lol! Hi all:)

  250. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:18 pm 

    @dsaint I can holler at you if you will mistakenly put in 3grand extra on my salary every month …..

  251. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:19 pm 

    @mapakisha ohola ka last day of the month?
    id die iyo..ekare kele broke so? i dont wanna see tin food near me

  252. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:22 pm 

    Wildy, wena ya hao ereng e-mail address??

  253. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:25 pm 

    @Sefula just tell the truth, the whole truth, you have no idea how disarming honesty is, the people interviewing you would have sat through interview after interview of people who try and sound like the perfect employees. Just say that you made a couple of mistakes in your previous employment and that you now feel you’ve learned from them and that you would like to start again afresh cause you are scared of being labelled @ your previous job.

  254. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:27 pm 

    @LOLO dont be misleading omunye umntwana,,,,,who will want to hire a rebel that doesnt listen to bosses and challenge their authority..ungazo dlala la..u need to set your foot in and then show them flames

  255. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:28 pm 

    @manny, yes ka gola ka last day of the month & ke hola almost ka last day of the month – 1st day of the month actually, lol.

  256. Dsaint on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:32 pm 

    3 grands ndoda, can take u out for beer and then Oxford afterwards every trimester for a year.

    Or once of all paid trip to Maputo or something like that and pimp u up with 3 haute nos for a week.

  257. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:35 pm 

    @mapakaisha we can be good freinds….come 25 we chow my money and come the 31 we chow yours ….now wee need umngane we 15th and the 20th then were covered.#its calles strategy

  258. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:36 pm 

    I so envy you guys who are going to shisanyama on saturday.

    @Snapshot nami i wish to meet u kodwa ngiso lundi..

  259. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:44 pm 

    @ pakzin pullyl@theprepaidcompany.co.za use that email

  260. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:44 pm 

    @Manny I remember my interview neh? when I was asked what my weakness is, I told the truth, but I got hired anyway…Don’t you read the Bible? The truth Shall set you free shem!

  261. Cutie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:48 pm 

    I can’t get over how hot JC used to be back then. I wonder what happened to the editor of Jozi Insider? Damn he was good.

  262. Wild Island on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 2:55 pm 

    manje why is no one covering the Thabang Lebese story ke? its too quiet for my liking

  263. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:00 pm 

    @manny, o bua nnete – strategy ryt there. lol
    thanks for Wildy’s e-mail address..

  264. Dsaint on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:02 pm 

    Its to quite indeed I just keep coming back for Lolos comments she is ma shero, she can give Nomakula a good run for her money.

  265. LadyMillion on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:03 pm 

    My man says he is giving up meat..but just red meat,he will still have chicken.and userious,i told him he is cheating.its like saying ur giving up on alcohol and u still go and have umqombothi #Lent

  266. Wild Island on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:03 pm 

    Got it:)

  267. Ayoba on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:12 pm 

    LadyMillion u better watch out if uthi uyiyekile i red meat bcs udla inyama yomlenze,kwaye uyayi enjoyer lo vleis.

  268. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:14 pm 

    @Dsaint I love you sthandwa sam. People who like me have such good taste #she says humbly and modestly#

  269. Nthoentle on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:19 pm 

    I got this message. Anyone unemployed, ages 22-27 must send cv’s to cvs@bambelelaplacements. Its for multichoice learnerships. Or call Charlotte 0827884144

  270. kimmo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:19 pm 

    Bathong what’s this “lent” word that keeps on popping on comments I just can’t help but ask if it means something

  271. Ayoba on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:20 pm 

    I dont like red meat bcs I’M still single and I dont cheat…ha..ha..

  272. Fluffie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:22 pm 

    Yah I also need a platform to vent about e-toll this is sh!t

  273. Ayoba on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:22 pm 

    Kimmo u look sweet baby!

  274. Wild Island on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:24 pm 

    go ahead Fluffie…mina am still trying to find out ukuthi s i am frm the eastrand, i pass 2 tollgates then join the N3 (on my way to Sandton) then pass abt 2 or 3 of these things…i wonder ngiyothola i discount na abasho lutho ive been asking forever nxa

  275. Ayoba on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:28 pm 

    “KwaNotiti” Mandela bay is the nice place to chill out this weekend.

  276. Fluffie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:28 pm 

    @Wild tjoo so much! apparently light vehicles will be capped at R550 per month! That is still bloody too much! I don’t wana pay at all – I haven’t got any increase as yet! this is bull crap! And Manyi wa teng is telling us to get used to it! WTF? Can’t we boycott this whole thing??? No maan! 30c per kilometre? I pass 2 e-toll thingies to wark and back, 4 round-trip! abahambe bayofa! *contemplates going back to the Zululands*

  277. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:42 pm 

    @Wildy & others, e-mail yaka eya acta that’s why ke le quiet. Maybe e shocked that i suddenly have so many contacts, lol. Will forward u my other one:)

  278. Kusihlwa on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:46 pm 

    @lolo,we lolo, do you remember that I sent u photo of myself but u neva sent me urs, ngiyasifuna isithombe sami

  279. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:46 pm 

    @Kimmo lent is the period 40 days before Easter (good friday) Not sure why it is significant…I think it is calculated from the time Jesus took the donkey and made the journey to his death and our salvation.

  280. dejane on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:52 pm 

    Hey everyone, just thought i should share some good news. Yesterday i mentioned i am a freelance producer, and have been doing silly promotions. When i began working here as an intern i didnt mind because i thought its a foot in the door. A year later i was gatvol of these promotions because i felt they didnt guarantee a permanent position and its not what i wanted to do.

    Today my manager tells me they want me to work on another show, as an assistant content producer for two months, starting on the first of March.

    Thank you all for your prayers and words of kindness.

  281. lolo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:55 pm 

    @Kusi yhuu bhabha! You are too young for such…I refuse to scare you! Let’s wait till the bloody book sells so I can make my millions, JK Rowling style, then when I can afford to go under Dr Rey’s knife…then I’ll show you the after photos.

  282. Botshelo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:55 pm 

    @ Dejane that great news cc, Well done and good luck

  283. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:57 pm 

    @Flufie you are welcome in the zululands and please be warned that u’ll buy new tyres every month coz of the potholes…

  284. hot.chocolate on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 3:58 pm 

    @Dejane, that’s great news!!!

  285. Kusihlwa on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:00 pm 

    @Dejane, congrats sweet, no one deserves it more than you, @Lolo,yey’wena ungazong’dina la!!! I want that photo now. will send u an email now with my new email address and you better deliver, @Sundani,kimmo and manny this is my email address mateebaby@yahoo.com please send me an email and I will respond

  286. Fluffie on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:05 pm 

    @Sundani kuTough moss’ u pay for everything in Joburg! even the public transport is a joke! queues at Noord are ridiculous!
    Haai I’ve had enough! I’d rather pay for tyres and stay at home and only pay for food!

    @Dejane wow that is awesome news! Prayer changes things. All the best on that new exciting venture! Keep on keeping on young lady ;)

  287. sk1 on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:11 pm 

    capped at R550 per month!Iyooooo!!! imali engaka… cant we pay R100 a month , its beta dan nuting…
    Haisuka m joining COSATU on the match next week

  288. kimmo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:14 pm 

    I wonder who’s prayer god heard first regarding dejane”just kidding” you have more blessings coming ur way sisi tht two months will end up full time!

  289. sk1 on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:15 pm 

    @Dejane wow dats great!!!! ol the best on yo new steppin stone

  290. manny on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:15 pm 

    hololo @dejane .m happy for u —–hlokolozing one way

  291. Uthando on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:20 pm 

    @Sundie *in chief Azwindini’s voice* where about Ulundi are u Darling, nami I’m in Ulundi.

    Dejane u very strong Girl never ever doubt tht Jesus loves u

  292. Mapakisha on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:22 pm 

    And never cease to pray, pray all the time & trust in God. All will fall into place..

  293. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:26 pm 

    @Dejane congrats gal..

    Anyone with more info about Pravin Gordan and Mandoza saga..apparently Mandoza wants to sue the minister of Finance for royalties.. Shem Mandoza wants his share in the gov money.

  294. sk1 on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:34 pm 

    MissAn , soul sista , blunt ,mmaditaba…nikuphi?

  295. kimmo on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:37 pm 

    @kusi thanks darling will pop u a mail nw

  296. DrDee on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:37 pm 

    Congrats @dejane.See the power of God already manifesting in your life.This is just the begining.Good luck with ur new post.Will keep praying for you and ur baby.@JG where are you?

  297. Sundani on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:38 pm 

    @Uthando ZAC my dear and you?

  298. Lela on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 4:41 pm 

    nap ngeke ngikhone bhabha ngafika nje eBizykhona ngiyabushosholoza ngikhohlwe uRibs manje into esengifuna uyazi kuWildy ukuthi uzosithengela na iziphuzo before i use my last quater tank to come there.

  299. Pule on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 5:37 pm 

    Halala @dejane, your best days are yet to come.You will come through this period intact, with definite testimonies and in peace (nothing missing,nothing broken).God’s grace and strength to you.

  300. Fab Tee on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 6:16 pm 

    wow thats great Dejane…our God indeed is faithful…CONGTRATS dear!

  301. Babyluv on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 6:49 pm 

    Congrats @dejane girl u r deserving of ths n mre. @facebook n bongi can i also cum to the maphindi get 2getha. @lolo wena ur super special. @manny do u hve anymre interview tips? Plz 4ward thm to ptingwe@gmail.com

  302. sxylin on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 7:08 pm 

    halalala @ dejane you are certainly going places!!

  303. Uthando on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 7:46 pm 

    @Sundani ZAC wht exactly does it stands for???

  304. Goliwood on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 7:49 pm 

    Good evening! Wow I was not into this lent this because I’m not catholic mara after all the comments. I personally are dedicating my forthy days beginning tomorrow to praying for some1, not me but another person to successed. Dejane you don’t understand what you have done, thank God for you. I turning my life over thank you sisi.

    @Morikiki can you please take us out of our misery and complete Umgosi wakho togg

  305. LadyMillion on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:40 pm 

    @dejane, God will NEVER give you a load yu cannot carry! He knows the plans He has for you.im so happy for you

  306. Nerlee on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 8:53 pm 

    High 5 @Sefula, Women, Basadi, Abafazi- we really have serious issues shame, its sad.

  307. lala on Thu, 23rd Feb 2012 10:30 pm 

    Hey bloggers I have a crush on my friend its really bad. We spend so much time together when we dnt see each other he will text me telling me he misses me, problem is I have a boyfriend and although he hasn’t said it in so many ways I know he likes me too. He is everything that I have always wanted in a guy he writes, he is into art, a hopeless romantic like me, thoughtful and a down right sweetheart. Please pray for me I need for the crush to go away but I doubt it will it has been going on for about 10months. And with every mintue we spend together I fall for him harder.

  308. phlydivaZee on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 12:38 am 

    Can I invite myself to Wild Island’s party please.. Busy Corner is in my hood and I have no plans for the weekend.. Please..

  309. Bigmama on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 7:35 am 

    @sefula tell them.

  310. facebook on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 8:30 am 

    Happy payday @Manny

  311. Nthoentle on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 9:31 am 

    @Lala-dunp your man cos the love of your life is clearly staring you in the face

    @PhlyDivazee-i think party ke come one come all.

    @Fabu-ke sa emetje email sesi

  312. Nthoentle on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 9:39 am 

    *dump

    I’m in a boring training session ya Pension Funds *yawning*

  313. bongi on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 1:59 pm 

    @ lala just sleep with each other ..the crush will dissapear its a crush mos lol…

  314. mnyamana on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 3:11 pm 

    Happy zalwa day uncle Manny ukhule ungakhokhobi uze udle inyoni zabantwana bakho

  315. mnyamana on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 3:24 pm 

    Happy zalwa day uncle Manny, ukhule ungakhokhobi uze udle inyoni zabantwana bakho. Happy friday family!!

  316. sweetness on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 3:58 pm 

    Mna just want to share this song I fell inlove with this week….

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-GWKBe-u8Q

    Beautiful weekend to you all….

  317. manny on Fri, 24th Feb 2012 4:04 pm 

    haai mnyamana itrs not my bday its coming next month-kuthiwe payday

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