Sophie Ndaba Gives In…

June 11, 2012 by  

In just a little over 5 Months since she and Bishop Harrington exchanged vows in a surprise wedding, Sophie Ndaba has given in and decided to split from her scandalous husband. It is sad but considering the drama that has been following them since that day in December, it is really no surprise that this marriage is over, not many women could survive such an intrusion, such accusations, so early in a union. And no woman deserves it either.

The statement: 

“Generations management team (I wonder bangena phi ke bona) and Sophie Ndaba hereby sadly announced that after much soul searching and prayer, Sophie Ndaba and her husband have taken the painful decision to separate.  While we do appreciate that Ms Ndaba and Mr Harrington are public figures, we request that, for the sake of both their children and families, this be treated as a private matter. The separation is amicable and the decision to separate, mutual. “

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Yes, this Bishop was dodgy from the beginning but shame, it’s really sad that Sophie was not even given a chance to at least enjoy the first 6 months of her marriage. I hope all these tabloid journos who were on her case are happy now… She didn’t deserve any of this.

Dear Sophie:

You’ve tried this marriage thing twice and it isn’t working out.  So girl, you were unlucky, unknowingly fell for a crook so get up, dust yourself off, flirt with anyone you wanna flirt with, have fun because you are under no pressure to get married again. You have nothing to get over so if you wanna start dating tomorrow, go for it… life is too short to waste mourning mistakes.

Welcome back to the land of the FREE and FABULOUS! 

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94 Comments on "Sophie Ndaba Gives In…"

  1. lolington kwaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:40 am 

    Phela Queen, aybo I mean Sophie is part of the Generations’ props/furniture and everything else, so that’s why they felt the need to include themselves in the statement!

    As for this news, nothing shocking really. It was only a matter of time. It would have become too much for anyone!

  2. Beautiful-Butterfly on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:40 am 

    Shame, I pray God gives her strength in this time. She should just focus on her fabulous self and her kids.

  3. vumaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:43 am 

    Eish Kwanzima shame. Argg she will be fine.

    Five Months is too much #SideEye Ms Kardashian

  4. lolington kwaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:05 am 

    Lol @Vumaa, 5 months is a looooot!

  5. vumaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:12 am 

    Lol dear it is hey

  6. Azuree on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:22 am 

    Askies man Sophie, cant be easy finding out your hubby is a fraud. Worse, finding this out with everyone else through tabloids. I was hoping the allegations were not true and they could work things out. Oh well. May God give her strength as she deals with yet another failed marriage. Angaphinde ke ashaye amaSurprise weddings.

  7. Miranda on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:29 am 

    Dear Sophie’s friends,your gifts are ———>, sure she hasn’t used most, if not all of them.
    She will be fine. I wonder what this guy has (material wise), then Sophie would walk of out this with something with good value of mooolah worth of her 147 days….(if their agreement allows it)

    My cousin tied the knot last year March, right now he is through a divorce,and I was a bridesmaid tlhe, soooooooo there goes my R700 for the dress, and the hair money, and the shoes, and accessories…..that money would still be in the bank #shaking head#

    At this rate, If divorces had celebrations parties, we would be attending parties than funerals.And we wouldn’t have to take gifts to the divorce parties #hides under blanket…don’t shoot me please#

  8. Miranda on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:44 am 

    going through…

    more parties than…

    *sigh* ,

  9. lolington kwaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:01 am 

    Hahahahahaha!! Miranda you need sleep in your life!

  10. Azuree on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:09 am 

    Hahahaha @Miranda!

  11. MyThoughts on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:49 am 

    I forgot what I was gonna say because of Miranda’s comment. Ha ha ha ha Good LordT you defeated me shem lol!

  12. vumaaa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 3:17 am 

    Lol Miranda uyisKhoskho shame.

    Can some1 give Miranda Double Domestos, Argg i mean Bells. Lol love u

  13. Poshla on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 4:42 am 

    It’s sad how ladies still believe in happily ever after & discovering stuff while in the marriage. I think she was brave to go for a divorce than to stick through as other ladies do. Lord bless her soul

  14. coolcaz on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 4:55 am 

    Agavshem lovey. Sho boy. #Singing with Brenda Fassie ks voice# Everykid on earth would like to be a superstar. I guess bloggers you cannot judge upuntil yu walk in her shoes. A feeling of belonging,phela it gets lonely when u don’t have someone to share your life and successes with.sorry Sophy, God will give you the strenghth to deal with the drama in your life.let this not stop u from loving and falling head over heel again as its a beautiful feeling n no fake husbands should take that away from you. If u wanna marry again marry.listen to your heart as I surely wanna put that ring on ma finger and dream of it everyday

  15. Ntombi Yomzulu on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 5:02 am 

    :-(

  16. bongi on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 6:08 am 

    Shame Sophie, no wonder this bishop agreed to a suprise wedding. This is so emberrassing, for her kids and family..stay strong mam God will bless yu with mr right. I think bishop saw sophies millions..

  17. KewlGal on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 6:30 am 

    Tjoooo ku tough guys :-( my 5yr relationship is slowly dying it feels so sad, but I’m exhausted by it. Is being single really a world of the Free & Fabulous guys? Pls be honest

  18. DexterSUPERIOR on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 6:44 am 

    So now the tabloids take the blame for the ending of this sham of a marriage (shaking my big head). If anything Sophie should be grateful to those journos at SW. If it wasn’t for them making this guy’s laundry public and knowing how women are, Sophie would still be miserable and married to this guy pretending that things are alright when they aren’t. Because we know the truth, the whole country sympathizes with Sophie. Blame the ‘pastor’, not the tabloids.

  19. golden diva on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 6:49 am 

    I thought the SW would cover the story, front page style, as per usual.
    But this is soo sad :( :(:( poor Sophie, so does this basically mean that the allegations against him were true

  20. snapshot on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 6:51 am 

    @Kewgal I can give u 5 gud n bad things abt being single n 5 gud n bad abt being in a relationship its all the same. Different strokes for different pps

    Sophy shem- sorry cc uzoba right, God will guide u thru all this.
    I wonder uThemba uthini

  21. El Fuego on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:32 am 

    Hai Kewlgal I feel you. It seems there’s a whole lot of us that are sick and tired. Something has gone badly wrong in relationships. I feel like walking out of what would be a marriage of 4 years on Jul

  22. El Fuego on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:40 am 

    Kewlgal I feel you. Something has really gone bad in relationships and I’ve exhausted all options. So its either stay and bw miserable all your life or get the hell out! I’m also contemplating walking out of my marriage of four years. I’m tired, angry, resentful.

    I’ve just realised that I’ve been living with an emotional abuser and have been saying to myself it can never be. The hardest part is leaving my stepdaughter whom I’ve raised since she was 9 months. She is now 9yrs old. Her dad has no time for kids.

  23. @JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:42 am 

    Sophie Ndaba was rebounding. It was only a matter of time for this to fall through the cracks. I don’t blame Her nor do I sympathise with Her. Tough honey, such is Love. Dust Yourself and learn to be happy by Yourself before seeking happiness from the outside.

    I reckon SA should have a registry of names of Men like the shaddy Bishop. We would all live in a better place knowing whom to avoid.

  24. Brown Shuga on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:49 am 

    Joneigh hle, have a heart!

    Yeah blaming the tabloids is not really smart but they coulda at least left her to enjoy her first few months and then start, sisono

  25. Eyh2Jee on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:54 am 

    shame Sophie thle!She was so ready to be Mam’Rev. *kuTough*
    Sophie seems to be following on Queen’s steps.
    Be strong maSofana.

  26. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 7:57 am 

    Arrrgh shame ! All the best Sophie

  27. mzuaqe on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:10 am 

    Be strong maSofana <—- LOL

  28. bongi on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:17 am 

    Yeah blaming the tabloids is not really smart but they coulda at least left her to enjoy her first few months and then start, sisono
    ..maar Brown Shuga better now then later nje..shame i feel for her..emberrasment eso …

  29. inURdreams on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:17 am 

    On this one I’m with the tabloids, bamncedile uQueen who knows what kind of scandals this Mfundisi would have dragged her into later. Im sure all this has been so embarrassing for Sophie but ke she’s almost out of it…. Lomfundisi yena can just go hide under a rock! Abantu becawe abangenanyani are just the worst of the worst

  30. TPZ on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:18 am 

    I fee sorry for Sophie I’m sure this isn’t easy at all

  31. manny on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:21 am 

    ladies this is what abafundisi do….
    remember what happend to DeBORAH ?

    I always tellmy lady freinds .#a man who doesnt drink and smoke.uyathakatha#

    if you wanna be happy get an oke like me,,,uzobona…

  32. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:22 am 

    I agree with Joneigh because I’m also finding it very hard to sympathise with Sophie because deep down in her heart she knew excatly what she was getting herself into when she got involved with this guy.

    Suprise wedding? Since when do black people do that? Does this mean that magadi/lobola was not paid and the two families did not even get to know each other?

    You have daughters that are no longer teenagers, you keep them in the dark about the decision that also concerns them and then pull this suprise wedding stunt?

    Can black people stop doing things the white way tuu!! And Sophie le ene must stop being so desperate to change her surname like Connie and Sonia to the point where she drags the first thug she meets to the altar. And maybe women should also accept that marriage is not for everyone, some will get it some wont. That’s life.

  33. Tkay on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:28 am 

    Agh shame man poor Sophie, but nami I think this was too much for. She must just stay strong, pray & go back to dating & having fun uzoba right. This makes me so scared of getting married.

  34. Mapakisha on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:37 am 

    You know I had actually hoped that the Bishop would come out with proof or whatever that confirms he was legit & prove these sorry tabloids wrong, I’m so disappointed with the end result. Ah well, guess it is what it is.. Shame man, poor Sophie, can’t imagine what she must be feeling right now, it must be hard having to deal with heartbreak & the “We told you so’s” & everyone just knowing your business. I hope she gets over it soon:(

  35. Nthoentle on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 8:52 am 

    Sophie has already moved on guys I have seen her cosy with some man, at 3 different restaurants, so she’s fine. She is looking good even

  36. Soccerbabe on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:04 am 

    Im not heartless at all but from the way they met nje to the suprise wedding fast forward a month after the wedding Mfundisi’s skeletons start creeping out of the closet. Uyabona when they say TAKE TIME 2 KNOW UR PARTNER they meant this!!! U jst dont comrade marathon 2 the alter with a stranger…this should come as a lesson 2 Aunti Sophie and us all. Uzoba strong kanene from being a PARTY ANIMAL to BEING A MAMA MFUNDISI haikona it was a high jump!!

  37. Musoni on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:06 am 

    Good morning JC family. Been ‘silent blogging’ for a while. Shame ke sono ka Sophie, she must just take some time out and stop chasing marriage. I’m so over all these fake pastors giving Christianity a bad name!

  38. jackie on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:16 am 

    at-least her marriage lasted longer than Kim Kardashian lol,,, however she can now go back 2 her party lifestyle

  39. lorrelai on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:24 am 

    Ha! She’s moved on already, I see another surprise wedding coming.

  40. Mathaz on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:27 am 

    I am with @Luengo…suprise wedding tjo! Mara shem sorry.

  41. lorrelai on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:28 am 

    & marriage is for everyone who wants it.

  42. kimmo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:33 am 

    @nthoentle, is she has then thats good for her
    this harrington guy was just too good to be true, who on earth has a suprise wedding and dont even sign?

  43. Biskiti on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:48 am 

    Kwaaa kwaaa @”from being a PARTY ANIMAL to BEING A MAMA MFUNDISI haikona it was a high jump!!”

    Yes ke sono ka Sophie. Hauww, mara did Bishop ever claim to be a skoon-pampier heh?? We all have a past, akere that is the beauty of Christianity. Let’s forgive and forget izono zomBishopo, other he without sin cast the first stone. Some of us we live in double-story mansions ze glass, full of ubufebe, stealing banna le basadi ba batho, yet we wanna stone the poor Bishie**clap hands and walks away**

    If Sophie was tricked into umshado, i hope she went ANC on him…so that her estate will go to the rightful recepients, being her kids.

  44. Smatsatsa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:50 am 

    WOW!!! For once, we have to give credit to those journos hle, can anyone hook me up with them, I wanna do a background check on my man so there won’t be any surprises later on too..lol!
    And she’s moved on already? Double WOW!!

  45. Smatsatsa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:53 am 

    Yes Biskiti, everyone has a past but we shouldn’t shy away from it, we should speak about it openly and show that we’ve grown from it, now in this case it seems like Sophie never knew about it..

  46. kamzababy on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 9:54 am 

    kwaaaa Smatsatsa. i cant! check their website
    mara the bishop should have been honest to sophie gore when the news comes out aska ba suprised

  47. WTeeZ on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:02 am 

    i think BS is wrong for blaming the papers for this marriage ending. the papers did Sophie a huge favour!!

    Sophie must just keep her love life very private & be a mom to her teenage kids. its not nice seing ur mom out to every party in JHB like Uyanda

  48. XtraLargePtyLtd on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:07 am 

    Sophie is a glorified Sandton girl with an acting job and a wedding planning business! She’s just like all of them! She weaves, clubs and receives drop tops as gifts from scandalous business men! She dated Kenny Majozi knowing he’s married n went and planned a birthday party for him in his marital home in the free state with his then wife in attendance! GTFOH

  49. XtraLargePtyLtd on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:08 am 

    Surprise divorce much?

  50. Smang-mang Warona on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:12 am 

    If what Ntoenthle says is true about Sophie already moving on with another man then haai ke, Ousi Sophie onale a little problem.. Its what is called “Love addiction”…

    It seems like Sophie just loves being with someone and can’t be alone. How can she already have moved on after her marriage fell apart after just five months?? Haai that does sound sound healthy. And also how long was she dating the Keith “pastor” for before she married him? Noh she sounds like she must just chill on her own before jumping into another relationship in a bid to forget about the spectacular failure that was her “marriage” to Pastor Harrrington.. because if she doesn’t – there will be only pain ahead resulting from not taking time to choose a proper partner . Thats my view.

  51. WTeeZ on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:14 am 

    i agree 100% with XtraLarge shem.

  52. Pule on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:15 am 

    Xtra is on fire today.

  53. Smang-mang Warona on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:15 am 

    Hau bathong Xtralarge! You killed me dead!

    So Sophie wabatho is no different from the likes of bo Khanyi Mbau? Tjo! *claps once*

    But what the f*** kinda people are in out entertainment industry hhe? Nkare theres no one well in the head – especially that washed up CM

  54. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:18 am 

    KWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA @GTFOH: Nthoentle and Xtra nizobethwa !

  55. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:19 am 

    Smang mang most of these ladies are no different from Khanyi some are even worse; the only difference is they do it in secret!

    Ahhhhhhhhh mcim the shit you see out here! Scary ish i tell ya

  56. WTeeZ on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:24 am 

    her poor kids nje thats all.

  57. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:24 am 

    Yes, this Bishop was dodgy from the beginning but shame, it’s really sad that Sophie was not even given a chance to at least enjoy the first 6 months of her marriage. I hope all these tabloid journos who were on her case are happy now… She didn’t deserve any of this.

    @BS, stop being jealous hle sisi and give credit where it’s due. Those journos did a very good job and you know it. Just because you don’t posess the same journalistic abilities like those reporters does not mean you should be so hateful towards them.

    This tendency of blaming Sunday World journalists for everything that goes wrong with celebrities must now be rested. Eintlek what’s your beef with them? Even when they do a good thing and expose the pastor for the fraudster he is and saving Sophie heartache in the long term you are still not happy?

    No man BS, it wont hurt to say “well done guys” and acknowledge a job well done.

  58. kamzababy on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:28 am 

    Deathby Lelo being jealous, i think she was just being sarcastic nje

  59. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:28 am 

    Tjo @ Xtra. I agree with Sexyln, nizobethwa, he he he lol!!

  60. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:30 am 

    @Kamza, if she was being sarcastic, then that’s fine, I was wrong to accuse her of jealousy.

    @BS, if you were being sarcastic, I apologise.

  61. Fezzy on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:34 am 

    Surprise wedding—–>Surprise divorce. Naaaaarce!!!

  62. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:39 am 

    eiiiiiiiish leungo mara to accuse someone who doesnt know the relevant people and sources for being jealous? hehehhe no man!

    Go Sophie! I have a friend who is her neighbor in Featherbrooke Estate ! hehehehe aiiiiii no man these celebrities

  63. Smatsatsa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:45 am 

    Sxylin where is this Featherbrook estate? I think I see the name almost everyday but I don’t take note..

  64. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:57 am 

    its in the West of Johannesburg

  65. Smatsatsa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 10:59 am 

    haike, it’s not the one I think it is..

  66. kimmo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:00 am 

    sophie looks great, she can date whoever she wants and get those drop tops, i dont know o kena kena kae this pastor harringhton

  67. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:17 am 

    Haibo Sexyln, leaving us hanging like that is so not on.
    So, your friend is neighbours with Sophie…ok. Now out with the mgozi tuu nana.
    Was the mfundisi staying at her house?
    And did he only bring his jacket?

    C’mon sisi, we know your friend must have been dishing to goss to you daily. So just share, we will keep our lips sealed.

  68. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:18 am 

    Kwaaa @Fezzy, you are so wrong for that girl!!

  69. LadyMillion on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:34 am 

    Just because you don’t posess the same journalistic abilities like those reporters
    stop being jealous hle sisi
    Eintlek what’s your beef with them?
    No man BS
    *giggles*

  70. Biskiti on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:34 am 

    Leungo, today okare ba hackile account ya hao, your words are just not consistent with the Fruit i know and adore…today o slege nyana waitse…lol

    Kwaaa at Surprise wedding -> Surprise Divorce!

  71. sexymm on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 11:54 am 

    Featherbrook is in Ruimsig,My mom lives there..She once told me that ubone uSophie, I think Tiko Modise lives there as well.Tiko or Khune??? angisazi kahle

    Shame askies wena Sophie, uzoba right sisi.

  72. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:02 pm 

    sexymm angazi i dont know who is who with these soccer players but ngiyazi its Minnie’s boyfriend its not the same estate though! he lives in another i think its Ruimsig Country Estate

  73. kimmo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:14 pm 

    do estates have privacy though, i get to wonder sometimes. i want to live in one in my next life.

  74. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:25 pm 

    @Biskiti, lolest!!!

    I am so ashamed of myself for shattering that illusion you had about me, kwaaaa!!! I promise to live to my name next time my dear

  75. Biskiti on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:41 pm 

    Thanks Dollie, even though the stench of your sakhazm is unblocking my flu-ed self…lol.

    Sxylin, we’re still waiting for Mgozi ngwaneso, what did mommy-dearest observe from her kitched window, with regards to the queen’s household affairs? LMAO

  76. Lela on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 12:58 pm 

    I’ve been praying that Sophie sees the light in all this and not stay out of fear of judgement and for this I will forever respect her. We thak God for her life, she is a very brave and prayerful woman so she will pull through this.

  77. Ms.Zie on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:20 pm 

    Sophi lives in Ruimsig

  78. sxylin on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:32 pm 

    hehehe Bisikiti, aiiiiiiiii i think you got the wrong username! i dont have any gossip shame; silent bloggers are not the kindest of people ! dont want them crawling out of silentville to air my dirty laundry *think EXFUCKTOR*

  79. chilled sweet lemonade on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:41 pm 

    shemmm, every woman wants to be loved…..Sophies situation is unfortunate….*sigh*

  80. Nkey.. on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:43 pm 

    Sorry sophie Next time Ausi kuzolunga!

    Jus walking pass to say Hi to you all :) *especially my Boo @Biskiti* Im dying here flue is killing me.

  81. posh on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 1:51 pm 

    @Lela echoed – I’m glad she found strength to admit that she made a mistake, walking away is the most difficult thing, I admire her for doing it…

    She looked pretty on her wedding day….

  82. Brown Shuga on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:00 pm 

    @leungo clearly I have ALL the skills I need to keep you coming back here. And if u see this it’s because u came back. AGAIN.

  83. Biskiti on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:14 pm 

    Nkey, you thellad me with the flu wena, cause nami ngiyafa and after work ndizoya e Barakwana after work, i’m taking my own stretcher + drip, incase i have to be admitted. Unjani sweedat?

  84. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:33 pm 

    Lol @ Barakwana. Reminds me of Masimbakwe. Hey Batswana mara!!

  85. Kusihlwa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 2:40 pm 

    Just because you don’t posess the same journalistic abilities like those reporters
    stop being jealous hle sisi
    Eintlek what’s your beef with them?
    No man BS
    *giggles next to LadyMillion*
    Hawu MaSophana bakithi, dont give up, keep trying nje nge Lotto, One Day is One Day. I just have a picture of her saying that she is not even 30 yet on one of the recent Generubbish episodes.

  86. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 3:17 pm 

    @Kusihlwa, imagine the humiliation she must have suffered everyday since the exposes?

    So, does this mean she will go back to the Ndaba or her maiden Mpasane surname? I tell you people, it’s rough out there.

    As for that pastor, he wanted to take Sophie’s money and open a state of the art church in Eldorado Park, complete with a helipad. Good thing he was caught out before he causes some serious damage to Sophie’s bank account.

  87. Kusihlwa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 3:37 pm 

    @Leungo, kanti what happened to the toy boy she was dating? cant remeber his name but they were on Sunday World. Nakhona divorce seems to be the easiest way out for people, did they even go for conselling before deciding to split.

  88. Kusihlwa on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 3:46 pm 

    @Leungo Kanti what happened to the toy boy she was dating, cant remember his name but it was on Sunday World. Why does divorce come so easily, I wonder if they tried counselling before splitting because I am sure the Bishop can change.

  89. Leungo on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 3:56 pm 

    Haibo Kusihlwa, what point is counselling when your man turns out to be a fraudster who had also claimed that he can cure HIV/Aids?
    How do you get over that? You let him into your house, introduced him to your kids and now this?

    Phela she was supposed to take time to know him before rushing to the altar. But she will be fine, time heals everyhing.

  90. Mapakisha on Mon, 11th Jun 2012 4:17 pm 

    @Kusi, the toyboy’s name ne ele Tshepo Mashile..

  91. KewlGal on Tue, 12th Jun 2012 7:43 am 

    Yho yho yho Xtralarge.. I love how honest you are dude. The sad thing is that these celebs throw themselves at any imposter who is from outside SA who seem to hav money, especially these fake ones carryin a huge Jesus card. Women don wanna learn, who doesn’t know what happened to mam Debra Fraiser? Or are women on tht ‘it won’t happen to me’ nonsense? Shem basezo dlala ngani la eJozi. A friend of mine from Naija, well known fashion designer said to me ‘my friend if u see one of my brothers carrying a bible all the time & super commited to Jesus, run as far away as u can from him, those are the most dangerous Nigerians u can get’ mina nje I don’t trust all these pastors all of them even the ones from here in SA. Infact Christianity nje as a whole has become such a fraud, I’m praying for a day when we all realise this & we start to go back to worshiping God in our own African way as we used to & stop this christianity BS eyeza nabelungu to oppress us.
    Snap & El Fuego I hear u guys, ku rough I’ll JBS.

  92. Eyh2Jee on Tue, 12th Jun 2012 8:29 am 

    lmao KewlGal;hayi I’m dead by your comment about Christianity being Fraud,lolest.

  93. Smiles on Mon, 18th Jun 2012 9:02 pm 

    Eer…you say Christianity as a whole is a fraud? Need I remind you that even the Bible itself warns us that not everyone who comes in the name of The Lord is telling the truth and that we should judge people by their actions and not just their words.

    The problem with people like Sophie and Deborah is that their too easily trusting of any “man of the cloth” that they don’t even take time to know this persons real intentions and only find out when theyre married and the “love blindfold” has come off.

    There are a lot of great christian men out there, but the shady ones who’ve now made Pastoring a lucrative multi-million rand business because of blinded people who are to lazy to open their Bibles will be the ones that we see mostly from now on unfortunately. Not everyone who calls themselves a Christian is one. The Bible is clear on that. Pastor or no Pastor.

  94. Smiles on Mon, 18th Jun 2012 9:02 pm 

    Eer…you say Christianity as a whole is a fraud? Need I remind you that even the Bible itself warns us that not everyone who comes in the name of The Lord is telling the truth and that we should judge people by their actions and not just their words.

    The problem with people like Sophie and Deborah is that their too easily trusting of any “man of the cloth” that they don’t even take time to know this persons real intentions and only find out when theyre married and the “love blindfold” has come off.

    There are a lot of great christian men out there, but the shady ones who’ve now made Pastoring a lucrative multi-million rand business because of blinded people who are to lazy to open their Bibles will be the ones that we see mostly from now on unfortunately. Not everyone who calls themselves a Christian is one. The Bible is clear on that. Pastor or no Pastor. However that doesn’t mean real ones don’t exist.

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