I’m Into Girls

July 16, 2012 by  

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I’ve always been a good girl, dated a few boys in high school that always broke my heart…looking back now I realise that I have always had a very close-to-heart relationships with very specific ladies in my life. Not the typical kind of friendships everyone has with their friends but at any point in my life I had that one person I’d cross the ocean for, send them out-of-the-blue gifts.

My first special person was a certain radio DJ back in 2003, I was still in Cape Town then and would call live on her show and sometimes at her office after her show (we became close). I used to also come to JHB to visit friends for no other reason than to visit her at SABC. She was way older than me but I didn’t mind as what I felt for her then was not sexual I just really loved her dearly as a person.

My friends would ask if I was sure I didn’t feel more about these women and my answer was always a definite yes, like I didn’t see myself kissing those women and being sexual with them, my feelings were simply more than what one would define for a friend. Since then, as I matured this went on with different people I met. Some these ‘friendships’ sort of ended whenever I got over them – well they were always one sided (depth) and some I still maintain on a normal level tho…

Through these ‘friendships’ I became more comfortable with women and I found myself wanting to explore more than just loving at a distance…and that’s where the idea of internet dating started just out of curiosity and on grounds that it would be anonymous – with discretion (email addresses and all).

To my surprise I interacted with warm kind hearted individuals (with real issues) and some like me (curious). I also met two women and that’s when I had my first girl-on-girl kiss – It was so real it felt like heaven and I only experienced this feeling a few times with the boys I kissed. There was something about my breasts meeting hers when we hugged and to that point I knew that was it…I’m into girls.

There’s something different with these feeling I have – that unspoken girl-to-girl understanding/trust vibe going on – but then that’s me loving naively every time; I’m also mindful that they’ll break my heart like any human being.

My close friends are fine with this new journey as they’ve always suspected, hell they are even hooking me up with some of their hot colleagues :D …

I haven’t thought about what my family will say cause we never talk about relationships unless it’s pregnancy/lobola but man I’m turning 28 this year, have a good corporate job, never gave them a hard time and very responsible, it’d be just unfair.

I’m not dating anyone right now but my crushes keep me warm ;D. I also haven’t gotten naked with anyone yet – but I’m prepared mentally for that awesome day… I even watched some lesbian TV series, just to make sure it was not all in my head and I’m happy to say that it was natural – I didn’t see anything wrong except I wanted to be part of that cast :)

Just like some boys, this is not a physical situation, I don’t just see a girl on the streets with a nice ass and fall for her, I mean my friends still get naked around me and it doesn’t get awkward…it’s a heart situation maybe it’ll change as I mature in this journey :P – like a friend once said – the heart is the most changing part of your body…and I’m enjoying where it’s taking me now…

By Anonymous

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196 Comments on "I’m Into Girls"

  1. Noance on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:27 pm 

    Wow, good read! I think the best thing, is about owning ur feelings and being honest about who u are. I think there is a certain freedom that comes with being comfortable in ur skin. All the best on ur journey.

  2. Akhah on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:46 pm 

    I think im also into girls..and this is my first time commenting

  3. Moricho on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:48 pm 

    Such an interesting story,wow mmmmmmh!you’ll def enjoy this journey…been there before

  4. Thats_me on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:50 pm 

    Had 2 come out of silentville 4 this..

    Ive had such feelings since 1st year but I’ve always dismissed it coz I enjoyed my time with the male species.. Time 4 some retrospection

  5. LEBO on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:52 pm 

    This dragged me outta silentville,I went to a catholic all girls boarding skul and I met a very cute girl there and we became close friends,almost everyone knew how close we were,I cared deeply for that girl and I never understood y,we’d laugh,sing and cry together,I had my first girl on girl kiss at hostel wen I got to varsity I dated a girl for few weeks,I was sure that I’m bicurious,well after 6yrs of being friends I told her I had feelings for her only to find out she felt the same way so we started dating,I was so inlove with her I almost left my bf of 4yrs for her. *sigh*

  6. Yons on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:55 pm 

    Wow nice read

  7. bubbles on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:56 pm 

    Good evening ladies, I’ve been reading the blog for a while now but was unable to comment.I love how u’re such a close knit community willing to share and advise each other. I’m happy to be part of that.

    Sorry for the essay, just wanted to meet n greet

  8. lamarOdom on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:58 pm 

    Nice read, I think I am straight.

  9. CazyMncediSays_ on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 10:59 pm 

    Great story Anonymous

    I think you should come clean and tell your parents, as long as you’re contented with your sexuality I’m sure they’ll too. I’m glad that you followed what your heart leads you to. Not everyone out there has this courage of writing about their personal issues on internet. Into ebalulekileyo girl yintliziyo yakho follow it.

    *hehehehe yaz for a moment I thought it’s BS who wrote this article but it’s anonymous you never know*

  10. Vesa on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:04 pm 

    Confessions…..confessions!Ke monate wa anonymity!

  11. Sangoma! on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:05 pm 

    Welcome to the club.

  12. fortunate on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:07 pm 

    A very good read, hi everyone

  13. Sangoma! on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:08 pm 

    With that said, I need a girl in my life! ASAP!

  14. Goitse on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:09 pm 

    I’m also into gals nd I’m not shy abt it,tho my parents dnt knw yet bt my siblings does nd thy see no problem with it..I wish u well on your journey annon..

  15. Eyh2Jee on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:09 pm 

    Death by people ”comming out” of silentville for this.Seems lile there are many silent blogers out’there neh?
    I should welcome you as a Head of This Family :D
    Anyway…
    I think people suspect for a reason.
    Think I felt this way too once,hay cha angikho sure ngale ndaba ye’sexuality,can uJesu come back please,now!!!We need some tlarifikhey’shinz asseblief!

  16. MyThoughts on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:13 pm 

    Lolo is that you? Yes? No? Lol just kidding :-) . This is a nice read anonymous.
    But there’s a lot that I don’t understand yaz, about female homosexuals, bisexuals etc *sigh*

  17. Sangoma! on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:15 pm 

    Oh and dankie BS maaaaaan! I can now blog without logging in with my username! You know what that means? It means I can also express my mind without getting into trouble with those who know my username!

    Dear Fezzy, I hope uyayibona nawe lendaba! Nalaba bemgosi abasaba ukusitshela sebengaphuma kahle nezindaba.

  18. Forbidden Fruit on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:16 pm 

    To be honest there’s a thin line between a relationship and friendship especially with girls,

    I had one friend in higher primary who used to care about me a lot, she’ll kiss me tell me she loves me only later I realized we in a relationship, altho I never loved her in anyway but she really did so now I’m very careful if a gal likes telling they luv me coz there’s a thin line shame!

  19. Ntombie on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:46 pm 

    I’m also into girls. I’ve dated 3 guys in my life & with each 1 of them it never felt right, I broke up with all of them over nothing. I took a 2 year break from relationships & met the person that I’m with now, I’m so inlove with her. Follow your heart anonymous, it will never lead you astray

  20. Maqiniso on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:57 pm 

    Hehehe this will be interesting wayenza indaba u BS this new commenting system works pretty well for me. Oh phela layikhaya iyathandwa indaba yobutabane so I guess we should look forward to an exciting day.

    Oops sorry mablogger I don’t have manners yazi *SMH I’m a NEW blogger please welcome me finally I will be part of the cool kidz.

    I’m not an attention seeker kodwa nje ngicela uknakwa please phela I’ve noticed how u ignore the new bloggers so anginakwe or I’ll pull a rembza.

  21. KGee on Mon, 16th Jul 2012 11:59 pm 

    Im also a silent blogger.I am inspired by this story.I am a guy.I also came across this where i felt for one of my classmate.But sadly he ws afraid to be commited.holla to you guys

  22. Eyh2Jee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:02 am 

    Kwaaaahahahahah @Maqiniso.Please don’t remind us about the Remza tendency.
    Please share a story with us,then sizokunaka ke ngan’yami, la ekhaya.

  23. Maqiniso on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:02 am 

    Bubbles hi and welcome rule no.1 when you blog for the first time and greet in that polite manner weeh awunakwa la so be like me and jump into the deep end lol

  24. KGee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:04 am 

    Gudbye silentville

  25. MyThoughts on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:06 am 

    Heita KGee :-) in fact hello to all the silent bloggers who decided to comment tonight :-) ;-)

  26. Sangoma! on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:17 am 

    #death by Maqiniso! Hehehehe! The way I was so happy when I realised aside isdino soku log-a in! Hahahahahaha! So nawe uphuma e silentville? Me too!

    Tltltltltltltltltl! Happy Tuesday!

  27. MahlasePrincess on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:27 am 

    I love this blog!!! This was a very interesting read and an eye opener 2. I must say

  28. KGee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:27 am 

    @Mythoughts thanx fr welcoming us:-)

  29. Maqiniso on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:36 am 

    @Sangoma yes I come from the depths of silentville futhi nje I suspect me and you were living on the same street!*death

  30. name required on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:37 am 

    Hau! Nje kanjalo?! Happy days are here again. Mna if iOpportunity iziveza, I can be bi shame. Besides, nhleli ndiyithanda iminwe and what happens to stocksweet shame…wUUUUw

  31. @Flames on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:39 am 

    So I guess most us can relate with the story! We’re all les hmmmmmm or half les :)

  32. EVOQUE on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:42 am 

    Hello every1, plz give me a warm welcum.

  33. Anon on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:43 am 

    Testing 1.. 2…3

  34. Chandyol on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:45 am 

    ageeee evryone!!! Welcomes self into JC!! I’m not sure if I’m into gals, but whenevr I’m above tipsy, then ma feelings for gals come out, I’ve kissed a gal once and I liked it. And I find bomapakisha very sexy to look at.

  35. Sangoma! on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:47 am 

    @Anon hahahahahaha….you can relax. It passed.
    @Maqiniso, hlampe uwu next door nje kwazi bani! But we will never know yazi.

    Anyway let’s not take the shine away from the ‘other’ new creatures creeping out of silentville! Welcome guys! *blows dry kisses*

  36. Chandyol on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:48 am 

    @Flames I agree wit u fully dat we all half les mos les-be-honest!!!
    @EVOQUE welcome dear, I’m also new, welcome me too :)

  37. Bubu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:57 am 

    Funny that I came across this post today. My mother asked me today when am I getting married and having children. I said never. She asked who is going to look after me when I’m old. My mother is denial about my situation. We have never discussed it as much as I have never introduced her to any boy. I have been into girls all my 30 years. But its still an unspoken reality. Lovely read

  38. Linna on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:01 am 

    Good morning JC family.

    Its my first time on JC hope I’ll get a warm welcome.

  39. Miel on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:04 am 

    Always adored girls fromm high school, recently met this girl at work..and we been kissing every time we happen to be alone, and I must say I’m loving her kisses..even though she always tell me that we should remain pure friends..every change she gets she kisses me like there’s a ferreiro rocher choc in my mouth..its so cold ko silentville

  40. Bliss on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:16 am 

    Wow go girl…I think I may also be into girls. Just don’t know what to do. Luv boys 2 so am I BI?

  41. That_VirgoLady on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:21 am 

    Hi everyone!*waves* I’m so happy to finally come out and share express my thoughts and views with ya’ll!

    I must say it’s relieving to know that its kinda normal as a woman to be attracted to another woman. Let’s just say I’ve had my fair share, lol. I went out with my man one saturday and after a few drinks I noticed that some pretty chick was checking me out, from then on I also started checking her out, there was suddenly an edge to kiss her, and I ddn’t wanna go home before logging lips with her! As me and my man were about to leave she grabbed me and said she’s been longing to kiss me, and just lyk that we kissed! And I did enjoy the kiss! *hides* my bf saw this and he was very pissed with me and his ego was so bruised. He somehow got over this and having said all that I said! I’m very straight! I love men, lol, bt I don’t regret that night it was fun and that’s where it ends!
    To anonymous: follow you heart babes!

  42. Thase on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:29 am 

    So many new bloggers coming our today or it’s because people don’t have to login, so they are creating new names.
    Good luck anonymous on your journey.

  43. @Flames on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:29 am 

    @Chandyol les-just-be-honest maan HAHA

  44. Koki2 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:50 am 

    Halala to the new login system.

  45. Koki2 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:55 am 

    I have never been in a relationship with a girl nor have I been into any girl. But… I used to have regular foreplay, or sex if you may, with my female cousin it was back in our teenage years when we were young horny and curious. It always felt good but we grew out of it and we are straight as rulers.

  46. LadyMillion on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:44 am 

    I cant keep up yho! Haha
    Happy blogging to all the new bloggers!!

  47. dejane on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:01 am 

    Death by all these new bloggers coming out of the closet and silentville, can’t keep up!

    A warm welcome to you all:D

  48. @JohneighGALAXY™ on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:33 am 

    I always say that Human Beings are inherently Bisensual and Bisexual, though at varying degrees. The only problem is the issues of labels. I don’t think labels should apply when it comes to matters of sexuality because it’s so fluid, and gray and pink areas do matter a lot. Labels are the root of the confusion that’s out there. I began to enjoy my same-sex sensuality the moment I removed labels, Gay or Straight from my vocabulary.

    My sister I welcome You to this journey of open sexuality. Both Men and Women can give the most magickal touch, feeling, passion, and bliss, if You only open Yourself up to their energies. Sexuality is about giving and receiving, beyond Men or Women. It’s about helping the other person cross the bridge and vice-versa. People who learn to explore their sensuality and sexuality to fullest are the most blessed. Bisexuality is the ultimate fruit of the Gods. Human Beings are experential creatures and that’s what defines sensuality and sexuality. My dear forget labels, just enjoy the experience.

  49. Miranda on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:02 am 

    death by Maqiniso requesting attention and threatening to pull a Remza#kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  50. bumbum on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:43 am 

    Mornings!

    Welcome home new bloggers, enjoy!

  51. snapshot on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:49 am 

    Ingathi we heading to 600 comments. What a shock I got seeing regular writing styles on a new usnm lol

    @JG I said that once n I was told there’s no such. I like what Anon the writer say. “Her female friends can still undress in front of her” after all she’s no dog. Happy blogging guys. I’ll read ur comments ntambama

  52. IhateNickiminaj on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:58 am 

    I think Most women are bisexual. Mostly who talk about ‘girls’ are in a relationship with a man. I once dated a chick because I liked her and I wanted to despite my ex boyfriend. The experience was awesome but at the End of the day I missed my ex’s sex,his warmth and how I’d feel that ok I’m with a man you know.. Some can’t leave their Boyfriends,I know of few who did. One was married for 5 years and one was in a relationship with a guy for 2years, now these people were not curious they are real lesbians. Curious people have experience but still stays with their BFs. I Think this is caused by our oversexed society.

  53. lamarOdom on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 7:28 am 

    Many people have changed usernames and call themselves silent bloggers. Please stop greeting its annoying now

  54. Fezzy on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 7:58 am 

    Dear Fezzy, I hope uyayibona nawe lendaba!

    Nansi imhlola! Wena Sangoma u forgot to change ur Gravatar lovie.

    I will come back with a different username again. Later.

  55. Miss T on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:18 am 

    Yho! Feels like i’m at some cash & carry with all the new bloggers. Also cant keep up. Already have a headache actually :-(

  56. bumbum on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:26 am 

    Kwaaaaa Miss T, what’s happening kanti? Why so many new bloggers.

  57. Koeks on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:28 am 

    Tjo! So many new bloggers.
    Well I shared a flat with this close friend of mine for almost five yrs.In all the time we’ve lived together,we did everything together.When we were @ home chilling we would be naked & start touching each other & kissing.There was nothing wrong but we never told each other that we had any feelings.The only love we wud talk about is the sisterly love.We both dated men but it got to a point where when we were suppose to go out with our B/F’s,we wud make excuses just to end up being alone.My friend’s B/F dd’nt understand our closeness he ended up telling people that me & my friend are dating.So everyone in the neighbourhood started believing that.We parted ways with my friend but still kept a close contact up to now,I see her every week & we wud touch & kiss everytime we’re together but till today no one has said anything about feelings.Im staying with a man for 4yrs now and everytime I mention my man to my friend you cud see that she’s annoyed & she wud change the topic or try to make me see the bad in him.I luv my man so much but now the confusion is with this relation that I have with my friend.Are we in love?cause no one has brought it up OR are we just experimenting?Oh & another thing my man does’nt like it when Im alone with my friend,he always tells me that he suspects that me & my friend were once intimate when we were staying together its just that he does’nt know how to prove it cause he has never seen such close frinds.
    NB:My friend is not dating anyone at the moment and she always tells me that she misses me & wishes we cud move in back together again & forget about men & the Bull sh*t they bring.Really Confusing.
    Sorry for the Essay

  58. Miranda on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:29 am 

    Guys, I don’t believe there is any new blogger here, Ke the old blogger with 2, 3 new usernames

  59. manny on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:32 am 

    eh dumelang di lesbian le di gay …le di inbetweens le di confused and all those that are on the way to discovery….

    @ehy2jee…WHO GAVE YOU THE THE TITLE OF THE HOUSE?
    LAST TIME I CHECKED KENNA NTATE WA MONANA ….SO PHOLA NEH…YOU DONT WANNA SEE MY B I A T C H SIDE….ill come out on yur ass sonny …

    lady -wena featrured guest write ..-enjoy-life is for the living …I say bed whoever you want to thats your business..if people wanna have babies about it ..tough…let them ….its 2012 for Gods sake…..touch lets go

  60. sweetie on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:46 am 

    kikikikiii.. i ll be here all day shame bosso o tla ntshwarela, IM SO INTO GALS SHAME ITS NOT EVEN FUNNY

  61. sexymm on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:46 am 

    I’m married but into girls as well.there I said it, out of the closet..whew!Eish!I have a crush komunye walaykhaya kodwa angeke ngisho.

  62. vigilante on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:47 am 

    after reading all this i can safely say I’m very straight,, thanks

  63. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:57 am 

    Yho! Feels like i’m at some cash & carry with all the new bloggers. Also cant keep up. Already have a headache actually
    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Ms..T wangibulala ngensini tltltltltlltlttl.

  64. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:01 am 

    he nansi imihlola its look lyk most bloggers are Bi mos, people are cuming out 1 by 1

  65. makasoso on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:08 am 

    I also refuse to believe that there are so many new bloggers or those coming out of silentville, new way of commenting or not.

  66. nana on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:10 am 

    Tjo!! So ya’ll decided to change your usernames with this so called new system? Is it only for mobile yini coz I’m still commenting the same way on my PC?

  67. Miss T on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:13 am 

    Haai nna. I cant shem. I’ll have to come back later to read the comments when i’m relaxing in the bath.

  68. Mapakisha on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:16 am 

    I have had best friends tsa banyana & that I have loved dearly. Some I have been roomies with, some I have stayed with makunzima, some are actually lesbian. Thank the lord for not making me fall for them or them for me#TEAMSTRAIGHTGALS, hehehehe!!

  69. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:18 am 

    Hahahahhahahahahahha, ok I think this blog eyamasilent Bloggers, so many unfamilia names lol WELCOME SHIMS (lol)

    I’m not an attention seeker kodwa nje ngicela uknakwa please phela I’ve noticed how u ignore the new bloggers so anginakwe or I’ll pull a rembza.<——Kwaaa at this, by this nje u are an attention seeker lol

  70. Mapakisha on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:19 am 

    @Lollington kwaa/ sangoma, the gravatar is still the same:(

  71. popeye on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:26 am 

    hahahaha! so @lollington ke @sangoma

  72. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:30 am 

    Bwagagagagagagag Lolington ubhaqiwe hahahahah *fallsoffchair

  73. nela_n on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:32 am 

    heheheee…so newbies see other newbies…well morning sexy people…JG u said it well..I really hope my daughter grows up in a society with no labels, I read somewhere about home affairs issuing i/d’s and birth certificates with no race classification….we’re all unique after all and we have unique preferences….

  74. asanwababe on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:34 am 

    Interesting article, but mina I love my men shwem. #teamstraightgirls

  75. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:39 am 

    Reading about this just made me h****, does this make me BI, should I chamge my username now *yawn*

  76. Botshelo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:45 am 

    Before I read, This is cwritten by @Lolo

    I will confirm after I read, by new words, elloquent and intriguing writing style

  77. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:50 am 

    Botshelo I thopught that as well but the writing style aint so intriguing, this is definetly not Lolo’s style of writing. Wher is she by the way?

  78. Botshelo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:52 am 

    sorry @ Lolo

  79. Chandyol on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 9:59 am 

    U guys r just being mean and making It sound being new is a bad thing, yes this topic pulled us outta silentville bcos we wanted to share our experiences… Yes we are new and proud SO WHAT!! I see u guys won’t accept us unless each and everyone of us pulls a Rembza!!!! #TeamPullARembza

  80. bongi on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:00 am 

    @botshelo it cant be u Lolo; why would she come out now..we know already mos – and also this blogger says she hasnt had it skin to skin yet – and lolo has had it skin to skin already. Lolo is not someone who hides her preference- she did relate to us how and when she started.

  81. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:11 am 

    LOL molweni bahlali nani ma new bloggers namkelekile..

    Ntombi yimi loyo. I am horny AF. Shame mna I want to get it on with girls. Sexy, hot girls. Actually I cannot wait to lock lips with one of iblogger ya la ekhaya :) (You know who you are)

  82. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:21 am 

    You already know who you want to lock lips with hehehehe U GO SHANDU!!!

  83. Botshelo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:22 am 

    eish, ja neh, it must interesting to be into girls only. nna i cant shem.
    ke batlo jewa, and ke batla go ja motho.
    i will not know what to do with a girl except to kiss

    girls, enjoy your girl on girl action

  84. Fluffie on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:25 am 

    Morning y’all :D
    I’m overwhelmed by peeps coming outta silentville!
    Warm welcome to everyone of u apha ekhaya!

    LOL one blogger said we are all les or half les tl tl tl tl this is interesting yaz! and one said I need a gal in my life ASAP, u guys are special oviaaaaaaas!
    Thanks for the posts Anon!

  85. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:57 am 

    what is it that girls do vele besides kissing and touching?

  86. jolene on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:14 am 

    so there are two women here at work that i just don’t understand. the first one likes tapping my bums, either with her hand or bums.she’s married and always tells me not to think about marriage. the second one started yesterday (also married): she just came and fondled my breast. that was very awkward, she’s old – late forties i think. how do i tell them nicely to stop doing that? i know i have 2beautiful Pamela Andersons and Nicki Minajs, but they are mine alone and future hubby to touch n fondle.
    #TeamStraightGirls!!!!!

  87. Mathaz on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:15 am 

    This post is proving something about the attraction of spirits.Mara ke there really is no need to change ur username to share an intimate part of your life.Be true to yourself.

  88. lamarOdom on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:30 am 

    manny says:

    eh dumelang di lesbian le di gay …le di inbetweens le di confused and all those that are on the way to discovery….

    @ehy2jee…WHO GAVE YOU THE THE TITLE OF THE HOUSE?
    LAST TIME I CHECKED KENNA NTATE WA MONANA ….SO PHOLA NEH…YOU DONT WANNA SEE MY B I A T C H SIDE….ill come out on yur ass sonny …

    lady -wena featrured guest write ..-enjoy-life is for the living …I say bed whoever you want to thats your business..if people wanna have babies about it ..tough…let them ….its 2012 for Gods sake…..touch lets go <<~ Manny addressing himself. Saw that first comment and I thought this is Manny… We are going to find Syxlin soon in one of the new bloggers

  89. sillyangel on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:31 am 

    Good Morning

    I’ve been in and out of silentville for a bit but i MUST comment today on this blog.

    I am a married lady but i am sexually attracted to women.
    dont get me wrong,i love men and i have a awesome sex life with hubby and i dont walk down the street looking at women and wanting to bed them..
    but if i want to be extremely turned on, i will look at lesbian porn or fantasize about doing with a women….

    I dont think i am Bisexual…
    Infact i dont know what i am..
    Im just a women who loves unattached sex with women

    Nothing beats two women satisfying each other.
    thats my 2 cents

  90. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:31 am 

    Hayi shem bukhulu ubutabane kwezi wei…But to be honest I am not sure if a 28 year old who by her own admission has had countless opportunities to sleep with girls has not… I say NO ONE can declare ubana they are into girls unless and until they actually PHUQ A GIRL….I am sorry to doubt the writers lesbianess, but you only get you lesbian badge and accreditation once your tongue has tasted clit…

    Come on now!! she is flippin 28 for Pete’s sake!!ulinde ntoni, MAKATYE ATYIWE before coming her to make unsubstiated claims…

  91. TheeGorgeous1 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:34 am 

    does getting turned on by 2 women “screwing” mean i love women too?

  92. lamarOdom on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:34 am 

    Spotted Sxlyn already. Boring.

  93. sweetness on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:35 am 

    I understand anonymous very well…

    I have always liked girls, but with me, its more the physical… It started with me drunken kissing a friend of mine, not just a baby kiss, but french kiss, and it ended there with her. I have had lesbian crushes.

    Then one day me and my best friend(another one) went out clubbing (2010), came back tipsy around 3am. we decided to share a bed cos we were still giggling and chatting, we were both horny and not scared to say it, one thing led to another and we went all the way. We shared a flat, had different rooms, and would randomly out of the blue just make out. We are still great friends, she has moved back home in Limpopo, and we still randomly flirt on these instant messages.

    I have kissed about 5 girls, went all the way with two. I dont think I would be able to be in a relationship with a girl, but fool around. a lesbian friend of mine used to say I am just bi-curious, or a a hetro-flexible. Haven’t had a girl on girl action in almost a year now, I crave for it so much. But I still love my man…

  94. lolington kwaaa on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:36 am 

    Huh? So I get a mention for something I don’t even know? *sigh*

    And someone asked if this is for phone blogging, I’m using my phone right now and I still had to log in.

    Happy Tuesday Everyone.

  95. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:51 am 

    Im so straight Neh but there are those gals lasbian luk alike abahle and all more like ELLEN *de generes show* WUUUUU Ellen is hot period, when the show start and adanse OMG , that just make u question yourself coz umane uhalele to kiss them and all out of the blue,

  96. LacocM on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 11:55 am 

    Yhooo so many bantus abatabanekile, Thixo yiza ngokwakho ungathumeli unyana surely bangamtshintsha naye. lol, I’m joking guys. Hay mna ndi straight (okwangoku), andiziboni nje nenye icherry. This whole thing of gays & lesbians, indenza ndzibuze ukuba yayiphi kudala. Ndingayithandazela mna shame, nqwa ne ntwaso andisoze ndivume ukuthwasa.

  97. Babyluv on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:00 pm 

    Hi im a new blogger nywe nywe nywe nywe ive been silent blogging nywe nywe nywe nywe im so excited nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe please dont ignore me (pukes) nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe yawnfest *drops all of them long wt wt toilet* *goes and buys R5 lightning for all of them*

  98. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:03 pm 

    Hi im a new blogger nywe nywe nywe nywe ive been silent blogging nywe nywe nywe nywe im so excited nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe please dont ignore me (pukes) nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe nywe yawnfest *drops all of them long wt wt toilet* *goes and buys R5 lightning for all of them*
    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    Classic nywe nywe nywe Lol DEAD tltltltltltltltltl nywe nywe nywe

  99. kimmo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:04 pm 

    kwaaaaaaa @babyluv

  100. sweetness on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:07 pm 

    hahahahahahahaaha #DEAD Babyluv u ya rocka nywe nywe nywe!!

  101. lolington kwaaa on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:09 pm 

    Kweeeeeeeeeee! Azande for President! Lmao!

  102. sxylin on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:09 pm 

    LamarOdom im trying to understand what you are on about? enlighten me

  103. sweetie on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:18 pm 

    hahaahaaaaaaaaaaa…@Babyluv, o stout man

  104. asanwababe on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:23 pm 

    Give that @Babyluv a Bells.
    nywe nywe nywe, kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

  105. sxylin on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:23 pm 

    hahahahah wena lamarodom(ODOM) being the operative word; been trying to stay away from this takalane street but clearly you needed my attention; so im now Manny and all these silent bloggers above! what do i gain?

    let me tell you something; if you are registered on word press u can change your username but your avatar will stay the same because its linked

  106. Letebele on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:44 pm 

    @Babyluv: Gosh you are mean but I’ma go ahead and laugh kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

  107. sexymm on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 12:54 pm 

    Shandu, please give me your email adress or use mine mpumza6@gmail.com

    Kunontombazane la emsebenzini, not sure if she wants me but ngiyamsola and I sooo want her…..the only thing that turns me off about her is her squeeky voice and the fact that she reports to me…eish!

  108. nana on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:02 pm 

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa@ Manny!! “eh dumelang di lesbian le di gay …le di inbetweens le di confused and all those that are on the way to discovery…”

  109. Sundani on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:03 pm 

    I think this is written by @lolo.

    Ndi masiari vhathu vhothe!!

  110. Mapeh on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:04 pm 

    Lol at people coming out, well I believe I’m not Bi but this one time I was visiting a friend and she had a friend over from the moment I got there I could sense the ladies flirtarious(sp) ways from how she hugged me when we were introduced to the way she looked at me and the way she was complementing everything about me fast forward after a few glasses of wine and awesome conversations we found ourselves kissing, and mind you this was my first time kissing a girl the first few seconds were mind blowing this moment got spoiled by my friend getting excited over this so she started taking pictures and giggling away so we got turned off and stopped. But me and the kisser continued keeping in touch and we were supposed to be together about two weeks ago but it didn’t happen and thanks to some special lady for giving pointers I’m kinda relaxed now and I want to go all the way I’ll decide then if I’m Bi.

  111. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:04 pm 

    Hayini uBabyluv… tltltl ! Sukusa wena… ugezela abanye abantwana or else imma have to spank you…

  112. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:09 pm 

    @Mapeh… eish when you finally decide to do this neh… undibize vah?

    @Sundani I did NOT write this love…I am generally a very horny person, I decide within minutes of meeting someone if I am gonna sleep with them… so I dont have the kind of patience the writer seems to be exhibiting…

  113. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:15 pm 

    The second photo (in the article) is by Zanele muholi, a famous lesbian photographer… I love her work… she has also made a documentary on lesbians in SA the documentary is called

    “DIFFICULT LOVE”…very enlightening.

  114. Fezzy on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:20 pm 

    Wena sexymm why ufuna i email ka Shandu? Singaxabani njalo.

  115. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:24 pm 

    Sexymm you’ve got mail :) – but ke server yalana iyagula today :(

    LOL @Fezzy – skawara my love

  116. flawleslee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:26 pm 

    yoh interesting how every one here is now into girls lol* well happy for you anon* any ways let me share my girl experience even though theres no tag that I think describes my sexuality. I dated a girl in varsity for three years we were crazy inlove (well maybe her more than me) it wasnt planned and it was never a concious decision for me it just happened. We had this connection a very dangerous one that made me feel responsible for her. Years went by our relationship turned sour as she was a bit unstable she acted psycho on me stalked me , followed my every move and then she would threatin to kill herself if I left which I didnt take seriously even though my friends warned me about her being unstable well to cut the long story short on this journey of yours careful not to date one of those extreme girls who find it hard to date (as the pond is quite small for real lesbian relationships not experiments ) and end up being obsessed with you and you end up in a distructive relationship and yah happy to report we broke up when she tried killing me and now Ive been with a guy for a while and Im happy I still am drawn to girls but I fell inlove with my ex as a person not because of her sexuality dont know what that makes me maybe (confused) but I dont think Id do it again sht was hectic which is quite understandable women are dramatic yoooooh (THE END) my pleasure…

  117. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:44 pm 

    @Flawleslee…Tjo you are cold shem … imagine breaking up with someone just cause they tried to kill you???? That is such a lame ass reason for NOT loving…YHOOO…I bet you did not even end up in intensive care… If you ask me YOU are the one being dramatic…

    tltltltl

    I once dated an unstable chick… she was a KILLER in bed… YHO!!!

    As in she was hot and erotic, NOT literally tried to kill me…

    I remember the first day we met, she told me she only had access to 20% of her sanity, but me being an idiot went ahead and fucked her…Hay hay abosisi abaphambeneyo banomtsalane shem, even though bachola amaphepha bawafake epentini…She is the only chick who has ever written a poem for me, and for that I will always love her #cues Whitney Houston#

  118. Mapeh on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:46 pm 

    @Lolo let me drive i tazz and then as soon as I get my advance driving license then I call you, yabona where I’m going with this neh?

  119. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 1:58 pm 

    @Mapeh… like totally…

  120. Miranda on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:04 pm 

    Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:57 am

    what is it that girls do vele besides kissing and touching?

    Co-asks.

  121. flawleslee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:09 pm 

    @lolo u r the one killing me now , any ways she wrote me poems too. Are you sure we not talking about the same person lol. Yoh that girl traumatised me.

    I still talk to her don’t want her near me, she told me how we belong together and I’m just going through a phase by the way she was my first (girl that is) I didnt wanna go into detail about how she tried to run my life, humiliated me in front of my friends, tried to alienate me from my best friends went through my phone didnt want me to talk to any guy. ooooooh and Cheated on me twice that I know of so yah I had to walk away plus she tried to kill me a week after my brother was burried, almost forgot how she picked a stupid fight with me at my house when we went to my brother’s funeral.

  122. sexymm on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:19 pm 

    kwaaaa @Fezzy, dont worry sthandwa.I will tell you who my crush is when we meet.Join us ku dinner phela, I will drive you back home.*wink*

  123. lolo on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:29 pm 

    @Flawleslee tltltltl… Shem sisono ngawe shem…I met my Miss Looney.. on these electronic nton nton, social networking thingies… I loved the way she played with the alphabet… People will big vocabularies are a turn on to me…But ubuhlanya bakhe JIZAS…She has made me hesitant to meet people live, that I have mey online…

  124. Mapakisha on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:31 pm 

    @flawless, iv’e never seen/ witnessed a normal lesbian relationship, most of them ke some real crazy drama. My one friend was held hostage by her lady when she tried to dump her, threatening to butcher her. It was annoying, funny & scary!!

  125. Nomaha on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:32 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Y’all are a crazy bunch I tell you. Yhuuuu hayi mandincame.

    Cant wait for 5PM to read all these comments.

    Kanti is there anyone out there who hasnt had feelings for the same sex? Maybe its just natural. *Shrugs*

    I have feelings for a “friend” I’ve known basically all my life. Well I didnt know she was les by the time I findout I was way into deep to pull out. We kiss often, like if we are sitting we just kiss nje but baby kiss, no tongues. We hug and hold hands but have never done things that lovers do. However what I feel for her is something I have never felt for any other female. Does that make me a closeted bi or am I lying to myself! I know at the back of my mind that Im totally straight but I know for sure that I hate sex with males…

    Im not confused I know….Im just one of those ladies that hate sex thats all…..

  126. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:39 pm 

    @Nomaha no u not Bi I think its natural @gals coz vele thina we would hug baby kiss each ada, ada than man who doesnt even begin to do that, HAYI bo Nomaha why do u hate sex????????

    Esh i think my man is loyaling me ngiyasha uthando lwakho today

  127. sexymm on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:40 pm 

    Ziseshe Nomaha.

  128. bongi on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:42 pm 

    @ nomaha take it to the next level and see how it goes.. like upgrader in the kissing dept from baby kiss to tonguekiss..hayi woman stare at my mpundu’s and nam ke with my flirty personality otherwise andikabatyelwa intombi..its usually middle age men that i always find sexy and wishes to kiss..oldish man like in your 45-50 year olds with greyish hair in beautiful clean look..

  129. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:48 pm 

    Ziseshe impela Nomaha hehehe

    Before I forget, I’m on Generations tonite as an extra – lady in blue. Ay ukuthanda izinto loku

  130. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:50 pm 

    @Shandu i wont mis it nana, blue what? blazer or jeans what? hehehhehe ungabi ilomlisa awahlalisa phansi i family kanti uzosithwa omunye wangavela kahle and its was only seconds Lol

  131. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:52 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaa Azande tltltltltl. Nicholas’ lingerie party – blue lingerie

  132. LadyMillion on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:55 pm 

    we just kiss nje but baby kiss, no tongues *giggles*

  133. sweetness on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 2:56 pm 

    @Nomaha you are bi-curious… let it out!! loosen up and just do it!! It the most beautiful feeling ever in a weird exciting kinda way…

  134. manolsh on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:03 pm 

    I’m so into girls *till death do us apart* back 2 silenceville.it amazing i always comment when we talk abt such issues.

  135. sk1 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:13 pm 

    death by tlarifikhey’shinz …. @Eyh2Jee yazi u kill me ngale lingo yakho

  136. nana on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:20 pm 

    Lol..Shandu I’ll look out for you babe..I hope you’ll be visible enough

  137. sk1 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:24 pm 

    he he he new bloggers ngapha na ngapha ;-) … welcum !!!!

  138. TheeGorgeous1 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:28 pm 

    I like u Lolo yazi…

    u funny.

  139. Babyluv on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:43 pm 

    Ja neh manolsh go back to nywe nywe nywe. Silentville vs silenceville. Shoo it feels quite lonely being the only 1 who has no interest (sexually) in woman

  140. Ms.Zie on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:43 pm 

    #OffTopic, where was it that u did your dry perm in Midrand?!

  141. sxylin on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 3:57 pm 

    @lolo would Miss Looney be a certain Dr Softy*Runs like Caster*

  142. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:10 pm 

    @MsZie – the lady is not there anymore. She’s sick or something. I will now to to Rosebank R200 :(

  143. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:15 pm 

    Shadu don’t go to rosebank go to carlswald decor by adega 150.that’s where I did mine in March.Hopefully usakhona cos I need to do it futhi

  144. sk1 on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:27 pm 

    Yhuuu seems like 80% la ekhaya they into gals, kanti m I the only odd or abnormal 1 ,coz not even once whr i had any feelings for woman let alone a fantasy /:) , oh well like uncle manny mentioned ” all those that are on the way to discovery” who knws maybe/ maybe not

  145. Shandu on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:31 pm 

    Ohhh thanks NtombiYomzulu

  146. manny on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 4:54 pm 

    @sk1…just flow with the flow..let life happen …you live only once ..so no holding back..if you feel the urge to smoosh a chick….

  147. SpongeBob on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 5:08 pm 

    @Babyluv you’re not alone. I’m 28 never had feelings for a woman. I watched some lesbian porn & I think its yuck & all they do is what I consider foreplay. I don’t even like a woman flirting with me, ndimnika a bad look aqonde nje.

    I have 4 close friends from childhood, we’re so close we even share a bed when we have to but those feelings azikho nje.

  148. Eyh2Jee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:00 pm 

    Kwaahahahahah Lolo,and your comment.
    death by manny and his ego.Ok manny mpintshie lets say I’m the chief(Azwindini) and you are the Mayor(Mulalo) lol,Someone had to head the House,”fotshunetli”,I was strong enough to stand’up for that position. :D …and @manny,you just need a man *dead*
    @JG,I declare you the King of Ubutabane and @Lolo,the queen of Ubutabane.
    I respect your opinions in such issues,you own PhD.

  149. Fab Tee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:19 pm 

    @Babyluv and sk1 you are not alone shem,I so dont relate kuletrip!,hayi mandiphoswe shem mna ndizithandela nje abafana bethuna!

  150. lolington kwaaa on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 6:28 pm 

    Hi @Sangoma, you can keep the avatar. The last thing I need is some JC drama over a pic found in the internet.

    @Fab Tee, Babyluv and Sk1 I’m sure you guys are as normal, I personally think we are all normal in different ways. I also have a friend who is as straight as a ruler. she would not hear anything about women and daling or even a baby kiss.
    I find it very unfair though that men are judged when they are bi-curious and women aren’t or is this maybe because of the chocolate box?

    @Shandu I will make sure to catch the repeat cause watching Generations at night is not an option!

  151. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:26 pm 

    wola wola weShandu luking hot, in dat cuming 2 mama number, got a pic lol

  152. Azande on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 8:28 pm 

    mean cum 2 mama number

  153. NOLO on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:00 pm 

    Why can’t I have these feelings too. I wanna kiss a girl aswell :-(

  154. Bee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:21 pm 

    testing…..

  155. Fab Tee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:25 pm 

    @Shandu were u the one wearing a white cap?

  156. Bee on Tue, 17th Jul 2012 10:31 pm 

    Havent read the comments yet but I hope no one have mentioned any thing bout the bible. God knows how bored I am with people saying “God created Adam and Eve not Eva and eve.Like who cares really?????

    On a lighter note thou um glad BS approved this post. It’s bout damn time we are understood and given a chance to speak openly about who we are.Molweni maqobokazana!

  157. Voltage on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 12:14 am 

    Yho! Thanks anon for da post…I’l hav 2 print da post n its comments n frame it then hang it on ma wall…I’ve neva witnessd so much lesbianism arg bsides da pride…
    Ok I’m nt goin 2 mention da fact dat I’m 4rm silentville cz it feels lyk I’v bn blogging hr 4 ever(avoiding nywe nywe nywe)…
    Mna shame hv a huge crush kuBS #not hiding..da 1st tym I saw ha ku RGB thot she’s too cute 4 ugeza…thn I saw ha on sum drama I thnk she ws n extra we2, its js dat wayexwebile pha actin as a journalist…n thn da
    WOW moment ws da JnB met(2010)she ws btfl I js fell inlove…andifuni umothusa umntana bantu bt ke I js hd 2 say…

    Ps: ungandi vumi I wnt 2 admire n like u 4ever…

  158. Shandu on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 8:41 am 

    LOL @Azande hahahahaha. Yes @Fab blue and a sailor white cap

    Lolington please do :)

  159. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 8:42 am 

    @manny how do i “just flow with the flow” while i dont hv any inchie bit yadi feelings 4any gal ?

  160. nana on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:04 am 

    LMAO!! Kodwa Lolo ave uwumsangano shem..Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I will laugh the whole day if I were to spend it with you. Lol..Please give me your face book handle man, I’ve beeeeeeen asking. I imagine you to have that DJ Zinhle kinda body except for the masculine shoulders.

  161. Azande on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:04 am 

    UMA UFUNA
    UKUQEDA IMFEBO
    SMS RUBBY KU
    31314
    NGITHE RUBY KU
    31314…………LOL

    @Shandu ungibulele umama Ruby

  162. Kusihlwa on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:08 am 

    @ Aznde, saw that on Facebook and it killed. I dont watch Gennerubbish, what happened?

  163. Azande on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:18 am 

    @Kusihlwa dis u have to c for ur self esh u donT buka yona means i have to start le kude…… Dis will cost u, anyway Mam Ruby ubambe i sms on Xolanes phone bla bla bla anyway uXolani finaly told her what happened between him and Khethiwe, to cut the story short Khethiwe ubedlana nendoda kamama Rubby………… ha Rubby wathatha ucingo ne cable wakhanda induku, washona khona epartini, ayi ke akeze amKHWELE kanje uMakhethi ngesbhaxu, *sifebe ulala nendoda yami, ngizokukhombisa bla bla bla* but eyi ustrajiwe uMakhethi……..hope uzongithola LOL

  164. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:24 am 

    Heee Shandu , i normally dont watch generubbish mara izolo i tuned jst 2 see wena , whr u the 1 whos ws wearing the sailor cap , smilling thruot the scene :-)

  165. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:26 am 

    woo yes ngik’bonile umuhle sisi wit a killer body

  166. Azande on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 9:32 am 

    @sk1 umbone kahle she was 4ever smilling and made sure i camera ayimugeji LOL

  167. kimmo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:17 am 

    dont normally watch it but enjoyed last night episode

  168. Fab Tee on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:32 am 

    umhle mos Shandu!,and yes ebeshaye nge smile through out!lol..i’ll be sure to catch the repeat Saturday ndizokujonga kakuhle!hehehe

  169. lolo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:37 am 

    @Nana you are so way way off the mark shem when it comes to my looks… I am like 37 kilograms heavier than uZintle (my ambition is to have her one day) I am NOT a looker shem, not even kancane… I am one of those people who have personality in order to hide ubukobo… It is working wonderfully for me….

    #evil grin#

  170. LadyMillion on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:44 am 

    This though ————–> its js dat wayexwebile pha

    hehe

  171. nana on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:49 am 

    hahahahahah Come now Lolo..I dont believe that. someone give me her FB handle tuu. I’m really curious.

  172. Chase on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 10:56 am 

    how i wish i was ulolo yazi, phela after this post uzobhebha day in day out. bathathe gandaganda bathathe steam roller, bathathe trekkere bathathe bulldozer!

    lolo awufuni ngikuboleke i 4-5 yami ubasebenze ngayo noma ungayiletha back after 2 months cos mina i dnt use it seyize i dormant.

  173. LadyMillion on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 11:09 am 

    hahaa @chase.. with all these curious ladies up in here! u@lolo can make this her playground… all the swings to herself

  174. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 11:21 am 

    @Azande ngimbonile amover nayo ….kwaaaa!!!

  175. nana on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 12:00 pm 

    LMAO!!! Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..Yazi Chase awusile shem..Mina I was thinking that they should all get together and satisfy each others’ curiosity.

  176. lolo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 12:29 pm 

    @Chase I do not need JC to get lucky shem mna… TRUST…I can organize cake even in a famine…

    Okay this is gonna sound immature neh? but my friend and I were talking, our talks usually turn juvenile very fast(We\ve been frinds since Highschool) she was saying ubana she bets that I can never mack on a true blue, dyed in the wool lesbian, in a long term relationship, she said that true lesbians have preide and none would be caught dead dating a married straight woman like me…I was o some oh okay… game on…LETS DU DIS!!!

    The chick she picked was so difficult to mack on yoh!!! I literary had to devote two straight week trying to get in her panties, long story short…last Saturday we got together, together…Erm, she even updated her status as… #I’m in love what what#

    Disclamer : the story above is a total and complete fabrication…

  177. Azande on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 1:06 pm 

    BOSSO ke Lolo mos

  178. Shandu on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 1:47 pm 

    LOL you guys – we were told to smile so ngangenza umsebenzi :)

  179. Azande on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 2:12 pm 

    LOL Shandu shame u did work hard for ur R110 Lol

  180. bongi on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 2:48 pm 

    hi guys..damn jc is slow today and im so bored…

  181. sweetie on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 2:53 pm 

    @Bongi, true hey , lets talk about manyobisto then u ll see ..how hectic it will be in this house

  182. LadyMillion on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 2:59 pm 

    LOL Shandu shame u did work hard for ur R110 Lol

    @Azande.. Tjo kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  183. Shandu on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:04 pm 

    Hahahahahahaha angazike ngalapho Azande

  184. kimmo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:15 pm 

    YAWNING,
    @shandu they payed you R110? eish ill have to watch repeat ka saturday

  185. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:16 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaa @ Chase mara wena umntana kabani…..tltltltl

    Ipha mina le 4-5 , heyi seng’file yindlala #hides#

  186. kimmo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:18 pm 

    eish “paid”

  187. mnyamana on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:57 pm 

    @ Sk1 ayikabi sis but ngicela udlalele kude le nesthandwa sam u chase, ungazama inhlanhla kuManny or Biskiti… otherwise ngizobiza umam ruby asongisethela wena…

  188. mnyamana on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 3:59 pm 

    @ Sk1 ayikabi sis but ngicela udlalele kude le nesthandwa sam u chase, ungazama inhlanhla kuManny or Biskiti… otherwise ngizobiza umam ruby azongisethela wena…

  189. kimmo on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 4:06 pm 

    i miss mam Angie, any chance of relate coming back

  190. sk1 on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 4:23 pm 

    hehehe askies @mnyamana angithi bengithi ngiyay’zamela since wena u went AWOL

    Ayi uManny uthathiwe wu Fezzy and uBiskiti ngiyamsaba….tltltl

  191. Shandu on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 4:47 pm 

    LOL Kimmo kunjani? No dear we were not paid R110. It was more than that, way moooore!!!

  192. Fab Tee on Wed, 18th Jul 2012 6:23 pm 

    how much was it Shandu,if you dont mind me asking?,I’ve always wondered how much extras get paid, if at all #just curious

  193. Bee on Thu, 19th Jul 2012 12:32 am 

    Seems like baninzi abantwana abafun’utyiwa apha*cues:whydidigetmarried*lol. Hayi no I think um good, um sorted. Can u imagine waisting your time these girls “nna ake gay bathong kea experimenter/ke curious fela” WTH???

    Mabatyiwe, mabaxhwithwe-iiGheti shem.

  194. Smiles on Fri, 20th Jul 2012 4:20 pm 

    Hayi mina “uAdam” will stick with “uEve” as per prescribed by the Bible. Never had feelings or curiosity for another guy, but there are quite a few undercover brothers out there.

    Anyway why are there so many labels though. Some don’t even make sense, whats “Hetero-flexible” and how is it different from being “bi-sexual”? The words hetero & Homo aren’t mutually exclusive to sexual preference. By changing the suffix you actually change the context of the prefix. So confused right now, because hetero-flexible literally means “a person who is flexible in one way and not in many ways” *shrugs*

    Some of you are confusing us people who paid way too much attention in english class lol :D

  195. lejazz on Fri, 20th Jul 2012 4:40 pm 

    Oh thank Almighty I’m back after a year long absence. This WordPress password is impossible to memorise nd cram,any possibility of changing it?

    This feature feels like it was penned down by BS.Quite an awesome read hey and people are confessing left,right,top,bottom and centre

  196. Wild Island on Mon, 23rd Jul 2012 4:07 pm 

    ijo…hase di tabane kamo ketlaobone..!!

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