What’s On Your Mind?

July 26, 2012 by Brown Shuga

‘Sup guys! Anything goes came early this week so feel free to chat about the latest news or stories you’ve heard!

There seems to be some drama in Michael Jackson’s family. At first we heard his mom had disappeared then she was like wth, now everyone online is going on about some feud, if you’ve been following the drama, please share, what’s going on?

Anything Goes, and happy Thursday, got a few nice blogs coming up tomorrow, ska wara !

- Confused Thinking
- Long Lasting sadness or irritability
- Exreme high and lows in moods
- excessive fear, worry and enxiety
- Social Withdrawal
- Dramatic changes in eating and sleeping habits
- Strong feelings if anger
- Delusional, false impressions, or hallucination (seeing things thatare not really there)
- Increasing inability of coping with daily activities and problems
- Thoughts of suicide
- Denial of obvious problems
- Many unexplained physical problems
- Abuse of drugs and alcohol

This can help prevent lots of adverse events such as suicide, crime. Boyfriend/girlfriend/wive/husband killings originate from these illnesses, dumping of children, abuse, irrational behaviour, etc.

posh on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:34 am

The interesting fact about mental illness is that if affects the young,wealthy and highly intelligent people, nerds typa people. In America the mass suicide killings in schools and the recent one in a theatre are committed by clever and educated people who are considered normal think are normal but after the action it realised the person had weird tendencies or strange behavior and habits

fancyface on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:02 am

I watched Dineo’s diary for the first time yesterday,is she really pregnant?? Earlier I had watched world according to Paris,lol she also took a pregnancy test and she showed on cam,the results,I didn’t see Dineo’s:-)

Lover28 on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:13 am

I’m originally from CPT and I’ve never experienced so much racism in my life! @work and around where I stay. I overheard my white superiors who are under the impression that I don’t understand afrikaans, talk about how they can’t wait to get rid me and are only giving me 3 months to F-up! Sad thing, I know my job en I do it well, unless they Loya me, they don’t have a thing on me. I’m just praying for the Lords guidance through all of this… Morning everyone!!

Miss T on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:44 am

@Thase, Happy Belated luv.

@Lover28, sorry u hav 2go thru dat. But why didn’t u respond when u heard them. You could have just said ‘I’m sorry you feel that way’ & go on wit wat u were doing.

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:54 am

Morning guys, im depressed bathong, my bf is pressurizing me to sell my house. He says he cant stay in a house that i used to share with my ex husband. I told him to buy me a new house and this one i want to keep for my son (future). Phela we cant predict happily ever after, then he goes on and calls me selfish. Im getting gatvol with his childish tendecies…nxa!!

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:08 am

Hahahaha @Thase, eish…. Happy belated birthday, all the best, God bless you.

@Bigmama thank u, all the best for you audition, I hope you get.

@fancyface, she is really pregnant, a mutual friend of dineos and mine told me a while back.

@Lover28 you will move from that Job when God says u must move and not because of some racist baboon who think they have power. Do what you do well and leave the rest to God, He will protect you and expose them for the evil people they are.

@Posh, it looks like alot of people might have mental illness ke, those are common symptoms….Hehehehehehe

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:10 am

@lover28 ..haerde babes ,wena just excell @missT has a point you should have done just that ..

my anything goes..

so yesterday I am in a a taxi busy on my phone …this mama sitting next to me ..is reading everything without even hiding it…she was even tilting her head toread…I got irritated …and I wrote “mama mind your won business and stop reading what i am writing on my phone ” while she was still looking on …the nerve of that lady …she cleared her throat ,,,and sat back

pinksoul on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:10 am

@Noance, you & I are in the same love boat

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:13 am

tjo @posh

sihlanya sibaniningi

another anything goes,,
an ex of mine has contacted me..claiming she missed me ..she says she was crazy,,,like seeing things that are not there crazy …Ii laughed mina …eish and september is here ..she is gonna hlanyela me goet …

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:15 am

ya neh. so last night a dreamt that Barker Haines (Isidingo) sold my grandmother’s house to himself and said my aunt is the one who sold it to him until we insisted on veryfying my aunt’s signature. death! too much tv is not gud for me

makasoso on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:17 am

lmao tjo @ kamza i thought i was the only one who dreams tv, i’ve even cut back a little

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:18 am

@kamza ….this is the sypmtom category of poshs list you fit in
Delusional, false impressions, or hallucination (seeing things thatare not really there)

uphambene lol

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:21 am

hahahaaaaaaaa lol Manny

makasoso on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:23 am

i meant dreams of tv characters

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:25 am

@pinksoul it will be ok love, we will get something. We must stay strong.

@Gomolemo why is this man of urs, staying in ur house in the first place?!? He must be a man and make a plan, where does he get of telling u what to do with ur acquired property? Like really

@Manny run from that ex,lol. Clearly we are all crazy according to that list.

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:26 am

@Noance, you & I have two things in common now.. this—->
Love is on my mind! I miss it, I long for it, I dream of it… But I won’t settle.
& this—–>
I’ve been applying so much I feel like I have a second job! Its time consuming. At least I’m getting interviews, akufani shame!
I’m thinking of taking an offer yako Bloemfontein, I don’t know anyone there but it’ll be like a fresh start**

Miss Thang on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:27 am

Anything goes. Dineo has a baby with a different man and now she is carrying Blacklez baby. i don’t understand how we can make the same mistakes as some of our parents have, different babies with different fathers. i kinda don’t even trust Blacklez i feel like he’s dating her coz she is DR! look i have nothing against people who have babies out of wedlock i just feel that if you had your 1st child rather wait and get married then have your baby with the new hubby.

Shandu on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:28 am

Hahahaha @Manny bathong!! Tjo @Posh’s list, kushuthi mna ngiyahlanya ke ngoba nginazo zonke lezo zinto except for suicide shame I can never!!

Gosh I’m so sick, this flu means business shame – been sneezing and coughing like a magogo nje

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:28 am

Morning JC family

@Kamza hai qinisile uManny uphambene nyani lol, I only dream about scary movies and that’s why I don’t watch them anymore. I once had a dream about the anacoda gosh I told my self this is it, no more scary stuff.

Uyamitha bo u Dini akadlali

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:33 am

Self diagnosis @ Posh..
- Confused Thinking
- Long Lasting sadness or irritability
- Exreme high and lows in moods
- excessive fear, worry and enxiety
- Strong feelings if anger
- Abuse of alcohol

*sigh*.. kushukuthi ngiyahlanya vele?!

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:35 am

Eish @Mapakisha I’m glad i’m not alone,lol. You know I’ve realised that sometimes God’s blessings move you to certain palces. Your blessing might be in a different place, remember the children of Israel had to move and travel to find the promised land.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:36 am

@Shandu I’m also fighting the flu, so irritated nami, the cough is killing me,going to the nurse in my office block for cough mixture.

ImbaliEnhle on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:37 am

Hello JC Fam. So this is my first comment ever, after two years of being a silent blogger #CrawlingOutOfTheCorner. What’s one my mind is two things:
1. Can love come knocking on my door already, 11 months all on my lonesome is a long time. Anywho I’ll wait for my Mr Right, maybe its the colleague down the passage, with whom some flirting has been going on.
2. Why are call centre agents so unhelpful mara hhe. Nje their logic just baffles me really. Case no#1: I do an online application, it says, if you have a problem call this number, so I call, lady on the phone is unwilling to help and tells me to send an email, I need this sorted out as in yesturday not when you get around to checking your emails. It would of took just 5 minutes to resolve the issue which happened eventually, when I called again and a different person answered. Case no#2, lady from the bank calls me about a new promotion they have, I ask her to send me more information before I sign up, she say no, I have to sign up first before she can send me more infor. Hello, infor first then I sign up, this is my hard earned money we talking about.
Happy Thursday and Happy Blogging #CrawlsBackIntoCorner

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:41 am

Gomo even if you sell your house make sure gore your hubby doesnt get a cent from it. put it away for your son. He cant be serious about you selling the house. kanti your hubby azange a utlwela ka a thing called investments? otswa kae reye teng

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:46 am

ok i have the following

- Confused Thinking (sometimes i’d say something and completely go blank and forget what i said)
- Exreme high and lows in moods (will be moody nje without a reason)
- excessive fear, worry and enxiety
- Dramatic changes in eating and sleeping habits
- Delusional, false impressions, or hallucination (seeing things thatare not really there) heheeee i am married to my celeb crush. death!
- Many unexplained physical problems

folksister on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:47 am

Kwaaa!@Manny telling the lady in the taxi to mind her own business.You killed me.

Lover28 on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:48 am

Thanks guys, mara Manny, what happens in September?? Lol!! Is it her Hlanying month??

Puddin4BD on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:51 am

its my birthday today, Hubby on business trip and i’m broke.and i hate getting old lol.

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:54 am

I dont think Dineo is really pregnant, its a stunt to get ARs

She will say the pregnancy test was not accurate,

unless if she goes to consult and a Dr confirms this

Mara

If she is, then she must eat a HUGE humble pie for her “in this times of HIV” tweets to Mr Sushi re: Eda Rose – DUDU’s wedding

Clearly she aint using method “C” which means she is putting her life at risk

Le gona @Blakes wa gafa, o imisa motho o sa mo tlhompheng

and whats with men liking this “lets have a baby talk”

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:54 am

@lover28..ka sepetember ke springs …all things blossom..ven madness takes a leap….you must take note how many mad people you will see ka september

nana on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:56 am

Morning ma bloggers..Eish Pakzin and Noance sisonke shem kuleyo job hunting..yoh..I spend MORE than half of the day at work looking and applying..I hope I get some interviews soon and a job..I’m even starting to get depressed over this.

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:57 am

@Gomolemo..did you say Boyfriend not even fiance..he must try fixing that first before he dishes instructions.

And then when my brother decides that he wants to marry Dineo with two kids from different fathers, her family should expect R5000.00 for lobola.

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:58 am

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:59 am

I have been looking for a job for the past 4 years, i do get 1 or 2 nyana interviews, maara kuzoba right.

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:59 am

@Gomolemo…..don’t sell that house tu! Keep it for your son. Open a bank account in your son’s name, rent it out, and pay the bond with the rent money. If there is some excess left between the rent and the bond payments, save it in your son’s account.

Dineo Ranaka’s show ne! I think it’s doing damage to her reputation at the cost of being real! How do you sleep with your man, not using protection or contraceptives and you do not even know where he stands with regards to having a baby with you?

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:00 am

hahaaa Botshelo my first thought after seeing that comment about Dineo being preggy? “kanti ena ga use condom”

Zida on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:03 am

This is all about money. Remember that MJ just came out of debt. Or at least about to. Everything MJ’s estate makes now grows back his profits. They are trying to bump the executioners off so that they have access to that money.

As for Janet getting involved, I think Randy is behind that. Remember when Randy recruited her and others to beat up Joe’s concubine way back? I know Damita is worth about half less than she did when nipplegate hit, but she’s not that desperate for money. She’s got a rich prince for a boyfriend anyway.

Where is Joe, by the way? Is he still trying to develop that girl band he created not long ago? If he was in the picture, none of this wud be happening. But then again, maybe it’s good he’s out of the picture cos we know his shenanigans.

I’m glad though that Rebbie is taking care of Catherine. She’s always been the more sensible one.

Anyway, I hope they get it together. For MJ’s memory.

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:06 am

@Vesa true i also think its doing damage ngempela, there are some thing nje they were not suppose to show, nje yona le ye preganancy test i really think they were not suppose to, and this show is somehow changing the way we think of D and all, i love her neh but im starting to think ngeyendlela ngaye, its more like akacabangi uDineo at all.

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:10 am

hppy birthday @puddin
@gomo dont sell that house, keep it for your son, if he wants to move then he must get you one.

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:14 am

Gosh, promised land?! I wonder kukuphi @ Noance, I’m up to HERE, lol..

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

happy born day pudding

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

@Vesa, such wisdom

Imma do just that.

This nigga aint getting my house

I just did not know how to go about it

DR (moogul in the making)- Ke sono ka yena. Her show will kill bains onn the move or whaever her company’s name, she should have presented the pregnancy storyline better. not redicule herself like that

Backstabber on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:17 am

Good Morning Guys

Quick question, So Dineo is/might be pregnant by Les who is not the father of the 1st baby?!

Okay what im asking is, she is about to have a second baby out of wedlock and is broadcasting that ish like its something to be proud of ?

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:21 am

Got 2 things on ma mind: unlike Noance, I’m not gettin responses fo my applications, and I’m rily tired of stayin home, for a minute I thot abwt Snapshot’s offer but….
Then 2ndly, girlfriends coling their boyfrnds hubbies doesn’t rily sink well wit me, I feel as a gal u sellin yoself short to a man that might just never marry you… Or perhaps u jinxing yoself, unless mayb u hav a reason y u colin a mere bf yo hubby?

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:23 am

and if she planned the baby and can afford to have another there is nothing wrong with that..her choice. what if she doesnt get married. it’s the way these celebs always preach ka hiv/aids that get me worried cos they always try to sound smart and go prove gore they are just idiots

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:25 am

*walks past Chandy’s comment*

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:25 am

MissThang and Azande, what do you do when you find out that you are pregnant (second baby), different father???? I mean let’s say you get a cd burst with your BF and morning after pills aren’t effective enough for your immune system….

Abort ? give birth and give them up for adoption? what do you do ?

sweetness on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:26 am

@Noance everything you said on all your your comments, I am with you there, only difference is I am not even getting a single interview, and maybe I got some loving nyana, just not that crazy love I long for!!

So you guys use condoms every time?? like EVERY TIME with your bf’s?? we are too quick to judge, I just think she should have been responsible enough to go on contraceptives.

Did you here about some meds/vaccine to help prevent contracting the HIVirus?? Its already in the States.

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:27 am

@Kamzababy yah if she plann it and want it its cool, vele not every1 will get married, but her case its was never a plann and still busy with her business things and all, and no idea if the baby daddy want to have a child or…………….

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:28 am

@ChandyOl….same goes for the girls that change their surnames as per boyfriend’s surname….but well it’s they choice

Pana on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:28 am

happy Thursday magenge.
nna I’m just inlove, so inlove.
Haven’t felt like this in a very long time

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:31 am

HIV?AIDS is going no where and kids will forever be raised by single mothers..

Puddin4BD on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:31 am

thanks @Kamzababy

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:32 am

So refugees in this country are also racists? This Pakastian or wherever she comes from says this dude can’t sit next to her “I don’t sit with black men” she uttered. Tjo!!

Mapakisha, take the offer in Bloem, I’ll be your friend

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:32 am

But….but @Kamzababy maybe u cud just shed some light maybe I’m being old skool or sumthn o___O

Ms.Zie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:37 am

Keep in mind, not everyone’s end goal is marriage and even marriage doesn’t guarantee that you will be with that person til your dying days. I’m not pro-’choice assorted’ children, but let’s not be unrealistic. It happens. As long as you are financially independent & can mantain your kids then have them.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:37 am

@sweetness and chandyol I was also not getting responses but I have been at it and I refuse to give. I pray about it alot too. We need a higher power to help us when it come sto things like this. Its tough out there. I’ll keep you both in my prayers and lets keep pushing!!!

I just think we all have our opnions but lets face it, we all make mistakes. Its easy to bash Dineo because we are not in that situation but what I have learnt in life is that, as long as ur still alive, anything can happen to u. So in regards to her pregnancy and sleeping patterns, I choose not to judge. Two years from now, i might be in the same situation and have people throwing daggers at me. Her life, her choices.

Ms.Zie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:37 am

‘it’s the way these celebs always preach ka hiv/aids that get me worried cos they always try to sound smart and go prove gore they are just idiots’

Here I agree.

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:41 am

@Sweetness yes nna I use condoms consistently wit ma bf and yes I don’t wana contract no hiv or any othr sti… I can never trust a man wit ma life… Wil only not use protection the day I decide 2 babymake….
@Miranda +_+ so thr gals hu do that? Hahahahahahahaha u gotta be kidding me….

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:42 am

Oh wow @ MyThoughts, that’s so sweet.. Can I move in too??

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:45 am

@Noance Thank you for the wise words… I do pray but don’t think its enuff, will do sum serias reinforcement… Will pray for u too, so u get yo dream job

chilled sweet lemonade on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:46 am

hau BS i thought we could just log in without the password thingy!!
i hate suspense, so like can those close to dineo please confirm the pregnancy…..
@blindfold….eish i feel your pain…jobhunting is a JOB!!!!!!!!haiiii….im just so numb…if i have to go to another interview again….im gonna puke!!!!!!!!

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:46 am

@Noance: I wanna share this w/ You: The Creator answers prayers in 3 ways: (1) He says Yes & gives You what You Desire (2) He says No & gives You Better. (3) He says Wait & gives You the Best Ever. So that great job You are after is on its way.

@Gomolemo: You BF wants to control things out of his jurisdiction. How old is Your son? Here’s a piece of unsolicited advise: It’s better to sell the house and invest the proceeds in a stable investment vehicle like a smooth fund. If the house is worth R600k – R800K, that money can yield somewhere around +-R17M over a period of 15 years, provided market conditions remain favourable. If your son is below 5 years of age, He should have millions by the time He’s 20 years old. Planting Your money in a vehicle like a smooth fund makes better sense than leaving it in the form of a physical asset like a house. The returns will out-perform the house value over a period of 15 years. If only black folks, especially the younger generations, were aware of the power of investing and it’s benefits in the long run, we would all be wealthy. My dear sell the house and invest the proceeds. You son will be very proud of You later on.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:49 am

@JohneighGALAXY thank you. I believe its on its way too:-)

chilled sweet lemonade on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:49 am

whats gonna be the next “craze” after reality shows…..
they have lost the true essence what they were meant to be…..why is it realiy if the damn things are scripted!!!!!!!

miss sam on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:50 am

Hey guys!happy thursday and I gt paid izolo!*dancing*
I agree Miss Thang!uDineo hs a baby stayng @ home now she will have another 1!haai suka!*such thngs make me angry*
Can I jst say,I love Noance!*big hug*

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:50 am

wtf..almost everyone is in love….hehehehehe that ish dont exisist …..
#starts counting until yall comeback and complain

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:53 am

Aaaaaah @misssam, Love you too *huggie*

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:54 am

so happy im not the only1 facing the job application thing, i really thought my applications aphelele endleleni at some point, you know when u apply for a job u meet all the requirements for, and ubone ukuthi la bachaza wena, uwena lo abamfunayo and kuthuleke nje kanjalo, and i was giving up on these website thinking kudlalwa ngathi and all, but now i do get those 2nyana interviews so im starting to gain some hope back, the sad part is when u go to the interview and did well, kanti ubuphelezela some1 they knew already who was going to be appointed, and as the time goes u waiting for that call and if its a private number thinking its them, hoping its them…………..till u forgot akuve kubuhlungu

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:54 am

@Chandyol…Facebook people will shock you wena, Aba sabi guba Sindi Dlamini, Sindi Nkosi, and Sindi Radebe in one year, when you ask why…..you are a hater.

@ Sweetness, Chandyol le Noance, I also started applying in June . I have not received a single interview response, the only responses I get ke tse reng ” thanks, we are reviewing your application “, futhi in my field every company is looking for this person with 5,10, 12 years of experience…. where do we buy this experience they want.Lord knows I don’t want to be here next year.

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:55 am

lol @ manny i pray for that day when you come and say you inlove

Shandu on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:57 am

@Noance please keep me in your prayers too. I really hate le ndawo ngisebenza kuyo. And lamtu oyi boss yami SMH – God have mercy on his soul. I just want OUT nje!!

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:00 am

Mapakisha come and you won’t regret it. I hope you like partying lol

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:01 am

@JG, you are onto something there…I am not quiet sure I understand what you mean by investing in a “smooth fund” though, is this googlable?

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:02 am

lol@ shandu le wena hape??
am stopping work next month from sep i will be home

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:05 am

@Shandu I will dear, guys something has got to give. Doors shall be open for us all, I just know that will be singing a new tune very soon I also have a boss from hell but I have learnt to zone him out, this is not his mothers company. His an employee, just like me.

@Miranda keep at it, and also apply for those positions that say 5 years. Urs is to apply, leave the rest to God. The word says the heart of a king is in the Lords hands. Dont ask how it will happen, just send ur cv.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:05 am

me walking past your comment means gore i dont want to comment. so what about the boyfriends who call their girlfriends wife/wifey??

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:05 am

@ dis —>And lamtu oyi boss yami SMH – God have mercy on his soul. I just want OUT nje!!

I say the same about lo owami daily, yaz I don’t think i’ve ever disliked a person as much I do this lady engimsebenzelayo, yoo!! everytime she goes across the road kwi garage I get this feeling yokuthi ngathi angashayiswa yi truck ye Clover abhubhe.. Lord forgive me. Anginathando for yena shem!!

makasoso on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:08 am

yoo!! everytime she goes across the road kwi garage I get this feeling yokuthi ngathi angashayiswa yi truck ye Clover abhubhe.. Lord forgive me. Anginathando for yena shem!!

LMAO TJO @mapakisha that’s bad hey but i know how you feel

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:08 am

To those that are job hunting, keep at it. The market has been very slow, even for people that are already employed and looking for greener pastures. Something will come along….just keep the faith!

Babyluv on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:08 am

Ja neh job hunting is a BIATCH. @Gomolicious where does your man live? He has dictatorship tendencies.

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:09 am

Tjonna we @ MyThoughts, akere u see already hore @posh’s self diagnosis what what I’m a super social person & i like to indulge ku vodka kancan’ lol. I love it, lol!! Ke a tla, just u wait..

Miss Thang on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:10 am

@Miranda if the CD burst’s then u get morning after pills.

Shandu on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:10 am

Eish Kimmo ngwaneso kunzima

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:12 am

ho tla loka , the year is almost over, maybe next year will be better

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:13 am

Morning all. HBD Puddin! Guys when job hunting you must just think out of the box, you must not over look those sites on the net. that is how i found my present job, and befriend someone at the agency & whenever you pass by their offices you just go in & ask how they are doing, whats new just be friendly & volunteer whenever you can, you get to meet ppl that way. i always recommend that if there is an ideal company that you would like to work for you much be willing to even enter at admin level (even with you degree) that way you gain experience & its easier for them to employ you if you have been on their payroll aswell. I learnt that from my friend who had Honours in Bcom something, she started in the firm as a receptionist come tea-lady & when posts opened a couple of months later she applied & all those ppl who treated her bad were so shocked to find that she was so educated & she got the job.

Smatsatsa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:14 am

Morning bloggers

Happy birthdy to Pudding

I feel your pain regarding the job application thing hey, hope yall find something soon.. People always get amazed when I tell them how much I love my job, but they don’t understand that I had to come from such a crap place to really appreciate what I have now, and I really do… but I know that this will be the last company I work for and I won’t stay for more than 3 years..

Anyway, can anyone recommend a great lodge to visit in Knysna, someone who’s been there and not heard of.. *holiday time*

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:16 am

@makasoso, I can’t help it, this person is taking my Xtian duty(Love thy neighbour) from me ngenkani, she makes it hard to love, lol..

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:16 am

“angashayiswa yi truck ye Clover abhubhe” @Makasoso kodwa why eye clover? lol

asanwababe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:19 am

Molweni, sanibonani, dumelang, lotshani, etc etc
Niphilile kodwa? Akubandi eKapa, yesses. I need me some summer nyani.

@Johneigh, sana your avatar is special. The first time I saw it, I had to tjo!

@Puddin, happy birthday nana. Askies about the state of your finances; but you can still enjoy your day.

@Lover28, the things we deal with at work. Don’t make them aware that you can understand Afrikaans. Basile kodwa.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:20 am

Happy Birthday Pudding! Wishing you all the best and God bless.

asanwababe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:25 am

@Babyluv Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa –> “@Gomolicious where does your man live? He has dictatorship tendencies.”

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:25 am

@MyThoughts i c u in Bloem, please help we looking for accomodation for Macufe Festival and no luck, do you know izindawo i can call maybe?????

chilled sweet lemonade on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:28 am

whats annoying the most is that these companies will call you for interviews at odd hours, then take you to psycometric(sp) tests etc…then they keep quiet….I find that very annoying coz one has to take a day off for these silly tests nxa only for them to keep quiet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:31 am

@chilledsweetlemonade, my sentiments exactly. I am waiting for some other company to get back to me regarding psychometrics which will be the second time I’m taking them. And I am running out of leave days and excuses to give here at work.

chilled sweet lemonade on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:33 am

The prospective companies are so enthusiastic in the beginning but not at the end!!!!!!!!!!
another thing guys…not sure if you have been faced with this but dont u find some recruitment agents dodgy…I was called for an interview once at a company so the recruitment agent wanted to force me to ask for a lower salary than i had stated!!!!!!!! its not like it was an exorbitant amount, it was relatively market related….I started wondering what her agenda was!!!!!cow!!!!!!!

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:44 am

@Miranda: The aim of a smooth fund is to provide market-related and inflation beating returns over the long term, without the high volatility that the equity market often displays. The way this is done is to declare a bonus annually that represents the investment return investors will earn every year. Some of the benefits of having a smooth fund portfolio include: (1) steady growth. Investors with non-smoothed market-linked funds have seen their returns fall into negative territory as a result of the global economic downturn, while smooth fund investors have seen their fund values largely preserved. It beats inflation. (2) The returns earned by the investor in the form of bonuses would seem to be less volatile than non-smoothed market-linked funds. It offerts excellent long-term returns. (3) The profit-sharing (smoothing of investment returns) and the vesting component provide an essential element of security.

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:48 am

@Azande..have you tried booking.com? here is the link

http://www.booking.com

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:50 am

hey all,

Happy beated Thase and happeeeee to Pudding- try find little joys today despite ur man and finances absenteeism.

sweetness on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:50 am

I read this article some time back.

We also need to check our CV’s, if its structured well, correct grammar used, correct font, etc. Sometimes we dont get interviews because of that. I recently fixed mne, found alot of spelling mistakes and incorrect gammar used, places where i had repeated myself…

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:53 am

@chilledsweetlemonade, i’ve heard of agents that do that. send jobs less than what u’r currently earning, tell u to reduce ur ask price. wtf? know ur worth ppl.

to all the jobseekers, as someone said, the market has been and is still very dry. even for internal movers. retrenchments and restructuring aren’t over for all on top of that- boMTN le SABmiller and who knows who else. don’t give up. and i hope y’all are conisdering internally as well, if u’r currently in big organisations.

only_child on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:59 am

YES!! Please come to Bloem. The more the merrier,le rona le batla ho etsa di tea party.

Puddin4BD on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:00 am

thanks for the love guys

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:04 am

good morning
@Blindfold “HIV?AIDS is going no where and kids will forever be raised by single mothers..

>>>> and fathers but in most cases u get both parents bashone and the kids raise themselves cos baba yi outcast from their families or be a burden ku ma grandparents..

@Manny why osamorwaka? ppl used o do that when i read my daily sun eeeeeeeeeeh id just mumble something like”leja di kfc lholwa ke go reka pampiri ya R2 ” otlautlwa motho a hemela motsebeng kante obala lewena..then id bloody fold my paper and curse the hell out(u are too sweet kana wena)…SO TRUE: mahlanya atla ke summer otlaba bona..

*the house lady: dont u date orekise yo house..futhi pls tell us how he came up with that idea…nishaya i vat-en-sit at your house? whos house? akana room or a house of his own yena ke..or nichekane e geitini? wakgotlwayela..
*Happy birthday my dear…kana kemang?
*major hang over eish…t be khiphad later again …
*Those who are applying for jobs pls re-check your references my dear,get someone whos close to u and not include abo manager nama supervisor bakhohlakele ..ince my operations manager received reference call ka employee tjooooooo he went on and on rubishing the guy(kanti they were calling from a bank to verify employment) things ppls do>>another one accounts manager angafuni this lady to go as she was her slave amkhuluma kabi until he decided to remover her as reference and now ukuma greener pastures..sis!!
*Dineo ke choice yahae its just that her business is out there fr all to judge mara babang balona lelebetse leh di sebedisa those condoms..
*Miranda(hope ke right)…if i condom iya basta(pls have lub in your bag to avoid such from happening), if MAP awa sebenzi ku system yakho u get the more expensive ones …or to avoid yonke lento use contraceptives as for HIV haike use female condom…HOW COME MOST GIRLS DONT USE THIS VELE MARA???..hai nna akena chelete ya di babyshower tse million savana yatura..

DEscl:dont u dare ask what language do i speak AGAIN..ketla o roha !!! u know yourself..

Chase on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:05 am

@JohneighGALAXY™, can u give us examples of these smooth funds.

mnxim i was chilling with ths nigerian dude gister, he was bragging & calling me stupid cos i cant speak french, imagine!

i ask him why would one speak french in sa and futhi nje la esouth africa we eat french with bread dnt speak it.

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:06 am

@Blindfold thanks ill try it

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:21 am

Yazi Wildy o bua nnete. sometimes di reference ba senyeletsa. ke dula across motho our snr ene mo0st of us re kentse ena as reference. ene she gives gud reference mara o limiter things only talks about things that are on your job description.

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:23 am

agggggg shame @only child kante o kgalla di tea party tsa jozi!

ImbaliEnhle on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:24 am

Tjo! The way I feel so sorry for all you guys complaining about your jobs. May the good Lord be with you’ll cause theres nothing more satisfying than waking up to do a job that you love. I’ve been blessed with a good job, great team to work with and a wonderful boss. I wish you all the best.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:24 am

lmao Wildy deaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaath by your disclaimer

dejane on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:27 am

Happy birthday Pudding. Nna I’m a freelance, don’t have perks tsa leave and so on. People are excited about their profit share, doubt I’ll be getting any. I’ve had to lie and tell em I’m attending a course for two weeks, to get some time off and job hunt, visit a few companies.
But I believe if we all keep pushing and praying, something will definitely come through.

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:27 am

Thank you @everyone for you pisitivity about us find mmereko..the Lord willl grant us that one day

Beautiful-Butterfly on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:32 am

My anything goes:

So its been a month since I last visited Boyfriend(we live far from each other)- he had a picture of us on his TV stand when I was last there. Two weeks back his brother came to visit him since the schools were closed. So yesterday I visit boyfriend and find the pic not there, I ask where it is he tells me its on his desk at work. So I do my own snooping around the house and find our pic stashed in some unused travelling back together with my shoes. Part of my mind says the dude had some chikita over and had to hide those stuff, while another part things maybe he “hit” them from his brothers since they are younger(guess its what I wanna believe). Anyway I took all of them and will be leaving with them without his knowledge.

Could this dog be cheating or am I overreacting?

snapshot on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:35 am

molweni bahlali, have an extra busy day

Sxylin said hi to everyone, he actual words “keep your kamasutra skills in check”

makasoso on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:37 am

@beautiful-butterfly i hate to say this but i dont think you’re overreacting because he lied about the picture but i think deep down you know he’s cheating coz why would you go around snooping after he told you the pic is in his office?

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:40 am

@Babyluv..Gomolicious? I like. He is staying with me at the moment. We are getting married ka November, so i just think he should buy me a new house if he does not feel comfortable in my house. And he is not really a dictator, i just think he takes advice from the wrong people, you know telling him gore u are staying in HER house…blah..blah…and he is just stupid to listen to them. I have also made it clear that we will be signing a pre-nup. I dont know much about it, anyone??

@JG, my son is five, and im taking your advice to heart, so ill be doing some research.

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:41 am

@Beautiful Butterfly: long distance relationships are very taxing emotionally and physically. Don’t make excuses for him. Why did he lie about the whereabouts of the pic. He’s is lying for sure. You can’t expect a Man to remain celibate while you are miles away. Cheating is inevitable if you are in a long distance setup. He’s cheating, make peace w/ it and get over it. I don’t know any Man who would remain for weeks without sex.

Zoe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:47 am

Kodwa uChase wathathwaphi?

I’m so tired i’ve decided to take a nap in my office whilst the bosses proceed with their meeting in the boardroom.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:48 am

beautiful butterfly was it a suprise visit? your bf aka hubby wa jola shem and she doesnt want the other gal to know gore he has a gf aka wifey

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:49 am

yaaa@Kamza lol

someone says we must walk into those companies : i want to work ko Ekurhuleni manicipality ne…ive applied a billion times ended up sending an email to the mayer,his deputy the managers and their PA’s..i couldnt understand how in the world would one apply for a vacancy and not even be called even once,and this thing of them not sending emails or sms’s or letters to show theyve received your application..NOTHING..as a manicipality maybe bayawalahla lama CV wetu…i complained ukuthi i did my BCom and are they telling me i dont f@# even qualify for a cashier position thats kak…bakhe baphendula? akkenyake go rekisa marao for mmereko cos half the ppl abasebenza khona i dont remember even one “those that i know” baya kuma interview wakhona…

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:52 am

@beautiful butterfly..your snopped (sp) and got what you wanted akere, you knew deep down that the was cheating as @makasoso mentioned.

Askies shame your boyfriend has got someone else.

LadyMillion on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:55 am

Total Bliss Metro FM

Aaaaaaaaaaaaargh Aza…I’m in Agony!!!!

HY AZA,IM A 26YR OLD GUY FRM THEMBISA,AND IM ADDICTED TO WEARING PANTIES,,I STARTED IN 2000 TO WEAR PANTIES AND I ALSO STEAL THEM IN A WASHING LINE, I LOVE THEM COS THEY R SEXY AND I FEEL COMFORTABLE WEN I WEAR PANTIES,,I DNT WEAR MEN’S UNDERWEAR @ ALL..IM STUCK TO THIS ADDICTION AND IM GROWING OLD,,ANY ADVICE I CULD GET?I DO HV A GALFREND BUT SHE DOESNT KNOW.
Im 26yrs nw,its been almost 8yrs doing this,im not gay i just love wearing panties and no1 knws about it,even if i burn the ones i have,i wuld go and buy or steal more..ja i accept i have a problem but its not dat easy to solve it cos my hormones always crave for them

hahahah this guy..why does he steal them though..and how come the girlfriend has never seen him in his panties

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:01 pm

LM this story sounds familier..when was this?

LadyMillion on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:02 pm

@ Wildy..Today!

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:05 pm

so it means when he sleeps with his GF he undresses in the dark or prior? mxnm…this is a recyled story nana*trust me lol

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:06 pm

@Beautiful-Butterfly other woman was there askis, but nathi we like to look for things ezizosiphatha kabi, temptations i know. skwara wena most if not every man cheat be it long distance or uhlala naye endlini, kuyafana nje. so we really need to try and stop to look for those things , stay away for ama phones wabo and all, mina i always say as long as he respect me and make sure i never find out cool, my friend always say if usufuna ukuhamba to that relationship only than u can dig, coz chances are nakanjani if u look u will find something.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:06 pm

lmao Ladymillion i have never! cant remember the last time i listened to that show…

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:06 pm

Tjo..tjowe@Ladymillion…this guy needs professional help asap.. Nna if i was the girlfriend and found out about his panty obsession, ill dump him shem!!

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:11 pm

Eish Beautiful Butterfly, that arrangement itough dear. I used to snoop like there was no tmoro, (in a psycho kinda way) until i got tired, now i just trus’nyana & drink the rest away, ngidde ngikhohlwe!

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:12 pm

nahana fela panties,

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:14 pm

LadyM tjo! Uyesu makabuye azolamula! Ngeke!

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:15 pm

Yeah only child, re bake marata ka hore ro kopanela kae kae on saturday & not pitch make more noise about rescheduling, lol.. i’m coming to Bloem!

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:15 pm

@LM so who does the guy steal panties from or is he staying in a complex nyana or what? Or awo sisi and aunty bakhe. I think uyahlanya strait, iqalile phela isummer. Phela kuthiwa ukuhlanya akuqali ngokubala amanzi

LadyMillion on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:16 pm

hahah he probably steals the girlfriends panties

sweetness on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:25 pm

@Beautiful-Butterfly He is cheating.

PowerPuff Gal on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:26 pm

Good day beloved bloggers!!!

My Anything Goes, I’m with my mother for her second chemotherapy session. When we arrived the receptionist was just rude and inconsiderate for something she did wrong. You know those people who won’t admit when they have done something wrong, AGGH I just wanted to slap her pathetic self. Anyhow that’s behind us. I really do admire my mother she’s such a strong woman. When she first got diagnosed with breast cancer she wasn’t horrified and handled the news with such calmness. All she said was “I’m one of the lucky ones to have detected it early and I have the means to treat it, so I have nothing to complain about, why should someone else suffer”.
God has truly been wonderful to her and I’m so grateful to still have my mother. I dedicate Erykah Badu’s “Bag Lady” to her because even though she’s sick, she still worries about others and wants to carry the worlds’ problems. I’ve told her a million times to “pack light” and prioritise her needs first. I guess somethings will never change…

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:31 pm

guys did anyone ever watch terry pheto on the bold, wasnt she meant to appear in june?

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:32 pm

@ladymillion LMAO! HAhahahahahhahahahhahaah that is funny!!!!

@PowerpuffGal The Lord will restore and reward ur mother, God rewards you when you’ve come from trying times, He will not leave her empty handed. Be strong and stay blessed. I’ll keep ur mama in my prayers.

@Bautiful butterfly, be a beautiful butterfly and fly away sisi. Had the same thing happen to a friend of mine, nigga finally confessed he had a girl over. When a guy is inlove, he will show it esp infront of his little brothers.

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:34 pm

@Beautifulbuttterfly, dear he is clearly seeing someone, and taking the photo and shoes without his knowledge wont make you feel better, you will forever speculate and assume, thus making excuses for him. I say confront him, and ask him why he lied about the whereabouts of those things.

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:36 pm

@PowerPuff, I hope your mother gets well soon hun, will pray with her.

Funny you should ask @ Kimmo, i was wondering the same thing looking at the old post tsamo JC that were about her role on the Bold. I wonder!!

Richmond on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:37 pm

Steve Jobs died before he could adopt me and Oprah, Donald Trump & Richard Branson are too selfish to adopt me.

With all that said, tell us more about these investment options, dear Joneigh. It sounds very fascinating and ndidikwe finish yinhlupheko. I know Im not alone.

Jobseekers, please follow Lelo’s professional account on twitter. She gives great advice and links to very resourceful articles. It will be worth your while.

Newkid on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:38 pm

Here is my anything goes – Anybody ever see me holding a razor to my punani – kill me – ingrown hair is very painful. Will have to find other ways

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 12:55 pm

@powerpuff I wish your mum a speedy recovery…she has a beautiful way of looking at things,,,Modimo o Lerato

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:00 pm

Bathong @NewKid……. lol

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:03 pm

razor bathong!!! tjo

manny on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:06 pm

@beautiful butterfly…

that issh was packed coz there is a new madam there ..and she demanded all you belongings be pakced and sent to you..and then wena waya o fofa otsmaisitse khekhe ka silver platter kanti..u are on you r way out

vaya sisi vaya

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:08 pm

Hahhahahhahaha bathong @Manny! >>>>>>”wena waya o fofa otsmaisitse khekhe ka silver platter kanti..u are on you r way out”

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:10 pm

Hai Newkid ufunani kuma razor wena, why not use a hair remover atleast ke, ngingafa ngathi ngisaba nokusebenzisa umshini. That part of the body is super sensitive, you don’t wanna mess with it noma kanjani nje.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:19 pm

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Manny!!!!!

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:22 pm

@kimmo they said she will appear very briefly in September.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:33 pm

?Ice on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:58 am

Be careful of guys telling you to stay at home and they will support you. My cousin is such a smooth talker. He convienced his baby mamma to quit her job and lied to her about how his elders were coming to pay lobola. Meanwhile, the leders know nothing about this lobola deal. Now my cousin has moved on and impregnated yet another foolish young lady. #beware of men with forked tongues.
THINGS THAT MAKES ME GO TJO

Nokxie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:40 pm

@PowerPuff hope your mom is cancer-free in no time

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:40 pm

PowerPuff Gal your mom will come out even stronger

my mom’s journey startedv in Sept 2011, she was operated
was put on chemo and radiation ended 8 June

she was working during her chemo session, she scheduled only for fridays, worked througout the period.

she stayed with me for radiation period and has since returned to work

last wed was my worst as i had to come from EC then go home NW fetch and take her to a DR in GP, I was so scared cause she could not even get up from her bed.

But her stength…..tjeer! amazeballs! mosadi o le!
she was up on her feet again, she consulted wed, thurs and fri, today she is much better

So yeah every person who serves man must know this “to serve man is to serve God”

And He rewards that

so dont worry dear, your moms health will be restored in Jesus’ name

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:41 pm

Mapakisha I can’t wait. Azande sweety I just saw your comment now, was at my niece’s funeral, you can drop me your e-mail I will assist…@Only_Child where in Bloem are you? So that we do diTea party lmao.
So ke kopa ho botsa, this condom burst after the guy cums or during the intercourse? And what make them bursts? Motjheso wa diSperm or what? *confused face*

Nokxie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:42 pm

Richmond “please follow Lelo’s professional account on twitter” whats her handle

Eish I need to create a separate work-related account, lots of work creeping up on my ‘carefree’ TL

kimmo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:42 pm

hahahahahaha @ kamza i will go TJO lenna, how do you agree when your boyfriend AKA hubby says you must stay home he will support you werelse he hasnt even paid lobola nor marry you you, or nothing on paper

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:42 pm

@snapshot….tell sxylin we miss her, and glad she’s fine. Was getting worried cause she’s never been absent for this long

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:43 pm

Chandyol ndiyakwaz shem andifuni noxoka what u just said was ur facebook status about gals calling ppl their bfs hubbies molo ntombi

jolene on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:47 pm

@Chilled those agents are very dodgy. i once went to an interveiw through them and they practically begged me not to give the firm my contact details. then they called after the interview and asked how low i’m willing to go from the initial salary. you see, some of them get paid commission, say 10% of your annual salary. so to them even if it’s R10k it’s fine, as long as they make money out of you.
@Wildy true that – at my first job i used to email and call the CEO/Top Director guy until he heard me. my friend walked into the firm she currentlt works for and demanded to see the director and handed him her cv. those receptioninst throw away CVs.

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:52 pm

‘@Miranda +_+ so thr gals hu do that? Hahahahahahahaha u gotta be kidding me “yoooh chandyol nguwe nqo lomntu ndimaziyo shem ngeke so tell me ke sis why u bothered by ppl calling their bfs hubbys, and goodluck with job huntin nam ndikuleyo

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:52 pm

@JG, Thanks…A LOT. Is Satrix 40 one of the smooth funds investment thingies?

Miss Thang, I said what if the cd bursts and you find that Morning after pills aren’t effective for your immune system… those things don’t always work, People have fallen pregnant even after taking those pills.

@Noance, thanx

@Wildy, LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL at baby shower tse million vs go tura ga Savannah. Just the other day I was telling a friend of mine gore one more if colleague gets preg or gets married, I will not buy ish for them because by the time I reach that stage, I will be out of this place and I know they will not drive bo ma 350km or so to my baby shower.

anytime on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 1:53 pm

so Gomolemo and Botshelo are the same person…interesting.

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:00 pm

@Mapakisha I can’t wait @Azande sorry sweety just saw your comment now I was at my niece’s funeral. You can drop me your e-mail if you still need my assistance. And I would like to see you ka MACUFE @Only_Child we can have our tea party mos, where in Bloem are you?

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:01 pm

Chandyol ndiyakwaz shem andifuni noxoka what u just said was ur facebook status about gals calling ppl their bfs hubbies molo ntombi

@Ms Keri i have a friend who said the same thing on fb last week i think, so now im thinking is it the same friend or

Rethabile on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:03 pm

Is Legende Manqele dating Rorisang from Yotv….?? #justcurious

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:05 pm

@MyThoughts whats ur email address? or u can drop me a blank mail Azandem@gmail.co.za, than will talk from there, Thanks.

Angenoir on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:06 pm

@Dejane do u perhaps work in Gwen Lane(Sandton)

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:06 pm

Hau Anytime uthini ngo Gomza and Botshelo? How did you notice? Mara you guys are the clever of the cleverests (if there’s such) lol

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:07 pm

Azande if shes from KZN dan ts defintely ha coz shes from KZN also job hunting im convinced its her …anyway mna shem Azande i cannot not snoop im just curious by nature my hubby knws dat if he lives me even for a second with his phone i’m going to snoop throught it sem id rather know that hes cheating and let him go then be fooled by lies…wayaphi Lolo we miss u

Ms.Zie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:08 pm

@anytime how did u figure that out?

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:10 pm

@Ms Keri im now convience its her he he he he i dont blv this *clap once* madoda ayi ke ngiyabonga mina

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:10 pm

@Ms Keri, Is that question directed to me?#just checking before commenting#

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:13 pm

@Azande done.

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:14 pm

no its a reply to Azande Miranda not u but you can reply i dont mind @Azande maybe i also know you oh my God where in south africa are you kuqala

Smang-mang Warona on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:15 pm

Gomolemo, please don’t take advice on how to invest funds from someone who may or may not be qualified to dispense financial advice. It would not be wise. You should only take advice from FAIS compliant/trained people when it comes to financial advice.

jolene on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:17 pm

@Ms.Zie this———-> Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

@Vesa, such wisdom

Imma do just that.

This nigga aint getting my house

I just did not know how to go about it

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:19 pm

hao@Smang mang…are u the only one in here who doesnt know ukuthi u JG is a highly qualified somebody ku that field??

brb(smoke break)

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:21 pm

This tho Tjo Kim

Kim purchased a $5,000 bracelet for baby Blue Ivy. engraving, “Love Auntie Kim.”
Apparently, Beyonce and Kim were getting along quite nicely before the bracelet incident occurred. Now, Beyonce’s getting suspicious about Kim’s intentions. How fast is too fast to become “best friends?”

Ms.Zie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:22 pm

Oh thanks @Jolene. Hehehehe!!!

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:24 pm

@Ms Keri no uyangithusa manje LOL im in JHB, not saying more tltltltltlltltltlltltl

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:25 pm

Kim K..ke groupie maan!

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:26 pm

Haai khona..you guys are so observant!!

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:28 pm

@Azande sisi dont believe everything you read, being gullable like that in this day and age is dangerous.

Nokxie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:30 pm

Sadly we stay losing as always like these sowetan pics

http://www.zara-zoo.com/blog/mikky-nwabisa-wedding-concepts/

Heres’s the real makoyas, i want a wedding similar to the weddings on this site or NOTHING AT All

Check out the Durban Wedding of the Year there, when the pics made their rounds on email by amateur photographers we thought it was a disaster

_PPL be prepared to pay lots for a photographer who will capture the best moments etc

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:30 pm

?Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

@Vesa, such wisdom

Imma do just that.

This nigga aint getting my house

I just did not know how to go about it

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:30 pm

Hello Ms Keri, hello Azande!! Didn’t post anythn on FB, infact I silent facebook…. Convinced..? Its coincidence dearies

Smang-mang Warona on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:31 pm

But is he FAIS compliant though Wildy? I can see he is knowledgeable, but he should know that you don’t go around willy nilly despensing financial advice to people – unless you are qualified and (designated). e seng hole bhora – but as a financial professional myself, I’m just putting it out there for people who may not know… #ThatsAll

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:31 pm

deathby smang mang.

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:34 pm

Richmond.., Can I plis plis have Lelo’s handle?? Any1?

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:35 pm

Hhahhahahaha bathong smang smang, so when we dish out advice here to each other are u also asking if we qualified psychologist and relationship experts?

Smang-mang Warona on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:35 pm

Anyway.. Can someone decipher a dream for me? I dreamt that I was a woman with a penis and no Vjay-jay – but still a fully fledged woman with breasts and all.. and I was doing the dance with a woman (we were in love) – whilst there were other people in the room.. WATCHING! Talk about a weird dream.. lmao!

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:35 pm

Modimo @Smang-mang.

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:36 pm

heee to the lady who was “ghuduzing”..dont even ask him how u found yo pic the mere fact yokuthi he lied in the first place should be a sign nje!!!…wena just cook a nice meal when u go there again,play good music and open a bottle of wine and put the package on the table where he will see it when he comes back from werever…if he asks just say nawe u found them there…and just sing along to the nice music and just smile…*uzombona haaaaaaa

*manny osele jwang…
*Puff mme wahao afole hle..

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:37 pm

Chandyol i know nguweshem i know qha the way you write ndiyayazi

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:38 pm

tjo smang mang maybe you should consult with a qualified dream what what.. sometimes when u r given advice it doesnt mean gore u have to take it and use it. go out to the bank etc and ask for more info. nna besides di money market, jse shares what what and property inv and saving money for retiremnt and at the bank im clueless and most of the time when u walk ko bank they dont give u as much info as u need abt this things

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:39 pm

@Azande sisi dont believe everything you read, being gullable like that in this day and age is dangerous.
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What r u on about my darling??????????????????????

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:40 pm

Ao banna, Ms Keri, wat shud I do to convince u? Mistaken I’d shem

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:40 pm

@msboyana

Ms Keri on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:42 pm

Chandyol u dont have to do anything …i know

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:43 pm

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:13 pm

@Azande done.
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nothing just checked now now, give me yours plz.

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:45 pm

@kAMZABABY: PEOPLE SHOULD stop taking things too serious sometimes.I used to call my gf ka “my’wife” …and its because I was in love,and it felt great when I said it.She liked saying “stop calling me your wife” …lol
The only dangerous thing,is when you use that term “hubby/wifey” to assume that the other party is serious about you/your relationship with them.
@Manny; lmao,Get back to your Naomi please.Hlanying’month indeed for you (September)
@JG: ke eng “Smooth Fund” ratoe? … you tend to use these big terms,eish,ku *tough* …Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:51 pm

Nna Never ke bitsa motho hubby,, for wat? Fo who? He should earn that name ka ring le magadi le koloi le ntlo…

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:54 pm

people need to live a little hey. as long as the surname is not changed at home affairs. my “hubby”s mom calls me her daughter nothing wrong with that. my bf calls me “wife/wifey” nothing wrong with that. even my cousin now calls me wifey cos of that.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:54 pm

your choice Chandy….

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:54 pm

@anytime/anything, u know i saw that and was confused but just ignored it yazi. somtyms i read stuff here and feel like i must have missed stuff above but am to lazy to follow up. that was one of them.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:55 pm

kwaaaaaaa gate ka koloi!!!! death!!!!!

BlindFold on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:56 pm

@Nokxie that is a gorgeous wedding, is it Durbs or Cape town..i think the latter.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:56 pm

@Azande the Kim K story, via bracelet.

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:58 pm

@Kamza hehehehe wang’hlekisa. I knew there was going to be someone who’ll say that. U Bosso yaiste

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 2:59 pm

@anytime, why would u think that mara? I am NOT Botshelo.

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:01 pm

@smang mang, i’m sure ppl do further research on things they’ve bn advised. esp coz jg’s advise was fairly generic.i.e. just spoke abt a smooth fund not a specific one or terms of the investment etc. what his advice did was open up different possibilities to others to consider.

@kamza, ka nnete i hope y’all are serious and gona get married. it myt seem light to you now, but if u break up- therz a lil more breaking up u’ll have to do than normal. nna, i discourage jolaring wiht ppl’s family as well, i.e. being close with ur partner’s family.

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:01 pm

Off topic

I hear people saying green tea helps in loosing weight? True?False?Maybe

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:02 pm

@Noance im lost phela coz theres no where, where i said i believe or said the truth about what Kim K did…………………..was just sharing nje what i read, didnt know we suppose to share what we believe/trust its true, but ke ill keep that in mind for future reference

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:03 pm

@miranda, they discussed that neng neng some weeks ago. ppl here have bn shedding aka shitting their weight away via chinese green tea. cnt remember which post they were sharing tips on.

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:05 pm

kwahahahah @Chase with eating French with bread lmao.
Some North African dudes like acting All American.Its so stupid to think that Knowing another language makes you more intelligent than other people.Nxah!Blacks and impressing White people??? damn!

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:08 pm

@Anytime, boa mo tuu and explain yourself. U cant say things like that and dissappear. You will put Botshelo’s life at risk, since you know that the Hawks and Interpol is after me. They might confuse her with me.

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:08 pm

@Azande calm down sisi, dont get ur panties in a knot….. I was just saying aswell. Thats what opnions are for right? Good. O be right sisi nne, the weekend is upon us.

Chandyol on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:09 pm

Amen to that Monei!! Atleast thr’s 1 person hu shares the same sentiments… Go jola le family is DDS!!

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:10 pm

@Newkid: Why not use scissor? Tjo!Or you want your punanie to be like that of a 10year old??? lol.Hayi grow up @newKid!

Noance on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:12 pm

LMAO @WildIsland deathby this >>>>>>>> and just sing along to the nice music and just smile…*uzombona haaaaaaa

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:19 pm

Monei i know what u talking about. “jolaring with the fam” i was once in that relationship with my first boyfriend his fam ke bona who couldnt let go not me but after the gal had a grandchild for them they accepted. its not my fault that his family loves me. he always tell them about me and i cant exactly say tell them to stop calling me or buying me gifts. only God knows why ke ratiwa so #TeamLiveaLittle

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:20 pm

@Azande calm down sisi, dont get ur panties in a knot….. I was just saying aswell. Thats what opnions are for right? Good. O be right sisi nne, the weekend is upon us
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kanti i am so calm my darling skawara ngalapho u just need to relax ubophe iphondo . i was just tying to get some clarity as well. that cant be a crime ryt?

Wild Island on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:21 pm

Waitsi@Noance heeeeeeeeee hai…

TJO…

I’m a 25 year old female, my parents died when i was 8, then dropped out
> of school coz no1 could pay my fees. I then met ths guy when i was 14 and
> he sent me back to school. He was selling fruits by the streets. Just to
> pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university.
> My problem is that i cnt continue with ths relationshp coz he is nt my
> type. How can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his
> feelings?? I’m grateful that he sent me to school but i cnt be in a
> relationshp with him anymore. I want sumbody in my own class not a truck
> driver..4rm..ungrateful bitch thats what pple col me when i tell them my
> story boet Ngcebo****

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:21 pm

Miranda nna i have bee drinking honey+cinnamon and this is my 2nd month. if my eyes are not deceiving me ke bona ekare cellulite is slowly parting with my thighs and tummy, i also do exercises every now and then also bought the green tea (2 weeks now) thats supposed to send me to the loo mara nothing is happening yet

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:22 pm

so Gomolemo and Botshelo are the same person…interesting

no we are not, I was reffirng to jmy own situation, difference is that i am not about to be lobolad by nigger aint got a house,

i hope you understand (i got long fake nails and typing is a mission *sigh*)

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:26 pm

(i got long fake nails and typing is a mission *sigh*)…. kwaaaaaaaaaa!!

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:26 pm

Hau Anytime uthini ngo Gomza and Botshelo? How did you notice? Mara you guys are the clever of the cleverests (if there’s such) lol
She posted the problem as Gomolemo & later answered me as Bosthelo. And I thought I made a mistake, and scrolled up to check who asked, and realised that I wasn’t dizzy. I noted that, and decided to keep quiet

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:27 pm

@Wild Island eyi leyo indida straight what do u say if uwu Sisi Dolly, izombulala str8 lendoda loyo, so i say akazisize azibulala kuqala LOL

LadyMillion on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:27 pm

@Wildy..poor guy.he worked hard to make a better person of that girl manje seyefuna abangcono

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:29 pm

@Gomolemo; your husband has a man ego.Don’t be mad at him,you are right,he might be getting some unprofessional pre-marital counseling from wrong people.
Don’t fight with him over that.Be calm and let him explain why he thinks there is a need for both of you to get a new house.It might be a good way of starting afresh le Future Hubby.Its not a watse of time and money if he is gonna buy you a new house.
For those of you who watch Muvhango: Thandaza’s husband, Ranthumeng, had an issue like this too and things worked out well.lol

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:32 pm

She posted the problem as Gomolemo & later answered me as Bosthelo..@Vesa. Which post was this?? Bathong im not Botshelo please.

Azande on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:32 pm

@Eyh2Jee yah i remember that on Muvhango.

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:33 pm

shem Wildy poor guy… we also get dumped after sticking with the guy through poverty days sooooooooooooooooo *shrugs*

MinaNawe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:34 pm

@WildIsland….TJO dat chick!!!

jolene on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:35 pm

@Miranda you’re not off-topic, it’s “Anything Goes” . @Wildy—>just sing along to the nice music and just smile…*uzombona haaaaaaa… True! I once did that and nyiggar took off in the middle of the night (he was staying about 500Km away) probably thinking that i’d do something bad to him in his sleep.
@Monei i once jollard with the family and many months later after the brea-up his mom begged me to wait for him to sort out his life (mind you, side dish was preggos). then she would for money and i just couldn’t say no.

sweetness on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:36 pm

Wild Island talking about a smoke, I need to quit smoking!!

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:38 pm

?Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:54 am

?Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

@Vesa, such wisdom

Imma do just that.

This nigga aint getting my house

I just did not know how to go about it

This is what got us to believe that you are one person!

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:38 pm

Twitter handle yaka Lelo Boyana aka BS:
@MsBoyana

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:38 pm

@Eyh2jee, i dont mind him staying in my house, we can actually use the deposit for the new house for other things or maybe do some renovations. Thanks dear.

@Botshelo, he might not have a house, but he makes me very happy and im fine with him staying in my house. I would rather be with someone who makes me happy than who owns a house and disrespects me. My ex had everything, i would just snap my fingers and got what i wished for, but it was short-lived cause the respect was never there.

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:40 pm

@Nokxie….that wedding was beautiful hey! But it’s for the rich and those who are patient enough to save for that kinda wedding.

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:41 pm

?Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 9:15 am

@Vesa, such wisdom

Imma do just that.

This nigga aint getting my house

I just did not know how to go about it

THE ABOVE WAS NOT POSTED BY ME, PLEASE BELEIVE ME. BOTSHELO DO U CARE TO CLARIFY WHAT THAT REPLY MEANT TO VESA. THANKS YOU. (im not screaming neh, ok)

bumbum on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:43 pm

@Wildy yabona lesi siF is making other women sound ungrateful. Why isn’t she sending the guy to school now so he can be at her so cold level. Stupid bimboz sometimes

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:43 pm

Bathong i just answered cause i was relating to that problem and liked the proposed solution. ga ke Gomo
Im never married, divorced, engaged and about to be lobolad

the common thing ka rona ke setswana, a boy child and a house v/s men(bf and fiance)

I hope its clearer now

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:46 pm

Ok Botshelo, I get you now.

Mapakisha on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:51 pm

@Botshelo 7 gomolemo, if this is true, I’m disappoited in the both of you*inmyaunt’svoice*. I just though I was confusing ya’ll because of tswana names, tjhe le sele shem – le le babedi*clapsonce*.

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:53 pm

Hai@Mapakisha i rest my case. @Botshelo, which part of NW are u from?

Dinie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:54 pm

hello JC Family…gals how much do you spend for your hair. the reason for my qeustion is that there’s this Indian hair i’ve been longing to buy, it costs R700. i want it but again i feel like i’m wasting money and would rather buy stuff for the house..i usually spend R350- R450 never went over R500. Gosh, so stressed right now..Hair stress!lol

LadyMillion on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:58 pm

@dini…hahah people spend over 4000 on hair
just buy the hair…but is it real indian hair

Botshelo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 3:58 pm

brits side

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:00 pm

@Ladymillion, did u just say 4000? huuu Anever, that will be the day. Ill rather go for chiskop.

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:00 pm

OK@Botshelo

Backstabber on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:03 pm

@dini is that real indian hair? R700 thats too cheap.. how many inches is it?

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:06 pm

@Dinie…..just make sure you are buying good hair before spending that money!
I normally don’t get the hair debate, cause if you buy hair from Kinky, it’s normally between R150 – R350 and maybe more, and lasts only six weeks!

If you buy Brazilian/ Indian / Peruvian or whatever else, you spend R1 500 & more per packet depending on the length but lasts you longer than a year

MinaNawe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:09 pm

@bumbum: ya dat chick should really do that…but I’m sure she has found someone else “who is in her league”… i feel really sorry for the guy

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:11 pm

Dinie nna i’d say invest on good quality indian or brazillian hair because you end up waaay more than that in just one whereas u can use indian/brazillian hair more than 10 times forever. theres a blog/interview BS once did with Babalwa “100″ ways to rock a weave or something

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:12 pm

Wow that wedding! tjo! Reminds me of Khanyi Mbau’s

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:13 pm

@Mojito…..Khanyi Dhlomo! You can see it was inspired by that

MinaNawe on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:17 pm

the Dbn wedding of the year is WOOOOW!!!!

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:19 pm

Oops! Thanks @ Vesa. Am also so insipired. Same concept i.e. the winelands in the Cape. Kuthiwa into enhle iyakotshwa!

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:22 pm

@mina nawe, the durban wedding is didnt impress me that much. it defines money can’t buy u class. from the ungraceful manner the birfe must sit/be carried by the digantsontso, to the cheap shininess of the groom’s second attire and the old schoolness of that cake. its like they spent on the venue and decor but skimped on some stuff. those 1993 style studio photos zabo *claps once* u shud see the level of engagement shoots available these days.

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:23 pm

*bride

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:25 pm

tjo Monei *falls off chair*

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:27 pm

shem, and i have issues with the grooms liking of things.he’s got pimp-like style (bling bowtie+ribbon on blazer collar+engraved walking stick+hat). he changes outfits and his poor bride duznt get to get out of that heavy dress? those flowerboys confuse me- in decorated white mini-walking sticks, smartly dressed but shirtless and barefoot.i get where they were supposed to be going but it duznt work-shudve just put them in traditional gear or sumthing else.

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:36 pm

@monei….kwaaaa! You remind me of my friend’s analysis of Robert Gumede’s wedding! Tjo….it’s true money can’t buy you class shem!

Ms.Zie on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:37 pm

Yeah that DBN one, ku-lacker a touchnyana of class.

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:40 pm

kwahahahaha @Monei: hayi people would swear they are better, but the way you know how to crush someone though,lmao.

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:40 pm

@Ms Zie….nawe futhi, tltltlttltl!

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:42 pm

Can someone pls post a link for Robert Gumede’s wedding please. I remember some streets were close while i was driving to the Kruger via Nelspruit…

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:42 pm

Is it in Durban though? Cause the details at the bottom mention stellenbosch

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:43 pm

A post by @Ice:
Be careful of guys telling you to stay at home and they will support you. My cousin is such a smooth talker. He convienced his baby mamma to quit her job and lied to her about how his elders were coming to pay lobola. Meanwhile, the leders know nothing about this lobola deal. Now my cousin has moved on and impregnated yet another foolish young lady. #beware of men with forked tongues.
***this is what I feared ngalendaba ka @Gomolemo and selling a house without a good reason(s)***

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:44 pm

@ Kamzababy, I heard about the cinnamon story…eish, layanto makes me think of puke. Mara green tea ke tsona, I am buying tonnes of it ka weekend, which brand are you taking, Lipton?

@Monei, I have been looking for that post, mara I can’t find it. I think it was Kimmo who dished out the details about some chinese tea…What is the name of the tea Kimmo?Where can I get it?

Mojito on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:46 pm

@Vessa you are right it is the same wedding co-ordinator that Khanyi Dlomo used!

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:48 pm

@Mojito AND Gumede Wedding
http://www.grconcept.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=142&Itemid=215

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 4:51 pm

@Mojito….here http://www.sdr.co.za/photo/index.php?album=1003Gumede

Richmond on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:00 pm

It’s @MsBoyana… It’s Lelo’s less tjatjarag account so nincede bantu beNkosi. Keep it professional.

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:02 pm

It’s @MsBoyana… It’s Lelo’s less tjatjarag account so nincede bantu beNkosi. Keep it professional

kwaaa!!!

Gomolemo on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:05 pm

I need to change my username struu, i jus got a call from an old friend asking if im on JC. Guys i dont have a twitter acc/handle and i found no interest in it at all….Am i behind?

Vesa on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:11 pm

@Gomolemo….lol, don’t stress. Social networks are a matter of interest man! Don’t stress about not having a twitter account

LacocM on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:16 pm

Beautiful wedding indeed,it was the wedding of the year ngo2010 but they refused 2b featured kwi Top Billing. Da gal is xhosa & from PE, her name is Nwabisa Mzuzu & uhubby is Mikki Xayiya. He recently bought his wife a bentley cz she was preggas,,,*sigh some gals r lucky*

Angenoir on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 5:27 pm

@Miranda Its called true beauty tea…are you based in Jhb?

Monei on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 6:47 pm

@vesa, at the bottom therez a link for dbn wedding of the yr.

@ehy2jee, hehehe. i’m not trying to crush a man. the stellenbosch one- now that one is classy. the dbn one they tried too much but didnt go all the way with the class. mara am i lying abt the shortcomings? umuhle o makoti tho! and i’m sure the wedding was enjoyed by all! the food also looke delish! i’ll give them that. and the decor and wedding day photos.

mara the studio photos they hung up at the wedding sadden me. u shud go to websites like kiekie photography, riekertcloete, splendidproductions, to see what they cudv bn as well as other beautiful wedding pics. i need to find black photographers who do that type. by my wedding ke ba supporte.

MyThoughts on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 6:58 pm

@Azande my e-mail address >>> Kindoza@yahoo.com

kamzababy on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:00 pm

Miranda I’m using Eve Oolong tea le Jasmine tea (green tEe) bought them ko some chinese shop ko Bank City (jozi)

Nerlee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 7:11 pm

@Miranda, chinise tea(true beauty tea) never worked for me or I gave up quickly, I used it for a month with no positive results!

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:38 pm

@Eyh2Jee @Richmond: Smooth funds are part of the broad family of investment funds available to South Africans. It’s something that’s suitable/appropriate for people w/ a long term investment horizon(financial goals to be achieved in 10 to 15 years). But Your risk profile would be taken into account to. They are designed to see you through the ups and downs of the markets. Old Mutual and Metropolitan have some of SAs best smooth funds. Just go to any of their branch for full term results for comparison. They declared some of the best returns in SA. The trick is to do thorough research before you make a choice.

@Smang-mang Warona: Keng wena??? O nagana gore ke Rupert Murdoch wa mo Mzansi??? I was only sharing to make another sister aware of one of the many possible ways of growing their cents. I don’t need to prove my qualifications/accreditations on JC. But You are not wrong to point out the importance of accreditation and advice. You are on the ball skaat!

Nwabisa is such a lucky Woman. I wonder if it’s Mikki’s 1st marriage at 51.

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:52 pm

dankie JG

anytime on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:55 pm

Sorry @Botshelo. Sorry @Gomolemo. If u say its a coincidence then its a coincidence.

anytime on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 8:57 pm

*sigh* so I know weigh 67kg. Its going to be a very sad spring.

LadyM on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 10:03 pm

Yes to Mapakisha coming to Bloem n the tea party with all the other ladies Well I’m not really in Bloem but some km away.

Miranda on Thu, 26th Jul 2012 11:17 pm

Thanx Ladies@Kamza and Joeleen. @Angenoir, I am based in MP .

only_child on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:13 am

Ke Park Avenue,Northridge. Wena o kae MyThoughts
?

MyThoughts on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:08 am

Only_Child I’m in Fleurdal. . . Near CRC

kamzababy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:12 am

do you go to CRC my thoughts?

MyThoughts on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:28 am

@KamzaBaby yah I do, but I’m not a full time member

Mojito on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:46 am

Trust Ama blogger ala ekhaya to google “& find facts” yall deserve a case of Bells. Thanks for the link guys.

Mojito on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:48 am

Tjo wamthengela iBentley? Eish emhlabeni tho, kukhona abangazanga kudlala la, batholwa kuphi nayi siye bakithi, or let me just read up more on investment. Deep Sigh!

PowerPuff Gal on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 8:55 am

Ma’bloggers thank you so much for your encouraging and uplifting comments.
In the name of Jesus Christ I declare my mother healed of cancer. O:)

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 9:58 am

morning bloggers.

Have any of you used Duramine, diet pills? How effective are the results, what happens to the body fat? When do results start showing? Would you recommend it?. Thanks

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:15 am

@dejane it is used for obese people if they have to go under surgery, it is very effective, you loose the weight within a few weeks, no eating only water. It totally supresses the apertite.

the lady that does my hair was a size 42, took the pills within three weeks she was a 32 (looks scary though)

samlicious on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:27 am

Whats on my mind is GlaxoSmith and Kline recalling Grandpa. Apparently there are counterfeit sachets all over Mzantsi and they cant really track them, so the only think to do at the moment is to recall all their stock.

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:28 am

@Blindfold….from size 42 to 32 in three weeks? E e e ee

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:32 am

@Vesa yes, she was kaking yellow oily stuff and they say that is fat.

samlicious on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:36 am

I meant to say the only THING

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:37 am

@samlicious….counterfeits are a real problem!!! Imagine counterfeit ya pain killer?

Botshelo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:40 am

eish weight loss is such a mission

mara nna for the life of me i cant go on a diet, i just cant, in fact i have never been on a proper weigh loss diet

*sigh*

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:42 am

@Blindfold….phew! Is she fine though? As in healthwise

kimmo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:50 am

@ samlicious i heard yesterday on the news that there is somebody manufacturing grandpa i think in the northen cae or something

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:55 am

@vesa she is fine, the only challenge is that she gained weight after she stopped so now she has to take it regularly to supress her appertite.

she looks ok health-wise, on the outside. Most doctors will not give out a prescription for it, she had to find those dodgy doctors.

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 10:56 am

Ladies, eating right and exercise is the way to lose that weight. These teas and pills, boHerbex and all maybe effective in the shrot term but in the long run, they mess with your body especially your liver. Also, they are not sustainable. Once you stop taking these pills, teas and etc, your potential to gain the weight back is really high.
When you change your lifestyle, your weight loss becomes more sustainable and with time your body gets so used to that healthy lifestyle that you will rarely crave junk food.

A healthy lifestyle and not a diet is the way to go. #speaking (writing?) from experience.

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:01 am

@Blindfold thanks! Manje has she managed to remain a 32?

I’ve gained so much weight. Lost a lot after I gave birth. In the past few months I’ve gained so much..

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:09 am

@Dejane..yes instead of taking the pill every day, she skips two days and take it on the third day. Consult with your doctor first neh!

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:10 am

So I applied at 2 schools for my daughter to be enrolled for Grade 2 next and her name has been put on Waiting List B on both schools cos we are not in the “feeding area”.
Who has experienced that and what are the chances of her being taken for next year?
This is kinda stressing me cos she is currently in a private school and most of the teachers there are Zimbabweans and the way Thando pronounces some English words.
Yesterday she didnt want to go to school cos her Zimbabwean class teacher slapped her on the head and she fell down. Apparently her friend cannot even sleep at night because of that teacher.

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:23 am

@Fezzy have you reported the teacher to the principal or whoever in charge?

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:30 am

hi all ; Fezzy do you know that Zimbabweans and Ghanaians are the most English well spoken people in Africa! Like do you really understand what you just wrote?
apart from the supposed abuse; which you can easily take up with the teacher seeing as she is in a private school; i think your best bet for the best english for your daughter is that Zimbabwean teacher;

My fellow peers SAns’ english is scary sometimes just listening to a conversation is too painful…. you murder the Queen’s language

@Dejane Duromaine will drive you crazy; the side effects are sick! you will be deriliously happy in one minute and depressed the next ! drink lots of water too; and do EAT but in small proportions;

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:31 am

*the best english speaking africans * (engrish is infectious) my apologies

Nonkuku on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:38 am

Anyone watch the mess that was 3talk yesterday….So now we are going to listen to relationship advice from Eda Rose’s of this world.

SpongeBob on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:39 am

@dejane it took me 2 months/2 packs of 30mg ze Duromines to go from 42 to 32. I ate breakfast (cereal) & supper, I used to get full with a few spoons & forced a couple more. Did a lot of walking, you become energized & sweat quickly. I tried not to lose a lot at once & I gained about 2 yrs after, but ke ndandihlala ndodwa & was lazy to cook & ate cereals & fruit.

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:43 am

@Sxylin, thank you. You took the words right out of mouth.

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:44 am

@Dejane, cousin and sister(Tabea)*side eyes sxylin* have been taking Duromine since last year and they have both lost tremendous weight. They never really complained about side effects, other than lack of sleep. But then my colleague was taking it as well, she started hallucinating, it was so bad this one time we had to call an ambulance cause she was throwing herself at walls.

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:45 am

@spongebob..so did you gain back all the weight?

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:47 am

lol @Gomolemo *greetings to Tabea* that energy is a bad rush! @dejane if you do decide to take the duromaine dont take it after 8am because it will interfere with your sleep!

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 11:48 am

@Fezzy, you don’t like Zimbabweans much neh? Just an observation I have made from your words.

SpongeBob on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:05 pm

@BlindFold not all of it but just before I got preggers I was size 34/36 & at thia time I lived with hubby & baby so I cooked & ate take aways with them. After this pregnancy I’m taking them again no doubt.

kimmo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:14 pm

cant believe its still 12pm but from outside okare ke 14h00

candy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:21 pm

Hi guys, those that stay in Bloemfontein; do u know where I can get REAL brazillian hair. I’ve never used it so I wudnt know if someone was selling me fake hair. Please assist. Thanks

manny on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:28 pm

dumelang
batho ba bloem

anyone who has been to macufe…any advice of where I can get accomodation closer to where they have the festival

kamzababy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:39 pm

manny try searching for accomodation around Loch Logan/ Brandwag.
Fezzy it can be easy having your daughter being bullied/ beaten like that ke her own teacher who is supposed to protect her during school hours. i say send an email (just to have proof that you have reported the matter) to the principal and go see them maybe after 2 days. if you not happy with the way Thando pronounce english word-so you can suggest that they maybe change her teacher or pray and hope that she gets admitted to another school. after all u pay school fees out of your own pocket so if u are not happy then whats the use.

kamzababy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:40 pm

CANT

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:48 pm

hi all ; Fezzy do you know that Zimbabweans and Ghanaians are the most English well spoken people in Africa! Like do you really understand what you just wrote?

YES! I do understand what I just wrote @syxlin. UThando doesnt pronounce file as file, uthi FAYEL. Is that ok cos her teacher is Zimbabwean and they speak the best English?
Yes they do speak the best English but the way they pronounce most English words is wack! Please tell me that other kids wont laugh at her and wonder ukuthi what is a FAYEL.

Hhayi Syxlin awazi ingikwatisa kanjani lendaba. I wanted to go and speak to the teacher but I fear for my child. I called the principals office and apparently I wasnt the first parent to complain and they will deal with her.

nana on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:48 pm

On that MACUFE note, Are the tickets on sale already and how do you book/buy them. I went through their website and couldnt find much help..too many “information will follow soon”. I want tickets for the Jazz festival

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:51 pm

Iyooooo@Fezzy, your daughter’s teacher slapped her and u haven’t gone to the school yet? Go ka nyewa shem, i would have taken the morning off, the very next day. Mhhhhh, that teacher must just pray that it was not my son. Im boiling as it is. I cant tolerate abuse against children, especially by people who are supposed to protect them. If, no, WHEN u go to the school holla at me, ke tla go khapa!!

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:54 pm

@Fezzy, you don’t like Zimbabweans much neh? Just an observation I have made from your words.
-No I dont and thats no secret.

Thanks @kamza. I made an anonymous call to the principals office and I was told that another parent was there earlier for the same issue.

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 12:58 pm

Yazi @Gomolemo I so much wanted to go and moer that teacher but kumele ngicabangele uThando. She might be difficult on her and even fail her at the end of the year. She has been telling me since the begginning of the year but I would just think that she is just being a baby. The convo we had on Sunday drove me mad.

Thando : Mama, I get scared when the teacher comes to my desk.
Me : Why Nana?
Thando : Cos she slaps us on the head and we fall down.

anytime on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:03 pm

I need this duromine/duromaine/Duramine. I hope it works though coz all these other tablets that I have tried do nothing for me.

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:03 pm

Tjo..tjoo Fezzy wee *hands on head* If you do go to the school dear, you are failing your daughter. Its a private school and it cost a lot(guessing). Your daughter must LOVE going to school, so if she hate it there, she will end up not doing well because she is afraid of her teacher. It there is a possibility that it might affect her psychologically as well. PLEASE TAKE FURTHER STEPS TOWARDS THIS MATTER. ITS SOUNDS SERIOUS TO ME.

Mapakisha on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:08 pm

Guys so how does one go about getting this Duromine pill thingy, I can use some o dat, ke nonne blind.

Shame man @ Fezzy, u can’t let your kid go through that. Go to the school & speak to the principal, that teacher needs to be fired. Kids shouldn’t be scared of their teachers, how will they learn? no wonder ethi iFile yi Fayela.. Go to the school please!

Duromine bafethu, le reng??

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:11 pm

@Mapakisha, your doctor must prescribe it for you. But you know mos a black person ha pallwe ke niks. My cousin was getting it from someone without prescribtion.

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:25 pm

I spoke to the deputy principal and she is very angry about this. Hopefully they will sort this out. She promised not to mention my baby’s name.

The first time I took Duromines I lost a lot of weight and I was happy. I stopped taking them and gained weight again. I started using them again today.

I hate even the smell of fries when Im on Duromines and I become hyper active. Inkinga i Insomnia.

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:27 pm

Thanks ladies, I knew i could rely on for sound advice. Hai i guess i’ll have to work harder and lose the weight by early morning walks and eating healthy foods. @Gomomolemo just scared about the hallucinations.

Just saw T-bo touch’s ex fiance, Thuli…she is georgeous.

Miranda on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:30 pm

@Asanwababe,on your eating healthy comment, so so so true, mara what if I have always been watching what i eat ,but had a sudden change of weight, I mean I can’t really cut down to nothing ??

I want my jeans back, fast nakhona…So Where do we get Duromine?

@Nonkuku, yazi uNoeleen usijwaela gabi, how can she bring 18 and 19 year olds to come give the nation relationship advice? Really now?really.#Yo-TVadviceGivingMaterial#

I think it is time Noeleen invites Sxylin and Lolo to her show#straight face#

Wild Island on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:31 pm

dumelang

@Monei>>>which wedding are u refering to mara? link?

*Gumede guy>>ex boss ya ex hubby ko Gijima …hee*claps
twice*..

*Roux (Bheki Cele’s tender partner eish) where does he hang out pls ppl there’s money to be looted there by me and number 100 nyatsi ..pls advice uhambelaphi cos he’s the only one i havent seen la e ofisini lethu i wonder why..ooh khulubuse yena is never gonna loose that weight the way athanda ukudla kwala ngakhona

Fab Tee on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:33 pm

@Fezzy, my sister is also on that same waiting list boat!, my nephew also goes to this private school where most teachers are Zimbabweans and I must say his accent or pronounciation of words has changed significantly from when he went to his “white” school, he does speak like a foreigner now shem, its funny how kids adapt quickly to their new environment coz we thought that maybe he’d keep his accent but no, now you’d swear its a Zimbabwean kid speaking xa ethetha and she didnt send him there by choice, she was told the same waiting list story by the other schools she wanted so she had no choice but to send him there.

Shandu on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:36 pm

Dumelang…

Ladies, what can I use to relax my baby’s hair? She is 3 in October… Please help ave zizimbi izinwele zakhe

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:37 pm

Fezzy no educator is supposed to beat your child; i say call the teacher and arrange a meeting; after that tell her all ur grienvances, and tell her no one beats up your daughter because wena you do not beat her up(mara u do lol) and be clear and tell her should you encounter any issues there will be consequences to her actions and she doesnt want to get you there!

Again also let her know that you will not approach the principal as yet because you are giving her a chance to correct her wrong! If that teacher is telling your daughter to pronounce file as FAYEL hhayi ke angisazi because she will encounter a venda teacher who will pronounce sixty as sikisty then you might have to move her again! My advice teach your daughter the pronunciation you would like her to adopt! its easy because pronounciation is personal, im sure (shuwa) nawe you have English words that will have people hiding under the table when you pronounce them ; same goes for me too!

Mapakisha on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:40 pm

@Gomolemo, will he not say something dumb like eat healthy & u’ll be alright? lol. Eish, kelo mmotsa waitsi, nna bathong ake batle ho hlaha mokhaba & I can already feel it coming..

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:44 pm

Kwaaaaaa @Syxlin yazi wavele wangiqeda.
Ibheda kakhulu i English shame and thats why I want Thando’s to be better.
Deathby “sikisty”.

U just made my day yazi.

bongi on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:48 pm

so what do you want guys- the twang american accent…yhoo mine unala accent yama colored…but funny thing is she will speak with a cartoon character accent when she is watching cartoons..kids adapt so easy..

just send someone to order me Duromines too…yhoo hayi nine influence shame..there goes my sleep..

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:50 pm

*sigh*

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:54 pm

@Mapakisha and @anytime please google duromaine before buying it. There’s reviews by people who have taken / are taking it and it may helped you make an informed decision.

@Fezzy, I didn’t know. Is there a particular reason mhlawmbe why don’t like them? *just curious*

Wild Island on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:57 pm

@Manny..a little birdie told me to Bring 6 ladies who are interested to come and dine for an all expenses paid trip to macufe…

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:59 pm

hahahaha @SEXYLIN’S COMMENT.uBAMBE YONA…Lmao.
Trust your kid @Fezzy maan,it must have been difficult to even tell you,because she knows how you will react to the situation.So make things easier and follow-up.
The File=Fayela i’ situation is kind of difficult.Send her to a school samangesi.My teacher used to pronounce entrepreneur as “Intraprinyo” …lmao,hayi ku *tough* …

Wild Island on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 1:59 pm

@Shandu…dont use anything on a baby who has not turned 5 yet…just put baby oil nje and plat her hair to be neat…dont…a friend didnt listen to me wafaka umtana i sheen…yoooo disaster

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:02 pm

@Fezzy: also help your kid to be very good in Spelling words.That is the most important part,at lease when she starts going Zimbabwean on you,you can give her a pen to write down the words.Lol.

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:05 pm

I really don’t get this new craze of people tweeting #whatiwore and emphasising on labels more than the clothes.. maybe I’m just too private to be splashing my lifestyle all over..

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:08 pm

@sxylin”My fellow peers SAns’ english is scary sometimes just listening to a conversation is too painful…. you murder the Queen’s language” phela some of us were not priviledged enough to go to private schools and learn to twaang, sidibana ne english at old age..

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:08 pm

He banna, it was such a lonely morning…..and now everyone is here chatting away! Ninjani?

Fezzy mara why do you guys take your kids to these schools? Are they registered with Dept of Education in the first place? #NotZeno
A friend of mine took her twins to some private school in the North, also owned by Zimbabweans. And I asked her to check if the school is registered after she told me about some things that the kids were doing at the school which I found to be odd, to her horror she discovered in May that the school is not registered with the Dept. She went to the school and told them her discovery, and the Principal was like “Yes, it’s true and we are working on it”. She took her kids out of there and took them to a previously model c school. Luckily the principal was nice enough to understand her drama and sympathized.

bongi on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:09 pm

he..he..he hi Wildy i would believe why usitsho wena about baby hair but sisi i used it while she was two years shame..ngoba lamntana une “kaffir hare” i cant deal with inqoba ezinjeyana..to wait ade abene five years yhoo

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:09 pm

@Shandu never use any chemical on a kid, haibo! 3 year old u say and u want to do that!? Ungangilingi tuuu.. Soften her hair with baby oil like Wildy said.. Only start using that stuff when she’s in grade 5 at least.

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:10 pm

@nana the tickets to MACUFE will only be available in September, it is too early now. what you need to do is finding a place if you will not be at a friends or families place.

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:10 pm

I really don’t get this new craze of people tweeting #whatiwore and emphasising on labels more than the clothes.. maybe I’m just too private to be splashing my lifestyle all over..

@smatsatsa…..it’s even worse on instagram! That’s all people post and most of the times they lie about the labels claiming bo Prada etc when you’ve seen the clothes ko Forever New, Morgan etc

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:12 pm

mina i truly dont like kids who speak with a corkney accent! For what; is she Southern british? GTFOH! @Fab Tee i thought Zimbos spoke like americans? with a twang and clearly; i love to listen to my Zimbabwean friends speak; they are so eloquent i envy them because when they are speaking to me they keep having to say ,”pardon me! Stress fela hahahaha eish

BlindFold on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:15 pm

@shandu you can alos twist it to be dreadlocks.

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:16 pm

@Vesa I don’t get it yazi, tjo! I was stalking uyanda’s pics, my word!!! Let me shurrup,, but I wouldn’t expect that from a grown woman..

miss sam on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:20 pm

@dejane I used duromines last year and lost weight,lyk 8kilos. . .veri effective,however the side effects,insomnia,mood swings,nasea,headaches,@ the end of the day its worth*personal experience*

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:22 pm

Thandos friends mom just called me. The teacher clapped her and her face is red. She said she can even see the finger marks on the poor babys face. Angisazike manje mina.

My teacher used to pronounce entrepreneur as “Intraprinyo” *dead*

@Vesa, the school is legit, owned by a big development company in Johannesburg. The principal is an old white man from KZN but like most the private schools in JHB, they hire a lot of desperate foreign teachers.

I was desperate when I took her to that school cos it was already Jan and I hadnt found a school for my daughter. Her Grade R teacher was a nice Indian lady and she was very good with them. I couldnt take her out this year due to financial constraints and because she didnt have problems in Grade R I thought she was going to be fine again this year. When I heard that she was going to be in that lady’s class I just felt like commiting suicide cos I was crossing my fingers that they put her in that nice Indians class.

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:27 pm

“mina i truly dont like kids who speak with a corkney accent!”

So @syxlin…Are you going to take uBoy to some private school full of Zim teachers to make sure that he doesnt speak with a corkney (wonder what this means) accent when you can afford to take to Sandton Primary (if ikhona)? Dont think so.

Shandu on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:28 pm

Thanks guys ay mandiyiyeke ke. Baby oil it is then…

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:29 pm

@Fezzy, waitse neh? im taking this whole beating thing so personally, its not funny. I swear im sweating now. So, what is this other woman going to do? she shouldn’t have taken the child home looking like that. She could have gone straight to the principal’s office.

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:30 pm

hahahaha Smatsatsa mna i am called Bonang’s number one hater; i have instagram ne; everyday i see these; yes my life is one big slow motion so i open instagram and the people i follow hahahaha aboMiss Vanity! what never ceases to amaze me is Uyanda’s constant display of vanity hahahaha Loubotins this and that kmt!and then there is Bonang with her , “fuck me over statements about her attire! AND then there is Tumi Vorster whose wardrope *head to toe comes from a certain website i shall not mention on here! ke lona was very easy to spot; she wears those knock offs from head to toe! (if ur reading this take note) too much of anything is not good! and then Miss Fundzy, i like her yazi! She forces things but still i like her; people think wearing D&G is pap and vleis SMH! and then there is the heiress who recently tweeted her red bottoms lol and the store(you cant fool me) Loubies dont come cheap bandla; even the really rich cringe when they pay for those shoes; so people must not keep advertising those knock offs even CL has even lost the rights of exclusivity for the red sole*BITCHY SIDE*

makasoso on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:31 pm

@ Fezzy i understand exactly how you feel, my son used to complain a lot at the begining of the year about his teacher. He even wanted to go back home as it was his first year in studying in Pretoria so he had to deal with language constraints & this biatch. When he told me i also kept quiet coz i was scared she’s victimise him further but he also told his dad who went to school the next day & told the principal if the teacher doesn’t stop that he will not go to the police but will personally deal with her & i must say, my son has never complained about the teacher hitting him but he still want to leave that school.

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:35 pm

@Gomo…she didnt fetch her from school, uze ne transport. She is on her way to the police station as we speak.
Maybe that woman is pregnant or something. This is crazy.

Tjo! @syxlin…thank God Im just a plain Jane who doesnt give a fuck about expensive fashion labels. I just want to look good and would rather spend my money on more important things like my daughters future than on an expensive pair of shoes.

nana on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:35 pm

Lol..Sxylin I’m ‘shuwa” you know that comment killed me… Mina guys I dont wanna lose weight..Ngfuna nje ukwehlisa umkhaba..please advice me..I have joined gym I just feel like its a slow process.

Fab Tee on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:36 pm

hayi no Sxylin these Zimboz mos def dont sound like Americans and no we dont want him to twang but speak with a proper South African accent, like he did when he went there, but they are good teachers shem I’ll give them that, he was able to read and write properly within 3months and his writing is flawless, spells well and he reads beautifully
@Vesa’s q: Fezzy mara why do you guys take your kids to these schools? Are they registered with Dept of Education in the first place? #NotZeno
well my sister applied to whole lot of public good schools but he still didnt get in, was told about the waiting list story, she kept on pestering the schools in Jan and they all said they were full, and we are from a relatively small town so there arent that many schools in town in our area so she had no choice but to send him there in Feb coz time was running out and he was sitting at home and yes it is registered with the Department we checked, the Department has a list of registered schools on their website its there

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:37 pm

Yho instagram i dlala ka batho ba twitter shem. NnA I DONT GET How a person has 2000 or more followers, without even a single tweet.

Anyone know of a person looking for a job as a secretary? Please forward me your or their email address and i will forward the post. 2 years experience required in Johannesburg.

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:38 pm

hhayi Fezzy kanti you guys; what is private school? is that not an exclusive school? Like aboRodean, Redhill, Crawford the way ya’ll guys are going on its like you are talking about fly by by night schools… am i missing something out?

Uboy uzofunda @ any school with a qualified educator and a school with a good solid christian history; im actually thinking of St Johns actually or any school that would teach the cambridge curriculum; hence the Zimbabwean horror teachers

gudgal on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:38 pm

@ Makasoso pls change the poor child hle.

Babyluv on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:40 pm

Hai I want those duromines, i almost died when i got on the scale yday. SMH ladies complaining about weighing 67 kgs (-_-) i mean WTF (/_\)

Nthoentle on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:44 pm

WORD OF THE WEEK!!! SIKISTY!!! DONE WITH ME!!!!! kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Lower my coffin!!!
i thank u @Sxylin

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:44 pm

Just a quick question what does the ‘C’ in model C stand for?

Botshelo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:47 pm

hheeheheehehe pronouncing is the ish!

Im from a meeting and the Director said Curriculum = Khirokhulum!

ijaaaa!

Woza weekend

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:47 pm

Kwaaa Sxylin, hayi unezindaba wena…
I don’t mind people in the fashion/intertainment industry tweeting their outfits, that’s fine and all, but don’t go #loubotin shoe game #hermesjacket #chanel bag!!! i’m sure your outfit would’ve made a statement without having to name drop bandla!
Style has no price tag!
My man always tells me that there are two types of dressers: those who dress in the latest fashion to boost their self esteem and those whose dress style represents the confidence they have in themselves..

Angenoir on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:47 pm

Dejane are you gonna answer me?…do u work in Gwen Lane-Sandton?

Nthoentle on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:48 pm

Nana-sit up’s. Thats the only thing that will give you nice tight ab’s

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:50 pm

Angenoir lmao no im not going to answer you without telling me why you wanna know and who you might be…

Nthoentle on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:56 pm

@Bablyluv-how much your weigh also depends on your height and muscle mass. Nna i weight more than most people because i am muscular. People (esp those who dont exercise) always think i lie when i tell them how much i weigh. nna i use a tape and are more concerned ka size than kg’s.

Guys just hit the gym hey. Exercise is good for you, you will thank yourself in your 40′s/50′s for the exercise you did in your 20′s i tell you

Ms.Zie on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:57 pm

I actually think all these ‘IT’ girls dress so similarly (is this a word?!) and style themselves ngendlela efanayo. Its a bit boring yazi.

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:58 pm

My man always tells me that there are two types of dressers: those who dress in the latest fashion to boost their self esteem and those whose dress style represents the confidence they have in themselves <—— too true!

The same thing i have been saying*cues Powerpuff girl* Welcome to LIVE

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 2:59 pm

@sxylin, clearly you have the wrong end of the stick sana. Any non government school is a “private school”.

@dejane. Good question. I would love to know nam’

Ms.Zie on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:00 pm

Oh ja, can I also just complain about all these fashion blogs ‘mushrooming’ all over the show, hey! Azina-content nje imost yazo!

kamzababy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:01 pm

Ayanda Mbuli, shouldn’t she be more concerned about promoting and bragging about her own “label/designs”?????

bumbum on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:01 pm

Tjo tjo sexylin u finished me with that Venda version ka sikisty.

A Xhosa friend of mine once made me laugh, I asked her to check my results for me (varsy) and she told me “ufumane u sixthy tree” (63) gosh she made my day.

Angenoir on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:02 pm

LOL-Dejane that about answers me…I do u neh?

Ms.Zie on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:03 pm

Ayanda Mbuli, shouldn’t she be more concerned about promoting and bragging about her own “label/designs”?????

>>> Oh no, Uyanda needs to close-up that hot mess of a shop *bitchy side* It is honestly just a disaster.

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:04 pm

so true @Ms Zie, all these girls dress alike, nothing sets them apart now. Melody Motha can rock an outfit though… Feel like Bonang’s style has become a tad predictable.

Nthoentle on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:04 pm

STOP THE LORRY!!! @Spongebob-you went from a size 42-32. YO!!! thats too much weight to lose in such a short space of time

kimmo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:04 pm

@kamza you can ask that again, why cant she advertise her won clothes,

nna i cant stand those who teet what they are eating my gooooood, why though?

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:04 pm

Yazi Fezzy u must go to your daughter’s school on Monday, worse now that she’s been reported to the police, the school must see that today’s situation is not an isolated case and tha more parents are speaking up,, talk to her, woman to woman, even though ukhuluma ngezandla wena..

Ms.Zie on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:07 pm

Melody Motha can rock an outfit though…
>>> She’s the best dressed of the whole lot!

Mojito on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:10 pm

@Shandu you can HairGlo, its a gel like product it can make your childs hair a managable afro. It is also recomended for young kids. you can fin it in most pharmacyz even Discom maybe Checkers, but you must look for it, they dont stock it everywhere!

Angenoir on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:10 pm

Any of you have a single,still horny grandfather?…my landlady(71) has this constant need to traumatize me after work by jumping out the front door naked when i come home.Thats thirst right??

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:11 pm

@asanwababe eish thank you! There is one girl i never talk about; i think she has a backbone for days; LKG (lerato) you will never see her tweet any red bottoms; she would RATHER PEOPLE RECOGNISE THE RED BOTTOMS SHE WEARS! she will keep everyone wondering if its real or not!

The IT girls all copied Melody’s pose! UTumi nkosiyam’ thats another step child! well fcuk me over im about to make someone also famous; there is a girl as well that ive seen on Melody’s timeline, her insta name is Miss Manche or something like that! Now that kid has great dress sense; surpasses Melody even, she also needs to tone it down on the, ” designer name dropping” But yeah they all copy each other…..

samlicious on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:11 pm

Yho @bongi kutough sihlobo sam. Thank goodness Khanya is a boy. Imagine him and his rice crispies look like her aphinde futhi abeyintombazana. Shame my baby he knows his got speacil hair uvele azicelele ukucheba.

@fezzy good that you took action about your nunu’s situation. Please keep us posted with the out come. My son have a coloured ascent and he goes to a model C school. There is nothing I can do about course his teacher is coloured. I just pray that when he gets to grade 2 he gets a white teacher QHA.

Please guys ningandishiyi iam with team Duromines as well. Yho this Saartjie Baartman behind I have *side eyes @Bongi* needs to go shame as in yesterday.

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:12 pm

@Angenoir, wena o mang? Please give me a hint… I know a few people that work on gwen lane that I’ve seen on this site. Which one are you?

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:14 pm

True Kamza, a real business woman puts power in her brand, why would I brag about my competitor’s clothes and not my own? Giving them more coverage? If she was wearing her own clothes then it would make sense.. she’s doesn’t even think far to draw inspiration from these labels and strengthen her own brand by diversifying into what she lacks currently!

My man told me tht if he sees me posting pictures of the house or any branded clothes i buy he wud leave me, lol! How dramatic.. But honestly, exposing your life like that on social sites can draw too much attention, and attention brings about a lot of other sh*t too..
Next you’ll be complaining how people know your biz but forgetting that u put it there for all to see..

Angenoir on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:15 pm

Sxylin you’re right abt MissManche-she does dress hey…I understand she’s opening a boutique soon as well.

Angenoir on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:16 pm

Dejane Im not on Gwen lane-Im actually behind YOUR workplace

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:20 pm

@sxylin…..kwaaaa! You’ve named the whole crowd ya ko instagram! Lol

I also like MsManche and I know her personally. A very nice gal. Her dress sense is on point

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:24 pm

Yes Ms Zie she can rock anything she wears, she’s “stylish” for days, most of her friends are “fashionably”! They wear the latest fashion/trends.. just follow what’s happening in the fashion industry! Scarf Print in, Scarf prints they rock, spikes in, spikes they rock!

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:26 pm

Kwaaa! Dejane! You’ve been buuuuusssteed! *in Tyra’s voice*

Is she Vesa, well, good luck to her, hope it does well, please tell her to take a leaf from Khensani and make her botique a brand and not just a shop..

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:27 pm

*fashionable*

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:36 pm

Ayi Smatsatsa thats not true, angikhulumi ngezandla mina.
Yazi Im a very nice person.

I will keep you guys posted.

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:37 pm

Guys…is there any other place (theme park) in Joburg I can take my kids to besides Gold Reef City?

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:39 pm

you are too pretty samlicious hahahaaha *RUNS*

Smatsatsa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:39 pm

Lol Fezzy siza khipha ama file ne, I remember you said ukuthi wena when you’re angry you can’t talk coz you run out of words to say instead uvele uhlabe impama… and remember that lady wamshaya cos she was Zim and pretending to be Zulu, you and your boyfriend/ex?? Kwaaaaaa!!!

dejane on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:45 pm

*as i change my username and leave JC*

samlicious on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:46 pm

yhu! my engrish on my post safa ngu @sxylin bandla #ethatha icover

sxylin on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:48 pm

hahahaa @Vesa, i think she is pretty(Miss Manche) and thats the first nice lace wig ive seen! Her dress sense is not cheap! she dresses in classic outfits! I like that about her ; she stands alone, cant be compared to her friends (not saying she is better! Her friends dress well too bordering skanky sometimes *cues leather shorts and stockings!

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:49 pm

@Fezzy…..Gold Reef city is the only theme park in Jozi. But the are other interesting places. Like the Lion park in Fourways, there’s an inflatable place on Sloane street in Bryanston that kids like, especially if they are older than bo 6. You can take your child on the Gautrain to the airport and back just for the experience or visit Maropeng in the Westrand

Babyluv on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:49 pm

Ja neh from 42-32 its a bit much. Mna i would be happy with being a 36 toned, with a flat tummy, im not meant to be skinny. @fezzy that teacher deserves a beat down. I think next time you there go with @gomolicious.

Vesa on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:50 pm

i think she is pretty(Miss Manche) and thats the first nice lace wig ive seen! Her dress sense is not cheap! she dresses in classic outfits! I like that about her

@Sxylin…..that’s true!

samlicious on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:51 pm

oh yes @smatsatsa I remember that incident. hahhahaha @fezzy amabloggers dont forget staff ne.

LOL @sxylin

Fezzy on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:52 pm

Thanks @Vesa, I think I will go to Gold Reef cos I want a place that will have me entertained as well.

Mojito on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:53 pm

Cha guys kungamele ngiyeke ukusebenza phela, then join abo-instagram, futhi ngingaxoshwa ekuseni kuyona lento mina ngeke, kuyolunga abo MsManche abo! Ngeke!

Botshelo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 3:59 pm

@Fezzy how about Monte casino, thats if Thando loves birds, i took my boy to the bird park and he loved it

manny on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:03 pm

fezzy take your child to lenz..those indians are good ….checknje my kaka spelling ..they did me damage lama indiya kwaaaaaaaaaaa

but seriously they are good ..thina sonke ekhaya we went to lenz …siyakwazi ukuzibambela nge English …makushubile …

Babyluv on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:08 pm

Ja neh the battle continues. Staff vs Stuff #AlutaContinua

Gomolemo on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:21 pm

@Fezzy, google Jozikids. They have some sort of a directory to children’s entertainment. And please take Babyluv’s advice about taking me with to Thando’s school. Lol. Enjoy your weekend peeps, im out of here. Ke khapa my best friend tomorrow to O.R Tambo for her trip to Australia. Im going to miss her a lot.

asanwababe on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:34 pm

Bethuna, have great Friday evening and night. Niziphathe kakhle.

anytime on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:45 pm

ok, so i googled duromine and it doesnt look good shem…im afraid to try it. There is a side though that mentions Phen375, does anyone know anything about it?

Yazi i need a rich man shem so nami i can be stylish and be connected kulezinto zabo instagram…one day neh…

SpongeBob on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:46 pm

@Nthoentle I only gain on my hips, butt & thighs, so it was not too much in a period of 2 months.

Loulou on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 4:57 pm

@Sxylin you’re so right ka Tumi Vorster! She’s sooooo boring! she kills that show ya Warras
MsManche is amazing! As for The Stepchild Fundi?! Lmfao! She looks like a meerkat, mara we’ll give her A for Effort!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 27th Jul 2012 5:05 pm

Who wants to join me in midrand for late lunch?I’m so lazy to eat and drink alone

itsZeeBish on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 8:53 am

Hahahahahahaha nithi Fundi gets an A for Effort

I think Fundi would look a whole lot better if she stopped trying so hard! And then there’s Tumi *sigh* I think she just snatched the “Awkward Step Child” trophy from Fundi!

Melody and that MsManche always stand out!

sk1 on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 9:45 am

DEscl:dont u dare ask what language do i speak AGAIN..ketla o roha !!! u know yourself..

Kwaaaaaa!!!! Wildy o mpolaile mo ….

bongi on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 12:16 pm

Ok got the duromines, start on monday…lts gonna be a long three months..need to shed those kilos..

anytime on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 1:27 pm

How @bongi? From where? How much??

Nandisile on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 1:28 pm

@Smatsatsa I like ur man, so true!

@sxylin you so right hey.. I actually think bo-melody are not that stylish, simply because if u follow what was on the D&G, gucci etc etc ramps for fall2012, that’s what they wearing! It’s not like it’s original style. I see nothing special there, with all of them incl and esp bonang and uyanda. Lol i know that site tumi foster dresses from!
Real style is not having to tweet labels to validate urself.
Real style is having your own take on fashion and incorp what reflects u, not wearing exactly what u saw on LouisV etc ramp

*sidenote* *bitchyside* y do dark black ppl like melody insist on wearing that lumo-ish Mac lipstick?! Look like golliwogs!

bongi on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 2:12 pm

@ anytime, pharmacy, belville cape town. I went to tht lady on the floor, told her she asked do i have a prescrioption said no, she ask me wait by the isle and not queue as the pharmacist wont give me. She solt it to me R316, ekasi yi R250

Babyluv on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 2:32 pm

Oh my G, so is it enough for 3 months as in 90 days @bongi

anytime on Sat, 28th Jul 2012 11:07 pm

You r lucky @bongi. I’ve been to many many pharmacies and they refuse to sell it to me. May I please have ur email address. Pretty please.

bongi on Sun, 29th Jul 2012 8:17 am

@ anytime give me yours, i have a company one…1 packet has thirty capsules, yu need to have three packets for three months. One pkt i use for two months, i skip days and weekends i dont drink it at all

sillyangel on Mon, 30th Jul 2012 10:50 am

Morning bloogers

Can some one please hook me up or tell me where i can get duromine pills?
I’m desperate

Monei on Mon, 30th Jul 2012 11:22 am

@wildy, this wedding : http://www.zara-zoo.com/blog/durban-wedding/

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