Anything Goes

September 7, 2012 by Brown Shuga

It’s Friday!! Good luck to Bafana Bafana as they take on Brazil tonight, I’m keeping my fingers crossed, #TeamGordon.

Have a good weekend guys, let us know what headlines and stories got you going going Wow and TJO this week.

My AG: I lost my man in a car accident on the 25th and I buried him this past Saturday. The pain that im in right now is beyond imagination, I miss him every minute. Even thou i spent time with him at the morgue (hours), i still feel like im dreaming, maybe im in denial but i just cant believe he’s gone. I feel like i have a huge hole in my heart, the pain is too deep. The tears wont stop. I tried counselling, nothing is helping.

Soccerbabe on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:43 am

@ IamMissHope ooh I’m soo sorry dear *hugs* nothing can prepare you for losing a loved one,time heals all the wounds its gonna take a while but hang in there and please look after yourself you don’t wanna get sick too coz its only gonna make things worse for you.

sweetbabe on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:47 am

Sengikhohliwe ukuthi it National casual day i didnt even buy the sticker…. @IamMissHope i’m sooo sorry gal, i can’t imagine the pain you going through be strong nana *hugs*

IamMissHope on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:49 am

@Soccerbabe – thank you. I have always been so prayerful but for the past 2 weeks i have nothing to say to The Lord, i just close my eyes and cry. I prayed for a good man, he gave me a good man, when i was so happy he took him from me, im Bitter im hurt im angry. Its not fair. I miss my baby so so much

Ruuuunah on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:54 am

*hugs* @IamMissHope

Just hang in there, its never easy losing a loved one. I lost an uncle 3weeks back, whenever I think of him tears just roll down. The pain will eventually ease off with time.

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:00 am

This just made my heart sink @ I have always been so prayerful but for the past 2 weeks i have nothing to say to The Lord, i just close my eyes and cry. I prayed for a good man, he gave me a good man, when i was so happy he took him from me, im Bitter im hurt im angry. Its not fair. I miss my baby so so much.

I can even imagine how I would feel loosing my husband. God will take over nana. (((Hugs)))

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:06 am

Tjo I meant – I can’t even imagine (kuzothiwa ngibulale indoda yami jizasi)

fabulicious on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:10 am

MissHope those tears that keep welling down are a healing on their own, cry…its okay to cry!!!
One day u’l think of him and will shed no tears then u’l know that u’ve reached healing point!
Don’t blame God for anything, He took him bcoz his chapter was done here on earth, u’re still left with ur own chapter sisi!

Losing a loved one has never and will never be easy girl infact its the most PAINFUL thing ever!
I say this is between u and God, He knows the plans He has for u!!

U don’t realise this now,but u have an angel shinning down on u now, looking out for u…he’s in a perfect place. As u continue to cry for him Hold on to the good memories u guys had and let go of his spirit..

BlindFold on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:12 am

@IamMissHope..God will heal you, hold on to him, askies.

TreyScriptures on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:13 am

My condolences @IamMissHope. Grieve, take your time. Its the beginning of healing. I can only imagine what it’s like losing somebody who made your world go ’round. God be with you. Keep well

Remember, do good, good shall be added unto you. &Vice versa

miss sam on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:24 am

Happy friday guys!
Hi @noance,sxylin,chandy and top 10 kaofela!*4gt all the other names askies*
Sori @miss hope *big hug* all I wanna say to you is ‘God won’t put you through what He won’t pull you through’
@Bongi miss duromine ,so happy 4 u*does the duromine dance as well*
To the blogger who is almst giving up on duros,stop weighing yourself coz u won’t see any changes,just workout and drink them duros u will see changes soon *patience*

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:25 am

@IamMissHope I am sorry nana. I cant imagine or even attempt to imagine how you make it through the day. All I know is that God will fill that hole and emptiness with His love and grace. Its ok to grieve and to feel all that you feel,the heart has no pace. It wil heal when its ready to heal. I pray for God to give you strength and peace.

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:28 am

@IamMissHope kuzolunga sisi, truelly sorry for ur loss

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:29 am

Waves and blows kisses to @sparrow, @switpie-glad you arrived safely, @Misssam, @Blindfold, @Fabu, @bumbum, @Bongi yay we love it, #feelgoodfridays

IamMissHope on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:30 am

Thank you so much guys, I guess only God knows! I wouldn’t wish this pain even on my worst enemy! Like they say “It gets easier with time”. Ill believe it when I see it.

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:34 am

hey noance

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:35 am

Morning sugar @zenzybear, u good?

BlindFold on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:35 am

Waving back like lehlanya to @Noance.

SpongeBob on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:39 am

@MissHope when I lost my brother & best friend the Bible & prayer are what got me through the pain. Be strong vha & know that it will get better. Keep praying.

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:39 am

@IamMissHope…..my condolences nana! Time is a healer…..wena you are in the right process of grieving. Go on and cry if you feel like it. Be thankful to God that he gave you a good someone to share your life with…..at least you got to experience that. Just cherish the memories you have with him and don’t be bitter that he is gone. Continue to trust God regardless of what has happened.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:40 am

@MissHope, I am so sorry for your loss and pray for your healing. *hugs*

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:44 am

im good thanks noance. u?

fabulicious on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:47 am

Noance and zenzy wud you like a private room???
Kadlala!

@noance there’s a dream I’d like u to breakdown for me, do u still charge?

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:48 am

MissHope sorry dear, I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going thru, may God be with you…

bongi on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:49 am

@ Treyscripture not over weight just clothes didnt fit comfortable on my body.

Mrs JimmyJump on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:49 am

*sends a million hugs to IamMissHope* pray to God for strength and comfort kuzodlula sisi

bongi on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:52 am

@ Ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuna *not sure how many u’s are in your name*…i’ve heard about people being resistent after week too, but i guess its different of everyone then..mna i’m not resistant at all…

STAY AWAY FROM THE SCALE – IT WILL DEPRESS YOU..you need to see and feel the difference on your body NOT ON THE SCALE. I DONT KEEP SCALES..

Kusihlwa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:52 am

Amber Rose is pregnant. wow, congratsto them.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2199581/Amber-Rose-confirms-pregnancy-MTV-Video-Music-Awards-red-carpet-fitted-black-lace-gown.html

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:54 am

good morning julle

Tjo the way i just wept reading @IamMissHope’s post. just made me realise we nevr get over loss .i lost my sister last year ,this very month and the hurt and emptiness that just welled up in my heart right now ;-( mxm . death is cruel.

Hugs hle sthandwa. none of this is meant to make sense dont try to understand.i also still understand jak. but the pain slowly reduces with time

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:55 am

Guys the way that I’m so weak, I don’t think I’d handle loosing anyone close to me, in fact, I haven’t lost anyone that close to me.. I probably feel the way @MissHope does when I’m going through a break up so I can’t imagine how I’ll feel when I’ve lost someone for good!

I recently dreamt that I’d lost my lil sis, the way i was crying in my dream, my man woke me up cos I was crying and everytime I went to sleep the dream continued where it left off..
I woke up with such a heavy heart

bongi on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:56 am

Oh my Gawd immisshope so sorry to hear about your loss..i dont even know what to say..they say time heal all wounds and believ that yours will be healed to..

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:59 am

@Kusihlwa i just clicked the link neh. and all i thought was TF at that man’s pants. whatever his name is,Amber’s man. tjo!!

Botshelo on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:01 am

my AG is that im wearing Mr Price jeans to the office #casualday# no one will take me serious vandag.

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:02 am

Didn’t Amber Rose look gorgeous last nite at the VMA’s? And Rihanna with her short hair

Kusihlwa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:02 am

lol @missTMzee, I also thought that the qop’s wiz Khalifa is wearing is out of line shame.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:03 am

@Fabu, hahahahhahahahaha wa bora! yes tell me your dream nana…..For you, discount

@zenzybear I am good my love, God’s grace is sufficient!

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:04 am

I love Amber but that make up is not doing her justice, she looks good though.. I didn’t realise Wiz is so tall!

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:05 am

@IamMissHope i pray that good heals you *hugs*

Ruuuunah on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:05 am

I ‘ll be patient @Bongi & @MisSam

I am getting worried cos my clothes are still tight and I still weigh the same. I’ve read that its possible to be resistant after week2 but in my case it seems like its from day1.

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:06 am

lol botshelo

sweetness on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:07 am

Hello everybady…!!

@MissHope, sorry to hear that, may God give you strength, never try to stop those tears, let them out. God will never give you a challenge you cant handle, trust in him, and walk with him… *hugs*

Uthando on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:10 am

OMG @MissHope i think its was 3weeks back when you were over the moon that u’ve found your Venda Prince *hugs* i just can’t stop my tears i’m so so sorry ausi.

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:16 am

sorry i meant i pray that God heals you @ iamMissHope.typo

Pana on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:20 am

sanbonani ma bloggers.

Pkasts on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:21 am

@MissHope So sorry Dear, I hope the late Venda Prince is not the Guy who got an accident here in PTA and got Buried in Venda this past weekend????

SO sorry for your loss though, stay strong and the Lord will comfort you.

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:26 am

kwaaaaaaa@ Botshelo.

Botshelo on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:26 am

so sad after reading @MissHope’s post.

I am so sorry for what you are going through, nothing could have prepared you for such.

Just know that God takes a soul when it is time to go. So it was your partner’s time.

You will heal, in your pain just fellowship, go to church even if you dont sing and dance, the aura there will sooth your pain.
It worked for me at some stage when I ws hurting, I would still go to prayer meetings, would not utter a word but in my heart I would say “God, I am so hurt” and that was that. But time passed and I got healed.

I was comforted by the following scripture,

Romans 5:3-5
Today’s New International Version (TNIV)

3 Not only so, but we[a] also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; 4 perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

I know that your bible version will also confort you. God will not put you to shame.

Go tla loka

*sad*

Shandu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:31 am

Good morning bloggers … Hello @chandyol @soccerbabe are you good?

Eish I don’t know what to say to @MissHope, me fellow bloggers have siad it all. I know how it’s like and I know how you feel. But time heals, and kuzodlula not now but it will come to pass ((((HUGS)))

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:32 am

Condolences MissHope,bloggers have said it all,cant add much.Time will heal you.

Happy Friday!

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:41 am

My AG is that tomorrow its my friend wedding(umbeso)but i still dont have an outfit,thing is i have been depressed and actually have lost interest in everything,all iwanna do is sleep.

coca-cola on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:49 am

@MissHope i dont even wanna imagine what you going through…may God be with you and his family.

guys Thando(dj Naves gf and Bonang’s ex friend) has a baby right? Is Dj Naves the baby daddy.

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:51 am

@MissHope love and blessings. Take time to heal, go through all the emotions – it’s all part of the healing. My granny lost her life long and only partner over a year ago, the pain still looks fresh…these things take time.

Today my little cousin sister would have been 22 she passed on in an accident last December, I am just so emotional

On a lighter note, I went on a date last night, my very first with a foreigner. I think I may understand why SA women prefer our brothers from the diaspora…

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:51 am

@Coca Cola, no he is not.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:59 am

*Hugs* @Loulou

Yes please do share more about the date @loulou

oratile on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:05 am

@iamMissHope your story is so sad it made me cry, be strong ausi and jst put everything in God’s hands, all will be well with time #tears#

nana on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:06 am

Oh wow, I’m so sorry Miss Hope for what you going through….I know how painful it is to lose a loved one.cry as much as you need babe and do not hold back those tears..Let it all out..One day you gonna think of him and you’ll smile at those good memories you’ve shed together..Stay strong.

MyThoughts on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:08 am

MissHope those are really sad news to read op ‘n Fridag. I’m so sorry *hugs you*
We simply never get over the loss of a love one. I lost my mom few months ago(I often dream about the day I buried her) and on top of hurting, I was bitter and angry at God. But it was through all of that that I went back to Him to give me strength to live without my mom. Like one blogger said being in church and uttering whatever you’re feeling to Him helps. God never forsake His children
O be hantle ausi. Eish

Chandyol on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:13 am

Hello @miss sam! Hello @Noance and @missHope I cn imagine the pain you are going through, I’ve been in situations whr I just cry wit no word to utter to my Lord… Just cry all you can, he also interpretes crying. What I can tell you is, God has given evryone a fixed number of days to serve a purpose on earth, once that purpose is done, they pass on. You will be fine dear, nobody knows when he/she will go and once that time has come, nothing can stop it.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:14 am

Hello angel @Chandyol

Kusihlwa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:15 am

@loulou, tell us more tu.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:18 am

Michelle Obama’s speech at the Democratic convention! WOW!!!!! Phenomenal woman!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sbm83xoV8g&feature=player_embedded

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:20 am

Yazi mara my life! hahahahahahahahaha!
So the first thing I notice as I sit down is a huge ring on his wedding finger, looks like one of those secret society/illuminati rings. Mara he was such a gentleman, absolutely no flirting or forwardness – too refreshing. He is from Cameroon and is here for a seminar and will leave on the 16th to head back home

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:20 am

Yazi @Kusihlwa I am waiting nami……

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:25 am

Hahhahahahahhahaha at >>>>> So the first thing I notice as I sit down is a huge ring on his wedding finger, looks like one of those secret society/illuminati rings.

Thabure on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:26 am

@misshope
askies babe….time is the heale and dont ever doubt God…

LadyMillion on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:30 am

Kisses back to @Noance… Have a fab day beautiful

@MissHope, askies sisi kuzolunga! allow yourself to cry and cry and cry.think of it as a better place for him to be right now,no worries no fears.be patient, we will all pray for you to regain strenght from this *hugs*

Ms.Zie on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:36 am

Bo Amber Rose, Beyonce et al just keep getting paler and paler

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:41 am

@Ms.Zie Heheheehheehhehehehehehhe I also want that jik-dawn-vaseline their using……

I am so anxious, the company I went to for interview has not not gotten back to me yet, they are supposed to be short listing soon but no news yet. I guess I must just be patient and have faith. #Sigh

megane on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:43 am

@Miss Hope a beeeeg ((((HUG))) God will see you through your pain…just cry all you want and yes with time you will be fine

@ Loulou hahahahahaha maybe he’s into those “illuminati” societies – reminds me of a nigerian movie called The Billionaires Club” scary movie I tell you

Did Amber-Wiz bleach her skin – chick is soooo pale

Zeal on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:43 am

So sorry about your loss @MissHope. Hang in there hun!! *hugsies*
Guys eish this IT guy installed Windows Professional on my laptop, and the screen is too bright, there’s no option under ‘power options’. How can i change it? please guys. Its hurting my eyes hle!!

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:45 am

Loulou….so the man will be heading back home soon?

Pkasts on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:46 am

LOL @Noance ……………” I also want that jik-dawn-vaseline their using……” LOL

Ms.Zie on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:47 am

@Noance, mina it’s happening in reverse been getting so dark & blotchy. Decided to go back to my previous beauty routine. I also wouldn”t mind their ‘jik-dawn-vaseline’. Lol

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:48 am

@Noance kwaaaaaaaaa@ Jik Vaseline *dead*, girl have faith and if they don’t get back to you next week, give them a ring and find out where you stand – the market is looking good now, I’m sure you’ll make it.

@Vesa yes he leaves soon, he says it’s really beautiful there and I must come visit, lol!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:53 am

Hawu I only realise now ukuthi kuneAG

JG did you get my email? amaphepha

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:56 am

@Ms.Zie I know what you mean, my skin also tends to have bi-polar moods aswell. My face at some point looked like lunch bar, this year and now I am smooth as a baby’s bum.

@Loulou thank you, you giving me hope via the market looking good.

So are you gona see the dude again anytime soon? @loulou

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 10:59 am

@Noance…..hang in there!

@Loulou….lol, would you go and visit? And in which capacity….friend? Yes/ No?

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:01 am

Welcome @Ntombi….

Thank You @Vesa, will do…

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:08 am

Yoh I am such a legwala! I don’t think I would go – I try and avoid trouble! There’s a girl from my hood that was stuck in London once because of “come visit me”.

He asked to see me again, I did enjoy his company mara I’ll see how I feel. hoooooo I am going to my first bachelorette party tomorrow, I am excited!!!!

BlindFold on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:16 am

@Loulou..clarity please

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:17 am

@Loulou whenever I think of a bachelorette party, I always think of Bridesmaids

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:18 am

Oh @MissHope, you just brought tears to my heart, Im so sorry Honey*BIGHUG* I cant even imagine what you going through. I pray you find some strength. Time heals all babe I know its not easy. #LetGoandLEtGod he will never put you where his grace wont lead

Well done to u Bongi, ungaziyekelelike sthandwa sami

You go Lou Lou…

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:23 am

Tears to my eyes I mean

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:26 am

Aybo you guys, a colleaugue was kidnapped at Menlyn mall for 3 days. They drugged him, he woke up in some room they took his pin and withdrew all his money. He escaped on the 4th day and went to hospital they found all kinds of drugs in his body. Lapho yena he only remembers walking in the mall and nothing afterwards.

Yo it felt like there were telling me about some movie.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:29 am

Tjo Tjo Tjo That is hectic @Ntombi…..This world is not safe anymore shame. Thank God, He was not harmed.

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:34 am

Tjo @Ntombi! Lefatshe a la robala waitsi! The devil is alive and well :(

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:34 am

Thank heavens he was not harmed.

Excuse my ignorance but I thought Menlyn was safe yazi, like Sandton, East Gate or Hyde Park. I mean such things you would expect from aboBoulders, Westgate.
And I mean there is Cams everywhere laphya. Tjooooooooo wena umlungu wabantu shem isono yazi

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:36 am

Lefatshe a la robala waitsi <—Im assuming this means Lafa elihle kakhulu. Yes/No/Maybe?

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:37 am

Menlyn?? Safe??? Haa haa! No mall is safe babes, even your Sandton..
If you knew the type of things that happen emaMalls you’ll never set foot again..
#Teamonlineshopping

dejane on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:40 am

Ah MissHope:( I am so sorry to hear that. My sincerest condolences. Time will heal all your wounds lala. *hugs* May the Lord give you all the strength you need to get through this

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:41 am

@Ntombi…no! Lefatshe=Umhlaba, robala=lala, waitse=you know. So loosely translated….Umhlaba uwulalanga yazi, dunno if there’s such a term in isiZulu.

TreyScriptures on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:42 am

Hehehehe, if someone pulled a gun on me, it would be wrong, sad, shocking right? But if I pulled a gun on someone it would be, right, accepted, okay? Or if somebody killed someone here yol would be up in arms, but if somebody killed someone else, it’s alright? Reminds me off hypocrites, “christians” in church but are evil.

Trying to figure how JC has become now… Where are all the old people though? MissAN, Lolo, Fezzy, Kiki, (list goes on) iyawa shem le ndawo.

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:42 am

@Ntombi it means the world is not asleep (direct) – the world is not safe at all. Shem Smatsatsa is right, just last week some fool stole a Lambo ko Hyde Park, we survive these ndawos by the Grace of God

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:46 am

And don’t think that you’d expect such eBoulders, I’m assuming your assumption is based on the clientele yase Boulders? You see them shady looking people and think everyone’s out there to grab your wallet right?
The funny thing is that they get the most gullible people who think they’re safe cos they’re in Sandton; genuine thugs target the rich and not the poor, so you’re probably safer eBoulders than e Sandton lovie!
Ask anyone who goes to ‘World’s finest watches and the security they need..

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:48 am

Tx Vesa and Lou Lou, yes Vesa there is a term lol

SMH steals a Lambo uneLiver yezwa cicicici Lefatshe a la robala waitsi indeed!!!

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:49 am

@Smatsatsa you are so right shame! No place is safe…..

Like @Mythoughts said >>>>>Huuuuu Trey let it sink sesi, you gave us life.Whoever took your husband/father of your kids God will deal with him/her accordingly. Now sit your cookie on ice cubes and wear that sexy size 46 Lingerie and stop behaving like a straatmate nana

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:52 am

yazi when I walk eBoulders I tell you I leave my handbag and phone in the boot of my car cos Im scared nje ukuthi bazongishaya ngegrab. MAybe Im paranoid shame. Ngiyayisaba inkunzi yezwa co I know that Im very gullible shame.

Ay no!!! I will be carefull everywhere manje *sigh*

megane on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:52 am

@ Ntombi LOL i just had to laugh at —-> “Lafa elihle kakhulu”
i think it means the world is not sleeping

True-self on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:55 am

@megane i also thought of the billionaires club when @loulou mentioned the ring lol.

@MissHope….God will never forsake u nor leave you, He is actually close to you now more than ever. Put all your burdens and cares to Him. Cry as much as you feel like, indue time you will feel better.

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 11:56 am

yoh ntombi!!!!!! TRAUMA

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:00 pm

Menlyn??Tjo!! I’m not suprised,it is always full everyday.

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:02 pm

guys ngingakhala hey, ngingakhala amafinyela adcwale ubuso

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:03 pm

tjo @ Menlyn..well malls in general i thought were okay-ish safety wise.

where must we go coz these buggers even come into our houses?

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:10 pm

The only place that I don’t feel safe at, at the malls is the bathrooms. I think that’s where all the mshikashika happen. I only use them if I really have to. Even when I take my son there, I take him into the ladies bathrooms. He doesn’t like it, but it’s for his safety

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:11 pm

Hawu guys uphi uMamabear noMgosi bakithi?
I dont feel like working today….

Ms.Zie on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:16 pm

I’m always checking out white men lately. Hmmm, ababahle kanje. I don’t know if I could get serious with one tho.

Koeks on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:19 pm

Happy Friday everyone.
@Noance you said earlier that your face once looked like a lunch bar but now you’re smooth as a baby. Can I ask what product did you use to be smooth again cause I also look like a lunch bar its been 2months now,Im so frustrated.

vigilante on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:29 pm

askies hle at misshope.. i’m so sory for what you going through,, and just ditto to what everyone has said

nomthwalo on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:32 pm

Molweni bahlali

Happy Friday everyone

vigilante on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:36 pm

anyone going to the soweto wine festival?

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:38 pm

On that mall note, something happened here in Northgate lastweek. A girl met a Nigerian man, he asked her out to lunch n later took her for shopping. Naye ke usisi didn’t say no to free shopping,baqala e Woolies, then Edgars then MrPrice. So when she went into the fitting room brother man was holding her bag for her n other things. Upon coming out brother man is no where to be found,going to her car nayo ayikho. So they follow u from your car,charm u buy u clothes so they can get ur bag with ur car keys. On the camera all they could see was the happy couple shopping away.

vigilante on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:44 pm

mara can you really believe that someone you just met 5 minutes ago would take you on a shopping spree haaikhona, i dont know maybe its just me, but i would suspicious nje mina

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:52 pm

Ay that girl is naive naye hey…

Yazi I dont know if its me or what ne, I so dont trust Nigerians actually Im scared of them. Ngibaleka besathi “hello my sister”

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:54 pm

Hey @Koeks To be honest I really prayed about my skin alot and I know God answered me. But I shall tell u of my earthly experience…….

I was put on contraceptives called Nervia for 6 months and some lotion that dries out your skin. I took that prescription for 3 months and then stopped nje…..

At the moment I use dove soap, toner and moisturizer from Gallia. A dermatologist that came to our work actually said the cheaper products actually have a higher success rate than those expensive Loreal and Givenchy products. So that is what I am using and I am liking the results so far….

sxylin on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:55 pm

Hello @iammisshope my condolences Hun God will heal you! @ Lela hahahahaha this girl noo man , just like that

soul sista on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 12:56 pm

@MissHope askies!!
I HOPE you get back on your feet soon. *BIG Hug*

Raquel on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:00 pm

All hugs IamMissHope. It will get better.

@Lela, the lady was stupid too. Why give your handbag to someone you don’t know? Worse a man?? What kind of a man wants to be seen in public holding a lady’s handbag? My man doesn’t touch my hand bag no matter how happy or drunk he is.

Lol @ this…. “On the camera all they could see was the happy couple shopping away.”

Soccerbabe on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:01 pm

Ehhrrrrh Lela and bahlali im sorry to sound insensitive but BAMULAYILE that girl, i mean u cant meet someone now esp Nigerians and agree to such things it goes to show ukuthi amantombazane aseMzansi awanawo umthambo kaNOOOO…athanda izinto zamahhala too much and this is jst the beginning soon they will wake up to Welcome to Lagos, YOU ARE HERE TO BE A HOOKER *nigerianaccent*!!! Im not xenophobic but I do not trust NIGERIANS period and could never date them

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:03 pm

Waves back @Noance, I’ve been sleeping nana night shift is kicking my ass big time until tuesday.

Guys ever since I came from work (2 AM) there’s a frog in the pool and its been crying (what ever the noise is about) none stop. How can I stop this bahlali ngavelelwa, I don’t have enough salt to pour kwi swimming pool phela and the rain won’t stop. I think this frog is out to give me wrinkles because I’m going to be fatigue mangingalali… Demedi!

kimmo on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:04 pm

Miss hope askies hle.dumelang kaifela

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:09 pm

Yazi @lela I just think these ladies are here for us all to learn a lesson….. There are people here who are maybe too trusting and this was their wake up call…..Some of us life has taught us to be very clever and some of us have not been exposed to the harsh realities of life and the world.

Maybe loyo sisi is a blogger here, if your reading this: askies nne. *hugs* Like Maya Angelou said, “when you know better, you do better”

I choose to see every encounter or happening as a lesson! Maybe someone her eon the blog was going to be a victim of “Mr Shop Away, I shop from you too”

Vesa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:10 pm

@Lela, labo bayalayeka (sp). Like really now! How you gonna get free shopping like that from a total stranger? And worse of all, leave them with your belongings? Our desperation to be loved is our downfall shem

You reminded me of my articles days. Omunye usisi met a guy naye, and they began chatting and exchanged numbers. They decided to hookup the next day for drinks after work. Went to Dros in Menlyn. At that time, usisi left her week old work laptop, handbag with money inside in the guy’s car. After ordering food and all, the guy got a phone call and pretended it was a bad line. He asked usisi for her fone, cause he needed to get some numbers from the caller, and went outside to answer the call. Brotherman left her eating kanjalo…..she only realised minutes later that the man is not coming back, and has left with her belongings. She had to use restaurant landline to call a friend to come and rescue her

Phindy on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:12 pm

Hhayi, siyazithanda izinto though, free shopping 4rm a stranger nje is suspect mos, angiphathi ke obhuthi base Nigeria! She has a liver shame!!!

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:14 pm

@Lela this girl kwaaaaaaa.guys if i hear anything about Mr price i chuckle.

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:16 pm

Nigerian or not, some things are too good to be true so nje that should raise an eye brow bakwethu. Liker of things nje

Ms.Zie on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:18 pm

Mara amaNigerian. I don’t know if nginga’zwana’ nalo. Not to sound ignorant but nje I honestly believe most of them are very BAD news. I’ve been on 2 dates with one, brother man wanted to buy me a car the works ON CONDITION that I visit him in London. I got such a fright, deleted him on BBM & nje just let it all go. Ngagcina lapho. I’ll never give them another chance. I’ll leave them to Barbs and her crew *ducks bullets*

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:20 pm

@Vesa hai I have no words for that lady shame and no sympathy.

Miranda on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:22 pm

Hahahaa. This has happened to me via my friend, years ago-varsity. She got invited for dinner, and was told to bring a friend…I had to be that friend. I ended up loosing my phone, while she kept hers.LOL

mY phone is busy going dururu, tlwip tlwip on me….no more near a charger.

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:22 pm

yes @bumbum Nigerian or not when it smells like shit it probably is. i feel like gooi_ing her ka mpana. girls/women like that upset me more from a hurt point of view than judging.

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:29 pm

Yazi my HUSBANK told me to rather get a mall card (a card that you can use to any and every shop in that mall) I put a certain amount in the card and I use it so I leave my wallet and handbag at home.

I thought I should share maybe it might help someone.

Pkasts on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:34 pm

@ BumBum a mall Card? I gotta get me 1 of those…………….

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:34 pm

Ay guys am I the only one who looks at PheloB and it rings *gay* just asking nje?

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:39 pm

nope you are not @ Ntombi. he is too girly

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:41 pm

@Ntombi he is though……apparently thats why zwala sent hi back home…..EC

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:43 pm

excuse my ignorance, who’s phelo b?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:44 pm

Sent him home? what do u mean sent him home

Loulou on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:45 pm

I am soooooooo bored
and hungry :(

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:46 pm

Phelo Bala, Zwai and Loyiso’s younger brother

bumbum on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:46 pm

@Zenzy the youngest muso of the Bala brothers

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:47 pm

Haaa haa! Vesa and Lela, I feel no sympathy for such girls! Ke bo ‘Maratahelele’…
LOL, the things I would see during my student days.. I used to work for a retail store, the number of people who’d be scammed on a daily basis because they thought it would be better to steal from us was hilarious, I would laugh!
People would believe people telling them that they could get clothes for way less than what we sold them, so they would come into the store with these people who would convince them that they work with us, dressed in similar colours to what we had and they would start picking and picking clothes, then they guys would tell them to go wait outside and they’ll bring their clothes through the back door, but they must give some collateral, like a phone or at times half of the money they were paying; then baddaa boom! They’d disappear..

And then they have the nerve to come in the store and tell us what just happened!

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:49 pm

@ntombi Zwai was basically paying for Phelo stay here in jhb! So apparently they had a fall out because of Phelo”s sexual orientation and therefore cut him off and Phelo had no choice but to go back home.

He uesed to be on twitter alot but I think BIS is costing him too much now

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:49 pm

Ntombi remember there were rumours that he was gay an Zwai sent him home cos he was embarrasing the family or something with his lifestyle.. something like that!

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:51 pm

@Loulou I just had some lekker, russian and chips! Yummy! I’ll run it off tomorrow morning at the gym! *hides*

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:53 pm

Dumelang Diphoofolo Tje Botje Tja Modimo!!!

@MissHope: Sincere Condolences my dear! I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Someone once told me that the best way to deal w/ loss is to remind yourself of the great moments you had together w/ your Love.
@Ntomni: He IS that inclined. But Zwai has been on a mission to strangle him back into his closet. Hence he got him a slot on Joyous Celebration to beat the ‘Gay’ demons out through song. Zwai didn’t think Phelo’s Gay friends were good role models. He thinks Phelo acquired the Gay disease through the influence of friends. He saw Joyous as a platform for good, sound, Christian role-modeling. What Zwai doesn’t know is that Joyous is pride haven for closet folks. Zwai is surrounded by 2 non-hetero brother and he can’t stomach that. The other 1 is bi angithi.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:53 pm

@Smatsatsa my friend fell victim to that stunt and she was at Ackermans, how much more of a half price do you need when you shopping at Ackermans????? Phone was gone and handbag…….

GREED!!!!

missTmzee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:57 pm

kwaaaaa ko ackermans haai maan batho ba worse . @JG the other one you mean Loyiso ??

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 1:59 pm

haaaaa Noance unamanga.i worked for spitz when i was a student and i there were many victims just for carvella.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:00 pm

So which other is Bi? iza nazo JG

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:07 pm

@fufu HUH????? Yes spitz is understandable and a carvella doesnt come cheap. But if your buying panties for R15 each and you still want a discount? I dont get it for real…… Thats the point I am trying to make!

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:10 pm

Haaaaaaaa haaaaaaaa @Noance, Ackermans?! That’s a classic!
So while I was working, my tjatjaraag roomie was around town so she came to see me at work, 10 mins later she comes back saying someone told her that she could get a Mr Price jeans for R30 each.. LOL, my friend was a liker of things a lot,, so she told the guy to go for the kill, while she’s waiting for him to come back (luckily she didn’t give any collateral) she starts thinking of how terrible this situation could go, so she runs away and comes to our store, tells us what happened and asks to sit and wait till I finish my shift cos she’s now afraid to go out in case the guy might be looking for her and force her to give him his money! Yazi she was nervous the whole time, kept hiding and my colleagues would make fun of her and tell her that he’s approaching the store.. that was the last day she did it!

fufu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:18 pm

kwaaaaaaa Noance im shocked,hence im saying unamanga.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:28 pm

Ohk…..Hhahahahahahha @fufu people do the craziest things out there….

sxylin on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:33 pm

I’ve been listening to I HATE LOVE by Toni Braxton for the past 5hours, makes me cry so much ! I’m so sad

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:34 pm

why babe,whats wrong?

Wanna talk about it?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:36 pm

Ayke namhlanje umuntu uzolala edle inyongo, boyfriend says he is going to cook supper tonight lapho he always says akakwazi ukupheka and Ive never even seen him ethosa ngisho iqanda leli

*shigh*

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:36 pm

Hayi shem mna i have no pity for people who get robbed while also tryna rob. A friend was robbed in those Ackermans get you clothes from the back scams. Anyone who knows me knows that i hate anything that comes from the back. She gave her bag to these women who were promising to get her the clothes on a discount from the back. In the end they ran away with her bag.

*ignores Phelo speculations*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:40 pm

But how do give your handbag to strangers hey?

LadyMillion on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:41 pm

Zwai is surrounded by 2 non-hetero brother and he can’t stomach that. The other 1 is bi angithi.

*claps hands*

Pkasts on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:42 pm

Like really who does that? Give their belongings to Strangers? *Shiriously* now

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:42 pm

Sexylin please send it to me , I also wanna feel sad with you..

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:43 pm

@sxylin i LOVE LOVE LOVE that song

promisez on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:44 pm

tltltllttlltltltltltl I almost took out the Fanta grape im drinking through my nostrils at this “Hence he got him a slot on Joyous Celebration to beat the ‘Gay’ demons out through song”

hhheey guys those folks use umuthi!!! was a victim in my varsity years at hatfield. my purse, school books, cellphone gone! I ran to Brooklyn police station , the officers were kind enough to open a case for me so I could make a claim for the cellphone

LadyMillion on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:45 pm

@sxylin whats wrong babe.. earlier u said u were going out and u’re a mad woman

sweetness on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 2:53 pm

@sexylin I think I feel just like you… I just fought with my bf, now I don’t even know what’s going on, he just used some reverse psychology on me, mxm… I also hate the fact that it will take him just a little joke for me to calm down…

Cant wait until my feelings for him are not so strong, when I just don’t give damn…

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:01 pm

@Sweetness “Cant wait until my feelings for him are not so strong, when I just don’t give damn…”

Don’t count on this babe, my friend has been saying she wants to break up with her man but she’ll only do it when her feelings are not so strong..
She’s still waiting for that period to come and they’re getting married soon..

So don’t count on your feelings, use your head too..

Letebele on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:06 pm

IamMissHope: I am so sorry for your loss darling. I don’t know what t say to try and make you feel better. The wound is still fresh so don’t rush the healing process. Allow yourself to grieve as you’re doing now, cry if you want, don’t hold back any emotions. thats how you will heal. don’t forget to ask for strength from the almighty as he’s the one person that will give comfort at any given time during this unbearable time.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:06 pm

Cant wait until my feelings for him are not so strong, when I just don’t give damn…

There is no such instead they get stronger, trust me

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:08 pm

Ey smatsatsa, easier said than done

sxylin on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:10 pm

Hahahahaha Smasatsa I just laughed at ur comment, I’m going thru stuff but thanks guys for asking, I can’t share here for obvious reasons!

My playlist goes like this:

Maybe I deserve :- for u to go out and find some other guy! For u to go out and stay out all night,
I don’t want:- I don’t want to sing another love song baby, I don’t want to hum another melody,
I hate love:- i hate goodbyes, I hate these tears in my eyes I hate myself for te way I feel every time , I’ve had enough! I know it’s hard for u to understand when I say I hate Goodbyes!

sparrow on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:15 pm

Tjo! @noace *burns imphepo, beats on a drum vigorously,sips on zorba n spits up in an explosive manner* you guys never dissapoint.lol

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:15 pm

@Zenzy that’s why you should use your head when your heart fails you..
The last time I broke up with someone, I loved them will all my heart and It was the most difficult thing to do at that time, my feelings were extra strong but I knoew that I had to use my head or else I’ll be miserable for the rest of my life. It worked, there were times of doubt and second thoughts, but my sanity would always prevail!

sxylin on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:16 pm

And there is this one:-

Why won’t u love me:- hold up wait a min can u tell me promise u’ll b honest and u tell me everything tht u feel I just wanna know the truth even if it hurts me, tell me why , why won’t u love me the way I need to be loved!

Look at me as I am I just don’t understand, why won’t u love me the way I need to be loved, I just wanna be loved, what can I do to be perfect for you?

Smatsatsa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:20 pm

Haai @Sxylin!!! MAYBE I DESERVE??? So YOU cheated????!!!!!
I kid, but on a serious note, pls send me that song, who knows when i’ll need it!

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:23 pm

Do you guys ever feel like just starting over?…..

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:23 pm

I also wanna dump my boyfriend but the feelings are still strong. He is almost perfect yena n i was the happiest girl until i realised im turning 30 n he has no plans of getting married anytime soon n futhi akathandi icawe,mnxm ukujola nendoda engakholwayo hayi suka! Ngoku every lil thing abt him irritates me nje. I know he’s gonna keep manipulating me with all his sweet gestures but ayi i have no interest of wasting another 5years in a relationship.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:30 pm

Happy birthday for tomorrow Lelo,

Nothing like a God-Fearing Man!!!

LadyMillion on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:30 pm

*sharing*

The day Rick Ross dives into the crowd…
is the day we find out who his “true” fans are

*sideeyes@sxylin*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:33 pm

The day Rick Ross dives into the crowd…
is the day we find out who his “true” fans are

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, I have to steal this hehehehehe

sxylin on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:36 pm

Hahaha wena LadyMill God forgives I don’t ! *just sharing*

lolington kwaaa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:44 pm

Hi Everyone!!!!!!!!

@misshope……cry all the sadness out, it’s still too early. Don’t even try to understand. Time will heal everything.

@Ntombi..lmao…uzobanjwa uba ngoba ewu half wenkomo? lmao!!!

@lela, what if you dump him only to find one who goes to church kodwa osile? Won’t even bother showering with those little sweet gestures? But i understand what ou mean..eish relationships!

@sexylin, I don’t like that song, it’s sad nje, makes me cry for no reason. I hope the feeling passes soon, sucks feeling like that.
@sweetness, why do you fight with your boyfriend? If he’s doing you wrong…don’t wait for the feeling to be ‘less strong’ because they won’t, they’ll just grow stronger instead like Ntombi Yomzulu said.

@Noance, HI

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:45 pm

My favourite has to be Celine Dion’s I love you then I hate you song.

The minute I realised that I can never live without him and him without me as well,whatever he does to piss me off does not move me that much.

Bé careful of this fantasy lifestyle guys.Even psychologists know that Jack and Rose from the Titanic were going to have massive problems had they been together.

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:45 pm

Thanks Ntombi. Mina that’s what im used to, a man who puts God first in everything n Sunday is for nothing but church andiyazi lento ndikuyo umtu Sunday ubusy unesa ibhabhalaza,mnxm. Maybe i really need to use ma head on this one. Yes Noance i do feel like starting over n be that woman that waits upon God,that hears his voice clearly,that doesnt compromise God’s standard. Maybe i should yhazi.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:46 pm

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @LadyMill

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:48 pm

Hi my love @lolington, where are u from wena?

bongi on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:51 pm

@ Lela please dont change the way you feel ngenxa yezo reasons. Men are like kids..today they feel so – tomorow they woke up with a different tune. Sometimes it will take you to dump him for his sanity to come back and think that hey Lela is thee one, BUT also you dump him and BOOM.COM he is gone forever..about church ke; haike mine introduced me to his, i attended classed every sat and went to church every sunday until i was confirmed…yena Doh…he only came when i was confirmed and didnt set foot again..but one day uzoyihamba im telling you..

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:57 pm

hay bafazi nifuna everything.Most men are not churchie.They prefer to be guests kumasonto enu and not full time members.Get over it!

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 3:59 pm

noance i think the only way i can do that is to get a job far away from him hey. like in another province, never ever have to see him again. i think the worst thing about still loving someone is having to see them now and then. worst of all sisebenza sonke manje. its hard yall

lolington kwaaa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:18 pm

I’m here Noance, busy observing and laughing and #SMH’ing at crazy people who come out of nowhere to diss #SMH.

Nthoentle on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:19 pm

If I have to wait for you, I’ll hang on the line.

If I had to just make due, I`ll do it ’til the end of time.

I am hearing – ‘If I have to feel this pain ,to know that you will be mine, all mine.’ vice ‘If I have to feel this way ,to know that you will be mine, all mine. ‘

Thats the choice I make.
Thats the risk i’ll take.

If I have to wait, for you.

Letebele on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:20 pm

lela: what are we doing to celebrate your bday tomorrow? it seems like things changed drastically since the last time i saw you. Vesa, are we doing a lunch or something?

Nthoentle on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:21 pm

@Lela if you feel that way then pray about and make a decision. Women are always waiting on men hey. Waiting for them to marry us, make money for us, do thgis and that! arghhh. Pray about it and decide. Good luck and happy birthday for tomo

Phindy on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:29 pm

Happy bday in advance Lela! How long have u bn dating, if u don’t mind me asking.

Phindy on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:33 pm

@ Lela ur bf, tht is.

samlicious on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:37 pm

Hi guys

zenzybear on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:38 pm

hey sam

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:40 pm

molo @samilicious : unxibe uvez’ithanga namhlanje neh?Fake is’katula mna,nzojonga uJohnTyd soon,so that xa unxiba u’S'khatha-ntsula ndithi JohnTyd mna

samlicious on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:43 pm

@E2J thats true hey. My man is also like that, ubutiza doesn’t drink doesn’t smoke but nje akavani necawe period. He will tell a lot of stories about going to church when he was growing up vara-vara and all that shebang.

I have made peace with it and keep on praying ukuthi one day the holly spirit will shayela him a visit.

lolington kwaaa on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:43 pm

A very Happy day for tomorrow Dear Lela! May you grow in God’s WISDOM!!!

samlicious on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:45 pm

hehehhehe mnxim @E2J. I wish nana I had the body to wear such pbut ke ndingumama wezingane shame ixesha nje alindivumeli. Cabanga wearing a mini sjkirt with my 14 year old daughter.

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:53 pm

hahahahah mamu @SAM: Now I understand.
Man catch up ngeChurch at the age of 50+.Don’t worry ladies,its gonna be ok.

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:53 pm

Lol @ being a guest n that’s what he wants shem. Letebele nothing has changed on his side it’s just me seeing clearly now that the honeymoon phase is over,those are my realities n yena he doesnt see any problem with those. He feels i can always wait for him to be ready for marriage in the next God knows how many years n mina i wanna get married as in yesterday. Maybe nam ndiwuthanda gqithi umtshato. We’ve been dating for 5months gal n he loves me to bits,treats me like a queen n does all the nice things but now im starting to be concerned about those realities. He even asked that he atleast goes to church twice a month,what is that? Ayi i dont know. I don’t really have plans Letebele except i have a meeting afternoon then boyfriend will come after work naye he’s working tomorrow so i dnt know what he’s planned but it wnt be a party cause he’s broke shem,ayi i dnt know people are full of suprises mna im just gonna go to my meeting that’s it.

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 4:59 pm

Haauw Lela 5 months and u already talking marriage? You will scare him away LOL.

Noance on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 5:27 pm

@Lela sent me ur email address, I want to send u a lnk to video I think u should see.

I won’t ever date a man that does not put God first or understands the importance oof church. I’m sorry to say I’m sorry but it ought to be said!

Happy birthday @Lela, wishing u a wonderful day and may God open up the heavens and pour out His richest blessings upon u!

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 5:32 pm

Kwaaaaaaaaaaa Mathaz kanti when are people supposed to talk about it,phela what’s the point of dating? Well we do talk about it n yena he will say when he’d like to n nami ill say when which is yesterday,lol. Bese icace ke ba hayi we are worlds apart. But Nthoenhle we have to wait on men to marry us otherwise we’d all be married.

Thanks for the birthday wishes guys.

SpongeBob on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 5:43 pm

Hay’ @Lela aren’t you being unfair on the guy? I mean 5 months is such a short time for ube somlahlela ungakutshati. I think you should aslo accept that akahambi Cawa, that doesn’t mean akakholwanga. He’s about +90% of what you need in a guy, sumlahlela into ezincinci like these.

Phindy on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 6:00 pm

Lol @Lela, 5 months is not long kubantu besilisa nana bt I understand ur point though ukuba @ least he shud b thinking tht in a year or so akutshate. I think u shud let him know cos its important 2 let ur requirements known 2 ur man in the early stages of the relationship so tht wonke umuntu azocacelwa ukuba omunye ufunani. Most women r scared of talkong abt such in a young relationship bt trust me, iyanceda le talk. If it were up 2 men ngabe sonke siyajolana nje masiqeda sidlule siye kwabanye etc…so u need 2 plant tht thought enqondweni wakhe & see where he takes it.

switpie on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 6:02 pm

I gave up on telling my bf to come wit to kerk. Every sunday its a story or he tells me to buy him a 6pack heineken then he will go to church with me. At half 12 he calls kerk is out come home alredi yoo mara man ai. Told him I’ll get a man at church he says he will start gng nxt week lmao. Mara I’m gng to stop telling him n pray for him one day God will touch him nje

FunkyFK on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 6:16 pm

So sorry to hear that @IamMissHope. Please take comfort in God and the WORD. I have once lost someone I dearly love and my daily prayer was “God, just take the pain away” and He did exactly that. The pain was gone, I stopped asking WHY. I understood exactly why God allowed something like this to happen. In the fullness of time, all shall be well.

FunkyFK on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 6:20 pm

@Lela, wishing you a wonderful, blessed day in advance. May the good Lord be with you, may He shower you with blessings, may He answer your prayers according to His riches in heaven. And above all, may He add GOOD LIFE to your years

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 6:55 pm

You seem to be having such a great time with this guy @Lela.Why do you want to spoil it over marriage talk?Enjoy the moment you’re in right now.

Re church,in all fairness when you first met him and you found out he’s not qa churh goer,you should have let him go.

Dont come accross as someone who wants to change him,he will not take kindly to that.

Enjoy your day tomorrow.

Nthoentle on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:21 pm

@Lela-hai 5months is too short hle atleast a year. Although it doesn’t take very long for a man to decide whether he is going to marry you or not. By 5 months most men know what they want out of the relationship. Maybe he wants to wife u mara 5 months is early nyana, wait a year.

Nthoentle on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:25 pm

@Mathaz-but she wants to get married must she now not tell her man that? I think its good she’s telling him. Agona free lunch mo,lol

posh on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 7:57 pm

Happy 30th birthday @ Lela, welcome to the other side of 20 and take note of this quote “Age is whatever you think it is. You are as old as you think you are.”
Muhammad Ali

Mathaz on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:13 pm

@Ntoentle ofcourse she must tell him her future plans but not mention it frequently.

If I were a guy and my girl would start having this conversation with me or asking where I stand with her after 5 months of being together I would back off a little.

There are ways of putting your intentions accross without being a bit too pushy.

Ohkay I am bored and just cancelled my date with hubby and there’s nothing playing on TV.#DontMindMe

Nthoentle on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 8:47 pm

@Mathaz its cool nana. I get u

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:03 pm

@Noance: you will get a churchie man who is boring in bed ,then you’ll complain.Small differences can’t be allowed to break-up people.I’ve given up on church.Its just not for me.I’d better be a special guest than a permanent member.I grew up going to church,so I have good values,what else do women want kante?

Lela on Fri, 7th Sep 2012 9:45 pm

Lol @ Thoentle n Mathaz, kutough guys, desperate times. E2J naye he was once a Mzalwane now he thinks he knows it all. Let me wait for a year ke. *sigh*

bumbum on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 12:44 am

Happy Birth Day maLelana may you grow wiser and stronger. God bless you and a blessed day.

Viva Virgo Viva (in malema’s voice)

Morning guys, I’m @ work and so sleepy aaaargh!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 7:02 am

Viva

I’m so annoyed so early in the morning, last night we were waytching soccer the next thing I know I wake up embhedeni alone.Man gone no note,no bbm nix nxxxx!

bongi on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 7:56 am

Happy birthday lela, have a blessed one…@ viva wht happened? Uyephi?

Sundani on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:45 am

Happy birthday @ Lela. Have a blessed one!!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:49 am

Uyekwakhe ntombi, ndizawuthini ke mna sana xa umtu adecider ukba avele ahambe nje angasho nokusho.Dammit!!!

Applepurple on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:59 am

Sorry NtomiYo,but ke duty calls.next weekend do the same.

Nthoentle on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 9:53 am

Happy birthday Lela!!! Pls get drunk nana, its your big 3.0!!!

@Nthombi-uphi mange? don’t reply in Zulu I don’t understand it much

zenzybear on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 10:13 am

anyone goin to the winefest in soweto?

Nandisile on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 10:21 am

My AG: Ngendlela engidinwe ngayo! That Gcina Madida chick who went missing and everyone on Twitter was looking for her? This is her response:

Gcina Madida @Geebaybay 7h
”The fuckery up in dis twitter joint tho…#BiatchMindYourBs *mxim*”

(Her bio says: ”MIA (Missing in action) ”)
Yes, make fun of ppl who cared.

To ppl who were worried abt her! Nxa! Found myself wishing she’d been found in a ditch. How can a mother go missing like that? Then be rude to all the people who cared enough to RT to help find her?! Lerato kganyago also seems pissed, telling this chick she should not delela ppl who were worried abt her.

Last time Matapa Maila’s sis was ‘missing’ (transporting drugs), Mabena’s daughter.. This makes it so hard for the next girl who goes missing, we’re all caring less and less. Iyeyisa leya ntombazane uGcina Madida yesses!

Rant over. Happy bday Miss Lela. And condolences to Miss Hope.. So sorry gal…

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 11:03 am

@Lela: Happy Best One!!! Not many Women reach 30 looking as beautiful as you are. Have a blast!!!

I have a feeling that @Jahara & @TreyScripture are one and the same person.

@Smang-Mang-Warona: Do you perhaps work at the FSB in Pretoria East?

Applepurple on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 1:12 pm

my ag: Sihle Bolani is such a chronic retweeter. oh and what is her Masters on?

miss sam on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 1:42 pm

Happy Birthday @ Lela!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 5:28 pm

@Nthoetle home babe, death by pls don’t reply in Zulu I don’t understand

His reason for leaving is he went out for a drink I was sleeping he was bored and not sleepy.He didn’t want to disturb #WTF? But ke I’m no longer mad, he’s made up for it

Hope u having a blast Lela

JG did u get my email?

Eyh2Jee on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 5:34 pm

haha shem @NtombiYom’Z : was it a one night stand nah? *hides* ;-D

sxylin on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 5:42 pm

eish @Ntombiyomzulu how long is it going to go on! does he atleast allow u to have a boyfriend? eish im sad on ur behalf yazi

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 7:10 pm

@Sxylin actually I’m over being sad becos he spends half of his time with me and he makes me the happiest woman ever and treats me like a Queen.

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 7:47 pm

@SexyLin: These bastards are SO controlling that they wouldn’t even want to let you have a side-Man. The truth is that Men who cheat want to feel like they are in control, in charge, the only ones in their mistresses life, hence they often object to them establishing other relationships. They’ll even treat the mistress like she’s legit, as @Ntombi puts it, like a ‘QUEEN’. Men want to feel like the real deal no matter what. What they are doing is never wrong, it makes us[except myself] feel good. Men are twisted, our fathers were twisted, our uncles and brother are twisted, our male friends are twisted, boyfriends and husbands are twisted. Men in general have a twisted way of defining worthiness. We[except myself] feel worthy when we treat our Women wrong. We are faithful as providers but suck big time when it comes to being faithful as lovers. The moment he finds out that our @Ntombi is dating another Man that’s when she’ll see his true colours & hypocrisy.

Eyh2Jee on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 7:56 pm

Amen @JG ,lmao ,dead by exceptions !

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:05 pm

So true Jg so true death by ‘except me’ heheheheheh

Miss T on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:13 pm

And we(women)give them the power.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:18 pm

One thing I’m sure of is that there is no way I wouldn’t jola if I meet someone I’m attracted to and connect with.Such a pity I haven’t and at the moment I’m happy where I am.Yazi I remember when this friend of mine was dating this married guy and I was totally against it and I would ask her why is she doing this to herself and her answer was’married man anempatho(treatuwell) and impatho they have.

I dated my xboyfriend for years I was never this happy,I was the main woman and I was never this happy.Life is unfair we just need to deal with it in a way that suits us

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:31 pm

@Miss T I think anything that works in one’s advantage,one allows it.Whether its right or wrong that is just life

Mathaz on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:38 pm

Men men men men…. U can never believe that i’m all alone after he told me not to go to my sister’s and he goes partying leaving me behind and the children are away.

OMG I almost got robbed of the jacket I was wearing today at Marabastad.Some guy approached me like really up close and just checked it out and left.I did not show him I was scared though.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:51 pm

Mathaz get a movie,mina I’m trying to study eish!!!
How did he try to rob u? Lol askies

Eyh2Jee on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:52 pm

eish @JG is gonna make all women stressed if not depressed *sigh* kanti senzeni weh @Ntombi? *singing Senzenina*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 8:56 pm

*singingwith@Ey2Gee* Lol

Mathaz on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 9:04 pm

He kept on coming up close and I did not open the car door and just let him check it out.

Miss T on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 9:30 pm

I don’t know if its just me but if a guy comes to me & tells me he likes/loves (whateva they say when approaching u)but is married. I would swear da hell at him, his ancestors & his ancestors ancestors coz MINA I would think he’s just disrespecting me #AboutMe

samlicious on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 10:53 pm

Good evening guys. Iam at work can you believe it.

Applepurple on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 11:36 pm

i hope they paying quadruple, you normal pay Sam.

Ms Android on Sat, 8th Sep 2012 11:52 pm

”Except me” lol.

Happy birthday Lela

bumbum on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 2:27 am

Yall are sleeping and snoring while I’m busting my ass up in here…mxm work ¤sigh¤

sxylin on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 11:00 am

@ntombi babe, I understand how good this man makes u feel, it’s only normal for us as women to be content when we r treated as queens but deep down the fact tht u don’t have a claim to him, tht self entitlement tht we as married women have towards our husbands, can be saddening, and all I can say is you will never meet any man as long as ur with this current one, you want to get married one day and the day you leave this man you will find tht he has been blocking ur real love! But then again we women tend to be in love with the idea of marriage not the actual work tht comes with it

TreyScriptures on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 5:13 pm

*Silent chuckle*

*poker face* -sets timer

#sigh

*walks past*

Eyh2Jee on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 6:10 pm

Lol @sam & @Bubum on being nocturnal beings.They’d better pay you what you deserve!
hahaha @TreyScriptures ,whatever that is!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 7:24 pm

I think I’m one of the woman who are just inlove with the idea of marriage.I’m yet to meet a woman that is happily ‘content’ married.*outoftopic* Why is it that most women who are married always advises us to not get married or they have comments succh as emshadweni kunzima.What changes once people get married,what makes people whom were deeply inlove with each other bore or take each other fdor granted when they married?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 7:45 pm

*Outoftopic* *offtopic* tomato,potato

Eyh2Jee on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 7:48 pm

marriage should be delayed Ntombi til you are about 35 (woman).Unless you wanna go the aisle more than once. *trueStory*

bumbum on Sun, 9th Sep 2012 8:32 pm

Hahaha@ emshadweni kunzima, I’m yet to see or expirience that bunzima that is more than I’ve endured in this relationship before we were even engaged.

@EJh usho ukuthi I’m still going to go down the aisle more than 3 times (got merried @ 23), angeke its hard planning a wedding whew.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:04 am

Ntombi once you are married, it is not about the 2 of u anymore, there are people outside the 2 of u tht always think they have a say in ur union! You have to compromise , not only for ur now life partner but for all the hangers on he brings with to the marriage and vice versa!

Miranda on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:34 am

marriage should be delayed Ntombi til you are about 35(woman). Unless you wanna go the aisle more than once. *trueStory*

Eh wena Eyh2jee, but can you imagine ka age 33/34 coming home to any empty house after work; Hai mna ngiyasaba.And the issue of kids, first born at 37, second born at 38,they would only go to tertiary when I am 60-my poor pension funds and retirement annuities.

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:28 am

1 shift down one more to go, going home now. I’ll catch up with you guys after a couple of hours. Ng’sayolala, hope your weekend was fab and wish you a super deeper week ahead.

Bumza

Smiles on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:37 am

All I’m going to say is don’t make other peoples experiences your own. You can listen but at the end of the day you cannot base your life being worried about other peoples’s bad experiences with marriage.Yes marriage is hard, but its harder for people who don’t put GOD first in their marriage &/or got married for the wrong reasons.

In terms of guys who don’t go to church. The longer a guy doesn’t accept christ as his Lord & savior the longer he’ll be hard of heart. This thing that E2j is saying about guys not going to church and only being interested at 50 is very misleading shem. Maaka fela. Pray for your men. The Bible doesn’t neccessarily prohibit marrying an unbeliever but it does warn against it. Don’t let your unbeliever make your own faith weak. On the flipside, you belief in GOD could rub off onto him.

I wrote a bit of an essay there, I know. Have a nice week everyone. GOD Bless ya’ll.

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 6:03 am

I am with u @MissT, I get soooo disgusted shame!

Black_Diamond on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 6:28 am

How dare Khaya kill that otis song last night?!I actually didn’t get the hype around him until last night + he seems humble(my observation). I Love I Love

IhateNickiminaj on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 6:51 am

Monde shocked me!!!!he was AMAZING!

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 7:43 am

Good morning, seems as though it’s going to be a very lovely week ahead.

Who’s going to DJ Fresh’s Spring Fiesta? Heard a ticket for the party is R1300, like really? Well, VIP or something. I am obviously living below the bread line cause I will never pay that much for attending a party.

Who was going on about Lulo and Fundi being back together? Lulo’s dating Claire, or “shagging” Claire, and many others. Men love their variety, where as woman love commitment. BAD combination.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 9:18 am

Good morning guys

@E2J I wish I was being paid trillions mara kuzolunga, one day is one day.

@Ntombi my darling here is little bit of homework for you. Take a note, all these people that always discourage people about not to get married, how hard marriage is and all that. Have you noticed they’re all still married and still holding on to that hardship?

@E2J about your statement, not to get married before 35 is misleading. Marriage is like any other relationship, you work hard for it to work for the both of you, you compromise to meet each other half way, you improvise and most times you sacrifice for it. Most of the time we woman are the ones that do all of the compromising and sacrificing and that id because after God we are the pillars behind our unions.

Smang-mang Warona on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 9:49 am

Hi JG: Nope – I’m based in Jozi.. Why do you ask?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 9:50 am

What changes once people get married,what makes people whom were deeply inlove with each other bore or take each other for granted when they married?

Isnt this the time where by iLove iba strong and u support each other no matter what…

Dont get me wrong guys its not that Im against marriage, actually I would love to get married someday, I was just asking nje cos most of my friends and family bayakhala or bayaDivorcer. Some want to divorce but they just scared of starting over. Fear of the unknown I guess…

Thabure on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 9:53 am

@ntombi I have sent you an email-are you ignoring me ?

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:04 am

Ntombi can I ask a question, you don’t have to answer if you’re uncomfortable.. When did you learn that your bf was married? Did you guys hook up first then discovered once you were too deep that he’s married OR was he upfront when he was making advances that he’s married and you decided to pursue it? Meaning that at that time you never knew what he was capable of in terms of the way he treats you..

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:08 am

People forget to have fun-they forget to dress up,go out and charm each other.Men leave their wives at home most of the time under the guise of them raising children.Women no longer look nice and come up with timetables for sex in turn both parties drift apart and then the marriage gets boring.

LadyMillion on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:11 am

@TreyS… i am, but its not DJ Freshs’
I work for one of the sponsors.. so its VVIP all the way

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:12 am

Ntombi get married, become wife number 2 or be the woman your bf re-marries then come back and let us know how married life is. Ngathi you’re desperate for marriage, nevermind a relationship.

My parents have been married 30 years now, my mom was 22, she once said she sees my father as her brother now. Whatever that means, actually wonder if they’re still intimate.. I wonder.

But what I do love is how independent she is, she doesn’t run after my dad, and I for one know my dad is a very loyal man to her. Now that I respect. What man in his right mind would leave his family for a woman who doesn’t pride herself though? Hopefully none.

I know I’ll marry more than 3 times, so for me marriage is disposable. Maybe cause I grew up with that institution being the norm, hence I can’t stand woman who are so desperate to be loved. I think its cause of absent fathers. So I don’t blame the likes of home wreckers, they didn’t get enough love from father figures.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:17 am

@LadyMillion, organize me a ticket nyana *hides*

I’m surprised it’s still at wild waters (boksburg) like the H2O! I though it was fresh’s brainchild.
50 DJ’s, water, booze, hot thangs prancing around in shorts & bikini’s, what more can one ask for? Its like bringing miami to Jozi for a day
#sigh

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:20 am

@Mathaz well said.

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:21 am

Marriage is like any other relationship,, the difference is that you cant just wake up and say its over i am moving on. There has to be valid reasons.

There is no way that a person in a relationship (boyfriend and girlfriend) can say that they are every day, every minute that they are deeply in love with their parners. Relationships need to be worked on and for, to ensure that spark is always there.

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:22 am

Morning ma bloggers amahle.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:23 am

hahahahahahaha mara Freckles wa delela he! hahahahaha Truth is for one to really wreck a home the other party has to be willing so who really is the home wrecker there! smh

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:26 am

Morning guys,i have a big problem ,boyfriend lives with the sister who has two kids,things i dont like kids that much and im not comfortable @ his place cos there are nannies,ngapha sister’s friends kids visiting,kuhlale kugcwele nje.This has been going for two years now. brother does not wanna move out now,cos the sister is unemployed .love my man but im now bored of his space and surroundings another thing we are not getting any younger

LadyMillion on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:29 am

Haha will see what i can do
Whoooooo its going to be awfully CRAAAAAZZZZYYYYY!!!!

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:29 am

eis though; a guy i know was married for 7 years, they didnt have kids and then he had a side dish; got divorced left wife and got a place elsewhere; side dish moved in, got preggars with a son, son is about a year now she gave birth to baby girl a few weeks ago! Still no marriage! im like dude whats up with that; he says, ” she doesnt lack for anything, she has everything she wants ! now im like even after 2 kids and he says he has gone down the marriage route and has no desire to do it again ! hehehehe so eish poor girl has everything but no certificate of marriage! not even lobola nyana just damages paid!

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:30 am

Fufu do you have a place of your own?

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:34 am

no sxylin i dont,i live@ home,i got to his place on weekends.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:35 am

Get a place of your own @fufu and have BF for slept overs.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:36 am

@fufu, then I think its time you mbget a place of your own.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:38 am

Sam is right Fufu ; push the situation a bit;

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:41 am

@fufu..the fact thet you stay with your mom and able to do sleepovers with you BF it means you grown up, best you find a place for yourself.

Smang-mang Warona on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:47 am

I once dated a married man.. for all of two seconds (two weeks) before I came to my senses. I kept thinking to myself, why would I put myself through that because I’m too young to be dating a married man as if I have no other options out there. There are lots of men out there – I could always find another one who was actually available. And I did.. a year and a half later lol! Even though that didn’t work out, I knew gore I had saved myself some heartache and most importantly DRAMA!

I don’t judge girls who date married men but it seems like such admin to me.. you stay in some kind of limbo and you’re on borrowed time until the wife emerges and fucks up your little fairytale thats based on lies.. to much admin I tell you..

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:47 am

@sxylin, Mr will eventually marry that woman if he wants his kids to have a straight path. Nothing sucks like giving birth to a bastard then correcting it ngama damages. Kids wonder why mommy has a different surname to theirs…
I want to be lobala’d before popping brats outta my tight Nicki Minaj first, don’t want to be ravaged and be damaged goods nobody wants damaged ish. But are there men out there who take a woman with 3 kids from 3 different daddies in and make honest women out of them? Now that would be a MAN alright!

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:48 am

guys i suggested that we both move out,y shud be the only one who pushes the situation,im also helping a lot @ home and naye kubo ,athi we cant afford three households,ngapha im getting a car for convenience.On the other hand i still have space and privacy nyana @ home.

Guys i broke down this morning cos by 5 am the nanny was already making noise.

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:53 am

I’ve been wondering why it’s so quiet and where everybody is, kanti ni la?

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:54 am

@fufu..”y shud be the only one who pushes the situation” are’nt you the one complaining about your skwiza’s kids? akere your man yena he doesnt have any problem what so ever staying with his sister and the kids?

It is up to you too do something about it or you will complain and cry every weekend.

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:54 am

eish Fufu…..

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:55 am

uo to you ..i meant

Applepurple on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:56 am

@ Fufu Aibo! who is paying for the nanny if the sister is umemployed.if your bf is paying, why would an unemployed person need a nanny?

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:59 am

Good question!!! Why is there a nanny and sister’s friend’s kids visiting someone unemployed?

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:59 am

it’s not solely the woman’s choice in this, these married men think they’re 20, they date younger girls cause these young girls are naïve, boost these mens ego’s, open their legs wide for these guys and the guys relive their youth. Imagine a 20 year old boy with a lot of money, that’s married men to their nyatsi’s. Yes this man has a home, with wife and kids, if he’s sleeping over at Nyatsi’s place he probably told his wife he’s going to “cape town” or “Durban” for the night and will return the next day. Wifey stays put, kanti her man just has an itch to scratch from his other source, until he gets bored there, then he’ll find himself another victim. So it’s a vicious cycle. What worries me is the nyatsi, now since she was treated as a “queen” daarso, she’ll now date another one who’ll make her “feel” like a queen and so on and so on, 10 years later, she’s got secret (illegit) kids with a few married men

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:59 am

@ Fufu Aibo! who is paying for the nanny if the sister is umemployed.if your bf is paying, why would an unemployed person need a nanny?
Thank you Applepurple, thats my question.@Fufu, i think your boyfreiend akanankinga yena with all this.Get your own place dear.

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:00 am

@fufu, i’m with blindfold. I’m sure he’s fine with the sitch becoz it makes sense to him – his sis is unemployed (ndicela nithethe naye a prevente, ndiya bazi , bathanda gabi ukuyenza abenye bantwana ba ngaba afforde) and hez breadwinning. nawe u’r also helping out alot at home. it sounds impractical to him. unless u can afford to move out. but then u must be moving out for yourself. i’m assuming u’r getting the car for YOUR convenience and u’r not tryna say for the sake of ur rship.

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:01 am

Good question @Applepurple.

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:04 am

Trey o fetsa pelo
I genuinely think that women who date married men do so freely, sometimes based purely on their emotions and absolutely no expectations…what do we call a 35 year old nyatsi? She has made it, has more than enough money and material possesions mara her heart says it wants this man who has a family…these labels tsa society dia bora because no two situations are the same.

Botshelo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:06 am

Ladies

I have stopped my contraceptives and the scarlet wave is back. I had a normal (light to medium) flow for about 5 days.
Now i’ve been spotting for almost 5 days.

is this a normal thing or must i go to Dr Lebelo (my gynae)

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:08 am

Shu! Such a heavy discussion. *continues observing*

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:12 am

the kids babby daddy is paying the nanny.the sister uthanda izinto angi understandi nami ukuthi i nanny eyani,the lady goes out every weekend i think thats the only purpose of the nanny. this is the 5th nanny cos uhlale aboxosha.

@ Monei the car is for my convenience,cos njalo he has drop me off and pick me up.

Botshelo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:16 am

@Fufu, you need to talk to your man and see how much it will cost you if you were to stay together and send the unemployed sister back home (I am assuming they are not staying home) because already uBF is assisting financially at his home as you do yours. So it will be less expensive for him to ondla his sister, the kids and the nanny plus the family.

And maybe if you staying together, you wont need to buy a car as yet. you can save for a house deposit (your house!) cause he will be driving you around.

I hope this makes sense

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:21 am

Okay @fufu now I see. Your BF sisters is a spoiled brat eqhele ukusetyenzelwa ngamadoda, now she leaves on maintainance money. Shame, in that case usezosebenza uBF wakho until she meets another Themba *Khanyi’s X* and then she will move on.

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:22 am

Fufu…It seems as if your boyfriend cares deeply about his family.Get your own place he will visit and dont make him choose between you and them,he might shock you.

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:23 am

@ Botshelo they stay @ homea,both parents died.

ya guys im already thinking ukuthi yimi nje engi problem u guy doesnt.

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:26 am

@fufu..now you are feeling guilty? find your own place and tell your man that you dont feel comfortable with her sister and the kids and the nanny being there all the time.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:26 am

eish death by me voting twice every hour on work DSTV profile and my personal profile. Shame I had to vote for Monde his performance did something good to my soul last night. I have been voting for Tshidi every week. But this week I feel Monde is in danger and I need to vote for him.

Applepurple on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:27 am

the sister is Nomthwalo to you and the bf,nci nci nci! you better find her a man to marry her soon *hides* otherwise you will never be happy.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:27 am

married men ne! @loulou hunnie; eventually it would be a problem to be with a married man; even theee ultra female who has it all wants to be loved and spend countless nights with her man hhayi oCinderella that have to go home xa u 12 ashaya yhuuuuu hayi

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:28 am

@ Botshelo that true yaz if we together there wont be much expenses.

@Mathaz ya i wont let it go down to choosing cos it definately wont be me okhethwayo.

@ Samlicious you shud have heard her giving the new nanny rules.smh.u spoilt and knows ukuthi ubhuthi wakwe wil jump @ whatever she wants.

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:33 am

blindfold i have.u sister uthanda izinto before new nanny came there was no nanny for a few weeks ,so she will go out and not come back you will find bf changing nappies, imagine by the time he gets his kids uyobe akhathele.

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:36 am

Botshelo, did you get an answer re: 5 days light flow and 5 days spotting? It’s the story of my life and I hate it

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:38 am

Let’s move anything goes to the first post of : list of winners VMA’s. Too many coments already here. There it’s kind of a fresh slate

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:38 am

aowa @fufu….your man changing nappies tsa a sister who’s gone out to have a good time? That is soo wrong. Didn’t think that the kids are that young

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:39 am

oyho shame @fufu I feel nfor you BF

@sxylin death by aboCinderella hehehheehe

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:43 am

Lol at abo Cinderella who have to leave when the clock strikes 12

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:45 am

guys on the lighter side of things,on friday i went to that shop yase noord to get a bag,that one where a certain that Melody Motha;s friend was seen by gay guys,that shop has ama Loubotins and the other ones that dont have heels,yini Zanotti or what what ,i had a good laugh.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:46 am

LOL at Cindarella!! haaa haaaa! Rather sleep your life away and wait to be woken by Prince charming’s deep kiss than be uCindarella and go back to the harsh reality when the carriage reverts to a pumpkin!

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:47 am

death by abo cinderella.kwaaaaaaaa

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:47 am

Ohkay I happen to go out a lot with my partner and wherever we are I see married men with beautiful women.Tjo shem side chicks look great and make an effort to have fun.Most married women change and become stuck up.Side chicks are easy going and go with the flow.Yes he married you mara ya’ll are too serious.

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:47 am

@fufu where exactly is this shop? Like what cnr is it on or what is it opp. Nami ngifun’ ukubona

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:48 am

Kwaaa Fufu, so which knock off did YOU get? *straight face*

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:51 am

Mathaz, not all wives are like that, some men leave the likes of bo Kim K at home and go for women who look similar to their wives, what do you call that? This excuse that men cheat because women don’t make an effort after they’re married is tenuous..

If you had to find out that your hubby is cheating, while uyazitshela ukuthi umuhle and you’re always looking fresh, what would your defence be ke?

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:52 am

The way I love my space, @Fufu which means your bf’s sister is living in a hotel where she come and goes whenever it suits her. I will flip 3 times if I find my bf changing nappies.

Kwaaaaa@ the Cartoon Cindarella …

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:53 am

@ Ms Zie,ise cnr von willeigh and bree,its 3 shops, two are for clothes and the other is for bags and shoes.They have nice things shem.

kwaaaaaaaaaa @ Smatsatsa i dont buy branded staff.

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:55 am

Thanks babe. Know the shop, it has pretty things *not hiding*

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:55 am

@Ms.Zie take me when you go please!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:56 am

Fufu are they cheap? Will I find pretty things if I go? Or should I stick to Mr Price?

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:59 am

Morning Family! *Blows kisses to everyone*

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:01 pm

I just had s***….*singing* my husband is on leave so bengidojile ngiyocansa.

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:01 pm

Blows back @Naonce

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:02 pm

@Mathaz my dear you will never understand until you are a married woman yourself, till then just be a open minded spectator.

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:03 pm

@Smatsatsa I am one who will never put blame to a woman for her man’s wayward ways. If he wants to stray he will do so regardless of how great you look.

Looking great is not about a beautiful face only.Let’s be real though have you ever seen a dodgy side chick???

Men cheat for different reasons but as a wife do all that you can that should he decide to pursue another he can think that he’s got something better at home.

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:03 pm

Hello Noance.

@ Loulou they are cheap but not Mr price cheap.like i get my blazers for R300 amd the bags nabo abo 250,and really stunning stuff,and when people stop me angaz nokuthi ngithi where did i buy the cos i cant lie.

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:04 pm

@sexymm we congratulate you sisi…….*throws confetti*

@Ms.Zie and @Loulou eish I dont know jhb central but I wouldnt mind going to check it out. I do know where Bree is though……

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:05 pm

Hey @fufu…. Now you making me want to go see that shop vele. lol

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:06 pm

@Mathaz my dear you will never understand until you are a married woman yourself, till then just be a open minded spectator.

I thought Mathaz is married?

Angenoir on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:06 pm

@fufu funny u mention that-when I saw those shops and went in I also thought “so this must be where Ms Manche was spotted”

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:07 pm

Waving for @Noance.

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:08 pm

lol Noance.e garage nogal.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:09 pm

Smatsatsa says: If you had to find out that your hubby is cheating, while uyazitshela ukuthi umuhle and you’re always looking fresh, what would your defence be ke?

#lazy laugh#

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:12 pm

@ Noance you should go yaz.if you like things you will neva go wrong.But ke dont buy fake Loubotins ne.

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:14 pm

Yaaaaaaaay! I wanna go, I am on leave in a few weeks time so I can go during the week *sideways moonwalk*

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:15 pm

Eish i’m sorry to all married women ke,i dont mean to offend you guys,I was just being real.

@Sam. I have been to my husband for 10 years,married for 6 mara i’ll nevertheless take your advise and be a spectator.

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:17 pm

Hehehehheheheheeh @sexymm talk about spicing up one’s marriage! You go girl…..

@fufu Hhahahhahhahha tjo never, imagine, I am not a brand person. I’m gona go check it out shame!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:18 pm

Hey Noance
I am really open minded, if it looks good and the quality is also good, I will buy it

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:28 pm

@Loulou I agree with you, I am also like that. As long as it suits me, good quality then I shall buy.

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:35 pm

I work in town, and the way I’m soo lazy to check out any of these shops, it’s a lot of work shem. But I can tell you that I’ve seen a lot of clothes on their windows in some boutiques in Sandton and Zara!

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:35 pm

@Mathaz/@Smatsatsa: You ALL are so wrong. Men don’t cheat because they are partners aren’t fulfilling their standards. Men cheat because their egos are so big that one Woman can’t satisfy him. It has nothing to do w/ what Women aren’t doing.

Cheating is a pleasure drive for us. What I want to tell Women to know is, cheating has become simpler and more flexible. Don’t think that because your Man is home before 6, he isn’t cheating. Most of us(Men) have found ways to schedule our extra-relations affairs into their daily rosters. We meet during the office hours, wipe ourselves, then come back to our @SexyMM’s/@Sexylin’s/@Shandu’s/@Jahara’s/@BumBum’s/@Samlicious etc. as if nothing has happened. Cheating is never about you as the Woman, it’s always about my desires NOW. The ego is driven by instant gratification. The EGO drives a Man’s dick, not you as the main Woman.

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:37 pm

Thnx Fufu! i will pop by nami to see. thou i have a problem paying close to R200 for gonchi stuff. but will check it and support if the quality commands such.

Phela if the Nike kit ya the brazil team is makoya yet rips before they even start playing, then all things from china/asia/whereever are fair game.

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:39 pm

true ladies as long as it is good quality,im not fussy ngesitolo.

ha ha ha ha ha @sexymm ukuncasa.

@Angenoir that shops nje iyi lesa skeem.lol

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:39 pm

@Vesa, i also work in town. let us motivate one another one day. how abt we wear flats one day, meet up sumwhere and go check it out together? anyone else working in town to join?

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:40 pm

hayi JG, no exceptions this time?!?! so u’r just like the rest of them??? lol!

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:42 pm

Cheating is never about you as the Woman, it’s always about my desires NOW. The ego is driven by instant gratification. The EGO drives a Man’s dick, not you as the main Woman.

Thanks for your honesty JG!

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:44 pm

can u imagine a man cheating on sexymm? like she dodges work to have sex in her garage nogal? he? smh !

Angenoir on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:49 pm

Lol ja fufu and the “what i wore today” people/pics must stop making us dom by namedropping wrongly,as Vesa said we see these things in every second shop in smallstr.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:49 pm

JG I don’t think your read my comment to understand, I was saying to Mathaz ukuthi that’s never a reason for a man to cheat so she musn’t put the blame on women who let themselves go.. capich?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:50 pm

Hello boo @Noance

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:52 pm

I really envy you Women. You can wear practically anything from any shop as long as it’s good quality and looks good. I don’t see @Manny or @LustaGP or @KevCare coming here to tell the fellaz about a cheap store that deals in half-price imports anytime soon. It’s really expensive being a Black Man. The average jean(cheap) is around R700, a sweater is R500 – R700 depending on where you get it, a belt is R300 to R 500, a pair of nice shoes is R900, a pair of shades is R600, a wallet is R300, a tie is R200, socks R200. All together +- R3K for 1 day’s outfit. Being a Man is fucken expensive, and the problem is our EGO. We purchase things from our EGO’s dictates.

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:53 pm

When someone decides to cheat, they decide that. Whether their partner is lacking in some department or not. They make a concious decision to cheat and be unfaithful, they are the first point of correction, with themselves. They have some issues that need to be dealt with before pointing or blaming someone else. You could give your husband sex, while hanging from the ceiling but if their going to cheat, their going to cheat. And husbands too, you could give her, her hearts desire but she’ll still go out and cheat on you. people need to stop looking outside for reason and excuses for unfaithfulness, it starts with one seed of thought or a moment of temptation.

What if all women or men refused to partake in cheating? It all start with you as an individual…..

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:55 pm

@Samlicious hey love….

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:55 pm

While on clothes, where can I get a sexy dress? My sister’s wedding is 2 weeks from now and I don’t even have a clue of what to wear.. And no YDE and forever new please, their clothes don’t please me much..

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:57 pm

you vs your..

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 12:58 pm

well said @JG

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:02 pm

*BIG SMOOCH FOR JG*

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:07 pm

Yazi there is this woman in my office from Bulgaria that is testing my patience! She must thank her Bulgarian ancestors, I am a born again Christian. I would have mopped the floor with her wrinkled, unhappy, ashy face!!!!

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:08 pm

I did say if he wants to cheat he will do so mara ke as a woman entertain your man.Not that he will not stray but do what you have to do as a wife to keep the fire burning.

Believe the truth that makes you sleep at night.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:09 pm

Thabure I sent you an email hawu!!!

Smatsatsa, when i met him I didnt know he was married, I found out he was married when I was already in the relationship

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:18 pm

@Naonce sorry nana but I had to laugh at this ¤You could give your husband sex, while hanging from the ceiling but if their going to cheat, their going to cheat.¤

Kanene as you’ll be hanging there yena hell be in the air? Tjo

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:19 pm

Believe the truth that makes you sleep at night. <—– im sorry but i have to ask what does that mean? LOL

Thabure on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:23 pm

@ntombi ..tx I got it,,,,it gave me poins..now I seem connected ..winks …

@jg uve got a point booi…being a guys is expensive…s satedays outfit nje will kill
white vest R299
khakhi pants R499
all stas(cheapest takkie)R400
spot: R150

and that time you are dessed to go nowehere …Kunzima

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:27 pm

You could give your husband sex, while hanging from the ceiling but if their going to cheat, their going to cheat

kwaaaa!!!

Thabure on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:28 pm

dressed vs dressed …alutaaaaaa

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:30 pm

I also get some of my things from that shop in town **NOT HIDING** (shoes & bags NOT BRANDS though)
And believe me when I say ALMOST ALL OF THOSE BAGS & SHOES THE “IT” CREW ON TWITTER BRAG ABOUT ARE FROM THERE.
I actually met up with the owner not so long ago, its a young Nigerian guy he buys from overseas and trust me when I say he is popular amongst celebrities “them fashionista’s” I saw them celeb ladies myself!

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:37 pm

@Nerlee….are you serious?

We’ve always known that the brands they wear are knock-offs, but that they got them from cnr Bree and Von what what tjo!!!!

Mathaz on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:39 pm

That men cheat coz of his ego @sexylin and that my lack of intimacy,affection,appearance and attractiveness has got nothing to do with it.

Botshelo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:39 pm

@Fufu, ngiyabona

But then if you both are staying home, you guys can get your own place. then you assist at your respective homes according to needs mara ya bona lo sister in law to be wakho, udalela shem. she needs tough love.

you are not a problem, you just need to talk and have some sort of agreement

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:41 pm

Bayahleba abantu keleli_office. Ngiyabonga Jesu.

Eyh2Jee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:42 pm

Kwaaaaa @Monei: you have to remind @JG about his exceptions!
i want that sex from the ceiling ya @Noance one day *I promise not to cheat*

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:43 pm

can u imagine a man cheating on sexymm? like she dodges work to have sex in her garage nogal? he? smh !…LOL sexylin and he did cheat.busted.After I broke my ankle trying the pole dancing shit.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:43 pm

@sxylin it mean woman must keep on believing that they are not the source behind their husbands cheating *anyways mina ndiyibone isitsho njalo* Yha nhe PHD right sista.

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:51 pm

@Vesa that guy lives in Houghton, we met in Rosebank(u know SA celebs love Rosebank) every second celebrity came to greet him. We then went to his store in town, some famous lady (wont mention names) who sells “imported shoes and bags” was waiting for him.

But its difficult to find parking though, better go on a Sunday , nama celebs aya Sundays cause its a bit quiet!

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:52 pm

@Nerlee… Is it the same one on Bree & Von Weiligh?

lulu boo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:53 pm

I was once a victim of this married men ntoni-ntoni. But he was not married he had a stay in girfriend with kids.I realised that im worth way more than that. I got out. a year and a half later i got married. Then i found out that he was dating other girls as well or let me say half of our town, and young girls. the same guy is now dating some celebrity and they have a son together .So some guys are just serial daters nje!I hope he changed his ways shem for her sake coz i love her music.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:54 pm

Anybody know where Bobby Motaung is after his arrest? Is he out on bail?

Regarding the glam squad, nobody should have a problem where these ladies shop, whether it’s in the gutters or they order from Donatella Versace herself, it’s alright, the problem is, they shouldn’t guys fake ish as the original. Isn’t Melody Motha’s dad a mining mogul? Her hubby owns an IT company, but could somebody get her another pair of Louboutins, those black boots are boring now. A true fashionista isn’t in possession of 1 ot 2 pairs of those.
They should also quit borrowing each other clothes. Keeping up with the Joneses isn’t child’s play. Our standard is a little low I should admit. Another thing is black girls… Smh! They drive a mini or beemer, rent an apartment somewhere in the north and *boom* they assume they’ve “made it”.

Let’s build each other rather, own property and drive cars that cost more than a milli! Then we can be awed. For now, it’s all building blocks, so don’t let it get to our heads.

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:56 pm

@Ms Zie I know its bree and what what, Its next to Noord. He has two stores next to each other, one for clothes and the other for shoes and bags.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:56 pm

@Lulu boo are you talking about that ANC lawyer? Zonke’s baby daddy?!

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:56 pm

We then went to his store in town, some famous lady (wont mention names) who sells “imported shoes and bags” was waiting for him.

But its difficult to find parking though, better go on a Sunday , nama celebs aya Sundays cause its a bit quiet!
heheeeee…..ya neh!

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 1:57 pm

Guys vs guise

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:00 pm

What happened to bloggers dishing it out like it is? Now we have to play the guessing game about the celebs Nerlee saw and the singer with a child. Haai man

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:00 pm

@lulu boo I hope thats not my fav girl you talking about. I will die if anyone would hurt her *ndiyamthanda shame*

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:02 pm

@smatsatsa I was referring to Zonke as well, qha ke nam ndaqondba mandiqhubekeke ngamacodes LOL

Botshelo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:02 pm

@vesa, not yet

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:04 pm

hahahaha @sexymm its rough ne!

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:05 pm

kwaaaa @Vesa mna I wont mention names simply because I have no problem/issues with them celebs buying clothes from downtown. Even though I like reading about them (gossip), I just cant write/gossip about people’s lives!

lulu boo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:08 pm

lol Sema yes how did u know?

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:14 pm

The more money a man has the more likely he is to be married and the more likely he is to have side-dishes at his disposal. He won’t just have ONE side-dish, he’ll have plenty, in different area codes.

I recently met a very dodge character. What an irresistable man, he works at the OLD mutual head office in Sandton. Well polished to the tee! What a smooth operator. Am I glad I found a few shocking details about him before finding myself trapped in a con of a fairy tale. Maybe a few ladies here are his victims. All that glitters is not always gold.

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:21 pm

OMG! i know those shops! i was dizzy man. actually saw some cute pants there but they wudnt fit me properly. mxim. mara the cheap skate in me refused to pay R220 for sum pretty top with a built in chain/necklace.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:25 pm

Cant we talk about anything else besides money and the men that have it *deep sigh* we all going to be like Gcina Mdida whatever her name is ! pleaaaaaaaaaaase i beg

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:27 pm

Asikhohlwa la ekhaya…

?F8th on Mon, 3rd Oct 2011 6:30 pm

Omw kanti Tumi is such a dog. Its a gud thng i was nt so serious wth hm n to thnk he kept sayin he wants to marry me . I shud realy go gt mysef tested in the nxt 3 months. He had told me tht hm n Zonke r jus business patners kanti he is busy shaggin her wthout a condom even. I practicly live @ his place in Plk. Wow im stil dumb founded.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:27 pm

?Nol@M on Mon, 3rd Oct 2011 6:54 pm

F@8 r u da wife? Neo or nawe nje ungomunye wezitshatsha?*with Kenneth Mashaba’s voice* Lmao

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:27 pm

?F8th on Mon, 3rd Oct 2011 8:16 pm

@ Lala no i dnt knw the person u talkin abt. We’ve been togetha 4 nearly 2 years. Bt i guess its ova nw.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:28 pm

?mbali m on Tue, 4th Oct 2011 6:57 pm

Tumi=whore!!! I hope he gets what’s coming to him! Ladies be aware of Tumi!!
Naledi Get out now!Its a shame bcoz Naledi knew she wasn’t the only one and stayed!!Glad my friend left him

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:28 pm

?Shwashwi on Tue, 4th Oct 2011 11:09 am

He he he and apparently the millionaire Tumi doesn’t condomise I think he is on a mission shame on every body bonking him

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:30 pm

Who saw the 7 headed snake? Oh my goodness gracious, I am traumatized. It was found in india. Scary stuff

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:32 pm

kwaaa! @smatsatsa you went digging! I remembered those posts too well

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:35 pm

Please describe what this Tumi looks like. What’s his surname?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:36 pm

@smatsatsa ke BOSSO shame.

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:36 pm

tjo banna! ke a le tshaba ma JCer! thnx Smatsatsa! tltltltl

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:37 pm

Feeling so dizzy

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:38 pm

@Trey because I like things. Just googled it. I’ve got chills all over. I must pray before sleeping tonight. So freaky

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:39 pm

Waitsi some married friend of me says he understands why married men like hitting on me, he says I just have that face…I was so touched!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:39 pm

*friend of mine

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:41 pm

@Ms.Zie Akambi lo Tumi *runs*, just google Tumi Mokoena, so @lulu boo nawe you were shagging this Tumi guy?

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:42 pm

whhhhhhhhhat face Loulou hahahahahaaha! im going out clubbing tonite! yes on a Monday and i want to buy a little Gold dress

Ms.Zie on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:44 pm

@Smatsatsa Thanks, Its not who I thought it was. Was thinking of another filthy rich sferb Tumi. That guy!!!!

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:47 pm

yhuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu @Smatsatsa hahahah those ears though eish!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:47 pm

ba thathe Sxylin! Go on with your bad self!!!!!!!!!
@Sxylin app I look like I can keep a secret…wow!

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:48 pm

People most of you are using AKA’s that aren’t known elsewhere. We practically don’t know your arses. So please SHARE mgosi as it is.

@TreyScript: Kindly help girls out there by revealing this nasty big-wig from Old Mutual Sandton. Give us his name so that we can send emails/bbm’s/texts about this sore arse.

So Zonke’s BF is one hell of a bastard… I’m going to tell her on Twitter, if she doesn’t already know.

*rushes off to Twitter*

Why don’t we have a new feature called, ‘#ExposeTheBastard’. We broadcast the names of people we know are cheats as purple messages/announcements on BBM. Like this: ‘#ExposeTheBastard » @LustaGP’. This is just an example, don’t take it seriously.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:50 pm

Sxylin, I’ll join you on that. Wonder if I can teleport myself, you could be anywhere on earth phela. Yet some of us have been trapped in this prison called ZA.

Anybody know of people/companies hiring?

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:54 pm

@Sxylin app I look like I can keep a secret…wow! <—– hahahahahahahaaha death OMG! come @treyscriptures! im meeting with Tshepi in a bit *wink*

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:54 pm

Googled “Tumi Mokwena” booom< Zonke appears.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 2:57 pm

yhu indlebe zikaTUMI reminds me of my sons ears.

Noance on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:17 pm

Tumi Mokoena looks like a praymantis…..

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:20 pm

Tjo, tumi dude looks like E.T a lil.

@sxylin I just emailed you.

@JG, can’t expose this dude, he’ll have me killed iyoh. I’ll be messing up his swag, but he’s cell number ends ka 8167 for those worried or might be suspecting

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:22 pm

just guys izindaba ezingaka in just an ho

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:25 pm

just came back from ocean basket ,i called to make an order they told me ukuthi they dont deliver today cos of the special ,blah blah blah,asked my white colleague to call,then the “terms and conditions” did not apply.

let me go google Tumi.

Kusihlwa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:25 pm

Sho, kuyashisa layikhaya today nneh. @JG I got married at 21, I pray there wont be any divorce.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:28 pm

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:20 pm

Tjo, tumi dude looks like E.T a lil.

@sxylin I just emailed you. hahahahaha wena Trey Scriptures u are losing ur credibility here on JC! I will expose u *big celebrity friend hahahaaha

snapshot on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:30 pm

yo you guys don’t tell me you talking about Tumi Mokoena, a lawyer originally from Limpopo,

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:32 pm

@snapshot…..ba khuluma ngaye

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:33 pm

Vesa in my minds eye u typed that so fast nje u want the news ! you know the way *refreshes for Snapppy’s response

Monei on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:37 pm

lol@sxylin’s comment abt Vesa’s speedy response. *also refreshes for snappy’s response

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:38 pm

Washa, umgosi seliyoshona. Just a nap nje sekunje eJC

Letebele on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:39 pm

Tumi and Zonke broke up.

But Zonke likes things though. She took Tumi from another singer knowing very well they were an item.

She’s known to be a high maintenance kinda woman so I guess she knew why she was going in. His money has worked wonders for her.

Still don’t understand why she had to go and give him a baby though? Was she hoping he would change?

I hope he’s not tapping Zamajobe since he was showering her with his money not so long ago. Getting her a car and everything. He’ll go all out for you,treat you like a queen and let you spend all his money. Kodwa ke usile! He’s full of himself,uyadelela. He obviously believes money makes the women go crazy.

Kusihlwa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:41 pm

Yoh, mgozi galore, uphi u Mamabear azosi updater kngaye no lulo?

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:42 pm

Can I have his number? Lenna I would like a German car…
Yazi the world we live in! My little sister says such guys are called “budgeys” – They do not have a budget

Botshelo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:42 pm

Tumi Mokwena’s facebook profile pic! *clapstwice* #loveisindeedblind!

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:45 pm

Lol @Monei and sxylin…..you know this!

And look wheremgosi is coming from, an unlikely source called @Letebele

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:49 pm

@Letebele kaloku giving Tumi a kid ensures her that the money will keep flowing! so he will maintain her upkeep disguised as money for the baby ! it works hahahaha

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:49 pm

@TreyScript: Sweetie then tell me what he does at OM. Only his occupation, nothing more.

@Snapshot: Don’t tell me you went to law school w/ Tumi???

Does anyone want to play my game, #ExposeTheBastard??? It’s for your own good hawu!!! Anyone??? You can send me the names on my email add and I’ll take care of the rest.

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:51 pm

@letebele yho uphethe kumgosi otshisa ka so kanti. Who is the that singer that Zonke took Tumi from?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:53 pm

eish @JG I wish I had hot mgosi i was gonna play your game. Hayi mna shame my middle name is Boris ndiyabora shame hehehheehe

snapshot on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:53 pm

guys i know Tumi very well, i am laughing so hard, im like hehehe i never thought the JC’s will finally find someone i personnally know, anyway you have said it all there’s nothing to add

sexymm on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:54 pm

Ha ha ha JG mara….

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:55 pm

heheheeh Zamajobe *claps once nangoku she is still a lover of things

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:56 pm

Kwaaaaa @Boris!
So I am curious – these men just give you money nje? Smh!

snapshot on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 3:57 pm

@Letebele you know him very well even Thandiswa Mazwai was once a close friend,

Tumi has a customary wife with 3kids, that woman if she can find you with Tumi she will beat the hell out of you, Tumi is scared of that woman.

I know a girl who had to use the bathroom window running away from the Ninja wife, that was drama at its best.

whoever wants Tumi’s number is easy to get them, he doesn’t hide his numbers but know that if you meet him walking with another girl, he will pretend not to know you, jut like that.,

Fezzy on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:01 pm

@JG…I know someone. He is not famous but he has a well paying job, drives 2 nice cars and uhlala eMidrand.

snapshot on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:01 pm

keep the digging going but Tumi will deny everything you wrote here, he is an attorney of note, never agrees to anything
i don’t blame every girl he has dated cos he has thousand cars and houses, you can go to his house and you will never find a straw of hairpiece or ponds,none at all, that’s how he operates, he will treat you like a queen, and HE DOESN’T CONDOMISE, don’t ask me how i know this, but he is not friendly to condoms

i have to work now guys, i will read later in bed, with Tumi kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:02 pm

HELL NO JG! usile wena, ufuna ukusimoshela imishado! LOL!!! I just imagined sending you the name then I later find ou that my man is batting for the other team! Kwaaaaaa! I’m not ready now.. But trust me, every lady will need your service one day, just not now..

LOL, I decided to go crazy on my man izolo, he wen’t to a funeral far away and came back late, when I saw him I just told him to kindly undress as I wanna smell his totolozi to check if it’s been playing outside without me! He was so shocked! But he knew I was just kidding.. And I sniffed it anyway! Haaaaaa haaaaaaaa!

Fezzy on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:02 pm

And he is married.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:03 pm

Sanpshot what an anticlimax! you are literally a wet blanket uyevha nontombi!!!!!!!!! hahahahahaha all this refreshing ! mcim does he work with the president’s office by anychance?

Bohlez on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:03 pm

@ the Fufu, A friend once took me to those shops in downtown, shooooo I was shocked to see even clothes that most celebs wear on t.v, nothing wrong with that and they are so cheap…. I bought a nice dress, similar to the one Tumi Foster is wearing on the pic, mara there is no parking and ke spthithi phithi nje, maybe I should go on sunday * not hiding* check link for Tumi’s dress, sorry BS

http://www.google.co.za/imgres?imgurl=http://mikastefano.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/tumi-voster.jpg%3Fw%3D640&imgrefurl=http://mikastefano.wordpress.com/category/events/page/3/&usg=__be20-v9-d4-mttFyOPGVOrUAQAk=&h=640&w=480&sz=38&hl=en&start=34&zoom=1&tbnid=lIGee4Emi90BAM:&tbnh=137&tbnw=103&ei=Au9NUJWcKpSp0AXjlYD4BA&prev=/search%3Fq%3Dtumi%2Bmokoena%26start%3D20%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN%26rlz%3D1R2ADFA_enZA495%26biw%3D1280%26bih%3D563%26tbm%3Disch%26prmd%3Dimvns&itbs=1

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:04 pm

But imagine being cheated on by someone with those ears? Haaai, I refuse shem!

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:05 pm

hshhahahahahahaha Smatsatsa yooooooooooooh sies on u poor guy

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:06 pm

LOL Bohlez, I just opened the link, nice dress.. but why does Tumi look scared in this pic?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:06 pm

yho @snapshot you made @letebele sound like amateur.

This Tumi guy and these woman that sleep with aboZonke and all abazoyiki izinto shame nhe. He doesnt condomise and sleep around YHO. This is sad hey. Uphi uNtsiki Mazwai azobaxelela hehehehehhe

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:09 pm

@Bohlez beautiful dress babes. I will definitely make means to go that shop xa ndiseJozi and that will next century to come.

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:17 pm

@smatsatsa kaloku uTumi feels the need to look like Melody and alles ! She is forever sucking something in ! yhuuuuuu if there is a kid that annoys me; trust me its her! She has no original bone in her !

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:18 pm

@JG all I’m willing to reveal is that he manages trust portfolio’s, before I get exposed *side eyes sxylin* lol

And guys, I refuse to believe what yol are saying re: Zonke!
She looks so innocent. And who is Zahara dating? Lol…

You know, some women I’d expect to date “proper” guys, then they parade some funny looking midgets. I have this gorgeous friend, who always goes on about her bf, her bf is super wealthy, he just got her a house in Sandhurst, imagine a 20 year old girl with her own HOUSE in Sandhurst… Well, I met the bf one time, come to think of it, he looks like this Tumi Mokoena character
O_o actually..

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:18 pm

@Fezzy: Woza Gal!!! easylove@webmail.co.za

@Sammy: Come on now. Nobody will know it’s YOU.

Guy’s it doesn’t have to be a famous person, as long as it’s mgosi that we can use to ‘warn’ other unsuspecting kids.

@TreyScript: Only his occupation at Old Mutual. That’s all I need. I hope it ain’t one of my friends. Hahahaha

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:19 pm

@Sxylin she drives me crazy on the radio! Damn my kid for busting my CD player and Thabiso Sikwane leaving

@JohneighGALAXY™ on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:20 pm

@Smang-Mang-Warona: Ohhh I thought you were one of those analysts from the FSB like @Nthoentle.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:22 pm

So Minnie Dlamini has got a dry perm now. She looks like Java’s gf on yizo yizo. Such a motherly figure. So cute hehehe.

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:23 pm

lol @Trey it looks like an english cut to me

missTmzee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:24 pm

dumelang and bye .

i just had to KWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA @ Smatsatsa smelling hubby…i die!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:25 pm

Aowa Trey that is NO dry perm, ke shwang – ba tongile that hair! O oulik nyana shem

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:31 pm

Can I laugh at your email ad! Easylove?! How ironic JG, haa haaa! Sxylin that’s so true, she doesn’t have a personality that one..

Hmm, indifferent when It comes to Minnie yai, I don’t know why.. I don’t know what or how to feel about her, she looks okay..

sxylin on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:35 pm

hehehe @smatsatsa nami uMinnie maybe i compared her to your gal B nje but aiiiiiiiii she okay! honestly i think all the young ladies in JHB have sponsors OR Kanjani ? Be honest !!!!!!!!!!!!

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:36 pm

I can see Sunday World headlines. Its ngonna be about Zonke, Tumi and Zama Jobe uzakuthi benditshilo.

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:36 pm

where are y’all seeing Minnie?

@sxylin, I do not have a sponsor….won’t mind one though

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:37 pm

@Sxylin, nope. I wish though! hahahahahaha! I am still part of the dying breed called Miss Independant! In the words of my good friend “le jewa mahala chomi” *shudders and looks for a sponsor*

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:38 pm

What’s your definition of “Sponsors” sxylin?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:38 pm

Guys iam looking for a leather dress for my Nothende look alike booty. Where can buy one? Ndiyayifuna serious.I picture myself wearing one almost everyday nje.

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:38 pm

@Vesa ku twitter phela..

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:39 pm

In the words of my good friend “le jewa mahala chomi” *shudders and looks for a sponsor*

Kwaaaa!!! I can relate to this

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:40 pm

@smatsatsa SPONSOR = TUMI

Vesa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:41 pm

@smatsatsa….oh, I don’t follow her. Thanks

Nerlee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:41 pm

@Sxylin I dont have a sponsor shame, and the fact that they come with TERMS & CONDITIONS- I would not survive!

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:42 pm

@Snapshot, could you happen to be THAT girl who jumped out that window? The one sniffing his totolozi tonight? Lol Re:Tumi.

I need a PI, for future potential bf’s. JG is our official PI? Who’s probably gonna test drive them first before getting back to us?

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:44 pm

hahahahaha! Trey just do a due diligence, it’s so easy! Drop his name in conversation in different social circles…the things that will come out!
I found out some guy is a mafia kinda operator, hires hit men and stuff! yooooooooh this Jozbeg!

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:45 pm

Mina I’ve always said that I’m not the independent type, futhi I don’t even wanna pretend shem! A man’s purpose is to provide, and he shall do just that.. oBeyonce basi khohliswa ngo “Survivor and Independent Woman” busy eating caviar every week la from oJayZ…

So, I won’t deny any man the opportunity to do what God had intended for him to do la on earth, to provide!
Ask anyone who knows me, they’ll tell you that I’m not ashamed of wanting a man with good pockets, I don’t have the heart that Bongi has to stay with a man who earns less or something along those lines (if I remember your story correctly)
My independence means that I can get back up my own life when he leaves, he can take his cars and his house, I won’t fall back coz that’s what my savings are for…

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:47 pm

Vesa nami i don’t follow hwe, just stalked her after Trey mentioned..

Smatsatsa on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:49 pm

Oh, that sponsor, haai ke, I’ll never date someone who doesn’t have the potential to be a sponsor, I don’t have time for that admin eye Main dish e broke and a Side dish that will sponsor, no.. I searched for an all rounder!

Loulou on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:50 pm

Ameni Smatsatsa! >>>> My independence means that I can get back up my own life when he leaves, he can take his cars and his house, I won’t fall back coz that’s what my savings are for…

lulu boo on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:54 pm

@ Sma yes i dated him. ish i was young and naive shem.but he is a chamer we dont even see those looks ! kwaaaa. ee he has kids allover.some chick was pregnant with his baby the same time with Zonke. Yena he can spoil a girl.

fufu on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 4:58 pm

Guys i wish i had guts yaz,the way i meet these rich men everyday la @ work.

MyThoughts on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:00 pm

Hey y’all. I had such a rough weekend. I got robbed. I’m BBless now… Thiza wam’ku rough yaz. On the other hand my twitter account is suspended huuuu I can’t deal.

I’ll be a silent blogger from now on until further notice.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:01 pm

I was watching (crazy, stupid love) last night and I’m sure a lot of guys play the same kind of game here in Jozi, just my observation. I don’t want to be too forward mara why is Tumi on mission NO Condomizing? Ngapha he is busy with everything in a skirt? I’m sure at least 3 females here (silent blogger or not) have been with him, niyazi nina na ukuthi why eyenza so?

Ey guys, this topic could last days hey, let’s accept that there’s 1 man for every 8 females in the world. They’re just doing their share, pity there’s selfish females like myself who don’t want to share no man.

Imagine if I’m the MaKhumalo in the picture? Would my Zuma even look at me twice?

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:02 pm

ouch @MyThoughts sorry babes *hugs*

samlicious on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:04 pm

this Tumi guy is a walking coffin shame. Cabanga Intersexions

MyThoughts on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:14 pm

Hahahahahah @Noance!! You kill me shem with your comments! Were you baptized mara?! *wipes forehead*

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:21 pm

@Smatzatza, he’s just one out of a pool of how many walking coffins?

To think some women think they’re the “only” one’s dating him. Its very sad.

a new kit must be developed, where one can detect someone’s HIV status without them knowing.

Hot mamma on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:23 pm

#Exposethebastard wish I had guts to name and shame. Rich lawyer in Pta drives an Evoque and Z4. Short and chubby.

TreyScriptures on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 5:25 pm

Meant @Samilicious. Then where’s smatzatsa

bongi on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 7:15 pm

Oh my world, damn on leave today and i miss all this **screaming** jc was on fire, the nice thing is my hubby will never be on tht list lol.. Shame kunzima ke mos to have this tumi kinda guys in your life, not knowing ba i hi virus i spreader kangakanani na just becoz of tht stupid lfestyle. Damn woman dont value their lives hey, is ths happening in jhb only?

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 8:38 pm

@Bongi not at all, even in small town like mine they exist.

Red Z4 personilised “HA.. ..”. Strongly black man, ugly and filthy rich. Has trucks that transport patrol and diesel to other countries hehehe. He’s marring some close(3rd wife, he does it the traditional way) so let me just shut it….and oh he sleeps with anything and I mean anything….from his own cousins (the liker of things type)

BlindFold on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 9:57 pm

Eish..I like this name and shame.

Miss T on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:23 pm

So glad my Naija peeps r not well known…hihihihi

sparrow on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:42 pm

Why is this tumi guy relevant to this post?what makes him worth discussing?his claim to fame??

megane on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:45 pm

Wooo hoooo I’m all for #ExposeTheBastard
I gotta few of my own
But where will you post these bulletins @JG?

bumbum on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:46 pm

@Sparrow you don’t have to be famous and be relevant to be a killing bacteria nana

megane on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:52 pm

@bongi, I think it’s happening anywhere and everywhere not only in Jozburg

megane on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 10:55 pm

@BS were you asked to remove comments/names from this post? Is it our beloved Tumi aka ET? X_X

Eyh2Jee on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:13 pm

you will be missed @mythoughts

sparrow on Mon, 10th Sep 2012 11:20 pm

Modimo weeeeee!lol!!i just had to googled the guy myself &now i got all the answers.tjoh!shame i am sorry tumi.@bum-bum—>thanx babes for having shed some light.umhlaba uya hlaba struu.

Letebele on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 3:58 am

Eish my BB was acting up and I had some work to do.

@Syxlin: well I hope zonke making a baby for him does not mean there’s a high possibility of her being positive.

Didn’t these people watch Intersexions though? *smh*

Yoh! Thandiswa wouldn’t last in that kinda ‘friendship’ she’s way too much of a bully and wouldn’t take shit from a man.

sxylin on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 8:18 am

nibusy ne! you all got your stable boyfriends and busy using our husbanks as your sponsors SMH! We see you

samlicious on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 9:18 am

Kwa!!!!!!!!!!!!! @sxylin ubajonjgile babes.

Letebele on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 9:33 am

Death! What would u do though if you ever found out that your hubby was playing mr sponsor to someone out there?

Nthoentle on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 10:44 am

Kwaaaaa @Sxylin Eish ku tough nana!!

MyThoughts on Tue, 11th Sep 2012 2:17 pm

Thanks Sam and E2J. Ke tla ba strek

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