Bad Habits We Gotta Kiss Goodbye

October 30, 2012 by Featured Guest Writer

When I got to the gym yesterday I went to the changing room, I noticed there was and Indian guy walking around in a towel so I assumed he was drying himself or about to hit the shower. I went for my classes, 2 hours later I come back to see the same guy in the steam room so I chose not to steam because u-brothers uyajonga, I went straight to shower. When I was done with showering I find him passing up and down the shower area without the robe. All in all I want to say….

Other cultures/Religion(s)/Race(s) should accept/acknowledge homosexuality so that the rest of the world won’t feel molested @ places like gyms and bathrooms. Okay?!
Poor people have to stay in the closet to save face, but please don’t use the bathrooms as a place to come-out of the closet or a pick up point for boys.

Still on gym showers:who okayed pee-ing in showers? Hygiene batho, please take time to use the toilet before you release yourself ko-shower that will be used by other people after you. Hence some people don’t shower at gym.

Can our president remove himself from being president? *looking over his shoulder*
SABC: can’t you bring us a show that is originated in South Africa or even Africa for that matter. Or we lack creative people in our Continent? I doubt that very much
Shoprite: can some-one please take off the Shoprite ad that has the likes of Connie, Sonia, Leon, Lee-ann etc. I mean Hellozzzzz!!! Shoprite needs to do more than 360 Degrees turn-over from cleanliness of the store to staff, management and service. Gosh Ndibala ntoni, or they must just stick to their target market.
Guys (I don’t know about you girls) could you please wash your hands when from the bathroom. People (guys) would want you to give them a proper handshake when you meet, I’d rather give you a fist or a hug.
Girls don’t let your thong/g-string show, it’s not for public viewing. Cover up.
Still on the low rise, Guys, crack is whack, wear a vest underneath to cover your arse. Nxa!!!
Guys stop walking around with your hands in your sack. Ugly sight
I didn’t realise that water was such a scarce resource in South Africa for people not to bath. Makuvaswe tu!
Try not to poke your nose in public… Or use a tissue.

What’s your take?

By Zeeba (c)

My problem is since my brother left home, and its just me and my father at home we started sleeping in the same room and bed. My father has been retired for many years now so he would stay at home alone during the day while we went to scholl and my mom went to work. So when it was just the 2 of us left at home he moved the TV into his bedroom so he could watch it in bed during the day. I’d come home and have to go watch my soapies in the room with him and eventually we started sleeping together…

Its gotten to the extent that we are having sex everyday, sometimes even the whole night and I enjoy it a lot as we can even have up to 4 rounds at a time we sumtyms dnt use condoms:-(
Because my father is not working o tlhola m lapeng waiting for me to cum n do it. When i delay at school he will shout at me when i arrive, even beat me up for being late! I always find him naked and sumtymz i dnt go to skul cause he will be wanting it and wont let me go…

i’m scared now cause i feel he’s so dependent on me that i wont be able to have a life of my own. my brother has managed to get me a bursury for college and i’m on the waiting list to study law @ UJ next year but my dad wont hear of it!

I’ve messed up my life, i’m ashamed of myself and cant confess this to any family member so please dont advise me to. I love my dad very much and i know he loves me too. How do i get the future i’ve always dreamed about without hurting him… We are currently living off his retirement money and he says i dnt need to work or study cause he can take care of me…

help please.

Hunt on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:02 am

Tjo! Amanyala kababa. What kind of love is this? *spits on the floor*

MyThoughts on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:09 am

This is devastating in higher grade! One doesn’t really know whether to symphasize or get angry at both of them.

Kusihlwa on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:12 am

@Hunt, I cant believe this story how can you have sex with some one who shares half of your DNA?

MAESESLA on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:28 am

S&H%t, if She gets pregnantand, gives birth then she will be a mom, and a sister to her babe at the same time.eesh is crazy!
where do U statr to help. The father took advantage of her.
Is the madala using viagra or what

petiteekay on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:30 am

omg! that story is soo shocking.. hope it isnt true

BlackWoman on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:38 am

@Kusihlwa, are these AAA stories real? I think some of them are fabricated.

Kusihlwa on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:41 am

@BlackWoman, I dont know but they can be shocking.

OhSoStunning on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 11:46 am

@petiteekay your gravatar is kgalelising me..

Fluffie on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:12 pm

Damn I hope she gets help!
It doesn’t look like she wants to leave against all odds thou?! I’m not sure she’s determined enough ngeke! Maybe telling someone from her mother’s side that she trusts?! How did she even begin kissing her own father? She shouldn’t have allowed it in the first place. Well I don’t see anywhere above where it says the father forced himself on her initially! (rape)

This so-called father unamanyala! doesn’t even deserve to be called a father! God forbid should this gal be preggas. Oh no that will be a disaster.

She can still get out of this situation and build her own future without the possessive dad!

bumbum on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:15 pm

TJO at the father daughter fuckin* all day, elami lithi nje kwaqala kanjani. I can imagine holding my father deep inside me and moaning as if all is well. Buya nkosi ungasathumeli vele uze wena.

Koeks on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:20 pm

OMG what a shocker.But in this crazy world we live in its possible.It just happened this passed weekend that I suspect my BF’s cousin is doing the same to his 15yrs old daughter.This guy had to live with his daughter last year after the mother passed away,the guy is so over protective to a point that if the child needs to go to the shops he goes with her even walks her to school in the morning and times her to come back at a certain time after school.If it happens that the girl is few minutes late,he gets angry.NB brother man does’nt work so he’s forever @ home.This thing got so bad that the Guy’s girlfriend ended up breaking up with dude cause all he was interested in was his daugter.On Saturday we went to their Aunt’s wedding,so we came back late,me and my BF suggested that they can sleep over @ our place.This guy did’nt want to hear any of that he insisted that we drop them off @ their place.But I could see that the child did’nt want to go she kept on saying she does’nt want to go home cause its boring and I must ask his father to let her sleep @ my house.When I pleaded with my BF cousin to let the child sleep over he did’nt want to and told me that that’s his baby girl,she’s the only person left in his life & he needs to take care of her.I dont know how to approach this child cause what I’v noticed is that she is very rude when she speaks to her Dad & has a bad attitude towards him.I dont know how to tell my BF about my suspicions,I dont want to cause problems in the family.

Black_Diamond on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:43 pm

Tjo @Koeks I just got depressed all over again adding to the AAA,I pray your suspicions are false. Maybe this 2012 is really the end,Jehova wa boya.

Lela on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:47 pm

Hayi nani you love depressing stories, I’d rather read this yawn post than depressing stories.No day goes by without all these sob stories kude kuphele nosizi ngoku.

Eyh2Jee on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:53 pm

Tjo!@Koeks.The stories are the same moos!
Vele uBrother man is over-taking care of his daughter neh!Its clear.So maybe the daughter is enjoying the Hlokoloza for now…eish…Tjo. these men.Sex does wonders to human behaviour.
The guava’s of the daughters must be nicely tight if these guys can’t function well without their daughters!
Umntu uvuna akulimileyo!!!

Silvio on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 12:55 pm

kwaaaaaaa

Hunt on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 1:21 pm

Tjo Koeks – you have to do something. It’s your duty. Think of the comfortable way you wanna do it. Anonymity or through confrontation. Maybe you can start by asking why she’s rude to her father and let her know you are there if she wants to talk about anay woman stuff. Phela she doesn’t have a mama. Teenagers can be rude enye inkinga. They are also fraile at that age.

Eyh2Jee and this –> The guava’s of the daughters must be nicely tight if these guys can’t function well without their daughters!

Ii didn’t wanna laugh but Tyini bhuti! *dead*

Hunt on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 1:23 pm

In fact the father needs help too. There’s a line between being protective and being overly so. Tjo!

Biskiti on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 1:24 pm

Hei this is hectic yazi!! O right bum-bum, aboGabza & Michael are gonna be out of their depth on this one, God must just help us all and end creation.

Koeks, just open this post when you get home, and make those “tjo,tjo,tjo, modisane…” exclamations, and he’ll ask what’s going on, and you tell him the AAA story, and then somehow link that story to the BF’s cousin’s story… Your version of things makes the cousin look/sound very suspect. Please get to the bottom of this, you might be the child’s only saving grace yazi.

Ohw, the sick world we live in…

OhSoStunning on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 1:35 pm

@HUNT YOU’VE GOT MAIL

The world we live in though.. People are sick yaz’. Ntate oo why asa tole girlfriend and hlokolz her instead of his own flesh and blood?

petiteekay on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 2:27 pm

lol thanks OSS

OhSoStunning on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 2:51 pm

Laughing all the way to the bank.. ha haha ha ha!

Hunt on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 2:53 pm

OSS please share hahahaha

OhSoStunning on Tue, 30th Oct 2012 3:02 pm

@hunt, check the day love!!! It’s pay day.. I will forget about my problems for one night and party!!! Ayoooooba.. *Dance Like A Ghetto Chick*

PrincessPatty on Wed, 31st Oct 2012 3:11 am

@Ey2Jee I’m sure u meant Patty, I’m busy with exams angel. Matric can be challenging if u not focused and there’s this chick in Bryanston High who’s dancing on my last nerve making me lose focus. I wil be back soon as I’m done with my exams, for now I just silent blog when I get a chance. In the meantime follow me on twitter please everyone @patenhle

Hunt on Wed, 31st Oct 2012 8:53 am

Hahahaha *waves at Princess Patty* what is the chick doing? Don’t hide too much. How are the exams going? All the best.

You must guest blog now; here and there.

PrincessPatty on Wed, 31st Oct 2012 10:12 am

Hi Hunt *waves baq* this chikita be calling and SMSing me telling me to stay away from her man, I mean that is soooo last decade if not century. She needs to put him on a leash! Worst thing is that I see her every time we write and she never says anything but she has a lot to say over the phone and behind her keyboard kodwa uzoba strong! TJO! Her sentence contruction and grammar skills or lack thereof leave a lot to be desired, I must refer her la kwi JC so that Zara can polish her English skills. Who fights for a man in 2012? I mean the world is coming to an end and all she can think about is fighting for a cheater??? And to even think gore I’m not the one he’s messing around with… Hai this girl o hloka thapelo e strong, I think fasting for a month will do (uLela can assist).

The exams are going very well, I’m hoping for a bachelor.

About the blogging part I have a confession to make or an apology, however it may seem but not now. Only when I get exposed kodwa I think the person either forgot her pasword or she’s still waiting for it coz it’s been a while since she threatened to expose me but nothing has happened yet so until she does I’m gonna ride on this wave…

So long…back to studying!

lejazz on Wed, 31st Oct 2012 6:49 pm

#death by gym habits
When u get to Shoprite the first word u hear is “plastic” and the change and slip are put down nd u got to pick it urself.
I always wonder gore why biiiig girls would wear lowcuts tight pants with Gstrings #pukes
I think brothers out there must learn to use nailclipper to cut their nails not biting them argh
My colleague yesterday she was speaking to me while poking her nose unashamed…and let’s dig deep in our ears eish

Hunt on Thu, 1st Nov 2012 8:30 am

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa PrincessPatty for the JC Intern job. She be funny AF.

So why are you beeing treatened? Out with it before you get exposed. LOL.

PrincessPatty on Thu, 1st Nov 2012 8:48 am

Ewu Hunt bandla, I’m studying lol. Maths is gonna show me flames kusasa yazi. Angithi she reported me kwi twitter n now I’m in jail!

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