It’s Friday So Anything Goes!

October 11, 2012 by Brown Shuga

Yet another hectic week, my word… life is hectic, I need a holiday, someone please help!

It’s been hectic in the news world as well.. with so many debates taking place about the latest in politics, and the celebrity world. :

The Public Prosecutor’s findings on Julius Malema…

The Nkandla Chronicles

Kgalema Motlanthe releases a book

Lance Armstrong and his denials

XZibit to perform in SA this December …wait.. who’s XZibit?

Oscar Pistorius appears on the Jay Leno Show

1Time has money problems…

…and sadly, the passing away of Zwelakhe Sisulu..May he RIP

Your Friday, Your Anything Goes.

Caint sleep after being traumatised by the same dream for 4 days now. Its a snake in water, funny thing is in the dream im so calm and happy even when i see this scary snake then i wake up then boom! I realise it was a snake and i get petrified, i dont know what it means, it must have meaning if it keeps coming back right? Anyways thats ma AG for now, blessed are those who close their eyes and sleep while we see snakes

LadyMillion on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:42 am

@Zabe i will tell u what it means around 9 nhe
Geeez i cant wait for 4:30 pm,knock off time
*goes bck to sleep*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:51 am

patiently waiting for Gomolemo, she must not pull a snapshot on us lol

Babyluv on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:36 am

Happy friday. Doing an assessment today, crossing fingers. Poor girl on twitter was valelad by a thief in her house, thank God for twitter, sum1 was able to call the cops. @gomolicious

Babyluv on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:41 am

@gomolicious yiza nazo. Hahahahahaha BS Xzibit is/WAS (ucula u-in my time ngoku aka has-been) a USA rap artist he was also on an MTV show called Pimp my Ride, nakwi movie ka Eminem 8 Mile

Nokxie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:55 am

Eish me leaving things the last minute

So last night it eventually dawned on me that I need to pack coz I going to Macufe…but have done my laundry in over month & fresh out of new 1s (not shopping again for Macufe) so last night washed a few items, hanged outside on the washing line…just woke up coz of the huge thunder…so I guess I have to use the dryer before going to work

Zoe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:45 am

Hi guys, I’ve missed you all.

Does anyone know where I can get Jamaican Black Castor Oil?
Cha ngifuni ukukhipha inyongo, I want to try it out on my hair.

My AG: I went through my boss’s FB profile (don’t ask) and damn that woman hates us! Lol

@ Ntombi how is accounting coming along? I’m also taking the plunge.

Nerlee on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:06 am

Can someone define “GOSSIP/ UMGOSI” for Snappy hleeeee, ndiyani cela.

Hehehehe so I saw that Thato Abraham(wedding) on Selimathunzi and I thought of JC yazi. Niyazazi indaba shame andina mona.

This name dropping business though one of these days its gonna turn ugly, these are real people u guys talk about here, I’m all for umgosi but niyandoyikisa sometimes.

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:09 am

@ zoe if yu are on twitter, ask Kiki about the jamaican oil. Maybe she will know.

sparrow on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:49 am

Dumelang beautiful people!!@zabe, i think i know where that dream is coming to…sounds so tormenting really, just pray hard baby.My AG-since my heart said YES to the Lord since i’ve opened my heart for Him and accepted Him as my rock/saviour, my life hasnt been this beautiful!!i have been to hell and back but after all those emotional turmoils…heartaches,deceit and everthing that comes with it, i decided give my heart to jesus,My whole life has changed, with no doubt,fear and question, HE’s the only way.@Gomolemo re go emetse *wiggles toes*

Applepurple on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:51 am

@Zabe ubizo/the calling.you going to be a sangoma……

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:54 am

Morning yall!

@Zabe Not going much into detail, a huge snake (mainly pythons) means une Idlozi lase manzini (you have an ancestor that resides in water). If its not fighting you & you comfortable with it in your dream, then it doesn’t mean harm at all. Obviously there will be a deeper meaning depending on your ways of life.

My AG…RiRi’s upcoming album, I love her music, but I think its just way too soon.

Politics in S.A is seriously straining me, to know that everyone sees were the problem lies, but no one can do jack shit about any of these sagas SMFDH!

Which traditional does Jub Jub go to? I need to go for consultation…if I can afford it.

The comments on that Sonia’s story *Housewives nton nton, I love me some JC bloggers, stru!

vundlas on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 6:56 am

so been in Bangkok for a while now,we did a tour of the city yesterday also saw the jail where Nolubabalo Nobanda (Drug Mule)is held…Just looking at the jail from outside and comparing with one in PTA,our jails are five stars.

And from the stories from the locals about the jail feel sorry for her..Her case was high profile from what I hear here,not because of drugs but the dreadlocks method..

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:46 am

Morning, guys where can i complain about my neighbour’s unruly dogs? Im gatvol!!

…And my lips are locked, i reveal a lot here and regret it afterwards, besides i dont think you will beleive me, cause i remember i once mentioned that Steven Pienaar used to shelad me and i got hammered for it, i guess im noit good enough for celebrities. With Love, Gomo

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:47 am

Morning Family!!!! I have missed ya’ll so much

My AG, I am so nervous because today the company that I went for interviews, 3 nogal, is letting me know if I got the job or not. I am making sure my phone is loud enough to hear it when it rings…lol. I just pray to God that this one is mine.

My other AG vele vele Melody Motha has disappeared from twitter, so its true vele? Does her husband beat her up?

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:47 am

@Zabe, maybe you should go thwasa…..

golden diva on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:49 am

I’m reading Joyce Meyer’s book Beauty For Ashes and I haven’t been able to put it down. She’s talking about how she had to forgive her father who sexually abused her for as long as she can remember and her mother who walked in on her father raping her but walked out of the room, came back after 2-3 hours and acted like nothing happened. She says she was like her father’s mistress. Her father once raped her in his car, a policeman saw what was happening he came to them and threatened to arrest them and guys this is freakn unbelievable: the police said he’d let them go if the father allowed him (the policeman) to have sex with Joyce. That’s all I’m sharing with you. But you have to get this book. Its awe-inspiring how in God’s timing she could forgive her father and how the understanding of God’s unconditional love allowed her to take care of both her father and mother in their old age. I’d reccomend it for EVERYONE but more especially those who need emotional healing from traumatic events in their past.

fabulicious on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:50 am

Goodmoring!

Does anyone know what happened to Mr Know-it-all @DexterSuperior????

Cutie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:50 am

Morning Bloggers!

My AG: I don’t think my marriage will survive his infidelities at all. As from Sunday I’ve been buzzed by an 031 number in the middle of the night. From Tuesday night the person did the same with a cellphone number. I asked hubby who this person is, he denied knowing her. When I call there is no answer. 031 is a public phone.

Anyway yesterday he went out and left his phone. The very same number called him. I picked up and she dropped. Anyway now I was suspicious, I went to his in/outbox. There are no specific messages to this number but messages to other women too such as “you are loved”, “I miss u”. I decided to check his e-mail on ipad (please don’t judge, I know it was wrong but I had reasons). Anyway all I can say I don’t know my husband at all. The e-mails exchanges between himself and 6 other women are shocking!

I confronted him on his return but he said “I’m reading things out of context”. Really now I’m the stupid one here! Guys the e-mails are in the lines of “I miss your hot body”…this is what makes things worse. If he were to take accountability for his actions then I would feel better! Uthi there is nothing happening between him and these women.

I’m shattered to say the least. It has never been my habit to chech his phone or e-mail.

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:51 am

Tjo @Vundlas, so Nolubabalo is actually a celebrity there as well, i feel sorry for that girl. Apparently the conditions in that jail are bad and communication is bad cause the people there hardly speak english.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:55 am

mng JC Fam

my AG theres this guy ne been sheling me almost 6 mnths now, told him it will never happen brother man ngathi akayiboni leyo.

so Wednesday he invited me for supper went coz vele its close to my place, than izolo he tells me he bought a ring he wanted to give me during supper, HAYIBO nayi ingulube inginonela bo,

me: WHAT? ayibo what ring
him:its a promise ring
me: why would u buy me a promise ring
him:to let u know i will always be there for u, its a diamond ring .

ayibo lomlisa i think wahlanya str8 Jezzeee why would u buy me a diamond ring ngempela yet theres nothing going on and i made it clear they will never be, as im not looking for any man, im cool where i am for now,i think KENAKO kumele ngilale ikhona manje.

i like him shame yena as a friend nothing more, coz is doz 1 that will deliver anything we want me and my friend, boozewise , interms of intertainment his fyn akamind anything anyhwere with friend. just that ngiyamsaba nje bengisaba nokudla at his place, angazi part of me nje ayimthembi thinking will loyad me,
ngizithole ezifubeni ezimnyama ngendlela engingayazi no, ill pass shame.

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:58 am

My AG: I am going on a date later today,LOL.But this guy is too much,wa ntena…I don’t want someone who wants to see me daily,Hai ngike.

In other more interesting news, Gomolemo who is this guy on your Pic? #licks lips# I hope he is not short…

fabulicious on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:59 am

I don’t know much about superstitions(sp) but I know inyoka signifies idlozi..

@gomo so between yesterday and today when did u decide to zip it?
Pls let this be the last time nana I really wanna hear this

All the best to my gal @Noance!! If God wants u to have the job u’ll have it babe:)

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:01 am

@Azande…. take that ring and sell it #runs#

Another guy gave a friend of mine a ring+watch sometime ago, I told her to cell them….bari bari bari, she took them back to him. Haiiii, aska mbora so

BlindFold on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:01 am

@Cutie..that is hectic, askies.

@Noance hello and to everyone!!

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:02 am

dreaming ka snake = sign that u have enemy and she/ he’s on ur back right now and u dont realise (u know how a snake operate akere)
snake n water- ur enemy is still hiding anf=d when it comes out of the water its gonna bite u. or etlo go gogela mo metsing and drown u. watch your back nana

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:09 am

@ Noance that job is yours nana.

@ Gomza iza nazo,for the last time ke.

Last saturday i was channel hopping ,then nakhu ngibona u Minnie no Mpho Maboi ku some show ku vuzu ,the shock i got when isaw i Njibaba ka Mpho Maboi,like ama dreads aqala esphundu.

BlindFold on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:09 am

@Azande why did you go to his plaace? andithi his wants you to be his GF and wena you dont want..dont you think you are misleading him by eating his food at his house?

BlindFold on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:12 am

@fufu..imagine ne boyfriend has no hair line infact hair in the front of his head…i think in the morning Mpho goes like “Babes hairline ya hao its gone and Reneilwe says at least nna i a man so its fine if my hair balds”.

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:13 am

Hello my lovies @Fabulicious and @Blinfold…. *smooches*

@Cutie your man is very very silly shame. He is cheating on you and then on top of that he is going to treat you like your stupid??? Either he must cheat or make you look stupid not both. At least if he was admitting it, then you could look for a way forward, manje if he is denying it, then how do you move on or fix this nyols he has done? Boil water and pour his feet only. When he is walking to his nyols, he shall remember you.

@Azande that brother is hectic, o hectic to the point of no return. Promise ring ya diamond? He sounds a little bit unstable in the medulaobligata shame. Be careful.

@Miranda, so where are you going if this guy wa go ntena? kapa u have no plans on friday and you want a free meal? I also dont like prestic kinda niggas, Bo brother suffocate!!!

BlindFold on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:13 am

at least i am a man

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:14 am

Thank you @fufu *smooches* Amen!

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:15 am

My AG is that i wanna get myself i S3 but ngiyasaba that i will be spending much on data bundles so im settling for a blackberry torch,but my heart iku S3,dont know if i should just pull a YOLO.

sk1 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:23 am

Morning ma bloggers

Ma AG is God is good and faithful !!!! o phala baloi !!!! malibongwe igama!!!!

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:24 am

Goodmorning everybody! I’m looking for JG, I need info on two guys. Maqhawe Morobe as well as Romeo Msipha. Besides them being douchebags of note, what else you got?

Wow peeps, I used to think stories of black guys driving the finest cars and living in back rooms was a myth! How do some people prioritize? Shocker!

sk1 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:25 am

@Fufu do u perhaps hav acc with FNB , they hv excellent offers ya di tabs/phones S3 incl.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:29 am

@Miranda lol thot of dat

@Blindfold I just went nje coz he always invite me and ngihlezi nginqaba! Thot let me go nje, but ke that was the last tym ngiyabaleka str8 manje. INDANDATHO ayikhona

Fab Tee on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:29 am

“Boil water and pour his feet only. When he is walking to his nyols, he shall remember you.”….kwaaaaaaa Noance mara!

Babyluv on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:32 am

@cutie im sorry my love but iyanya lendoda yakho, how the hell do you read abo “you are loved” and “i miss you” out of context. Hes being disrespectful to you and your marriage. Hai maan gomo last time

Ms.Zie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:33 am

i Njibaba ka Mpho Maboi,like ama dreads aqala esphundu. >>>> Hahahahahahahaha. Lol. Shame man

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:36 am

@ Cutie i wish i can lie and say: its gonna get better, your hubby is bullshitting you with multiple women. In this time esiphila kuzo with ‘house’ everywhere. You did nothing wrong by snooping, as he gave you reason to.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:37 am

@cutie askies nana the pain u must be going thru mnanje, no one deserve dat, ncese yazi its better if it was one dish, manje no man its too much,
Uberyt *hugs*

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:37 am

tjo Cutie, what a dilemma.. i actually dont know what to say to u dear.. i was once involved in the same eesh but i was one of other many side dishes and i didnt know.. the main chick also saw messages on his phone (he forgot it one sunday morning when he went to see a “friend”). the gal called me when i was on my way to church and asked if we can meet but refused to tell me what is it about (deep down i kinda knew cos i have always suspected gore the brother is cheating).. so your hubby better explain himself nje and atleast man up and tell the truth because the lies ke tsona tse tlo ho hurtang even more.. do u guys have kids?

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:38 am

@ Bindfold kwaaaaaaaaaaa i forgot about the boyfriend yaz

@ Ski i will check it out i bank with Fnb.
@ Trey bakhona shem,in 2010 there was this one who was shelaring me,u guy bekano mkhuku e front but he was driving a beemer.

Ms.Zie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:40 am

Wow, this is weird. The snake dream interpretations. I just say shaya phansi ngedolo uthandaze sisi, I don’t think there’s any solution that is better than that. Else, u will get paranoid trying to find what it is that these dreams mean. Good luck.

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:42 am

@Zabe, when ever I dream of a snake or snakes, something really good happens to me. It’s like good luck. Apparently it’s a sign that my ancestors are with me. Askies about your sleepless nights.

@cutie, I’m so sorry nana. He is just playing with your mind. As Bongi says, he gave you reason to snoop shem, you are justified. I just hope you make the right decision. #big hugs

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:44 am

@Miranda, his name is Tumelo, he is my cousin. Ke lesole, he is not short, you should see his body Miranda, WOW!

Soccerbabe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:46 am

Cutie askies thle dear but it seems your hubby is very busy, his nerve though is denying something in black and white because now that makes you stupid in his eyes. If you were not married I would say give this dude his marching orders but ke umtshato is something else, and you can’t turn a blind eye into this coz next thing he will buy “the house in vaal” and bring it home to you. I suggest like a loony you take all the email addresses,numbers etc you ask them who they are and their business with your hubby. You have a right to confront them sferbs because you married. Good Luck

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:47 am

@Gomo the way I was looking forward to your AG. #sad for days

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:48 am

@Fufu, imagine an M3 parked in the same garage that doubles as your bedroom. Why don’t you just buy a four room nyana and drive an Uno rather?

To the wife who found out her man’s got 6 side-dishes… I want to hear what the bloggers have to say when there’s one on the receiving end *pulls recliner seat and sips away on Merlot*

The blogger with recurring snake dream, I think you might have the calling. It’s not normal to keep dreaming about the same thing. It’s definitely a message.

I had no idea one could get a pimple on their nose, wth! It’s painful *cries*

Vesa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:52 am

Aaaaahhhhh @cutie, you are breaking my heart! I’m sorry to hear all of this and don’t even know what to say to you.

I said it yesterday, and I’m gonna say it again…..our boyfriends’s names are gonna appear here someday!!!

@Trey….I know Maqhawe, he used to date my cousin. A douche bag of note. She fell pregnant, and he made her miserable throughout the pregnancy to the point where she miscarried at 7 months due to stress…..and he was never even there to support her. It was very very sad what he put her through.

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:54 am

so cutie, instead of u loosing ur mind just ask these ladies if they know ur hubby is married and all. thats the only way u gonna find out the “truth truth” cos really u cant be married to a “single married man” next thing u gonna end up with depression and God knows what.. i think the only reason that gal contacted me was to find out for herself if i knew.. and worst of all we were doing the same course and might have attended classes together.. nna i will snoop at every chance i get shem, id rather know what ur as* is up to than be a fool and up kele sick n have regrets
mara Gomo, u not fair waitse, u cant leave us hanging

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:56 am

@kamza you took the words out of my mouth, I was gonna say the same thing about @Zabe’s dream. This enemy of yours is really watching you; just waiting to bite when the time is right for him/her. Be extra careful. Pray Zabe and fast if you have to.

lorrelai on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:57 am

Cutie babe, I’m so sorry. I can’t stand a man who cheats and does not make an effort to hide it. I hate it when isijolo sendoda sichaphazela umfazi. Xa elihule makakukhuphe kuloonto ungabe ufounelwa ngoonondindwa bakhe. Andibahambi oomam’uyandichaza, but uba ndingafounelwa yinkazana, ndingayithengela esa stroke se R5 nayo nantoni na enye ethengiswayo, iintakumba iimpuku, iintsumpa, iintwala. Kwanto. Umntu makadle indoda ahlukane nawe tshini.!!

Sorry guys, isingesi siphume kanje…

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:57 am

Boil water and pour his feet only. When he is walking to his nyols, he shall remember you. kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

@Good Luck Noance im praying for you; @Cutie six other pho askies nanaa eish amadoda

Lover28 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:58 am

Morning everyone!
As I move closer to unemployment (I’m working my notice) I would like your assistance. I need names and possibly websites of recruitment agencies in Cape Town. I just want to submit my CV and prepare my job hunting journey for next year. You can email the details to Lover28@yahoo.com.
Thanks a million & have a lovely friday

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:58 am

@Trey, my late uncle used to dress in expensive clothes, i mean expensive. He was the first person in our kasi to drive a Gold 4, but you should have seen his mkhukhu at the back *claps once* and i always thought, did these girls really sleep in there?

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 8:59 am

@Zabe a snake ke enemy. You must pray and watch your back. And it’s someone close to you…. @Cutie askies hle *hugs*

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:00 am

Oh my @Vesa! I’m starting to think Maqhawe has Tumi Mokwena tendencies. Not a fan of the love glove I see…

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:01 am

hello everybody…!!

My anything goes is, I AM HAPPY!!

@ Noance, I am with you in prayer… Claim the job now.

@Cutie, You know the truth, waiting for him to admit will never happen. Work with what you have. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck it is a duck.

@Azande, dont accept that ring. It comes with expectations, and if he is psycho….???

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:03 am

Lover28 check the yellow pages online dear. its ipdated. u can download one if u using a bb… Lorrelai pls translate mtana wase khaya please

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:05 am

One woman atleast – it hurts yes but at least man. Six ay no that man is sick in his head. Uyadelela nje straight…..

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:06 am

@Zara and @Sweetness thank you my angels, I need your prayers:-)

Tjo the rain is raining :-/ (My english teacher would have a mini stroke every time we said this….LOL)

Lover28 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:09 am

@Kamza, thanks… Yellow pages never crossed my mind yazi!!

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:12 am

@Noance with you in prayer nana ngathi ungawuthola

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:14 am

for one why must @Cutie confront the 6 side dishes 6 nogal yhuuuuuuuuuuuuuu! She must deal with the douche bag that she is married too; this dealing with side dishes is actually tiring yazi; you end up losing yourself because of shit like this uzobashaya bonke? my adivse !take Noance’s advice now that you know and that he has no plans of changing it is up to you now; u control ur destiny; use protection with him! If it was me i would give him a taste of his own medicine ! he would wake up fast and realise he is not the business! nx! blerry idiot

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:15 am

Hahaha at those saying it’s better if @cuties hubby had 1 side-dish. Do you guys really believe a cheating man has only ONE side-dish? Don’t fool yourselves, speed kills! *lazy laugh*

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:22 am

Ngiyabonga @Shandu sthandwa sam.

I agree with @Zara plus these side dishes are disrespectful and they might say things that will only hurt you and scar you. Deal with that cheating alex rat of yours. *Switches on kettle*

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:25 am

@Noance the job is urs, just waiting 4 confirmation I Hope. Goodluck nana

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:27 am

Thank you @Azande, yes we are just waiting for confirmation

Cutie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:27 am

Thanks Ladies – Yes we have a child. Right now I feel I love my child much more than him. I need to get tested asap and I hope I’m fine. It is up to me right now to make sure that my son has a mother until he gets a job. I can’t afford to wait for this house (If I dont have it already). Although it won’t be easy, I think the best decision right now is divorce. One of the women he’s sleeping with are his subordinates. If he does not respect himself, how does he expect me to do so? How do I even begin to trust their working relatonship going forward?

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:30 am

Eish askies@Cutie, i mean it.

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:30 am

@Cutie askies(hug)
Confronting 6 gals will be too much. As for the one calling you – she knows about you and she’s trying to rock your boat. Dont move gal – she’s after your husband.

I say be strong gal and talk to your husband. Tell him that you know the truth and he must just tell his side chick to stop calling you. You have no business with her – so they must stick to calling each other.Ask him if he’s using protection with these gals.

talia on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:32 am

Azange ka roastiwa so!morning mabloggers! Thank God its friday, have a great weekend everyone.

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:33 am

Noance that job is yours. Prayer works!!!

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:33 am

@cutie esh kwaze kwabuhlungu yezwa, all the best of luck in what ever decision u take, angazi what will I do hectis wow amadoda awadeli ne, and we will never know afunani as kwayiwona wazazi afunani, yoh kunzima, askies.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:34 am

Hectis vs hectic

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:35 am

@Talia!!!! Welcome back sweetie!!!

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:38 am

Talia ubuyile Wurrreee

Lover28 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:40 am

@noance… In the name of Jesus, the job is yours I’m sommer excited for u!!
@cutie, you know what you need to do, you’re in my prayers! Remember, God will never give u burden He knows you can’t handle! You’re in this
bcoz He knows you’ll get through it! All the best my dear*hugs*

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:40 am

*scratches head*

So confused O_o
What a funny world we live in! One minute, we support this, the next we don’t. Ai, @Cutie, you can’t go around fighting off other women for your husband. It’s only a matter of time before they’re discarded anyway, well now that you’ve found out, he won’t be going back to them. I doubt he wanted to jeopardize your marriage over some floozies, you know how Unapologetic they can be. Let’s hope his been using protection

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:40 am

tltltltltl Hi Talia…

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:42 am

@cutie, as zara says, deal with your sferb. Phoning the side dishes is a fruitless exercise. You will be calling them sisi till the day you die. Save your energy and airtime and deal with your man.

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:44 am

hi guys,

my AG: is it normal to be jealous of a peer/friend making progress in his career? my very close friend who’s abit older has just gotten his big break in life he will be programs manager for a very well paying organazation in CPT. I am trying hard to be part of the hype and exitement but im not as happy as i should be for him.

I dont wanna feel this jealous but cant help it. hes already talking property, sports cars and all that. i feel bad for being so jealous

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:44 am

Happy Friday all!

@miranda, did u get my email?

AppleLady on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:46 am

@ cutie sorry nana, please be strong. Kunzima emtshatweni!

I don’t know if you are a Christian, so I don’t think you will understand my perspective, but I thought you might appreciate it anyway because I know you are lost and hurting and you have a big decision to make and your mind is overwhelmed from shock and denial now. Let me just say, that you don’t have to make a decision at all right away, this is huge and it will effect so many people, you have the right to take as long as you want to make this decision, there is no rush, you can even take a year or two to make it if you want. For now, I advise you to wait and don’t decide. The main reason I’m saying that is because your brain is not working correctly, it is under a lot of stress, grief and shock and that is not the best situation to make a decision like divorce.
Second, I would like to share with you the Christian perspective on adultery. God HATES adultery, He hates it with a passion, no one deserves to be cheated on, no one deserves to be treated so awful, no one deserves to have that sort of pain inflicted on them. Adultery is evil and it is sin, there is NO excuse for it. Also, it is not your fault! It is not your fault because he is the one who chose to sin, you were not there to help make this wrong decision, you were left in the dark about it, he hid it from you. There may have been some contributing factors in your marriage to make him want to sin, but ultimately it was his decision to choose wrong. You cannot make him choose you over another woman, he has free will to choose whatever he wants. I repeat, It is NOT your fault, because a lot of people will tell you it is your fault, but they are wrong!
Third, even though adultery is awful, God sent His son Jesus to die for our sin. Jesus’ death was a horrible bloody crucifixion on the cross, Jesus never sinned and He did not deserve to die, but He did it anyway, so that sinners could accept His death as their own and be saved from their sins and from Hell. Adultery is forgivable in the Christian community! I know you don’t feel like forgiving your husband now, and you don’t have to. God does not expect us to forgive like this on our own, He always gives us help to forgive the unforgivable and He will do it in His own time, not ours.
Fourth, people will tell you that if you forgive your husband and take him back that you are being “too nice”. Well, for a Christian there is no such thing as “too nice” in a marriage and the reason for this is that the purpose of marriage is not about falling in love or about being loved. The purpose of marriage is to reflect Christ’s relationship with the church to the world and Christ never ever leaves the church. He loves and forgives the church regardless of our sin, the church is His bride and as long as Christ is connected to the church, we are not allowed to divorce. God even goes as far as saying that “what he has joined together, let no man separate.” Man (or woman) does not have the authority under Christ’s laws to separate a marriage because two have come together and become one. Christians are commanded to stay married and if our husband leaves us, we are not to even remarry because we are supposed to wait and see if he will come back to us. We are only finally allowed to remarry if our husband dies. This is because even though we are divorced, we are still with them, we are still married because man does not have the authority to divorce.
I know Christians divorce and are hypocrites and are not doing a good job of being an example to you. We mess marriage up all the time and we mess up with God all the time too, however; God still forgives us and takes us back with willing arms because we are His bride and He will never ever leave us, no matter how bad we mess up. Even if you decide you can’t handle forgiving and you can’t bear to be with your husband anymore, God will take you in and He will love you because ultimately it is not about you, your sin, or your husband’s sin. It is about God loving you (or your husband) no matter what.
Finally, don’t take him back unless he is willing to change and work on your marriage. If he wants to keep a mistress and a wife, or if he wants to continue cheating while staying married to you, that cannot work. Do not accept it. It takes two people to make a marriage work. But it is okay to sit on the sidelines and wait for him to come to this decision and let him know that you are there.
So, my prayer for you is that you wait to make this huge decision. I pray that God gives you peace for your heart, that He guides you, that He brings your husband to his senses and brings him back to you and your family where he belongs. I pray that God will restore your family to a place of healing and hope that you have never known or seen before. There is hope, there is always hope. Amen

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:46 am

No Noance, I like him …ke no tena ke attention fela

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:46 am

Hi All, some one asked me how I was doing cant recall who it was, baby and I are fince we are heading for 7months now and I am due early Jan, thanks for asking.

@Cutie, I think you hubby is at that fustrating stage where he thinks he is smarter than you and thinks he is the man becuase of his side dishes. If I were you I would sit him down and tell him that you value your life above all else and by him sleeping around he is going to bring death to your doorstep and you cant accept that because we know that we married woman are seating ducks when it comes to HIV/Aids. At this stage he will still deny or do the famous switch tactic where he will start yelling and accusing you of not trustuing him blah blah blah. Then calmly tell him that since he is chosing this life you are leaving, gently ask him to give you some time to find a new place and you will let the courts decide on how you will see the children. Dont share a bed with him in this time, call estate agencies infront of him and enquire about flats after you have gone viewing places tell him about them this will reinforce the fact that you are serious about this. If this is a phase he will come to his senses and shape up but if not then atleast you know. I am sorry ypu are going through this.

Zabe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:46 am

Wow the interpretations to ma dream! To the bloggers who said nginobizo, it wouldnt suprise me, my grandad is a healer and my mum was supposed to be one too but she ran to church instead. Lol those who said i should pray, i do that every morning. Thanx for the interpretations guys but now im even more confused but im still praying about it. @Cutie askies hle ousi. Pray and ask god to give you strength and wisdom to deal with this. Stories like yours make me even more determined to remain unmarried ke lefetwa for life sham nna, im not taking the chance of being left or cheated on, anever *smacks thighs lookin ghetto*

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:47 am

Talia the Mafia! Glad to see you bought bundles with the R50

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:48 am

hahahaha Talia< Welcome back!!

Oh Cutie, going for an HIV test is a good start. Dont make a hash decision, move yourself away slowly, stop worrying about his where about for a while, and when he does decide to stay home, you go out and just say I will be back now now, and take forever, switch off your phone. and when you get home, just go about your business quietly. This wont make him stop his ferbing ways, but will make him wonder, and miss you. Once you are comfortable with yourself again. Sit him down and have a heart to heart, no accusing, or trying to get him to admit to anything. Find a way forward.

Nothing gives a man more power than when he knows he was caught red handed, and was able to lie his way out. Thats why, you should never confront if you know the truth, let him know yuo are aware of it, and find a way forward

Use a condom EVERYTIME!

kamzababy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:51 am

Tjo, grabs bible, Cutie, god loves you le wena ngwana wa batho i dont think ge will want you to stay/ spend the rest of your life with someone who cheats and lies to you. you saw the messages because God wanted u to.

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:51 am

@Solomon, your friend is coming to CPT you said? Is he single? Tall, good looking, no mkhaba?

I wnet through that during varsity. I had a friend who was doing quite well, working, nice car, stunning flat, the works. Mna I was still studying. I had to fake being happy for her. and I would avoid her often. But I quickly got over it because she never rubbed her success in my face. Now we are at the same level and all is good.
Shem, it’s only normal. But you’ll get over it soon hun.

But please answer the questions above

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:52 am

@sol its only human boet….maa watch it ekaba personal coz it can get dangerious..im talking crushed bottles in his food and eye gin in his drink ..lol

use the envy to push you as well..ALL IS POSSIBLE

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:53 am

Lol, I see some people silent blogging. Sensitive issue we’re dealing with at home today.

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:54 am

@CUTIOE…QINA BABBES ..DO WHAT nOMTWALO SAYS ..SIT STILL MARA PIMP YOUSELF GOET…thina amajita we get uneasy if madam stats taking extra care of himself

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:54 am

eish -HERSELF../…MIXING UP HIS AND HES IS SO BLACK #COVES FACE WITH BOTH HANDS#

lejazz on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:56 am

oooh it seems like all low cost Airlines are really going down one by one

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:57 am

@Monei, yes dear #sad face#

I can’t see it though, was it an attachment? It just says

From My friend

sent Via mobile

switpie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:57 am

Hi bloggers. So my laptop crushes wen m supposed to submitt my dissertation yooh the stress that I had goodness. Lucky was saving on my usb too so I ask boyfie for his laptop to finish my stuff. Busy typin typing I delete a file goes to recycle bin to restore it guess wat I find deleted pics of him in bed with anada chick tjooo I cried and told myself not to get mad coz I was busy with my assignment hope I pass. Argh I’m crshed nje n I showed him then told him nt to tok bwt it o try to explain. M I wrong for nt wanting to hear anything?

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:58 am

******AS bloggers ignore @appleladys novel************

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:02 am

@switpie dates on pics?

where thet having s#x ?

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:02 am

asanwababe he’s not single he’s very much in love. he is however all the other things you mentioned (umkhaba mncane)

anyways on a lighter side of things, whats whith these ladies driving these beasts? (chev SS lumina, S3, RS5, Golf R series) yesterday i got chowed by a Lumina driver and she said to me at he traffic lights “its a V8 babe” ! i felt like shit but i got the number so im happy-nyana.

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:02 am

Ngiyabinga @Nomthwalo

Yazi my boss just crapped on me for something I had no control over,venue change? Like really? Nxa…..Uyangi nyanyisa lo baba.

PoohBear on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:05 am

Morning Bloggers, my AG

Met this guy three weeks back, we hit it off and decided to give it a try, First week brother man was all lovey dovey, smses calls, awu following week brother man goes awol on me, only calls ngabo10pm, no more smses and lovey doveyness. Yah neh, ive just decided to give up on men, me and them nje just don’t jell, so me i’m going back to singelville, lendaba yamaBF ngiyayima.

2nd ive been working overtime the whole week at work, 8am to 12 midnight and i won’t even get a cent for it, not even leave days, i need a job shame, i can’t g on like this. And their plans sound ngathi we’ll be working like even at year end, ngeke ngikwazi, I want to be serving my notice in january, ngeke ngisebenzele uDankie.

Have an awesome day bloggers

daisy999 on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:05 am

morning all!

guys i want to enter idols.. not to b a singer no no no!! but to be an actress.. (yes i knw what ur thinking)..
look at gail nkoane!! she is not evn recognised for her music but for her acting role in the wild….

Then most interestingly i hear from one of my frends who works behind the scenes that DUMI MASILELA from idols will be on RHYTHM CITY.. bantu!! tjo.. kanti its like this now..!!

first he was a footballer.. waba hi musician.. manje actor? thusang

chilled sweet lemonade on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:05 am

hey peeps, im not a great dream interpreter….
what does it mean if you dream of someone being a traditional healer….i had a dream that a former friend of mine was a traditional healer. this is not the first time i have this dream, its just that this time around it had more detail to it.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:06 am

My ada AG can’t deal with indoda eyi blogger lol runs *elindele amatshe*

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:08 am

Yoh, tough week for bloggers!
@switpie, askies nana. At least now you know he’s a sferb.

@Mathaz, how did it go izolo?

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:08 am

Oh Solomon, the way I am obsessed/inlove with the Chev SS Lumina!! I swear I come in my panties when I see it… Oh my word!!

And the fact that I cant afford it now, feels like I am being rejected by someone I am really inlove with.

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:12 am

Hugs @ Cutie,amadoda kodwa.Stop asking him cos will deny it ,amadoda ayaphika,so just tell him you know.Ngiyazi kubuhlungu ,been there.

Vesa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:12 am

These dream interpretations are interesting hey?

@Trey….we’ve never condoned dating married men, we can’t tell adults what to do with their lives. We just frown when we first hear and move on. We can’t make other people feel bad with their choices all the time…..it serves no point. So the fact that we listen to @ntombi’s stories with her man doesn’t mean that we condone it and are in agreement with what she does.

chilled sweet lemonade on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:14 am

something was just weird about that lady that had the break in last night….why did she opt to tweet??…..

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:14 am

shame akekho ozokushaya ngamatshe, in order for us to understand women we must tap in to their minds and lives. I cant be chilling with women over a cup of tea, so this is me playing a part in getting to understand the female better !

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:17 am

sweetness, that car is a beast and seeing a woman in it just does things to a G. kumele ngiyizwe or maybe ngibazwe … yona ne owner !

Vesa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:19 am

@chilled sweet lemonade…..I also wondered the same thing. One tweep I follow once said that the way people tweet about everything in their lives, one day someone will be in danger and instead of calling the police they will tweet about it. I remembered his words last nite

Why didn’t she bbm everyone in her contacts to help her out? We all know you can get help from twitter, but not before you get mocked and being made the laughing stock first

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:21 am

@azande whats your beef with guys blogging…
please give a stong reasoning

Cutie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:21 am

@Bloggers – Thanks very much. I really appreciate your support. I must say, if you’ve never been cheated on you need to thank your lucky stars. Its painful and horrible.

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:25 am

ohk @Miranda, heheehehhehe nawe u made it sound like ke error nyana.

@Thabure deathby appleladys novel….Hahahhahahahahahahahha!!!

Dear @Applelady I have Christian friends who are divorced sisi and to be honest its ok. Some things are worth saving and some are not. So if @Cutie forgives and gets HIV will you say that was Gods doing or hers. Lets not always be spiritual when we need to be logical and vice versa. God forgives those who confess their sins and are willing to repent. And also make sure when you give advice from a Christian perspective, it is for a Christian. Christianity is not the only religion. Dont make me go Holy Mary on you know…. Ke friday.

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:27 am

@ Zara too vs to..*ive been waiting for this day* lol

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:27 am

Kwaaaaaaaaa @Bongi

LadyMillion on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:28 am

yhu! hayi *scratches head* uhmmmm do i really wanna get married

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:32 am

Happy Friday JC family!!! ol the best Noance, this time around u shud consider that job yours. My anything goes: I cant thank JC enoough for Russell Simmons tickets i won in September! My trip to SA was amazing, filled with so much adventure… Just out of curiosity how many of you have been to Botswana? or will like to visit this landlocked country of mine?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:35 am

Golden Diva, is this book downloadable *hides*

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:36 am

You know, maybe the world would be a better place if everybody dated everybody. *not like it’s not happening*

People want to be loved, accepted. So they get it wherever they can. Logic is lost. Men can differentiate between emotions and the physical. Pity women can’t

Letebele on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:36 am

“dreaming ka snake = sign that u have enemy and she/ he’s on ur back right now and u dont realise (u know how a snake operate akere)
snake n water- ur enemy is still hiding anf=d when it comes out of the water its gonna bite u. or etlo go gogela mo metsing and drown u. watch your back nana”

Hayini bethunana! That intepretation is just waaaaay off. Yoh! Wow!

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:37 am

Chandyol….ME ME ME ME ME…..#raises both legs and arms

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:38 am

hahahahaha @Bongi! wena Judge TreyScriptures the correct word is he’s not his you know contraction of he is! *damn! feels so good!

SO i had Vanilla sex last night! smh

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:39 am

@candyol i will only visit Bots if only if i don’t drive, I don’t go to clubs, anywhere that i might have an accident and kill someone.

my AG is that i spent the night with Lela- i’m sure you guys know what that means ne, had the best night on my life, we only closed eyes at 3am.LOL

zenzybear on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:39 am

morning guys…

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:39 am

@ZARA keng Vanilla sex ausi?

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:44 am

hehehehe @Miranda you’ve been here before or you would love to?
@Snapshot hahahhahahahaha u scared Mr Pres would sentence you to death? lol

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:45 am

@cutie, @switpie
Dedication of the day: Blu Cantrell – Hit ‘em up style

switpie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:46 am

@thabure I mean naked pics of him n her in bed. Some kissing tjo chineke ooo

Fire on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:46 am

My AG: I have a friend who asked me to be one of her bridesmaids. Wedding is out of town in the bundus. I am expected to pay for my dress which is unreasonably high! Ok, I can get the dress part when its a cheap one but I’m talking thousands here for the dress alone! I must also pay for my accomodation for the weekend and my makeup for the big day to include a few expenses. I will not mention the exorbitant prices. Kante wataguan, is that how weddings work nowadays? Even if I was a Motsepe I will never pay shem. We are not on speaking terms now because I’m the only rebel out of the lot! Its not the money, its the Principle.

Moral of the story, dont do things you can’t back up budgetwise. I will never invite people only to give them Biltong. Klaar!

Or am I overreacting people? Please share ur thoughts!

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:48 am

Chandoyl i been to Botswana; Hot country i must say! i was in Maun last year with Tshepi she is from Gaborone! I had a great time there i must say

Ms.E on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:48 am

@Chandol:i live 30km from the border…always wanted to come that side

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:49 am

@Fire i think you are overeacting cos that is how weddings work nowadays, actually that has olwys been the procedure…any chance of changing your thoughts about it?

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:51 am

@Thabure no beef neh ayikabi, but mina personaly neh don’t want indoda esemgosini , not that u guys not suppose 2, its none of my ndaba anyway.

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:53 am

@Ms E make sure when u in Bots u behave.@Candyol hai shem i am not coming, i get so worried whenever i hear that my relative is in Bots, the nerve of the President to kill people as if he won’t die himself…………your death sentence law specifically says “we will hang you by neck until you die” he banna! who draft such a thing and call it law…………….i am sorry my fellow blogger but Botswana is out of my radar.
1. they wanted to kill our Tokollo
2. they wanted us (SA) to extradite to Batswana nationals to be killed that side

I love our constitution, ithi right to life- anitholi lutho, bazohlala la emzansi and commit more murders

Bongani on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:53 am

Iskhokho is the woman from Portugal, oze nge ndlovu iyangena e daveyton. waba qhwagela indlu…#cuttingedge

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:54 am

Wow @Zara,glad you had a great time. Maun is like the hottest part in our country. I stay in Gaborone too. Hope you come again>>> @Ms. E which border? you could be here every weekend lol.

lwandie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:54 am

@Mr Mahlangu….strength!, be the gentleman, celebrate your friend’s success and let him enjoy his light then use it as a motivator to improve your own gig.

@cutie and @sweetie pie *hugs* deceit in any form is damn ugly,

My anything goes is the seemingly general lack of interest of most black people with their oral health.…most who come through my practice are there either to have a tooth pulled out when they are in extreme pain and the tooth is hanging on its last thread or filled,…hardly ever for a routine check up,or cosmetic treatment …when ever I refer them for a hygiene apt I get blank stares.

Out of interest how many attend their 6 month check ups regularly……attend hygiene apts regularly(3 or 6 monthly)…(and to break it down even further):floss daily, brush x2 daily, have invested in an electric toothbrush?

…for me a dodgy mouth is a deal breaker eeew

Ms.E on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:57 am

@Chandol:Ramatlabana,i stay in Maf

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:58 am

@ Zara what is vanilla sex ?

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:58 am

@chandyol, I was there last December and will be there again this December. Let’s do coffee / drinks when I’m there.

@zara yini iVanilla sex?

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:00 am

@Chandyol I’d love to come to Bots shame, one day is one day

My colleague is eating her skhaftini, the smell

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:01 am

Shandu, male or female? lol ! i can imagine them digging in lapho wena usunyanyile ! lmao.

Angenoir on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:02 am

Shandu going thru the same thing that time Im babie

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:03 am

@fufu and @asanwababe google is our friend.

Vanilla Sex
Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.

A description of what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual practice. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve elements such as, BDSM, kink, or fetish activities. Usually defined as boring, plain sex. But, a vanilla lover would regard it as making-love, passionate sex.

zenzybear on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:03 am

hai shandu angazi abantu banjani. there are things u can take as skhaftin to work, hai okunye kona its a big no no hey

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:04 am

@shandu what are they eating? TboTouch Mogodu?

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:06 am

Indoda yakho/ubabakho uzodliwa abanye abafazi mangabe naye ebafuna. Uthanda ungathandi.

@Cutie…dont leave him, mthele ngamanzi abilayo.

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:08 am

Eish wena @Noance. Now I feel so dom!

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:08 am

Yoh @snapshot its not like that; the penalty is for strictly murder cases. Does not apply to motor vehicles accidents. no one should claim any1′s life intentionally. that is why, if one does the state also sees to it that, that particular person is punished for their cruel deed. That is also why we have many cases for passion killings, if a lover decides to kill their partner,they also claim their lives knowing that if they dont they are going to be hanged still. (askies for the baby essay)

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:12 am

Hahahhahahahha dont @asanwababe.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:12 am

Zoe, Accounting is coming up ok hey my tutor is the most boring man ever but with accounting I gess practise is key akukho okunye. Thanks for asking hun

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:14 am

LOL @Solomom it’s a she angazi yini le ayidlayo but ngivele ngaphuma and opened the windows wangibuka

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:15 am

so Ntombi uzovala umgwaqo mase u graduate? sicela i street bash please !

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:15 am

@ChandyOl. Never been there

Fluffie on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:16 am

Eish thunder and lightning not so ayoba on a Friday and it’s so dark mxim!

(((HUGS))) @Cutie and @switpie this makes me sad.
Cutie I don’t think u should leave hubby; like some blogger said, the person calling u is rocking ur boat. Don’t give them the satisfaction. Deal with hubby the right way. All the best. Hope u don’t have “house in vaal”

@asanwababe is that you on the gravatar? at first glance u look like Pabi Moloi I like her nice

Mojito on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:16 am

Hi all! @Lwandie i fear dentists for the life of me however i did warm up to 1, but after doing that whole every 6 months visit, my teeth have lost that natural white (plz correct me on the right colour) glow, now agqwancu umbala! Should i now bleach or what? I use electric toothbrush & 2 different tooth pastes 1 in the morning 1 at night (phela ngifile ngama Ads eColgate, they all do something different & i want them all)

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:17 am

My AG…so I went to check the private school my daughter is going to attend next year. She cant go to Kensington cos I’ve moved to the East.
Its a small Christian private school and the fees are going to be R2400 a month. I tell this auntie I work with and she says, thats nothing Fez, I pay R4000 for my last born and R5000 for the older daughter. Cabanga! Mina ngisakhaliswa i R2000? The other day she told me that she’s paying R9000 for medical aid.
I was depressed last night and Im even more depressed manje.

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:19 am

There’s a blogger who invited me on Facebook izolo. Ungubani vele? I wont say ur name.

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:19 am

@ snapshot im happy with Botswana Law and rules. They dont have a high murder, crime rate like we do. You messed up there; you are going to be punished. SA gogos and babies are being raped every day; and these murderes are all the place – six months in jail and out again. I want to raise my kids in a crime free country like Botswana.

Mojito on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:19 am

@Fezzy what kind of medical aid? & how many people are depended on her medical aid?

fufu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:20 am

Thanks Noance.

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:22 am

@Mojito, she’s on Discovery and has her 3 kids (one over 21) as dependants.

Jellytot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:22 am

guys i am so bored at work. i wanna go home.
what can i do besides not working and refreshing jc comments. suggestions please!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:23 am

so Ntombi uzovala umgwaqo mase u graduate? sicela i street bash please !

heheheheheh Solomon I di that with my first graduation, this one akgke ngenze netiye hahahahahaha

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:23 am

@Fire, I got the same shock aswell last year when I was my friends bridesmaid. I did not rebel though.

Dress was R1800.
Shoes and accessories: R1000 (she chose the shoes too)
Transport: CPT to JHB R2000
Hire Car, toll gates and petrol to Thohoyandou Venda R 1600.
atleast she provided accomodation and food.

I AM NEVER GOING TO BE A BRIDESMAID EVER!!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:25 am

@Snaphot is it you thats an attorney konje?

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:29 am

@ Fezzy yhooo yisalary mos le uyibhatala apho; i pay R600 for the year for my grade 2 baby and R800 per month for my grade RR baby. The schools are multi racial in a colored suburb. Elokishini i would have paid R20 for grade RR and R100 for school fees.

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:29 am

Definately!!!! @asanwababe—->”@chandyol, I was there last December and will be there again this December. Let’s do coffee / drinks when I’m there.”
Ms.E: wow! o gaufi mos, o tle kwano mma.
@shandu wena!!! im still waiting for you
@Miranda shud make plans

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:29 am

Being a bridesmaid has become so expensive,I have been a bridesmaid twice and I only paid for thwe shoes. Accommodation was booked for us and all all…

Ay no why nmust the bride put bridesmaids through such, what if my bestfriend that i want as my bridesmaid is not working and why must people pay when I want them to khapha me. Ay suka I will never put my friends or family through such, I personally think its all for show nje.

*Aze amnandi amaMarie Biscuit, I’m halfway through the packet and now Im going to steal my boss’ hot chocolate. Now thats my #AG

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:30 am

This made me hop out of silentville —> Talia the Mafia! Glad to see you bought bundles with the R50 Trey though

******AS bloggers ignore @appleladys novel************ <— Tjo @Thabure ki fitile lenna, i cant read story se sikana..

Morning JCers..

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:30 am

@ Fezzy im the one who said – you must come to the bighouse -when you were feeling so down. Are you feeling better now?

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:30 am

ohhhhh i found the Batswanas are like the british very hostile ! smh! they cant even hide it worse cos they do that uneducated from top to bottom look that people with OS0.001 give!

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:33 am

Yoh, @sweetness! That is just too much shem. It’s not fair really.

@fluffie, no hun. That’s not me. I’m like ten shades darker than that.

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:37 am

@Fire It might be how weddings operate, but I personally wouldn’t go through all that when its not even my wedding. People have a tendency of making other people handle their business without victims realizing it. Its like hosting a damn birthday party at a club and expecting people to buy their own booze/Food

I hate those kinda people honestly. Don’t throw a party/wedding if you gonna expect peeps to pay for their almost everything. Well I personally hate stingy people, I always tell them not to invite me if I’m gonna end up paying for shit. The only thing I’m willing to pay for is alcohol, that’s it.

Well let me not go on and on, damn this pisses me off. Ask yourself one thing…Are you the one getting married? They must FOKOF

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:37 am

@Fire, these days its cheaper to be a guest nje. nna i wud have politely declined due to costs. they shudnt be unreasonable. what r u gona do with a multithousand rand dress after that wedding? nothing. u’ll dry clean and it will hang there til u cnt fit into it anymore anyways.

And then bridal shower what what’s u mus tbe involved there as well and who foots the bill? lona.

u’r supposed to be thanked for being a bridesmaid too by getting a gift. but watch her leave that out.

manyalo ke manyala fela sometimes.

siya on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:37 am

with all these stories am starting to wonder, ikhona indoda enga febi?? or enga cheat? my man cheated on me 3 times with the same chick, honestly i dont know what`s worse different women or one chick, mos it means they share something special if he cant let her go? before sihlangana naye i was with a married man and i knew the wife but we were not close, so i guess KARMA IS A BITCH!! Cutie yenza okusenhliziyweni sisi, inhliziyo ayiphakelwa thina sokunika all sorts of advises but wena am sure uyaz ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza,

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:40 am

@Ntombi, wa bona wena u know ppl ba right.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:42 am

Yazi everytime I read “Im sure” I cant help but read it as “Im shuwa” even if its work related. Hay Lady M uwrong sana

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:42 am

Ohhhhh Bongi thats u?! Im gonna stalk u from now on. Ngikuthanda kabi phela wena.

There’s another blogger who only invited me yesterday wena I’ve been friends with u for a while nje I didnt know that wuwe uBongi.

siya on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:43 am

HAHAHAHHA Ntombi! am shuwa!

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:44 am

@zara I felt the hostility too in the shops, especially because I cannot speak seTswana and I don’t understand it too well. But on the whole, I had a good time in Gabs and look forward to it in Dec.
But the heat!!! Then you see people walking about in jeans and long sleeved tops in that December heat!

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:47 am

AMEN>>>>>@ snapshot im happy with Botswana Law and rules. They dont have a high murder, crime rate like we do. You messed up there; you are going to be punished. SA gogos and babies are being raped every day; and these murderes are all the place – six months in jail and out again. I want to raise my kids in a crime free country like Botswana.
@Zara hahahahahaha yeah you are ryt *hides*

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:48 am

@sol @thabure ayi bo njalo ngiyazidlalela bafwethu, ngiziqhubela usuku as I wait for Macufe take off,

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:48 am

@siya, karma is a mean bitch shem.

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:49 am

yazi i havnt added my 2 cents yet.

@cutie *gives big hearty hug*, askies.
should u choose to stay,please don’t turn into those wives who stick around and complain abt his unchanging ways and expect empathy from ur close ones infinitely when u knowingly decided to stay. like Thuli Thabethe’s mom told her after her break-up, make-uo and susbsequent engagement to t-bo touch (Real magazine neng neng): when u decide to stay u r deciding to take all of that, all his history with that and the possibility of it happening again.

nna i’m more bothered at him thinking he can still spin this and u’r stupid. as if deception isn’t enough.trust is a seriously fragile thing. seldome relationships fully recover from it once broken.

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:52 am

i loved Gabs though that Rodizio restuarant; South Africa has it too; eish forgive me im a lover of meat! I get excited when my choices are endless! hahahahaahahahaha ! My friend was a Face of Africa many moons ago ok not so many but eish she took me to some place Fashion TV cafe or something like that; i had a blast! although i felt like the whole Gaborone had come out to play pity app it was closed!

Fire on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:52 am

Fire i think you are overeacting cos that is how weddings work nowadays, actually that has olwys been the procedure…any chance of changing your thoughts about it?

@Chandydol…no dear, I will never change my thoughts at all dear. Thanks but no thanks! Its so sad to live in a mediocre society that experts the norm out of inhuman tendencies. I will never endorse bull-ish shem.

@Sweetness my dear you were too kind!

@Ntombi I’m with you. If you hate me as a friend coz of my values, you were never a friend! I would rather top up my future kids’s trust fund.

@Asanwababe you look pretty hot my dear *bbm eyelashes*

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:58 am

Hayi its unfair for someone to pay for such wena @Fire.Its like you are the one getting married now!!!Same as people who do their 21st celebration/s in a private restaurant or club and expect everyone to pay for their food or drinks. I think only Black people do things this way!
@Solomon.Mahlangu: as long as you don’t let your jealousy affect how you treat your friend (in a bad way), its ok. Note: there is a big difference between “Isikhwele” and “Umona” and in English; they are represented by the one word “Jealousy”.
Do something about your life brother!

golden diva on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:59 am

@Ntombi I don’t think so. This is the kinda book you’d wanna buy though. Its worth every cent.

@Applesomething: so what you’re saying is that even if someone’s been unfaithful, you cannot divorce them?

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 11:59 am

@Fire wu ur friend wahlanya str8 abantu abangashadi if izaka lingekho, to pay 4 a dress and shoes yah vele dats ok, transport accomodation and all anever

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:00 pm

@Monei, I got the mail…as I read.Ke a leboga Mosadi

Sooo these prices

Hahahaha.I ppresume the bride told you 12 months in advanceNO screw that ,The dress will be bought from some boutique ….of nie so le tlo apara mpsa

I don’t strooi anymore because of the shit they make us wear and then its a 1000 down the drain.My cousin is getting married next year, I know she is going to ask me to strooi for her…hehehehe, I already have an imaginary expenxive conference to attend to in the same month.Ake tlo jewa like that, ngeke kulunke.

And I hear white brides buy everything for their bridemaids hle lena.

Fire on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:00 pm

@FrancyNkonyane 100%, I am told that I love money coz I can afford! The liver of even saying that!!!…not from the horses mouth though.

@Monei I politely excused myself shem. However, my apology was never taken nicely!

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:00 pm

experts vs expects;

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:01 pm

Fire, then explain to her that you cant afford all the costs, and she should find someone else…. No need for not talking to each other anymore

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:01 pm

LOL as i ignore @Ntombiyomzulu kwaaaa ngeke ngikuphendule shem

@Candyol still i am not coming, niyabulalana. @Bongi pack your backs and go live in Botswana until your husband fight with someone in a shebeen and the person dies, then you will claim “i am a south african, south africa should intervene” siyokuyeka shem baku henge.

@Candyol i think i hate the fact that its written in black and white that you will be hanged by neck till you die

i am so bored people, i feel like going home ngiyoganga eish

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:02 pm

@Zara yeah Rodizio in Riverwalk neh!! your friend could be kaone? and i think you went to Fashion lounge in phakalane? hehehe yeah if you noticed places around here are bit smaller. hahahhaha at “felt like the whole Gaborone had come out to play pity app it was closed!”

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:04 pm

Bathong @Snapshot, Hhaahhahahahahahahhahahaahhaha! Wa hlanya wena.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:04 pm

Fire, then explain to her that you cant afford all the costs, and she should find someone else…. No need for not talking to each other anymore

Exactly, be straight up with her.

sweetness on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:05 pm

Miranda, she is too secretive, I only found out about the marriege # months before, had this old white magogo do our dreses, which I think those ladies from elocation would have done a better job, for a third of that price.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:06 pm

why you ignoring me Snapshot, Im aking the question with a very straight face. I need some free advise about something.

Fire on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:06 pm

@golden diva yhu that book sounds very painful. The liver of the mom acting like she never saw anything? Shameful!

@Zara I had a terrible experience in Botswana. I will pass there and spend 1 night on my way to Swakopmund this Dec. I hope not to relive the experience.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:07 pm

Nna i’ve lost hope shame.. Seems all these niggas cheat nje.. Rona basadi we have to work re investigate(e)re sa fetsi.. I’ve taken a break from kgo tswara pelo ka teaspoon hle..

My AG : I was raped early last year ne, so obviously i haven’t been having sexual relations with any guys because of what happened. Okay FF. All of a sudden i’ve been having serious sexual thoughts about “legintsa” laka ne. And i’m so attracted to him (physically).. I’m sleeping over at his place tonight and nje i wanna “whoowhoo” but i’m afraid i’ll get flashbacks of that horrific night i had last year, i mean its not like i still don’t get nightmares. It still is fresh and i still get chills from it .. Eish..

Ms Diva on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:07 pm

School fees.my colleaugue who who is American sends his child to the American School(apparently he has to cause they not gona do anything with South african education after he goes back thats lol) .when i saw the fees i almost died. he has 2 kids and they each cost R250,000 pa thats like over R20,000pm plus they are picked up by school bus and thats R20,000pa for transport.

Thats crazy ish but for him is okay cause the Co pays for everything ,his home,kids,etc and his wife is just chilling( i wanna be that her)but tells me there are SA families who send their kids there on their own money obviously the few rich ones cause the school does not take anyone any way.

Soccerbabe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:08 pm

Hai hai hai Khosi of Drum is lazy now to think of fresh ideas, check fb Drum page, she’s now running WHO WORE THE SHEER DRESS BEST? With Pearl & Thembi Seete…COPYCAT…IF U SILENT BLOGGING YOU HERE WE WATCHING U nezidlathi ezinkulu

Toffolux on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:09 pm

Chandyol, i was there last year @ Phakalane Resort, what a beautiful place and the owner is so humble. One thing I appreciated was how safe youe country is. There was a lady drunk out of her mind walking alone in the wee hours of the morning. Was very scared for her but everyone assured me that no harm will come to her. I can only dream of living in a place like that. Mara the girls there ke matagwa, yo!!!!

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:10 pm

hahahhahahhahahhahahhahah @Snapshot i understand yo grievances>>> as for Bongi you are more than welcome to stay in this peaceful land.Your kids will never hear a gunshot or even see one except those from the military guys. Police officers dnt carry guns unless they are on a mission.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:11 pm

Do you say:

I need an Advise or advice?
or
Please Advise or Advice?

these words confuse the heck out of me, I always get confused which to use where…lol

English Mistresses and Misters please advise or advice or whichever one Lol

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:11 pm

@OSS: (((Hugs))) you need clinical help maan!Have you tried seeking help from a Khawnsela ever since the incident happend?

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:12 pm

Esh @OSS I’m so sorry angazi nokuba ndithini, this bolile world we live in askies *hugs* esh in so heart broken manje

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:17 pm

oh @OSS. I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal sisi. *hugs*. lol @Soccerbabes and izihlathi ezinkulu…

Eyh2Jee on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:17 pm

@NotMbi :kwaaaa. Advice (noun=isibizo) =I need advice.
Advise (verb=isenzi) =I was advised /I want to advise you.
*thanks to uncle Google*

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:18 pm

Kodwa @Soccerbabe did you have to mention “izihlathi ezinkulu”
kwaa kwa kwa.

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:19 pm

Aowa @Toffolux so you friends with Magang? owner of the resort? wow!! hahahaha, yeah dats how relaxed things are this side esp in phaks.but there areas where they will swindle her of her every asset (in places like zola and gwest. ao mma, ga re matagwa, we just love life khikhi

Toffolux on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:19 pm

wow OSS, you just broke my heart. Its so sad that some men dont and will never understand the damage they cause to us. Good luck with moving forward ({big hug})

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:20 pm

OSS sorry to hear about that, did you confirm if you guy is iginsta ?
Maybe you should go for counselling before you engage in any sexual activities.*hugs*

IF U SILENT BLOGGING YOU HERE WE WATCHING U nezidlathi ezinkulu

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa nezidlathi ezinkulu

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:21 pm

eish, OSS bathong! sorry babe. Maybe u shudnt have sex with someone unless u’r emotionally ready to handle their reaction to your reaction. eg, shud u start crying and pushing him off, be at an emotional stage in ur rship to make him understand that it wasnt personal for said reasons and he shudnt run away hopefully.

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:22 pm

@ChandyOL….suggest nice thingd to do ko Botswana,koya ko google and read up

@OhSoStunning ….you trust this Lekintsa guy? Please take pepper spray or a knife with, and I am not Joking.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:23 pm

Thanks Ey2Jee lol I was lazy to google hawu ukhona nje wena s thandwa sami lol
But do you say Please advise or Please advice???

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:25 pm

(((big hug)))) for OSS,time and prayer shall heal evrything.

Toffolux on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:25 pm

haai wena Chandyol, Im not that ancient, hape ke ntate mogolo. I was with a group of people and he was hosting us

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:27 pm

@miranda, u’r likely to find very touristy things to do. esp involving safaris.Botswana practices high value, low volume tourism. in other words, its not for evert tom, dick and harry. they even have Motswana rates at these safari places coz the normal prices are high! largely the delta and the like in the north. so i recommend u ask chandyol instead. frm a local’s view of what’s nice to do.

@toffolix, ke matagwa str8! and o ka re ba diriwa worse ke gore their president despises alcohol.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:28 pm

Thanks guys. @Eyh2Jee I didn’t really deal with it.. I never told my folks due to the kind of relationship we have and a couple of my friends know but they could only do so much hey. I’m just a person who doesn’t dwell on negative things, i was truly grateful gore i wasn’t infected with diseases and infections and that i didn’t fall preggas.

On the brighter side, i know my boo aint that special and he prolly wont get none but i got me some lingerie (just incase) for my “first time” after the rape..Tltltltltl

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:30 pm

@miranda hahahhhaha lol u always kill me knife with and I’m not jocking lol

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:30 pm

@Lwandie, you guys are expensive, i paid R691 just to wash my teeth two weeks ago. A procedure that lasted 15 minutes

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:31 pm

I didn’t ask him.. Mara i really think he is.. Kelona straight.. Mara i have this soft spot for him nje. I don’t know why hey..

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:31 pm

@Miranda>> in and around gabs you can search for Mokolodi Nature Reserve, The Lion Park, Phakalane Resort, and clubs if you do clubs. But for deeper tourism away from the city we hav Kgalagadi desert, the Central Kalahari Game Reserve, Okavango delta, Khama Rhino Sanctuary and the kazungula area, Chobe national park and the Victoria falls. After googling pls share with me what excites you

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:33 pm

u know, some ppl wud probably think u r being detached/disconnected coz batho ba bantsho as a ppl we like to mope and complain and “woe is me”. but nna, i like ur attitude. just back it up with solid emo healing by getting a pro counselor. just to tick it off and to prepare u for anything post-ordeal.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:33 pm

Gomolemo kodwa girl phela, im still waiting my angel
Been waiting since midnight
So who was bashing you about being shelad by Steven Pienaar?

Chandyol on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:36 pm

@Monei yeah true, we trying to keep up with the forever rising alcohol levy, and just this 1st October 2012, there was a further increase of 5% (very depressing) Phela it is the things that you are denied doing that you enjoy most!

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:37 pm

@lwandie, i only went to the dentist last yr to check out what the heck was making my head split in two! found out my wisdom teeth were growing funny. and as Gomo says, demmit! i paid. for cleaning le x-ray. mxim. before that i last went to a dentist to pull kid teeth out and for fillings when i was still in primary.atlst the maxillofacial surgeon charged medical aid scheme rate. was supposed to go for cleaning since but i’m not ready for that damn grand to go out of my medical for a bit of cleaning.

Shandu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:39 pm

Hahahahahaha nezidlathi ezinkulu hehehehehehehe ave nizoshawa we @Soccerbabe

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:39 pm

@OSS sorry dear, ube right. take it easy. i am tempted to ask what happened, who did this thing, ngizomjuba amasende.

at Nontombi kwaaaaaaaaaa ufuna u even asking proper english so you can address me, FYI, i don’t read anything that has grammatical errors etc

so get all the english you can nana

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:39 pm

Hawu @OSS Please tell me the monster who did that to u is behind bars. If he is not, get the gintsa to re-arrange him. Please!

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:39 pm

Nchoooooooo @OSS I’m happy u can now even laugh abt it keep it strong lky dat sisters

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:40 pm

Oh @OSS…I hope he doesnt give u R20 tomorrow neh. Kwaaaaaaa

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:40 pm

OSS im so sorry love eish i can only imagine! Please get help habouring things wont help you;

@Chandoyl its before kaone hun
@MissDiva they are expats; its a norm they uprooted their lives i know a friend who works at a certain place; He has been living at the Michaelangelo for 2 years now the company pays

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:40 pm

are any of u in the business or employment of making and/or selling of clothes, bedding (anything that requires sewing to be made)???

cherries on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:41 pm

Eish Fire I know what u talking about too well.. The worst part about paying that much for a dress is when u dont even have a choice on the design, so uyo waster imali on something u’ll never wear again.. Mina the last bride I was a bridesmaid for was getting the dresses by some freakum expensive tailor, I asked them to give me my share of the material & I went and got a dress that I love, made by someone I trust & very reasonably priced…

@Chandyol the way I love Botswana hey, never been there been meaning to go for the longest time.. I even wanna move there nje *sigh*

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:43 pm

@ Fez uthandwa ndim wena va..hmmm CT weather is on another level – beautiful sunshine…

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:45 pm

Mxim @Bongi, throws a handful of rainwater at u.

LadyMillion on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:48 pm

nezidlathi ezinkulu

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:49 pm

at Nontombi kwaaaaaaaaaa ufuna u even asking proper english so you can address me, FYI, i don’t read anything that has grammatical errors etc

so get all the english you can nana
hahahahahah @Snapshot FUSEGI!!!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:51 pm

@ Monei I know someone, whats up?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:58 pm

Im so bored yezwa, really cant study during the day. My comncentration span is Whack shame

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 12:59 pm

i wana get samples made of sumthing i’m interested in selling but i am struggling to find sumone to help. heck, i was cool with la bomama ba se lokishi but i clearly dnt know any or ppl who know any. i’m getting frustrated and i havnt even started.

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:00 pm

any gentlemen’s clubs in Gabs Chandyol? maningi amabhubesi la e S.A but not so many Tswana speaking *clears throat* dancers

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:01 pm

Yoh Fezzy i’ll hit him so hard.. R20 is just an insult. Ke legintsa le jwamng kanti. And no, that psycho is not in jail. Didn’t know where to start looking for him.. @snapshot, ke ditaba tsa ho jaiva.. I doubt i’ll ever be ready to go to a club ever again.. Thanks for the luuurv bloggers..

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:01 pm

@Ntombi, if my memory serves well it was @Thabure, LOL

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:01 pm

Can it be 4:30 already yesssssses

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:02 pm

drop me a mail, will respond. ntombiyomzulu12@gmail.com

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:04 pm

Yoh @Azande nna gats to wait till 6:00pm.. #Yawn

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:04 pm

Gomo you take Malume serious ay bo kahle wena. Iza nendaba wena khohlwa uThabure

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:06 pm

lol@Ntombi and the irony of her encouraging Gomo to divulge personal stories.

LadyMillion on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:10 pm

@Azande and @OSS rhali rhali im off at 14:00 woohooooo

Lela on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:12 pm

I need advice,please advise.

Wena Lwandle awume kancane ama oral health ogogo bethu bebexubha ngomthuthu and their teeth were just fine.

Fire u are not wrong nana it is about principle vele i hate that thing with everything in me infact nje i hate anything that exploits other people,kukusa nje nokuthakatha to expect people to pay for ur wedding or ur party. U ask me to be ur stromisi u pay for my everything including flight fares and accomodation if u can’t asiyeke. Ifana nalaba bama exotic venues for their party only to have u pay. I didnt do my 30th because i couldnt afford, i trust God for ma 31st next year. I once took a fligh to PE, bought new clothes only to find we will be paying for our meals at the venue. I was very pissed. It’s a matter of principle vele, i know ma friends can afford meals at Signature which is where i wanted to do my 30th but i refuse to subject them to that in the name of my party.

Cutie askies nana just take it easy nhe,the reverse pychology is what makes it worse,i dumped BF because of it. Just by the way to apple the bible very much allows divorce where marital unfaithfulness is concerned, we don’t condone it tho.

Snapy thanks for the amazing night!

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:13 pm

@OSS so u dont even know the guy who raped u. Damn! Nkosiyami ngingaba yini nje?
Sorry babe.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:14 pm

@LadyM esh bo dade ingane zabantu *efisa ngabe uyena loyo*

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:16 pm

Anever. LOL @Ntombi. I have been burnt too many times la ekhaya, but i dont learn. But dont worry, i will fall off the wagon soon. Kwaaaaaaaaaks!!

@Lwandie, i use White-Glo toothpaste, is it good or expensive mahala? and how often should we go for check-up? i must admit myself i have beautiful teeth, but i want that glowness, i want that smile…help lapho!1

@Fezzy, private schools are expensive dear, my colleague was paying about 3600 for some private catholic school, and i remeber i used to tell her that some people dont even earn that. Mina i pay 1300 for creche, and ifeel that its too much, but then we want whats best for our children.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:20 pm

@LadyMil Lets trade lives!!! At least kenale JC, i don’t have mosebetsi o mongata today so i’ll all good.. @Fez eish yeah, imagine how scared i was!! Phela akitsi what the guy is about, where he’s been..
Hey i cant help but feel sorry for cutie hey.. Mxm, nna akitsi banna ba nagana jwan

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:21 pm

@OSS Tlogela MaGintsa please *im not judging*

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:25 pm

@Gomo, we shall patiently wait for you to fall off the wagon.

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:28 pm

@Fezzy, i say just let go of the money dear. it is an investment into ur child’s education. nna i would rather spend thousands in the primary years coz they are foundational and the work ethic, love of learning or reading, speech,etiquette,etc are established there. wherever u take her to high school after, she will take that with her and it cnt be reversed. even if u take her to a lokishi school after- she will still be good at whatever, but opportunities will be limited.anyways, my point is u will be spednign that money well….assuming that school duznt have zim-accented teachers.tltltl

wena@bongi, ur children r gona sound like coloureds. that always cracked meup abt xhosa’s frm cpt who went to coloured schools. their xhosa is cool and then they trun coloured when they speak english. such a mindf**k. same goes for zulus that went to indian schools.

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:28 pm

*turn coloured

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:32 pm

Hey hey peeps…..Geez it’s been a while #BlameItOnAuditting

My AG is I’M GETTING MY VERY FIRST CAR *whoop whoop*…. Expecting delivery on Tuesday *super excited*

And in other news, I think I might be inlove. The guy I’ve been sort of dating for the past two months is flying up from CPT – DBN next week Thursday and we road tripping to JHB to spend the weekend with his family *again super excited*

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:33 pm

@Francy eish, i know.. He is totally not my type i’m kinda fond of him!!! And i feel he’s really into me. Or is he just wheeling me in?? Are you talking from experience? #JustCurious

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:34 pm

To those off to Macufe, have responsible fun. No Marie stopes models please, we’re tired of paying tax to support illegitimate kids/love children. Sunny skies all the way

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:36 pm

@ Snapshot i will gladly move to Botswana;my hubby will have to do with drinking anywhere besides shebeens. Also i had a good experience with botswana people- ilove them. When i was still in my phapha days, i used to stay in Observatory,the place was full of botswana students- their gov paid for everything, yhoo nge 25th of each we used to drink imali yase Botswana, nice lovely people.

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:38 pm

@Ntombi, u’ve got mail!!! (ting, ting,ting,ting,ting<—-ringing bell)

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:51 pm

@Bongi, kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa –> yhoo nge 25th of each we used to drink imali yase Botswana, nice lovely people.

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:54 pm

@azabde …..what did Thabure do now ?

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 1:59 pm

Mara who is Jub Jub’s sangoma? That sangoma knows their thing yoh! Verdict to be heard Tuesday. Not today

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:00 pm

tjo

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:02 pm

@GOMO ?nna phikisa you ka peinaa wa di chubaba ? wang sukela ekare ke go favour so wena sgebhengu saka …

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:03 pm

I cannot function, waiting for the company to get back to me. I cant work, couldnt even eat lunch Eish I wish they would call.

If by some evil chance, which is very remote, I dont get this job?!? I am afraid I shall drown myself in savanah.

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:05 pm

LOL @Monei…this one is a white school in Boksburg. No Zim teachers.

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:06 pm

I cud use idumpy ye hunters dry yazi. I havent drank alcohol since the 1st of January.

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:09 pm

@OSS I can never go for a guy who’s not my type and keep thinking ill grow fond of him. When it ends bad, I don’t wanna beat myself up thinking “I knew he wasn’t my type in the 1st place”. *Thats my opinion

Gangsters Mmawe, niggas will ruin your life. Not saying another kind won’t, but they do it intentionally and deliberately. I’ve never dated one & will not, simply because I grew up observing them (all kinds) but you should see my friends. Yho yho yho A HELL OF A MESS! And trust me, they all the same, Soweto, Tembisa, Sandton, Pretoria, Glenvista *fuck all of them.

Solomon.Mahlangu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:11 pm

the sex talk in this office, damm !!!

these nerds !!

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:11 pm

Ya vele@Thabure it was u…death by sgebhengu!! wa mphaphela wena mare waitse, we must meet, i want to settle some score le wena! but it was u, i remember.

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:13 pm

So you guys are ignoring me vele? where is Melody Motha? Any news? is she still pouting? Is she married to mike tyson?

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:16 pm

@Noance, we will never ignore dear, that job is yours, when you drink that savannah tonite, you will be celebrating. Now, calm down and take a deep breath.

Letebele on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:19 pm

Fire: it is wrong to expect people to pay for anything that has something to do your wedding. When people decide to marry,they should include everything in their budgets. One friend got married last year and my job saved me from the costs,couldn’t attend the wedding. Another is getting married next year and if she’s not covering the costs shem,andizingeni. Its bad enough travelling from one province to the next,imagine paying for a dress that won’t flatter you and will remain in your closet with no use. Hayi suka!

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:20 pm

@ImbaliEnhle are you guys using your car to visit the guy’s family?
So uyovakasha kwaboyfriend? When are you taking your car home?

Thabure on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:21 pm

@Gomza O bloma kae?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:22 pm

lol@Ntombi and the irony of her encouraging Gomo to divulge personal stories.
Guilty as charged ma!!! ukuthi ngithanda indaba nje eish

Gomo yekela lol

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:23 pm

Dobsie X3 @Thabure

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:26 pm

@Noance, maybe she isn’t pouting after all. It’s probably just swollen lips from the heavy punches. If Tshepo was my hubby, I’d always throw him against the wall, he’s very skinny.

Who here is in an abusive relationship? And are you planning to be abused for a life time?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:30 pm

I need advice,please advise.

thank you Lela

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:32 pm

@Francy you’re right yaz’. This could end badly nje..

Oh mara i really like him!! *cries*… He treats me so damn well and i’ve never felt so loved.. It hurts me ukuthi he does what he does and i cant even tell my friends about it…

Miranda on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:33 pm

Congradualtion Imbalihle…..but wait,ni hamba ka moto ka bani when going to his house? if yakho, then Uthenge izjambo uzishaye for not not taking the car to your home first, but to the BF’s . Naye umamawakho fanele akushaye for lento.LOL

Jellytot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:33 pm

@ImbaliEnhle well done on your car
are you driving to his familys house?

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:33 pm

Kwaaaaaaa@Ntombi, your wish is my command dear. JBS!! congrats@imbalienhle, from now on u will find any excuse to drive, even to the spaza shop, thats what a new car do to u. Enjoy it and flirt with the metro cops!!

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:35 pm

@Nomthwalo: I’m going home after picking it up on Tuesday, then taking the family out on Wednesday, then he arrives Thursday night (staying with a mutual friend) than we leave first thing Friday morning. Yes we taking my car. We staying at his brothers place but his whole family is based in JHB so we’ll do lunch with them

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:36 pm

@Miranda: I’m going home first hawu…LOL

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:36 pm

Aaaaaaaah @Gomo thank you suga. *as I take a deep breath*

Tjo but you will be surprised @Trey, there are some skinny guys who will beat the living day lights out of you. So skinny they will slap you with their foot, ba flex khabi.

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:37 pm

@OSS, Does him being igintsa making him a bad person? What if ushaya igold, quits ukuya e roundini and starts a thriving business?? Give that ou a chance tu and stop torturing your poor self

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:37 pm

Thank you @Jellytot:)

bumbum on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:41 pm

Tjo so many comments, don’t know where to begin. @Ntombi pls give me your mail addy nana.

Kusihlwa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:43 pm

@Gomo, me too. I will never ever share again la ku JC cauze kuno Moses lapha who are keeping history notes on thier tablets la so I would rather die inside with my problems shame.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

ntombiyomzulu12@gmail.com

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

Congrats Mbaliennhle

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

@ImbaliEnhle, congrats dear! Enjoy it babe. And as @Gomo says, you shall be finding every excuse to drive it.
But ngiyacela bandla, be careful on your drive to Joburg. It is often not advised to drive a new car on long distance trips. I know of people who have done that and have had major accidents.
Another thing, how well do you know this guy? I’ll explain why.

Pappy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:45 pm

My AG: I met this guy in PTA during my dec holidays, we’ve been incontact since on friendly bases, nothing hectic. we met again yesterday briefly thou here in cpt and jeses the boy is hot hot hot…and today im meeting him again after work and im all excited nje… i think we gonna kiss *Hides*

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:46 pm

@OSS has he touched you yet, on your neck to be precise? They have a tendency of touching girls and you all of a sudden FALL IN LOVE JUST LIKE THAT *hint hint LOL

Haai Girl, I don’t know. I was just giving you my thoughts nje. If you wanna go for him, then hey, its your call. What I’m saying is that you gotta be extra careful in life, double Triple check Goodluck

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:47 pm

So you guys are ignoring me vele? where is Melody Motha? Any news? is she still pouting? Is she married to mike tyson? <———————- LMAO

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:47 pm

Congrats @Imbalienhle. what car did u get, if i may ask? i’m just curious. not to judge.

@pappy, that’s so cute. lol!

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:48 pm

Thank you @Ntombi Yomzulu and @asanwababe: I’ve known him for 4 years.
I drive it as much as I can over the 3 days before the trip to get the feel for it.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:49 pm

Mbali why dont you take his car to Jozi love? Im very superstitious about such things

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:51 pm

@Gomo He steals so it does make him a bad person.. Lord knows if he has blood on his hands for killing people. Akitsi lenna. I don’t know if i want to be with someone o qhadileng business ya hae ka blood money.. Will it not backfire kaosane, and nna, what’s gon’ happen to me? I’m only 21.

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:52 pm

Thanks Monei. I got a 2012 Polo 1.4 Comfortline

Jellytot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:53 pm

Ya why arent you taking his car? DBN to JHB is far-ish. What if you hadnt gotten your car next week. how were you going to jhb?

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:54 pm

@Ntombi Yomzulu: His flying up from CPT, too far to drive all the way for a weekend

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:55 pm

@Imbali, hayi ke, no worries dear. Thought it was someone you’d just met 2 months ago.
Enjoy your road trip with your man.

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:55 pm

@Jellytot: we were going to fly, flights booked and all, now we’ll cancel the reservations

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 2:56 pm

@Ntombi why are you superstitious?

@OSS Goodnyt shame. *hugs*

Congrats @Imbalienhle……

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:00 pm

@Imbali, maybe you should just fly…

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:01 pm

Congradualtion Imbalihle
@ImbaliEnhle well done on your car
Hhayibo! Ni serious vele?

@Mbali….ifika nje imoto usuyifaka endleleni ende kanje?

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:01 pm

@OSS, ask Gomo how to deal with amagents.

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:01 pm

@Noance: thank you dear, they grilling me as if his a random guy I’ve freshly picked up the street a week ago or something…LOL

nomthwalo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:02 pm

Ok ngiyezwa Mbali

Congrats on ur first car- umphathe kahle ubaby wakho(the car) oh well both
You had me worried there for a second, thinking uya kwamfana nemoto ekhaya bengakayiboni.

All the best with your road trip

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:02 pm

Oh ok I see…

@Noance I dont know hey its crazy, I think nje ekhaya we very superstitious, from my mom or gran I dont know

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:05 pm

@OSS, if he doesnt seal those things, someone elese will anyway, i know i sound otherwise, but ou will understand when u are my age, lol. It looks to me as if u want this guy, then again u dont, make up your mind.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:05 pm

Ni Driv(e) safe ke love

zara on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:05 pm

why was Jub jub’s case moved @Treyscriptures

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:07 pm

@ImbaliEnhle byahlanya abantu ba laykhaya, Hhahahhahahahahha. Have fun on your raod trip.

@Ntombi be careful what you harbour in your mind, not knowing why. What you think about, you bring about.

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:07 pm

@ Monei about the colored accent; they are already sounding like coloreds, i have asked them to speak like Jessie (the girl in one of the kiddies channel on dstv. When they are bigger they will speak right i know that. For now hulle kan maar aangaan *im colored tone*

ImbaliEnhle on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:08 pm

@Fezzy: yep, its the best way to really get a feel for it. I love long distant drives

Pappy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:09 pm

Ow i forgot to mention he’s from Angola, i feel like im pulling a Tshidi & William

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:09 pm

I HATE the way coloured speak and nje I dont really like coloured so ngeke bakithi uThando aye eskoleni sama coloured. And they start smoking bena 12. Yho!

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

@ Fez if usela i Hunters Dry then you might as well drink True Beauty tea…iyarhudisa i Hunters Dry lol

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

Awu bafweni aniyekeni ImbaliEnhle angaze angahambi kahle, umlomo uyadala isono sakhe ukuthi ashola her plans n
, Give her a break pls her car is the only option hle,

Congra Mbali and safety journey

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

Gomo she likes him but she is scared, that is how I see it.

Let me fill you in OSS, I once dated igintsa in my early 20s and I loved him much, he loved me shame yena and did everything I wanted and was abit older than me. It didnt last though cos ngahlakanipha but dating him was the biggest mistake of my life. Maybe you should date him then you will understand what Im talking about. With such people you learn the hard way. I wouldnt advise you to jola this guy but who am I to tell you who to jola?

Good luck on decision, not much good comes out in such relationships. Trust me

Monei, I sent you an email

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:12 pm

@Noance, hahahahahahahaha, asihlanyi. We are just concerned and justifiably so. It’s not good to drive a brand new car on long distance trips.

Azande on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:20 pm

Says who its not good to drive a new car on a long distance, what do I do ke I’m in jhb bought a car home is dbn , dan what do I do ukuyobabonisa fly it
? Ayikabi ngiyazibuzela nje

TreyScriptures on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:21 pm

Because of the weather @Zara! Ya I know -___-

bumbum on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:22 pm

@Ntombi you’ve got mail dear.

bongi on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:23 pm

eish Fez about the smoking yama colored …dont remind ne i went to a coloured school- primary and high school. Sjo i was shocked at the way the girsl were smoking ngayo. Coloureds and smoking damn …from an early age.In high school teacher will even ask entjies from pupils. Hai shame mna ive never smoked -so if they smoke it will strain my budget – cigarettes are expensive.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:30 pm

@OSS Goodnyt shame. *hugs* why this @noance
@Trey ke confused jwang
@Gomo, lol I WANT HIM!!!
@Ntombi really? *Shaking*. Can i go to him for the last time hle, lol!!! Tjo @Pappy kemang Tsidi le William jwanung. We love our foreigners baby, ba tshisa. Ke le dark dindi??? *hhhhhllluppp!!*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:34 pm

Mmmmmm

Noance on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:37 pm

@OSS cause your young, vunerable and trying to make sense of this thing we call life.

“He steals so it does make him a bad person.. Lord knows if he has blood on his hands for killing people. Akitsi lenna. I don’t know if i want to be with someone o qhadileng business ya hae ka blood money.. Will it not backfire kaosane, and nna, what’s gon’ happen to me? I’m only 21.”

Start making better choices at 21, dont use 21 as reason for making bad decisions. You dont have to walk down the same road, when someone is telling you how its going to end up.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:37 pm

Coloured accent though, smh!! Angsoze

Vesa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:38 pm

@OSS….I know you are happy and all ka legintsa la hao. But I grew up in Soweto, and have seen how amagintsa treated women, had friends who dated them including neighbours ne….ayi, some of them got saved when they went to jail.

And legintsa ha le lahliwe. He can disappear for months, and the day he decides to come back you are still his gal. Some are in jail, but still call their homes checking up on them. Wuuu ee, it’s a no go area I tell you

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:38 pm

@Azande, you can put it on a goods train or they can deliver it to Durban. It’s just advised not to do it ngoba everything is still new, breaks and all.
Use it, don’t use it. Yi advice nje.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:40 pm

Start making better choices at 21, dont use 21 as reason for making bad decisions. You dont have to walk down the same road, when someone is telling you how its going to end up. <—- This is so true..

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:42 pm

@Vesa especially that she is young he will take advantage nje

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:44 pm

Yoh guys ya’ll are scaring me right now.. All i wanna do is confirm that he really is a gangster!! Im asking him tonight

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:45 pm

hahaha@Bongi. nna i met these coloured sounding xhosas at university- so the correction might not happen. plus they were conscious of it so opted to speak english seldom. which means practice to correct was minimal.

start preaching about how bad smoking is now.tltltl

Ntombi Yomzulu on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:46 pm

When you there @ OSS? hehehe

Vesa on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:46 pm

@Ntombi….exactly!

Next thing cops will be ransacking your house thinking you are hiding some of his stuff in your house. Haayi, stay away from drama nana

Gomolemo on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:50 pm

Bathong who said u cant drive a new car long distance, i drove to Zeerust a week after i bought my new car. Nothing happened. and Wena@Ntombi why uthi it is not advisable to jola ana magintsa, kanti why? amagintsa akumelana abe nama cherrie? you are wrong sana, LOL

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 3:52 pm

I’m going there after work!

Pappy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:00 pm

@ OSS yena he’s yummy..he’s got the whole talk dark thing going on, and he does the hand kissing, apparemtly its a norm in Angola. Anyone who has dated someone from Angola? What should i look out for?

@FrancyNkonyane on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:03 pm

@OSS ill give you my life if he says “ah uyazi mina ngeke ngiwayenze lawa masimbha” *rolls eyes* But I bet he’s gonna say “ah sweety, ngi CEO yase transnet”

Girl Please, I have never met a thug who admitted to being a gangstar!

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:14 pm

@Pappy yoh katle kabanale jealous!!I’ve dated a malawoian lass. Mar le Angloian, yoh, ai go for it!!!! @Francy lmao, its worth a try… I cant wait to knock off so i can just spend the night there.. “For the last time”

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:15 pm

Malawian and Angolan <—- corrections

sparrow on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:19 pm

@OSS-thibega, i just cant help but wonder how big ubongi is, i meaning moving from duromine to tea…seems like you are in quite hectic condition, surely you’ve tried bio-slims,hlasela-mafutha and zumba, i dont get get it because there’s a lot of women that i know who look smoking haute from using duromine alone.

Pappy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:27 pm

Ow really? Haya mara i can see u o na le jelas thou. i cant wait to leave the office…i think le wena u adding on my excitment nje

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:31 pm

What happened to that guy wa di “un-sisters” update please..

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:37 pm

@Sparrow, uBongi is not big shem.

Fezzy on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 4:40 pm

Is it possible to love a person and hatw them at the same time? Cos I love my bf but I hate him! I don’t think I wud feel sorry for him if something bad were to happen to him. I really don’t understand why I allow myself to stress ova sum1 so ugly.

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 5:02 pm

@sparrow though, lol.. smh! I really don’t understand why I allow myself to stress ova sum1 so ugly. @Fez i wonder nrother o yentseng bathong!!!

One more hour to go.. This is going to be one long ass hour!!!!

Monei on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 5:08 pm

kwaaaa@ Fezzy. “ova sum1 so ugly.” kwakwakwa

OhSoStunning on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 5:54 pm

Its knockoff time biatch!

bumbum on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 5:54 pm

Kwaaaa@Franky saying he’s going to say I’m a Transnet CEO. @OSS let me know if he says he’s a Transnet CE0 I will tell you if he’s lying or not and which division.

Nwai on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:03 pm

@OhSo go nd experience nana akhomntu engenayo apha, kwazbani maybe monday ur gitsa will suprise u ngePolo 1.4 brand new 1 $sideeyeMbal$ athi nayi ipresent baby.

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:37 pm

My AG: Friday evening, chilling at home. Plan-less. #sigh

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 7:48 pm

@Assa sorry ne, come join me in bed. I’m just rolling.

Deathby this guy umakhi sending me an sms athi Hi, that time mubi ngathi yiskorobo mxim

asanwababe on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 9:37 pm

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Snappy! Thanks for the laugh #picturing iskorobo!
Give the guy a chance hawu!

snapshot on Fri, 12th Oct 2012 10:39 pm

@Asa yaz my skorobos I even cleaner than him. Angimazi what’s his problem.
@OSS kuhamba kanjani lapho kwa Mr ligintsa, I hope u not bombing I ATM lol

Nerlee on Sat, 13th Oct 2012 8:17 am

@AppleLady fruitful advice u gave sisi.

@Cutie don’t listen much to what the bloggers say my dear they are the greatest hypocrits. Their views and opinions change everyday and its always influenced by “TO WHO” are they giving advice to.

trust me the fact that its with 6 women doesn’t not really change anything, Cheating is Cheating!

Deal with izinto zomzi wakho the best way u know how. And if u are a praying woman, don’t stop. Never make decisions unomsindo though.

bumbum on Sat, 13th Oct 2012 12:33 pm

Hello ladies mantombazane nama jalimane (Gentleman)

How did it go @OSS, did he show you ATM tapes and gold cards from all SA banks. LOL I hope he had a valid explanation, maybe he’s on annual leave.

thephlyone on Sat, 13th Oct 2012 4:10 pm

Why do women stay in abusive relationships? I find this so hard to understand! He beats u up to a pulp, u can’t walk, eyes blocked because of bruises and u still stay and accept his pathetic excuses and apologies! Am just so mad at this lady that I know, I no longer feel sorry for her. I’ve tried everything to help but ngeke ngisakwazi.

shybear on Sat, 13th Oct 2012 9:31 pm

@chandyol my husband is frm F/Town tutume, i ws there 4the 1st tym last dec, there ws nt much to do bt at least its nt very diff frm s.a, the shops, the food, the music, n there ws a lot of gp cars which ws very comfortng. Ths yr we planning 2go to maung/okavango delta,

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