Spotted at Taboo’s 9th Birthday Party

October 9, 2012 by  

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I am not into clubbing and my reasons are far too many to mention but when I got an invite to the 9th Birthday of Taboo nightclub in Sandton, I accepted and it was perfect considering it was on a Saturday.

I had told myself that I was gonna be there for an hour max, then head home but you know what? me and my ‘bodyguards’ or should I say Entourage were there till 5am. (Don’t judge). I can’t remember the last time I had so much fun at a nightclub. We were in the VVIP area and we were treated like those rich people from that other club that I will not mention. Lol.

It was the first time for me going to a nightclub and really feeling the VIP that is always stated on our invites. Usually with nightclubs events/parties, the invite will say VIP, but when you get there you are told you are not allowed to sit on the couches unless you buy some expensive bottle of something and that is if all the tables don’t have the reserved sign on them. So for some of us non drinkers we stay losing as we will be treated like trash and forced to stand by the crowded dance floors where you can’t even breathe let alone take pics. Well this time we were the ones on a reserved table all thanks to publicist Farah Fortune of African Star for hooking us up.

There were a few celebs that I spotted but it was mostly Soccer Players that were in our area. I asked Benni McCarthy for a picture and he refused shem. He said he will only agree to a picture if I take it with him and also use my phone and not the JC camera. He said he was not posing for any publications. I then asked Blayze to take a picture of us using his phone, till now I’m asking myself what the difference was really and I don’t have an answer. Who told Benni that if you use a mobile to take a picture one won’t publish it? I was so tempted to put it up but because I like him and the fact that he wasn’t rude, I will respect his wishes. Lol

Anyway, a lot of the soccer players refused to pose for pictures except for Sibusiso Zuma. I had to pass an interview with this lady he was with for me to get this one though. She grilled me with questions and even googled Just Curious. Ja neh! Ku tough for us sometimes.

 

Spotted Babalwa Mneno having a ball as usual.

 

Brand Ambassador and Artist Dylan ‘Blayze’ King was there too. (Thank you for the Benni pic)

 

Some of my bodyguards, Model Sifiso Ndlovu with Matt Khatso.

 

Musician Tamara Dey was there too.

  

I saw the DJ dude from Generations chilling by the corner and I asked for a pic for JC, he agreed. Pity I couldn’t ask for his name because he had company. So I went on Google and the only ‘Generations DJ’ that came up was DJ Lulu. Sigh!

 

Still on DJs, this dude called GrandMaster Flash deserves an award for his mix on that night. This American brother kept us on the dance floor and he was playing our own music. African music and he nailed it! Big up to him. I hear he is the Hip-Hop DJ who invented the Crossfader, which allows DJ’s to switch from one song to the next effortlessly. He is also in the B.E.T hall of fame. Talk about a LEGEND!

 

Abom’rapper were there in full force. L-tido with the lady he arrived with.

 

SAMA winner Amu was there to have a good time and he sure did. Deathby the pose.

I asked hip hop artist Tumi for a picture and told him I work for JC, he didn’t want to pose. I begged him and he gave in. He said ‘Your bloggers better not come up with some, ‘Tumi needs to hlasela mafutha’. So looking at his middle finger on this picture I don’t know if that was directed to ME or to you guys. Either way I died when he spoke about Hlasela Mafutha. Kwaaaaaaaa

 

Thank you so much for a job well done African Star. We really had fun, you took care of us. Happy 9th Birthday Taboo. Very soon we celebrate a decade.

By Kiki Marli

@KyeMarli

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128 Comments on "Spotted at Taboo’s 9th Birthday Party"

  1. Azande on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 9:40 pm 

    1st im sure ill be rich this week , it cant be for ilutho lol

  2. Azande on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 9:44 pm 

    ucc amathanga Jesoooo, Babalwa whats up ngama stomach out vele, or is iit bck kwimfashini, everywhere she goes, deadby Tumi F*******k bloggers hahahha lol

  3. nomthwalo on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 9:52 pm 

    So Tumi knows he needs it but he doesnt want to use it????. Ihlasel’amafutha for everyone

  4. Miss T on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:00 pm 

    Haaisuka uBabalwa needs 2dress her age. Ama colour amaningi kanje for a 40 year old…not on

  5. Azande on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:04 pm 

    Yah true she does uyangibangaza nje #teamvezisisu# joining o#teamvezithanga ayisuka sifelani

  6. lolington kwaaa on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:06 pm 

    hha!!!!! Those pumpkins! tjo tjo tjo!! what is that? Those sgubhus, no one can expect me to call those legs. Those are humongous! Huge! Big! Heavy! and i would not be so shocked or commenting on those things had they been covered properly. Moer!
    Now I can go back and read the rest of the article….

  7. Eyh2Jee on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:09 pm 

    Lmao ,oh sorry Kiki shem usebenzile!
    Tumi needs to chill,people say a lot of things here,Hlasel’amafutha zinto ez’ncane.
    Lol at “I’m in Miami Bitch”

  8. lolington kwaaa on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:13 pm 

    Really though….really???? In this day and age people still refuse to tone their legs before wearing shorts? L-taboo aibo I mean L-tido’s partner and her sagging legs….:-(, i’m disappointed.

    To see my reaction to Babalwa’s outfit, check the facial expression of the lady behind her. I gotta give it to her though, NICE BODY AUNTY BARBS!! BANGING HOT!!!

  9. Sips187 on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:15 pm 

    Amathangakazi ka sistaz, tjo!!! Ai sisi, pls get True Beauty \duromines something. Phela that’s not even thunder thighs, that’s a hurricane u got there. Cover up please

  10. lamarOdom on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:33 pm 

    Noma kuthiwa indlovu ayisindwa ngumboko wayo losisi uyamsinda uSbusiso for sure. Hayike Barbs ngathi usuke straight kwi Pride ntoz waya eTaboo. Ibhulukwe elidid’unwabu.

  11. thephlyone on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:38 pm 

    Gog’Babalwa has a banging bod hey. If u almost 40 and unomzimba olengayo, u hv no excuse hey. If ugogo Babs can do it, so can u.

    Ladies, let’s tone our legs plz. Use creams, gym…anythang! Imilenze elenga kanje, ngyasaba ukbona izinqa. Kshuthi ziwile over!!!

    I know that chick next to Tumi. Indian girl from Durban, name’s Nadiya. She’s a beaut.

    It seems like that Burberry hat Amu is rocking is in now. Have seen a lot of peeps rocking ‘em. Kodwa ke phela amanye amaBlueberry and not Burberry.

  12. Nthabi on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:45 pm 

    LOL!!! JC bloggers niqalile. Hahahahaha

    Babalwa’s outfit, NO! Hai, I think she’s one of those people who needs a stylist. Yini le?! Tjo!

    As for Sbusiso’s gal those thighs ma. Jeeeer!!! Would have loved to see a pic of her, standing. Lol

  13. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:48 pm 

    Guys Babalwa is 25 in her own mind though.
    Tjooooooo now those are some thunder thighs.
    uSbusiso uba mubi yazi

    Tumi doesnt needs hlasela mafutha he needs duromines,chilliewrap,taebo and lots and lots of sex.Hlasela wont work alone on a hippo

  14. Ntombi Yomzulu on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:50 pm 

    As for Sbusiso’s gal those thighs ma. Jeeeer!!! Would have loved to see a pic of her, standing. Lol
    Nthabi I dont lol

  15. bumbum on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 10:58 pm 

    Inkinga binamathanga kule ivent, and lo dangara ka sisi is making it worse. That thing is too tight, it’s squeezing the lil life in her ass… Literally. Si busy siyenza abo taebo na ntoni na but abantu abanye ba brave kuphuma beveze obacon so. Hai no man :-(

  16. Sips187 on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 11:17 pm 

    Gogo Barbs Woooo hhe eeh, just-one- colour-is-enough! *omo lady’s voice* I’m jealous of your body though

  17. Lela on Tue, 9th Oct 2012 11:51 pm 

    The Generations DJ’s name is Ali and the girl next to him is Keisha. Glad to see they are still together. Hayi shem i’d never be caught dead dressed like Babalwa at 40 no matter how hot my body is, talkless of being seen in a club. Yho akadinwa na yena?

  18. Kitty on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:41 am 

    *Sigh* kodwa people take this clashing prints trend way too far. Floral print and stripes hayi kubi :(

  19. Kitty on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:52 am 

    Eish these crop tees are gonna be a prob nazo. Hope they don’t make them in sizes bigger than 32. Safa zispejeje :( …but at least Barbz has the body to pull it off :D

  20. dejane on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:10 am 

    But what happened to S’busiso? Wambasha kangaka?

    Someone tweeted the other day “Berby I merd you brurkfist in bed” Babalwa Mneno. Ba re that’s how she speaks :’D kwaaaaaaahaha Yho that tweet made my day shem.

    Babalwa is childish for my liking. Its like she’s in denial about her age.

  21. Ntombi Yomzulu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:18 am 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Dejane, you just killed me yezwa hahahahhahahahhahahhhahah, and I can just hear her say that

  22. noma4 on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:34 am 

    @Lela mos this Keisha girl ubambe the other guy and not Ali

  23. KhimKhadasheni on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:12 am 

    ITHANGA ELINGAKA on Sbusiso Zuma’s date!!! O_o Lol, Tumi’s finger looks weird…

  24. KhimKhadasheni on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:14 am 

    Sfiso’s sumin’ special… Mmmm…

  25. bumbum on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:30 am 

    “Berby I merd you brurkfist in bed”

    @Dejane kodwa yini ung’hlekise so LOL

    Last day of this 2AM shift, yeah berby sengizwile shame

  26. TreyScriptures on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 6:13 am 

    I think Sibusiso Zuma’s girl’s thighs deserve their own post!

  27. TreyScriptures on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 6:17 am 

    These people put no effort in their gear. They all look like pedestrians in JHB CBD

  28. bongi on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 6:19 am 

    Guys uyandidanisa u barbs, no ways noma umile kakuhle kangakanani tht outfit is not acceptable, for a twelve year old yes. Kudala kwathiwa babalwa ooBasetsane basa weigher size 28. Sibusiso Zuma used to be so likeable, blond hair days, and he is married with two kids. Bennie ke yena ‘het nie woorde vir hom nie’uyadika.

  29. snapshot on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 6:40 am 

    Thank you so much for a job well done African Star. *I read thank you for the blow job* mxim

    I got a shock ngalamathanga yooooo!!!!

    Barbs “bitch you in mzansi”

  30. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:11 am 

    Guys lets talk about fingers and totolozi sizes! I’m looking at Tumi and thinking dude is brave very brave; Eish with that finger though hahahahaha

  31. sparrow on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:16 am 

    Sibusiso zuma bathong!is he related to msholozi?the way a le mo gare ga dirope tseo.tjo, amu wa phapha tlhe, rakgadi babalwa o pakile shem

  32. Miss T on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:17 am 

    Come on guyz, spare Tumi this time. I love the dudes music

  33. Soccerbabe on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:26 am 

    Sibusiso Zuma you are a married man mos!!! That is not your wife Zinhle? Does she know you packaging dem Thunderthighs in clubs?

  34. Nokxie on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:27 am 

    My only EISh is that flozzy Nadia (Nandiya) Tumi is posing with O_o

  35. elegnamis on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:28 am 

    Kiki please go back to that party and tell Benni to come here and read my impulse sprayed letter… somblief

  36. Nokxie on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:29 am 

    Whats with gog’Babs

    She set the bouncer on a close person at Icon a month ago coz that person was dancing with her catch a little up close

  37. BlindFold on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:31 am 

    Tumi…needs a liposuction nje, duromine or beauty tea will not do anything.

    Bathong its tough-nyana for Zuma, he used to earn pounds and now its rands.

  38. bumbum on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:32 am 

    He’s going to be in papers for this tornado chick on his lap.

  39. TreyScriptures on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:41 am 

    Now that you mention those stubby fingers @Zara, I’d hate to see what he’s “packing”

    Tumi, give birth already. Looking like the Oros man sure won’t get you laid much. Your girl must be quite depressed

  40. Miss T on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:41 am 

    So hurrican thighs chic gave you the 3rd degree b4 u can get 2 Sbusiso yet she’s just a cumbucket??! Tjo!

  41. bongi on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:47 am 

    Tumi you brought this on yourself..that ‘middle finger’ pose was your downfall…uzo masentweni zi bloggers..

  42. fabulicious on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 7:48 am 

    Nkosiyam!!!!!!!!!! Babalwa is really going thru a midlife crisis!

  43. Smizah on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:33 am 

    hehehehe… it would be interesting to see how big or small some of the bloggers going on about other people’s weight issues are….

    Babs is living her life like its golden for sure… Someone must just make her preggers so she can stay home and let kids party bathong!!!

  44. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:44 am 

    hahahaha kalokhu Smizah ubeshilo uLolo us hiding behind our keyboards have the free reign to judge! hence we are talking about other people’s weights when we are possibly bigger than them

  45. Vesa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:45 am 

    Guys lets talk about fingers and totolozi sizes! I’m looking at Tumi and thinking dude is brave very brave; Eish with that finger though hahahahaha

    Kwaaaaa, I also thought of the same thing! Yena le Amu

  46. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:50 am 

    eish Sisi must have been one starved woman but they are thick though; his fingers i mean *RUNS*

  47. QueenX on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:55 am 

    heeee bethuna, isn’t Sbusiso Zuma married?

  48. Fezzy on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:58 am 

    Tornado, Hurricane, Giants…shame I feel sorry for those thighs they way bloggers are attacking them neh.
    There’s actually nothing wrong with those thighs, we cant all have TOOTHPICKS for thighs hey.
    She has beautiful thighs, thick and no cellulite but U DONT wear shorts with those thighs, u just dont. Now thats where my problem is, its not with thighs themselves, its what she’s wearing on the thighs that size!

  49. nomthwalo on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:59 am 

    I don’t think Tumi knows the size of his *** I mean with the cooler box that big, what are the chances of him seeing/looking at it?
    He must thank God for the mirror.

  50. Fezzy on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:00 am 

    And as for that gal with L-Tido neh, Im happy with my toned and firm thunder thighs shem. Those sagging thighs have seen their days bakithi, hhayi ngeke.

  51. Ntombi Yomzulu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:03 am 

    A moment of silent for that Dylan, I beg

  52. bumbum on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:05 am 

    Out of all the rainbow nation colors of jeans we have lately she had to wear that hot pant.

  53. Ntombi Yomzulu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:05 am 

    I think the problem about those thighs is the way they took over on that pic hehehe

  54. Kiki on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:09 am 

    #DeathBy Nomthwalo’s comment.

    Ni rough you guys yazi?. You are gonna get me clapped shem. Lol

  55. kamzababy on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:09 am 

    zara says: hahahaha kalokhu Smizah ubeshilo uLolo us hiding behind our keyboards have the free reign to judge! hence we are talking about other people’s weights when we are possibly bigger than them
    kwaaaaaaaaa ooooooooooops Smizah

  56. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:11 am 

    the lady that arrived with Ltido there is really something wrong; could be her choice of shoes(lack of creativity) or the top she is wearing( she might as well added flip flops) cos she truly could have compensated for those jelly thighs

  57. Biskiti on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:17 am 

    I think Barbz was just channelling Beyonce’s “party” energy nje, and i reckon she pulled it off quite nicely. It was a party afterall, not a gala dinner. Mara she’s got many faces le yena, fresh like Bee on some pics, tired baggy eyes like Mme Abigail Khubeka on others. Haishhh, consistency Mmamogolo!

    Kwaaaa Zara, o sele! Maybe Tumi is fat everybody (mzimbeni wonke).

  58. Fab Tee on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:18 am 

    Nkosiyam!!!!!!!!!! Babalwa is really going thru a midlife crisis!..kwaaaaa i love this!, there’s just no other explanation!, noba kuthwa kugugothandayo akutshiwo le ka Babalwa tyhin thiza!

  59. Rogue Angel on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:32 am 

    o my that Dylan is so yumm looking :)

    kwaaaaa i just died with laughter >>>>>> “with the cooler box that big, what are the chances of him seeing/looking at it?”
    thiza u stout wena Nomthwalo

  60. Shandu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:41 am 

    Aibo kanti akashadile yini lo Sbusiso Zuma?

  61. Vesa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:52 am 

    Woo……y’all are very nasty this morning!!! People are going to refuse to be snapped by JC writers

  62. Miranda on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 9:56 am 

    Babalwa is 34 , mara this pic here says 51. http://www.iol.co.za/the-star/that-was-the-real-me-out-there-on-bb-1.1327473

    Is that what thst age does to people. Dear God I want to be 33 for 3 years then turn 36 after that. No 34 for me please.

    Jokes aside though. I am just concerned. This picture screams “I have psychological problems” to me more than “I want attention”.

    Does she have a boyfriend? or a fiance?
    Does she want to get married?or even believe in such unions? Does she want kids? who does she stay with?
    How old are her friends? what are they busy with in their lifes
    Does she flaunt and brag about her money-if she has any?
    Does she ever talk about how happy she is in her life?
    Does she ever talk about the things she regrets doing or not doing?
    How is her twitter TL? Is it balanced?

    If I can get the answers to these questions, I will diagnose her right now.

  63. bumbum on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:10 am 

    @Mirada apparently she has turned down “3 marriage proposals”

  64. BlindFold on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:11 am 

    @Miranda..”s that what thst age does to people. Dear God I want to be 33 for 3 years then turn 36 after that. No 34 for me please”…i am finished klaar

  65. Vesa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:12 am 

    Lol, Babalwa just tweeted “Happy Cocoonday erbury….Always rely on the SOURCE and not the PRODUCT…have yaselves a productive day hunnies love Bee

    I just lmao, cause it’s 10 in the morning and she’s already thinking of Cocoon. Ya neh….midlife crisis ke nonsense

  66. Miranda on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:13 am 

    That lady with hurricanes (-as you guys say) isn’t actually fat, check her top part…she is just gifted on the bottom hau.

    hehehehe Zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 8:50 am are

    eish Sisi must have been one starved woman but they are thick though; his fingers i mean *RUNS*

    Heheeheheeh. LMAO.I can’t shem. I can’t

  67. samlicious on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:15 am 

    BABALWA IS 34! Soze! if she is then mna ndnina 15.

    Kunini kwathiwa Babalwa sise primary school now all of a sudden is she in the same age group as us NEVER

  68. Beautiful lier on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:18 am 

    Awww shem Barbz,can any Nigerian guy on the face of this earth marry her or atlist give her a child,she doesnt seem to get that her time as a party girl has come nd gone ke sono :( ,urata nice time magogo barbz yho.

  69. Solomon.Mahlangu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:33 am 

    WOW ! you girls are mean. I really hope to meet just one of you one day. seems like you are all flawless and super beauties.

    *goes back to studying*

  70. samlicious on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:36 am 

    kwak did you see the lady behind ugogo uNombaso *Babalwa* umjonge kanjani. I think she is shocked ukuthi kwenzekalani with the lady in a 12 year olds out fit.

  71. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:39 am 

    Kwaaaa at Tumi needing hlasela mafutha!!! *Reads Comments*

    Morning!

  72. Mrs JimmyJump on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:43 am 

    Hahahahahahahahahahahaahahaa!! Ave nihlekisa yazi

  73. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:45 am 

    Mrs Jimmyjump when i see your gravatar my mind shifts to Tumi *hangs head in shame*

  74. nomthwalo on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:46 am 

    Oh Nkosi yami ngiyaxolisa guys, I didnt mean to sound so(forgot the word)

    When I wrote that sentence I was laughing, sorry Tumi you can keep your cooler box.

    Let me go back to silentville #walks like I’m going to throw a teabag

  75. Mathaz on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:51 am 

    I think thighs are not of the same size when u sitting down and when you upright.Hence the hurricane thighs.

    Society is really mean on umarried ladies,with no children over the age of 30 strue. Some comments are really mean,some of us have friends and sisters who are not married at that age.Remember one day it could be you in their shoes and young women will be asking you what’s wrong with you as. If there should be anything wrong.

  76. Mrs JimmyJump on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 10:53 am 

    hahahahahahaha!! Zara khuzeka tuu

  77. Shera on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:01 am 

    Babalwa needs to tone it down…(ever since waphuma kwi BigBrother)…USENOKUNGICIKA NJE!!!

  78. Angenoir on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:07 am 

    My mind jumped to nomthwalo’s comment when saw Mrs JJ’s gravie

  79. siya on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:11 am 

    mina i dont understand why people feel you are not normal mawungana mntwana, what if yi choice yakhe? what if akafuni ukushada and akafuni ukuba umama, or what if akaphiwanga vele abantwana, kumele amthathephi? mnxim leave Barbs alone.

    @ Solomon bathi isfumbu sibona uqhaqhazela. LOL

  80. PrincessPatty on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:20 am 

    Hai no, nna I would never try to get on the JC blogger’s wrong side. Lol Tumi le yena, he just brought this on himself. Ma JC’cers aa hlasela yong!

  81. lamarOdom on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:28 am 

    I saw Barbs’interview on the LGK show, she addressed the issue of people attacking her for not having a a child. She said there are many reasons why people cannot concieve and its sad that other people see it as a joke (not here exact words). I totally understand that is such a sensitive issue because she can choose to wear istomach out but the child issue may be beyond her powers…asibeni nobuntu!

  82. Ntombi Yomzulu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:28 am 

    La kuJC you need to have a really thick skin shame.

  83. lamarOdom on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:29 am 

    LKG show

  84. Nandisile on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:32 am 

    Kahleni bakithi not every woman wants marriage or kids, doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with her. It’s the 21st century, please.

  85. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:32 am 

    mna yazi the only person im attacking is @Tumi i took his thin middle finger very personal hahahahaha so he must eat liver and be strong cos i aint stopping; i have my keyboard as a weapon; whether im uglier; fatter or pimple ridden than him it doesnt matter i have the power vested upon me by this keyboard LOL

  86. Miranda on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:32 am 

    @Siya…quick question : are you referring to my comment?

    #not launching a cat fight, I just want to explain where I am going withy those questions# *checking*

  87. Miranda on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:32 am 

    with

  88. Vesa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:32 am 

    I’d rather Babalwa not have a kid, than raise a kid alone. It’s hard yho!!!

  89. BlindFold on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:34 am 

    Are we trying to change the minds of the society here? we all know that especially in our culture (black) you are expected to be married and have kids before the age of thirthy otherwise you are called “NYOPA” and “LEFETWA. That will never change whether le ya rata o not.

    Babalwa ke LEFETWA..haao!

  90. thephlyone on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:35 am 

    Gog’Babalwa is supposedly turning 35 next month..hahahahahaha!!! Can’t be! Makeup can only hide ‘em eyebags n wrinkles 4 so long. Anyways let the ‘kid’ live her life. While ontanga bakhe aboBasetsana Khumalo, Khanyi Dhlomo, Carol Bouwers are working seriously hard and becoming moguls and have families, let her Cocoon’it, Taboo’it, VIP Room’it and Lagos’it!!! We are not all destined for the same paths in life hey. And that’s the reality!!!

  91. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:38 am 

    Aow, i have a sister who is her (Barbs) age and she doesn’t wanna get married nor have kids. If she is comfy with her not having kids, i don’t see why we should have a problem with it. Not everyone wants a “fairytale like ending”..

    So @lamar does this mean she has issues tsa kgo thola bana??

    This though—->I don’t think Tumi knows the size of his *** I mean with the cooler box that big, what are the chances of him seeing/looking at it?
    He must thank God for the mirror.

  92. Beautiful lier on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:39 am 

    *goes down on my knees nd repents on my comment on Barbz*naye she must tone down nje.

  93. siya on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:40 am 

    @miranda everyone who keeps asking why she doesnt have kids or why angashadanga as if she`s not woman enough until she has those thingz.

  94. siya on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:44 am 

    @Blindfold is she supposed to marry herself? she doesnt have a stable relationship, would you rather have her raise kids in that condition? we all have choices, society will always have something to say, if she were to fall pregnant now angithi nizothi she`s busy popping kids out of wedlock, mnxim

  95. Toffolux on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:47 am 

    Babu Mahlangu, no we are not perfect, well I know Im not but the difference is I know when to cover up my not-so-perfect body. When you call attention upon yourself, we shall notice & will comment accordingly. Vele usukufuna bakubone

  96. BlindFold on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:49 am 

    @siya..i would rahter her nothing because i do not know what her problems and challenges are, what i am saying is that we can never change the mind-set of the society.

  97. siya on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:50 am 

    @Lamar yiko loko nam engikushoyo, asibeni nobuntu hle,

  98. Vesa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:53 am 

    We live in an era of making choices, maybe she chose not to have kids. And the marriage one, it’s not always a lady’s fault that she is not married…..you can’t marry yourself or run after everyman so you can be married

    Also, it could be that she can’t conceive. We don’t know her reasons. And anyway, we should not impose society’s expectations on her

  99. Jellytot on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:55 am 

    i think tumi is cute, he is like a teddy bear :)

  100. Solomon.Mahlangu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 11:56 am 

    sometimes la kulelikhaya elifudumele, with ‘protection’ sibuye seqe ulayini. im all for bashing ama flop abantu kodwa there is a line we as Africans must not cross asibe nobuntu guys.

    anyways, im not condemning anyone, just encouraging bloggers to remember that these people are also human and have feelings.

  101. BlindFold on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:01 pm 

    @Solomon.Mahlangu..Babalwa knows for a fact that people talk about her and many times not good talk, why go to a party or whatever wearing that? what is she expecting? she is not dressing her age, this is not Hollywood. You cant be wearing stomach out at the age of whatever her age is.

  102. SocietyG on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:04 pm 

    I believe that Babalwa is 35, being a model for so many years and heavy make up can really affect your skin.

    If she was not careful back in the days when she started using make up…it’s no surprise that her face has aged so fast.

    When Babalwa was popular back in the day I know for a fact I was still in high school. I’m now 30……

    so @samlicious when you say “Kunini kwathiwa Babalwa sise primary school now all of a sudden is she in the same age group as us NEVER” maybe it’s not Babalwa’s fault that ufunde umdala…..#NOSHADE

    So let Babalwa be….she can wear whatever she wants. She’s not married, no kids, she likes to have fun and maybe she gets along better with the younger peeps….why not?

    Gone are the days when people work so damn hard to try and be something else just to meet society’s expectations.

    Live your life Barbs…..

  103. Solomon.Mahlangu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:07 pm 

    Blindfold come on. is there a law that says people are free to wear anything only in Hollywood? Madona kade edunusa and she is above 50 even Vera Wang wears skimpier things and she is really old.

    let the woman live her life, uzozibona yena when she feels its time to behave like the ontanga bakhe… (Basetsana my ultimate couger crush) .

  104. lamarOdom on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:22 pm 

    She did not say she had problems ho thola ngwana but o rile people should be sensitive ka those issues because they don’t know why angenamntwana. I read between the lines.

  105. Mathaz on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:24 pm 

    Besides intanga zakhe are at home,checking up on their husbands as to when they’re coming home,fighting with the mistresses,practicing a fake smile for the public.Let Babalwa be,if she’s happy who are we to complain?

  106. kamzababy on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:27 pm 

    wow, la bua tlheng

  107. Ntombi Yomzulu on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:29 pm 

    “Berby I merd you brurkfist in bed”

    Bwahahahahahahahahhahahahahhahah, cant get over this though

  108. kamzababy on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:31 pm 

    wow, la bua tlheng!

  109. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:33 pm 

    But i love Amu’s fingers; they tell me that he was raised in a good home; no hard labour there;

  110. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:48 pm 

    Oh, so nari jwetsa gore ha kgone kgo thla bana indirectly!

  111. Sweet soul on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 12:52 pm 

    I think the bloggers that said she Babalwa needs to get married and have kidz r misunderstood, maybe they are just saying if she had kidz and a husband she wouldn’t party as much as she does, but ke we all know that’s not the case look at Uyanda Mbuli she had both hubby and a kid but that didn’t stop her. I think umuntu akakhuliswa umshado or umtwana, mawumncane encondweni then uzophila nje ngomuntu omcane vele.

  112. vumaaa on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:02 pm 

    No1 mentioned/commented about Tamara Dey.

    Shame the thighs and Barbs took all the spot light.

    Ay shame let me mention something about Tamara. “She looked ok”. There you go I’m sure she will be happy now.

    See I’m a good guy.

  113. SocietyG on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:03 pm 

    But @sweetsoul what if Babalwa does not see any problems with partying at her age.

    If it’s not a problem for her I don’t see why people continue to go on about it.

    We all have choices, if that’s how she has chosen to live her life so be it.

    Why compare her with the rest of these ladies. She’s Babalwa, it’s her choice and it’s her life.

    I think she also has some business dealings with cocoon(sp) I maybe wrong, anywho even if she did nt ….I mean why not do what you want.She’s not hurting nobody.

  114. siya on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:20 pm 

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa @vumaa

  115. Stone on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:22 pm 

    You cant turn a HO into a Housewife.
    Tumi better do something about his weight before he gets a heart-attack.

  116. missTmzee on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:43 pm 

    Society and its opinions SMH!
    Poor Barbz. AM SHO there are people in my family who talk about me the way yall are going on. Difference being i dont have a nice body like hers else i would also wear stomach out to keep them talking.

  117. Jellytot on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 1:50 pm 

    Barbz remind me of that hairdresser lady from chicagolicious. the old one with the fantastic body and hair. she was also a former model.
    Thatha a bo sexy gogos!

  118. Lela on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:24 pm 

    Babalwa can never be below 37 noba senifuna. When i was 16 Babalwa was my aunt’s friend n they were already hustling here in Joburg n mina im 30 so there’s no way she was 21 when i was 16.

  119. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:30 pm 

    @Lela, lol, that makes her 46, if im not mistaken… Yoh hai, if that’s the case she a fossil yena ke.

  120. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:32 pm 

    I was mistaken, so onale 36..

  121. lulu boo on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:37 pm 

    Tjo tjo! kwa kwa! But do you guys remember Babz comments on 10 over 10? What goes around…….

  122. zara on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:37 pm 

    hahahahaha Lela

  123. OhSoStunning on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 2:51 pm 

    @lulu i think na kwatile kgore she aint in none of the countdown tsa 10 over 10..

  124. sparrow on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 5:51 pm 

    Tumi’s weight bothers me like seriously, tjo!i wonder if there’s really something there.i feel sorry for his gf, if he has any, no woman deserves such trauma(tlale le lenyora).is tamara dey normal?there’s something that i just dont get about her, i just cant point a finger at it, does she has a stylist?she could definately use one.

  125. Miss T on Wed, 10th Oct 2012 6:53 pm 

    Tumi is married & wife is @home nursing a newborn baby while yena he’s busy (khavaring)floozies

  126. Uthando on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 8:34 am 

    Shame I luv Babalwa, I loved her more after the BBA

  127. Ms Diva on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:31 pm 

    Babalwa is 34 to be 35 sometime this year still. Its easy to get this, i was also of the view that no there is no way she is only 8 years older than i am. she must be way older and i think its because when we were younger and hearing about Bablwa’s we assumed these girls were oSisi as in they were older but in reality it was our assumption just like assumed ppl on TV were rich. If you check the records of the time she entered Miss SA you will see which year it was, how old she was and what was the minimum and maximun age requirement.Lets say for the ppl who will still refuse to blv it, say she lied about her age.there is no way she would have lowered her age beyond the age gap of Miss SA ,so even if she lied to the lowest number we would then say she is 36 today.so Babalwa is authentic 34years old ,besides back then Nigerians were few to make a false ID for her. lol

  128. Ms Diva on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:40 pm 

    Black women have serious issues with each other period. those who are married and miserable with men illtreating them and cheating and having kids outside they still feel that they are better off than the single women, single women who are miserable dating the married men who can’t sleep over or wake up to them every morning feel they better off than the married woman,

    then there are single woman who are all struggling trying to find stable love,the ones who are raisig kids cause some bastard left them years ago feel they are still better off than the one who don’t have kids at certain age, the single woman with no kids and has freedom of spending her time the way she does yet she is lonely cause she does not have the “my child ,my joy, my blessing “to play with she feels she is better off than than her single friend who runs around all by herself looking for school for a child.

    then both the single woman with no kids- one feels her not stable relationhsip is better off cause she gets money for rent from her uncommitting boyfriend while her single freind who is living with a guy that she is providing for and working for feels she is better off than her friend as well cause she sleeps with him eveyday and they hold hands in town

    in Xhosa this is called “Ubutyobo” so ppl must just be allowed to be where they are as you are also where you are. none is better

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