We Ran Jozi!

October 9, 2012 by Featured Guest Writer

Oh boy did we run that Jozi. This Sunday morning saw the second in the series of the innovative set of Jozi runs by Nike.

We arrived early in the am to some friendly parking guides and managed to find ourselves a great spot in the media tent. After some snacks, we were comfortably shuttled to the start point (which was great because it was at least a kilometre away) and were smoothly dropped.

The run was something that I never would have expected though. Earlier this year (as some may know) I ran the run in downtown Jozi and thoroughly enjoyed it. The weather was overcast and of couse it was an evening run which meant that conditions were perfect.

Sunday was another story altogether. Sweltering heat – some claimed it was over 32 degrees - and the sun. Also added to that double the number of people that were at the last race.

This didn’t dampen anyone’s spirits though. Anyone who has run Jozi before knows that it has nothing to do with the conditions, it’s all about heart, and the desire to finish.

Being a regular runner, I thought that I might have thing a little easier. I have afterall been running at least every other day, and being lucky enough to live in quite a steep-filled area, I thought I had it covered.

But boy was I wrong. Nothing went quite the way that I thought it would. The weather was blazing, and nobody knows and we soon all discovered that nobody knows an Alexandra steep like a Run Jozi runner. Except of course for the people that run/walk that terrain daily…

This was one of the most gruelling races I’ve run to date. The heat, the steeps, the SUN! I’m glad to say that I managed to better my previous time quite considerably. Ran 59 minutes – 10 kms. Something I possibly would have found a lot more difficult to do (in those conditions) without the support of my compadres. The cheering residents, the fellow runners. I appreciated every one of them I was talking myself into continuing to feel great, and knowing that I could do it.

Ultimately, I managed to run a good race, despite the uuuppppps, and downs, and was rewarded on finishing with a fantastic meal provided by the Nike team on finishing.

A big shout out to them for hooking us up with a great breakfast, and lunch. My girlfriend even managed to forgive me for dumping her for “the gold” – so a complete win situation.

Imagine 20 000 bodies running through Sandton then Alex. Difficult to imagine if you weren’t there, but what a sight!

Speaking of sights; I’m glad that some were given an opportunity to see how the other side lives, right across the highway from the affluent suburbs of Sandton. A story for another day.

Thanks to JC for the experience, and of course to Nike for keeping the run alive!

By Siyabulela Sekeleni

@SiyabulelaS

oh just saw the pic too- how do you guys see that the child looks like the daddy? is the the mouth? i cant help but to laugh when i look at primrose *thinking about what Khanyi wrote in her book* about the fake boobs. Primrose’s weaves are always on point, and her poses her mouth is always half open….

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:44 am

sengicabangela @Rosette’s little one, being exposed to that engriish esene rwabbit teeth bandla

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:48 am

she is beautiful though, almost perfect…she needs to just pose and not utter any word..like nothing, zilch!

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:49 am

Hhayi Ntombi Mzambiya neva had a problem nge English. He went to some Indian school in Lens so his English was ok.
A link to the baby please.

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:50 am

@ Ntombi why must she go for english lessons? the amount of english that she knows is enough for her. The only thing that makes people think that she cant speak right is because her accent is unique. Also Theunis is n afrikaaner, hy praat afrikaans- even his english is minimal. The english between them is ok. Her kids will correct her when she says; Girly bring mommy’s “yelo” jacket. The child will say no mommy is not ‘yelo’ its ‘yellow’…or when she say, yhu i haven’t had a ‘guava’ in a longer time, child will say no mommy its a ‘guava’ (in an softer accent) ..mine are doing that to me lol..some of the english we xhosalise them and our kids are englishlising them…

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:50 am

Guys the way Im so frustrated because I cannot find this photo. Is under primrose or Rossette on instagram?

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:52 am

haibo i just saw the pic on Primrose’s twitter page.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:54 am

So @ntombi u guys lie next to eachother every night?
I always feel like I’m watching a movie or reading a book when I think about u two

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:56 am

@Ntombi on Primrose’s
@bongi, you clearly have not heard her speak..i will search that link for you shame.she does not just have a bad accent…kwenzeka enye into pha

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:57 am

Bongi you just fuinished me right now hahahahahahahahahahahahahahah, I cant even imagine iconversation yabo noCrous nje endlini
The only thing that makes people think that she cant speak right is because her accent is unique. The english between them is ok. Her kids will correct her when she says; Girly bring mommy’s “yelo” jacket. The child will say no mommy is not ‘yelo’ its ‘yellow’…or when she say, yhu i haven’t had a ‘guava’ in a longer time, child will say no mommy its a ‘guava’ (in an softer accent) .

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 9:58 am

@bongi

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmw6vhhQa0s

“he received it, and he had to perform it”

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:00 am

Fabu Not every night but lets just say 5 out of 2 nights a week so that makes it almost every night

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:01 am

primrose muhle ne and they almost look alike no Rosette like a darker version of Primrose; when ever i look at her seductive poses i always wonder why she doesnt give it to Theunis (angithi she says his semen makes her fat) hahahahaha eish !

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:04 am

she doesnt give it to Theunis (angithi she says his semen makes her fat)

*claps hands*

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:06 am

beautiful ladies help your men http://www.fashionbeans.com/category/mens-look-books/page/3/

hope all is well and nizoba nosuku oluhle !

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:07 am

Hawu Zara hahahahahhahaha when did she say that? is she a model this Primrose, what does she doe vele?

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:08 am

i think she meant to say his semen makes her pregnant *scratches head*

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:09 am

Hello my darlies! Hope yall have a great day. I got handed a nice dose of my own medicine…still reeling. smh! #BruisedEgo

@Loulou…..please do tell?

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:12 am

hayi Zara maar wena..his semen makes her fat – was thats in that Khanyi book?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:12 am

And Solomon my guy is not fashionable yazi, the only time he looks super hot is when he is wearing his suits for work. He doesnt wear “my man”kinda clothes nje he is very simple,like your jeans golf shirt sneakers nje yabora and mina I love fashion shame and I love a man ogqoka kahle. This weekend nje Im so worried cos we going ro a cocktail party and I showed the dress that I will wear when I asked him he just said I will see on saturday love. Ngineworry yazi!!!

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:20 am

forward the link to the dude, that blog is a game changer i tell you. dont be pushy but tell him you’d like him to make an effort !

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:22 am

do u dress like that wena @Solomon? u said ur 24 konje? #justchecking

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:23 am

Wow I just saw the pic they look absolutely gorgeous

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:25 am

Heheheheh Sol my beast angakutshela straight that angifaki ama skinny jeans mina angisona istabane mina.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:25 am

i know @Not Mbi
u on instagram?

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:26 am

tltltltl whooo @Fezzy unebeast ngempela ke wena

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:28 am

No Im not but I will register soon

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:28 am

Lol at Fezzy

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:28 am

Guys the Jubjub judgement is getting interesting! It’s getting technical now. And one of the drivers is seemingly absolved of the responsibility of causing the accident

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:29 am

24? me? kahleni bo ! i said my age is not below 23 but im in my 20s.

i have managed to pull off a few looks there, yes. However im also on a building phase i Game1 iyabiza ngeke.

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:30 am

wena sisi we beast, ubotshela umunt wakho ukuth abafana bama skinny jean bayalishaya is3nd3 !

zenzybear on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:32 am

guys which pic is this kanti?

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:34 am

@ Ladymillion ive just listened to the video now. She made me sound like a A grade english teacher…i agree she needs those classes.

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:36 am

tjo @Solomon.Mahlangu; that takes effort neh (to dress like that)
But @Fezzy you can shop for umuntu wakho.Markham has those stylish clothes.Just pick up outfits for certain occasion. I can’t wear like that everyday too.I would feel so stiff.But there are certain occasions that need someone to Popout thle. Some guys just get it wrong all the time and they expose their women.
The website will help you know what to combine what with what…

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:37 am

@Ntombi muzame kancane kancane like buying him a shirt you like and go shopping with him and suggest a few items.

Today im wearing a peplum dress @ work and im always in black and no accesories, so angaz noba bazitshela ukuthi angazi izinto the way bancoma ngkhona,i wish i cud say kubo yazi ngihlale ngi hot ngama weekends

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:40 am

“angifaki ama skinny jeans mina angisona istabane mina” kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:44 am

Solomon is 26 guys,so rest

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:44 am

guys, that website has 1000 looks, its not just those suits and casual chinos. just forward the link to hubby,husbank,makhwapheni or boyfriend. sikhathele ilama shirt ano collar abawu3 or more. BEE nkos yami !

there are articles nje on clothing, for anyone !

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:44 am

Oh Fufu, I do buy him a shirt or two. I just need to go shoppping woth him. He hates shiopping, he hates malls yerrrrrrrr He took his mom shopping this weekend ubuye engafunui lutho. hahahahah

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:45 am

Eyh2jee you seem so sure, uyangazi yini? mxm.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:50 am

but @mbaureloaded and @edwardbillion/tebogo are the cutest.

she posted a pic of them and wrote @edwardbillion what colour is love?
he responded @mbaureloaded its a mixture of all the colours that make up you

tjo i blushed on her behalf

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:54 am

@Zeny go to her twirra handle. Ke @PrimroseCrous, its the first picture you’ll see after the avatar of course..

Morning JCers!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:54 am

but bayi plan(ile) maan
but i couldnt help but go ncooooo

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:55 am

I just checked out Primrose’s Pic’s uyapouza vele u Theunis,zinobu fake izithombe zabo.
Ntombi mufake e mall nje wena uzincome kakhulu izimpahla.

True-self on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:00 am

What did Glen Lewis say about bloggers comments anybody?

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:02 am

@ fufu about fake pics..that you can say again. Its not only them alone…

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:03 am

whats a fake pic guys?

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:04 am

like u cant be posing crying on a pic though guys…

Thabure on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:05 am

dankie Sol……maa this intenet shopping is not for me bro …nna ke batla fitting room …I wear diffeent sizes….JG did say my ass ke Tsunami so yeah…im on the fesh side of life .

@CHASE i HOPE YOU AE LOOKING AND LOOSE THE OLD BOOTS ..YEER

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:10 am

you can just copy the ‘look’ and go to ANY shop and buy clothes baba, even edgars will surprise you. anyways mina ngithanda the way they explain the relevance of a good image to our life as men.

u chace unama doc martens? lol ! kodwa ke ayabuya nawo estayeleni. im getting a pair next winter !

zenzybear on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:15 am

lmao @ladymil, u can hey… i know peeps who do it

Thabure on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:17 am

@sol dont encourage lento ka chase..he wears di boots ka summer ..not onn im shuwa kunuka i cheese pha..lol
@chase u know ka o favour skeem but I always complain ka di boots no matte how turu they are …

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:19 am

@ Million are always perfect pics…ready for posing kinds like Kim Kardashian. I mean how do post a picture while you are sleeping but une full perfect make up??? and the hair is all intact?

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:21 am

hehehe @zenzy benza njani? when theyr miserable they take pics and share them with their friends
just like most of us dont take pics first thing in the morning when we wake up and post them
you only share the good times pics

Thabure on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:21 am

hey zenzu….i saw that you wanted me to ing you
ngiyile type enga thengi i airtime I abuse the one here at work,,,so thee is this boy supervising us amd he listens into my calls …nxa shem his eas ae gonna bleed coz I m gonna flirt le JG ON THE PHONE …he makes me naar

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:24 am

ok, ndiyakuva ke @bongi.. hehe but mina im all for fake pics

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:28 am

fashion that my heart still bleeds for and some of us had it im sure: Doc Martens, Hushpuppy, AJ Dungarees with AJ on the front pocket, pedrino shoe with a ribbon and some had a leather bow, levi in charcoal color, reebok (baby pink/white and baby blue/white for ladies,kung fu shoes, wool knitted caps with NY OR LA written on them, omega sandals for men,BASS casual navyblue for ladies, INDIGO jackets from YACHTS SQUADRON,

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:30 am

omega sandals for men ngeke Bongi hahahahahahahasha kanti unangaki wena? lol

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:35 am

@ Ntombi kanti how old do i look? you have seen my pics mos ane? im not forty yet also not thirty five yet lol…

Monei on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:36 am

https://twitter.com/search?q=primrose%20crous&src=typd

ya, that baby looks like Andile str8!

Eyh2Jee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:36 am

Lmao Thabure & indunu(nu) engangoLwandle!*@JG is a special human being*
Hahaha,the boy/colleague will never look at you the same way Thabure,uzomphathisa ngeHeart attack
Molo Bongi babes.The way I think of you when I wake-up,switch on my tv,and bamn(!) kudlala B&B …mara do we have parents like Brook & Taylor in Mzansi?The way they teach their daughters ubufebe is out of this world!

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:36 am

AJ as in Armani Jeans Bongi?
anyways ama Doc Martens ayengihlekisa when i was a kid and my sisters wore them back in 90wat wat !!!

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:39 am

@ntombi if I may ask ayikabi neh.n we oe ustar wakho uhlalaphi kanti yena anada province or?

zenzybear on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:41 am

lol njengalaba who post lovey dovey pics nama bf kanti umuntu uyazi behind closed doors kushubile. its all for show. its true yazi, now we live our lives for social network @Thabure hey

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:42 am

in that book of hers apparently Crous said his wife does not sleep with him because his juices make him fat! and izolo i kept thinking the way ngizithanda ngakhona ezojuices heheheehe i would probaby be size 52 hahahaha ngoba nje ngiyazithandela mina lanto

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:43 am

she was staying in CT but she is now back in Jozi

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:43 am

@ Solomon.Mahlangu AJ is a Aca Joe DUNGAREE – You know whats a dungaree right? it used to have the AJ embroidered big on the front

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:44 am

and uze uzigwinye wena Zara hahahahahaha

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:44 am

The way fashion ya kgale ekgutlang kateng, i’m scared gore soon di “bump(a) sfebe” will be in trend again yoh!!!!

@Monei kana Andile na mo phika or something?? Or did he think that pretty lady cheated on him??

Yoh if i sore a guy who dresses the way that guy does ko the link ya sol, i would do him all day, every day!!!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:45 am

his juices make him fat

uyabona ke manje?

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:46 am

hahahahahaha @Ntombi i dont waste mna!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:46 am

sore vs saw yooooooooooooooo I cant hahahahahahahahahahaha

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:47 am

sore vs sore ere kle yetse di corrections before i get attacked ka red pen.

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:47 am

saw.. Eish ntombi though!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:48 am

but Khanyi Mbau naye, heheheheheheheheh ebhala ngemizi yabantu kanje

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:48 am

Too late @OhSoStunn

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:48 am

Too late OSS

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 11:54 am

hahahahahaha uKhanyi uyadelelela! What had me cracking was the part where she was like; Crous had a funny little thing and she say in my mind i was like is this what other women have to deal with dang! hahahahahahahahahahhahhaaha i just died imagining a small willy hahahahahahahaha #death

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:01 pm

Zara did you see it trending on Twitter, it looks like a cheese curl(s) hahahahhahahahah

Chase on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:03 pm

hho thabure & solomon hulle gwara my nou?

we cant be all as fashionable as thabure, this guy has more than 10 pairs of shoes, wadrobe full of clothes etc maara jy lyk nca ek se!

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:10 pm

i ddnt Ntombi hahahahahahaha that kid needs help! so uPrimrose ufa yindlala all in the name of comfort Goddammit hahahahahahhaha *gotta go*

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:14 pm

Udla icheese Curl(s)

bumbum on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:15 pm

Morning guyz

A Cheese curl pho kahleni bakwethu, uyamnwaya for sure.

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:16 pm

LMAO…. yini i bump(a) sfebe? hhayi bo ngeke.

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:19 pm

Use to have di Bumper-sfeb at high school with my nica bocca.

Thabure on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:19 pm

@chase amnaga awa kufaneli…..u are confusing me with some of your feinds

Thabure on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:23 pm

@sol bump(a) sfebe ke some takkies tsa kgale..my sistes used to wea them..fashion ya kgale e back ka power le passion

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:36 pm

o kodwa guys, are we gonna talk fashion the whole day, yazi ngibathe ngiyazibamba hai cha kuyala, no wonder abo OSS sebebhala sore instead of saw, ufike kanjani vele lapho sisi

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:37 pm

TJOOOO @Blindfold, nica bocca, i had a brown one! Nkosi yam’.

Miranda on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:43 pm

Now we must buy them a shirt or two,suggest what they must wear and forward them clothing links , this is after yesterday’s learning how to talk dirty et al, cooking for them too…hai hai hai lona Moes this Boyfriend Business ke full time Job bjanong.

I think I am the one with a problem

DUMELANG KA MO LAPENG

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:46 pm

yhoo but JC is borring today yazi…#logs off and goes to play with my nookie..

Miranda on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:47 pm

@Ntombi, can I ask w.r.t this

?Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 10:00 am

Fabu Not every night but lets just say 5 out of 2 nights a week so that makes it almost every night

You meant 5 out of 7 neh? and if Yes, can I ask again : What does he tell the wife about his whereabouts/sleepabouts 5 days in a week….#just asking#

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:49 pm

@snapshot akitsi lenna ke fetlile jwang mo.

Yoh, i met this guy, and i think he really likes me, we see each other a lot but i’ve decided to keep our “thing” on the DL. Normally after i meet someone i ask what they do (job). But i’m afraid to ask him because i suspect gore ke “LEKGINTSA” (someone will translate).. I’m scared and nna akirate life eh rough because im such a doll nje.. What do i so mara. Dude digs me hey, and i haven’t been “dug” in such a long time!!1

Jellytot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:49 pm

but i love when primrose speaks sesotho, she is so cute. english is not everything! most of the world doesn’t speak english anyway. we should be learning chinese!!!

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:50 pm

meant what do i do

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:52 pm

@Miranda, I never ask him, its not my business whats going on in his house and I dont care what he says to her. We dont even talk about his wife I think he is uncomfortable talking about her and nami I dont want to know anything cos ngineskhwele. As long as he keeps me happy,yikhona okubalulekile lokho for me

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:55 pm

Haai bo dont tell me you believe that Prim actually told Crous that, men will say the right things just to see you naked..

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:56 pm

“dug OSS u finish me today hehehehehehe, you make up all these wods.

My advise to you is just ask him what he does but chances are if eyiGintsa he wont be upfront with you so it will be your job to dig

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:58 pm

Tjo some women really have it hard hey and here i am sulking that my husband came back late on Saturday.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:58 pm

Mina I dont believe that Mbau is a liar

kamzababy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:59 pm

english is not everything! most of the world doesn’t speak english anyway. we should be learning chinese!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have been saying this though, even my firends, fam and colleagues know where i stand with ths. and Prim is “CEO” of whatever company THEY OWN yadi air what what

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 12:59 pm

Kwaze kwabhora bo namhlanje la.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:00 pm

@Mathaz…he was with the side dish. Give other kids a chance please.

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:05 pm

Yo Fezzy don’t say. Most of the time we are together but there are times where he goes to be with his boys and by 10 he is home, if he is really late it is just before 12. Mara this Saturday he comes ka 2 and when i ask he is just having this bad attitude. I don’t think i’ll be able to forgive if he has cheated or is cheating, i am not that strong.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:06 pm

Dear @Ntombi

Ufunda nini?

Lots of love
Asa

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:08 pm

Dear Asa

As I type this I m practising accounting and working at the same time. Mustli tasking is my strongest point.hehehe

Regards

Ntombi

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:09 pm

He was getting his groove on Mathaz, but give him some credit he came back jabulela lokho

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:13 pm

@Ntombi number 1 keep it like that

I’ve got a married friend, i’ve never met his wife and i don’t even want to cos i will be jelous. Not even once has he mentioned his wife, he takes me out to expensive places, drives me whereever i want to go, he does everything for me. he refers to his wife as people in the house- kuvele kuthi ngihleke.

He opens and closes the door for me, he makes me feel like a princess only we are just friends. So this day, he put his hand around me, i froze, didn’t know what to do and my phone rang ei i was happy to move away from him. Problems is nowadays whenever i look at him, i think, what if i kiss him. All i’m saying is not every man talks about their better half.

@OSS hai cc just ask him maybe he is not

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:14 pm

If I need to concentrate Asanwabe I study at night whenn everyone is asleep,its better that way for me.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:15 pm

Hahahahahahaha, @Ntombi! I’m just teasing you dear. Nam’ nje I’m blogging silently, refreshing every other minute, trying to multi-task.
All the best kodwa. Did you get an accounting tutor?

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:15 pm

Deathby “people in the house”

GeePee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:16 pm

@ Mathaz, maybe he feels bad that he came home at that hour, something angakaze ayenza naye… Give him some time and ask him again and let him know how you feel…

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:17 pm

Snapshot nami thats how he refers to his wife like that.If I didnt look her up on twitter I wouldnt know her name.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:19 pm

I mean I would know her and brothers doesnt even know I know her name hehehehehehe

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:23 pm

@Snapshot @Ntombi, I would want to know shem. What she looks like (who is more beautiful); what she does for a living; age, weight
I don’t think I’d make a good makhwapheni ngoba I wouldn’t be able to stay in my lane shem. My man must be available as and when I need him. So sharing him vele ngeke kulunge.

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:24 pm

It’s the bad attitude that is worrying me. He is not the same person i know, even when he speaks to me. We were having the time of our lives and it just had to change coz of one Saturday?!. So i started snooping, checking his phones and this morning he deleted his call register. I know him and i am suspecting something fishy strue. I sent him an e-mail this morning that who ever he slept with did him good since he is so disrepectful towards me. Haai i am really hurting shem.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:27 pm

Ke mathata fela!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:28 pm

i also cant imagine myself being a khwaphidolls… im too demanding.i want and i want now

missTmzee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:30 pm

I die i think these men have a forum..lmao!! mine also says ‘ha ka’ as in at my house when refering to his wife.

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:33 pm

i feel like saying Ei wena Mathaz stop what you doing, hau wayithuka nje indoda ingenzanga lutho, what if your husband is my friend, yes he came home late but he did nothing he was his friend (me).

@LadymaMillion, i am not a kwhaphidolls mina no brothers we are strictly friends, why he hides his wife i don’t know. He just called to say i must prepare we going somewhere on Saturday- mina cos i am a lover of things shem ngavele ngajabula ngafa.

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:35 pm

@asa nna i think knowing will just complicate things. It is some-what complicated but the less you know the better.

Hai phela @snapshot i was at his place maobane. Dude has never said he’s at work, i mean NEVER. His spot is “shebang” intle and he has many cars. Aki understand(i)

@Mathaz, tho i hope all is well yaz’, nothing worse than finding out gore your man is busy le basadi or mosadi o mongwe.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:36 pm

So Ntombi is not the only one thats dating a married man? Yabona Ntombi? I told u.
What are the chances that there is one blogger who is a wife here and another blogger okhona la uyamdlela. Heheheheheheee…amadoda awethu sonke shame.

@Mathaz…be strong gal. I know exactly how u feeling, we not married but he is acting exactly like ur hubby and he started nge long weekend. I dont doubt that ngiya tyelwa and Ive decided to be strong and shayisa the bustard ngomoya.

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:37 pm

This Dr says woman whom take other woman husbands were raised by wolf LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDSLa4xgFB8&feature=related

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:40 pm

Thanks guys…will have to be strong then.

OSS?? Where is he from?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:42 pm

Fezzy, there is a lot of bloggers here who are dating married man jugding by the emails I receive almost everyday just that they scared of being labelled.Some are married and having affairs with married men hehehehe

Kurough!!!

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:42 pm

@Mathaz…..sorry hle ngwaneso! But it could be he was out drinking with friends, and wena you are killing yourself thinking gore there’s a woman in his life.

Same thing to you @Fezzy.

*Group hug*

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:43 pm

Mmmmmmmmmhhhh kwaze kwanziMa ezweni

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:43 pm

@sam that Dr must go jump, can you really take another woman’s husband cos i husband iyazizela. i don’t agree with people that pretend as if its the other woman’s fault that their hubby left them. Hei kade bathathelwa abantu langaphandle even our parents went through the same, if you do a proper research you will find that even her mother wathatha enye indoda.

I for one don’t condone dating married man but do you think there’s a two legged thing that can stop such, never.

they must just be strong, bapheke, baphakele while abo … bagwinya ema fitting room and abo … batshiwa ama clitoris……..

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:44 pm

That makes my mom a wolf then, Not!!!!

siya on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:46 pm

hhay kubuhlungu ukudlelwa shem

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:46 pm

@OSS your boyfriend is an entrepreneur around HIllbrow- just be strong

missTmzee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:47 pm

Duude @Ntombi and @Sam, my beautiful parents. huu if they knew they are called wolfs my mom would probably re call me to the womb and try again. the way shes so loving and dedicated to my well being.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:47 pm

@Ntombi, kwakwakwakwest! Why are they emailing you? Niqale isupport group? hahahaha! Jokes!

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:48 pm

Dankie Vesa. Yazi I dont even wanna think abt him. Wish I cud just go and get drunk tonight.

GeePee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:50 pm

@Ntombi, why are they emailing you, for advise?

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:51 pm

@Mathaz..Mathaz..Mathaz you did what? i have come to realise that there is always an argument of fight (not physical) katlung and the man feels like he does’nt have control, he runs away. Please give it time and dont say such things to him, do the snooping aroung without even him noticing it.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:51 pm

hahahahahaha @snapshot! Yhu hayi shem this–> they must just be strong, bapheke, baphakele while abo … bagwinya ema fitting room and abo … batshiwa ama clitoris……..

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:52 pm

isn’t it blowing ur own horn posting an update/telling people how this and that person told u ur hot… i mean really we get compliments eerrday from that security guard at work to the i.t guy and the CEO checking you out..why mele now the world must pause cause bakutshele ukuthi umuhle today.ayisuka maan! maybe nginomona *shrugs*
*sideeyes workmate*

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:52 pm

@aswana I also need to know do they ask 4 advice if yes, abt what?

Solomon.Mahlangu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:54 pm

*cues in Busi* “amadoda ayingxaki ayakhathaza*
ay, ngisazoke ngibone mhla ngashada ukuthi mina ngiyoba njani…

Mathaz on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:54 pm

*Hugs Vesa back*

So tonight when he gets home, i’ll be in my red lingerie which he likes and that maybe will get us to talk afterwards.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:56 pm

@Not Mbi YOU LIE!!!!!!!

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 1:59 pm

Yes @Mathaz do that.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:00 pm

Mathaz yazi ngeSat we were with this guy ne and aparently when kuChill(we) naye he leaves very early and this Sat it was too nice, he is married and he stayed till late. Even his friends were like ay bno he has never stayed out this late and he was doing nothing just drinking nje and talking. It was just honest fun

My point is it could be the same with your hubby, he was not doing anything just having fun, clean fun with no woman involved.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:00 pm

Its always better having a chat with someone who is going thru the same thing,,,thats why theyre emailing @Not Mbi.
Maybe uSimphiwe Dana also emailed you @Not Mbi

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:00 pm

I actually spoke to this hot married Xhosa guy I once told ya’ll about izolo. Fcuk this!

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:01 pm

while at it, does any of you know a Sbusiso Nkabinde, he drives a BMW not sure which model but uhlala eMidrand and goes around telling people he is an Advocate in Sandton. (the Advocate part im still gonna do my investigation)

@Ntombi bayakujwayela yaz, this people forget that when you met uPat you didn’t know he was married. bakwenza iPresident ye Cumdish Party

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:02 pm

ou Fezzy man, iza nazo nontombi silalele-

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:02 pm

oh Mathaz..*hugs you*…

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:02 pm

Mathaz thats the spirit…

Guys Im not going to discuss what they say, my point was at the end of the day we are all humans and sinezinkanuko

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:03 pm

heheheehe @ntombi deep down you want to know how she looks like; i bet you even snoop in on his phone just to check how him and his wife communicate; why else would you look the wife up on twitter and fb(u said that the last time)! You want to give him the impression that you dont care but deep down you care; im not bashing!

I know this because; the girl that had a kid with my husband was doing that; she would send me anonymous emails telling me my husband is cheating and blah blah i ddnt pay her any attention because its something that never registered and i never thought it would happen; you see she was trying to push me out of the house fast because she felt she had been a side dish for a long time! When i reflect i realised that is what she was trying to achieve; to make it seem like there were people who saw him yet it was her! Well i guess maybe this one was a special case! sick kind of a case!

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:03 pm

One of these days our boyfriend’s names are gonna appear on JC yazi? hhhmmmm

BlindFold on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:04 pm

@Fezzy..and?

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:04 pm

Lol @izinkanuko hahahahahah

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:05 pm

Hhayi Snappy Im not telling, ama bloggers ayizinja kabi kusasa ngizobe sengithukwa ngakho.
Ngifile indlala, a girl cannot survive on her finger alone.

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:06 pm

LOL at support group

@Fezzy unjajni babes loXhosa guy wakho? ingathi kanti nguKhabs wam bandla, he is in Jozi.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:08 pm

One of these days our boyfriend’s names are gonna appear on JC yazi

Vele @Vesa and azokhishwa uSnapshot. Snappy please if u wanna expose a guy with a name that starts with a T and surname starts with an M, run it by me first. Please hun. Ngoba uyawahlasela amaZulu these days.

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:09 pm

@zara….you are so spot on with that analysis (Also not bashing).

There’s this lady that I go to church with, she was dating a married man and “happy” with it. But she stole the wife’s numbers from his phone and when I asked her what she was gonna do with it, she said for future use. She used to call her and keep quiet on the phone. She even bought a sim card(before RICA) and she would send the wife sms’es of how the man is cheating on her and was seen at some place with the lady. Then she fell pregnant, and the man was saying she must abort….she refused and ended up calling the wife to tell her that she’s preggies with the hubby’s child.

My analysis was she wanted the wife to know so she can leave, and go sale yena! The man is still married to the wife, and she was left holding the baby

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:10 pm

hahahahahahahaha @ this @Ntombi bayakujwayela yaz, this people forget that when you met uPat you didn’t know he was married. bakwenza iPresident ye Cumdish Party!

Seriously uPat angeke alale kwantombi 5 out of 7 days! uhleli emthadweni ngeforce! its very obvious ngoba if usisters i mean really what does it say to her

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:11 pm

@Samlicious maybe nguye yazi cos we used to talk on the fone and sms each other till midnight no Khaps and I wud ask myself ukuthi uphi umfazi makunje. Uthini mangabe uKhaps engalali e busy ne fone.

He is cute for a 35/36yr old man @Sam, tall, dresses well and has 2 cars. Ngiyaphela lapho.

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:11 pm

@snapshot i cant deal with such entrepreneurship.. Kelare rechilled hara koloi yamotho then he tells me to go on the driving seat ke drive because o wotswa koloi.

I CANT BE STRONG, My strength is too weak for such tendencies!!!

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:11 pm

and injalo @Zara she wanted to shaya you ngesitina and bury you at once. Hyai shame mna I will take the Primrose route and not move and inch. Wena nje uzakube uzilibazisa and uyaguga. Uzakungoduka uKhaps uzakushiyeka uwedwa. Its a sad situation course you can say you are not attached emotionally but the longer you are with him emotions do get involved and you feel the same thing when things dont work out and or its time for him to go back to his family.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:13 pm

@Zara yes I did look her up on twitter and facebook and I wanted to see how she looks like and that was back then, I was worried yes but I would never go as far as looking up on his phone. His wife is no threat to me cos if i didnt know any better I would say she doesnt exist.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:14 pm

@Samlicious, that is true. Thats why I dont wanna be involved with indoda ethathile cos Ive got a weak heart yazi—->Its a sad situation course you can say you are not attached emotionally but the longer you are with him emotions do get involved and you feel the same thing when things dont work out and or its time for him to go back to his family.

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:15 pm

nope thats not nhim unless he lied about his age, and definetely d oesnt have two cars *uzihluphekele ke shame*

He tall for sure and his a jeans chuck tailors kinda guy *love his kasi look to death*

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:15 pm

Kunzima yaz!

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:16 pm

Ngcoco ama side dish who does want hubby to shiya uwife, la amacabanga ukuthi he will divorce wife for her shame they must thik again think McCain anever kwenzeke, instead he can shiya u wife and get merried to another person uyohlezi uyi sideD vele u were employed for that in the 1st place, laba abangahluphi owife big up to dat, kumele ahlonishwe anikwe indawo takhe , uyadlelwa after all

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:17 pm

Yha nhe kunzima. Cabanga uyiside dish and crying your lungs out for a married man. A heart is a very fragile organ bantu masiyinakekele.

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:17 pm

yoh this girl was so persistent and angithi there were no kids involved that was before uTy was born! So she thought nje maybe i couldnt have kids and yena she was going to corobrik me but ke as fate would have it God intervened!

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:17 pm

ive said it before -and i will say again. I will never leave my husband because im pushed to by some lunatic. Noba angenza twenty babies. If he still respects me and his shit is not affecting our life at home – then cool, BUT if i see a single cent out of your salary, and theres no explanation, KUZONYIWA TATA. Whatever chick you are busy with; will eventually drop him, getting a R50.00 will be winning a lotto from him.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:19 pm

Funny before I use to be so hurt when he has to go home the only thing that hurts now is that Im gonna miss him for just a few hours then see him later

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:21 pm

Funny enough Mr. wants a child but I aint haviong that. Men cant be trusted heheheheheh

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:22 pm

hahahahahahaha @Azande ur funny but it is possible for a side dish to be a wife i have seen it happen before my very own eyes! Even no Carrie kwi sex and the city ube yi side dish for 10 years lmaoooooooo eventually wamthola UMR BIG (whoooooo i love that man yaz)

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:23 pm

@Ntombi….you are a very strong woman! I can never do that….my heart won’t be able to handle it, not one bit! And big ups on not falling pregnant

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:25 pm

Funny enough Mr. wants a child but I aint haviong that. Men cant be trusted heheheheheh —-> have a child for yourself and not for you because its clear as daylight ur already dancing in the rain

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:26 pm

@ Zara now she will meet a man who will wanna marry her; and only then she will relise that she was stupid.

in my area kuthiwa kukho umfazi shame- the man comes with the sidedish to the house. People were telling her that her hubby is coming with a woman during the day – i think he works close to home. One day she caught them in the yard- she came in and they were in the car driving out already. He didnt stop – he drove off; she went and cried at the neighbour. Hubby came and said hai its so and so a relative – but she came to get somethng and i was rushing her to the airport.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:31 pm

Katrina petoza ndicela ushiye isitixo sala room yakho ise back kowenu vha, uSipho uyeza uzazondithatha and bendithe pha kowenu kusekhaya, ngoku ndonqena abone inyani, ndicela usele undiboleke nesasihlangu sakho sakwa Rage esam siphelelwe zi Tips siyangxola xa ndinyathelayo, ushiye nala mascara uthi I water proof, nesas scarf ndifuna ugquma ezi love bites zika Sicelo entanyeni, ushiye oku kwe R30 for ndingabi sesosibhanxa singenayo nemali ye drink, plus nala lip gloss peto! Undibekele nokutya ndlela le ndilambe ngayo uyayazi ukuba kunjani ekhaya, yona iblukwe ndiyibe kweligqwirhakazi lase next door ndiyothule kwi line! Ndifuna ucela noba yi R300 ku Sipho nzakuxoka ndithi I laybye yam iyaphelelwa! Pls khatri tshomi vha its me Nomagqabi

Nomagqabi its me Sipho uyithumele emntwini orongo le sms.

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:31 pm

in other news: Chrihanna they are tying the knot. Chris gave Karrueche money to buy herself a house- to apologise for the hurt that he has caused her.

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:31 pm

Aggg I posted this on the wrong article..ngikhohliwe ukuthi u Bongi (Rob Burn) I diverte itraffic ku N1 to R55

@asanwababe nami ngiyafuna ukwazi, basuke bethini @ntombi??
I’m gonna email u now now I just wanna see the pic ka wife so I can put a face to this poor woman shame bandla odlelwa indoda live.

@fezzy yima kancane ke ngane ka ma, woh stop the lorry!
Are u not dating the mzalwane guy from work anymore?

The same one who was qouting verses but ezithandela kakhulu ezocansi?
The same one who got u worried (and me on ur behalf) when suzie didn’t visit u on time 3 months ago?
The same one who’s boxers u dislike(d)?

Hhe @ntombi? U brothers uthi y did wifey come back??

Posted on October 11th, 2012

Stone on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:32 pm

Off Topic: Is it my badluck or are Xhosa men just not gifted?
See i been flirting with this super handsome Xhosa guy for a few months &lastnight we finally spent the night together. Worst sexual experience ever! He is extremely tiny &was done in 5mins, 2nd round same thing. &he was on bout how nice it was, i deleted his numbers & removed him from my bbm.

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:32 pm

Speaking of ama R50, ke ou legintsa lempha R20 (Mind you i never had any sexual relations leyena). Ari koreka redbull because i said i was tired!! Imagine, R20, Kavele ka nahana Talia kgore i was laughing at her and now i was given R20 for just popping by!!!!! Msuno wahae waitsi!!

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:34 pm

@Zara remember uCarrie wamthola uMr Big ngoske umfazi wakhe ayeke. If the wife didnt divorce him, Carrie would have been a side dish forever amen.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:34 pm

@Ntombi and the other bloggers, you women are really strong! I’m a jealous person shem and I hate to admit it, but I’d probably be those types that are talked abt here, that call the main dish. So vele I’d rather stay alone.
My heart cannot handle it at all.

@zara, you are strong girl! To think I had a near nervous breakdown when I caught my ex cheating. Hayi shem #gives you a bells.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:35 pm

No I made it very clear ukuthi I dont want a child as yet and especially with him,I have so much happening in my life. where would I fit time for a child bakwethu.Besides I would love to raise a child with my husband or when Im less busy if I dont get married just not now.

@Zara, I dream of Mr Biggs, speaking of Sex and the City where can I get the series all seasons, please help guys. I bought both movies and now I want the series

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:35 pm

@Fabulicious…ubukuphi mangithi angisakhulumi ngendaba zami la ku JC? Until uza uzongitshela nge personal life yakho yeka eyami ulalele lokho engikutshela kona ngalesosikhathi, hhayi kabi ngane kaMa.

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:36 pm

@ Sstone those are not real Xhosa hey – they are the mix ja mom Xhosa, dad sotho, but grew up xhosa…

Fab Tee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:36 pm

I personally could never date a married coz I saw first hand kumama wam how that hurts the wife,imbulala umphemfulo, my parents are divorced as a result of bomakhwapheni, so no thanks shame I could never knowingly subject another woman to such, mna ndiyawoyika namashwa shem, uhlala kamnandi at the expense komnye umntu kuzibizela nje amashwa coz vele that wife uyakushwabulela! (I too am not bashing)

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:39 pm

My Xhosa guy is as gifted as the whole Jerusalema. @Stone you spoke of one Xhosa guy or there other ones that disappointed you down there before?

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:39 pm

Hhayi bakithi the way ngi thirsty ngakhona Im so tempted to call u baby daddy for iservice and I know that he will jump at the chance. Yabona lento of getting serviced everyday iyaxaka when u no longer getting it.
Saw him on Saturday engasemuhle kanje, pity ubuhle ngeke bakhe umuzi.

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:40 pm

he..he..he then you get side dishes that get preggies everytime the wife falls preggies.

they will even have the same amount of kids at once.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:40 pm

Fabu I dont know and I dont care and I never asked. And no I will not email you the wife’s picture, hell no!!!

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:42 pm

Kwaaaaaaaaaa @Fezzy! Shem uNomagqabi!

@Stone, hahahahahahahahahahaha! Sorry babe. Nothing as off putting as a small tolozi. Ngaske ayeke and just use his finger; but then again if his tolozi is small, his fingers probably aren’t any bigger.

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:42 pm

@zara phela amantombazane agangile la emnyango when dey c akulungi, bashaya amadoda nghekhemi dan lapho nakanjani uzongena usisters and take over

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:42 pm

kwa! @Bongi

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:42 pm

not for you vs not for him

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

he..he..he then you get side dishes that get preggies everytime the wife falls preggies.

Bongi you cant be serious hahahahaha

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

@Stnone maybe umntu wakho is reloated to Theneus

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:44 pm

BUT if i see a single cent out of your salary, and theres no explanation, KUZONYIWA TATA

hahaha @Bongi.yhu i like that abt u

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:45 pm

@Fabu what if the wife is your relative or friend? Hahahahahahaha!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:47 pm

Hubby came and said hai its so and so a relative – but she came to get somethng and i was rushing her to the airport.

He bannna!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:47 pm

@Stone Lmao, eish i cant.. I wont say sh** about xhosa men because i have never dated one and i don’t plan to. I do Zulu men only!!

GeePee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:48 pm

@ Stone, are you sure he is Xhosa…?

GeePee on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:49 pm

maybe he is Afrikaans, Stone. think Mr Crous.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:51 pm

@Stone ow bandla askies..our x-hosa guys are the hottest..but ayi shame mna ANDIBAFUNI.
yho i cant imagine the xhosa i’d be speaking

Stone on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:52 pm

Hahahahaha! He was the first & last Xhosa guy my legs opened to. Huge disappointment (&the way he looks so yummy though), im going to stick with my culture.

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:52 pm

@ Fezzy uyayithanda inyobiza yo.

I have a relative who is a side dish and got preggies,khabo ndoda bamutshela straight ukuthi ange ba accepte untwana wakhe cos utholelwe esonweni.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:52 pm

@Zara can I ask you something, how did you find out the girl was preggies, Did hubby tell you or what???

Stone on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:53 pm

&YEs im dead sure, that’s what he said. He could be a mixture.

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:56 pm

i was shocked @ fabulicious’ request yazi! hehehehehehe!

Yazi Mr Bigs is the shit! in my mind Christian Grey is like Mr Big! but aiii his age(Christian Grey) put me off!

Amazon has the series; i bought for my niece last month! will set you back about R2000

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:56 pm

@Fufu…thats no secret love. I love d1ck. Good d1ck. And the only 2 people who have been able to give that in my whole life are baby daddy and the beast. No one has beaten baby daddy.

samlicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:57 pm

damn my comment the ENGRISH! *hides with shame*

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:57 pm

But guys, what’s with the stereotype?

A small totolozi is not about certain tribes/ nationalities etc….it’s a human thing and it happens to men across all nations and colour

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 2:58 pm

Ta Zara, will check

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:00 pm

Im sure Fabu was just joking guys hahahahaha

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:01 pm

i was shocked @ fabulicious’ request yazi! hehehehehehe!

hehe me too..a bit impossible

on another note..why do our bf’s mommies feel they can choose who they want as their daughter-in-law.
like if i have a fight with my guy, all she says is she will never allow any other woman to be with him.haybo! poor guy noba sele angandifuni he’ll just stick it out with me coz the mom will make the other girls’ life a living hell

siya on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:03 pm

who is asking about Sbusiso Nkabinde?

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:06 pm

who is asking about Sbusiso Nkabinde?

ke @snapshot

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:06 pm

“people in the house” kwaaaaaaaaaaaa…this killed me shem! Eish these nice cheating men, mine used to call the wife”mzala” lmao

True-self on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:07 pm

yoh this girl was so persistent and angithi there were no kids involved that was before uTy was born! <<<<This made me think of Sxyling. Zara=Sxyling LOL

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:08 pm

Awwwww True-self bakithi.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:08 pm

really???

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:09 pm

i have i dvd set ye season 5 which i got from some guy who was shelaring me. wud love to have all the seasons.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

Really TrueSelf, Really?????? hahahahaha

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

@Vesa been told to ask you; how do you know Wamkele?

zenzybear on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

all the seasons zani fufu?

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:11 pm

Sbu Nkabinde o batliwa ka patla le jaas

kamzababy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:14 pm

kwaaaaaaaaaaa @ trueself.. where’s sexymmm sale a ikwaletse le gf last week LOL

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:14 pm

hahahahahahaha True self really u just couldnt keep it in; smile and move along! Like really something so common knowledge to JC users! awuphaphi !

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:14 pm

@ zenzybear sex and the city

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:16 pm

Hau bantu @ntombi I’m jus kidding, why wud I wanna see the wife like on the real now?
And tell u la ku JC to make things worse when I could’ve said it in pvt
@asanwa eyi that would be a tough one coz as much as I love @ntombi I’d never forgive her for such!lol

@fezzy oh I must’ve missd that manha!
Hope u change ur mind one day, the way I love ur tales!
For now I’ll do as u say ke and settle for the bit u give out.
Mina I’d really love to share kodwa I’m the secretive type, ngizokusherela in private wena Fez

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:16 pm

Walk past @trueself comment in this tym kodwa

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:18 pm

@Zara….I don’t know Wamkele. I googled him izolo when I saw his name here.

And who asked you to ask me?

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:19 pm

Yenza njalo wena Fabu…fezzyt@gmail.com.
I’ve seen ur pic by the way. Slender.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:19 pm

@fabu,im soooo secretive its not even funny

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:19 pm

Oh good that u saw @ntombi.

Wena @zara ungugqadambekweni!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:23 pm

This weather though!

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:23 pm

Hahahahahahaha @trueself, I can just imagine your excitement as you realised who zara is.

True-self on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:24 pm

hawu bakithi i didnt know angithi Lmao! oh well since there is no delete button, Yall do like @Azande

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:26 pm

I knew you were joking Fabu, I did say that hehehehe

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:27 pm

what does that mean Fabu? ungugqadambekweni!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:29 pm

So what do people around Winchester Hills, Bassonia, Glenanda etc do around there. or y’all always go to the NORTH?

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:30 pm

ungugqadambekweni! uyaphapha

Toffolux on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:31 pm

fufu you took me out of silentville. I think your relative had a child with my brother. He was married and his side-dish got preggers & they informed my mother about it. My mother wathi yena akazingeni cos they were sinning in the first place & she wont support amanyala. My mom is a rock star I tell u.
Oh sanibonani kunina nonke

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:32 pm

hahahahhaaha @Fabulicious wena nje angikthembi u could have been serious!

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:34 pm

@OSS what does this mean “Sbu Nkabinde o batliwa ka patla le jaas”

@Siya does your Sbusiso Nkabinde fit my description

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:35 pm

Fezzy yimina islender? you cant refer to me as islenda ngipake kanje lol

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:36 pm

@LadymaMillion there is nothing to be done sisi, we wait for you guys to visit us LOL

Those are the coolest places in Jozi, no sphithisphithi sabo Jezebel

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:37 pm

Sanibonani
While u guys are talking of wives and side dishes mina I’m faced with baby mama drama! tjerrrrr

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:38 pm

i stay that side @snapshot.. and im always going to the north.
shame i love the “peace in our land” there

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:38 pm

small world @ toffolux,if we are talking bout the same person.

Fezzy on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:39 pm

Ngisho uFabu @Ntombi. And Fabu was not joking shem. Ngiyamazi.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:40 pm

@elegnamis wenzani?

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:43 pm

hehehehe, ohho

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:43 pm

@LadyM we go to sedibeng panyaza ect act and yah we do inorth as well its all depend kwi menu ya weekend house part and all

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:49 pm

This sferb got kicked out of her flat apparently she’s 3months in arrears. The landlord let her take some clothes and toys for the child, then changed the locks… Then she takes a cab to my guy’s place.
I got there so tired all I wanted was to shower & get laid. Imagine the shock in my ass when I walk in & there’s a 4yr old jumping all over the house.
Why didn’t she go to her mom’s house??? And this man is so chilled about this

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:50 pm

@Azande oh i see, so i take it its each to their own, umuntu uzenzela ihlokoloza yakhe ngokwakhe. no ‘ayi lets check out cedar square then we’ll take it from there” kinda tip

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:51 pm

Tjp @eleg, now thats a tough one

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:53 pm

Guys remember the friend I once told yall about?
The one I stayed with before hubbs who had a “house” and was hiding it from me bla bla bla???

She passed away this morning leaving a 2week old baby girl behind.. I worse coz she never told anyone who the babydaddy is as she was super secretive and sleeping with a number of guys.
I know she was fast with her married boss (poor wife).
Ay ezibuhlungu azipheli!

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:53 pm

kwaaaaa at @eleg! I’m sorry I can’t help it….moist baby daddy’s

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:53 pm

Hahahahahaha, @elegnamis this just killed me –> I got there so tired all I wanted was to shower & get laid. Imagine the shock in my ass when I walk in & there’s a 4yr old jumping all over the house.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:55 pm

@fab..oh nooo thats sad. did she pass on bcz of the house?

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:56 pm

Yah ladyM mina I’m all over nje lakumnandi khona ngiyafika ngane, I mean anywhere.

So vele abantu abayi eMacufe nah

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:58 pm

ngiyafika ngane
heh ngizokushaya @Azande. hubani ingane?

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 3:59 pm

Oh no @Fabu! So vele the boss and wife probably also have a house in vereeneging (sp)? Yoh, this life bethuna!

Vesa on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:01 pm

Tjo @fabu….this is very sad!!!

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:02 pm

This thing is spreading like wildfire yaz..

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:03 pm

tjo guys thts too sad

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:05 pm

Hahahahahahah lol LadyM not kanjalo lol

LacocM on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:05 pm

@Eleg, what is baby daddy saying? Why did he allow that yena? If he respects u & ur relationship, bekufanele angavumi. All I can say is don’t trust any1,
especially amadoda they can lie labo bantu.

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:07 pm

@fabu the family must prepare for the child also… why wasn’t she taking arv’s during pregnancy! eish

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:08 pm

Eish, the two week old baby bandla.

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:08 pm

eish kodwa shame the only thing that will kill us – is this ‘house’ – there’s no safe way at all. We are living in times of intersexions. Noba ungazigcina wena; you partner will meet mna ndimphe i five seconds yakhe and BOOM …eish Bawo khawuze ngokwakho uzosisiza. Kubuhlungu ziyaphela ifamily nezihlobo zethu- we wont live long to see our great-grand children.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:10 pm

i can never imagine the pain that wife has to deal with when a husband brings it home..and wena u have been nothing but a good wife.like how do u forgive him when he has been nothing but selfish

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:10 pm

Tjoooo why though, eish

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:13 pm

I got there so tired all I wanted was to shower & get laid. Imagine the shock in my ass when I walk in & there’s a 4yr old jumping all over the house. <— The nerve of that woman though! O sebiti, o se phekgile a qeta a tshela nandos sause mo

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:14 pm

lets hope the kiddie does not have it. maybe she took those pills that prevent the child from getting it. yhu hayi masiyekeni uthetha ngalento

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:14 pm

@Lacoc the helper opened for them coz she knows the child. She tried to call me but I was in theatre. Guy says he doesn’t want his child on the streets. I dont have a problem with the child staying but lo Febelina must go!
I’m sure she’s cooking right now

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:17 pm

but lo Febelina must go!
I’m sure she’s cooking right now

@eleg, is she pretty? hehe

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:18 pm

no make that hot?
huge difference!

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:20 pm

A relative of mine got the house from her sferb of a boyfriend. She discovered during her pregnancy. So she took ARVs and the baby was born without the house. Then she decided to stop taking ARVs saying God would heal her.
She died last year. I still get so angry when I think about it. She’d still be alive if she’d continued with her medication.
And the sferb is probably giving to other women. Mnxim!

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:20 pm

Esh so sad and umdali wayiletha kabi le wayibeka la ngeke nje singayi khona, indlela esifika ngayo sihambva ngayo futhi, so sad nje shame poor wife,

To all the side dish out de plz make sure u do condomise, I thank u.

bumbum on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:20 pm

Tjo this house thing, I can imagine after 5 years zobe kunjani, these houses are spreading like wild fire.

I’m still in shock on how I didn’t end up with the house but I thank God for that. The wildness I had when my ex cheated on me, I wanted revenge but wasn’t thinking what I was putting myself to. Thank God for my husband.

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:21 pm

LadyM, I dont want to speak ill of the dead but the fact that she dies 2weeks after giving birth means she was not taking her pills or she was taking them irregularly (both arv’s & prenatal)
SMH! She was irresponsible shame. Poor child

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:21 pm

Hai guys that guy ha sebetsi serious. Ari he’s been waiting for me to knock off. What kind of swag is that mara?

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:24 pm

@LadyM, I agree, this is too depressing.

Kwaaaaa @Febelina! Hayi she must go. Kanti does she not have relatives or friends? Uyadelela shem.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:25 pm

@eleg, is she pretty? hehe
Lady M the way ustout ngakhona hahahahah

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:25 pm

remember you guys i once told you that my brother infected his wife, such a good woman yaz, now brother man stopped taking ARV’s cos his uncles told him he doesn’t have it but its the wife who has it, brother man is even dating a nurse, A NURSE everyday i ask myself if this particular alleged nurse is really a nurse, nc nc nc ukuthanda indoda konkhe loku

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:29 pm

Hai nna im sorry guys, i know that rona bo Kwaphi, we hurt these married/regtes who beleive that cheating wont get them to heaven. I think though that with me its a serious problem, infact i think that maybe, just maybe some woman loyad me cause i was fooling around with her hubby. But until i find a sangoma who will cast the spell away, ill still be jolaring around. Im sorry to all the women we/i hurt out there. As long as your hubby still respect you, support you financially, emotionally etc. just be happy then.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:29 pm

As long as there are people who still think like your brother and uncles @snappy and my friend, this disease will kill us all shem. It’s just a matter of time.

zara on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:30 pm

Kwaaaaa @Febelina

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:31 pm

@Gomo, how would you react if your soon to be hubby was also jolaring with two other women/men? #Just curious

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:33 pm

@ladyM she’s pretty with that “fit” body…
She doesn’t work, had a sugar daddy & made the kid called him Papa. Dont know what happened coz he was paying the rent & buying carvellas & shiny tracksuits.
I wonder what this man ever saw in that woman.
The sad thing is the child thinks we are one big happy family.

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:33 pm

Ayi no! smh

snapshot on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:35 pm

@aswa ku ruff shem

@Gomo u need prayer, yaz at home there’s a woman you jolad around until her inlaws asked her what was the problem, she told them with pride, that, she can’t sleep without a man. They arranged for her to go stay with hubby in Jhb. Bitch got here and jolad with a neighbour,the embarrassment that was on hubby, he told her to go back home. fast forward, woman arranged for tsotsis to kill hubby and today she is in jail-

just sharing

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:36 pm

@eleg, bajole for how long lababantu, do u know. are u the girl after their “break-up”?
i think u have a huge problem, ebile u must just move in nawe heheh

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:37 pm

@asanwababe, Maybe he is right now, i wouldnt care, infact when he starts complaining about me not being home most weekends, i casually tell him that if he is lonely, he must get a call girl. He never wants to go anywhere with me, not malls, parties, movies, weddings etc. He just wants to lazy around in the house the whole time, im sorry shem!!

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:40 pm

And he never wants to try sex positions, its either ke missionary or doggy, shem anever nna, im not taking it, and im tired of complaining, so im talking this matter into my own hands and i have never been happier le sdodla saka, its not my fault that his father is a pastor and poisoned his mind about sex being dirty. ke tlo jola goed!! Finish!!

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:40 pm

@Gomo, I hear you nana. Naye he’s not serious about life nje. How can he be letting a hot manana like you go to these things alone?

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:41 pm

@ladyM stru!!! I dont understand why people dont drink their meds. A guy was admitted with drug resistant tb and when the nurses asked him while he stopped drinking arv’s wathi they told him not to mix pills with alcohol at the aids clinic. so monday to thursday he drinks meds, fri to sunday o ya spotong!

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:43 pm

He will regret, i promise. Plus there is this not-so-famous guy after me *wide smile* but he is known and NO, he is not a soccer player. Will reveal everything at Anything Goes tmr. Bye..Bye

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:44 pm

Kwaaa @elegnamis
they told him not to mix pills with alcohol at the aids clinic. so monday to thursday he drinks meds, fri to sunday o ya spotong

people and their priorities

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:46 pm

@Gomo, kwaaaaaaa –> Plus there is this not-so-famous guy after me *wide smile* but he is known and NO, he is not a soccer player. Will reveal everything at Anything Goes tmr. Bye..Bye

I cannot wait!!!! Bosso ke wena Gomo!
Bye bye dear

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:47 pm

@Gomo why go ahead and marry this guy if u dont really care abt him

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:50 pm

Mara isn’t it a job and a half to cheat. Making sure ha o baxiwi, the sneaking. Aow hle..

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:51 pm

Good question LadyM.

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:51 pm

5yrs ago me & guy left for drc together kanti she’s preggies. We worked there for 17months and during that time we started our thing. So I guess u could say I corobriked her, but when we got back she had moved on & the child was accepted by guy’s family because she had Mofu Salamina’s ears…

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:53 pm

Then Gomo why are you going ahead with the marriage? hehehe

fufu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:53 pm

death by Gomo athi undlulisiwe.kwaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:53 pm

I do care about him@ Ladymillion a lot ebile. Its jus sometimes i just feel that he has lost a/the zest for life. When we first met, it was WOW, magic, fireworks etc. Suddenly he looks tired and not so ambitious anymore. Its worse that his father is always putting pressure on him about church this and that. Im tired of being supportive and trying to understand. Im still very young to be home weekend in, weekend out, im sorry that is not going to happen. I love him, strue i do, he is the best stepfather to my son and he will move the mountains for me. But now we have a routine and……eish i can go on forever, i hope u get my drift.

bumbum on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:54 pm

Who bought her wedding gown? I don’t know what to do with mine. Its just sitting in my closet, don’t know whether to sell it to the wedding boutiques or find a buyer (wife to be). if you intrested pls hola, its size 30.

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:56 pm

Why dont you tell him about t ukuthi he will loose you if aqhubeka kanje? Tell him your concerns boo

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:58 pm

I love him@Ntombi..@Fufu, its possible dear. LOL, You there i go again with my big mouth, its better if i dont visit JC anymore, cause once im here, i just want to vent!!

Ntombi Yomzulu on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:58 pm

Bum Bum how much did you pay for your wedding gown? drop me an email if you not comfortable abt saying here,I might have help u

Toffolux on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 4:59 pm

bumbum, I sold mine on stillwhite.co.za. Try them

LadyMillion on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:03 pm

Let me buy it @bum bum. maybe this guy will stop saying “i will marry you” abone ukuthi ndiserious, evrytime eza i will wear it, ngizoyikhulula masiyolala and wear it again first thing masivuka

bumbum on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:03 pm

@Ntombi yazi I don’t have your email add.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:08 pm

Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa LadyM!

OhSoStunning on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:08 pm

@OSS what does this mean “Sbu Nkabinde o batliwa ka patla le jaas” @snapshot nah just curious gore why kgobutsiwa kayena. I wonder o yetseng fela..

fabulicious on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:09 pm

@gomo yazi wena u r a rare breed. Serious!

Eish guys I think that gal had a lot of anger nje, she was living so recklessly after she probably found out..she brought home atleast 3 different guys a month in the 8 months that I stayed with her and I know they used to book in with her boss since she (and he)knew I know the wife!

She was taking meds I presume when I stayed with her but that was 2yrs ago after ngi mover we drifted apart till I saw her with the baby bump in June!
Even though the boss thing was top secret I know she loved him coz she had pics of them everywhere in her room and they travelled together a lot.
I’m so mad at her! Damn her for bringing a child on earth knowing she won’t look after her!
I’m so mad at her for not giving herself selflove and bcoz of that destroying other ppls lives!
I’m mad that she allowed the devil into her soul and speak ill in her life!

She took her own life away in the early hours of the morning.

I have no tears to shed for her,but for her innocent daughter who didn’t ask for any of this

bumbum on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:09 pm

Thanks @Toffy, @LadyM lol let the poor guy decide tuu its a big decision.

asanwababe on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:16 pm

Oh no! It’s suicide kanti? Oh yini bethuna! That is so selfish of her; what about her baby?
#Sad for days

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:20 pm

LadyM u killing me tltltltlltltltlltlt evertym mezwa i will wear it i die shame you go gal

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:23 pm

@fabu saze sabuhlungu isitori sakho shame man sisona ngosana

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:26 pm

@aswana is that beauty/sibabane u nana?

elegnamis on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 5:29 pm

Modisana kanti she killed herself! Poor child!!

Gomolemo on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 6:01 pm

Tjo@Fabu that a sad story tlhe, imagine being told that your mother took away her life while you were only two weeks. That baby will feel that her/his mother didnt want her/him. Thats really tragic.

I just got home and bf says he thinks we should go out, ha…i dont buy this, maybe he is stalkin me mo JC? I should change my username.

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 6:07 pm

kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Gomo i think so u, why now after u said it la, but ke just go atleast wazama shame

Azande on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 6:08 pm

think so 2 that is

bongi on Thu, 11th Oct 2012 7:59 pm

I have just told fez to come ‘endlini enkulu’ …maybe she decided to watch tv…

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