Happy Gemini Wednesday :)-

May 29, 2013 by  

Happy Wednesday beautiful people. I’m too tired so scheduling this so I can have an early night.
I hope you enjoy the day , I plan to enjoy it by doing nothing. Doing nothing is such a luxury to me, so I’m treating myself to it.

Heard of a new reality show featuring Khanyi, Nonhle and Babalwa and I was thinking how good it is that they got all 3 together because not one of them would get us glued. They make for an odd but interesting trio. I reckon people will complain but they’ll tune in to watch anyway. Mina I’m over these reality shows…

Happy Wednesday friends, Anything Goes came early!

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594 Comments on "Happy Gemini Wednesday :)-"

  1. Ruri on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:12 am 

    First *booty hops*

  2. mbulela on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:21 am 

    ^^^^^
    Twerk for us.
    Imagine Snoop is singing ‘drop it like it’s hot’ in the background.

  3. switpie on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:27 am 

    My bf pushes me while slpn lol can’t get used to this. M on the edge of the bed now. Ai the karate smh

  4. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:38 am 

    Babalwa, Nonhle and Khanyi on one reality show…… BS I think you spelt rhe word ‘acting’ wrong……lol. I cant see how they call these things reality shows when they make scripts for it. Hopefully they actually do this in their own houses, not their frieds homes(think Kelly khumalo ….tltltltlrl)

  5. coolcaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 5:50 am 

    Happy b?rthday Lelo

  6. simple on Wed, 29th May 2013 6:22 am 

    Happy birthday BS,may the good Lord continue to shower you with blessings ube nosuku oluhle ntombazane

  7. Brown Shuga on Wed, 29th May 2013 6:42 am 

    Thank you! You got the hint! Lol

  8. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:14 am 

    Happy Birthday Lelo!! Love lots xxx; hope Siya spoilt u with breakfast in bed

  9. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:18 am 

    To the Boss lady..O re holele and may all your wishes and dreams come true, I thank the Lord for you.

  10. thandi on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:19 am 

    Happy Birthday MsLeloB. Ubenosuku olumnandi! Stay blessed!

  11. MashDiva on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:23 am 

    Happy birthday Ms Boyana!! Have an awesome one! You are so wise for a 25 year old! <3

  12. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:25 am 

    Happy birthday Lelo, enjoy your day to the fullest and stay blessed. And thank you for JC..xxx

  13. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:28 am 

    I like Babalwa and Khanyi but I won’t watch because of the third girl….she doesn’t even deserve to be mentioned here.

  14. jaycee on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:29 am 

    I’m wondering whether it will be like forever young as in will the show be about the 3 of them ‘together’ OR it will be about their separate lives…mongwe le mongwe ko ga gagwe and her life kinda thing

  15. Pixie on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:42 am 

    Happy birthday morwadie wa ka ga Boyana. Hope you enjoy your day of doing absolutely nothing: stay smart, beautiful & continue growing. Mwaaah

  16. elegnamis on Wed, 29th May 2013 7:54 am 

    I heard (apparently, allegedly) the show is more like a game show. More tasks and less about their lives. Like that tropika thing. They started shooting on monday…
    Happy Birthday Lelo :*

  17. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:15 am 

    Happy “25th” birthday Boss Lady…thank you for this blog. It has made our life richer in many ways. You have touched our lives without even noticing. Stay blessed.

  18. missTmzee on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:17 am 

    happy birthday Miss Lelo.

    may you continue to inspire women to be better. halaaaala!

  19. Rush on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:18 am 

    HHE.. hhe guys.. did u see on the news yesterday?? the church of satan????? 0_0 and it actually has a pastor and a satanic bible *claps once* tjoo.. if ure still fulling around and not born again ndiyakusizela!! *claps again*

  20. Mapakisha on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:32 am 

    Just saw on twitter…. Happy cakeday Brown Ssss, may you be blessed with more years on this earth. Hope u get everything(prezies) ur hoping for:)

  21. lynx on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:47 am 

    Happy Birthday Lelo, your star shines brighter than a diamond! Only the greatest is upon you-Many more years & stay blessed.

  22. Ruri on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:49 am 

    Happy birthday Lelo, may the Lord shower you with even more belssings (you’re already blessed moes) and grant you all the desires of your heart.

    How do we get a cake to you?

  23. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:52 am 

    Happy Gemini Wednesday every bhadi! Im a Gemini. Are all Geminis crazy? Hehehehe

    Happy Birthday Nombulelo Boyana, ukhule ungakhokhobi.

  24. mbulela on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:53 am 

    happy birthday Lelo. may this be the beginning of the best days of your life,may your path never fade and and may your light shine brighter. finally, that which you are looking for shall be found. *wink*

  25. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:56 am 

    Ndikunqwenela imini yoku zalwa eyokozela amathamsanqa mntakaBoyana…

    @Fez do you still have a girl crush on Lelo?

  26. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 8:57 am 

    Happy birthday Brown Shukela. Guys, I need to know from all the yummy mummies here, what do you do to get your libido back after having a baby ngoba for me hayi shem ihambile, gone kodwa kufuneke ngi clocker phela ngoba hubby has needs and I cant fake it, thusang hle. Is Jade a mother? maybe I should ask her she is the sex expert phela.

  27. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:01 am 

    @Kusihlwa…watch porn! Kwaak
    I have realised that not wanting sex or a low libido is all in the mind, you can fake it till your libido comes back.

  28. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:06 am 

    “I want my bf *throws tantrum”, “but this battery, my bf ddnt even remind me mxm”, “LMAO my lover knows me hey”, “my bf is insane”….ewu nkosi kodwa sifelani, siyazi uba ujola noLulo, sixolele ngoku *sigh*

    Disclaimer: don’t mind me, I’m just jealous :(

    Happy Birthday BS, God Bless *mwaaah*

  29. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:09 am 

    Happy zalwa day BS many many more yrs to come.

    elegnamis hawu kanti not abt their life, izobhora ke nje, mcm

  30. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:10 am 

    Kusihlwa if you dont give it up your hubby might start to resent the baby, cause he will figure that ingane imehlukanisa nekhekhe…

    When I’m not horny but have to “clock in” I always imagine myself as a Chinesse prostitute ( DON’T ASK)

    This works for me shem!

  31. Rush on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:11 am 

    hahhahhahahahahahha @lovebunnybee u see.. i told yall hahahahaha have u seen Lulo sayin “i miss my girl? i love my girl? i want my girl? hahaahahaha shame ladies yazi..lol kubuhlungu… i aint even jealous of Dj relationships mina.. the girl is jst a pretty face wethu.. a good shag for Lulo! shes actin as if theyve dated for years with the guy.. its only been 2months SMH! thats if theyve even finished the 2months.. nx these girls.

  32. Polly1 on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:13 am 

    Happy bornday BS, Lots of Blessings to you *hugs*

  33. Instant on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:13 am 

    Happy birthday Ms Lelo B, God’s blessing upon you.

    LMAO @ “fake it till your libido comes back” kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    What’s turning u off Kusi? the thought of the dance or you are too tired by the time you get to it or u are just don’t feel like doing the dance at all?

  34. bumbum on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:14 am 

    Happy Birthday Ms Lelo, you’ve impacted my life more than you know. I Love you alot. XOXOXO

    lol @Switpie, uthi ukuphushelani umkhwenyana nanje, bovele wehle ulale phansi masekuzosa ethi evuka uzigoqile. I’m sure uzok’buza umtshele ukuthi uk’phushile bususaba ukuphundela embhedeni cz vele busazowa again

  35. promisez on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:17 am 

    @Fez do you still have a girl crush on Lelo?

    hehehehehee!

    Happy birthday Ms Lelo, stay blessed

  36. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:19 am 

    HAW Rush, only 2 months?? :O ayisencane ke nalengane, Lulo turned 31 last year neh?

    As for Nonhle esichomela nge reality show kanti ufeaturiwe naye *rolls eyes*

  37. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:20 am 

    Kwaaa@lol, what does a Chinese prostitute do? educate me phela. @Blindfold, usho nje mmhhhh *thinking*. @Instant, I just have no desire nje and I also think that work pressure, getting home and cooking and no time to myself also play a factor. When its bed time and hubby snuggles up, kumane kucime izibani and the next thing I know its the morning.

  38. Monei on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:22 am 

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY LELO!!!!May ur day be filled with good food, great company and tons of laughter!

    @lovebunny, whats her handle? all i remember is that shez friends with samkelo ndlovu so i went to samkelo’s TL and found this bio:
    “Born at a very young age. Papercut survivor. Trying to elevate small talk to medium talk. Don’t know a lot, but people seem to pay me 4 what I DO know. Artiste.”

    kante how old are ppl when they’re born? or am i missing something deep..? :-/

  39. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:24 am 

    @Promisez vele namanje u Fez had a mad girl crush on Lelo shem She once told me face to face nogal that Lelo was… and I quote

    “Muhle yazi, futhi u humble, futhi she has a pretty smile”

    But Fez was scared to make a move… Uyaz moss ukuthi ley’ngane zaseNatali ziyasha , zesaba ukushela… into eziyaziyo yimpi!

  40. Miss T on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:25 am 

    Plz direct me 2this Lulo’s lil gal

  41. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:29 am 

    @Omuhle_Gela

  42. bongi on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:30 am 

    happy birthday Nombulelo Lelo Brownshuga Hazel Boyana..ubene mini emnandi ntombi..

    so glad my Fez is coming to CPT tomorow..@ Fez i havent paid the DSTV yet – sizotya lemali sobabini…

    and further more keep me in your prayers..i will share tomorw at 13:00..

  43. Mavi on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:34 am 

    Happy Birthday BS. Ukhule uze ukhokhobe ntombazane. I realised from the Unathi open letter blog ukuthi i have been reading your stuff since 2006 usekwaTVSA. Siyabonga mamiza.

  44. Rush on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:39 am 

    So its Oscar Pistorious’s case nextweek.. heheh i wonder kuzotwani..

  45. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:40 am 

    Happy Birthday Lelo, and thank you for Just Curious, i cant imagine how my life would be without it. Stay blessed!!

  46. GA on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:41 am 

    Hapy birthday Brown Shuga :) . Modimo a go dire ka go loka fela ngwana ga Boyana.

  47. Rush on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:43 am 

    “The athlete is due before officials in South Africa for a hearing on June 4. It’s expected that the prosecutor in the case will ask for a postponement so it can further its investigations.”

    Ngumbheedo kelo.. postponement yanton?? mximmm

  48. Shaezz on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:46 am 

    Lol at @Lovebunnybee and Lulo does not even respond, nc nc nc poor kid. Its like she wasnts everybody to know that she’s dating Lulo.

  49. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:49 am 

    A very blessed birthday to Ms Lelo Boyana! Modimo ago okelletse! happpppppeeeeeee

  50. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:50 am 

    @Lovebunnybee please don’t be jealous, don’t feel bad (if I could tell you why I would), but ungasabi, loDJ owethu sonke *folds arms and laughs at little girl*

  51. Rush on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:53 am 

    lol haybo Loulou wazi ini wena hahahaha yiza nazo..lol but wethu we ALL know dis.. Dj yawathanda amafresha

  52. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 9:57 am 

    besides him, I totally get why guys date much younger girls – you really don’t need to be smart and he’ll like you.
    Can you imagine him with a smart, corporate girl? Do you think that will work out?
    I used to date a DJ (unknown), and I absolutely adored his company and we loved music, mara I could never take him into my “intellectual” circles – or maybe I am having delusions of grandeur ne? *goes back to cubicle*

  53. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:00 am 

    @Rush I gave up on the NPA a long time ago….Oscar is gonna walk shame

  54. True-self on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:01 am 

    Happy birthday BS, may you see many more years. You are blessed. What was the satanic pastor saying bahlali…

  55. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:02 am 

    Happy Birthday Lelo!

    Guys I am tired,physically and emotionally.I dont think my husband and children appreciate me,I’m emotionally drained,i cant take this anymore.Both my children tell me what they want for breakfast,in most cases it’s different,each child has a menu ready for me when they wake up.They dont listen to me,throw things and food around.I have had with my family.

    My husband yena will demand sex when he knows i’m extremely tired.He is very selfish.

    I am tired.

  56. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:02 am 

    @Rush usho ukuthi sesizophindela enkantolo????? #as i start preparing umqombothi namahewu for those days.

  57. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:04 am 

    Eish I’m not ready for Oscar, I couldn’t work for those few days, can you imagine a trial? aowa!

  58. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:08 am 

    hahahhaha lol @Mathaz askies, but kuyahlekisa ke lol

    I am tired.

    dead

  59. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:09 am 

    Eish @Mathaz…kunzima yonke indawo sisi. I used to think that women over exaggerated this whole motherhood I am tired thing but now that I am in that situation, I am eating humble pie bandla.

  60. Ms Android on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:11 am 

    How young is Brown Sugar guys? askingforafriend.
    I’m also a Germini.
    Happy Birthday B$…

  61. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:13 am 

    Happy bornday fellow Gemini, stay blessed.
    @Mathaz, just fake an illness that may require you to be admitted in hospital (panic attack in front of then works wonders). Get away from them even if its just for a day. When you come back, let them know that the doctor said you’re under too much pressure and there needs to be changes made to alleviate the pressure. They will be very scared in the future *talking from experience*

  62. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:17 am 

    @Kusi and Mathaz – When we get married, we want to be superwomen. We don’t want to fail, we want to be perfect. And that is where the problem started. I would suggest that :
    1) Mathaz – Start being strict with you kiddies. Don’t be abusive nhe but tell them ukuthi they are having whatever you can do, period. Also, if you are tired, let the nanny do some other stuff in the house. I know we want to work, cook, bath, help with school work, have sex, all in one day. Its impossible my love. You will end up resenting everything. Speak to you hubby about this too

    2) Kusi – Sex is very important sweety, trust me. I was in that situation too, till I decided to delegate cooking some days to other people. When you get home, you can kiss you baby and set time in your room with hubby. If he’s into porn, you can do that, have a quickie then do whatever you feel like doing afterwards. Just have sex before you get too tired. Youu dont have to do it at 9pm. Maybe that can heat things up a little bit

    GOOD LUCK WITH ALL OF YOU

  63. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:20 am 

    Eish you guys,i really have it bad.I think I need to be away from them for a little while.

    The state said it will complete investigation only in August re Oscar.I dont trust the NPA as well.

  64. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:21 am 

    heheheeh Mathaz; you are superwoman girl! dont give up now! i am exhausted and i am a SAHM with 2 babies and a nanny! but still im dead tired!!!!!!!!!! :(

    Kusihlwa ; give the man cake!

    Sleep is failing me ; the devil is tempting me….. i am hot and bothered with too much excitement! Ever been dumped by someone and you feel like dying because you are without them and they made your life worth living…. suddenly they are back in the picture and it seems like the day just got brighter! Am i making sense? I feel exactly like that :)

  65. Instant on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:22 am 

    @Kusi ya it sounds like u have a lot to deal with before the dance, but hey we are expected to be superwomen shame juggle everything and keep sane all at once. hope u find ur libido soon and the extra needed energy #TeamGreatExpectations !

    @Mathaz shuu I feel u, it’s not nice not being appreciated. hang in there mama !

    LMAO but guys Lulo responded athi “nyt nyt” kwaaaaaaaa whuuuu to be young and in-love with a DJ

  66. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:24 am 

    Toffolux is right wena Mathaz…I also took that “sick” route now my husband knows I’m not a machine and he plays his role of helping me with the child and some chores well. Yes its deceptive but uzoncame wenze njani? I got exhausted with 1 toddler, how much more wena with 2 and one on the way…yhu!

  67. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:25 am 

    Thanks Toffolux and Cutie.My full time nanny is coming back next month.I thought I would cope without one but no,indeed i’m no superwoman.

  68. promisez on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:28 am 

    youre making sense Sxylin… and il be watching temptations tonight

  69. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:32 am 

    God bless you wives and mothers hey!
    wena @Sxlyin uthini??????????? hmmmmm…

  70. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:33 am 

    Kodwa men can be such dogs yazi! how are you gonna shag your side chick in the same bed that we share? What is that? Can we at least respect “the one”

  71. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:38 am 

    I only cook five times a week, I used to cook EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! and my husband got spoilt , thinking its normal to have a steaming hot meal evryday, so when I would buy take-outs he would sulk… On some “borotho abokhurese” or whatever gibberish… so I went on strike, so twice a week without fail I DONT COOK! He called my sister to complain so I suggested he cook since pap is so important to him!

    Also the nanny works Saturdays only on fortnights,I got tired of bathing my two youngest so a collegue suggested we turn the thermostat down on the geyser, get the swimming goggles and shower caps so the two young madams take showers on weekends…

  72. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:44 am 

    Yho @lolo my husband also wants cooked meals everyday but when I know he’ll be coming in late I buy those woolies meals and just heat them up mara he still wants pap especially when he had a few drinks.

  73. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:45 am 

    @Mathaz..you know sometimes you just need to get back from work, go to your room and close the door.

  74. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:46 am 

    Happy birthday brown sugar! Inkosi ikubusise njalo! Ubenosuku oluhle.

    Wena lolo musa ukudlala ngabantu base natali. Yebo siyayithanda impi. Siyakuthanda nokumemeza (sajweyela ukumemeza emfuleni masesihlangene namanye amaqhikiza sigeza bhudu bhudu…heheheheheh).
    Cha kodwa mina ngayishela eyami indoda yaphinde yangshada. So ubugwala abukho! Ngiyala! Lol…*wears bullet proof*

  75. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:46 am 

    hahahahaa Loulou ! ur last comment; please elaborate!

  76. Summer on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:48 am 

    I’m also having the same problem yaka Kusi. My husband works long hours & so I’m usually left to do everything from toddler to cooking to tidying up & when he gets back from work all he wants is food, bedtime story for hs son & then he’s all over me, like, I’m exhausted @ that time & jus want my bath & bed!!! Hhayi mina sengifuna ukubuyela ekhaya, hhayi sifelani vele?!

  77. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:54 am 

    @Wickedfood musa nje uk’qamb’amanga…Wena nokushela??? Emushweni owodwa???

    Akukho muntu wes’mame ovela eNatali okwaziyo ukushela… futh’ nje noma bebekwazi bengekhe bashele ngoba iningi lenu linovalo, niyasha!

  78. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:55 am 

    hahaha yoh @ men that want meals! Thank God i have it easy mna this man of mine; give him anything with Potatoes and he is good to go! He loves his potatoes! Potatoe saland and chicken; mash and bangers; potato gnocchie all from the packet lmaoooooooooooooo! no stress!

  79. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:56 am 

    *salad

  80. Nemo on Wed, 29th May 2013 10:56 am 

    lol

  81. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:02 am 

    nemo i saw u on wechat?

  82. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:04 am 

    @Loulou nama side chick avumelani ukuhambe elala embhedeni angayazi, ayovuka eshaywe istroke one day.

    a friend once told me a story of her friend, athi the gal suspected ukuthi ubrothers uyajola neh, and she was about to go home for the whole week, they staying together ryt, so usisi went kumama unengalo(dat was way bck)and they gave her some muthi to put on the bed, and that mamah said any woman who will sleep first on that bed will get a stroke, usis wathi sharp vele uyahamba yena, and she was sure ubrothers is cheating, and that nakanjani some woman will come over ngoba engekho

    she went home after one week, she came back and guess who was the first woman to sleep on that bed???? herself where is she today dead, she killed her own self.

    assumptions assumptions, insecurities insecurities.

    so ma side dish lalani nje eminbhedeni yabantu, nizonya hahahah lol

  83. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:11 am 

    Lol its so dangerous to sleep @ a mans place these days. Ul never know ukuthi ulindwe yini and its unlikely that the man will tell u he has a live-in lover nd she’s away for the night. Uzothi usanethezekile ngephenti embhedeni womunye umfazi angene ney’cabha heheheeeeee kuzoshuba. I still have the scars from trying to stop the fight @3am that morning

  84. sweetness on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:11 am 

    Happy birthday BS!!

    Oh how I missed you guys… Back at work after my break… pheewwww, i missed this place!!

    I am so grateful for everyone in my life right now… I spent an entire week with my mother, and realized that the distance between us is a good thing to keep both of us sane… I dont know if its age, but she has become very selfish, too demanding, and everything must go her way nje…

    I stopped trying to find all the bad things my bf does, and realized he is the BEST, faults and all…

    My sister is cheating on her hubby with her ex, its really annoying cos she claims she wants to sort things out with him(they were separated for 3 months), but is still sneaking around with the ex, dont sleep at home and leaves the kids with the hubby and nanny. I love those kids to bits shem, and the way they love their daddy, its admirable, I am scared for them(the kids) if they split…

    My brother is taking advantage of my mother, he is always asking for money from her(large amounts). He used to be sooo rude to her, call her names, banned her from seeing his kids, etc. Now that her business is doing great, he is now all soft, kind, and caring toward her. I see through him

    This is the reason why I hate going home, I find out all these things about my family, and it really distracts me. I love being far from them, and only talk over the phone.

    I JUST NEEDED TO VENT!!

  85. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:13 am 

    I have come to a conclusion that men are selfish by nature shem! All of them!
    How on earth do they think it’s possible for women to work the same hours as them but have the energy to come back and cook and open their legs for them? whereas, all they do is sit on the couch and watch tv while thinking of the things they wanna do to you when you go to bed….#SMH

    When my mom used to tell me of stories zasemshadweni i used to just think that only happened in their generation…but no, namanje kusanjalo! You guys are strong shem, I don’t know how you women do it without falling apart…I don’t even have a child but I’m already so fragile nje! Clearly I’ll die when I get married, lmao!

    Happy Zalwa Day BS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  86. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:15 am 

    hahahahahahahahahaha! Kodwa Azande! Okwakobani nje ukuzibulala wena ngezindaba zokuqina! Ukuqina kwamathambo! amathambo esipoki…

  87. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:20 am 

    @sweetness..is the husband aware that your is joling with ex?
    @lollington..marriage is not for the faint hearted, you need to be strong and realise that most things should just be ignored otherwise hear attack.

  88. mama ka Gundi on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:20 am 

    Kwaaaaaaaaa Azande aikodwa! Wafaaa maybe zange balale in the bed mayb they did it on the floor or ebathroom kwi basin hahaha

    Happy Happy to us Gemini’s yebo Fez Gemini’s ama character sihlezi zine drama…

    Ncela ukubuza abo “my husband”..bangakhi abama Laybye( engagement ring without lobola)#just asking

  89. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:21 am 

    hahahaha lolington this had me laughing; ” I don’t even have a child but I’m already so fragile nje! Clearly I’ll die when I get married, lmao!

  90. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:21 am 

    Your sister

  91. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:23 am 

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa mamakaGundi! You have killed me dead dead hahahahahahaa !

    Ncela ukubuza abo “my husband”..bangakhi abama Laybye( engagement ring without lobola)#just asking

  92. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:23 am 

    I take my hat off to all you working moms and wives…..

  93. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:27 am 

    Hahahahahahaha @Azande thats hilariously sad hle :( lol!
    kunzima emhlabeni – thats why when I jola I at least want clean sheets – when I enter change your sheets…

  94. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:28 am 

    lmao! Laybye – hahahahahahahahahaha *dead*

  95. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:31 am 

    Tjo tjo tjo ladies, where do you get the energy from???

    Phela, if I go to work come back,cook,clean and wash dishes in one day the following day I must take a day off to rest and I wont even lift a finger.

  96. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:32 am 

    Aybo I’m joining you @FrozenBubbles…I really do not know how you guys do it! @Blindfold, I will have a heart attack for sure, how long can one ignore things? Women are super strong….and mina I cry for things that may appear as ‘nothing’ to other people….how much more when there is a baby/a husband ‘without hands’ and my job! *faints*

    Kweeeeeee…..as for LayByes!! hahahahahahahahaha!

  97. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:32 am 

    Laybyes? Im dead!

    Kodwa Lolo, I have female friends la ku JC. U cant come and talk about my lesbian tendencies, they will run away from me.

    No, I dont have a crush on Lelo anymore, I cant have a crush on the same person for years. And I’ve learnt to control my lesbian urge, ngamxosha uSathane. I told u a long time ago that angikwazi ukushela and I dont even want to try, be it a man or a woman.

  98. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:33 am 

    hahahaha me too Miranda! They have super powers I tell you!

  99. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:35 am 

    @Lollington, its very taxing shem. Mina I get home after my husband & he will be watching TV. One cold winter night I got home after 8 & he had the nerve to say ‘thank goodness you’re home, im so hungry!!!! I wanted to cry. I spat (isikhwehlela) in his food the way I was so hurt & angry *no judgement pls*

  100. sweetness on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:37 am 

    @Blindfold, I think he is suspecting. he has mentioned it to a few family members.

    I hate this… I worry alot about my family members. I cant imagine with my own kids when the time comes…

  101. Nickita on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:41 am 

    Happy birthday Lelo love you

  102. Ms Android on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:41 am 

    Loulou says:
    “kunzima emhlabeni – thats why when I jola I at least want clean sheets – when I enter change your sheets…”
    Mna shem ndiz’gibisela eBhedini without thinking, thiza sizofel’emanyaleni
    Kodwa @Azande naye losisi did she forget ba ufake umuthi? She shoud’ve double checked yabona ngoku.

  103. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:42 am 

    Ncela ukubuza abo “my husband”..bangakhi abama Laybye( engagement ring without lobola)#just asking

    tltltltltltlltltlt lol mama kaGundi usile wena hahahahhah

    tjo you guys ningenza ngiwusabe more umshado, mmmhhhhh kudlaliwe ngabantu besifazane, yezwa.

  104. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:43 am 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa @ Toffolux.lol.kwAAA. but could you ask him to organise dinner whilst you were still at work? By organise I mean the shortcuts viz. ordering take away, putting fish/chicken fillet in the oven…???

  105. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:44 am 

    LOL @ Lollington…they operate on Ever Ready Power Plus battery…..

  106. Brown Shuga on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:48 am 

    Thanks for the sweet messages guys :-) Appreciated much!

  107. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:48 am 

    @Kusi well mina I told my husband ukuthi for nine months, I was feeling like I want to vomit because some man promised me that with the withdrawal method I wont get pregnant, I gained over half of my body weight, some foods did not sit well with me, when the baby did come it hurt like you have your nutts cut off. Surely waiting for me to get my libido back is not asking too much.

  108. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:51 am 

    What is this Laybye thing? I had an argument with a guy on twitter last week…he said “U busy usichomela nge engagement ring and half paid lobola..psst” I asked him what’s wrong with that and he said “the amount of time she’s been wearing that ring”. I was like…but she’s waiting for the guy to finish paying the lobola mos before she gets married and he’s like ” she’s a laybye mos”……I didn’t get it.

  109. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:52 am 

    Ms Android im sure wakhohlwa, or maybe thinking vele some one is already in deep shit lol.

    and she didnt die 1st half, waphila 4 a month maybe coz uyena owayebaxoxela why enje, my friend said akaze abone into ebuhlungu kanje, esho uzenzile, kunje nje nje kungenxa yakhe.

    ukuganga nje akubuyiseli, so bafwethu yenzani sure anilali kwi bed yomfazi, @Loulou changing the sheet was not gonna help la, coz umuthi wawufakwe on mattress lol

    akeze kwakho or book a hotel.

  110. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:53 am 

    Eish Miranda, this man of mine is so lazy & he thinks im super-woman. I dont even wanna think about that side of him cos ke ya kwata serious. I focus more on the positives & exact revenge on the negetives where I can *evil grin*

  111. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:53 am 

    Hawemuuuuuh @Toffolux, are you serious? I think that would be serious turn off for me….a major one! a 50% points down kind of a turn off…..I’d even sit and re-evaluate my whole marriage…kweeeee, of course i’m exaggerating because I’m not married. On the real though, what happened to brains? Can a person not have enough brains to think that because they are hungry they need to get something to eat? I mean, why should you even be the one to think for him? The way I was going to weep….kwasona isikhwehlela leso was not going to be enough!

    Some motivational speaker once said, one of the reasons married women lose interest in sex is because husbands become babies, and no one wants to have sex with their child…kweeeeeee (well at least not normal people).

  112. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:58 am 

    Ncela ukubuza abo “my husband”..bangakhi abama Laybye( engagement ring without lobola)#just asking

    Haahahahahahahaha, dead!!!

    Happy Birthday Lelo

  113. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:00 pm 

    askies @sweetness but at least u had a break from cancer/shimula neh, hope so LOL.

  114. Nickita on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:01 pm 

    Hey Sweetness you are back i’ve missed you.

  115. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:03 pm 

    Itjo speaking about being a wife! wow nami ngishayephansi manje. I was doing 8 hrs @ work, get home, cook, attend to hubby everyday. Weekend comes I must clean, wash iron! (No baby yet) Weeeeeee! Hayi I told hubby I need a break bantu I also need to enjoy saturday relax and not think of washing. Phela even intashi can give you that much energy. Mara woo. So we going for a 3rd week with the help. I will keep the helper shem until december. Ayikho into ayenzayo eyismanga shem! Hahahahha!

  116. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:05 pm 

    Hai hai hai hai #claps#…now it makes sense why my married friends are so hard to get, one ca’t just call them and say lets go have coffee now… Jisaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas. Hai ngeke,If I get married I want two helpers then. One Hygiene Executive and One Chef #Hiding behind the salary of the man.

  117. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:06 pm 

    can’t

  118. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:08 pm 

    Heeeeeeeeeeheeeeeeeeeee deathby ama Laybyes asazi ke thina sathelwa ngenyongo *hides*

  119. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:10 pm 

    Anga you show off lol…

  120. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:12 pm 

    But ladies yazi you become so used to it it becomes second nature, like breathing. So ningathuki kakhulu

  121. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:12 pm 

    Phela even intashi can give you that much energy.

    hahahahah @wickedfood uyisigebengu lol

    @Anga hahahhaha deadby inyongo and phela vele istage sokugcina ngci leso, sebethi siyakwemukela lol

  122. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:12 pm 

    Awuthi ngibe serious for once in my life:

    @ Kusi….Most people I know have had a decreased libido since their baby was born due to factors such as being unhappy with their own body, or having their intimacy needs satisfied by their baby’s love. Mostly, it’s because new mommies are just tired all the time and maybe a little irritated with their husbands.

    Try not to refuse your husband though. The best advice someone even gave me is “Don’t forget about your husband.” Talk to him about what’s going on with you. I know this sounds unspontaneous but give him suggestions like, “I’d rather do it in the afternoons instead of in the mornings when I’m trying to catch some extra z’s.”

    I’m sure he’ll understand if you’re not the wild child you once were, but if you completely reject him, he will resent that. The baby will grow up and things will probably get steamier again, but for now just put effort into it. If not for your own pleasure, do it for your marriage (and I’m sure you’ll enjoy it too).

    If it gets really bad, talk to Jade or Sxylin. Just don’t deny your husband for too long!

  123. mama ka Gundi on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:13 pm 

    Ngiyazibuzela nje..becoz nama Vat & Sit seku abo “my husband/hubby”

    @Frozen bubbles Engagement ring without lobola for years umuntu ubusy my fiancee my husband umdlalo lowo. Fana nje nomntu who goes to a furniture shop and laybyes a bedroom suite abusy ngino mbede we thirty thousand then we ask PHI?ngoba ulala kwi Sponge..ai useShop weeee bhatata!!

    If i would count the number of times sithola abo “will you marry me il b a divorced widow by now…
    Lobola 1st inkomo zigcwale esibayeni then ring bantuu.

  124. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:14 pm 

    @Miranda…just pray that you wont marry a man who will strickly want food cooked by you.

  125. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:15 pm 

    too true Lollington—> Some motivational speaker once said, one of the reasons married women lose interest in sex is because husbands become babies, and no one wants to have sex with their child – they are BIG babies hey

  126. MyThoughts on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:15 pm 

    Happy birthday Lelo. Stay blessed.

  127. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:16 pm 

    @ Azande heeeeeeehe heyi ngoba uMAMU NENGALO beno MGENGE bayiqeda imali yazingane zase Natal Tech.

  128. black beauty on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:17 pm 

    Happy Birthday Nombulelo Boyana! Ube nosuku olumnandi…. :)

    @sweetness, YEYI WETHU nam I am baffled with some married women! My cousin (who got married in December) is cheating on her husband with her ex (and baby daddy). Andi understandi tuu…

    Here we are struggle to find imitshato and yena she is busy treating that man like a dog and cheating on him…. Only God knows!!

  129. bumbum on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:17 pm 

    @Sweetness, so you choose to go home then a shopping spree in Paris to spend some of BFs lottery money?

  130. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:18 pm 

    But on the real though… can’t we have like a roasternyana to get somethings off your hands?Say there is no helper or kids yet.

    Monday :No cooking happens, Hubby takes bin out,washes the dishes , wife does anything but chores
    Tuesday : Hubby cleans the garden and packs the laundry into bags for the Laundry facility collector.Wife cooks and does dishes
    Wednesday : Hubby unpacks the cleaned laundry into respective wardrobe sections and organises dinner .Wife does dishes and takes bin cleans bathroom and passage
    Thursday : hubby cleans the garage and wife makes a quick dinner

    etcetera

    Like is this impossible with black men #Starts praying and fasting for a “No, this is dosable” kind of response”

  131. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:18 pm 

    Yazi MamakaGundi kwa engagement ring leyo mina ngiyibona kuwukuqina kwesimanje thina maZulu sazi ukuthi insizwa izishaya ziphelele, kwembeswe, umbondo, kushadwe white/nomabo hayi izindaba zama promise ring ngoba umuntu ayibona kwi Days of Our Lives.

  132. Nickita on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:19 pm 

    Hahahahahahahahahah Mama ka G.

  133. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:21 pm 

    @Miranda…just pray that you wont marry a man who will strickly want food cooked by you………story of my life well uthi he prefers

  134. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:24 pm 

    doable…..Moer, this typos

  135. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:25 pm 

    @Miranda….kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak, That can happen, done by abused men. Phela there are women who are Nongaindoda out here.

    I do believe that we spoil these men to a point of no return, my hubby will not eat papa that was cooked in the morning at night/dinner.

  136. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:26 pm 

    Hehehehe Miranda, you do get ladies that are lucky and have considerate men. Mina Im just unlucky, my man doesnt do anything around the house & Ive learned to accept it. pray that you get one of those ‘helpful men’. At least I have a helper that cleans but cooking is my responsibility waya-waya. :’(

  137. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:26 pm 

    Inkos’impela uyihlazo weh Fezile… kush’ukuthi no Anga nje uyamhalela kodwa ukweshela DOH!!!

    Kunzima ukuba yis’shimane… amadolo wakho agcwel’amanzi #encinciza enikina nekhanda#

    Mnanah ngikushelele mina!

    Weh Anga uFezile lo uyakufisa! uney’nhloso ngawe.

  138. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:27 pm 

    ?Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:16 pm

    @ Azande heeeeeeehe heyi ngoba uMAMU NENGALO beno MGENGE bayiqeda imali yazingane zase Natal Tech.

    hahahahhaa lol kuhle ngoba wazi kahle, we oe sake savelelwa usabe uthuka manje ungazi lamantombazane enzani, ngezwa kuthiwa sewashona umama nengalo, ngajabula kakhulu ukuzwa lezondaba.

    ayi nami im with u on engagement ring i see it as a waste of money nje mina, le engekho imali lol

  139. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:27 pm 

    Haaaaaaahaaaaaaa Miranda is Zulu and he made it clear ukuthi he will do anything in the house except cooking. When I’m not home and he is left alone with the kids they eat junk until I come back cause he said he tried to cook once and the kids said yuuuuuuuuuuuuk.

  140. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:29 pm 

    True Blindy, my mother in-law told me that my husband can cook & clean as he’s an only child & she made sure of it. I created this monster cos when re sa jola, I was this super-woman that did alles(had to put my best-foot forward). Now its biting me in the a*s cos I set the precedent

  141. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:30 pm 

    @ Lolo namanje she is busy saying how nice my hair looks kanti uyangifuna. Uya nase Cape Town ku Bongi…

  142. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:31 pm 

    Usudakiweke wena Lolo manje.

  143. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:32 pm 

    lol Fez was waiting 4 u hahahahhaha

  144. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:32 pm 

    Thanks for the clarity, I don’t qualify to be a laybye ke mna coz I ring ndaqala uyinxiba when it was the full set on my wedding day, I was scared to wear an engagement ring before the lobola was done…my family would have torn me apart anyways…bathanda imali ababantu yhu!

  145. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:32 pm 

    Weeeee ngeke ngiphinde ngikuncome wena uzosala noLolo bakho shame.

  146. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:33 pm 

    Uboqaphela weh Anga…izishimane yilezi eziqedela zikhuluma amanga umuntu athi uboza uzobuka Isibaya kwakhe kanti lutho dade ufuna ukukuthinta emanonini…

  147. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:33 pm 

    Weh Anga uFezile lo uyakufisa! uney’nhloso ngawe…..
    ——————————————————–

    Hawu awusasho nokuthi ntombi emhlophe njengezihlabathi zolwandle uyangifaka noma uyangikhipha.

  148. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:34 pm 

    There’s only one gal I will neva stop crushing on. Naye nje uyazazi and she has became one of my best friends. That is enough for me.

  149. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:34 pm 

    hahahahhahahaha @lolo deadby iSibaya invite tltltltlltlt

  150. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:35 pm 

    DeathBy laybyes. I agree tho, engagement ring should come AFTER lobola. Kodwa ke nakhona that lobola is no guarantee, I know someone who was corobricked a few months before her wedding. Ama lobola nemembeso etc were all done, deposits payed for wedding venues, invitations busy being printed kanti ubhuti fell inlove with someone he met @ kfc and he’s now married to kfc lady.
    Ey amadoda! Day by day I lose faith in marriage, akusizi nokuthi I see how hard Dineo tries everyday in vain kwi generubbish. Buya Jesu

  151. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:35 pm 

    Weeeee ngeke ngiphinde ngikuncome wena uzosala noLolo bakho shame………haaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaa sesingaxabaniswa u Lolo kodwa mngani wami

  152. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:37 pm 

    Me : Ngizokukhumbula njengoba ngizobe ngingekho.
    Him : Dont worry babe, my right hand will sort me out while u are away.
    Me : Hawu, yinike umsebenzi wami mgoba wena u’ve got your right hand?
    Him : Do you call smashing a ball against the wall playing tennis?
    I died!!!!!!!

  153. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:39 pm 

    @Anga yis’dala leso sokufakana nokukhiphana… unyaka ka 2013 lo esime phez’kwawo… kuyasheshwa.

    Futh’ nje sekushelwana ngendlela esheshisayo, uthi omunye ko munye ” uyangipha yin’ikhekhe noma ufuna ngizithathele”

    Omunye aphendule athi… “thatha nalo ikhekhe”

    bese kuyabhejwana.

  154. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:39 pm 

    @ BS wishing you all the world can offer. Geminis are one of the smartest people I know…

    @Kusi,its old news,but God is indeed great yaz’,finally you can complain about mummy issues! Wow wow wow! I am so happy for you!!!

    @Mathaz,I kid you not,I found myself thinking about you the other day…do you sometimes regret marrying your husband? I sometimes get a sense that because you a christian you stick it through because of the vows but hell,you try way tooooo much to make a happy home. Just my observation. As for the kids,faka ibhande or buy those cereal dispensers and bazenzele icereal in the mornings…I am glad you finally getting a helper

    @ the married women,if let’s say you just cook a lot of different food and freeze it,during the week you just defrost (anyways ukudla okulele tastes nicer) does this not work? I always think I will do this.

  155. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:40 pm 

    Supposed to start jogging and dieting on the 1st but its on a weekend so….I moved it to the 3rd. Andisonqeni!

  156. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:41 pm 

    @lovebunnybee esh thats the sad part no gurantees nje at all, at least loyo, some grooms dont show up, and what do u do/say kubantu baswenkile phela, bayalilililizela.

    esh amadoda nje ayizinja ngayo yonke indlela ongayicabanga.ayahlanzisa period.

  157. Alikho on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:41 pm 

    Happy birthday maNxuba ka Sdumo…may The Lord continue to guide your blessed journey…uhlale umhle unobubele njengokuba unjalo

  158. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:46 pm 

    Haaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaa ewu kwanzima Lolo ow how I miss the old days.

  159. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:50 pm 

    Frozen just do it tomorrow if not today, otherwise u will never start, kunzima kona and u will have to force urself everyday mfwethu.

  160. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:51 pm 

    hahahahahahaha kodwa @lovebunnybee so now she’s kfc lady? lmao!
    That’s so sad though, phela we love umshado shem (even though I’m more scared of it), cabanga sebekuphuca iqatha emlonyeni usulihlafunile wezwa no juice sekmele ugwinye bavele bakife abako KFC!!

  161. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:51 pm 

    Hahahahahha we azande! Manje awusho who lived to tell the story? Kiiii awukahle nenganekwane! Hahahahahah

  162. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:52 pm 

    Wayibeka we Mirsanda and it makes sense. You guys are right we do spoil man to a point of no return. My hubby was the most self sufficient man before we got married but once I sad I do now he cant even pick up his own socks from the floor and kuyadina shame and I m tired of it. Eventhough we have a helper that comes in during the day because we have a small place when I come from work I have to tend to the baby and cook while he plays Assassin’s Creed on the computer and it grates my nipples, I might even add iskhwehlela in tonights dinner. #joining Toffoluxs evil grin#

  163. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:53 pm 

    Yazi nami shame I loose faith in marriage everyday, tjoooo guys amadoda asile la emnyango and ndlela le engsaba ngakhona uKarma hehehehehe. Ive seen with my married friends the shit they go through and have to put up with and compromise to keep the husbands happy to a point that they forget their own happiness, Ive seen with my relationship how much I dont want to get married heheheh

    Ay kunzima shame guys, men are selfish shame

  164. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:54 pm 

    @wickefood ngakubamba awufundi ama comment hahahah lol

    ngishilo akashonanga same time, waphila 4 like a month, and dan abangani bakhe beyombona wabaxoxela ukuthi uyena ozenze kanje.

  165. Miranda on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:54 pm 

    Lol@Abused men.

    I love cooking but not on a freaking daily basis.When I am forced to do it….I do a crap job.I stay on whatsapp, watch tv,read a magazine whilst cooking and it will get burned without fail. I wont even do the nice presentation thing that Barefoot Contessa does when dish up nje-I am learning…(putting the food in a certain manner, putting green leaves on the plate,think of the colours layout of food in the plate et al)…..Nje they would think I can’t cook to save a life just because I ddint do it with my heart there.I even get moody and irritated if I am the only one doing everything for you

    Clearly you guys are strong, very

  166. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:56 pm 

    @Ntombi wena kumele uwusabe ngempela *runs* LOL

  167. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 12:59 pm 

    @MissAn, thanks sweety. Do you know how selfish men are? uzokutshela ukuthi he soesnt like eating yesterdays food today. I have tried, believe me.

  168. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:04 pm 

    Kusihlwa, my sisters husband was like that, athi akakudli ukudla okulalile kodwa besajola usisi wami at the guys place babevuka ngomfudumezo

  169. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:04 pm 

    Ubaleka uyaphi wena Aza? Buya la!

  170. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:05 pm 

    Awumbuze wena Fez, kuqine kakhulu lokhu okuAza

  171. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:08 pm 

    umkhuba ovelephi wona lo wokuthi umuntu akakudli ukudla okulalile? It really sucks being a working woman, this worked perfectly in the older days because women did not work.

  172. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:09 pm 

    ayi mina ama yesterdays uzowadla shame ayikabi amnandi nje futhi, akungadlalwa ngathi.

    @Fez FNB how can we help you hahahahah lol

  173. bongi on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:10 pm 

    i dont even want to comment kwi ndaba ye husband is lazy–mine gets the award kulo dept. andisathethi ngomngqundu uwubona emanzini…sihamba sitshata mxim…

  174. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:12 pm 

    so guys isikhathi sokufunda siphi mekunje,how do you manage 4 degrees?????? ayi i salute they dont call us IMBOKODO for nothing.

  175. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:14 pm 

    Euwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! Bongi Lmao

    Ay guys nizalelwe iDog in the house nina

  176. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:14 pm 

    I don’t wash my husband’s socks and underwear…never have and will only do it makuthwa he’s on a death bed and he ran out of clean pairs….that includes his sneakers…singaphela!

  177. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:18 pm 

    Hayi azande I saw your 2nd comment after I have posted…

    Wena ntombiyomzulu ungahleki kakhulu ngama laybyes ngoba nje kini ngeke bazibone inkomo usabhizi namadodethu ashadile. Futhi sihleli la hlampe udle indoda ka anga nje kwazibani…mmmhhh othi ngibuyele emsebenzini…*runs 4 life*
    Ps I’m not a laybye…

  178. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:18 pm 

    lol@Bongi.

    Re-Engangement – We want different things in life. White wedding is a white people’s thing not ours either. So if someone wants an engagement ring,so be it. Mina I’m one of those women who wanted to get engaged. I wanted to be proposed in a romantic way. The next month my lobola was paid. Within a year I was a makoti, ate injeke and given a new name. That’s how I prefered mine to be.

    Eish, being married with kids is not that easy hey! trust me. And these men want us to work still…mnxm.

  179. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:23 pm 

    Wena ntombiyomzulu ungahleki kakhulu ngama laybyes ngoba nje kini ngeke bazibone inkomo usabhizi namadodethu ashadile. Futhi sihleli la hlampe udle indoda ka anga nje kwazibani…mmmhhh othi ngibuyele emsebenzini…*runs 4 life*
    Ps I’m not a laybye…
    ==============================================================

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa tltltltltlltltltltltlt dead.

    PS kuyahlekwa noma kufiwe.

  180. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:30 pm 

    Heheheheheh we Wicked food, ngabe uwena oAllocator abakhwenyana. Qina sisi ubuyele emsebenzini

  181. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:30 pm 

    Manje ubalekani Wickedfood? Mela ismoko sakho mfazi

  182. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:30 pm 

    YHUUU!!!! Wickedfood!

  183. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:32 pm 

    LOL kodwa olwani uchuku wicked

  184. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:34 pm 

    Hhuuu hayi akubanga kubi kakhulu! Asidluleni lapho! Hahahahahhaha…

  185. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:35 pm 

    In case it is NOT clear on my comment above I am crossing fingers , hoping a cyber fight ensues… so I repeat… YHUUU Wickedfood!

  186. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:37 pm 

    Kodwa usungaze wenze isbonelo ngendoda ka Anga pho Wicked? Hhayi angithandi nje, ungazobangela umngani wami amabhadi pleaseeeee! Heheheheheeeeee angathela abantu ngamanzi abilayo u Anga.

  187. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:38 pm 

    Kahle Lolo. Sesiyvalile leyo. Kuthiwe angiqine. Sengqinile. Next topic pls. Musa ukubasa umlilo please! Ngifelani kodwa! Tltltlltltltltlt

  188. bongi on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:38 pm 

    kwa..kwa..kwa.. @ Lolo NtombiYomzulu is a lady and she knows when she is being provoked..so she wont entertain this..since ungumfazi Wickedfood utyiwa yini wena?

  189. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:40 pm 

    Lol @lolo vele u@wickedfood akadlali kanjalo, buzani u@Gomza hahahhaha lol was it her and Gomza neh????????? hiiiiiiiii

    nami ngiyavala ngoAngalicious shame ayikabi.

  190. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:41 pm 

    kuthiwa angiqine sengiqinile

    DEAD.

  191. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:46 pm 

    Sizani, how do I turn off auto rotate on a Blackberry touch screen? Ave inescefe lento.

  192. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:48 pm 

    JC bloggers ha!ha!ha! So @ cherry ka Pat,they like you mara far from their husbands… Ha!ha!ha!

  193. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:49 pm 

    @ bongi. Maybe it could be my hubby. But its not since I was neva in cape town. Plus hubby doesn’t like dark black bones. Anyway bahlali this is a story 4 another day! Its BS bday.

    Sidenote where’s Mzuaqe? This is the 2nd day…ihhhe I weekend idlule naye yini nkosi!

  194. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:52 pm 

    tltltltltltltltltl sifile o Cijimpi no Cuphimpi, to think one of my mom’s cousin was Cuphimpi! Parents though!!

  195. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:53 pm 

    lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooo whuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu MissAN…..JC i forgot to say welcome back! *big hugs*

    ummmmm who is dark black bones? he madoda!

  196. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:54 pm 

    “Plus hubby doesn’t like dark black bones” hehehehe you’d be suprised @wickedfood…uyawazi nje kak’hle amadoda?

  197. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:55 pm 

    Esh vele uphi uMzawa26 and ushilo wathi if ecelebreta ipay day, udakwa angazazi igama.kucacile indlule naye

    @wickedfood maybe brothers lied about wife being in cape towm, or the other way around so it can still be u , hahahahhhahah lol.

    *woman to woman* the hubby said the wife died, so anything is possible. LOL

  198. lovebunnybee on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:55 pm 

    Hahahahahahaaaaaaaa Lolo noMissAn niqedile ngami *loling some more* @ “Cherrie ka Pat” lol kodwa nenziwa yini nibe nje?

  199. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:56 pm 

    Since ngiqale la kwi JC my husband is gay ngoba he doesnt like abo Jason beno Senzo and manje uselala no Ntombi heeeeeheeeeeeeeeehe

  200. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:57 pm 

    true @Frozen ebhedini ufica yona le athi akayifuni lol

  201. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 1:58 pm 

    The shade being thrown here today! Angizingeni shgame. Last time ngayingena ngabizwa nge ass licker.

  202. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:00 pm 

    JC bloggers ha!ha!ha! So @ cherry ka Pat,they like you mara far from their husbands… Ha!ha!ha!………….Mina ngisaba ngisho amadoda ala kwi JC.

  203. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:01 pm 

    So @ cherry ka Pat,they like you mara far from their husbands… Ha!ha!ha!

    I dzie!

  204. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:01 pm 

    haaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaa deathby ass licker

  205. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:02 pm 

    would you trust a friend with your current boyfriend if she has slept with your ex?
    Like, are these things usually a once off or is there a possibility it may happen again while you are busy being too trusting?

    Disclaimer: I am asking for a friend…hahahahahahahaha, no really I am.

  206. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:02 pm 

    Saba zonke Anga. JG angakushaya ngestina faster than u can say JC.

  207. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:02 pm 

    @Ntombiyomzulu uthi u-Wickedfood indoda yakhe ingeke ikhweshele ngoba umnyama!

  208. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:02 pm 

    Amaxoki ala kwi JC…..ungasala wedwa endabeni

  209. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:04 pm 

    Eyi ungasho uliphinde! Ikhekhe ikhekhe phela!!! KiIiiiiiiii

    Azande I’m lost with yo woman to woman statement…awuyiphinde bandla ubasi engaka buyi

  210. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:06 pm 

    @Ntombiyomzulu uthi u-Wickedfood indoda yakhe ingeke ikhweshele ngoba umnyama!Haaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  211. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Lolo Im so glad angifundanga nawe eskoleni. Must have been hard for those who went to school with you.

  212. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Mina nginguNtombiyomzulu ngekhe ngithule umuntu esho phakath’kwabantu (phecelezi, between people) ukuthi mina ngimnyama njengelahle futhi ngekhe ngeshelwe eyakhe indoda!

    Angeke shem!

  213. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! nakhoke Anga, your husband could be anything Jc bloggers want them to be.

    Wickedfood, usazokhula sisi amadoda lawa maybe ulala necoloured nje

    Dead by “Cherrie ka Pat” Miss Ann lol nami I dont want the bloggers husbanks so they are very safe, these bloggers feel like my friends now

    ANyway, back to the post… what was this post again? lazy to scroll up

    The fact that Im serving my notice at this hell hole makes me want to dance like Dr Malinga

  214. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Lolo uthi awuyincami tuu le fight? Bethanda bengathandi bazolwa…..kwaaaaaaa

  215. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Yabonake, angiyithandi le ngoba nami ngimnyama. Yini vele inkinga yenu?
    Wena Wicked bengithi ngiyakuthanda, I’ve changed my mind.

  216. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:08 pm 

    hahahahahaha…hhawu engabe eyelahle ibhalwephi! Sifili u lolo Qhathizwe!

  217. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:09 pm 

    @Ntombiyomzulu uthi u-Wickedfood indoda yakhe ingeke ikhweshele ngoba umnyama!

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa dead tltltltltltltltltllltltlltltltl lol (say no to dark chocolate) u guys i cant hle hahhahahahah

  218. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:09 pm 

    Ngobani Fez awunabe re: Lolo

  219. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:10 pm 

    *them vs him

  220. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:11 pm 

    @Fez ungawari uthi uLelo uzok’thengela igogogo le-Ambi!

  221. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:12 pm 

    @ Fez kahle dadewethu angshongo lutho ngabantu aba dark. Ngithe ubaba uzwana nabakhanyayo. Kodwa ngaphinde ngyijika ngathi ikhekhe ikhekhe. Ayidle ishiyele wena ndoni yamanzi.

  222. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:13 pm 

    Animeni, kanti kunani ukuba mnyama? yazi I was not aware ukuthi ubethi uyangidelela by being dark hahahahahahahhahahah

    Wena Lolo musa ukufuna iPero ngami hahahahahhahahahah

  223. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:13 pm 

    Ungumqhathi uLolo we Anga. Yazi ningashayana ngento engekho eseniqhathile uLolo.

  224. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:14 pm 

    Igogogo le Ambi? Hhayi ngeke, Im out. Ngizoxoshwa emsebenzini la.

  225. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:16 pm 

    We Azande uya nini ekhaya? Ke kopa lift tu.

  226. lolington on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:16 pm 

    Ambi Shubaba??? Kweeeeehehehehehehehehehe!!!

    Signature: Dark Black Bone

  227. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:16 pm 

    Ngiyakuzwa Wicked. Ngifuna sibe abangani nawe.

  228. Nelani on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:17 pm 

    Happy birthday Ms Boyana. Enjoy doing nothing…

    When it comes to men and marriage I feel the more things change the more they stay the same. With education and subsequent employment for the girl child it seemed as if we were finally emancipated but no we still have to do most of the compromising.

    I worry though for my boys because by the time they are men the scales might have finally tipped. Girls are no longer submissive and lax shame.So they (boys) have got to get their act together.

  229. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:17 pm 

    Akeve emuhle njalo uZodwa. Ubheke ungathi uyamphaphela kanti isihambile indoda yakho usuphapha mahhlala nje.

  230. Nickita on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:19 pm 

    Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.

  231. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:20 pm 

    @Ntombi nami bengithi akadeleli, kodwa ke ngenkathi bekabhala ,bekashaya ithanga lakhe futhi bekafake iroko ephentini!

    Ufuna impi u-Wickedfood wena, Mina nginguwe ngengizomkhomba umuzi onotshwala!

  232. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:22 pm 

    Lolo hahahahhaahhahahah awungyeka angsakwazi nokwibamba la eOffice insini, Jc izongxoshisa emsbenzini yazi hahahahahhaha

  233. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:23 pm 

    Uxoshwa kanjani ngoba usuwuyekile lo msebenzi?
    Uthini manje Zodwa?

  234. Neria on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:24 pm 

    Happy Birthday BS! #Team Gemini…

    @Bongi, i have my fingers and everything else crossable for you for tomorrow…Goodluck!

    Regarding banna neh…nna ke tlogetswe ke motho ke sena gomo apeela everyday without fail, even before going out on a friday neh i would cook…where is he today? GONE WITH THE WIND! So ya i am taking it easy and treading carefully going into any future relationships…

  235. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:25 pm 

    Im serving my notice, bazothi anghambe manje and ngingajabula ngizichathe should they say that.

  236. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:26 pm 

    @Ntombi uthi uFezile unamanga… futhi aw’sebenzi! ungumahlalela awunayo ngisho imali yeqolo!

  237. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:27 pm 

    Eish Neria, you just reminded me of a friend of mine othi yena akasaphekeli ndoda manje, wapheka kakhulu esashadile indoda ingabuyi azithole esedla yedwa

  238. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:29 pm 

    angeke ungiqhathe nomngani wami uFez, sohlanganela wena straight nje. lol

  239. lolo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:33 pm 

    Okay ke ngizamile ngehluleka…. but cyber fights are nicest on Wednesdays shem #edumele#

  240. posh on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:35 pm 

    Wow, regarding low libido in women who recently gave birth, it is a revelation! Now it makes sense why this married dude would call his mistress early in the morning saying he is horny..the mistress would be puzzled on how does one sleep next to his wife and wake up horny..the dude looked really desperate for sex…now it makes sense..

    Ladies, Sex is a basic need, especially for men, don’t take it for granted that he should be able to wait..

    While he is looking for sex outside, he might just fall in love with that person unintentionally..be careful.

  241. Nemo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:41 pm 

    Ngathi nazwala esthenjeni hlezi nilwa. Ay.

  242. bumbum on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:42 pm 

    hhau hhehheni sekuthiwa ucansi ubasic need, angizange ngikufunde ke miba lokho eskoleni

  243. Noance on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:43 pm 

    Yazi I’m already tired of cooking n cleaning after myself, I can’t imagine having to run after a man and kids. Salute ladies, ya’ll are soldiers.

    And for those burning out, sending you love and strength.

  244. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:44 pm 

    Upheka kabi umngani wakho Ntombi kuze kubaleke indoda.

  245. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:46 pm 

    I agree with Posh about cansi being the basic need in a marriage or relationship especially for men. If u dont give it to your partner for a month, where do you think he is getting it from? Men cant live without the dance guys we all know it.

  246. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:48 pm 

    Aibo Anga lol yabalekiswa ukusa kwamadoda kanti izovele imithise uAnti :(

  247. Noance on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:48 pm 

    @Neria, LMAO :D I know too well that “Gone with The Wind” scenario. Never again, see me, kill me.

  248. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:49 pm 

    Hayi bo Posh bahamba ubabhebhisa everyday ngisho ungamfakela ingquza kwi lunch box the day efuna enye ingquza uzoyishiya le eyakho enamalebe. Abafana bayahala period.

  249. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:50 pm 

    Black is beautiful people…azakushaya istina amablack bone usale ukhamisile…

    @ Ntombi,ya,and never look back… Nami mybe I should do the same yaz’… Its difficult waking up and going to work

    On that note,kukhona umuntu osebenzela inkampani enkulu eNingizimu Afrika eyezinyembezi zika Queen? Kunjani mara? Ngoba mina ngiyahluleka…

  250. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:50 pm 

    ningacabangi futhi ukuthi indoda engasile, he is an executive ubhuti, ngeke nje umucabangele lutho

  251. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:52 pm 

    Phela if ngingamniki uzoza kuwe nje Ntombi angithi nina nisebenza lokho

  252. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:53 pm 

    Anga, you have a way with words ngiyakuvuma hehehe

  253. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:54 pm 

    Bhidlikiyaneke umshado methola ozomunika kancono

  254. bumbum on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:54 pm 

    hhai bo what is a defunation of a basic need kanti, example of a basic need is shelter, so by saying sex is a basic need you mean to say that ppl who are not having sex bafana nama feranji ase Point?

  255. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:56 pm 

    Hayi bo Posh bahamba ubabhebhisa everyday ngisho ungamfakela ingquza kwi lunch box the day efuna enye ingquza uzoyishiya le eyakho enamalebe. Abafana bayahala period.
    ===========================================================

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hahahhhaah lol NJE MY F, deadby inquza kwilunch box tltltlltltltl

    ayi JC

  256. kimmo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:56 pm 

    happy birthday bs!!

  257. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:56 pm 

    @Bumbum I think Posh meant it as a figure of speech not in a Maslow’s Hierachy sense

  258. Nemo on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:57 pm 

    U Ntombi lo ngathi uthwele zonke izono zo mistress. . .nezabashona.

  259. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:58 pm 

    Bums nami ibasic need engayifunda esikolweni, ilento i cannot survive without, food, water to name a few, hahhahahhahahahaa lol

  260. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:59 pm 

    @MissAn mina thats my dream company I would sell of my organs to work there.

  261. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:00 pm 

    one

  262. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:02 pm 

    Ey Nemo,Im sure some bloggers dont even want me to comment on such issues kanti nami shem I have my own opinions egcineni. Bazoba strong!!!

  263. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:02 pm 

    LMAO!!! @ Anga… Ha!ha!ha! My thoughts a exactly…

    But this theory of if u don’t give it to him someone else will is old and tired,men will cheat regardless and still blame you for it#Aha moment

    S/O to the bad cooks on JC… Still hooking up bland meals for the husband…

  264. bumbum on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:03 pm 

    @Nemo so true about Ntombi being jesu wo mustress sekushoda isphambano nomqhele

  265. BlindFold on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:03 pm 

    @bumbum..sex is not only a need but a basic need, according to Maslows hierachy of needs.

  266. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:03 pm 

    ?Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 2:52 pm

    Phela if ngingamniki uzoza kuwe nje Ntombi angithi nina nisebenza lokho
    =========================================================

    DEAD hahahhahahahah baqashelwe lokho

  267. posh on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:05 pm 

    @bumbum I think definitions evolve and change overtime taking into consideration new developments…Sex is a basic need at least in the context of marriage…the primary reason for men to be in relationships is SEX…

  268. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:06 pm 

    Azande your comments are so predictable

  269. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:07 pm 

    guys nangibulala today ngensini tjo hahahhahahahhaha

    im sure ubums knows what u guys mean. icacile nje.

  270. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:08 pm 

    haibo seng blockiwe yini…*cries*

    Let me try again…

    Yebo fez with open arms! Colgate smile

    Yebo ngiyavuma muhle yena. Zizibonile ithombe eqhethile e busy corner edle iphihli egcwele ubuso! Halala

  271. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:09 pm 

    like u @Ntombi kwaaaaaaaaaa lol

    yah what u see is what u get mamah, ukhala ngani akati ekhala ngobisi?????????????

  272. posh on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:09 pm 

    @bumbum Yes, thank you, I wanted to say Maslows hierarchy but couldn’t remember, I did a course last year where I discovered that Sex is a basic need

  273. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:09 pm 

    @ Anga… Let’s just say mina nje ngifuna ukuhamba lana… Ngasokola ukuthola itog,amablogger aqinisa idolo kodwa cha,kunzima shem…ngizifuna la @Fez esebenza khona

    @ Nemo…you can say that again! Ha!ha!ha! The Mistress Icon

  274. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:10 pm 

    @Wickedfood, the last time when we were “talking” mina nawe (noAzande bekakhona) U said when u get married you will be faithful to your husband, unlike me. So i when did you get married cause we were just “talking”last week hun? Or are you high?

  275. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:10 pm 

    Inyantsi zithanda kabi ukuthi amadoda ethu aya kubo ngoba singababhebhisi ayikho leyonto amadoda anezinhliziyo ezinde and they like their bread buttered on both sides. Men are like kids they feel better if they have sweets on both hands.

    Mina nje shame angiyigwaji nje roll-on.

  276. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:11 pm 

    Yebo ngiyavuma muhle yena. Zizibonile ithombe eqhethile e busy corner edle iphihli egcwele ubuso! Halala
    ============================================================

    sinse Ntombi knows was gonna laugh on dis, i might as well kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa lol

    ok jockes aside, so wickedfood u do know @Ntombi, @Ntombi ake sizwe ngawe ke manje, kade wawungconywa umuhle ngempela yini??? asking 4 a friend.

  277. Kiki on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:13 pm 

    Lol @Tofollux, you are brave yaz?? Heheheheh

  278. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:13 pm 

    hahahahhahaha lol @Gomza somanje kuyalandwana alabai(sp)
    iyafuneka.

  279. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:15 pm 

    Not really @Azande, i just want to refresh her memory. I know what drugs can do to people.

  280. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:19 pm 

    i know @Gomza skawara cha i must say bekumnandi layikhaya today.

  281. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:19 pm 

    @Gomza – Lol! I just remembered the “lay-bye” comment

  282. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:25 pm 

    Gomza my darling. Ngathi nami one day I’ll be a faithful wife. Meaning I stop intashi and stop lying to my hubby every day. Never did I say when I get married. Kudala ngawubamba lomthwalo since 2008 so kusinda kuyehlela. KiIiiiiiii. Ngiyadlala bo (but u get my drift)

  283. posh on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:29 pm 

    @Anga the point is to try and accommodate hubby at home, don’t take it for granted that since you are low on libido he must just be strong. .. For the health of the marriage..

    It’s not like you can do anything about mistresses, like you said, he will cheat regardless if he wants to…since you won’t divorce him anyway for it, while he is at home, make sure he is happy too!

  284. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:31 pm 

    @MissAN Although when we got married,i knew he was not into church,it is only after having children with him that I cant have a man who is not accountable to God. My pastor who married us is strong spiritually,so we had aproblems and still see him for counselling. He told my husband that everything starts with him as a man. He must take responsibility and account for his actions.

    We now go together to church as a family. He is still not a saint but way better.Re tithe,he still does not get it but prefers us buying stuff and giving to church instead of giving money.Mara I guess it’s better than not giving at all.

  285. Nemo on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:31 pm 

    Bashing u Ntombi indirectly laku JC won’t make your mistress woes go away.

    And if you ..ish is so together why seek validation from JC. . .

    Othi ngithule ngaze kuthiwe ngithe.

    Aniyeke uNtombi.

  286. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:32 pm 

    OH MY WORD! Anga!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahahaha!

    Azande: i will have to agree ne cherry yaPat! Your comments are predictable!

    Ntombiyomzulu is the mistress Icon hahahahaha niyahlanya maaan! Nimshiyaphi uMsTMZee! hahahahahaha…….

    Nam’ Anga iroll on im not scared anymore hhayi man ! if he wants to chow uzoyitya u give him u dont argh suka man!

  287. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:32 pm 

    Azande ungadideki kakhulu. Uyazi nawe kukhona abantu obaziyo ku fb aba normal when thye post pictures ku fb uthi waze wamuhle we o! Into enjalo nje le. Ungayicabungi kakhulu. Akekho umuntu omubi emhlabeni kamdali.

    Gomza luv I’m @ work. When I get home ngizokwenza njalo. Okwamanje nje ngimsulwa dade. Hehehehehhe

  288. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:33 pm 

    And then when they have diabetes and their totolozi’s can’t get up we stay faithful, when they have cheesecurls that keep on slipping out by mere coughing during the dance we bear with them…but bona nje for a temporary situation such as “after-birth effects” we must accomodate…ku rough stubob..

  289. Reby on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:33 pm 

    Lmao Bathong Gomo..kwaaawaaaawaaa

  290. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:33 pm 

    Hey guys,took your advice went to see my gynae. I’m admitted in hospital. As for my children and him,they will see to finish.

  291. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:34 pm 

    hahahhahahaha kodwa @wickedfood ungiqedelani kahle kahle ilobuhle bokuphiwa tltltltltltl lol ok now i know the answer.

  292. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:35 pm 

    Yho Mablerh on YOTV.

  293. Nemo on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:36 pm 

    Your*

  294. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:38 pm 

    Mathaz I have to say,your comments always makes sense here and I really admire the way you put things into perspective. *random*

    Look after yourself dear

  295. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:40 pm 

    Eish@Reby you know im not a meanie neh, ke ithatela chelete fela le banna. But JC can turn you into something you are not. @Wicked, whatever dear.

    @Mathaz, but i hope its just a bed rest, nothing serious neh…

  296. Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:42 pm 

    @Mathaz – All the best sisi. Mara is the baby okay?

  297. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:42 pm 

    @ Posh all I’m saying as my husband he needs to understand and try to help me get my libido back mina I had a very low libido and my husband would find fun and spontanious ways to get me back to the way I was because he knew ukukthi I usually enjoy sex so there must be something. I dont want my husband to cheat just because I have a low libido (yes maybe I leave in a dream world but ya i expect that from him). If his vows meant anything to him then he wouldnt. In a marriage communication is key.

    Men must not forget that when they get to age 40 their sex drive also goes down so he must remember that what goes around is around (my son says this) hahahahaha. I wouldnt want to cheat on him just because he cant get it up.

  298. sxylin on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:42 pm 

    Enjoy the time out Mathaz! you deserve it! How far along are you?

    and this has me laughing really hard and its a struggle shame

    ?Cutie on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:33 pm

    And then when they have diabetes and their totolozi’s can’t get up we stay faithful, when they have cheesecurls that keep on slipping out by mere coughing during the dance we bear with them…but bona nje for a temporary situation such as “after-birth effects” we must accomodate…ku rough stubob..

  299. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:49 pm 

    dis day was gonna be more fun if Mzuaqe was here.

  300. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:50 pm 

    MissAN wazi kanjani ukuthi ngisebenza kuphi? Ave kuqashwa njalo lana.

    Heeeee nayisusa ntambama nje. So uZodwa no Aza sekuyizitha vele? Okaaaay! Uphi uLolo ezobaqhatha.

  301. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:51 pm 

    haai bo @ wickedfood, kanti uyanyonyoba nawe OR DID I read that wrong? *confused:
    @Kiki, singaphela amadoda taking us for granted

  302. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:51 pm 

    So Ntombi ubusuvele wazi ukuthi u Aza uzothi “dis day was gonna be more fun if Mzuaqe was here.”?

  303. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:54 pm 

    @ Cutie and you get threats that they will get it somewhere else ayi ngeke hamba juba bayokuchutha phambili I really dont have time for men like that.Indoda nje that doesnt respect you in the sense that he hides his cheating ways needs to be put in a line and shot in front his family.

  304. Kusihlwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:55 pm 

    @Posh, siyakuxwa kodwa men must also understand phela nawo ukuthi asizikufuna ukhwelwa mihla yonke ka Jehova le, I mean sebekhwela ngisho when you are in your periods or have a head-ache so it means that if we lived by the premise that sex is a basic need bayosikhwela ngisho ema hospital wards when we are sick or in a coma…ngeke phela.

  305. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:57 pm 

    LOL @Fez wanted to say that nami, the time ngibhala that comment, infact i might as well send a blank comments coz vele its known yabo yah hahhahahhahah lol

  306. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:57 pm 

    Akashonanga kodwa uMzuaqe we need to check guys kubi la ngaphandle.

  307. NtombiZodwa on Wed, 29th May 2013 3:57 pm 

    @Fez, isitha anginaso nje emhlabeni even worse ke kuthiwa isitha sami umuntu engingamazi. Now that would be absurd.

    How many people nje la kuJc that have said nasty things to me but I still converse with them like nothing happened even worse ke I dont even remember their usernames cos I dont take things people say here to heart. I use to but not anymore

  308. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:00 pm 

    Eyi kodwa ngingaba yini nje makungashona isoka lami? Nakhona lishonele ku glass closet?

  309. Toffolux on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:00 pm 

    And how come Ntombi always get attacked here for being a nyatsi kodwa u missTmzee ayekwe. Can we just let her be hle, let the girl live her life. *Sesizwile bo*

  310. Fez on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:00 pm 

    Ngiyadlala Zodwa bengithi ngiyaniqhatha.

  311. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:02 pm 

    ayi Anga nami ngiyasola uphi vele, kusukela last week akabonwa.

    so i said something bad to Ntombi, kanjani ngingayazi leyo??????? anyway @Ntombi usuyoxola be it ngikuphathe kabi.

    mina ngiyazthandela ukuhlela i always say, and shame i take nothing serious yala kuJC, adawise abantu bazomelwa izinhliziyo str8.

  312. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:03 pm 

    But Gomza is right bathong….Wickedfood keeps contradicting shimself, mhlampe uya kakhulu kwi cocaine *shrugs*

  313. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:04 pm 

    I just received this sms from hubby:

    I have taken leave tmr from work babe, can you do the same so that we can go and sort out the surname issue.

    Issue? issue? i did not know that my surname was an issue until now. Nxa!!

  314. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:06 pm 

    hahahahhaha kodwa Gomza wena nje ngihamba nawe, issue issue

  315. Loulou on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:07 pm 

    yazi if I bother to really read @Fez’s comments I will impress my dad with my isiZulu! Yoh!
    Anyway who is coming to that ComedyWednesday today?

  316. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:07 pm 

    Hawu vele why would you worry ukuthi abantu bathini ku JC sengathi uphakelwa ibona.

    Ukuhlela LMAO hayi Azande ave uluthand ucansi njalo

    Kuyafana la kwi JC uyi hater no matter what you say. I can say its going to rain tomorrow kuthiwe I hate the sun because its yellow mncm.

  317. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:10 pm 

    hahahhaha lol Anga i know uyazi bengifuna ukuthini UKUHLEKA nami.

    yazi angisazi ngihleke kanjani sengisaba nokuthi kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ngoba sekuyaziwa ngizothi kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, need to find a new way lol.

  318. kamza on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:13 pm 

    hahaaa Azande stop it! LMAO

  319. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:14 pm 

    Hai @Azande lomlisa uzongibhora mina manje. So i havent changed my surname to his, is that an issue or maybe the real issue is im still using my ex’s surname. It will be done, but i just dont have time to go and Q at home affairs at the moment. Hai man!!

  320. Mathaz on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:14 pm 

    Thanks @Ntombi.

    My baby is fine,i’m 31 weeks along.Thank you all for your concern.

  321. wickedfood on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:19 pm 

    Queues ushers these are my confessions…”These are are my confirmations that I’m not a lay. bye” thatha gomza! Tltltlltltltlt shiiiiine

  322. missTmzee on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:23 pm 

    Hi @Mathaz u sound exhausted. please take care of that precious cargo.

    le wena @Gomza. take it easy ladies ,demand to be pampered nje.

  323. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:23 pm 

    Hayi Gomza pls go bantu its important to him.

  324. Azande on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:25 pm 

    lomlisa uzokubhora lol, ngathi u not even talking abt hubby, but some men nje , wena Gomza uthatha ikhekhe struu.

  325. Gomza on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:27 pm 

    I will @Anga. but i cant afford to take time off work now. I was off for more than two weeks already when i was in hospital. Im still backlogged here at work. I cant just take day off. Serious bandla.

  326. Nelani on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:27 pm 

    @Mathaz, all the best
    And when you get discharged, maybe have a talk with your man and ask for his help and reinforce your rules with your kids.

    They say children also like to push us just to see how far they can go hence its important to set those boundaries and not deviate from them.

  327. Anga on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:30 pm 

    @ Gomza go on a Saturday home affairs opens or early in the morning they open at 07:30.

  328. sweetness on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:31 pm 

    Eish, I am soo tired…

    Just got bits and pieces of comments.

    My brother in law used to say that just because he has paid part of the lobola, he has laybyed. Which makes sense.

    This engagement without lobola is like stealing with the hope of not being caught, but if caught, you are willing to pay for it/can afford to pay for it.

  329. Mababez on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:33 pm 

    I’m sooo mad!!!!
    So I’m working on this hunting project for an overseas tourist couple. The husband’s birthday will be one one of the days they will be on this hunting safari. So I send an email to the hunting lodge asking if they can organise something speacial for Mr. Toursit on his birhday. The reponse from this mlungu >>” No problem, the black staff will have a little show for him in the evening and I will do a nice table for him at one of the waterholes in the bush to enjoy lunch in the bush and a nice bottle of champagne and birthday cake”
    Yesses!!!!! I’m soo pissed off.

  330. Nthoentle on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:43 pm 

    Tjo ladies, its tough mos. Mara do you guys ever ask your husbands for help? Or say, ill cook you bath n feed the kids etc. I really cannot imagine being a slave at work then at home too! Yooo! Aowa. I think you guys need to speak up, that’s why most women with kids and husbands are sometimes so angry and they look like a mess cos they are exhausted. I’m so sorry!!!

  331. FrozenBubblez on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:48 pm 

    Mathaz if you know you can’t get through to them ask your gynae to talk to your hubby and stress how you don’t need to be stressed or over worked…mine did he’ll take it serious when its coming from the doctor’s mouth.

  332. MissAN...JC on Wed, 29th May 2013 4:53 pm 

    @ Fez,I just know,useFNB neh? Pls find out how,indaba ye online iyangibhora mina…

    @ Mathaz,go and rest…don’t worry about anything…I hear you regarding your marriage… Eish tithing *hangs head in shame*

    @Sexylin mara icherry ka Pat stands out from the other roll-ons because of her stories and uyathandeka nje

  333. Nthoentle on Wed, 29th May 2013 5:00 pm 

    Kwaaaaaa @Miranda and 2 nannies. Mara nna iF I could afford it I would.

    @Blindfold- you are 200% right. Women spoil their men then cry everyday.

    Nna where I come from, most families had live in nannies. So this slavery of wives is sad and new to me! Laundry yona! Okampe wa mpolaya!! I will not wash and iron clothes!!! Moerrrr

  334. anytime on Wed, 29th May 2013 5:44 pm 

    Wow!! Kulkhuni shem. Why do we still want to get married though? They cheat. They treat us as ‘slaves’. FOMO maybe??

  335. Nthoentle on Wed, 29th May 2013 6:15 pm 

    Good luck @ Mathaz. I think take @Frozen’s advice and tell gynae to speak to him.

  336. Keisha on Wed, 29th May 2013 6:19 pm 

    HBD boss lady and may God bless u!

  337. Deebabes on Wed, 29th May 2013 11:31 pm 

    i dont know if i still want to get married, this one child i have is already too much for me. 2 of my friends are going thru hell in their marriages, the 1st one i once mentioned her situation here, the hubby paid lobola for another woman, the 2nd friend, he paid lobola for me in full, they even had a traditional wedding, was even given a makoti name. they lived together for yrs. the guy jst moved out of the house to go live with another woman.

  338. Miranda on Thu, 30th May 2013 5:29 am 

    holy crap deebabes!!!! Kanti what is this worm going into men’s heads??

    A male conference is needed a.s.a.p…..this time no motivational speakers or pastors as speakers.We need God himself to have a talk with our males

  339. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 7:49 am 

    Sanibonani

  340. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 8:03 am 

    Molweni…..Mathaz hope you’re doing well.

    No new post……its gonna be a long day

  341. lwandie on Thu, 30th May 2013 8:56 am 

    Oodles of love to you Mathaz, hope your family will be as supportive as possible in your final weeks of pregnancy so you can put your feet up.

    Kids sometimes will mirror the behaviour of a parent and so they are probably just reflecting your husband’s attitude and lack of respect towards you

    .…be firm with them without getting emotional and simply let them know what you will and will not do, remind them that demands and attitude will not get them anything .…if they throw a strop leave them don’t give in,they will soon know who is in charge.…attitudes like that will have you changing helpers every month so just clip their little wings so they can become better people in society.

    Best wishes x

  342. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:02 am 

    My aunt sent me this essay this morning, and i just thought of all the married ladies ba JC and those on laybye too…Lol! But seriously though…it made me think of you so thought i would share, apologies for the essay in advance!

    Are you married?

    If Yes;

    Welcome to the school called marriage,

    A school where you will never graduate,

    A school without a break or a free period, A school where no one is allowed to drop out, A school which you will have to attend every day of your life, A school where there is no sick leave or holidays.

    A school founded by God:

    1.On the foundation of love,

    2.The walls are made out of trust,

    3.The door made out of acceptance,

    4.The windows made out of understanding

    5.The furniture made out of blessings

    6.The roof made out of faith

    Before you forget, you are just a student not the principal, God is the Principal Even in times of storms, don’t be unwise and run outside, remember this school is the safest place to be.

    Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day Never forget the C-word, Communicate, communicate, communicate to your classmate and to the Principal

    If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate.

    Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate, God is not finished with him/her yet.

    So take it as a challenge and work on it together.

    Do not forget to study, study, study your Bible (the main textbook in this school), Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way.

    Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.

    When tempted to quit find courage and continue.

    Some tests and exams may be tough but remember the Principal knows how much you can bear.

    But still it is a school better than any other, It is one of the best schools on earth; joy, peace and happiness accompany each lessons of the day.

    Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love is the major subject, After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it.

    To be loved is a good thing, but to love is a greatest privilege of them all

    Marriage is a place of love, so love your spouse When tempted to raise your voice let love hold your mouth Let love overthrow pride and selfishness and let it reign in your house Do not hold back any love from him/her.

    Don’t meet him/her halfway but go all the way

    Love as though that’s your only hope for your survival, and it is My friend, MY COMPANION listen to the voice of wisdom as found in the main Textbook.

    If not yet married, you can keep the knowledge for future use.

    Cheers and keep schooling or apply for next year!!!

  343. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:20 am 

    Wow @Neria…that is so true and awesome at the same time, sent it to husband.

  344. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:26 am 

    You are most welcome @Blindfold

  345. Soccerbabe on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:43 am 

    Why do we always have to compromise our happiness for male species? I don’t get it shem, we continue with these toxic relationships its like we addicted to them. The more ur emotions are unstable the more you want to stay. With this I think we need a serious prayer conference to drive the demon out of lamadoda.

    There was a time I thought I will raise my son to be thee most gentle and loving man but manje I think he must just go out there and break hearts like all men

  346. Rush on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:47 am 

    OffTopic: The Beuaty that is in Zizo Beda though?!!! yhooooo the person who did/does her make up umshayile shem check dis: http://www.divasinc.co.za/

  347. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:48 am 

    @soccerbabe…you can still do that, not all men are heartbreakers you know, so your son will be among those who will be thee most gentle and loving man.

  348. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:50 am 

    Guys botox will set me back by how much and how often should one inject themselves..*asking for a friend, as a birthday present*

  349. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:55 am 

    @Blindfold, do you like reading?

  350. Rush on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:57 am 

    mxm beauty vs beuaty lol

  351. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:05 am 

    Dont apologise @Rush this was declared anything goes:-)

    @Soccerbabe men are superior than women from creation after all you were made from a man’s rib ungazoqhathwa ngulo 50%/50% wedemocracy apha hehehe

    Yondlani amadodenu’bafazi nobasenidiniwe nasenza isivumelwano, I believe a married woman is a strong all round I dont think I can stand such #Respect to you all# when I grow up I want to be just like you

  352. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:07 am 

    Very much @Gomza..you have something for me?

  353. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:09 am 

    Blindfold maan!! Ok ill be out of the office now, ill “speak”to u later. I have actually been doing some writing and i want you to read it for me and give your HONEST opinion. Like tell me if its crap or if you think its interesting enough to continue. Now you see i chose you out of thousands of JC bloggers, it means that i trust your judgement and respect your opinion. I will “see”you later.

  354. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:09 am 

    Ooh you back!! give me your e-mail address ge!!

  355. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:11 am 

    @ Rush she is very beautiful…

    I think i am missing something when it comes to make up and all these other things. I really dont get the fake eye lashes thing hey. It freaks me out. A friend of mine used to love it, until one day I bought her a really good mascara, now she never has those things, and is forever grateful. Just like the colorful eye shadows… nxnxnxnx…

    About marriage, I am very terrified shem. I think I just want a wedding, not a marriage, like those ones we used to have when young playing, but this time more glamorous with a honeymoon. Phela I have it all planned out already.

  356. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:18 am 

    @Gomza..thanks dear m.neria12@gmail.com

  357. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:38 am 

    I would never be caught dead with that much makeup but it looks nice on Zizo so yipeee for her.

    Its 10:30 and my child still hasn’t touched the oats I made for her (she wanted something else) and I was putting my foot down….clearly she’s winning this round coz I now feel bad that she hasn’t eaten and I’m gonna go make her what she initially wanted….bloody brat!

  358. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:43 am 

    hahaha death by @Frozen! khange alithande elogama leBratu@Fez yesterday & I vowed not to use it again or maybe kuba ingowakho its better andazi

    uba ungamyeka angatyi ade azincame kwi Oats angafa#Just asking#

  359. lolo on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:44 am 

    I miss Softy….wayaphi vele?

  360. lovebunnybee on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:55 am 

    Sitting in a taxi listening to a story on “radio-zulu” lol ziyabuya la. Simnandi isiZulu bakwethu

  361. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 10:57 am 

    @Frozzen..how old is she?

  362. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:00 am 

    uba ungamyeka angatyi ade azincame kwi Oats angafa#Just asking#

    Lmao hahahahahahhaha

    That brat is absolutely gorgeous Fro…

  363. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:00 am 

    Askies Fez for using that word wethu…worse ba izolo I was watching super nanny and I told myself that she’s not using magic mos, if she can tame kids so can I :-(

  364. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:01 am 

    Lovebunny, sometimes ngo3 ngyasilalela shame mina istory.
    I leave the office to the car ngyohlala ngilalele.

    I love being black

  365. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:01 am 

    Why is brat censored guys?

  366. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:03 am 

    @Lolo ngicela ungithinte ngasese ku anganathi3@gmail.com

  367. Nickita on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:04 am 

    Hahahahahahahahah Bubblez how old is she kante?

  368. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:05 am 

    So help me!! If someone calls my kids brats.

  369. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:06 am 

    She’s 2yrs and 7 months Blindy….Mxm kuphela nobobuhle sis’gezo ketana Ntombi…she’s on this new sceaming phase…and her screams can break glass I tell ya

  370. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:07 am 

    The way I eat today tjoooooooooo!!!

    Since 8am till now, Im chewing even my colleagues are complaining heheheheh I had Cereal,4 Crackers with creme cheese, 2pieces of left over sushi, apple, chocolates and now Im gonna have a beef wrap with coke

  371. lamarOdom on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:07 am 

    Gomza what do you plan to do with the material you are writing? Let’s say its good and Blindfold gives you her opinion and you continue. Two years down the line you read a book or you see a documentary and its your story but now the author is someone else. Otla ngolla Sunday Sun obe obe mokgutshwane! There will be no proof that you are the owner of intellectual rights to that material.

    I am not saying this will be the case but if you aspire to be a writer, start behaving like a writer now. No offense intended.

  372. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:09 am 

    AWhy vele amabhunu angabingeleli, umuntu ubarg(e) into the office akhulume nomuntu omi naye noma vele akukhe ngendaba nje. Agha!!!! yazi I never understand a person that doesnt greet, yaz mina noma ngingena kwielevator I greet people inside. Maybe Im just obsessed ngokubingelela shame

  373. lamarOdom on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:10 am 

    Its my birthday and there is no post :( I wanted to be the first one to comment and twerk and twerk again

  374. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:14 am 

    Happy Birthday @LamarOdom may all wishes come true today!!

    @ Ntombi banjalo nje mina i gave up abantu bahlezi bekwatile especially la emsebenzini.

  375. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:15 am 

    a brat is an ill mannered child/spoilt but I generally referred to all kids as brats@Fez just mentioned that she doesnt like that word & it made me realise that there is a negative undertone to the word so “I” undertook on my own not to use it again

  376. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:17 am 

    Happy Birthday LamarOdom, have a beautiful day.

    Oh my gosh that phase, I know it from my niece. Umuntu akhallele into angayazi nje

    Gomza send it to BS, we will read it hawu they give you our honest opinion.

  377. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:19 am 

    Tjooooooo Anga, why vele behlezi bediniwe abantu.Ekseni nje ngovivi umuntu ukuykha ngoS… uze uzibuze ukuthi kanti ngikutshontsheleni.

    Where is JG? I miss him

  378. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:19 am 

    happy zalwa day IamarOdom, enjoy it.

    ayi amabhunu anjalo ke nje, theres dis gal la espani, ayibengeleli at all, when i first got here, use to great her until ngayehla inqola so manje angizingeni, ngisho ngingamfica ekhishini i behave as if theres no one, toilet everywhere we meet i just pass nje, coz naye abantu ubenza kanjalo Nx banyanyisa kabi.

  379. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:21 am 

    Happy birthday LamarOdom uzalwa kamnandi abantu benemali…have a blessed one.

  380. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:21 am 

    How do you know if unenyongo guys, the last time ngikhipha inyongo I was probably in HS. Kwenzakalani vele

  381. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:24 am 

    @Aza ay shame Ive given up kodwa kuyangisinda so sengvele ngfake my earphones and now this git=rl Im sharing an office with uvele anyanye and naye vele ibhunu. Angwathandi nje. I think Im racist.

  382. Elephantisis on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:24 am 

    @Ntombi, yazi I forget to greet people nhe and it’s been like that since time immemorial. Darkies are just too obsessed with greeting to the point where people would think uziphakamisile if awubulisanga. So I have to constantly remind myself to greet people and if I forget when I see you the first, I will greet the second time I see you even if it’s shortly after.Ndingaba bantu bavele bagxuphuleke nje encokweni. Kodwa, honestly, usaka ntoni xa ndingakhange ndibulise, especially random strangers nje. If I don’t know you, chances are you won’t be greeted(sp) by this darkie.

  383. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:27 am 

    Eish talking about birthdays I dont even want to think about my birthday last year the way I was crying. My husband bought me 4 tyres for my car and I just felt like thats not a birthday present.

  384. Nickita on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:27 am 

    Happy birthday LamarOdom.

  385. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:36 am 

    tshini madoda@Anga uyadelela thats a birthday present & a half :-) man are practical he saw a need & he deemed them an appropriate gift not these intangible gifts women are into

  386. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:38 am 

    Is Fundi the Lulo baby mama ne?
    Nangoke egcwalisela ugirlfriend kuInstagram posting a pic of ipad mini saying Thank you baby daddy hehehehe kuyagcwaliselwana la emnyango

  387. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:39 am 

    and shame thina sakhuliswa ngokubingelela, coz nje mina i use to great ngisho ngingena etaxini, but ngafika la egoli abazingeni nje lezo, ngayeka nami.

  388. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:39 am 

    I also use to do that ngsahamba ngetekisi

  389. Elephantisis on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:40 am 

    Eish racism nhe, this morning I go to this spares shop and this afrikaaner boy keeps on speaking to me in afrikaans even though I told him uba andiyiva le nonsense ayithethayo. He gives me this attitude as if he can’t fathom why I don’t understand afrikaka! Sometimes we tend to classify ignorance, stupidity and being a dickhead as racism. But in this country there is so much subtle racism, I can’t help seeing it anywhere apho kukho oondleb’ezikhanyilanga. Eish to be black in this world kodwa..

  390. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:40 am 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaak@Anga
    Happy birthday to @Klhoe’s husband.

  391. Keisha on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:41 am 

    Hello bo-nice…

    HBD to LamarOdom and God bless!!

  392. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:45 am 

    @Anga sugeza apha wena lol, u needed them andithi and wakusiza wakuthengela, now thats a bday present and that one ayipheli, when ever u driving that car u will always remember nje, wait till ushaywe ipothole dat will remind u its was a bday prezz, ungadlali ngaye Anga hape.

  393. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:45 am 

    @Lynx OMGucci are you related to my husband cause thats exactly what he said I’m just waiting to see what he will come up with this year. #Ngizohlanya

  394. Richmond on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:47 am 

    I just found out a childhood friend of mine (who I still consider a close friend) is 7 months pregnant. I am happy for her but is it normal/selfish of me to be a bit mad at her for not telling me earlier? Everyone knew except for me and we share so much.

  395. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:49 am 

    @Anga now u were behaving like a *brat* RUNS…….. usukhala on you bday

  396. lorrelai on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:50 am 

    lmao Anga, your hubby has jokes, tyres are NOT a present hau!!!

  397. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:52 am 

    Im a bit conflicted kwigift yakho. I know that would be the bes gift for me but not on my birthday, it would fall under “randomrecieveinggiftsday” or maybe if it was accompanied by a nice dinner at a romantic restaurant and flowers. and wrapped in a huge ribbon. I wouldve found that romantic lol. But wakusiza, ayabiza amatyre aysuka

  398. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:52 am 

    @Rich Rich now thats a need for a delete botton, delete that friens , hit it now hahhahahahaha ngiyadlala njalo.

  399. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:53 am 

    Kodwa @Blindy uyangihleka mfethu

  400. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 11:59 am 

    @Rich I get where you coming from I dont know why people do things like that. Dont go to the babyshower that will show her and just rock up with a present when the baby is 7 months.

    @ Ntombi yes we had dinner at the Grillhouse and thats when he said to me your present is I’m taking your car to Tyger Wheel this weekend bazofaka ama tyre amasha wangikhombisa ne quotation futhi engahleki ngisho i inch.

  401. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:02 pm 

    Happy Birthday Lamar!

    @Anga, i am with those that say although it may not fall within our normal category of typical gifts for women, i find it practical and thoughtful!Lol…

    As for Ntombi’s *randomreceivinggiftsday*, hai shem i died..kwaaaaaaaaa, o stoutu wena neh!

  402. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:04 pm 

    @Anga, did he buy you runflats? Lol…

    @Rich, find out why she kept this from you, maybe she figured you would be disappointed or something. You have been friends for ages, establish the reason why she kept it fom you, then take it from there. Maybe she doesnt consider you guys as BFF’s anymore…

  403. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:05 pm 

    Askies @Anga…uyangihlekisa ngempela. I have learnt not to expect anything (well pretend) for my birthday so that when the pressie come i act suprise and happy.

    Maybe you should start hinting this year what you want.

  404. lolington on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:06 pm 

    @ Ntombi, you asked about inyongo. All I can say is, awunayo inyongo uma ungenankinga yokudla.

    Besides, from what I studied, ‘inyongo’ really is just a form of a stomach virus…causes nausea, tiredness, vomiting, stomach cramps, diarrhea (sometimes)…and NO, ayikho kahle kahle into ekuthiwa ukukhishwa kwenyongo. Njengoba sasinikezwa ama laxatives nje emakhaya that basically helps in flushing out the virus from your gastric system.

  405. lolo on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:07 pm 

    I got a wooden washing basket for my 28thbirthday mna…. Marriage is hard, it’s a battle shem. We all need to be strong.

  406. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:09 pm 

    new post asambeni la, kugcwele manje

  407. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:10 pm 

    lmao no we’re not brother & sister @Anga but my partner is like that:-)I am benefiting from his practicality I’m not complaining

  408. lolington on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:13 pm 

    @Richy….I think the pregnancy was not planned and she was maybe a little embarrassed (I’m almost certain this is not the right word to use but try and make sense of what I’m trying to say). So, if she also considers you a very close friend her reason for hiding it was because she thought you would be disappointed in her.

    Anga, you should really be grateful, I have kinda realised that practical gifts like that are better than a random nice to have…of course like someone said, it has to be accompanied by a special night out or whatever. All in all, your husband is awesome!…but we obviously don’t all see things the same way :-)

  409. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:14 pm 

    My boobs have been painful for months now, I havent had my period for 5 months now since I stopped the injection(contraceptive), my skin is now YELLOW, put on an extra 5kg in the past months, randomly have pains that feel like period pains (like right now).

    1. Could I be pregnant? I haven’t had any other signs of being pregnant.
    2. Am I finally going to have my period??
    3. I haven’t seen my bf in 2 weeks, and going to see him tomorrow, I cant afford to have the period. How do I stop them if they do come? Something that need no prescription…?

  410. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:15 pm 

    Hha Lolo a wooden washing basket hahahahhahahahhahahahhahahahahahah Laughing for ever

    So Lolington are you saying its ok ukungayikhiphi inyongo. The way I laughed at my boyfriend last week ethi uzophuza imbiza akhiphe inyongo. I was like WTF hahahhahahahha imbiza, people still drink that heheheheheh he even offered imbiza yakhe ukuthi nami ngikhiphe inyongo hehehehheh.

    Jola nomzulu uzozwa

  411. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:15 pm 

    LMAO…………fusegi Lolo uzongixoshisa evele lomlungu engangifuni

  412. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:15 pm 

    I wish I coul have your appetite Ntombi, angik’thand and its been 3 weeks now. All I eat is 2 apples, yogisip and water but i feel fine angiguli ndawo

  413. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:17 pm 

    Ntombi be careful aboout eating sushi thats slept overnight! you dont want to be sick; it actually builds up and causes immune disorders!

    Happy Birthday LamarOdom ; my hunnie ukhule ne! and Lolo do not use that email address that Anga left up there! Usile lomfazi!!!!!!!!!

  414. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:17 pm 

    Thanks guy…..seningibonise elinye is side ebengingalinakile ngiyabonga.

  415. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:18 pm 

    @Sxylin angikho lapho dont worry gogo!!

  416. lolington on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:20 pm 

    yes Ntombi..I’m basically saying scientifically, ayikho into ekuthiwa ukukhipha inyongo.

    Kodwa-ke my mom always thinks me and dad are stupid for thinking that….AmaZulu! kweee!

  417. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:25 pm 

    @ Ntombi yes siyayiphuza Imbiza inani kanti

  418. Miranda on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:25 pm 

    #hands over home pregnancy test to Sweetness#

  419. lovebunnybee on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:31 pm 

    @sweetness ITS A GIRL!! Lol joking, I don’t know but ke they say if u become fairer in complexion its usually a girl

    Nami ngazi ukuthi ayikhishwa inyongo, ngokwe science/biology or whatever. Ur digestive system is designed to clean itself up, and when we use laxatives we actually flush out the good stuff along with the stuff we wana get rid of. Ningxolele, I don’t remember all the correct terms

  420. Miranda on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:33 pm 

    Elephantisis…..hahaha, I have a similar problem. I forget to greet, I always have to remind myself to do it especially when my mind is super busy…I could walk pass you and not acknowlegde that or not even say anything to you ,retsebana. And people take offence when not greeted….. When I started working My coach said ” I know you dont care, I dont too…but just give them what they want and say *hi,how are you?* with a smile and walk away”

  421. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:39 pm 

    Wooden washing basket? Kwaaaaaaaaaaa *dead* uyaxoka Lolo!

    @Ntombi Lulo tweeted about buying his son a “toy” at the istore….so u baby mama mustnt pretend that ithengelwe yena

  422. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:43 pm 

    @Bumz, I’m having Lays and water now still angisuthi.

    Are you serious Sxy? yazi I would buy that platter yakhona and I never finish it the same night, I finish it the next day.Thank you

    @Anga to be honest with you I had never seen umuntu omncane, (my generation) ephuza imbiza. Ekhaya besingayiphuzi imbiza we used laxatives or castor oil. I didnt say there is something wrong with it, ikuthi I just found it funny nokuthi ayimufaneli cos I associated it namakhehla nje lol

  423. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:44 pm 

    KAnti how old is this son?

    In her comments she does say she bought it for son.

  424. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:45 pm 

    Another JC baby, congrats Sweetness lol

  425. Vesa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:47 pm 

    Nami ngazi ukuthi ayikhishwa inyongo, ngokwe science/biology or whatever. Ur digestive system is designed to clean itself up, and when we use laxatives we actually flush out the good stuff along with the stuff we wana get rid of. Ningxolele, I don’t remember all the correct terms

    You are right @lovebunnybee

  426. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:49 pm 

    Ayeye @sweetness once ama blogger says u pregis , means u are *side eye* @lolo lol

  427. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:49 pm 

    lol you guys, I am not pregnant, well at least I don’t know yet…

    So you suggest I go buy that pregnancy test? Fok I am scared…I have been drinking like a fish, and smoking… Oh Nkosi yam…

  428. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:49 pm 

    As for Ntombi’s *randomreceivinggiftsday*, hai shem i died..kwaaaaaaaaa, o stoutu wena neh!

    Hahahahahha @Neria I have created that in my relationship shem , ngyawathanda mina amagifts and suprises. It doesnt have to be my bday or valentines day or annivessary to receive a gift cos nami if I see a nice tshirt or anything I think he would like on a random day, I buy it for him

  429. lolington on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:54 pm 

    Tell your bf to be careful Ntombi, there is actually a number of serious cases of non-stop diarrhea, once the micro-flora in the gastro system is flushed out combined with a weak immune system you are screwed. A lot of people even die, especially kids and older people….and any other person with a compromised immune system.

    I guess it used to work in olden days because people had stronger immune systems.

  430. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:56 pm 

    Tjo! Speaking about racism nhe, I was just at a grocery store…I’m picking something from the shelve and a guy who works in the store is packing the shelve behind me so there’s boxes and sh*t on the floor. This white meisie comes, stands there for a couple of seconds and then she says ” can I just pass? I’m sure everyone can understand english!” Yho….I just said B*tch! And she was like “excuse me?” In that afrikaans accent, I put my hand on my waist and moved a step forward and told her I said you’re a f*cking bitch, is that english enough for you? She marched off mumbling in afrikaans…..RHAAA!

  431. Nemo on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:56 pm 

    Congrats @Sweetness. . . #teamexpectations

  432. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 12:58 pm 

    Its month end phela uzodla engathi ukudla uyakuqabuka! wobuya uzosho futhi just before pay day…tltltllttllt

  433. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:05 pm 

    As I munch on my mint crisp slab of chocolate

  434. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:06 pm 

    Its month end + mini winter, I got apetite for days

  435. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:10 pm 

    an petite

  436. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:12 pm 

    lol @Nemo. are u expecting as well?

    Frozen you sound like me(racism _wise) . when it comes to white people i lack patience nje.

  437. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:12 pm 

    BlackBeauty, please can you give me your email address babe or anyone who has it

  438. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:13 pm 

    Are you hinting @Ntombi with the meal updates?….is there a mini Pat in the oven?

  439. Miranda on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:16 pm 

    Ntombi…are you trying to up a dress size so you can have an excuse to do shoppinng? #we see you

  440. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:17 pm 

    And petite? Wena with those thunder thighs? Phela I know that pic of yours where ufake iskindi esikhakhe! Petite maybe your toe…kiiiiiiiiiiii

  441. Miranda on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:17 pm 

    Frozenbubbles….you might be onto something here?

  442. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:22 pm 

    @Frozen and Miranda neva that, angicabangi shame.I want no baby, I just loooove my food. Im lucky cos my body listens to me when it comes to maintaining

    Ey Wickedfood uyangilandela bo kuTwitter lol usho kahle ukuthi I have thunder thighs but you forgot to mention ukuthi I got a body for daaaaysssss *flicksweave&walkaway*

  443. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:23 pm 

    blackbeauty828@gmail.com

    @Ntombi theres the addy. she owes me info nami . tell her am looking for her. lol

  444. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:26 pm 

    U must learn to read wicked food, I meant appetite hun lol. Im far from petite, ngiyipaka

  445. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:27 pm 

    No dali I didn’t forget. You don’t have a banging body. You have thunder thighs acwebezela u vaseline. On top of that sthadwa ushuthe obhuqwini. Sithini ke thina? Heheheheheheeh. kahle dali

  446. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:27 pm 

    Ta Tmzee

  447. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:29 pm 

    Afte you guys scared the Isht out of me, I just ran to the pharmacy by the corner, and got myself 2 pregnancy tests. took one now, and I am glad to announce that I am…..

    Be right back let me go make a quick cup of green tea…

  448. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:30 pm 

    Hahahahahhaha that is Magaliesburg hun thats why ubona ubhuqu,WE WERE on my bday getaway. Hehehehehehheh I now know who you are. Shame baebe, uzoba strong ne! sengyaphuma kuwena

  449. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:31 pm 

    Untombi was trying to fix her grammar with that “an petite” she forgot to put an ‘a’……I’m certain everyone who’s not snorting cocaine got that!

  450. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:31 pm 

    @Sweetness hahahaahhahahhhaha the green tea says it all, you preggies. Congrats once again

  451. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:32 pm 

    Muzibe Frozen, uzama iattention shame

  452. lovebunnybee on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:33 pm 

    Wicked awuyibeke ihlale indaba yakho, kub’hlunguphi? These random attacks are getting boring shame

  453. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:33 pm 

    the people with four degrees: this is directed to you. i want to do a short course ya project management. theres one ko UNISA and one ya getting smarter by UCT.

    which one should i rather register for,reputation and credibility wise. the contents seem very similar but teh course amount is waaay different. HELP

    thank you in advance

  454. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:35 pm 

    Fuseki frozen.

  455. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:42 pm 

    Honeybee I just post comments or responses where there’s a need. If it was you who posted about eating none stop, my response would have remained the same. Phola sisi there’s no attack here.

    This is not fb. I’m not here to like your comments even if uyabheda. So please freedom of expressing comments to everyone. Habe. Sifelani

  456. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:43 pm 

    Go and clean your nose first before uzothi fuseki kum!

  457. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:46 pm 

    Li clean kabi sisi ngizolingcolisa ntambama masengsendlini. Ungakhathazeki. There’s a time and place 4 everything. Right now ngiyasebenza. Something you are not familiar with…phuma kim

  458. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:47 pm 

    Who is weckedfood????? Ama blogger awakacabangi ngiyawzi phela hahahhahaha lol

  459. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:51 pm 

    Uzongenzani azande uma usungazi? Hehehehhe. Awusho dali ungowakwa ngubani? Kunomunye u azande engimaziyo e durban kodwa yena owakwangubs.

  460. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:56 pm 

    So I am NOT pregnant… But I am still going to take the second one in the morning, just for control…

    Uhmm wickedfood, something is not right with you… You seem to want to pick a fight with everybody nje… I dont understand, or maybe i just dont understand you. But such is life!

    *as I wait to be phoqad by WF, or told that they wont phoqa me, or even better be ignored*

  461. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:58 pm 

    We sweetness. Pls hambo dla imali ye lotto uyeke ukungiphaphela. Hehehehheehehhe

  462. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 1:59 pm 

    Congratulations yet again Sweetness lol

  463. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:00 pm 

    U.Na.Ma.Nga! Remember that day when you couldn’t find the space button? Well it was during the week and you were high AF! Sula wena ikhala qha!

    Oh and I am familiar with work sweety don’t worry

  464. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:04 pm 

    missTMZee UCT will always lead sweetheart; if you can afford it then go for UCT you cant compare the two

  465. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:05 pm 

    No dali I didn’t forget. You don’t have a banging body. You have thunder thighs acwebezela u vaseline. On top of that sthadwa ushuthe obhuqwini. Sithini ke thina? Heheheheheheeh. kahle dali

    Snack attack for the what kodwa bakithi, please DM her on THWITHA si ryt thina asifuni futhi ukwazi

  466. Vesa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:05 pm 

    Hehhehe….is Alexis back? I know we always feel her presence when she’s here

  467. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:06 pm 

    @wickedfood mesengikwazi ngizokuthengela intashi hahahhaha lol, ngiyadlala im just wondering nje and asking myself if theres any agenda, thats all.

    no im not that Azande ma darling.

  468. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    dankie the sexy one @Sxylin. ya the UCT one is steeper but they have a 3payments option.

  469. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    Haibo nanku umhlola wami manje I space bar nokuba high kuhlanganaphi. Musa ufuna ngikweyise ngithi awubhadlile layikhanda. Iyeke nje lento. Sengingawabona wonke ama letter I space bar singaka ngingasiboni. Kahle wena. Hayi awuthathe ikhefu.

  470. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:07 pm 

    @Vesa..this is not even a she!!!

  471. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:08 pm 

    U.Na.Ma.Nga! Remember that day when you couldn’t find the space button? Well it was during the week and you were high AF! Sula wena ikhala qha!

    kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa lol dead @frozen u dont 4get neh.

  472. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:12 pm 

    Awu azande uzongithengela ini! Ncooooo eve ngingajabula we maye! Ngingaze ngikusinele! Tltltlltltltltl

  473. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:13 pm 

    Hayi bo kwenzenjani manje layikhaya!!

  474. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:15 pm 

    This is getting personal personal *singing*

  475. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:16 pm 

    But guys why are are we entertaining this person vele, can we continue Anything goes please

  476. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:17 pm 

    LOL @Wicked… I suspect you are using us as your entertainment.

    Anyway on that note, we are going to Durban for 4 days with the lotto money in July/August, still deciding…

  477. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:18 pm 

    @Blindy..you have mail. Tjo!@Ntombi, you want JC peeps to make my life miserable, angisoze shem!! Eish @Lamar, i dont know what i will with it, the problem is i dont have confident in myself. Hsppy brithday by the way.

  478. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:19 pm 

    @ Sweetness where exactly in Durbs, I would have suggested going to St Lucia in the North Coast best holiday place around that time.

  479. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:19 pm 

    Vele jc is an entertainment site. Ucabanga ukuthi ngingafunda ama comments awu 300 just 4 fun. Ngifuna ukuhleka habe! Allow! Hehehehehhehehe

    Enjoy durban dali. That’s my hometown. Halala

  480. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:22 pm 

    But guys why are are we entertaining this person vele, can we continue Anything goes please:
    Ufuna banake wena ne? Ngoba wena uyisekela la BS? Sewubaluleke udlula ngisho u Kiki! Hehehehehe eish dade! Hahahahahahahahha

  481. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:23 pm 

    Mara Blindy Shim is a married “yellowbone” nje…

  482. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:23 pm 

    Where about in Dbn Sweetness?

  483. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:24 pm 

    But guys why are are we entertaining this person vele, can we continue Anything goes please:
    Ufuna banake wena ne? Ngoba wena uyisekela la BS? Sewubaluleke udlula ngisho u Kiki! Hehehehehe eish dade!

    HahahahahahahahhaHaahahahahahahahhahahhahahahhahahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahhaha *FINISH*

  484. MashDiva on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:24 pm 

    Wickedfood reminds me of this article: “http://www.justcurious.co.za/2010/06/irresponsible-anonymous-commenters/”

  485. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:25 pm 

    Where is St Lucia Anga? is it nice! Sweetness also a suggestion; if you want to be a big baller and enjoy the best and have High Tea go to the The Oyster Box hotel or The Beverly Hills………. i personally love the Oyster Box the chef there is good and the beach too is quite private; argh and there is a beautiful chauffer service which can take you to any place you (best part you choose whatever car they should take you in) ! we went to Florida street purrrrfect lovely vibe there

  486. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:29 pm 

    kodwa sweetness seniwine imali engaka nakhetha ukuyoqhetha e durban?…

  487. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:29 pm 

    Wena @Frozen le nna i got confused by @blindy gore isnt wicked a married yellow bone vele?

  488. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:31 pm 

    @MashDiva, I liked this comment by MacMash

    Its about time man, we are tired of these kids who are fail to attract attention on Mxit chatrooms and come here for I attention.

  489. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:32 pm 

    sweetness make it july so that ull go kwi DBN july as part of ur entertainment, coz dbn is booming those days

  490. lolo on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:33 pm 

    I have just found out that my sister in law ( her hubby is my hubby’s baby brother) is also pregnant…

    I hate this! She is so bloody competetive, I dread the fact that our babies will be born the same year, she is forever comparing milesstones between her first born ( now four) to her friends children!

    My poor three-eyed baby is going to be expected to be able read and write at three months…

  491. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:33 pm 

    @ Sxylin its 2 hours drive from Durban going North. The most beautiful place i’ve ever visited. Went there last year Dec the best holiday ever. Tourists love it.

  492. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:34 pm 

    Wena @Sxylin ubuya nako Florida road, hhai uyahamba. If niza ngapha eNoarth Coast ko St Lucia kanje nidlule ning’bingelele guys ;-)

  493. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:35 pm 

    Ive never been to Oyster Box bt I vote for the Beverly Hills Hotel.

  494. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:37 pm 

    @Bumbum kanti ukuphi sthandwa.

    Heeeeeeeeeeheeeeeeee deathby Sxylin going to Florida izindawo zami lezo ngisahlala eMorningside.

  495. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:41 pm 

    Thanks Anga, will check it out.

    Ntombi, I have not decided on that yet, just the place we wish to go. Now the only problem is he cant get off work at the moment, one of his colleagues just transferred, so he is working alone. For now I am just enjoying the small random gifts

    When I do start on a full plan, I am surely coming here for suggestions on places to go, and things to do there…

    @Sexylin I dont like hotels hey, I would rather stay in a B&B chalet type of place. But I sure would go try out the food there.

  496. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:42 pm 

    2010 dec was im St Lucia love the place , but nje kune beach yakhona 4got the name, jesssooooo ulayini wokungena angiyazi leyanto.

    sxylin -florida OWK lol

  497. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:43 pm 

    i googled St Lucia packages. sooo tempting but between bills,shool and being unemployed . aaich il wait ka nnete. mara FOMO is eating me. i shall be strong though

  498. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:44 pm 

    Im in Richardsbay honey @Anga, St Lucia is like 45 min away

  499. MashDiva on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:44 pm 

    @lolo…My poor three-eyed baby is going to be expected to be able read and write at three months…#dead!!!!

  500. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:46 pm 

    We are going on our 1st holidat this year, from tommorow afternoon till next week friday. I needed a long rest shame.

  501. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:46 pm 

    ME too Miss TMZee I just googled it, I know I want to go there this year futhi

  502. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:47 pm 

    enjoy Bums, where u guys going?

  503. MissAN...JC on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:47 pm 

    Ha!ha!ha! @ sweetness,care to explain lendeba ya ma four degrees,haven’t been blogging regularly and also that blogger whose husband bough her a car mara she was paying instalments,what was that all about? Angivusi uqhuku bakwethu,just used to spot these random comments and I couldn’t connect the dots kahle…

    @ the blogger we mascara,whic brand is that?

  504. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:48 pm 

    @ Azande usho Isimangaliso Beach its because before you get to the beach you through the game reserve and abafuni i traffic because of all the animals on the road. Especially ama Lions and Cheetahs awasineki

  505. lolington on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:50 pm 

    St Lucia is a small heaven…..too beautiful for words, istru!

  506. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:51 pm 

    Hawu @Bumbum bukake I was at the Protea Hotel Waterfront phela my sister works eShowe so wangikhiphela eBay.

  507. Richmond on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:52 pm 

    There are beautiful and inexpensive coats at Fashion Express for those who want to add some to their closets but are a bit strapped for cash.

  508. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:53 pm 

    @wickedfood I did mention I want to keep it local…

    I want him to save most of it somewhere, so when we do decide to get married one day, he does not complain that he has no money for lobola… hahahahahahahaha!

  509. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:55 pm 

    @missTmzee dont do lezinto zama package they are a waste of money I would suggest Whalesong Guest Lodge speak to Colleen she is the owner and she will help you she even gives you time to come up ne deposit. I can give you her e-mail if you want.

  510. Mapakisha on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:56 pm 

    Hao, I’ve just seen hore the DJ that looks like Mablehr’s girlfriend is actually that crazy chic ko Muvhango… The way everyone spoke about her nna I thought she was just a new UJ student. Ai lona!! Ok back to topic :)

  511. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:56 pm 

    @ Rich ikuphi i Fashion Express?

  512. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:57 pm 

    hahahaha i looooooooooooooved Florida road! There is a restuarant there i forget the name; that serves great steak and there is that dance place with a name starting ngoC (i forget the name) whuuuuuu it was so packed i couldnt handle! Been there twice and if u drive up the road yaaaaaaaaay there is an Indian Club demmet! oh i miss being able to shake my booty lmaoooooooooooooooo! i dont even remember when last i did that!

    and yes Sweetness if hotels arent your thing then Anga’s suggestion is your best bet! but hun; Oyster Box is not just any hotel *hides*

    You should sample the chef’s food as well as the entertainment they also have a theatre if im not mistaken! it is quite an impressive hotel

  513. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:57 pm 

    St Lucia is a small heaven…..too beautiful for words, istru!
    ————————————————————
    @ Loli I concur I was going to spend 4 days and we extended we stayed the whole week. Even driving there is so much fun.

  514. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:58 pm 

    @Anga yah that one ene-game reserve, kumele nivuke ekuseni nje going there, ayike my f izinkawu zakhona zazitika ngokudla kwethu hahhahaha lol

  515. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:59 pm 

    Any of you guys been on that Jozini dam house, that lodge in the middle of the river or something? it got packages lije boat cruise and stuff

  516. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:59 pm 

    siyabonga richmond…maybe ngizoba humble and go… :)

  517. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:00 pm 

    Thank you Richy for the tip, I ‘ll check them out….ndiyayithanda I bargain shame

  518. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:02 pm 

    dankie @Anga :-) please mail me details. misstmzee30@yahoo.com

  519. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:06 pm 

    @sweetness, no you are not pregnant, you can relax. It’s the injection, how long ago did you stop using it?

    When you get off it, it takes a while things dile sharp, then you start getting cramps as if you in your periods or you are ovulating, and your boobs get sore! Word of advise, have a tampon or sanitary towel in your office drawer, car, and home cos your periods are going to come unannouced dear! It normally takes about 5 or so months before they come back so if its been less, then khululeka sisi o right!

    P.S. Been there TWICE!!

  520. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:07 pm 

    @Sweetness you can go to Oyster box for the experience.

    Please also go to Afro Lounge and dance

  521. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:09 pm 

    ?Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 2:56 pm

    @ Rich ikuphi i Fashion Express?
    ==========================================

    i also want to know?

  522. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:10 pm 

    siyabonga richmond…maybe ngizoba humble and go…

    –>> DEAD!!! yHO Wickedfood, you have just killed me…

    BumBum please do share more on this Jozini place.

  523. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:11 pm 

    ikhona e clear water azande…asambe…tlltltltltltltlt

  524. BlindFold on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:14 pm 

    @Gomza you have mail

  525. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:16 pm 

    @ BumBum ikuphi lendawo it sounds interesting.

  526. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:17 pm 

    ok Leya, asambe ke mtasekhaya. i clear water ayikho kude ne honeydew. *wena umntana wenkosi, inkosi ayikhethi* azande sizokuxoxela ke ukuthi sihambe njani…hahahahaahahah…Fez why r u in cape town mara…hawu besizohamba sonke… :(

  527. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:19 pm 

    Orite and thanks.@Blindy

  528. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:22 pm 

    being business minded and actually making a success of your business is sometimes so detached. am in the ‘struggling business class’. this guy i know( a year younger than me :-( ) has two houses,one paid off and one ke bond. he works for the same company as me(well the one i just left).

    granted hes on a higher salary scale than me. mara dude just bought his 4th car in a period of 3 years. a ranger rover(mini one,dnt cuur for the real name),he already has a golf 5,amarok and his gf drives his bmw 1series.

    jeso how are ppl making so much money kodwa? yes am eating him jelas much as am impressed by his money making ethic.

  529. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:22 pm 

    Hayi MissTmZee your e-mail address but Colleens e-mail info@whalesongstlucia.co.za and she makes the best homemade bread and muffins.

  530. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:23 pm 

    Thanks @Blindy, you are such a sweetheart. I really appreciate you taking time to read it, i admit there is a lot of work to be done there. P.S. Trina suffers from eating disorder.

    Thanks again dear.

  531. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:25 pm 

    dankie maninigi baie @Anga ;-)

  532. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:27 pm 

    @ Gomza yabonake we also want to read it. Do a blog ke

  533. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:28 pm 

    Guys is it really that BAD to drink 1 or 2 dumpies of beer if you are pregnan.*asking for a friend*

  534. Kusihlwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:29 pm 

    Speaking of presents mina I once received a dvd player. I shall never forget.

  535. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:29 pm 

    Inn time @Anga, in time my friend.

  536. bumbum on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:30 pm 

    http://www.jozinitigerlodge.co.za/

  537. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:31 pm 

    Gomza pls stay away, akuve iyi problem child lol, so it was interesting but lot of work to be done, sibonge nge feedback hahahah lol.

  538. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:33 pm 

    I think Anga should hav a spot nyana here on JC, where she writes a blog on the hip and happening holiday destinations… Like once a month, we get a preview…

    If not Anga, Boss Lady should find someone who can do it, or people take turns… But it should be places you have been to, not googled.

  539. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:33 pm 

    @kusihlwa kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!! tjo nna was it a need at that time?

    i dont know why am laughing because back in varsity this guy bought me a photo frame. i still use it to this day. he was off the mark but at least i found use for it.

  540. sweetness on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:38 pm 

    Gomza your question is very obvious that its not for a friend… We know you…

  541. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:38 pm 

    Kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Gomolemo whats wrong with you!*tell that friend to stay far away from Windhoek!

    Kusi :- kwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  542. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:39 pm 

    Oh wooow bumbum thats a really beautiful place! MY GAAAAAAAAARD

  543. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:43 pm 

    Sxylin I think you talking about Cubana in Florida, It has turned into a club and kuyafiwa shame…

    Isakhona iAfro Lounge, ngagcina kudala there. Went like once or twice kuleyandlu ekuthiwa iAfro heheheheh

  544. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:54 pm 

    @Sxlin, the cravings are just out of this world, I CANT take it anymore bathong!!

  545. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:57 pm 

    @ Bumza I looooooooooooooooooove it, its a pity nje ngoba I’m taking my kids to Alpine Heath in Drakensberg this year i was going to take them to this place.

    heeeeeeeeeeeeheeeeeee eyi Sweetness iyooooooo so that you guys can attack me about my grammar and my style of writing.

    As long as kusakhona u Tira i Afro ayiyi ndawo.

  546. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:57 pm 

    Guys is it legal for your boss to not approve iStudy leave sakho?

  547. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:58 pm 

    Im so mad Im literally shaking

  548. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 3:59 pm 

    haaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaa Kusi heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeheeeeeee

  549. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:00 pm 

    yes @ntombi. well that @least what my manager said to me. i ran to HR and they said he did nothing wrong. check the leave policy ya the company

  550. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:00 pm 

    hahahaha Gomo ur almost there! *please send me a pic of yourself! hehehehe on your avatar you look hella sexy mami! Just like another sexy mama i know!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Yes Ntombi thats the one!
    Sweetness you cant win so much money and not want to do something out of the ordinary! hhayi man just blow that cheddar! Live for the moment !

  551. cherries on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:02 pm 

    @lolington. If u are in the medical field I understand why u may say inyongo ayikho.. I was also like that until it caught up with me.. I was hospitalised for almost a week nginenyongo nje and my doctors kept saying ayikho leyonto.. I 1st had the mother of all headaches, then my temperature shot up to almost 40 degrees, I couldn’t eat (didn’t have an appetite), started vomitting and stuff.. That whole time I was given something to stop whatever symptom I had at the time, I was tested for almost everything under the sun and no one knew what was wrong.. I finally decided I don’t wanna be in hospital anymore, acted strong and got myself discharged, uma ngifika ekhaya my fever came back and inyongo yaphuma ngaphezulu nangezantsi and in a few hours I was much better seyiphumile, fever almost gone.. The next day I was five-to healthy again..

  552. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:02 pm 

    @Ntombi what does the policy say?

  553. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:05 pm 

    Thats bullballs, The policy says you get the day before and day you writing on
    And he said Ican go write then come back to worrk, like WTF?????

    Lidakiwe yini lebhunu, ghaaaaaaaa, Fuseg Mani!!!! NX>>>>>>

  554. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:06 pm 

    Cherries, injani umbala wenyongo?

  555. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:07 pm 

    Is it not maybe cos you resigned?

  556. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:08 pm 

    @ntombi our policy says that mara the snag is it says ‘by aproval of first line manager’ so mna my first line manager didnt approve because, his words ‘your course has nothing to do with your work’

    so when i study self improvement not aligned with science/engineering things i somaar take vacation leave.

  557. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:08 pm 

    @bums i so love this place at home siya la 4 dec holidays. kuhle i love it.

  558. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:08 pm 

    Yes its legal especially if you are studying something not related to your firms services. So in yo case if its not engineering related sorry dali uzofunda ngeskhathi sakho.

    Gomza phuza shem! Ungazibulali ngokoma. Tomorrow is not guaranteed

  559. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:08 pm 

    http://www.jozinitigerlodge.co.za/……can we have a moment of silence for this place jesu ndodana ka davide ngihawukele

  560. missTmzee on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:11 pm 

    @Anga has another point u are entitled to no type of leave when serving notice(well with most companies)

  561. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:15 pm 

    At Anga I think its cos I resigned, he is sabotaging me shame. His bloody secretary is studying something not related to the line of business but he approved. Ey laze landidina ibhunu niyezwa,cela amadirections ombani kaR5 pls

    He is trying to make my last days here miserable lapho angizi next week the whole week uzobona. Ngzofuna iDr’s note

  562. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:20 pm 

    But the contract doesnt say anything about that, I have a meeting with HR

  563. Gomza on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:22 pm 

    Whats your e-mail @Sxylin

  564. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:23 pm 

    deadby my sister @bums im sending them this link for jozini how beautiful it is, telling them we going there in Dec, coz we go every Dec vele. so her reply (ayivuleki kumina le but book it) ndlela le athanda ngaya izinto.

  565. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:24 pm 

    I cant wait @Gomza i know its going to be brilliant.

  566. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:26 pm 

    haaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaa Azande mina sengibabuze ama rates for 2013.

  567. Cutie on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:29 pm 

    Wickedfood is married. She’s the blogger who said she’s HIV+ and married to an HIV- guy.

  568. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:30 pm 

    Ungahambi uthumela o R5 kubantu abangakwenzanga lutho. Izobuya lento ishaye umawakho bese uyakhala uthi nkosi kodwa senzeni! Kanti izono zakho! Yehlisa umoya nje! Phuza nansi I dry

  569. sxylin on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:30 pm 

    pls send it here Gomo sxylin2011@gmail.com

  570. Azande on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:30 pm 

    hahahhahaha kuyasheshwa la lol Anga ill be doing that tomorrow nami, coz my sister nje engayibonile , usethe nje nakanjani siyaya, but oh its beautiful my mom will love it as well,

  571. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:33 pm 

    You must be careful though Ntombi if you’re still planning to work for u baas in future…those people can blacklist you, I mean you’ve been there for barely 2 months sowuya resigner and on top of that you’re making excuses for not wanting to work your notice period (I imagine that’s how they see it) and you’re planning to prove them right next week with the DR’s note.

    Don’t burn your corporate bridges….unless you’re planning to go into business full time, even then you never know when you might need something…

  572. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:35 pm 

    We cutie wasukhipha I file yami kanti ngisesbhedlela yini!! Hahahahhaha

  573. Anga on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:37 pm 

    heheeeeeeeeeee deathby ukukhishwa kwe file…..

  574. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:40 pm 

    So ubaba Samuel L Jackson will appear on Generations tomorrow

  575. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:42 pm 

    Lol eyengculazi anginendaba nayo. When I’m a millionaire I will be an aids activist. Manje I still need a job don’t want to find myself unemployed or discriminated against.

  576. Neria on Thu, 30th May 2013 4:54 pm 

    @ntombi, Frozen is right, just serve your notice period, dont give them any ammunition to use against you. The corporate worls is a nasty place filled with people who know people, even some of us here will run into you tomorrow and based on what we heard and read here, may decide not to recruit you.

    I recently tried to join a professional body, and one of the questions they asked was about social media, like which ones i use and what my twitter handle was and my skype name and i realised that its so true recruiters check us out koo,like if you generally misbehave on social media, then you could potentialy be screwed (excuse my french)!!!

  577. cherries on Thu, 30th May 2013 5:01 pm 

    Lol Ntombi, gross things coming right up ke.. Ngangiphalaza oku yellowish, then kweza something greenish ekugcineni, according to ma ke inyongo is that greenish bile thing..

    @Azande hahahaha, your sister uhlobo lwami lwenja, love people like that!!!

  578. Nemo on Thu, 30th May 2013 5:03 pm 

    Anga, Alpine Heath is a beautiful place and quite pricey. . .a colleague went ther on holiday in 2011. . .and he couldn’t stop talkin’ about it. Do share your experience when you get back.

    From the pics that he showed us. . .it looked very tranquil. Do enjoy.

    @mTmZee. . .I wish I was expecting. . .it’s long overdue sisi. I’m 28. . .

    @Sexylin. . .yes sweety I am on Wechat. . .

  579. Keisha on Thu, 30th May 2013 5:18 pm 

    @missTmzee….ke kopa ga o e simolla,re compare dinote(s) neh,I’m about to embark on the same journey but through the PM institution itself!Let me know how u get on…*wink*

  580. NtombiZodwa on Thu, 30th May 2013 6:24 pm 

    Eeeeuw Cherries lol

    Tx for the advise guys abd yes im going to businessfull time, im as nervous as hell.But I cannot not go abd write

    WF ease up on the drugs sisi thats bsd for u kustatus sakho. From a caring blogger to another

  581. wickedfood on Thu, 30th May 2013 7:04 pm 

    Ngiyabonga ntombi. Nawe uyeke ukulala namadoda eshadile without protection sisi.

  582. coolcaz on Thu, 30th May 2013 7:38 pm 

    Lolo ijoweeeeee ke shwelang ke wena??? Eish la bua batho ba JC man. Ditaba di ngata lapho ekhaya ruri

  583. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 7:59 pm 

    Hehehehe u woo! Caba iti inot#AdviceBack@you#

  584. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 8:00 pm 

    Hehehehe u woo! Caba iti into #AdviceBack@you#

  585. FrozenBubblez on Thu, 30th May 2013 8:16 pm 

    LMAO @Lynx….lonto ke bayadika ngoba bayiqala ebusuku nale ‘caring’ yabo if Lolo was still up ebezobathelekisa kak’hle, lol

  586. Fez on Thu, 30th May 2013 8:35 pm 

    Inzima lendaba yama HIV namadoda abantu othi umuntu angayingeni.
    Siyidlile imali ye dstv noBongi. Its always raining in Cape Town. Mncm

  587. lynx on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:29 pm 

    kuTough kwa JC :-)

    Cape town is always crying at this time of the year you’ll be strong

  588. coolcaz on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:33 pm 

    Going to watch Cece Winans yippppeeeeee

  589. Occupation on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:55 pm 

    uphi uMzwakhe ezokhumbuza abantu ukuthi iblog kabani lena.
    hawu amagabade angaka?

  590. Occupation on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:57 pm 

    Fez where are you visiting CPT? you still there or have you left?

  591. Occupation on Thu, 30th May 2013 9:57 pm 

    I mean where about in CPT.

  592. missTmzee on Fri, 31st May 2013 7:41 am 

    @Keisha . give me ur email addy or mail me misstmzee30@yahoo.com

    :-)

  593. BrookeLogan on Fri, 31st May 2013 2:49 pm 

    I wish all women were like Frozenbubbles, mature, NO Insecurities about hubby, she doesn’t live in a fantsy world, I love her.she’s REAL

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